Faraz Rabbani – The Rawha #203 The Blessings of Gatherings of Remembrance

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			There there, again these
		
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			gatherings are are considered gatherings of the akhirah,
		
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			not gatherings of the dunya. These are gatherings
		
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			in which
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala announces
		
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			to the angels that everyone in this gathering
		
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			when they stand up is forgiven.
		
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			And we enter this gathering hope with the
		
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			hopes that that be proven true for us,
		
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			that we have the intention that Allah, execute
		
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			our sins by these gatherings and raise our
		
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			ranks by these gathering gatherings
		
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			and make us amongst those who Allah
		
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			says
		
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			that they are such a people
		
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			that those who sit with them will never
		
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			be wretched. So we hope Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala makes us amongst those and joins us
		
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			with that group.
		
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			As just as these types of gatherings are
		
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			given preference by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala over
		
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			other types of gatherings.
		
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			And there are certain places which Allah loves
		
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			more than other places like the Masjid over
		
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			where the prophet said, salallahu alayhi wa sallam,
		
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			that the most beloved places to Allah are
		
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			the Masjids and the most
		
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			odious places to Allah are the markets.
		
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			And there is just like there is places
		
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			which Allah has preferred over others,
		
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			there are people who Allah has preferred over
		
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			others.
		
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			The the prophets are not equal to those
		
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			who are non prophets. Those who are righteous
		
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			can never be equal or can never be
		
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			equated by those who are sinful.
		
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			Allah says, should we make those who are
		
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			Muslim and those who are obedient like those
		
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			who are criminals?
		
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			Allah has distinguished between people between people as
		
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			well as well. Right? But just as there
		
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			are places and people who are given preference
		
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			over others,
		
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			there are times that are given preference by
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala over others.
		
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			Right? As the prophet said that that
		
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			the the best of days is the day
		
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			of Jum'ah.
		
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			And the day the best day of the
		
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			week is the day of Jum'ah.
		
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			But just like that there are special occasions
		
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			throughout the year
		
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			that the one who is seeking Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala will find in those days that
		
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			which they cannot find in other days.
		
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			They will find in those days opportunities
		
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			which if they had spent
		
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			years
		
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			to to try to acquire of regular days
		
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			they would not be able to to to
		
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			pass that journey to to reach that
		
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			that furthest extent. The prophet said that,
		
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			there are no days
		
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			in which in which righteous deeds are more
		
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			beloved to Allah
		
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			in them, other than the days of the
		
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			10 days of Dhul Hijjah.
		
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			And these are the days in which are
		
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			most beloved to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Actions
		
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			that are done in other other other days
		
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			could never equate to actions done in these
		
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			days because of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala's love
		
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			for them. So the Prophet gave us instructions
		
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			at the end.
		
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			He said faakthirufiha
		
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			minat tasbihi
		
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			wa tahmeeli wa tahaleeli wa takbir.
		
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			So be abundant in those days in doing
		
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			tasbih saying, SubhanAllah,
		
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			Walhamdulillah,
		
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			Wallaylalla,
		
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			Wallahu Akbar.
		
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			Right? To to gain the most of those
		
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			days.
		
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			And but
		
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			because of the the sins of our hearts,
		
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			because of the things that we do, it's
		
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			very likely that we can be blocked from
		
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			such blessings.
		
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			Right? And the prophet he warned,
		
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			alright, he warned in many different occasions about
		
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			people because of their sins being blocked from
		
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			the rewards of auspicious occasions. Right? We find
		
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			in the hadith that are
		
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			Ramadan where the prophet he climbed the mimbar.
		
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			Right. 1 step, 2 step, 3 step and
		
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			after each step he said Amin.
		
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			Alright. 1 of the
		
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			reasons,
		
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			alright, one of the reasons he said Amin
		
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			was that he said that
		
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			the person who enters the month of Ramadan
		
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			and is not forgiven, may he be far
		
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			from the mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Right. That even though that auspicious occasion was
		
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			there for the taking, right. Even though the
		
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			blessings were were flowing from Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala and descending upon his creation, that person
		
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			still was not able to attain the the
		
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			forgiveness of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Same thing
		
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			in these days, the days of the 10
		
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			days of Dhul Hijjah. And the prophet SallAllahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam, he warned about 4 types of
		
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			people who will be deprived from blessings on
		
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			these days. And we ask Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala to forgive us for what has passed.
		
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			And we ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to
		
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			give us give us tafiq to right these
		
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			wrongs if they are our reality.
		
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			And he said, one of them is Qalti
		
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			al Rahim, the one who breaks family ties,
		
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			the one who cuts off people of their
		
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			family.
		
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			Right?
		
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			The prophet he said right? Sorry. Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala, he says in
		
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			Quran, right, that that they broke that which
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has commanded should be
		
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			joined.
		
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			Right? That the
		
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			the family ties,
		
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			the prophet said that Jibreel constantly kept repeating
		
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			to me about the about the virtues of
		
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			the of the,
		
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			about the family ties.
		
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			Right? And the second one is,
		
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			rukuqulwadidin,
		
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			the one who disobeys their parents.
		
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			The one who disobeys their parents. The third
		
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			one is the
		
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			the shari bulhamr, the one who indulges
		
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			in intoxicants
		
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			and who takes the verse refers to alcohol
		
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			specifically because that was what was there, but
		
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			the the reason is still found in other
		
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			types of intoxicants.
		
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			And the last one which is you probably
		
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			the most
		
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			difficult
		
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			to remove
		
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			is the one who holds grudges, the mushahen.
		
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			The one who holds in their heart enmity
		
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			toward another person for some reason.
		
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			Right? And this
		
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			is one of the root causes of the
		
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			ego being stirred up. And the ego is
		
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			is the biggest and the thickest
		
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			and the darkest veil that couldn't cover anyone's
		
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			heart.
		
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			Right? The Nur of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			will not penetrate if the veil is too
		
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			thick, if the veil is dark like and
		
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			the Prophet said that when a person when
		
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			the child of Adam does a sin, there
		
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			is a black spot put on their heart.
		
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			But if they desist
		
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			and they they ask for forgiveness and they
		
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			repents, it is polished away.
		
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			But for
		
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			but if they continue on that path
		
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			that path of darkening their heart, one sin
		
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			after another, one glance after another, one word
		
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			after another, right, if
		
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			if they continued on that path, the darkness
		
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			continues to spread,
		
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			until the the heart becomes hard.
		
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			Right? So
		
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			the the one who holds grudges on this
		
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			day will be
		
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			will be deprived of such blessings of these
		
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			days. And the prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam,
		
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			he gave very beautiful instructions to one of
		
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			the young sahaba and we'll close with this
		
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			so we can hear from the other ef
		
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			albil,
		
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			that he said that
		
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			That if you are able to spend your
		
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			mornings and your nights and not have any
		
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			enmity in your heart toward anyone, then do
		
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			so.
		
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			That is my Sunnah. That is my
		
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			way.
		
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			And whoever revives my sunnah loves me.
		
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			And whoever loves me will be with me
		
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			in Jannah. We ask Allah Subhanu wa Ta'ala
		
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			to not deprive us in these blessed days
		
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			of his his his divine generosity
		
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			and his his beneficence. And we ask Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to forgive us what has
		
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			trans what has,
		
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			passed. And we ask Allah to give us
		
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			to be obedient to him and what is
		
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			coming.
		
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