Faraz Rabbani – The Rawha #055 Ten Prophetic Counsels to be in the Circle of Mercy The Five Pillars Islam is Built Upon

Faraz Rabbani
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The importance of strong personal beliefs and values to avoid becoming a Muslim is emphasized, along with acknowledging Islam's obligations and consequences such as migrating from religion and causing harm to parents. The speaker emphasizes fulfilling obligations and remaining firm in one's position, as well as preserving one's own life and spending according to financial standing. The importance of preserving one's own lives and spending according to their financial standing is also discussed. A daily guide is provided for listeners to help reward them with monthly donations.
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In our sessions on

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hadith number 19

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of this collection by the great Sheikh Yusuf

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and Nabihaani

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Hadith number 19 is related by

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and

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you will notice of course that the Sahaba

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had

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particular matters that particular companions asked

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more about.

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Right? The Sahaba had concern

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for guidance.

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One of the great blessings of Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala

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is that Allah placed different kinds of companions

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around the prophet and made so many great

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companions.

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And you notice

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the the the types of questions that particular

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companions

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asked

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more about. And amongst them, as is noticeable

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in this collection, for example, are the number

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of questions asked

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by Sayidna Mu'az

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related

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to Iman.

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Right? The number of questions asked by Sayidna

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Mu'az Ibn Jabal related to Iman.

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So here,

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it's related by Ma'az.

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That he said

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That Allah's messenger

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counseled me

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with 10

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words.

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And like the English language, word, kalima,

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can refer to a

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phrase

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as well.

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I like

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or or to a statement.

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Right? Literally the word of faith, but it's

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a statement

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with

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10 words, meaning 10 statements.

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Says do not associate

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any partners with Allah

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whatsoever

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even if you would be killed and burnt.

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That's the first.

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Right? That these are immutable principles. Whatever you

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do,

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do not.

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We know that in a situation of life

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and death,

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one could utter

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a statement of disbelief.

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But as the Quran says,

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with one's heart being completely sure of faith.

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And this is not taqiyyah.

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Right? This is not,

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dissimulation.

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Right? Because

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being true is an absolute duty,

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but rather

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this is

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only in a situation of life and death,

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right, where if one were to state that

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one believes, one would be killed,

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or one would fear for the loss of

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one's life.

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But even there, this is only in the

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this is only in the the state where

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someone comes to kill you. Right? You cannot

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live in that state. Why?

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Because if you're in a circumstance where you

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have to pretend not to be a Muslim,

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right,

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then Hijra becomes obligatory,

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then migration becomes obligatory. If someone comes up

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to you with a pointing a gun and

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said, do you believe in the divinity of

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Christ?

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And there, one says it, but one could

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say it in order not to be killed.

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Though if one did not say it

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and was killed, one would die a martyr,

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which and that's the. That's a higher resolve.

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But one intends

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in that situation, you believe in the divinity

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of Christ, meaning that it is divinity that

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created Christ.

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Right? But but you cannot

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adopt that as a lifestyle choice. I'm just

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pretending to be

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an evangelical Christian, but I'm actually Muslim.

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Right? You cannot do that in any situation

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where you cannot uphold iman

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and Islam

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and and the obligatory acts of Islam, then

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migration

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becomes obligatory.

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Was not was Allah's earth not vast?

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Right? So that what you would migrate in

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it

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and that's one of the

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situations where it is obligatory to to migrate

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when one cannot uphold

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the

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integrals of one's belief or one's obligatory practice.

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So I just because some people accuse that,

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you know, that Muslims can lie about their

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religion, and that's simply not true.

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Right?

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And it's a corollary, like, if someone were

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asked you know, if someone's

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captured and, you know,

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they are they have,

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like,

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French ancestry 5 generations ago, and they said,

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are you Canadian?

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Someone said no.

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Meaning that I'm not of the original inhabitants

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of Canada, but rather I'm originally so what

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I am, French.

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But they're not the hate the French more

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or something.

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So that's the first.

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The second,

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And do not

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be

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bad to your parents

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even if

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they order you

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to leave

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your

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family

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and your wealth.

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To abandon your family,

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meaning and

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also refers specifically to one's

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spouse, to one's wife,

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and your wealth.

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This does not mean that you

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that ruquq is to be bad to them.

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Right? Ruquq is

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the opposite of

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bir.

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Bir is to be good to one's parents.

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The prophet said.

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Bir is to have good character

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and

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and

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is to complete something.

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Right? Which is why when you make an

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oath,

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if you complete it, it's called

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Barra Bi Amini.

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1 fulfilled

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one's oath. So

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so Bir

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is to fulfill

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what is entailed by good conduct with one's

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parents.

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Right? To

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to carry it out completely.

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Or Uk

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is

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to refuse

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to or to fail to or to fall

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short in

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fulfilling the rights of your parents.

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Right? So it's to be bad to them.

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So even if they command

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the unreasonable,

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right, that you leave your family and you're

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only with them because you wanted to be

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with them.

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Most people don't have children because they didn't

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want to have children.

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They they had children because they chose to.

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Right?

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So, presumably, you

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despite moaning and groaning once and a while

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about them, you do like them.

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Right?

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So presumably, Annie.

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But

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so they command the unreasonable.

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Leave your family,

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leave your husband, leave your wife, leave your,

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or your wealth.

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You only earned it because you wanted it.

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So you ask someone, brother Ehan, why do

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you have 5,000,000 in your bank account? I

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said, I really don't know what it's doing

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there.

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Such a headache. You only accumulated because you

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you wanted it. Right?

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And most people want it a lot.

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You love money with great love.

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So that's the case.

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Then if they command you, the duty is

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not to have. Don't be bad to them

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even when you refuse. No. I won't leave

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my wife. But you don't do it by

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fighting them.

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That even in the unreasonable case,

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one still must uphold good dealings with the

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parents.

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And similar to that is in a situation

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where you must command the good and forbid

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the wrong with with parents,

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even then you cannot do it

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in a manner that would be considered

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to be bad

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to to one's parents,

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right, which is to have

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with them, to have bad character

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and bad conduct

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with them.

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So that's the second principle.

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The

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third,

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Right?

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And do not in any way,

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the command in the Arabic conveys

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emphasis.

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Right? Because it's affirming.

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Right?

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A command

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entails

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a duty.

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Right?

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So it is just putting something as a

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command

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is emphatic.

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Right? If I say say someone

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if I could say, it'd be a good

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idea to serve water.

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Right?

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Well, you say, serve water now.

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Right? It has emphasis,

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but it has the noon of emphasis

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of. Right? And you could say

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Don't leave the obligatory prayer,

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But it'll be general.

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But

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do not leave any obligatory prayer.

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In the indefinite

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because it particularizes

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it.

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Do not leave any

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obligatory

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prayer. The

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is the obligatory prayer

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deliberately.

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Right? Like deliberately meaning in any situation where

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you have

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choice.

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Why?

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Says because whoever

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leaves

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an obligatory prayer deliberately,

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then

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Allah's

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is free of responsibility

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with respect to them.

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Then Allah does not owe them anything.

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Then Allah does not owe them anything.

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I'm meaning that you that that in.

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The covenant between us and them is the

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prayer as the prophet said.

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Right? And why? Because that's a covenant bit

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between

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Allah and his servants

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is the prayer. If you if you if

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you if you are my servants, then pray.

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So that's in a very dangerous

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place to be. Which is why, of course,

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very often

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you

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see people who are in big difficult trials

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and tribulations. One of the first things that

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you have to tell them to do is

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start, yeah, start doing your 5 prayers

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carefully.

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Like, start doing your 5 prayers.

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If you want to be in the protection

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of Allah, the the

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in the circle of mercy,

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perform your 5 prayers.

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Right?

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With as much sincerity as you can. And

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another, which we'll see, and do not engage

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in wrongdoing.

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Leave aside wrongdoing.

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The third is leave aside

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deliberate sin.

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Right? These, you know, these qualities, if you

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want to, these are 10 councils related to

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being in the

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to be in the circle of divine mercy.

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Right?

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So this is a very, very serious

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matter

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about every single prayer.

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And if one does

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even

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forgetfully miss a single prayer,

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then one should repent

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fully from it. And one of the sunnah

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related to that, of course, is to perform

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salat of course, you make up the prayer

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immediately, but also

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pray salat at Tawba.

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Immediately,

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make a fresh and

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pray 2 rakas

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seeking Allah's forgiveness and repenting to him. Right?

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Committing never to return to that.

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Right?

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So what number was that?

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3. The 4th,

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and do not

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drink any wine. And again not Al Khamr

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but Khamran meaning any wine

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in the indefinite. Do not drink

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any wine

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whatsoever.

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Because it is

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the basis of

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every

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corruption.

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The basis of every corruption, every *,

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every lewdness.

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The Fahesha

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is the most despicable of matters. Right? It's

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open sin, open corruptness,

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open

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open displeasure of Allah.

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And they say,

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don't drink wine itself,

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but hamran, any wine would also entail, of

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course,

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if the wine if there's any wine in

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anything else.

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Because many cultures would also cook, for example,

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with wine. Right? So tell me this this

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only a little bit. Alhamr is only when

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it is drunk deliberately.

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Right?

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But you

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avoiding wine also entails avoiding

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where you know, so some, you know,

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French dishes, for example, you know, they pour

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wine over the dish

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and they flambe it, for example, they'll burn

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it. Oh, it burns off. Well, firstly, it

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doesn't all burn off.

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Right?

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And that's also falls under this and many

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other such prohibitions.

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So that was number 4.

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Number 5,

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and beware

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of sin.

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This

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is

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a

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little jinns. Beware of

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sin.

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Because it is

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by

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disobedience

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that divine

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wrath

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dwell descends.

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Is to come upon a place.

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Right? And, of course, it

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Allah told us he overlooks much.

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Right? But there are grades.

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Right? And especially when that becomes

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habit

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and,

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you know,

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and

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state, then that is being outside

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the circle of mercy and the circle of

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wrath.

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Right?

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Says, and beware

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of ever fleeing

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from

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the battlefront

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even if people

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are

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dying.

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Even if people are dying.

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Why?

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Because there,

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the greater good is only preserved

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by your presence

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there.

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K?

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And sometimes, the greater harm

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is warded off by the lesser harm,

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and you die a martyr.

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And this is one of the enormities,

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right, fleeing from

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the

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battle line. Right?

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If one that's where

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one finds oneself,

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Right? That that's

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there, the preservation

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of

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of

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because one only engages in,

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you know, the only

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sit situation where where war would be permitted

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when it's a just war. So whether the

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war the cause of the just war

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is the preservation of religion or the preservation

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of life

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or the warding off of harm.

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Right?

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For you to flee from that is endangering

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the greater good, and none of you believe

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until wish for others of the good that

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they wish for themselves.

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And similar to that, of course, are situations

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where Allah puts 1 in a place where

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one is fulfilling a critical communal obligation,

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and one steps away,

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due to

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one's

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temperamental

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dislike or personal disadvantage

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from it.

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Right? And that and what,

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you know, and the the there's clear texts

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because and one of the situations of that

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is seeking knowledge

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that

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if Allah puts one in a situation where

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one

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is on the front lines of seeking knowledge,

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one has dedicated

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oneself to it, but then

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says, well, I have a career opportunity right

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now, doesn't make sense not to pursue it.

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It's a lot of stress.

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It's it's a lot of work. I'm not

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the right person for the these kind of

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misgivings.

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It's first one is being a fool,

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because the fool acts on the the basis

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of

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their whim. I feel like it. I don't

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feel like it. The the intelligent person,

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that's

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the moral responsibility on the basis of intelligence,

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not inclination,

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is

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acts on the basis of principle.

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Right? And there, if one is in that

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situation, then one has to realize

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that this is that there's a lot

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dependent

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upon that even if there is there is

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apparent disadvantage

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in it.

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And the question, of course, also arises that

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what if one situation where that is facilitated

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for all, but one does not take it

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on.

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Right? So the alluvah say, the is

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where

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one is in the front line, but if

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there's a gap in the front line

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and one stands back,

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then that so one did not actually flee

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from the battlefront, but it's the same

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because one didn't step up where stepping up

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was

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required of 1.

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And there's many

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texts,

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related to that. Right? So beware of fleeing

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from the front lines. And similarly, where Allah

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places you in a situation of

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responsibility.

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Right? Where Allah places you in a situation

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of responsibility,

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you cannot just leave it because of disadvantage

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or or even just disinclination.

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Like, one of my friends, may Allah

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preserve his deen.

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He studied overseas and always a bit of

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a questionable character.

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He, gave this amazing chutba, got people crying,

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and really stirred their emotions.

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Afterwards, a brother came up and said

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said, Sheikh, I want to repent to Allah

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etcetera, and I wanna change my life. I've

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I've been doing a lot of wrong. I

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don't even pray. What do I my friend

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said, you know what?

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I'm kinda hungry right now. Could we talk

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about this later? Could you talk to someone

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else about it?

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Right? And you can't do that because,

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you know, in that situation,

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you know, if you're the only person that

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can go to there, you can't just say,

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well,

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my stake is waiting for me. Right? Like,

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you you can't,

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step back from that

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and other such situations.

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Right? And if

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and and if people

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are afflicted by death and you're amongst them,

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then remain firm.

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This has been there's

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if people are affected by death.

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Right?

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One of the possibilities in this is what

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if a plague

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befalls a land?

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And there's different types of hadiths related. So

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that's beyond the capacity here.

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But if fathbud

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remain firm. The most important thing is remain

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firm inwardly

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that don't be shaken.

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Right?

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Have

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certitude,

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reliance, and trust.

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That's one meaning.

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The other, what has to do with the

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plague, is that how does how does a

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contagious

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plague spread?

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It's by people leaving it

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to and you by they leave it. They

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get they were affected, so it spreads to

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other lands. So

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there's a whole fiqh related to contagious diseases.

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The prophet taught it and actually

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it's very interesting because during the time of

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the prophet there were no

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there were no contagious diseases.

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Right? Like like plagues

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and mass afflictions like this, even though Medina

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had been known for that.

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But then the strange thing, the saber actually

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amazed the prophet talked a lot about it,

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and they were amazed because it

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it wasn't happening

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and and Allah's father had protected Mecca from

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it. Mecca was not known for plagues.

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From the

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mercy of Allah. But the Sahaba, when they

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went to the lands of Sham,

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They all their

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armies were wiped out because of the

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because of their several plagues that befell them.

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The great companions

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of who died

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in in the Jordan Valley.

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A lot of them some of them died

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in the battles like Mu'ta and others. Many

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died in the several plagues that befell the

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Muslims,

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And they knew what to do, but the

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prophet had mentioned it already.

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And the amazing thing and this is this

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is from the

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you know, this is from the proofs of

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prophethood. That the prophet addressed them directly.

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Amongst them saying the Mu'ad ibn Jabal himself,

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who's the add addressed by this hadith,

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he died in the Pa'un.

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He died

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in the Jordan Valley, him and his son.

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They're buried next to each other. And many

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other great companions who died there died

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because,

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people are afflicted by

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death,

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meaning by a plague,

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like the you know, like,

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fatbut.

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Right? So there, part of it so that

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if there's a fear of a plague, one

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can leave the there's an inward response, which

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is tzabeth.

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So don't

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you don't be shaken by it.

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But if if it hasn't befallen yet, then

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the criteria of preservation of your own life

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is given precedence. So you you you

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you can leave, and that'd be from taking

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of the means.

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But where it has now befallen

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a place

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such that there is genuine there's reasonable fear

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that if you leave,

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you could

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it could spread to other lands,

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then

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your leaving would be sinful.

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And the regulation of that

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also relates to this is from the rights

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of

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the and responsibilities of a ruler. If a

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plague happens somewhere, so one of the duties

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of the ruler say, no one may leave

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the city.

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Why? To preserve

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the the health and well-being elsewhere or or

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they could, you know, by seeking expert attention,

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they could specify it.

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No one who has, you know,

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engaged in such and such activity may may

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leave, lest that be that spread elsewhere. So

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it could be,

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and that which is why interestingly in the

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middle ages, for example,

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the

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despite the series of plagues that ravaged Europe,

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nothing like that happened in in in Muslim

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lands.

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Right? There was much

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lesser

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spread of

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of contagion.

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And then it and the prophet

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continued.

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Says, and

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spend upon

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those who are dependent upon you

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from your capacity.

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Right? From your capacity. And this is the

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basis of how you spend on your and

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this is from your good capacity.

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K. The is from your your

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good capacity, meaning

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the the nafakah,

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the expected

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spending on on family is to in accordance

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with capacity

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or positive capacity.

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In the sense that, you know, if you

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want when you make a budget, you

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could

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define it negatively. Well, I can only do

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this because I also want to save for

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this, and I want to save for this,

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I want to save for this, and say

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save for this. We don't have any money

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whatsoever.

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We're just gonna have, like but rather,

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one spends

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in a good way.

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Right?

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As Allah

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tells us in the Quran. And that's the

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sense of in accordance with your capacity

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in a good way.

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And part of the consideration in that is

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one takes into account

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what your

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financial standing is and what's reasonable given your

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financial stand customarily reasonable,

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given your financial standing,

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and the social background

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and upbringing of your wife.

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Right? Because people are prisoners of their,

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They say a person is a prisoner

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of their habits.

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So what they are habituated to, you can't,

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you know and within within the bounds of

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what's reasonable, one cannot negate that. And then

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the prophet said,

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Right?

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So

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and do not lift from them your

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staff

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out of Adam.

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Right? And this

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and there's other hadith that I mentioned and

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keep

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your,

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your

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your stick

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on your

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wall.

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What what it means is that instill a

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sense of discipline in your

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family.

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Several of these. 1, the prophet

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said not he never hit a child

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nor a spouse nor a servant nor even

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an animal.

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That's number 1.

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Number 2,

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hitting with a stick

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is not permitted

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according to most of Islamic scholarship.

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Even if were one were to hit

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a child, for example, one can only hit

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with a hand not with a stick. Right?

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Even if

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though there's discussion

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on that. Right? So this is

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don't don't lift it. Lift it, understood literally,

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will mean that always hit them

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to instill Adam in them.

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Right? Which would be absurd

00:32:03 --> 00:32:06

because if you understand it literally, then we

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

never lift from them

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the the stick. We always hit them.

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Right? Out of Adam.

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So it's clearly not general. So it

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and and it's

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so the most of the I said

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mean that

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give a sense

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instill a sense of discipline. Why?

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Yeah.

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To instill adab in them. That

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that that adab in the instilling of adab

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requires

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firmness

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and discipline.

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Right?

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And instilling that requires having a sense of

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repercussion.

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And instill in them

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fear for Allah.

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And then we'll be able to get to

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the

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next

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level of the next level of the next

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level of the next level of the next

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level of the next level of the next

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level of the next level of the next

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level of the next level of the

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So the messenger of Allah

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said

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Islam was built upon 5.

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The testification

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that there is no god

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but Allah

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and

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that Muhammad is

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the messenger of Allah

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and establishing prayer.

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Is Zakah and giving Zakat.

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And

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the Hajj was Ramadan

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and fasting Ramadan. This is related by Bukhary,

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and we're familiar

00:34:03 --> 00:34:05

with with this Hadith.

00:34:07 --> 00:34:08

So

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we'll we'll continue tomorrow

00:34:11 --> 00:34:13

with Hadith number 21.

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