Faraz Rabbani – The Rawha #190 Guidance for Seekers Heedlessness & Internal Enemies

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			We're continuing to look at the councils
		
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			of Imam
		
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			Al Harith al Muhasibi
		
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			from his work, Risara al Musa Shideen,
		
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			a treatise for seekers of guidance. And there's
		
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			a beautiful
		
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			translation
		
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			with
		
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			very practical
		
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			contextualized commentary
		
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			by Imamzade Sheikir. And it's a this is
		
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			a wonderful book for anyone who would like
		
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			to be reminded
		
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			on how to
		
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			improve, how to nurture, how to cultivate their
		
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			relationship with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And Imamzaid's
		
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			book was originally
		
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			a series of lessons
		
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			that Imamzaid taught
		
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			covering the book. And if and
		
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			the
		
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			the set is available through Firdos Books and
		
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			elsewhere,
		
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			and it is highly beneficial. One of the
		
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			things,
		
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			we used to spend a lot more time
		
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			driving together as a family than we used
		
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			to do as a family with
		
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			with our children is that we'd have different
		
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			series that we'd listen to systematically.
		
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			And one of the ones that we went
		
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			through together
		
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			was Imam Zayed's explanation of the treatise for
		
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			Seekers of Guidance, this particular book.
		
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			So
		
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			we reached his counsel, Rahimahullah
		
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			Ta'ala, and Imam Harith al Muhasibi died
		
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			in the year 243
		
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			after the Hijra. So he's one of the
		
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			imams of the salaf of the early Muslims,
		
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			a contemporary of the likes of Imam Ahmad
		
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			ibn Hambal and others.
		
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			He said,
		
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			So he tells us to be
		
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			to have caution
		
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			about certain
		
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			matters of harm in our lives. And this
		
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			is building on the council he gave before
		
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			of being wary
		
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			of one's whim, of one's Hawa, and being
		
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			far away from it. So he says,
		
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			be careful
		
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			about the places of heedlessness,
		
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			about the places
		
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			of heedlessness,
		
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			right,
		
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			of raflah.
		
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			Why? Because the basis of
		
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			of sin
		
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			is heedlessness.
		
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			Right? The the cause
		
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			of all benefit in life
		
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			is to be close
		
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			to the remembrance of Allah and that which
		
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			relates to it. And the beginning of harm
		
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			is heedlessness of Allah and the things related
		
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			to the heedlessness of Allah.
		
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			So the believer
		
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			is not someone who would go to places
		
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			of sin.
		
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			Right? And to be safe from sin,
		
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			you you not only avoid sin
		
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			but you avoid the places of sin. Both
		
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			actual places where sin takes place and those
		
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			circumstances
		
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			that would cause one to fall into sin.
		
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			Right? Such as in our times, if
		
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			you find that there's certain types of websites,
		
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			right,
		
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			that
		
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			you
		
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			lead you to commit to do things that
		
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			are sinful, to watch things that you know
		
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			are not permitted.
		
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			Then
		
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			a place of sin
		
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			for you would be the use of the
		
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			Internet at night, for example.
		
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			Right? But before the place of sin, if
		
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			you want safety,
		
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			avoid both physical
		
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			and nonphysical
		
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			places of heedlessness.
		
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			So that when you are using the Internet,
		
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			don't just drift heedlessly.
		
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			Be in places
		
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			with purpose.
		
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			The mall, for example, is a place where
		
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			if you go with purpose, it's a means
		
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			of
		
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			gratitude
		
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			that, you know, you
		
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			it's falls coming. You need to get a
		
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			jacket. You wanted to buy something for
		
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			your for your sibling,
		
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			for your parents, for your children, for whatever.
		
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			You go with those intentions.
		
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			It's a means of good.
		
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			But when you go
		
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			to places of heedlessness,
		
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			heedlessness is what converts then into
		
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			sin
		
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			and converts into disadvantage.
		
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			So beware
		
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			of the places of heedlessness.
		
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			And in worldly places,
		
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			that could be places of heedlessness or places
		
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			of
		
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			benefit.
		
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			Go there with purpose.
		
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			Right? And places where
		
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			the enemy will be found.
		
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			And who's the enemy?
		
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			Right? Or where the enemy
		
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			will deceive you, which is dunya,
		
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			the Shaytan,
		
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			your whims, your desires.
		
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			And one of the deceptions of the shaitan,
		
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			right, is to make you look at this
		
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			worldly life,
		
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			the merely worldly.
		
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			Right? So was once walking,
		
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			and his students were walking with him. And
		
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			they passed by a really beautiful
		
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			home of someone that they've done it up.
		
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			And in those days, generally,
		
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			people adorned the inside, the courtyards of their
		
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			house. And the adornment would
		
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			be trees or a fountain,
		
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			and trees are beneficial.
		
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			So they looked up because it was impressive.
		
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			And he told them, lower your lower your
		
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			gaze
		
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			because it's only the glances of people like
		
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			you that cause the wastefulness
		
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			of the people like
		
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			this owner.
		
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			It is only
		
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			so don't be impressed. Be impressed with the
		
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			good.
		
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			Someone got a bigger house. Why? Because they
		
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			have high intentions in it. Be impressed with
		
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			meanings,
		
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			not just with forms.
		
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			Right? Beware of the places where
		
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			your enemies, worldliness,
		
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			your desires,
		
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			your shaitan,
		
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			your whims
		
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			will be
		
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			deceiving you.
		
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			Right? The places
		
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			places that stir
		
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			your whim
		
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			and shopping is one of those key ones.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Every time a new certain new devices come
		
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			out, I don't I'm
		
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			not the public
		
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			council
		
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			on technological matters. I gotta should I buy
		
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			the new
		
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			whatever?
		
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			I felt guilty because I had put it
		
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			in my shopping cart. I took it out.
		
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			It was it was a foolish decision, so
		
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			I took it out.
		
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			I felt guilty answering the person's question,
		
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			but
		
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			the things that cause your whims to stir,
		
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			don't watch the keynote presentation.
		
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			Right? A man who died recently, they said
		
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			his talks were like a reality distortion bubble.
		
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			Right? So don't watch the keynote press because
		
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			what is the outcome?
		
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			The outcome is you'll make a whimsical decision.
		
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			$2,000
		
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			on a digital device that just takes better
		
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			pictures than the one you already have
		
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			is foolishness
		
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			is foolishness.
		
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			Sponsor an orphan,
		
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			give to the Mississauga Food Bank.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Buy some books,
		
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			treat your family,
		
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			spend on your parents.
		
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			Right? And the things that stir up your
		
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			your desires,
		
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			the things that stir up your desires. Something
		
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			directly stir up your desires, but there's other
		
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			things that indirectly
		
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			stir up their your desires. And amongst them
		
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			is
		
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			bad company kept in a bad way,
		
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			Such as you have dinner with some old
		
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			friends, but then you just hang out
		
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			afterwards.
		
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			Right? That excess
		
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			or
		
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			one of the things that is known to
		
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			stir desires
		
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			is not being careful of what you eat.
		
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			Not being careful of what you eat and
		
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			where you eat from.
		
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			The early Muslim who say you are what
		
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			you eat.
		
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			Right? And also beware
		
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			of the false dreams
		
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			of your nafs.
		
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			That one of these days. One of these
		
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			days you'll be dead.
		
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			That's
		
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			the reality
		
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			that should put every other reality in perspective.
		
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			And then
		
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			he we can we'll close it today with
		
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			Imam al Harith al Muhasabi's quoting of a
		
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			hadith of our beloved messenger,
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			Right?
		
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			That in
		
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			that the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi salam
		
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			reported to us said
		
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			that the worst of your enemy
		
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			is your own lower self that is between
		
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			your two sides.
		
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			Right. And this
		
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			is
		
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			related
		
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			by Imam al Beihaki in his Kitab al
		
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			Zuhud.
		
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			And the chain of transmission is weak, though
		
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			it has a number of other similarly worded
		
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			hadiths
		
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			that confirm the meaning. And so the meaning
		
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			itself is sound and clearly established in a
		
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			number of
		
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			hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			Right.
		
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			And
		
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			why is your lower self,
		
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			you know, which is your inclinations
		
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			towards your whims and your desires, the worst
		
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			of your enemies? He says,
		
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			It is your the worst of your enemies
		
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			if you obey it.
		
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			Right? Because your lower self
		
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			are the is those whims and desires
		
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			that turn you away from the good pleasure
		
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			of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Your lower self
		
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			is your greatest friend
		
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			when you struggle against it
		
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			to draw closer to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Insight regarding our affairs and grant us to
		
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			benefit
		
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			from the reminders that we hear and that
		
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			He make us of the people
		
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			of
		
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			who take
		
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			heed
		
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			and
		
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			who turn their hearts to Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala
		
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			who strive
		
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			to renew
		
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			and rekindle
		
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			the light
		
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			of the beloved Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam in
		
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			our lives
		
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			through
		
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			striving to connect with him, through sending blessings
		
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			upon him, through making a commitment
		
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			to
		
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			live
		
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			his beloved example as best we can and
		
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			to recognize
		
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			that we will fall short
		
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			from that beautiful example of the one described
		
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			by one of the great poets of the
		
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			20th century, Baad al Mahasliminka.
		
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			Right?
		
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			That, O chosen one,
		
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			O dazzling of beauty,
		
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			who is there
		
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			who encompasses beauty as you do?
		
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			A little of your beauty, the rest of
		
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			creation was granted.
		
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			Though in truth, is it possible to affirm
		
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			beauty for any other?
		
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			So to recognize that we always fall short
		
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			of that radiant standard.
		
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			May Allah
		
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			renew the meaning
		
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			of faith,
		
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			of love,
		
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			of gratitude,
		
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			of steadfastness,
		
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			of striving for uprightness,
		
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			of yearning and longing and hope and fear
		
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			and every quality
		
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			of those servants most beloved to Allah. Those
		
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			qualities reflective
		
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			of something of the light of our beloved
		
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			messenger
		
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			in our lives.
		
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