Faraz Rabbani – The Rawha #175 Guidance for SeekersAweHope and Patience The Treatise for Seekers of Guidance

Faraz Rabbani
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The podcast discusses the three qualities of Islam, including faith, experience, and love. Fear and love are important in achieving deeds, and the need to uphold these qualities in order to be of insight. The importance of patient mentality and faith is emphasized, along with the importance of showing faith and serving others. The speaker provides resources and support for listeners, including a website.
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in our weekly look

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at Imam

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Al Harith al Mohasabi's work,

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Risaylatul Mustardshidin.

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And

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this work,

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which is translated into English

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by Imam Zaid Shakir. May Allah

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protect

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and preserve him as

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treatise for seekers of guidance

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is a beautiful

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early summary

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of

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living the prophetic way. Right? Because what is

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spirituality?

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Right? What is the science of?

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It is living the prophetic way. Right?

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Many people have

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this imagination

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that spirituality

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is

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singing

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and funny things and chilling out and

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the people who are

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more most serious

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about

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their faith

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with the people of the spiritual path. The

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people who were most

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intensely committed to following

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the sunnah of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam,

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both outwardly and inwardly

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are the people not just were, but are

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the people

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of the spiritual path. The the the way

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of because

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our religion has

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three dimensions

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and a fourth reality that is kept in

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mind.

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The seed of the religion

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is

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iman.

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The tree of religion

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is Islam.

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Right?

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But the fruits of religion

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are isan,

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is spirituality.

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Right?

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Is is a perfection

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because the the

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the point of the seed

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is not that there just be a tree,

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but that the tree bear fruit.

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So

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the

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seed of faith when it is planted

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and nurtured,

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it grows

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the tree of submission.

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Islam.

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But the fruit it bears

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is

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is

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spiritual excellence.

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And Allah uses this metaphor in the Quran,

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in Surat Ibrahim.

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And this tree is an upright tree.

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Right? And its branches extend to the sky.

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Right? Its branches

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extend

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to the sky.

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Right? They say the the tree

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as a metaphor for the believer.

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Right. The how Iman,

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right.

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Iman

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is expressed in gratitude

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through Islam.

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Faith is expressed in gratitude

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through Islam.

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But it is how Islam is how you

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express your yearning for the divine.

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And because if the

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seed of faith is planted in your heart,

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you yearn

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for

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the divine.

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And that yearning

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begins with Islam.

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But then the expression of the Islam

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is also a yearning for the divine.

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How?

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By

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it bearing fruit.

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So this is why

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this spirituality

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is all grounded in living

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the realities of the sunnah.

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Imam Al Muhasibi began the text

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with 4 keys that we've looked at in

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the past two lessons, which are

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that if you want to be of the

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people

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of insight, you need to have 4 qualities.

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You

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need to take care of your intention.

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You need to have taqwa of Allah, mindfulness,

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particularly with respect to the rights of others.

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You need to take yourself to account

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right, to

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have

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to the level of watching over every thought.

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Right? And

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taking yourself to account and watchfulness,

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are interrelated

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as we saw.

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Today,

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we're going to continue looking

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at Imam

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al Muhasibi's advice

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on three key qualities.

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Having awe of Allah,

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hope, having rajah,

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having hope,

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and

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having patience.

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Having awe, having hope, and having

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patience.

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And

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with that,

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there's 2 beautiful councils that we look at.

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The first being from

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on this theme, and the second from.

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May Allah be well pleased with them.

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So

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He

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says, Rahimahullah,

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hold yourself in awe of Allah

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with respect to your religion.

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Hope in him in all your affairs,

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and be steadfastly

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patient

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in all that befalls you.

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Then he quotes the words of fear

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only your sin.

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And hope only

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from your lord.

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And don't be

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don't

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be shy of those who don't know until

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they ask.

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Right? And let not one who is asked

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about something they don't know about.

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Let them not feel shy of saying I

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don't know.

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So

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we look at these three qualities and the

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advice of Said Nali,

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The first quality that he reminds us

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to uphold

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is awe of Allah.

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Right? Hold fast,

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hold yourself in awe of Allah with respect

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to your religion.

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Right?

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Now can be understood as being

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fear

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but the only problem with fear is that

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fear is generally understood to be a negative

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emotion.

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If you fear something, you flee from it.

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But

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the nature of fear of Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala is fascinating.

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The the best way of understanding it, the

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Ullama tell us, is that

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if you look at how Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala describes

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that fear.

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And as for the one who fears

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the station of their lord,

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And who

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prevents

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their lower self

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from its

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wayward

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ways.

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Then paradise is their resting place.

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So

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the right? This fear or awe of Allah

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is one fears the station of Allah, the

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majesty of Allah,

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the greatness of Allah.

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Right? Because

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the distinguishing quality of the believer

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is

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and those who believe are most intense in

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their fear of Allah. So our relationship with

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Allah is a relationship

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of inclination.

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Right? The

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it's of intensity of love. And what is

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love?

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Right?

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It's It is constant inclination.

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So this is not the fear of the

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one who turns away,

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but rather it's a fear of the one

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who's turning

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in love

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to Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala and they're in

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awe of Allah. Habib Ali al Jifri

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once asked Habib

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Ali so Habib Ali al Jifri once asked

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Sheikh,

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Sheikh Mohammed Saeed Ramadore

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that does the

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lover

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fear the one they love?

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And Habiba and Sheik Al Buti started crying.

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Said no one

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fears

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more intensely than the lover.

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Why?

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Because the one who loves, who's always inclining,

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it is only they who truly understand.

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The the greatness,

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the majesty

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of the one they're inclining towards.

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Right? That is the the fear. So it's

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a fear. It's an but it's a fear

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of awe.

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Right? It's a fear of awe.

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It's a fear that bequeaths within one

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a sense of humbleness

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that that the one I love deserves better.

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The one I love deserves better.

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And as for the one who fears the

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station of their lord. And in this verse,

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and you should pay attention to this in

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the Quran.

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When the difference between when Allah refers to

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himself as rub,

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as lord,

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and when he refers to himself as

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Allah.

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Because

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the the name Allah

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is called the

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the name of majesty.

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Right? It's Allah's name of majesty

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and greatness.

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But

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when Allah refers him himself as a

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Rab, this is

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This is from his expression

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of love and care for his servants.

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From his expression of mercy to his servants.

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The

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because the rub is from.

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He's the one who takes care of your

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affairs. He's the one who originates you, who

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sustains you, who provides for you,

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who answers you.

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Right?

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The one who is in awe

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of the station

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of

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their loving lord.

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Their caring and merciful lord.

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Right? And that's the balance. Right? That's why

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it's important

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that when we explain fear to people

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that fear Allah.

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Right? Someone tells you, fear Allah. Say, okay.

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I'm I'm gonna run away. Right?

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No.

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There is no shelter

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nor safety

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from you except in you

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because you are the object of our love.

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And how is this expressed?

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And this is the blessedness of the advice

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of the great masters. You could say a

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lot about

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fear. He says,

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have all hold yourself in awe of Allah

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with respect to your religion. Why?

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How do you express

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your love of Allah?

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That is deen.

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Right?

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If you realize the greatness of Allah, how

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do you realize How do you express that?

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Yes. I know how great you are. By

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upholding

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the limits

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of the deen. K. Hold yourself in awe

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of Allah with respect to your religion.

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Whether it be your prayer

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or your devotions.

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Do

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it.

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Expressive of the of your awe of Allah.

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Likewise,

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with respect to the halal and haram. Right?

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That's where

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fear

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is manifest. It's not by going oh and

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ah. Right?

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The

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the the

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the awe of Allah is

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then when you buy and sell, when you

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transact with people,

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when you rent something,

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did you make sure that this is in

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a manner that is in accordance with the

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deen of Allah

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and you enter into a contract?

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So

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And

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in the Quran verse that we quoted from

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the 79th Surah verse 40,

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and who who

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keeps

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who prevents their lower self from its

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winds, from its wayward ways.

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That is deen.

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A

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deen comes from restraint.

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The prophet

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said, the smart person is the one

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who restrains themselves.

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Who restrains themselves.

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Or

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as Imam Nawi explains it,

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or who takes themselves to account that you

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check yourself.

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Right? That you check yourself.

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Right?

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Meaning, practically,

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that you think before you act. You think,

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is this acceptable to Allah? Is this pleasing

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to Allah?

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And then you act.

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That's why Rui bin Ahmed said,

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One of the companions of Ahmed.

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Whoever is mindful

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of consequences

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will always remain safe.

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We ask Allah to be of them. Then

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he says,

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and hope in him, hope in Allah, in

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all your affairs.

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Hope

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the Ulema tells us tell us

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is unconditional

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because the believer is not hopeful in their

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own acts that I can do it.

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Right? I'm hopeful that I'll pass my exams.

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That's a type

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of latent shirk.

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I'm hopeful that this project succeeds.

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No.

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Hope

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is only in Allah

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because we don't rely on ourselves.

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We don't rely on anything in creating hope

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in Allah

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So true hope

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is seeking the right outcomes

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and taking the right means to get there

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outwardly and inwardly.

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That is true hope.

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True hope is when what you are seeking

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is worth hoping for.

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It is of the good of this life

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or the good of the next.

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Otherwise, it's delusion.

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And then taking the right means to get

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there. And there's outward means and inward means.

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The outward means of expressing hope

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is taking the best means

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and these are both material and spiritual.

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Right? So you wanna get a job.

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You don't just make, You take the material

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means to find the job, but you also

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you make dua, etcetera, but that's not enough.

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Right?

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Taking the best means to get there,

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there's outward means, but there's also inward means

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which are

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sincerity.

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True hope without sincerity is not true.

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That that you do it seeking Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala.

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And

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with complete reliance upon Allah.

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That's why

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a secondary in his hicam, in his aphorisms,

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to one of the great masterpieces of Islamic

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spirituality,

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his teacher, Abu Abbas Al Musi, when he

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wrote this book, he said,

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my dear my dear child,

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You have summarized

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the and

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added to it. Even though Imam Ghazali's

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is 4 large volumes made up of 40

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books,

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The of are 250

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short statements,

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short aphorisms.

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But there's a point to it.

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Begins his From the signs that you're relying

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on actions

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whether your own or other peoples

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is that you lose hope

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when downfalls

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occur.

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And and he doesn't say mean

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from the signs of relying on your actions.

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From the signs that you're relying on actions.

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Whether your own or other peoples.

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From the signs that you're relying on creation

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is losing hope when

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things go wrong.

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Right? Because our hope is in Allah

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And the hope of course is not

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just in some things.

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Right? In everything.

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In everything that one does, the believer hopes

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in Allah.

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The third

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quality is,

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he says,

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and be steadfastly

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patient in all that befalls you.

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Right? True patience

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is to remain firm on all that is

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pleasing to Allah.

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With

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outward good response.

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With outward good response

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and inward contentment.

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Outward good response

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because

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let's say

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someone

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is in a situation where they're being harmed.

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Then it's not patience to just let this

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harm continue.

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It's against prophetic teachings.

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If one is able to step away.

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K? Someone's stealing your money, you don't say,

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okay. That's fine. Steal it. If you steal

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my money, I can't pay I can't support

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my family.

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So that's not patience.

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I stop you, but in the right way.

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And inwardly to be completely content.

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Right? Inwardly

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to be completely content. And he'll talk a

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lot about patience.

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But you're supposed to be patient in everything.

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The beginning of patience is trials.

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Because in trials, there's nothing else you can

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do but be patient.

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Right?

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And they that's why they say patience must

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come with gratitude and contentment.

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And so one of the early masters of

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spiritual path, he defined patience is

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that true patience

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is that you face even destruction

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with a laughing face

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because it's from Allah.

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It's from Allah. And you are responding in

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a manner pleasing to Allah.

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So you'll it is from the one you

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love,

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and you're responding to it in a way

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that you hope he loves.

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Right? So just part of the love story.

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Sayna Ali

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said,

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fear only your sin.

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And hope only in your lord. This emphasizes

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what we took. And then don't be shy

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of those who have no clue anyways. They

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don't know unless they ask.

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Right? They have to find out about your

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affairs to know. Meaning,

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be shy of the one who knows everything.

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And

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don't be shy if you don't know of

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saying that you don't

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know. Because one of the qualities

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of a person beloved to Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala is

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humility.

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Humility.

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Right? Right? Because you are not

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you don't have self consequence. I know. No.

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Your knowledge is a gift from Allah. And

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if you don't have it,

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you don't feel bad about not not having

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it. You just say, I don't know. And

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that's a sign of humility. And finally, we'll

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close

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with

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He gives a beautiful metaphor for what is

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the relationship between patience and faith. He says,

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He said, no well that patience

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in relation to faith

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is like the head

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in relation to the body.

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Right?

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If the head is cut, the body is

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gone.

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If

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something if you hear something that would make

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you upset with respect to your honor,

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then overlook

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then forgive and overlook.

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Because that is from the highest of matters

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as Allah subhanahu tells us. And then he

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mentions the words of Sayyidina

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Umar who

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said,

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that whoever

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fears Allah doesn't express their rage.

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You read. And whoever

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is mindful of Allah doesn't simply do whatever

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they wish.

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And then he said,

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Were they not a day of resurrection? Things

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will be different from the way you see

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them.

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Right?

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Really differed on what he meant by that.

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Right?

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But this is a

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because what is the expression of fear of

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Allah? The expression of fear of Allah is

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how you conduct yourself.

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Right?

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So we ask Allah to realize us in

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these qualities to to make us people of

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deep love and deep awe

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of unconditional hope, of steadfastness,

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of humility, who don't hesitate to say, I

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don't know.

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People

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who understand

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the worth of patience

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and who express

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their

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conscious awe of Allah

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by controlling our rage

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and by restraining

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our whims.

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Because

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this is a little

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of the reality of our beloved messenger

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who says

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that

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I am the one amongst you who who

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knows Allah the most, and I am the

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most fearful of you of Allah.

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The one

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who

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even

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in the most intense

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of outward

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trials

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was always unconditionally

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hopeful.

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Look at his life in Mecca.

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Right? When people

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would be

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shaken and saddened.

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Right? He has nothing but unconditional hope.

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Other people saw difficulty in tribulation.

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Right?

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You you see no

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shaking

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of that hope. Look at his dua

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after being turned away at Ta'if.

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Right? And there are those

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foolish and short sighted in our times who

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say things that are completely unbecoming of a

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believer.

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Right?

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That the prophet

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was also depressed.

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The prophet was also down. That nothing like

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that is true. Right? At Ta'if,

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the prophet

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was bruised and wounded.

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Right?

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And he expressed his neediness to Allah

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But yet he said, but if you are

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not upset with me,

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then I have no concern whatsoever.

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Right?

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That is,

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alright, that is that is iman.

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That is iman.

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Right? And we should look

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to that regularly.

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You see the steadfastness of the messenger

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both in his devotion

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and in his concern. His devotion,

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he would stand so long at night his

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feet would swell. Why?

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Steadfastness

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in worshiping his lord, but also steadfastness in

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serving people.

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The prophet did not even have a door

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to his house.

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Okay. After a full day at you know,

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of

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of serving others, when he came home,

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he divide his time at home

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as it's come in hadith

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between

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himself

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between Allah

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his family, and himself.

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Right?

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And he would give Allah his full you

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know, that time of devotion and he would

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always give his family their time, but his

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personal time, he used to spend it on

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the ummah

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and would not hold back anything from them.

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Right?

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Steadfast

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in service. We ask Allah

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to grant us of these qualities and to

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realize us in the realities of the people

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of guidance.

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Next week inshallah, we'll look at where to

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direct our life concern.

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May Allah

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bless and accept

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and preserve for us and our loved ones

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and the ummah of the beloved messenger the

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gifts of faith, guidance, and good in the

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ways most pleasing to him.

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