Faraz Rabbani – The Rawha #190 Guidance for Seekers Heedlessness & Internal Enemies

Faraz Rabbani
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We're continuing to look at the councils

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of Imam

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Al Harith al Muhasibi

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from his work, Risara al Musa Shideen,

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a treatise for seekers of guidance. And there's

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a beautiful

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translation

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with

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very practical

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contextualized commentary

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by Imamzade Sheikir. And it's a this is

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a wonderful book for anyone who would like

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to be reminded

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on how to

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improve, how to nurture, how to cultivate their

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relationship with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And Imamzaid's

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book was originally

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a series of lessons

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that Imamzaid taught

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covering the book. And if and

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the

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the set is available through Firdos Books and

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elsewhere,

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and it is highly beneficial. One of the

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things,

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we used to spend a lot more time

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driving together as a family than we used

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to do as a family with

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with our children is that we'd have different

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series that we'd listen to systematically.

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And one of the ones that we went

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through together

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was Imam Zayed's explanation of the treatise for

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Seekers of Guidance, this particular book.

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So

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we reached his counsel, Rahimahullah

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Ta'ala, and Imam Harith al Muhasibi died

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in the year 243

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after the Hijra. So he's one of the

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imams of the salaf of the early Muslims,

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a contemporary of the likes of Imam Ahmad

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ibn Hambal and others.

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He said,

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So he tells us to be

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to have caution

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about certain

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matters of harm in our lives. And this

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is building on the council he gave before

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of being wary

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of one's whim, of one's Hawa, and being

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far away from it. So he says,

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be careful

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about the places of heedlessness,

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about the places

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of heedlessness,

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right,

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of raflah.

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Why? Because the basis of

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of sin

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is heedlessness.

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Right? The the cause

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of all benefit in life

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is to be close

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to the remembrance of Allah and that which

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relates to it. And the beginning of harm

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is heedlessness of Allah and the things related

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to the heedlessness of Allah.

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So the believer

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is not someone who would go to places

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of sin.

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Right? And to be safe from sin,

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you you not only avoid sin

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but you avoid the places of sin. Both

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actual places where sin takes place and those

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circumstances

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that would cause one to fall into sin.

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Right? Such as in our times, if

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you find that there's certain types of websites,

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right,

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that

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you

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lead you to commit to do things that

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are sinful, to watch things that you know

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are not permitted.

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Then

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a place of sin

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for you would be the use of the

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Internet at night, for example.

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Right? But before the place of sin, if

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you want safety,

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avoid both physical

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and nonphysical

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places of heedlessness.

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So that when you are using the Internet,

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don't just drift heedlessly.

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Be in places

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with purpose.

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The mall, for example, is a place where

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if you go with purpose, it's a means

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of

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gratitude

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that, you know, you

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it's falls coming. You need to get a

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jacket. You wanted to buy something for

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your for your sibling,

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for your parents, for your children, for whatever.

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You go with those intentions.

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It's a means of good.

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But when you go

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to places of heedlessness,

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heedlessness is what converts then into

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sin

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and converts into disadvantage.

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So beware

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of the places of heedlessness.

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And in worldly places,

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that could be places of heedlessness or places

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of

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benefit.

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Go there with purpose.

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Right? And places where

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the enemy will be found.

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And who's the enemy?

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Right? Or where the enemy

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will deceive you, which is dunya,

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the Shaytan,

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your whims, your desires.

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And one of the deceptions of the shaitan,

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right, is to make you look at this

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worldly life,

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the merely worldly.

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Right? So was once walking,

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and his students were walking with him. And

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they passed by a really beautiful

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home of someone that they've done it up.

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And in those days, generally,

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people adorned the inside, the courtyards of their

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house. And the adornment would

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be trees or a fountain,

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and trees are beneficial.

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So they looked up because it was impressive.

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And he told them, lower your lower your

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gaze

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because it's only the glances of people like

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you that cause the wastefulness

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of the people like

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this owner.

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It is only

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so don't be impressed. Be impressed with the

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good.

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Someone got a bigger house. Why? Because they

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have high intentions in it. Be impressed with

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meanings,

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not just with forms.

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Right? Beware of the places where

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your enemies, worldliness,

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your desires,

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your shaitan,

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your whims

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will be

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deceiving you.

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Right? The places

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places that stir

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your whim

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and shopping is one of those key ones.

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Right?

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Every time a new certain new devices come

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out, I don't I'm

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not the public

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council

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on technological matters. I gotta should I buy

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the new

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whatever?

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I felt guilty because I had put it

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in my shopping cart. I took it out.

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It was it was a foolish decision, so

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I took it out.

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I felt guilty answering the person's question,

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but

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the things that cause your whims to stir,

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don't watch the keynote presentation.

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Right? A man who died recently, they said

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his talks were like a reality distortion bubble.

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Right? So don't watch the keynote press because

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what is the outcome?

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The outcome is you'll make a whimsical decision.

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$2,000

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on a digital device that just takes better

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pictures than the one you already have

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is foolishness

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is foolishness.

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Sponsor an orphan,

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give to the Mississauga Food Bank.

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Right?

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Buy some books,

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treat your family,

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spend on your parents.

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Right? And the things that stir up your

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your desires,

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the things that stir up your desires. Something

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directly stir up your desires, but there's other

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things that indirectly

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stir up their your desires. And amongst them

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is

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bad company kept in a bad way,

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Such as you have dinner with some old

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friends, but then you just hang out

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afterwards.

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Right? That excess

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or

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one of the things that is known to

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stir desires

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is not being careful of what you eat.

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Not being careful of what you eat and

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where you eat from.

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The early Muslim who say you are what

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you eat.

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Right? And also beware

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of the false dreams

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of your nafs.

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That one of these days. One of these

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days you'll be dead.

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That's

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the reality

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that should put every other reality in perspective.

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And then

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he we can we'll close it today with

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Imam al Harith al Muhasabi's quoting of a

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hadith of our beloved messenger,

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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Right?

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That in

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that the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi salam

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reported to us said

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that the worst of your enemy

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is your own lower self that is between

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your two sides.

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Right. And this

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is

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related

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by Imam al Beihaki in his Kitab al

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Zuhud.

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And the chain of transmission is weak, though

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it has a number of other similarly worded

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hadiths

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that confirm the meaning. And so the meaning

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itself is sound and clearly established in a

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number of

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hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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Right.

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And

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why is your lower self,

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you know, which is your inclinations

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towards your whims and your desires, the worst

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of your enemies? He says,

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It is your the worst of your enemies

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if you obey it.

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Right? Because your lower self

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are the is those whims and desires

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that turn you away from the good pleasure

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of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Your lower self

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is your greatest friend

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when you struggle against it

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to draw closer to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Insight regarding our affairs and grant us to

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benefit

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from the reminders that we hear and that

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He make us of the people

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of

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who take

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heed

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and

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who turn their hearts to Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala

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who strive

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to renew

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and rekindle

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the light

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of the beloved Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam in

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our lives

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through

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striving to connect with him, through sending blessings

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upon him, through making a commitment

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to

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live

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his beloved example as best we can and

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to recognize

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that we will fall short

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from that beautiful example of the one described

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by one of the great poets of the

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20th century, Baad al Mahasliminka.

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Right?

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That, O chosen one,

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O dazzling of beauty,

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who is there

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who encompasses beauty as you do?

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A little of your beauty, the rest of

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creation was granted.

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Though in truth, is it possible to affirm

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beauty for any other?

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So to recognize that we always fall short

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of that radiant standard.

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May Allah

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renew the meaning

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of faith,

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of love,

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of gratitude,

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of steadfastness,

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of striving for uprightness,

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of yearning and longing and hope and fear

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and every quality

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of those servants most beloved to Allah. Those

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qualities reflective

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of something of the light of our beloved

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messenger

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in our lives.

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