Faraz Rabbani – The Rawha #185 Guidance for SeekersBeing True

Faraz Rabbani
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Weekly, we're looking at

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Mahmoud Muhasibi's treatise for seekers of guidance,

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which is one of the great early works

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of spiritual guidance, of looking at at

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presenting

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the spiritual teachings of the Quran and our

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beloved messenger, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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Imam Al Muhasibi

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says,

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Choose

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being true

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in every

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circumstance

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and you will profit.

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And literally Eathir is prefer

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right? Because our choices

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reflect what we actually prefer.

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Right? Because when we have several courses of

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actions, what we end up choosing

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is what we prefer.

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And our choices are the best indicators

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of what we love.

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And you can claim love, but the true

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love is manifest in the choices you make.

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So

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I prefer,

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make the choice

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of being true

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in every

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circumstance, wherever you are, whatever you're in.

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Choose being true

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and you will profit.

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What is what does it mean to be

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true?

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Right.

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Be true to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Right. Be true

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to yourself

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that if you say

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you are

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of those who submit,

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then what does that truly entail?

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You say that you care

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then be true to that.

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That's why they define being true is for

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your outward

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to to conform to your inward

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and your inward

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to conform to your outward.

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Right? Because a lot of pea a lot

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of us delude ourselves.

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Right? That we we have

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illusions

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of how we would want to be, but

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that's not how we are.

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To be true

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is to aspire

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inwardly

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to what truly matters,

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to the most true, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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to the next life,

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to aspire

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to righteousness

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in this life.

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But then to translate that aspiration

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into

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our choices,

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our actions, our responses. And if you do

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that, he says, you will profit.

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Right? Our life is just

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a series of choices.

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So he says, choose being true in every

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situation

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and you will profit.

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And one of the things

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of that is

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to ask oneself in the difficult

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choices and the difficult tests.

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That what does Allah truly seek from me?

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What truly reflects

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the way of our Prophet

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And he says, And

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completely

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leave

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the useless

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and you'll be safe.

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The

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is right?

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Is the the excess? Is that in which

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there's no clear benefit?

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Leave it.

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Right? In anything,

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there's a certain amount,

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right, that you need

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or you want. There's some benefit or good

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whether religious or worldly.

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The scholars say,

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harm is in the excess.

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You go out with friends, that's good.

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But the harm comes is when you go

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above and beyond

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the need, the benefit,

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what's wholesome, you have

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people over.

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It's wonderful.

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But then

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there's a certain point beyond which

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there is no more benefit

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and that that's when harm creeps in.

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Excessiveness in one speech,

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excessiveness

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in one's spending,

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excessiveness

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in one's worldly interests.

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Completely leave excess

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in everything

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and you will be safe.

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This is you wanna do financial planning,

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this works too.

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Limit yourself to where where there's clear need,

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there's clear benefit,

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leave the other things aside.

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And then he explains why and we'll close

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with that. He says,

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because he

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he refers to part of a hadith of

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our beloved messenger

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He says,

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for being true leads

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to righteousness,

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to Bir.

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And

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righteousness,

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Bir, virtue,

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leads to the good pleasure of Allah Most

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High.

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And lying.

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And and there's lying to others,

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but also lying to yourself that you imagine

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that you're a certain way when you're not,

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leads

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to corruption

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and corruption.

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And corruption

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bequeaths

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the wrath of Allah Most High.

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And in this vein, Abdullah ibn Abbas

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said, don't speak about that which is of

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no

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interest to you.

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And leave much

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of that which does concern you because there's

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no benefit in it.

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Right? It's like someone tried to open the

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subject of

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Pakistani politics to my father, and I don't

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think he was in a great mood anyways,

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which didn't help. He said, only people who

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live in Pakistan and understand Pakistan should talk

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about

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it. That shut my brother and I up

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totally because neither of us live there, and

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neither of us understand what's going on.

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And leave much of what does interest you.

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Because what benefit is there

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in busying yourself with it? Are you gonna

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do something about it that will benefit you

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or others in this life or the next?

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If not, leave it.

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And then he says,

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and don't argue with a fool

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because it's a waste of time

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nor

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with a person of forbearance

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because you won't beat them anyways.

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And

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mention your brother, mention others

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with what you would want them to mention

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you with.

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That if you have to mention people, mention

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them in a good way.

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Right? The prophet

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said,

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whoever believes in Allah in the last day,

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let them say the good or remain silent.

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And one of the most important aspects of

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saying the good and remaining silent

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is

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avoid talking about people.

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Unless

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there's a clear need or a clear benefit.

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And if you're gonna say it, say it

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in a way that is,

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you

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know, manner that you'd want to be mentioned.

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So that is the

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advice today

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of Imam al Muhasabi. We ask Allah

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that he make us of those who choose

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the truth

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and who are true, who leave

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who leave excess,

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who leave

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useless

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speech, who strive towards

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this

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glorious quality that is bitter, that is virtue

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and righteousness,

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who keep away from lying

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to others or to ourselves.

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Of those who only speak

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and busy ourselves with what is of

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concern to us, that which is of benefit

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to us or others

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in this life or the next.

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And who leave aside other things. And we're

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even careful about what is of interest to

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us. Is that this is is this the

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thing that is of most interest to me

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in my

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life and in my religion?

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And don't argue with people whether foolish or

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wise,

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and mention others only

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with what you would want them to mention

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you by.

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Muhammad

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