Faraz Rabbani – The Rawha #087 What Facilitates Provision and What Diminishes It

Faraz Rabbani
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The importance of being a good seeker of knowledge and pursuing knowledge is emphasized in all aspects of pursuing knowledge, including personal and daily services, providing support for students to become future teachers of religion, avoiding drinking at night, and being aware of natural processes and surrounding environments. The importance of respect for men and women, respect for senior parliamentators, and avoiding wasting one's time is emphasized. Money assisting the poor, avoiding asking and begging, and being aware of one's life are also emphasized. A daily guidance is provided for seekers, and listeners are encouraged to reach out for support.
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You're listening to the Roha, daily guidance for

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seekers with Sheikh Farazrabani,

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who will be covering Imam Yusuf and Abiheni's

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beautiful collection of 40 sets of 40 hadith

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of the prophet, peace and blessings be upon

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him, as well as Imam Zarnouji's guidance for

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seekers of knowledge regarding the ways of seeking

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knowledge.

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In our daily Roha,

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we have been looking at the final part

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of one of the lasting masterpieces

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on

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the Edab of learning.

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Right?

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And the author began by mentioning a basic

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principle

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that

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anything

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that is pursued if pursued

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without

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the right approach

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will not result will not have the desired

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results.

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Right? And that right approach is

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which is the right way of doing things.

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Just as

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whoever wants to get to a destination

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and they don't take

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the right route,

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they won't reach that destination regardless of how

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long they've been traveling.

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Right? So he has shared

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some

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unique

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a lot of wisdom

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related to the journey of knowledge.

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But then he mentions

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and then in the end,

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he mentioned some

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practical councils

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related to how one relates to others, which

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we we saw in previous chapters

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of having

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2 key qualities.

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The seeker of knowledge needs 2 key qualities

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in dealing with others which are Shafaqa,

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your caring concern for others

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and

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and since you know being you

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know having sincere

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concern for them. And these qualities are essential

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because this is what

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the characteristic of someone

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who is walking on the footsteps of the

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prophet and

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inheriting

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the prophetic

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responsibility,

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the prophetic trust

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of transmitting

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his guidance

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would entail.

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Now with that,

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one to be able to benefit, one needs

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to be scrupulous.

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Right?

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And we looked at what is

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warah. Right? This essential quality of to be

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to be careful in matters

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of religion and life both outward,

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but also to be careful

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about the state of one's heart.

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Right?

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And

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in the

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the chapter we're going to be looking at

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today, which brings us very close to the

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end of the work, he mentions

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risk. Things that facilitate provision.

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And that which give one a longer life.

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Right and what diminishes.

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Because

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to be successful as a seeker of knowledge

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one needs

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to be able to retain one's knowledge which

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is what he looked at in the previous

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chapter.

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And in this chapter

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practically

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to be able

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to sustain oneself as a seeker of knowledge

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one needs rizq, one needs provision

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And that provision needs to be blessed.

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Right? So the provision needs to be there.

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Right?

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And we've seen the seeker of knowledge is

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either a dedicated student of knowledge, right, who

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are stead who's studying full time.

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And it's a communal obligation

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upon the ummah to be supporting

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the people of knowledge and the students of

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knowledge.

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Which is why and this was something the

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early Muslims took particularly seriously.

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Such that

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in the early generations it was an accepted

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truth

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that

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one could not charge

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for teaching the religion. Why?

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Because

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the communal obligation was being so clearly fulfilled.

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The people of knowledge were being supported,

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right.

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And one example of that, Imam Abu Hanifa

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before he dedicated himself to seeking knowledge was

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a wealthy merchant. He was a cloth merchant.

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And when he dedicated himself to study

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and he used to support the scholars.

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And part of the sincerity of his

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support and then when he dedicated himself to

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study, he was supporting not only

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scholars

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from whom he agreed with but he also

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supported

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scholars and students of the scholars

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of those who were

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actively

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in opposition to him, who actively disagreed with

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him.

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Many of the Ahlul Hadith of the scholars

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of Hadith who are opposed to him, they

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discovered that it was Abu Hanifa who'd been

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supporting them when he passed away. Because until

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the matters of inheritance were resolved, they did

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not get their support for a period of

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time. Because the inheritance get paused until

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the estate gets paused until,

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you know, the inheritance is discharged.

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And

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so there's a communal obligation aspect here that

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one has to take very seriously.

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And one of the keys they mentioned that

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if Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has facilitated for

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you at any level to seek knowledge and

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you want to be blessed in the pursuit

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of that knowledge, assist others who are seeking

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knowledge. If you can assist them materially

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or you can assist them

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with serving them or facilitating them in any

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way, we know

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the general

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promise of Allah and his messenger.

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Allah

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remains in

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the assistance

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of his servant as long as his servant

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is in the assistance of others.

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Right? From which the Ulema said,

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Whoever does not serve regrets.

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Right?

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And one of the great scholars of India

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who wrote several 100 books,

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they asked him,

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what made your knowledge so blessed?

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He said, a daily hour.

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So what do you mean by that? He

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said that in the afternoon break

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when people

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would go would have lunch and rest he

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would give an hour

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of service to his teachers.

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Of his own

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you know so he sacrificed something of his

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rest time, made his lunch break shorter and

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used to serve his teachers.

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And of course there's a practical element, if

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you serve them

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you'll be closer to them. So you'll learn

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about their example.

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You'll get some of their counsel, some of

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their insights, etcetera.

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But

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you're and service is to assist other in

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fulfilling

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their

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aims.

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Right? That's service. Service isn't, well, I'm gonna

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carry your shoes. I don't need you to

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carry my shoes. Right?

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I don't care. You know, I'll you know,

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it's not tokenism.

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Right?

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It's to assist them in

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in what they're striving for.

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So if you're, you know, trying to seek

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knowledge yourself, one of the great ways to

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facilitate that is to

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to be of service

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to the way of knowledge

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with

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with your wealth, with some of your time

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etcetera. And you won't be losing that time,

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but rather that time

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will give you a return

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in

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blessing and benefit.

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So he tells us.

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It is absolutely needed required for the

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seeker of knowledge to have

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a sustenance.

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The is your basic provision that that which

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keeps you alive.

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Right.

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And that requires planning which is why not

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everyone is able to study full time.

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And

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the smart plan though, if someone aspired to

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do that,

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they may work for a few years and

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save

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or if they have the readiness,

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right. One of the important Sunnah with respect

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to provision

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is that

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if one has the readiness,

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right, in that one has

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taken steps on the path of knowledge

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and is finding progress and one

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sees

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an avidness

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to benefit

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oneself

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from knowledge

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and to be of service to others through

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that knowledge.

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Then particularly in our times

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to seek the means to be able to

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dedicate oneself to study is not from humbling

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is not from

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you know disgracing oneself.

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It's not from Idullal.

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Right? If the intention

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is correct and that's what we always hear

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from the scholars

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when they advise students of knowledge. Right? That

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someone says, well, I if I could, I

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would seek knowledge. Take the means to be

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able to do so. Right? See if there

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are those in your community, etcetera, who will

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support that. So I don't want to ask.

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Say no. Don't ask for I.

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Right?

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Right. But rather, the question to ask is

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have you been, you know, have you been

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serious in

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seeking knowledge and acting upon it yourself?

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Are you keen to be of service to

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others? It's not I want to become a

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scholar. I it's not about I, but to

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be of service, to be a benefit to

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others and then taking the means of being

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supported in that way with dignity, right,

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is

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something that it should not be neglected. And

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every community

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should needs to have a plan

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of supporting

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students to become scholars

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and of supporting scholars

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to be to be dedicated to teaching. Every

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area where there's Muslims need to have some

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people who are

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dedicated to teaching

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and some people who have been dedicated

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communally

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to become the next generation of scholars,

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right? And this is something that there is

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nothing more important,

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right? No masjid, no Islamic school,

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no social service

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that a community can provide that is more

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urgently needed than

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the immediate facilitation

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of

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people of knowledge to be teaching there, to

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be providing religious guidance. And number 2,

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the next step, to be providing

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support

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for students of knowledge to be

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to be to become

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future

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teachers of the religion.

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Right? And that's something that our community

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communities are

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negligent

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about.

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So and then it's

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needed for the student knowledge and

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to know the things that increase in one's

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provision,

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right, in one's sustenance.

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And because the and of course the increase

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is not just material,

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right? The the real increase in one's provision

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is

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the intangible increase that Allah bless it for

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you

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and that he give it that subtle reality

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of barakah.

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The secret of increase

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in things.

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And the things that increase in life

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both in the duration of one's life and

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in the benefit

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of one's life. As Ibn Atha'ialla said, How

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many a long life that had little

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fruit that bore little fruit?

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And how many a short life was exceedingly

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fruitful.

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And that which would increase in one's health.

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Right? And taking the means to have

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spiritual health so that one has a blessed

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life but also in one's physical health so

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that one has a lengthy life are both

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called upon.

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So that the seeker of knowledge can be

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freed up

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to strive

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to actively strive. And is

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active,

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you know, to actively direct oneself.

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Right?

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K. As Allah says,

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Whoever

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seeks the next life and actively strives for

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it with the striving befitting it, that striving

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is

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recognized. And in all of this, the

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they, the scholars, have written many books.

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But here I mentioned some of the things

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that

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that bless and increase one's wealth and one's

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life

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and one's

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health in brief.

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The messenger related

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have said, nothing words of destiny other than

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supplication,

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and nothing

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increases one's life

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other than

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virtue.

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Increases it, meaning, in benefit.

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And what's Bir?

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Bir

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is

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to be virtuous

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and to act virtuously.

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Right?

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And the prophet

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highlighted the key quality of righteousness

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of of of of of virtue

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which is good character. He said,

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Right?

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Right virtue is good character. Of course this

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is, what kind of?

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What kind of relationship between virtue and good

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character?

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Yeah.

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It's of

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right. It it's

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either that

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good character is a key part of virtue

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or it's a key expression of virtue depending

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on how you define the two terms.

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For and then the prophet related said, for

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for a man may be prevented

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from provision, from risk,

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by the sins that they commit.

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So here, there are 3 keys

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to

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blessedness

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in life

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and in time and in well-being,

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which are

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anything that you seek, seek it ask Allah

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for it.

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Right? Make du'a.

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And of course du'a comes from seeing things

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as being from Allah.

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Number 2,

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commit to virtue.

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Right?

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Because Allah is with the virtuous. In

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Allah Allah,

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truly Allah

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is indeed with the people of excellence.

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And keep away from sin because sin

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diminishes

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good

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Right? And knowledge is an honor,

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it's not granted

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to the criminals.

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Okay?

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At least beneficial knowledge.

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And he says

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risk. It is established by this hadith

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that

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committing

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sins

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is a cause

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from being prevented from provision.

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And risk

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refers to what

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and provision of course is what Allah gives

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you of that which sustains you and nourishes

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you.

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Right. And there's a material sustenance and a

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spiritual

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sustenance.

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Your knowledge is a risk from Allah.

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Your the state of your heart is a

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risk is a risk from Allah. Your akhlaq,

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your character is a risk from Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala.

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Right?

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And particularly

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lying.

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Why? Because it's come in so many Hadith

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that

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beware

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of lying.

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Right? That beware of lying because lying leads

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to corruption,

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Right?

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And

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there's many, many warnings about that. And that

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the believer could have any

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qualities, even bad ones, other than

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lying and deception.

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And these are from the signs of a

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hypocrite.

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Right? And all the other aspects of hypocrisy

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all arise

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from lying.

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The prophet

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said the signs

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of

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a hypocrite are 3.

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When they speak, they lie.

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And if they promise, they break their promise.

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But the Ulamas say, break it speaking,

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making a promise

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without the intent of fulfilling it.

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The prom your promise was a lie.

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With a Tumina Khan, and when they're trusted,

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when they're entrusted, they

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breach their trust.

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So when you said by your word or

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your state that you will be trustworthy,

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when you weren't going to be trustworthy,

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that claim of trustworthiness was a lie.

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So the qualities of hypocrisy

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return

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to lying.

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Right?

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That's why lying is so

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so

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serious. And lying

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results in poverty.

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Hadith

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and and specific hadiths have come regarding this.

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So this is the first thing. Right?

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To guard one state,

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particularly,

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right, to be careful if you want to

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be blessed. This is the broad principle that

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he gives. Right? And this is how he

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right? That if you want blessing in your

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time

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and in your life and in your well-being

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and in your provision, then what do you

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do?

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You take care of

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1, making dua.

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Number 2,

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of striving to uphold

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virtue,

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Bir,

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right,

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which is manifest in good character. And number

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3,

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leaving

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sinfulness.

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Right?

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Right? Because sinfulness

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distances. Right?

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And

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of the worst of the the root of

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corruption

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is lying.

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Right? The root of corruption as so many

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hadiths mentioned. Right? And the the warnings of

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the Quran and Sunnah against lying

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are numerous, and you can find them in

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and

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elsewhere.

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And then

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so he lay lays out the

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the the broad principles and he gives practical

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insights.

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Right. So

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he

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says

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says likewise

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sleeping in the in the morning time

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prevents provision. Because the prophet

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said

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Allah bless my community in its early hours.

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Some of the olema said, this is unless

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you have made the most of the night.

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Right?

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And the the ulama differ about it. Some

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of the ulama would spend much of the

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night awake

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in worship

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and in

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seeking knowledge

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or writing. And then,

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But at the very least, to make the

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most of fajr time, which is religiously called

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upon. But the general you know, most people

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who live in certainly, if you're in the

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world of means, you have to work during

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the day. So if you sleep in, you're

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gonna miss out.

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Generally classes would be in morning times.

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Right or the you know

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and that's one of the times when a

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lot of people are prevented from benefit in

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seeking knowledge

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because

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even if you're working full time,

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the fajr time and the time before you

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head out to work, that is a time

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when you're on the risk of knowledge, that's

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a time when you could have sought it

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even if you're working full time.

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Need some time management.

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And he says

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excessive sleep results in poverty because you miss

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out.

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And missing out on learning.

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Right? And we've talked about having balance with

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respect to sleep.

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And one of them

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said,

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said the the pleasure of people is in

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putting on clothes.

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Right? That's what people are cared about is

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their appearances.

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And the gathering of knowledge is in leaving

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even drowsiness.

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Right?

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But they say that the foundation of it

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is to take care of one's

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if of one's physical and

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physical

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and

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emotional and spiritual health. Because if you have

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physical well-being, then you'll have the the

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the, you know, the the vigor

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to pursue,

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knowledge.

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What another poet said, isn't it from complete

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loss

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that

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that nights

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pass by without benefit

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and yet are counted

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from my life.

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Right?

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It's an empty slate. Like, there's there's nothing

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good to show

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from it. And the least of it is

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to spend something of the beginning of the

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night and something of the end of the

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night in the worship of Allah Subhanahu wa

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Ta'ala and in the seeking of benefit.

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A night is a time when if one

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is not careful,

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when that's one of the times when it

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is very it's

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nighttime is the more likely time to commit

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grave sin than daytime.

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Certainly, the sins of vices

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are easier to commit at night than by

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day for most people.

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Which is why the prophet cautioned about staying

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up unnecessarily at night unless one is doing

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so with clear purpose or with clear benefit.

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And another

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said, said,

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get up at night,

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oh, so and so.

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So that you may be rightly guided,

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how long will you spend the night asleep

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and

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life

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is and your lifetime is extinguished.

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Right?

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And but sleep

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is at least

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sleep may be bereft of you know, may

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may not you may not acquire direct benefit

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from it,

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but at least it is not harmful.

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And a lot of what keeps people awake

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at night,

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they

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do not give their body their due, but

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they do not use it in benefit either.

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Right?

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And that's a detrimental staying up at night,

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which one has to be careful of.

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And there's some things that they caution about

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because they're bad.

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Right?

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And sleeping

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naked.

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Right?

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These are things that diminish blessings.

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And we're sleeping naked is at two levels.

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Right?

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One is sleeping naked if you're safely covered

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by,

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you know, by bedsheets

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is

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completely permissible.

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Actually,

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in some schools they've actually even mentioned that

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there's recommendation in it

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because there's basis in the sunnah of that.

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It was but it was from the habits

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at the time of the prophet that was

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acknowledged by the prophet.

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Right?

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So sleeping naked. But this is when you

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sleep naked

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with disregard that if someone came into your

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room, you'd be

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uncovered. Right? That's a state that is like,

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if you wish to sleep uncovered, then, you

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know, like, without clothing,

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then you you sleep with a bedsheet on.

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Urinating naked.

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Right?

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And again,

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like, then how do you urinate if you're

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covered? Meaning that, you know, because the basis

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of uncovering

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is that one reduces

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its extent and its duration.

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So the sunnah is that you uncover you

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don't uncover and then you

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sit or squat to urinate

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but you uncover as you descend

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because you diminish

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the extent and duration of the uncovering.

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Right? But say okay now I'm in the

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washroom,

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I return to my original state without call.

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You know that's

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contrary to the sunnah.

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Right?

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Well, and an eating

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in a state of major ritual impurity.

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In general,

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one does not remain in a state of

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major ritual impurity that which requires

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for an excessive

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duration of time. Right? One can go to

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sleep when requiring ghusl etcetera even you know,

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the prophet did it on some at some

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times.

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Right? However,

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the discretionary thing one does,

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one should it is superior

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to take one's first before

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doing them. The least, of course, is to

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wash one's hands,

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right,

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As is come in in the sunnah.

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But these are, you know, bad habits diminish

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blessings. Right? Bad habits leaving the adab.

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We can take a broad principle leaving the

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proper manners,

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let alone the sunnahs of the religion,

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diminish

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the blessedness

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of

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one's life, one state,

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and one's knowledge.

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Says

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and and eating reclining on one side.

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The general sunnah of the prophet

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is that you would eat

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leaning slightly forward

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And and you can see in the works

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of Shamal the description of the eating of

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the prophet. He generally sat on the ground

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and and

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he used to lean forward and there's wisdom

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in it. It makes you less hungry for

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the food. Right?

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And

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it less

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susceptible to being too relaxed so that you

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you don't overeat.

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Although the capacity of some people to overeat

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in any position,

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standing, sitting, or lying down,

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is pretty amazing. But

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there's been a discouragement

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understood in the sunnah

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of eating

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leaning against something.

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Right? Particularly on one side. Right? So you're

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you're you're eating

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leaning on one side that it's bad adab

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at several levels

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right. 1 because you're leaving the sunnah of

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of eating. Number 2

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it's not expressive

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of the appreciation for the blessing of food

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Right. If you see the duas one says

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before one eats and the duas one says

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after one eats.

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Right.

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That one sees this is what Allah has

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sent you that will keep you alive.

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Right? Food is a tremendous blessing.

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Right? Which is why Abu Madyan said that

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there are 3 occasions

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when

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blessings descend upon the seekers of Allah.

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One of them is when they eat because

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they

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eat out of

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neediness

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and gratitude.

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And that's the other of eating. They eat

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out of neediness to Allah and gratitude for

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Allah's blessings,

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which is expressed in the duas that the

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prophet taught us.

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And likewise

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from the things that diminish blessing in one's

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life

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and one's time

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and in one's provision and one's knowledge

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is to be

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to have disregard

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with

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the food

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that

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falls to the side

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of the

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at the table spread.

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You're eating some food fell, you're supposed to

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pick it up and eat it.

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Let alone

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wasting food. And this is one of the

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great sources of diminishment of blessing in our

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times. People waste

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tremendous amounts of food.

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And the ulama would say that even you

00:31:55 --> 00:31:55

know everything

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that when you have bread eat the old

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bread first before the fresh bread.

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Because if you keep bringing fresh bread the

00:32:03 --> 00:32:05

old bread will get wasted.

00:32:05 --> 00:32:08

Right? So always pay attention to the all

00:32:08 --> 00:32:08

these things that

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because

00:32:11 --> 00:32:14

only when you are appreciative of what you

00:32:14 --> 00:32:14

have

00:32:15 --> 00:32:17

and grateful for it

00:32:17 --> 00:32:18

that you will secure

00:32:21 --> 00:32:23

increase from Allah in

00:32:24 --> 00:32:25

beneficial ways.

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If you are grateful we will grant you

00:32:29 --> 00:32:30

increase.

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And the increase that counts is not just

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increase in amount, but in

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benefit.

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Says

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and burning

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the the outer case of

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the outer layer of onions

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and garlic,

00:32:50 --> 00:32:52

again, because you'll waste it. Don't

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don't waste even the because that too is

00:32:55 --> 00:32:56

edible.

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Don't waste even little things.

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And to clean one's house with

00:33:07 --> 00:33:07

a handkerchief,

00:33:08 --> 00:33:09

right? Because a cloth handkerchief

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

is a respected item.

00:33:13 --> 00:33:15

So you don't use it for things that

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are not

00:33:16 --> 00:33:16

respectable.

00:33:17 --> 00:33:17

Right?

00:33:18 --> 00:33:20

Because it what is the handkerchief? It's a

00:33:20 --> 00:33:22

blessing from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Right?

00:33:26 --> 00:33:27

And to,

00:33:29 --> 00:33:29

you

00:33:30 --> 00:33:31

know, brush 1 you know,

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to clean one's

00:33:34 --> 00:33:36

house at night, especially in the old days

00:33:36 --> 00:33:38

because they they would be you know, you

00:33:38 --> 00:33:38

could

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hurt yourself. Right? This is practical advice.

00:33:42 --> 00:33:44

And also that's not what the nighttime is

00:33:44 --> 00:33:45

for.

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And leave

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and leaving

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dirt in the house.

00:33:52 --> 00:33:55

I say diminishes blessings rather than say keeping

00:33:55 --> 00:33:57

and I thought it was superstition but it's

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a there's a lot about it

00:34:01 --> 00:34:03

that anyone who's serious

00:34:03 --> 00:34:04

about

00:34:04 --> 00:34:07

adab with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala should at

00:34:07 --> 00:34:08

least strive

00:34:08 --> 00:34:09

to keep things clean.

00:34:10 --> 00:34:12

The angels are attracted to cleanliness.

00:34:14 --> 00:34:14

Right?

00:34:14 --> 00:34:18

And you know forces of you know jinn

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and

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and dark forces of darkness

00:34:21 --> 00:34:21

like

00:34:22 --> 00:34:23

chaos.

00:34:23 --> 00:34:24

And just as we seek

00:34:26 --> 00:34:27

spiritual cleanliness,

00:34:27 --> 00:34:30

there's a physical cleanliness of body, of clothing,

00:34:30 --> 00:34:33

also of one's place that is entailed by

00:34:34 --> 00:34:36

see you know, seeking cleanliness

00:34:36 --> 00:34:38

and keeping one's house dirty

00:34:39 --> 00:34:41

is not a is not a good

00:34:43 --> 00:34:44

state to be in.

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It it affects one. And then also, it's

00:34:47 --> 00:34:48

not conducive to,

00:34:49 --> 00:34:51

you know, to serenity and the other states.

00:34:53 --> 00:34:55

And some of the other things, we'll just

00:34:55 --> 00:34:57

mention them briefly before we before we

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stop. And

00:35:00 --> 00:35:01

walking ahead

00:35:01 --> 00:35:02

of one's teachers.

00:35:04 --> 00:35:06

Unless they they request you to. They may

00:35:06 --> 00:35:09

be talking privately some to someone so they

00:35:09 --> 00:35:10

request that you you know that you go

00:35:10 --> 00:35:12

ahead but respect

00:35:12 --> 00:35:13

entails deference.

00:35:21 --> 00:35:23

And calling upon the parents by their by

00:35:23 --> 00:35:25

their name. And this is one of the

00:35:25 --> 00:35:26

innovations of our age,

00:35:26 --> 00:35:28

not so much with parents,

00:35:28 --> 00:35:31

is the leaving of terms of respect

00:35:32 --> 00:35:33

is an unfortunate

00:35:34 --> 00:35:34

custom,

00:35:36 --> 00:35:38

right? And it is not from the customs

00:35:40 --> 00:35:41

that are wholesome

00:35:41 --> 00:35:43

in whatever society that they've been adopted,

00:35:44 --> 00:35:45

Right?

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47

Right?

00:35:48 --> 00:35:51

Just a generation you know, just 2 generations

00:35:51 --> 00:35:53

ago, nobody would just call the president by

00:35:53 --> 00:35:55

their first name, then Obama did this or

00:35:55 --> 00:35:57

whoever it is.

00:35:57 --> 00:35:57

Right?

00:35:58 --> 00:35:59

Because

00:35:59 --> 00:36:02

we've been commanded to to express respect for

00:36:02 --> 00:36:04

all those respected amongst people.

00:36:05 --> 00:36:06

Right?

00:36:06 --> 00:36:08

So whether it be

00:36:09 --> 00:36:10

your uncle or your aunt's

00:36:11 --> 00:36:14

cousin your siblings or cousins who are older,

00:36:14 --> 00:36:16

right? Our deen is based on respect.

00:36:17 --> 00:36:18

We give respect

00:36:19 --> 00:36:20

where respect

00:36:20 --> 00:36:23

is deserved and where it is due

00:36:24 --> 00:36:25

socially, even if undeserved.

00:36:28 --> 00:36:28

Right?

00:36:28 --> 00:36:31

So like that, you don't go you may

00:36:31 --> 00:36:31

develop

00:36:32 --> 00:36:34

a relationship of familiarity

00:36:34 --> 00:36:36

with one of your professors at university.

00:36:36 --> 00:36:38

Never refer to them by first name.

00:36:38 --> 00:36:40

Always refer to them with a term of

00:36:40 --> 00:36:42

respect. Everyone calls them by their first name,

00:36:42 --> 00:36:43

doesn't matter.

00:36:43 --> 00:36:46

Right? We uphold Adab because that's the way

00:36:46 --> 00:36:47

of our of the messenger. Right?

00:36:48 --> 00:36:50

This this tendency

00:36:51 --> 00:36:53

to refer to senior scholars just by their

00:36:53 --> 00:36:56

first name? Say no. So we use terms

00:36:56 --> 00:36:57

of respect.

00:36:58 --> 00:36:59

Sheikh,

00:36:59 --> 00:37:00

Ustad,

00:37:01 --> 00:37:01

Sayedi,

00:37:03 --> 00:37:05

all these various terms and different cultures

00:37:06 --> 00:37:06

etcetera.

00:37:07 --> 00:37:09

These are terms of respect and the whole

00:37:10 --> 00:37:11

religion is based on respect.

00:37:12 --> 00:37:14

Right? Because who is your uncle? Your uncle

00:37:14 --> 00:37:17

or your aunt, right? There's someone who is

00:37:17 --> 00:37:18

a relative

00:37:18 --> 00:37:19

and that relationship

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

has been made

00:37:21 --> 00:37:24

sacred by Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala, right?

00:37:25 --> 00:37:28

Who is a all these relationships

00:37:28 --> 00:37:31

have been placed by Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:37:31 --> 00:37:32

and these are what preserve

00:37:33 --> 00:37:34

the good of this world

00:37:35 --> 00:37:35

and

00:37:36 --> 00:37:36

facilitate

00:37:38 --> 00:37:40

the good of the next. So that's something

00:37:40 --> 00:37:41

that

00:37:41 --> 00:37:43

should be taken with the utmost

00:37:43 --> 00:37:45

seriousness. Right? And you see this in the

00:37:45 --> 00:37:47

conduct of senior scholars.

00:37:48 --> 00:37:50

Right? Look at doctor Omer when he deals

00:37:50 --> 00:37:51

with, you know,

00:37:52 --> 00:37:55

with young students of knowledge who could be

00:37:55 --> 00:37:56

his grandchildren.

00:37:58 --> 00:37:59

He'll still refer to as sheikh so and

00:37:59 --> 00:38:02

so, Ustad so and so. Why?

00:38:02 --> 00:38:03

Because

00:38:04 --> 00:38:06

respect you give respect where respect

00:38:07 --> 00:38:09

is deserved and where it's due.

00:38:10 --> 00:38:11

Right? And that's critical. And if you don't

00:38:11 --> 00:38:14

give respect, why should you be worthy of

00:38:15 --> 00:38:16

the respect of knowledge?

00:38:20 --> 00:38:21

And and then other

00:38:22 --> 00:38:25

small thing and to clean your teeth with

00:38:25 --> 00:38:25

any,

00:38:27 --> 00:38:28

with any

00:38:28 --> 00:38:30

piece of wood. Because it's a sunnah

00:38:31 --> 00:38:32

to both brush one's teeth and to clean

00:38:32 --> 00:38:35

between one's teeth. But don't use random things

00:38:35 --> 00:38:36

so you you'll hurt yourself.

00:38:37 --> 00:38:37

Right? And it's

00:38:38 --> 00:38:38

being

00:38:39 --> 00:38:42

negligent of the blessing of teeth and being

00:38:42 --> 00:38:43

negligent of proper manners.

00:38:46 --> 00:38:48

And to wash one's hands

00:38:48 --> 00:38:48

with

00:38:49 --> 00:38:52

mud and dust. Right? Because when you're in

00:38:52 --> 00:38:53

the old days when you're out and about

00:38:53 --> 00:38:54

and your hands are dirty,

00:38:56 --> 00:38:58

right, if you muddy your hands, like, you

00:38:58 --> 00:38:59

know, bad manners.

00:39:03 --> 00:39:05

Right? And to sit

00:39:05 --> 00:39:06

on

00:39:06 --> 00:39:06

the,

00:39:09 --> 00:39:10

on the wall

00:39:11 --> 00:39:12

at the end

00:39:12 --> 00:39:14

at the at the wall at the entrance

00:39:14 --> 00:39:17

of of houses because, you know, it's again,

00:39:18 --> 00:39:19

the the poor manners,

00:39:24 --> 00:39:25

and to lean against one of the sides

00:39:25 --> 00:39:27

of of the doors. Because this is also

00:39:27 --> 00:39:29

from what idle people do.

00:39:30 --> 00:39:33

They're just sitting outside or they're doing shooting

00:39:33 --> 00:39:33

the breeze.

00:39:34 --> 00:39:36

It's called wasting the time. Right?

00:39:37 --> 00:39:39

That's and the prophet forbid it.

00:39:40 --> 00:39:42

Said don't sit by the roadside.

00:39:44 --> 00:39:44

Don't idle.

00:39:46 --> 00:39:47

The Sahabat thought about it and said,

00:39:50 --> 00:39:52

We can't avoid doing that O Messenger of

00:39:52 --> 00:39:53

Allah. He said, If you must,

00:39:54 --> 00:39:54

then give

00:39:58 --> 00:40:00

the road its rights,

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04

and give the street side its

00:40:04 --> 00:40:06

rights. And you can find the hadiths

00:40:06 --> 00:40:08

related to it that you know that you

00:40:08 --> 00:40:08

greet

00:40:09 --> 00:40:10

and you command the good and you're of

00:40:10 --> 00:40:13

sincere counsel and that you don't engage in

00:40:13 --> 00:40:14

backbiting and slander

00:40:15 --> 00:40:15

etcetera. You

00:40:16 --> 00:40:16

uphold

00:40:17 --> 00:40:17

what,

00:40:18 --> 00:40:18

this

00:40:19 --> 00:40:20

sincere concern.

00:40:27 --> 00:40:27

And to make

00:40:28 --> 00:40:29

in the toilet.

00:40:30 --> 00:40:32

Right? Right?

00:40:36 --> 00:40:37

And of course, this is not referring to

00:40:37 --> 00:40:38

a washroom.

00:40:38 --> 00:40:41

The toilet being where you relieve yourself.

00:40:42 --> 00:40:43

Right and there's only a place to relieve

00:40:43 --> 00:40:45

oneself. So now even

00:40:46 --> 00:40:48

like any place where there's also a sink

00:40:48 --> 00:40:49

would not be considered

00:40:50 --> 00:40:52

that place. But for example a practical example

00:40:52 --> 00:40:54

would be some of the you

00:40:55 --> 00:40:57

know, some of the disable you know, like,

00:40:57 --> 00:40:58

you have

00:40:58 --> 00:40:58

the

00:41:01 --> 00:41:03

in in the washroom, you have the disabled

00:41:04 --> 00:41:05

what do you call it? The

00:41:09 --> 00:41:10

the like the stall

00:41:11 --> 00:41:12

but but there's a place to wash your

00:41:12 --> 00:41:14

hands there. But that's it.

00:41:14 --> 00:41:16

That's not meant to be to wash up.

00:41:16 --> 00:41:18

That's just you know just to wash your

00:41:18 --> 00:41:20

hands to make wudu there would be improper

00:41:20 --> 00:41:23

but it's particularly where the filth is. So

00:41:23 --> 00:41:25

you're embarrassed to make. So you make it

00:41:25 --> 00:41:26

on top of the toilet.

00:41:27 --> 00:41:29

Right? Except in situation that says this is

00:41:29 --> 00:41:31

poor Adam. Why? Because that's not where you

00:41:31 --> 00:41:33

should be performing an act of worship. As

00:41:33 --> 00:41:35

for a place where there's a dedicated sink,

00:41:35 --> 00:41:37

that's not considered a toilet.

00:41:39 --> 00:41:40

Right?

00:41:49 --> 00:41:52

And to stitch one's clothing while it's still

00:41:52 --> 00:41:54

on one's body. So you ripped it. So

00:41:54 --> 00:41:56

you stitch it while you're making it. Why?

00:41:56 --> 00:41:58

Because you could easily hurt yourself.

00:42:02 --> 00:42:03

Right?

00:42:04 --> 00:42:05

And to dry one's face

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

with one's clothing

00:42:08 --> 00:42:10

rather than using a towel. Again, because it's

00:42:10 --> 00:42:11

bad at them.

00:42:12 --> 00:42:13

Right?

00:42:17 --> 00:42:18

And and to leave

00:42:19 --> 00:42:21

cobwebs in the home because it arises from

00:42:21 --> 00:42:22

not keeping it clean.

00:42:23 --> 00:42:23

K. And

00:42:26 --> 00:42:26

being,

00:42:27 --> 00:42:29

lacks about prayer.

00:42:34 --> 00:42:36

And to hasten to leave the masjid after

00:42:36 --> 00:42:37

fajr prayer

00:42:38 --> 00:42:39

because the sunnah is to sit.

00:42:41 --> 00:42:42

Unless there's a reason

00:42:43 --> 00:42:43

Unless

00:42:43 --> 00:42:45

there's a reason to. And some of the

00:42:45 --> 00:42:46

early Muslims

00:42:46 --> 00:42:49

adopted the practice of walking at fajr time

00:42:50 --> 00:42:52

rather than staying in the masjid, particularly if

00:42:52 --> 00:42:52

they found

00:42:53 --> 00:42:55

that there's too much worldly talking in the

00:42:55 --> 00:42:55

masjid

00:42:56 --> 00:42:57

cause it wasn't conducive to them,

00:43:00 --> 00:43:01

making zikr.

00:43:01 --> 00:43:04

And Mulla'i and other hadith commentators mentioned that

00:43:04 --> 00:43:06

the merit of making zikr,

00:43:07 --> 00:43:10

sitting down after fajr till sunrise, is achieved

00:43:10 --> 00:43:12

by making zikr till sunrise even if one's

00:43:12 --> 00:43:13

not sitting down.

00:43:15 --> 00:43:18

Right. Now if one can sit and do

00:43:18 --> 00:43:19

so in the masjid it is superior in

00:43:19 --> 00:43:20

of itself.

00:43:20 --> 00:43:22

But there could be secondary considerations

00:43:23 --> 00:43:25

amongst them if the masjid gets very loud

00:43:25 --> 00:43:26

at that time or whatever.

00:43:27 --> 00:43:28

Right? Or if that's the only time one

00:43:28 --> 00:43:30

is able to walk and of course of

00:43:30 --> 00:43:32

the things that is considered dhikr during Fajr

00:43:32 --> 00:43:35

time is seeking knowledge as well. And many

00:43:35 --> 00:43:37

of the ulama would use that time particularly

00:43:37 --> 00:43:40

to facilitate learning for those who have to

00:43:40 --> 00:43:42

go to their worldly occupations.

00:43:45 --> 00:43:46

And

00:43:49 --> 00:43:50

being

00:43:50 --> 00:43:52

and go get go getting to the marketplace

00:43:52 --> 00:43:53

too early.

00:43:55 --> 00:43:57

Right? It diminishes blessing.

00:43:59 --> 00:44:01

Right? If of course if it's done out

00:44:01 --> 00:44:02

of over avidness

00:44:03 --> 00:44:04

to earn your living.

00:44:05 --> 00:44:07

Now they could be practical things, you beat

00:44:07 --> 00:44:07

the traffic.

00:44:08 --> 00:44:10

Right. They could be practical. But if it's

00:44:10 --> 00:44:11

out of over avidness for the dunya,

00:44:12 --> 00:44:13

it's blameworthy.

00:44:13 --> 00:44:15

Why? Because that's a time that you can

00:44:15 --> 00:44:17

use for spiritual benefit,

00:44:17 --> 00:44:18

for social benefit.

00:44:19 --> 00:44:22

Right. For your spiritual routines, for knowledge routines,

00:44:23 --> 00:44:25

your time with family, many things. But if

00:44:25 --> 00:44:28

it's done for good reason, you you open

00:44:28 --> 00:44:29

early because let's say

00:44:30 --> 00:44:32

for some practical reason or that way you

00:44:32 --> 00:44:34

can get get home early then there's nothing

00:44:34 --> 00:44:35

wrong with that.

00:44:36 --> 00:44:36

Right?

00:44:38 --> 00:44:40

And to stay too long at work.

00:44:41 --> 00:44:43

Right? If it's out of worldliness.

00:44:44 --> 00:44:46

Of course, if there's a need to. Right?

00:44:46 --> 00:44:48

But a lot of people who work overtime,

00:44:48 --> 00:44:51

they're not actually working more. Right? They're just

00:44:52 --> 00:44:52

being escapist.

00:44:53 --> 00:44:55

You can't deal with your family.

00:44:56 --> 00:44:57

You're stressed out. You don't know what to

00:44:57 --> 00:44:59

do. So you just stay at work for

00:44:59 --> 00:45:00

a long time.

00:45:00 --> 00:45:02

But if you see what they're actually doing,

00:45:02 --> 00:45:03

it's like the

00:45:04 --> 00:45:04

someone

00:45:05 --> 00:45:07

said, been kind of busy doing something close

00:45:07 --> 00:45:08

to nothing.

00:45:08 --> 00:45:09

Right?

00:45:18 --> 00:45:19

And to buy

00:45:21 --> 00:45:23

the broken bits of bread from the poor.

00:45:26 --> 00:45:28

And this is where it's very contextual because

00:45:28 --> 00:45:29

in the old time the poor would

00:45:30 --> 00:45:31

very often find

00:45:32 --> 00:45:33

dry bread

00:45:33 --> 00:45:34

to take.

00:45:34 --> 00:45:37

So you buy that from them. Why? Because

00:45:37 --> 00:45:38

you want to put it in food or

00:45:38 --> 00:45:39

something.

00:45:40 --> 00:45:41

Now they may get the money, but they

00:45:41 --> 00:45:43

can't afford to buy other bread.

00:45:44 --> 00:45:45

That's a despicable thing.

00:45:46 --> 00:45:49

Yeah. You should be financially assisting the poor

00:45:49 --> 00:45:51

not extracting benefit from them.

00:45:51 --> 00:45:52

Right?

00:45:56 --> 00:45:57

And excessive asking.

00:45:59 --> 00:46:01

Oh, sorry. From the the the the poor

00:46:01 --> 00:46:03

who beg. Right? The other thing is

00:46:04 --> 00:46:06

buying little things from those who are inveterate

00:46:07 --> 00:46:07

beggars.

00:46:08 --> 00:46:09

That's another thing that

00:46:10 --> 00:46:12

right? Because one should not give to inveterate

00:46:12 --> 00:46:13

beggars,

00:46:14 --> 00:46:17

to those who make begging their profession.

00:46:17 --> 00:46:18

And in many countries

00:46:19 --> 00:46:20

the whole begging industry,

00:46:21 --> 00:46:22

like your children are,

00:46:23 --> 00:46:24

are mutilated

00:46:25 --> 00:46:26

so that they can

00:46:26 --> 00:46:27

so there's cartels

00:46:29 --> 00:46:30

of begging etcetera.

00:46:31 --> 00:46:33

In those there one has to assess. The

00:46:33 --> 00:46:35

basis is with a person who's begging is

00:46:35 --> 00:46:36

that you give them.

00:46:36 --> 00:46:38

Unless it is well established that there are

00:46:38 --> 00:46:40

people who are professional beggars.

00:46:40 --> 00:46:44

Right? But outside of that, unless there's surety

00:46:44 --> 00:46:46

without ill opinion, the basis that you give

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something

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to them. Right? But you do not assist

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professional begging.

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In some places, that's a sad truth. Rather

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there you should if you want to give,

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give to those who help those people get

00:46:58 --> 00:47:01

out of those situations of injustice.

00:47:01 --> 00:47:02

Right?

00:47:06 --> 00:47:06

And making

00:47:08 --> 00:47:09

a bad dua

00:47:10 --> 00:47:12

against one's child.

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One should never do that.

00:47:14 --> 00:47:14

Right?

00:47:19 --> 00:47:21

And leaving covering one's dishes.

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Because it's a sunnah of the prophet

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that at night if any dishes are outside

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whether

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containers of liquid

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or things that have food that won't cover

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them up.

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They differ about fruit.

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Something that

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is encased.

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That's covered.

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That has its skin. But certainly

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liquid that's outside

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you should cover it up. So if you

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keep water

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by your bedside for example,

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you should put a cover on it. There's

00:47:56 --> 00:47:57

hadith about that.

00:47:59 --> 00:48:01

Like I said food if it's left outside

00:48:01 --> 00:48:03

for whatever reason should be covered over.

00:48:04 --> 00:48:06

If it's in the fridge, that's a separate

00:48:06 --> 00:48:06

matter.

00:48:07 --> 00:48:08

But the the

00:48:09 --> 00:48:10

with fruit,

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there's no need to. Though some people used

00:48:11 --> 00:48:13

to put a, like a, like a, you

00:48:13 --> 00:48:15

know, like like a

00:48:16 --> 00:48:17

like a meshing kind of thing over it

00:48:17 --> 00:48:20

out of adab with the sunnah even with

00:48:20 --> 00:48:21

that. And you can see the details in

00:48:21 --> 00:48:22

the works of adab.

00:48:25 --> 00:48:27

And to try to extinguish a lantern

00:48:28 --> 00:48:30

by just blowing on it. The lantern has

00:48:30 --> 00:48:32

a strong light. You blow hard on it,

00:48:32 --> 00:48:35

it's it's bad at the because it's going

00:48:35 --> 00:48:37

to produce smoke. It's an a lantern is

00:48:37 --> 00:48:38

oil based.

00:48:38 --> 00:48:41

Right? So there's a proper way to to

00:48:41 --> 00:48:42

switch off the lantern. Right? They'd have a

00:48:43 --> 00:48:44

we blow on it, you have bad adab,

00:48:44 --> 00:48:47

and it's detrimental. Right? Because what can happen?

00:48:47 --> 00:48:48

You blow on it, it could blow back.

00:48:48 --> 00:48:48

You could

00:48:49 --> 00:48:51

yeah. The least is you get some smoke

00:48:51 --> 00:48:52

on yourself.

00:48:53 --> 00:48:55

Right? It looks bad

00:48:55 --> 00:48:57

and you get bad smell,

00:48:57 --> 00:48:59

could hurt yourself because you know, so these

00:48:59 --> 00:49:00

are,

00:49:00 --> 00:49:01

of course, contextual thing.

00:49:02 --> 00:49:03

Don't have bad bad at them.

00:49:05 --> 00:49:08

All these things lead to poverty of state

00:49:08 --> 00:49:09

because you have left

00:49:09 --> 00:49:11

proper manners and you've left the sunnah.

00:49:14 --> 00:49:16

Right? And all of these have been known

00:49:16 --> 00:49:18

by narrations either from the prophet or from

00:49:18 --> 00:49:19

the early Muslims.

00:49:20 --> 00:49:23

And then he mentions other things that result

00:49:24 --> 00:49:25

in,

00:49:26 --> 00:49:27

you know, that that,

00:49:27 --> 00:49:29

you know, that affect,

00:49:30 --> 00:49:31

one's

00:49:34 --> 00:49:36

one state with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

00:49:38 --> 00:49:39

And likewise writing

00:49:40 --> 00:49:41

with with with a pen

00:49:43 --> 00:49:43

that

00:49:44 --> 00:49:44

is

00:49:45 --> 00:49:46

that that is broken.

00:49:47 --> 00:49:51

Right? That's just tied up. Why? 1, because

00:49:51 --> 00:49:52

you won't be able to write properly with

00:49:52 --> 00:49:54

it. So it's a broken pen you kind

00:49:54 --> 00:49:56

of just fix it up. Of course not

00:49:56 --> 00:49:58

it's properly repaired,

00:49:58 --> 00:50:00

right, but it's tied back together.

00:50:00 --> 00:50:02

1, because with reed pens if you just

00:50:02 --> 00:50:04

sort of fix it together

00:50:04 --> 00:50:06

it could break and could hurt you.

00:50:06 --> 00:50:07

Right?

00:50:07 --> 00:50:10

And it'll make it more difficult to write

00:50:10 --> 00:50:12

properly. And how will we benefit from knowledge

00:50:12 --> 00:50:13

that's not decipherable?

00:50:18 --> 00:50:20

And brushing with a broken comb.

00:50:20 --> 00:50:22

That's damaging his poor Adam.

00:50:25 --> 00:50:27

Adam. And leaving to make dua for the

00:50:27 --> 00:50:28

good for one's parents.

00:50:28 --> 00:50:31

Abu Leith Samarkandhi mentions

00:50:31 --> 00:50:34

that one should that practically because we've been

00:50:34 --> 00:50:36

called upon to make dua regularly for one's

00:50:36 --> 00:50:36

parents

00:50:37 --> 00:50:39

is the way one can be sure to

00:50:39 --> 00:50:41

fulfill that minimally

00:50:41 --> 00:50:42

is to commit

00:50:43 --> 00:50:45

to make du'a for one's parents

00:50:45 --> 00:50:48

with presence of heart after every prayer.

00:50:50 --> 00:50:51

But Allah has told us to be grateful

00:50:51 --> 00:50:52

to

00:50:52 --> 00:50:54

him and to and and and and to

00:50:54 --> 00:50:56

be grateful to our parents.

00:50:56 --> 00:50:57

The

00:50:57 --> 00:51:00

the practical outward expression of gratitude to parents

00:51:00 --> 00:51:02

is to to to Allah is the 5

00:51:02 --> 00:51:03

obligatory prayers.

00:51:05 --> 00:51:06

Right.

00:51:08 --> 00:51:10

So and if so the gratitude to Allah

00:51:10 --> 00:51:12

has been connected with gratitude to our parents.

00:51:12 --> 00:51:15

So we express gratitude to them above all

00:51:15 --> 00:51:15

through dua.

00:51:16 --> 00:51:18

So it would you know, a simple way

00:51:18 --> 00:51:20

of doing that is to connect the 2.

00:51:20 --> 00:51:22

Always make dua for them in your prayer.

00:51:25 --> 00:51:26

And to put on one to wrap one's

00:51:26 --> 00:51:28

turban sitting down. Because a sunnah has to

00:51:28 --> 00:51:31

do so standing up. Okay.

00:51:35 --> 00:51:38

And to put on one's trousers standing up

00:51:38 --> 00:51:40

because the sunnah with putting on trousers because

00:51:40 --> 00:51:41

if you're uncovered

00:51:42 --> 00:51:45

you diminish it in extent and duration. And

00:51:45 --> 00:51:47

the sunnah in putting on

00:51:47 --> 00:51:48

one's clothing

00:51:49 --> 00:51:51

is to put it sitting down put it

00:51:51 --> 00:51:53

on sitting down especially that which relates to

00:51:53 --> 00:51:55

uncovering. Because if you're seated,

00:51:56 --> 00:51:59

you are uncovered for a lesser extent than

00:51:59 --> 00:52:00

if you're standing.

00:52:08 --> 00:52:09

And stinginess

00:52:10 --> 00:52:11

and

00:52:11 --> 00:52:15

using things excessively little. Right? Taqthir is to

00:52:15 --> 00:52:17

look for example, is to use excessively little

00:52:17 --> 00:52:18

when you could use

00:52:19 --> 00:52:21

a proper amount. Like you use too too

00:52:21 --> 00:52:22

too little water

00:52:22 --> 00:52:25

in wudu. So it's barely enough to be

00:52:25 --> 00:52:27

considered washing. But there was enough water because

00:52:27 --> 00:52:28

it's a type of ingratitude

00:52:29 --> 00:52:32

and a stinginess of state.

00:52:33 --> 00:52:34

But also to be wasteful

00:52:34 --> 00:52:35

diminishes blessings.

00:52:37 --> 00:52:38

And to be lazy.

00:52:39 --> 00:52:41

It's a quality that one should shake out

00:52:41 --> 00:52:42

of oneself.

00:52:43 --> 00:52:44

And putting things off.

00:52:45 --> 00:52:45

Right?

00:52:47 --> 00:52:47

And to be

00:52:48 --> 00:52:48

just

00:52:50 --> 00:52:53

lackadaisical in attitude, the believer should have a

00:52:53 --> 00:52:54

sense of urgency.

00:52:56 --> 00:52:59

And the prophet never the prophet had

00:53:00 --> 00:53:02

he was circumspect. He did things

00:53:02 --> 00:53:04

gradually and steadily, but he was the most

00:53:04 --> 00:53:07

purposeful human being ever, alayhi salatu

00:53:08 --> 00:53:08

was salaam.

00:53:10 --> 00:53:12

And then we're we're going to finish the

00:53:12 --> 00:53:13

the rest of the text

00:53:13 --> 00:53:14

tomorrow inshallah.

00:53:16 --> 00:53:17

Because we have just

00:53:17 --> 00:53:20

because much of what's left is some other

00:53:20 --> 00:53:22

things that lead to blessing and he mentioned

00:53:22 --> 00:53:24

some of the duas that facilitate

00:53:26 --> 00:53:28

blessing which basically reading. So So we ask

00:53:28 --> 00:53:30

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to put the secret

00:53:30 --> 00:53:32

of increase in all that we do, in

00:53:32 --> 00:53:33

our seeking of knowledge

00:53:34 --> 00:53:35

and in our worship

00:53:35 --> 00:53:36

and in our,

00:53:37 --> 00:53:37

relationships

00:53:38 --> 00:53:39

and our in our striving to be of

00:53:39 --> 00:53:40

service

00:53:40 --> 00:53:41

to his creation

00:53:42 --> 00:53:44

in, you know, seeking him thereby

00:53:44 --> 00:53:47

and likewise in all of one's life.

00:53:49 --> 00:53:50

So that we can be of those whom

00:53:50 --> 00:53:51

Allah's

00:53:51 --> 00:53:53

messenger described that amongst Allah's

00:53:53 --> 00:53:55

servant are those who are

00:53:56 --> 00:53:59

Though of those who are keys of good

00:53:59 --> 00:54:00

and locks against evil.

00:54:01 --> 00:54:02

And the prophet

00:54:04 --> 00:54:06

Those are the ones who've been granted

00:54:07 --> 00:54:08

complete absolution

00:54:08 --> 00:54:10

from hellfire. May Allah make us of those

00:54:10 --> 00:54:11

people.

00:54:16 --> 00:54:18

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