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hemara cattle and MSL Mr. haben Welcome to Al mushrif on radio Islam international it is most certainly Thursday morning in the great excitement for Thursday morning is our anticipation in listening to our esteemed guests and brother, brother Idris camisa all the way from Durban salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
Monica My beloved Milena
so much when am I going to see you?
It is I am coming specially to visit you next weekend or next you cannot offend me I'm not going to be around well and I will not have a country
that my willful visit to
you going out of your way for me?
Listen accept this if I didn't accept all the efforts that you're making? Yeah, I mean, I mean, that's how life is But how was your Ramadan completion and your eat?
quickest Ramadan is an indication that
you're giving all you know that I must tell you one of the finest events I've ever been to the one that Mana nakatani addressed in seventrust very emotional he says the hearts of everyone you know and he knows that very very pressing point as he always does is that he said when you look around what's happening at the oma we blame the technology we blame everything else. But he says that we need to look at ourselves and our own
political dimension. And so just very very powerful anxiety every every breath you have somebody dynamic scholars you know I landed in LA and hamburgers and sugar and how is your whole eat it this way? Well under law I went there to presets in the very do and those of you have memberships and you'll be depressed is a beautiful place. It's a lovely place your mom sitting here with you know like my sister's happy man and Sophia in the heightened and listening to this and this marriage technology ships and Alhamdulillah so you have the Lenten September in September, and that was good to reconnect with your family and some happy delivery not for eat and I think some of the other will
have it will impinge on our relationships.
Yes they eat is a beautiful and unique day.
It is a humbler a beautiful day, where somehow we overlook whatever
differences we may be having disputes, whatever problems you may be having with each other, maybe just focus and family now on joining days, on making friends making brothers and on building relationships. Absolutely. That is very, very critical. is the time of forgiveness. The time of reconnection is a time of celebration. It's a happy time Alhamdulillah and he does indeed you can feel Allah's mercy descending on homes, you can feel it Alhamdulillah yes and that is
that is the promise from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam that it is the day of his identity of reward from Allah subhanho wa Taala and
it is a win win return to Allah subhanho wa Taala in begging and asking from Allah and Allah subhanaw taala grants us the award in turn for for what we have done and we can really find the effects of those rewards shining on the faces of those who Alhamdulillah have have dedicated themselves to throughout the month of Ramadan
What do you think is so true Milan at the same time, you know, forget the properties of these things you know
Okay, so in the manner in I'm so happy that you're talking about this and so, in that I pray inshallah you know that people begin to understand the value of togetherness, the value of spending time with each other, because if we don't do this, then slowly slowly we will eliminate ourselves from each other, you know?
Yes, yes, this is going to be distancing ourselves from each other and unless Allah gives us these opportunities of aid and special occasions, and it just brings us together Alhamdulillah Allah Shaka it is where you are in Joburg. Are you on
holiday you're just visiting.
You know, I just came here for a meeting and said nothing too good when I decided to pick an earlier flight, you know, so I'm going back now, and Sharla has to cancel the other meetings, but the only way you know
so well we'll want
to make sense.
we are speaking to Idris camisa. Hunting I was in Joburg this week and we are discussing social issues you listening to our message on the SAM International, there is a lot that is going on around in the world in this lot that is happening, what's affecting the Muslim Ummah and we should make dua to Allah subhanho wa Taala.
And that Allah subhanaw taala makes it easy for us Allah subhanaw taala Francis is here and he is to the Muslim ummah. And Allah subhanaw taala protects us all our definitely our thoughts, and our hearts go out to those people who are going through difficulties and we cannot enjoy our meals we cannot enjoy our lives because of the difficulties that our brothers are going through around the world and like the hadith of enemies of Allah, Allah Islam says that the Muslim Ummah is like one body, when one part of the body is experiencing some frame, then the entire body definitely experiences discomfort and when any brother of ours or sister or child or mother is suffering and
going through difficulty in any part of the world and definitely brings discomfort through every single one of us. And it is by
okay seems like it is my as drop the line there, I can try and get him back on the line insha Allah Allah says you're most welcome to SMS your questions to 0731738461 you can email me as well if you like on zunaid just gmail.com and you can tweet me as well. And the Twitter handle is at zoom just at zoom just says u n j s and
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what Allah subhanaw taala has has blessed us with Allah Allah has granted us afia and ceramah t protection and comfort and, and ease and we should make the same. The last panatela transit to all Muslims, it is very easy. is a big? Okay. Some of the issues that maybe you've been dealing with it we can take lesson from inshallah GGG Alhamdulillah. The many, many issues. The one issue is this, that
a very disturbing contagion, you hear of, of parents
who, because they have a conflict, and they try to win the hearts of the children
by destroying the other and some of them even have the audacity to
get the kids to hit the parents, you know, this is very, very disturbing. There's one the other issue I'll share with you, we'll be talking about it. The other issue that is very, very disturbing, is you know, you get people that I think when they get into you know, as this legal stuff, and millions upon millions and lost fighting this case, you know, and they are no witness, they are no winners whatsoever, right? That's the third thing that you're also very critical is the fact that you know,
also the law, they have the challenges, they need to be more assertive when it comes to the children in the sense that it seems there seems to be some problem with the line I asked our engineer to call you back because there's some distortion in the line. And we're going to try and get you back on the line.
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Hey, welcome back to my secondary slump, the nationalist tried to correct the problems that we're having with prep, he says nine and we welcome our guest back on the line it is my welcome back.
Good to be back. Milena. Okay, there'll be line is clear now that we've called you back in some houses, let's just go recap that, which you were discussing about the problems that you you've been dealing with.
The one is the whole issue about a friend standing up
and doing nothing, when he sees his kids being abused
by one of the spouses. The other one is, when issues can be resolved, will not resolve it. Instead, they want to fight it in that, in that, in that instance, machine gun deaths in the public, right.
And the third thing that is also of great concern that our fathers, you know, really is supposed to be the meat of the home. And suddenly, they're not asserting themselves in that way.
And the fourth thing,
you know, I'm done just come is gone. And
we must not forget
the lessons of Ramadan. But if you look around you, and is uj you'd be surprised you wonder whether we ever experienced Ramadan? So these are some of the effects that affect us, you know, okay. And
in these problems that you have been counseling in dealing with
the obviously span across many different age groups and generations of people, and the pilots have your problems usually is by finding it with the younger generation couples? Or do you find that it goes across the generation gets
died one time,
you would think this is for young nursing couples, selecting couples who are naive, but today,
it goes against the age group, you know, you've given it for 50 years, 40 years, you also got the issues in the marriage, and something that we need
to resolve in a meaningful way. And that think, you know, what,
and therefore, I mean, in terms when the kids complain to you about the marriage partner, you know, it's very, very important
that you you know, instrument to an objective mediator does not support your doctor because he's a doctor you support what is right so if it goes across the board and and what what is it more than anything else more than a the fact that that we don't seem to be affected by it? You know, people speak about the fact that he said he believes you heard my drop his back is like a news item. It's not like you know, or you know, we feel so bad and these don't seem to be any remarks any compunctions or anything emotional about it, you know.
And then the these these type of problems, you deal with people of many different backgrounds as well city people, sound people, country people, rich poor, as well. And obviously, these problems don't have specifics for for the wealth status as well it goes across the board. Now, the question would then come up to you is why is that is there different ways a different solution for people of different backgrounds is the one solution is the one problem is a common seats, the problems that that you are finding
in the very critical
I go look at
each situation, you know, in a sense and I generalize, every situation is unique even to people who come with a similar problem from the same background, but it is really convenient to understand that because as individuals, we are unique. So, it is not enough
for you to what it gets goes across the board.
And what is the root cause, sometimes when people come to you,
they share a problem with you.
But the reality is what we are telling you is only a tip of the iceberg, there is a deeper underlying problem, right?
Which we need to understand that it is in that way
you can help people, therefore,
I always emphasize
I said it so often on the radio that we got to we got to do this free Metro counseling in a much more organized way,
in a meaningful way. So people understand, what are the dynamics and relationship? What are some of the challenges they'll come across and how they need to deal with it.
Okay, let me just remind our listeners that
we speaking to our esteemed guest, it is Cammisa and we discussing social issues. And if there's anything that you would like to bring up any questions that you may be having, please bring it up on SMS or WhatsApp. 0731738461 you can alternatively call and come live on a 111854 and 548. Or you can email to nature sothat gmail.com, and I'll take your calls, I'll take your emails, as well. inshallah, so there's many media that you can contact us via It is very current to the issue of Ramadan and coming out of the month of Ramadan social issues that we are meant to learn during the month of Ramadan, perhaps you could give us some advice in that regard.
I think, you know, the month of Ramadan should have taught us patience,
forgiveness, such as about self respect,
respecting the others, such as about respecting the social institution of marriage, such as many things about our children.
These are lessons
we could have learned because Alhamdulillah you had this year and the month of Ramadan in our homes, has been unbelievable.
Only Allah mercy. Right. And we and we need to sustain that, you know, we need to make sure we work at it together. So that in the end,
that things of greater joy with a family families together and families together Alhamdulillah then we're winning, you know.
Yes. And among the lessons of patience that from avani supposed to teach us that is one of the most important lessons and the thing, vivid traits and qualities that can really either make our relationships a success or with impatience can be a means of causing endless heartache, eventually and ourselves and all the time and others as well.
Yes, yourself, you know. So I think
the the point of patience the point I'm making something which is so critical, because nothing, nothing happens except the will of Allah. And if it's coming from Allah, that we need to respond to it accordingly. The no need for anger and so on and so forth. Suddenly, you only see I love mercy when good things happen to us. We never see it when we are challenges sometimes the challenge is far more important than the good things because the challenge will bring you closer to Allah shall.
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It is very easy.
Okay to allow seven for joining us once again.
It gives me some advices for marriage, Ramadan is over and people are from the dinar have had an opportunity of betting upsize, making math learning different lessons or from the last patients have different aspects. Now to come into the aspect of the topic of marriage. How do we implement these advices in our marriages?
and the mental things
we need to look at.
I think internet needs to understand
that your wife or your husband
is different from you. They've had different life experiences. So you need to recognize that it's very different. We are unique. That will make a difference because so many people want to change the other one. The second critical thing is this
you must talk to each other, for nothing rejection and left
in anger, and in Congress,
because communication is fundamental in marriage.
The third thing,
is all elements of forgiveness,
you're going to make mistakes will continue to make mistakes, but to constantly remind your spouse, that a mistake the person made some years ago,
well, that makes for a healthy relationship.
Jada has figured it physical
is how this
can help each other. To occasion now, it's very important how can we help each other attain them.
And the last point,
semi hopefully interesting is this
that we need to look at.
We can grow together emotionally, spiritually,
in interview either way, because in the end,
that the author use the relationship with your spouse is not going to help you to attain them. So please, for me,
very critical thing, something that we need to understand
and something that we need to promote in our family. And that to me is fundamental, that we should do that. Nothing is about
every day. And you
know, say you enjoy each other's company. enjoy the company of your chairman.
Nikita happy time. It mustn't be that every time you walk into the home, these elements of tension and frustration. So these are several things I believe, that are very critical.
These are a few of the important points. And the development of taqwa in the month of Ramadan is is is an essential that is what Allah subhanho wa Taala has meant to Ramadan for for us to develop taqwa. And once once a person develops that software then automatically that taqwa has to be exercised in Nika and laqua is a direct link with Nika because the Holika kotoba is to do was taqwa
in our behavior, with our wives, our behavior within a medical home, all depends on the amount of stuff where we have and it's not just for the husband, that husband and wife both individually pulled up the taqwa. And that would lead to a manage of
the fact that in the marital relations with everything derived because you ever present your will, that you're not going to do anything to dsba this
is a very understanding and compassionate and this is a fundamental thing, just you know, we need to work very, very hard at it, we need to ensure that you know, we develop that because once you get 100 in that you'll get mutual respect.
And you're getting closer together to do whatever is good. So that was his fundamental discussion critical.
And then the taco obviously then
takes us to the level of, of recognizing Allah subhanho wa Taala and understanding the Oneness the greatness of Allah subhanaw taala that tougher becomes a means of us then
being able to respect our spouses being able to stay away from the type of behavior that is going to harm and hurt them as well. Absolutely Absolutely.
Miss Amanda we
speak for five more minutes inshallah the the what you're saying is so true. And Melanie I will your permission, I know I could say this in Charlotte this Saturday I'm doing a public speaking program in the polite weapon along the levees a huge demand for the space and always interested in Durban or London are also coming in
not only among young people, old people, so it's a really exciting program. So I sort of mentioned that they could contact me they want to get placed inshallah. inshallah.
Okay. So it is why you should come Zealand for your time, inshallah inventing
and we'll be in touch inshallah. inshallah so from Santa Monica rahmatullah wa barakato.
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are in a state now, where we perhaps do not find any
activity or any response that we can put forward to the atrocity that is getting on in Azusa and equally in Syria, equally in Burma equally in Central African Republic. And equally in, in Turkmenistan legal Muslims who live the the shinjang province and
equally in the other parts of the world where Muslims are going through through the different challenges that Allah subhanaw taala has been putting them through and like we mentioned previously, that indeed,
it is testing challenges from Allah subhana wa tzd. Indeed it is sign of our Eman in Allah Subhana Allah, Allah subhanho wa Taala to put the Muslims through a test. It's actually a sign that this Muslim has Eman in a lot of ways that and this Imani Allah subhanho wa Taala is really
what drives us it is really what what brings us closer to Allah subhanho wa Taala. These tests are what increases our demand. And this is what the enemies of Islam, the enemies of Allah subhanaw taala failed to notice and fail to realize over the centuries, they haven't realized this one simple thing that
the reality of it came about after the Battle of boyhood and Sahaba de la Han home. well on the way back to Madina munawwara and they were obviously nursing, those who are injured and themselves very exhausted and tired and many were injured.
And then he, an informant comes to them while they are in the state and died. And they've had a long day. And performance comes to them and says to them, you know, the problem that you are facing right now is that the Quraysh have decided to re launch in a deck against you with extra arms and analyze
and behave lots that they can still attack us. And now that you're at your weakest and most tired, they're ready to annihilate you completely. And this habit of Dylan who listened to this, and then they replied,
and they said that, yes, he has a baby. And we remind him Allah subhanaw taala is stronger than it ever was, and you're ready to face the enemy. And
the last panel that I mentioned this, I must have handled it was so
impressed by the response of the habit of Ilan Musk, another dimension it's an operatic dream, when it is said to them, that indeed the people have gathered to destroy your
facade from imana then indeed it increased them in a man in Allah subhanaw taala.
increased their reliance on Allah subhanho data and returned to them
Muscle panels honor and big a must Hamilton has mercy and must handle Dinah's assistance.
So, inshallah Allah Aziz, we
are also Muslims facing different tests is
Muslims facing different nature of tests, but most certainly, no matter how much you try and put this Muslim down, he is going to come up even stronger, even harder, even higher, even better, even more firm in faith. And this is what oh enemy of Allah, you do not realize, you do not understand that my Eman every time you try and suppress it actually grows even stronger. This is the beauty of a man and this is
the greatness of the man that Allah Subhana Allah has blessed us with Alhamdulillah Allah sugar Well, it's just gone now seven minutes before 12 may drive with Allah subhanaw taala. Francis Eman was parameter increases us imagine that we can we can engage in different types of fundraising activities in some houses.
We can engage in different types of activities in such a manner as is to make door to door draw the mercy of Allah subhanaw taala to rebuild the infrastructure of Azusa inshallah, once this whole aggression and this whole ethnic cleansing in this whole demolition of Gaza is completed. In the end, the Israelis finally feel that they are separated with what we have done, and they feel that now they've had the finishing of what the damage they wanted to do to the
Muslims. Once they are done with that, then inshallah Aziz, we will
rebuild and we will come out better, stronger. And we will insert a CSV a greater, more unified than ever and one thing that is happening as a means of this is that Muslims around the world are uniting. And the more they want to divide us the more we are uniting and Hungary and Russia. It's six months before 12 listening pharmaceutical ready slam international brings us to the end of our program. She come to my studio operator
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