Faraz Rabbani – The Rawha #178 Guidance for SeekersSteadfastness & Contentment The Treatise For Seekers Of Gui

Faraz Rabbani
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Bismillahir

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Rahmanir Rahim

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Weekly, we've been looking at

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Imam al Muhasibi's

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treatise

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for seekers of guidance.

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And this treatise

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constitutes important

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advice on how to turn to Allah

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And

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we have looked at

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many important

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councils

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on

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how

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we

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can

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refocus

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our relationship with Allah

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And turning to Allah

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is not merely an an act of doing

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more

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but above all

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it is

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being true

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in turning

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oneself to Allah,

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making the commitment

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to seek Allah

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We looked

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last we began looking last week at the

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advice of Sayna Ali bin Abi Talib

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who said

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that

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He said

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that,

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oh, child of Adam,

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don't rejoice

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in wealth

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and don't despair

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in poverty. Why?

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Because we attach our hearts

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to Allah

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not to wealth

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and poverty.

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Right.

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We attach our hearts to Allah

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The believers focus is not

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on

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seeking wealth.

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The believers focus in life is to seek

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what is pleasing to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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If it entails,

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Allah facilitates for 1 to have wealth,

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then one seeks it for the sake of

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Allah. But if Allah puts us in a

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situation

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of poverty,

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then one keeps one's focus on what will

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be pleasing to Allah, where Allah has placed

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me.

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And don't

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be saddened by tribulations.

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And don't rejoice

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in ease. Why?

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Because the believer

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sees

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the tribulations,

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the

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as being from Allah.

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Right?

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As

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That let it diminish

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the pain

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of tribulation to know that it is Allah

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who is trying you, and are you accustomed

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to anything

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from him

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except what is good for you?

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Right.

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If you if you realized what the reality

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of tribulation is, you wouldn't be saddened by

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it.

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The believer,

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what are they saddened by?

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The believer

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is saddened

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out of

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a deep sense

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of awe of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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A deep sense

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of how far they are from Allah subhanahu

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wa

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ta'ala. And ease

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And in people's lives, it is ease that

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is more dangerous than difficulty.

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Right? Because in in tribulations

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most people get it, gotta turn to Allah.

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But when things go easy for us in

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life

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that's when we mess up.

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And the believer sees the tribulation.

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The difficulty is being from Allah. The question

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in the tribulation is how do I turn

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to Allah in this?

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When easy times come,

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what does one do? The question is the

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same. How do I turn to Allah in

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the ease?

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Is to see it as being from Allah

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The success

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is not from you, it's from Allah.

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The

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facilitation

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wasn't from you, it was from Allah.

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So

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we rejoice

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in Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Say in the bounty of Allah

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and in his mercy.

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In that, let them rejoice.

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It is better than all the day themselves

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amass.

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Right. And then he explained

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that

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just as gold

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is tested with fire, the righteous servant is

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tested

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with tribulations.

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Right.

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And then he said,

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to read

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You won't attain

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what you seek

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except by leaving,

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right, except by leaving the things that you

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desire.

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Right?

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And this applies even in life, people who

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succeed in worldly terms.

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Right? Worldly success

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requires hard work.

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Right. As opposed to

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just the fleeting enjoyments.

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It requires discipline.

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But similarly,

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Allah has created us not just for worldly

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success but for next worldly success above all.

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That too requires discipline.

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The discipline

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to wake up for our worship. The discipline

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to sacrifice

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our

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rest, relaxation,

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our shyness

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at work

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or in school to go and pray,

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to to do those things that

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we know will be a means to

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closeness to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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and true contentment.

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And then he says,

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Right?

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Exert

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your utmost

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effort

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in taking care of everything that has been

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made obligatory

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for you.

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Exert your utmost

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in

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upholding all that has been made obligatory for

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you.

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And what's been made obligatory for you is

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not much at all. There are some rights

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of Allah

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that we guard,

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and that's the most important thing

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that you have.

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And then there are some rights of Allah's

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creation,

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and you

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take care to guard those.

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And there's 3 types of rights

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that are the most

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important.

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They're summarized in a hadith where the prophet

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was asked,

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Right. That what actions are best? And he

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explained

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that the best of actions is

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prayer

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at its time.

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Then he was asked then what? He said,

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being dutiful to one's parents. And then he

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was asked then what? He said,

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striving in the path of Allah.

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And the hadith commentators mentioned that these are

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3 types

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of of responsibility.

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You have a personal

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spiritual responsibility.

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Right. The heart of which is the obligatory

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prayer.

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There are rights Allah has over you.

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The most important of which is the prayer.

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But then

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you have

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some

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social

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personal social rights.

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The most important are the rights of your

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parents.

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And thirdly,

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we are

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part of a collective,

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we are part of an ummah,

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and we

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have a collective responsibility.

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A collective responsibility to do what?

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To

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call to Allah

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to spread that call, to defend

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the umma

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of faith from those who would attack it.

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And that is the embodiment of jihad because

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jihad is not just

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fighting in the way of Allah, it is

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struggling

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in every way

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to

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call to and to preserve

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the call to Allah,

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the call to God and all that is

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good.

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These are 3 types of responsibilities.

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Look carefully

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that you exhaust your efforts in upholding what

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has been made obligatory for you. In your

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personal spiritual responsibility,

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in your the most important of which is

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the prayer.

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Like what are you supposed to be doing

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in life?

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The question.

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There's 3 questions that the sunnah would ask.

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How was your prayer?

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How was your relationship

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with your parents?

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What are you doing

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to strive in the path of Allah?

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Yourself,

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how much of your time are you giving

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to serve?

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And the ways of service are so many.

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How much of your wealth are you giving

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to support those striving in the path of

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Allah?

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By teaching, by calling to Allah, by assisting

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the the poor and the needy and the

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orphan and the oppressed. The ways of calling

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to Allah are are many.

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Right? And these are

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and

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the

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exhaust your efforts in doing so.

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And then Imam Al Muhasibi says,

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Be content

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with what Allah

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seeks for you.

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Be content

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with what

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Allah

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seeks for you. Right? And this is an

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an adab

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with Allah

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Right? There are 2 types of people

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who

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wake up every day.

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The heedless

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and the conscious servant of Allah.

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The heedless person gets up,

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and

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at best, they'll they'll wonder, what am I

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doing today?

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And there's levels of heedlessness. There's someone who's

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heedless

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and pointless.

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Right? There is like, okay. You're just sort

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of this drifting without any purpose. But most

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people are stuck having some purpose. See, I

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gotta go to work. I gotta do this.

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I gotta do that.

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But they're heedless

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of any real purpose.

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The conscious servant does not ask,

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what am I going to do today?

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The conscious servant of Allah

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asks,

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what does Allah seek from me today?

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And true success in life

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is to do each day,

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to strive to do at each moment what

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Allah seeks from us.

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Right?

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Right?

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That this is and if that's what we

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strive to do, and that's what we should

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be content with.

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Right?

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Ibn Masrud

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who said,

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be content

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with

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what Allah has apportioned for you, and you'll

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be the wealthiest

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of people.

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Right. Which does not mean to be passive.

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Right. Whatever is coming your way, you can't

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do anything about.

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Embrace it

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and respond to it positively.

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Whatever comes your way because you can't change

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it. Right?

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If the truck hits you,

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you can't

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press pause and go back and do an

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Imovie edit

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on the film of your life.

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There's no edit button

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on what's happened.

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But if it hits you,

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what you can do is, what do I

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do now?

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Right? And this is basic intelligence.

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And this is basic intelligence.

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He

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says,

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and keep away from everything

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that Allah has prohibited, you'll be the most

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scrupulous

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of people.

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And Ibn Nasrud continued,

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And

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fulfill everything that Allah has made obligatory upon

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you and you be the most worshipful

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of people. Right? In your religious

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spiritually,

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socially,

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and also in your

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share of collective responsibility

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of collective

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responsibility.

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So this is a beautiful

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advice of Sayna Abdullah bin Mas'ud. Right?

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And this

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reminds us, of course, as well that we

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see things,

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not how they appear.

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And this is one of the advices of

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one of the duas of Sayyidina Ali bin

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Abi Talib that Allahumma'alil

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alashiya akamahiya

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that oh Allah show us things as they

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truly are.

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Right? Show us things as they truly are

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because things are not as they appear

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which is the form

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of what happens

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but to understand

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their meaning

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which is what does Allah seek from me?

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By what has what he has sent to

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me.

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One of the great poets of

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of the 20th century,

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Sheikh Muhammad ibn al Habib, he said in

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one of his famous lines of poetry,

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That creation is nothing but meanings

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existing

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through forms.

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Whoever understands this is from the people

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of

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insight.

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Creation

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is just meanings

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that exist through forms.

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The forms are just like cups.

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Right. What is within the cup

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is

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the meaning

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of what happens around.

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Right? So whether something is good or bad

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is not by its appearance,

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but by how you respond

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to it,

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how you respond

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to it. So we ask Allah

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to grant us that understanding. We'll close

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with a pretty tough counsel. He says,

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Don't complain

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about the one most merciful to you, to

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those who aren't merciful to you.

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Then why is Allah doing this and that

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to me? Who are you complaining to?

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Could

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is is there anyone

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but Allah who is merciful?

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No. Are you actually merciful to yourself?

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And the answer is no.

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Right.

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That if you think about what is mercy,

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there's none merciful but Allah in absolute terms

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because every other mercy

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is just

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from him.

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So don't complain about the one most merciful

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to you,

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to those who aren't merciful to you, other

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people, but also yourself.

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How many times do we harm ourselves?

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And this is not only with your words,

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but also with your attitude.

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This is why the ulama said that complaining

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about the way things are is complaining

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about the one who has made them the

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way they are.

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Would consider it to be extremely bad with

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Allah to complain about the weather, for example.

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That it's either

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ignorance

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because complaining about the weather is not gonna

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change the weather.

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Okay?

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And foolishness because you don't realize that by

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complaining about

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the way things are, you're complaining about the

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one who created them.

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If it's cold, what you should do is

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is wear wear a jacket,

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put on a scarf.

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Right?

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And

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and he says, and rely upon Allah,

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and you'll be of his elect servants.

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And then he gives the words of Sayna,

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Ubadhib

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ibn Samit

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who who said

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that

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that have complete despair of what's in the

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hands of people

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because

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that is true wealth. Don't be avid for

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what other people have.

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Seek what's good for you from Allah

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and take the means. Very often people do

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things just because other people are doing it.

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And when they get it, it doesn't achieve

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anything in their lives.

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Have

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complete disregard for what other people have because

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that is wealth.

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And beware

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of

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avarice,

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of excessive

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wishing for things,

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or avidness.

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And always seeking

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perceived

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needs.

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I need this and I need this.

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Because that is poverty.

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A lot of you you ask them, so

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how are things? Oh my god. I need

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to get do this and

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reality, you don't need any of it.

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You don't need a I didn't need I

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need a new car and this and this.

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Reality is you have a car. You have

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this. You have this. Right?

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So don't

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always be thinking about what you

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need

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because that is poverty.

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Right? Rather,

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the the believer

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focuses,

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right on what will be pleasing to Allah

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in the moment they're in. And sometimes what's

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pleasing to Allah is that okay my my

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car needs too much repair etcetera,

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so I'll get a good car. But do

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it out of gratitude.

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Right. That if you pause and think okay

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now

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this is an this is the right decision

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to make.

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But then you think about it that way,

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oh I need to get a car, I

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need to do this. You look, Allah has

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blessed you with the with earnings. So you're

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able to lease a car, You're able to

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do this. You're able to choose which car

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you want to get or what

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decision you want to make.

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These are great blessings.

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Okay. So if you see things as being

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from Allah

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you'll see everything as being

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sweet.

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But if all you see

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is what's happening

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around you then everything will be bitter.

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So we ask Allah

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to

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grant

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us understanding,

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to grant us to see everything

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as

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being from Allah

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and to put our focus

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that on how do I respond

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in the best of ways, in the ways

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most pleasing to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And

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we'll begin next week by looking at his

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advice

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that then if you pray, pray the prayer

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of one departing.

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And

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the commentator

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on this work that we're looking at, Sheikh

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Abdul Fattah Abu Gouda, gives some beautiful examples

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from the worship of some of the early

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Muslims.

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And it's mentioned about the teacher of Imam

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Abu Hanifa, Rahim Allah,

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Hamad ibn Abi Suleiman.

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That if Hammad were told that you are

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going to die tomorrow,

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he would not have been able to increase

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in his good deeds.

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And you see

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many people like that of the righteous servants

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of Allah. When I was in Damascus,

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one of the senior most scholars of

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Damascus, Sheikh Abdul Azakal Halabi, he'd be at

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the Umawi mosque 45 minutes to an hour

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before fajr,

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in his late seventies.

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Because he'd get there, pray a couple of

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rakas, and there'd be people who'd be reading

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Quran before Fajr.

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We

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counted the number of hours that Sheikh Adib

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Kalas used to be teaching

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and again into his late seventies.

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And we stopped we were we counted 65

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hours a week of teaching time.

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And then we we and we didn't know

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his whole schedule of duros. We've done it

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spying to figure out most of it,

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right, but that's

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the commitment of 1

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who is giving

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their all. So we'll look at that next

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week

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and then he talks about being content

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with destiny.

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We ask Allah Subhanu wa Ta'ala that we

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be of those who

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listen with consideration

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and strive to correct our states

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and to truly

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return to Allah in our devotion,

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in our

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social relationships,

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but also in our sense of collective responsibility

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of what are we responsible for and how

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can we strive

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to be of service

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to the ummah of the messenger of Allah

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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as part

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of our discharging our duty to Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala.

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