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rajim Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem la parada, Canada goofy rasulillah Hassan Hassan Lehman con el de la Voluma. After further caravaca

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respected all ama elders and brothers We begin by praising Almighty Allah for the many favors Allah has bestowed upon us. Amongst which Allah Allah says specifically lapad mundo la vida mini na ba Sufi Mara Suliman unfussy him, I have done you a tremendous favor by sending the nebi of Almighty Allah Myra school to you, who came to you from amongst your own kind from amongst human beings. And there is a special reason for that, which I will go on to make mention. We send salutations upon our beloved via Kareem Sinhala Hollywood cinema. The Spectre brothers. Earlier on one honestly man, Robert, Mr. Habib has spoken about aspects of the greatness of our beloved nebia Kareem salsa. And

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the reality is, we will never ever be able to do justice to the greatness of our beloved nebia corinthos animals. The old do poet has very beautifully said it. And Mara whom Junaid Jamshed Rama colada used to very edek eloquently expressed that Mustafa Mustafa Terra moto Santa Maria Bismillah he made a disinterest many Oh prophet of Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala to praise you is beyond me. I cannot do so. They call him Medina. He looked around at my heart doesn't have the capacity. My tongue and my words do not have the necessary eloquence to praise you as is your due to tsakos energy to soco Hina. He just to say In brief, there is no one like you. There is no one like you.

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However, the greatness of our beloved nebia Kareem salsa should never must defy his life, to the extent that we don't take benefit from his life. After all, Allah tala had said Lacan eloquently rasulillah he was Fortuna Santa in the life of our beloved nebia Kareem salsa. You have a perfect example in every aspect. And that is the reason why Allah subhanho wa Taala had put our beloved Nivea cream sauce, through various stages in his life, various trials, various situations Come come upon our beloved nursery salsa. And let me just say very briefly, that a true life that is put forward as an example can only be an example,

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if it serves as an inspiration and a guide for humanity till the Day of kiama. In the various backgrounds in the various professions, then only it can be a perfect example. And the VA cream sauce in life satisfied that criteria for an ideal example, different situations came upon our beloved Maria Kareem salsa, sometimes there was happiness, sometimes it was sadness, sometimes there was laughter sometimes there was tears. Sometimes there was in a battlefield there was victory, sometimes there were setbacks. And even within our own life, you know, we have different moods, sometimes we are we are sad, sometimes we are happy. And the perfect example and the perfect life

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can only be if it is an inspiration and a guide in his example to humanity, in its different professions, in his very professions, and in a human being in his individual different aspects of his life. That life which is a true example, would be able to be an inspiration and motivation for humanity. It is different profession, different backgrounds, and in a individual life in our different circumstances, and they'll be occurring salsals life fulfilled. Let me give you some examples. One of the greatest examples we find from our beloved Nivea cream salon. And I would like us to be able to take these examples and put it forward into our life. How did our beloved Navy

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occur in South Salem teach us how to relate with Allah subhanho wa Taala you know, in our in our history, in the indo Pak subcontinent, there was a very great Ireland in a very great orator. monarto la vaca used to speak for hours and people used to come and listen to it, even non Muslims would come and listen to him and he

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A very amazing way of putting things forward. And one day he put this aspect of how maybe a Kareem saw Selim turned towards Almighty Allah despite his greatness, how he put it. He said minaret Hacienda Suhasini awesomeness Araya jameelah management azariah karimova cogniser. If I saw a human being who was the most beautiful of anyone who could lay claim to beauty, the most graceful, the most elegant, the greatest person who Allah subhanho wa Taala created the one that Allah tala took an oath in the Holy Quran. With regard to his life, llama rock, the one about whom Allah tala took an oath when his speech was clearly he or have been the highlight

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the one about whom Allah subhanho wa Taala took an oath in the city that he resided because he resided in the city, Lao Tzu Be humble but wonderful, be humble. And he was such a great human being. When you said yes to something it became. When he said no to something, it became haram mahatama Rasul Falco, hamana hamanako Fanta who says Allah tala in the true nature of the Holy Quran, I can go on making mention with regard to various aspects of his greatness. But just to tell you he was such a great human being. And the author says that for a moment, I thought, if I have a problem, if I have a difficulty, I will go and knock at his door to ask him for assistance. So you

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say went through the means of his biography. I went to knock at his door to ask for assistance. I saw the entire creation was sleeping. And this great human being who's some of his greatness I have just sort of very briefly mentioned, this great human being. Omar nutana, speaks about so greatly in the Holy Quran. We Allah, Allah says, Allah, Allah has this great human being. He was crying in front of someone else with regard to his needs. And he was making dua to Almighty Allah into as they find known about, Oh Allah, if you punish my bonds you might own but you are entitled to punish them because they are Your servants. You can punish them if you want to interfere alone, but if you

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forgive them, for in the cantle, as usual, Hakeem, you also have the power and the ability in the capacity to forgive them. He said, then my mind made a decision. So go to such great people for assistance. Go to that been when even such great people go and ask assistance from he taught us to go and ask Allah subhana wa Taala he taught us the status despite his greatness, that we are supposed to fear Allah subhanho wa Taala monona had made mention with regard to how we occur in Salalah Saddam's feet was to swell by being in a bother, although he was so great. And Subhanallah You know, there's one very beautiful insert in the books of Hadith, maybe occurring so long as silom

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one day as the library Massoud for Bula. read the Quran for me. And Abdullah said Accra Alec

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should I read it for you a prophet of Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala when it has been revealed unto you, so to be occurring, saw some set in New York Hippo and a smart woman lady. I would love to hear the Quran from someone else today. And many times it happens we are in a mood sometimes of reading the Koran sometimes we are in the mood of listening to the Holy Quran. So nebbia Kareem saw some set in New Mexico and a smart woman lady. Today I would like to listen to the Quran from someone else of gladness with Raphael automa said, I started speaking and I started reading from Surah Nisa, when I came to the island 45 min khulumani mushahid

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shahida and the essence of that verse is nebia Crenshaw, solemn alum would be a witness for the previous cambiemos salat wa salam that they had fulfill the responsibility of propagating Allah message to the people. And Abdullah Masuda. villalta who said while I was reading may be occurring SOS Lim put his head put my mouth and said has Poka Yoke evening was good evening was good enough enough, and I looked that up occurring saucer for gullible buka that's tears had overwhelmed maybe occurring to the extent that his beard was wet out of the few of

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his beard was wet out of listening to the column of Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala. This is the nebi that had such a great trend and that was his fear of Almighty Allah what is supposed to be our fear what is supposed to be our relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala This is one example therefore luckily in the differences for either ferrata fun sub for Isla Robic When you have completed your task, and the accounting system starts with a very, very, very great task. The task of number one, the task of propagating a mass message and letter A tells me a Kareem salsa. When you have completed your task, tie yourself in turn towards Almighty Allah. This this is a command that

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is a to us also, we finish over liters. You finish your responsibility. tie yourself in

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Remembering

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This is one aspect of aspect of spirituality. Now many times we would think that a person who is so engrossed in he bothered and he is so engrossed in turning towards Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala as it happens many times in our life we don't have balance. So many times they think that he is so engrossed he doesn't have perhaps time to look after his family. He doesn't have time to spend what we put in today's time seek quality time with his family.

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Maybe we sacrifice upon our beloved novia careersource alum annasophia Walton who says Mara A to A hadn't gone out Ghana Hamad Al Sula, he said,

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I never saw anyone who was more merciful to his family than Libya Kareem Salah.

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I never saw anyone who was more merciful to his family than maybe a curry. So listen, I believe Avi Allahu Allah. Allah says, One day it was after he shot went to nebbia Kareem sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and Libya krimson Allah Allah he was selling was relaxing. And let me occur in Salah Salem was lying down, and his grandson was on his stomach. When the grandson was on the stomach of our beloved nebia Kareem saw cillum he passed water. He is the past marine. He said we were the Sahaba we couldn't bear it. So we rushed forward. We rush toward How can you do this to the Navy. And the times it happens. But maybe Kareem saw silom this was his grandson. They looked upon me solemn as a

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Navy. So they rushed over in the vehicle. He sort of said, Stop, stop. Don't do anything to microsensor leave him leave him he has done something which a normal child will do go and fetch water. I will wash myself but don't do anything and don't review don't shock my friends and recently I was reading a book of you know, salary, you know is written various books on various great personalities. So he in his book about as an assembler VM Alterna. I just read an amazing incident. He said in the time of Marwan who was the governor of Madina, munawwara he said, Marwan came to me

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and Marwan came and said, Oh, Abu huraira Tell me why do you love Hassan Hussein so much?

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or whatever? Tell me why do you love it so much? There was about a rivalry between the Maja Giovanni ashram which is a well known fact of history. So Marwan came and said, Oh, Abu huraira Why do you show so much respect and regard to a certain Hussein and the books of history says that he was he was lying down, a Buddha was lying down. When Marwan asked him this question, who got up and said,

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Marwan Are you asking me why? I will show you a Greek god who says, One day we were going in an expedition we were born in a traveler, and Hassan Hussein that he allowed to land Rakhine and Libya, himself. rush to the 10th of Fatima. Oh, Fatima, why my children crying? Why are my children crying? And she said, jasola I can't do anything. Oh, my beloved father, they are crying because of thirst and there is no water.

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They are crying because of her Sunday's no water. The books of history said Navy Academy system said

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it put Hassan Hussain on his lap. And he took out his tongue. And he said oh my children,

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suck the moisture on my tongue and satisfy this.

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Set the the moisture on my tongue and satisfy your thirst.

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And I will go Marwan Verona you asking me why Surely,

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to these people. These are the people that the memory of Allah

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knows this is how many attorneys also have dealt with his family. Know as an SME altona says Mara eight to 100, Ghana.

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He said, I never saw anyone who was more merciful to his family than Libya, Kareem Sonam. Whether it be with his wives, whether it be with with these children with the grandchildren, this is how we never dealt with them. If you want to deal with your family, don't use the excuse of piety of not being kind and compassionate and showing love to your children and to your family members. And maybe of Allah was more pious in us, but look at his love that he had for his children and his family members.

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One of the aspects that we are supposed to speak about is that we are living today in a time of negativity.

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And this is something that is common. People love negativity, people love negative news. Now I always like to give this example that you know if in our timber symbol airports in one day there are 10 flights that land safely and there is no problem or those flights will never never make the headlines. To never see a headline 20 flights land safely in or combo never putting the

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A crash landing or one particular airline has to make an emergency landing everyone you know it will be the next day in the US.

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Emirates flight makes emergency landing in our demo. Why? Because we like sensationalism positive news. We don't like look at social media today. There are so many things that happened positively in our life. But we will never ever pass that thing. We will never forward it. What What, what? What accolades Do you get in forwarding, good news. Let there be one aspect of gossip. Let it be one controversy. Let there be one thing with regard to someone's you know, name being branded in an unfavorable light? How do we like to take it? I must be the first one to send it out to people in the group. I must be the first one to send it. I mean, where do we get that from the Sharia injure

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confessor convener, but impeccable. You know, if anyone comes to you with newspapers verified? No, yeah, it's not a matter of verification, according to what the Quran says. You're used to see I'm the first in the group to bring this particular user.

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But that's how we do that's we and normally is all about negative aspects because there is a thing that we like to for the most. Our beloved reoccurring sources taught us learn to take positive. Learn to take that which is positive. Stay away from that which is negative one in every occurrence

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as people I want a camel to be both who volunteers to move the camera. One person got up era school Alma with the camera. What's your name? Maura, what is the meaning of Maura better than me? So say do you sit down? Sit down. Next person got up? Yes. Well, I volunteer. What is your name? gemorah. burning coal sat down.

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The third person got up. What is your name? What's your name? He also said Maura sat down. Maura means Berta. The fourth person got up Yeah. jasola I volunteer. What is your name? Yeah, ish. He's been one who has a long life with blessedness. We saw some said you were

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how maybe occur himself sort of stayed away from negativity into positivity. In the time of good idea. When Debbie occurring so loud SLM was in a very tense time. sahaabah want to make hombre. And Americans have taken the oath that they will not allow them to make ombre because anti Arabia will say that Mohammed and his companions overwhelmed the parish.

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And that particular time, it was a tense time that we saw slim deltona. Sahaba. If they put forward to me anything with regard to peace, I will, I will sign that peace treaty, I will go towards peace and maybe saw Islam himself wanted peace for various reasons, which the scope of this talk doesn't allow me to say that and it's a topic on his own, how to be occurring Salah Salem, when for peace in the Treaty of Arabia, you know, and what great lessons and what great benefits accrue to the oma because of the peace.

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And then at that particular time, they'll be occurring saw some years they'll be occurring to the Lavalier some years that the chief negotiator of the parish has been appointed, and his name is Sohail.

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So he'll be in Amman later on became a Muslim that time he was leading the parish in in the treaty in negotiating the treaty. So now we are Kareem solemn said because the words for hate comes from the word Sol easy via cream sauce, some said, inshallah, from now on, things will become easy for you learn to take the positive, learn to eschew the negative, this is what we learn from reoccurring. sosna there were say when he said that he saw swim is the best example. This is what we are supposed to learn. This is what we are supposed to bring ourselves up. Kareem saw someone had he either at that tomasa failure after failure for sale for Scylla failure Risa, if any one of you

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is about to plant a seedling

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and he is the template of Yarmouth been grown?

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Then don't let him say that what is the use of me planting a seedling now when chiamata company has been grown, who's gonna benefit from the seed? Who's gonna benefit from this three year cream sauce? Tim said, plant the seed.

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plant the seed even at that time. Others learn to be positive. Learn to do good deeds, learn to stay away from negativity. These are some of the examples we learn from the life of nebbia Kareem salatu salam, via Kareem saw cillum in his interaction with people, what did he teach us? He taught us have a clean heart. He told me along with Andrew Jamelia in Qatar and to see hava Thompson. Oh my oh my oh my suppose one. If you can spend a morning or an evening if you can spend a morning and evening where well as a physical picker

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efficiently

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where your heart is free from menace, hatred against every human being, then do so thoroughly coming soon. Because this is my summary. Spend a morning, spend an evening where your heart is free from malice and hatred against every human being and maybe a cream sauce and said daddy come in sumati This is my pseudonym Marana Solomon had made mention that the external aspect is also part of the sooner but this is also a sooner the attitude of novia Karim salsa that spent a morning spend an evening where your heart is free from malice and hatred against every human being salika min sumati This is my sadhana Romana hapa sumati for the harmony he loves my son that loves me He loves me

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We'll be together with me and Jenna maybe occur himself while he was self taught people Rachmat and kindness and compassion

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today we feel as if the the perception with regard to Dean has become that Dean is to be harsh Dean is to be you know the whole aspect is that Dean must be you know we must be serious we must stay away from things that that are you know time and compassionate we must not have that. I mean that was not the overall temperament of our beloved maybe a caramel sauce. What was nopea cream sauce is better known for what was that the various attributes of nopea cream sauce from that came to the fore

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who said that maybe occurring salsa masala food was Ooh La tala prophet of Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala make dua to Allah mushrikeen ko and this the mushrikeen

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and nebia Karim so loud Islam said in the US through LA

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I have not been sent by Allah to curse people.

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I have not been sent back a lot because these were people I have been sent as Martinez a mercy to or for humanity.

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This is what maybe a curry sauce would permit me to be allowed to say in the Battle of whether I mean the Battle of hype when Libya Kareem sallahu wa sallam was wounded and blood was flowing from the face of our beloved maybe a cream sauce from Sahaba found it very difficult nothing more greater and more difficult for the Sahaba then to see in a cream sauce lemon pain and when they saw on the via cream sauce lamb in this situation they said yaroslava law now go in first the people have mushrikeen now going because the Catherine yasue are now going to use them now surely

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Now is the time to go and curse them and the Sava wanted that you've never saw some curse there the copier the machine knows why in the battlefield and then allows other will come upon them and they will be destroyed. And of course when you see the VSL selling in that situation, maybe that particular type of situation, and that sentiment could have come in anyone's so the Sahaba said nebbia Kareem saw cillum lifted his hands into and when he lifted up his den his hands into a wood Bobby Walker said I listened now properly I said now maybe he's going to curse and the adult is gonna come and what did you say? hula hula the home for

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him mercy upon my people for the ignorant will not give them and all of them with you know those were in the forefront of mutilating the body of as an observer the a long time they became Muslims. They became so long while he was self taught us this kindness. And he taught us this particular type. As it

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says that nivia creme de la was set up Mark we hear a lot while he was still in beta and rain in LA for the

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millennia.

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Whenever

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he was given

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an option to choose between two situations. He always chose the easy option as long as it was not Ghanaians.

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Whenever we occur himself silom was given the option of choosing between two options. He always chose the easier option as long as it is not common. It was not gonna answer. He told us admire the retrieval of your Louboutin bashira tuna Sera, Sera Sera when he was setting into to Yemen Omar, give people glad tidings don't turn them against religion. Don't create hatred amongst them. make things easy for people want to not make things difficult for people and that's why they've been given the ultimate one amazing incident came one day as a martini Gemma the drama came can be a cream saucer to complain about another person about another salary. And he said jasola this person

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is a manavi he's a hypocrite. Why is he a hypocrite Omar? What makes you say he's a hypocrite?

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When we stand up for Misha salado

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Jamal, this person. He needs the issue a lot and he can reach the masses on his own. He conveyed the mass on his own he reached out on his own via cream sauce from someone the person. How can you when Salah has been performing congregation How can you leave the salon and go mixer out on your own? Therefore, this particular aspect nebia Kareem Solomon said, perform Salah solo alpha Kula birdwatcher rissalah behind every Imam whether you regard him to be pious or you regard him to be in pious, what will happen to the if people start utilizing their own criteria to judge whether the Imam is pious or not, and then decide whether they must make Sarah pajama bottom or not. What will

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happen to the unity of the oma? So this to stay away from a Jamaat because of this reason, it goes against the unity of the oma tsunami occurring salsman salmon instead How can you do such a thing? How can you read Salat on your own when these Jamaat so maybe a creme de la jolla Selim he told me occurring salsa Mira Sala Let me explain to you the situation. We are people who we go out and we do agriculture, we do farming. We leave our house after fudger we come back late at night. Right when we come back late at night we shot and we want the image to read Russia you know briefly and then we want to go and sleep as a matter of the Allahu Allah I'm jasola he reads Surah Baqarah in Surah

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Allah Imani Misha Salah.

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Make sure caraway mom's on reducing

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bisher iberis was the way that the Buddha's also Vivica popera. We find it difficult. One person came in one day, he's found that the mom was living very, very long. And he said I mean what is he reading what Suna is reading read Surah Baqarah. Pokhara means you know a cow or buffalo. So he said such a strong surah so the next day he came again to the merger, he said now before I start reading, I must find out what what sort of reading so what surah is a man reading, reading surah feel feel means elephant. He said the Baccarat takes so long How long is gonna take

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so he didn't

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call Ma Ma. Una anta Omar. Omar, are you putting people in trial? Who don't meet such long? Surah samama?

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When did we look at this kindness? Well, this also used to be really sad. And we used to hear children crying in the in the section of the females. He used to shorten his Sara so that the mother is not put into any inconvenience.

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Do we have that

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perception about our DD that our deal is supposed to be made convenient and easy for people are fatahna under Jamar Omar, are you putting people in time. And the same let me give you a sequel to this incident. This person when was really allowed to call him upon Africa, because of the situation which I had outlined. He one day tomorrow, I will show you who is an African.

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He went out in the path of Allah, he went out in jihad, he sacrificed his life and he gave his life in the path of Allah when he passed away, maybe Kareem saw some cold while home was the person whom you call them. Today he gave his life

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the person whom you call a monofin Today he gave his life in the past, who are we to judge who are we to judge what the person is in Africa and then how anatomy the machine

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and even same the same other quality allow

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that when you want to correct people, when you want to bring people upon the right path, then the way to do so is through the means of encouragement not through the means of harshness. The same other model the Allahu Allah says that may be occurring in one day for me, Omar in me or hip book. Omar, I love you, Omar, I love you.

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When I say they haven't found these words with regard to any savvy that maybe I can install some said oh my god, I love you.

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And someone who went to the cover of Time who says on the cover of reservoir with a lot of news ultimate referee written these words here in

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Omaha after every salary read Aloma. Hello my Emmy.

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cola helped me remember you will be grateful to you and making the best divided possible of you. As a master after way military servicemen told me this. I never, ever forgot.

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I never forgot this dwara for the rest of my life because

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If you want to bring about reformation amongst people, then you don't go and treat them harshly, you better encourage them. And even if they do make mistakes, what we learn from

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life with regard to mistakes, two things we learn. One is, don't look at the mistakes of people with the feet of accusation. Look at the mistakes of people with a finger of compassion

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and try and break them away from their mistakes. Let me tell you,

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what I made mention of the incident of the person who urinated in the masjid.

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Let me

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when the Sahaba were angry, by leaving him alone, leave him alone Let him finish and that the acronym Sourcelink called him and then the acronym so Allahu Allah wa sallam then gave him advice. And do you know what happened after that? He may drop Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala

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in front of the resources and you know what are you may Allah have mercy upon Muhammad and have mercy upon me don't have mercy upon anyone.

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Don't blame me when he saw the kindness of NaVi saucer motoboy he made our non may have mercy upon Muhammad had mercy upon me don't have mercy upon anyone else. And then we actually saw some said you have restricted something that is very vast. Allah Mercy is much more than that. Don't make you ask conceptually. But look at the reason why he made that

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and then what we learn is look at them you know, there was a Sahabi there's young people are sitting here and I feel sexy in something so beautiful. Abu Bakr, Avi aloha Toronto,

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he used to have this habit and sometimes we also have this to come running into the machine because you don't want to miss a salad. Now young people do this now because they see the mom just went into Roku. Now they coming from there while they're running from the making.

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Your see video you see it, it happens. We see. So someone will complain to the Vietnamese of

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Abu Bakar when it comes to the materials and then he does this Vietnamese or something called okra. okra said I was young. This awesome called me. I feel very very you know, embarrassed shame and whatnot. We're carrying sauce I'm calling

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a boo boo Cara. May Allah reward your enthusiasm for Salah

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okra May Allah reward your enthusiasm for so that you are running to the machine. But next time don't do it like that. It is against the dignity of the machine.

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Look at how many occurring saucer corrected his mistake. Wow, we have been. We have been Khalid Amalia when

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he was a youngster Javi became a Muslim heard that when you sneeze you must sell under the law loud. didn't know that. We must not say it in the congregation. Samar time comes he sneezes and he says Alhamdulillah

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he says it the books is written in the hobby people started nudging him

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youngsters also were wondering is making a mistake. Are you making so much noise? You're gonna get one of us in trouble. So, why would you keep quiet and he started looking at me with big eyes and I said what are they looking at me with big eyes?

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And then he said after after the Vietnamese also said who said Alhamdulillah so now he said I was further embarrassed.

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I hope the earth could have opened and he said you

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know these are the exact words of his which is recorded in the books of

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marinara. When

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when I showed them the proper form it hit me he did not abuse he did not repeat he did not make me feel embarrass my right to my limit tabula rasa me. I never saw my living teacher before after better than anything.

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I never saw how do you look at the mistakes of people?

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Do you look at it for the intention of no I'm gonna write a perfect

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copy you look at it that I want a confession to make him come upon the right path. What are we doing? And sometimes in correcting people's mistake in correcting people's mistake, you don't make the situation worse than what it was.

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This is also the slipknot of our beloved

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to not make the situation more worse than what it was one day in the time of Libya curry sauce. I know time is coming up inshallah try and finish this one or two incidents because there are so many aspects of life. This particular aspect is shining in the books of history. Right that a person in the Mubarak era of the Vietnam saw cinema in Madeira, he was caught drinking alcohol.

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So in Islam is not an ordinary thing. And we know when we see the harms of it, that alcohol causes such great amount of harm, you know, and how much of harm that is.

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Accidents involve sickness and illness. So, in Islam, there is a punishment, the person must be less, if he brings opening the public or he's found to be drunk in the public. So as he was being hit, as people were hitting him, because of the Islamic method of, you know, making up with regard to Silicon Valley, one person said, may Allah displace you

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may Allah does grease

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in the vehicle, immediately stop

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what I'm saying,

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Don't say such words that allow shaytan to get the upper hand over your power.

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Don't leave him to feel so despondent, that shaytan got away now to make him feel despondent about Dean, he committed a mistake. We are rectifying it. But don't allow shaytan to get the upper hand over your Muslim brother. Even in correcting people, you don't make the situation more worse. That incident with regard to urinating in the masjid, one of the reasons why I never told the Sahaba leave him to do what he's doing. Don't don't prevent him because if you got to prevent him, if you had gone to stop him, what would have happened, you would have got up he would have ran and he would have read what would have happened instead of the Napa key and say you read only been in one portion

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of the emergency whatever, then you repeat throughout the budget. So in correcting people's mistake, you don't make the situation more worse than what it is.

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And this is what we learn from when we also learn from our beloved

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way the consequences of your action before taking any action.

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Weigh the consequences don't just be emotional and do things.

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So one day, I may not once many times in the life of nebbia Kareem salsa Sahaba asked permission to kill Abdullah bin obey who was the leader of the

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coin kill Abdullah bin obey. Kumar took out his sword many times.

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He's always in the forefront of creating fitna you're assuming that he is the one who falsely accused as I shall, putting her and putting your prophet of Almighty Allah subhanaw taala in such difficult conditions. One day his own son asked permission to kill me because he was an open wound and himself some knew about it. And he received ye from Almighty Allah that He was a monastic. And they so many times kamya Rasul Allah, this man is permitted so many times threes and let us let us finish. And we said no. And one day they asked yourself, why shouldn't be kinky? You know what Hansen, we acronym SOS liftgate?

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There are two answers.

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One was Libya, corruption law Islam said, people will say Muhammad is his own companions. People will say mama kills his own companions in his own followers. Have we ever thought about the consequences of our fighting, people will say Muslims are fighting with one

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we ever considered, that is fighting with one another.

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Don't kill him Oh, my Sahaba because one of the reasons people will say Muhammad is his old companions, Muslims kill their own. And the other reason, don't kill him because he needs sacrifice. Whatever his reasons for he's really sacrificed. This this is the way it may be occurring sauce. Islam taught us things. He taught us the aspect of understanding the temperaments of people. He told us understand the temperament of people in the Battle of Buddha. When the captors were brought

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and there was a mushroom what was we do with the captives?

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And when when the meta was bought, so abubaker the ultimate said Yes, he's our own family members. jasola be kind towards be considerate towards them. Maybe later on they will become Muslims that are split in Yama. jasola maybe was reading some we will feed them. But yeah, rasulillah don't don't kill them. They are our own family members, maybe one day they will become Muslim, be kind and compassionate towards them. Tomorrow the other view, what are they allowed to say? jasola. This is the first time there is a battle between truth and falsehood. Let us establish a clear criteria that we will fight truth will fight against battle.

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And we will make no compromise in this fight.

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So and jasola not only must be executed the one who is closest to them in family ties. He must be the one who will execute them. He won't be the one who will execute them. But it will be occurring saw some said now you've got these two views. Do you know what he said? He can say this one is right. That one is wrong. He chose

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The view of Abu Bakar are they allowed and that was a decision. Allah subhanho wa Taala favored the view of Amara, the ultimo. But when we received these two views, what did he say? He said Allah has made the hearts of certain people very hard. They are very harsh towards Cofer. And this belief and upon Barton and O'Meara your example is like the example of no Ollie salaamu Sara Bella Terra de mal Katerina de Yara, Ola do not keep one single disbeliever alive kill all of them.

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And Omar Omar, your example is like musala salat wa salam ala said Robin Atmos Allah amali was stood Allah Kuru Be that as it Mashallah Salatu Salam midwater Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala Robert Miss Allah, Allah destroy his wealth, the wealth of your own, put a seed on his heart that he never accepts Islam until he sees your punishment. Oh Amaya, example is like musala salam annually.

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And oh aboubaker your example is like the salic salat wa salam. What do I he made implies they won't find nobody who Allah if you punish my followers, you have every right to punish them. They are your bondsman. They are your service for internal No matter if you forgive them. You have every right to forgive. And oh, oh abubaker your example is like a primary salat wa salam. What is Grammarly? serrato ceramica fermentum Eonni find a woman koala those of my followers who follow me here part of me, woman Asana but those who does obey my commands which you have given in the case of photo Rahim you are Forgiving and Merciful.

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Oh abubaker you are like Ebrahim

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is normally a soft in maryborough

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Ibrahim is a one way is full of him full of tolerance and that also people find objectionable.

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So I like that. What are you going to do? So?

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What did he say? Oh Omar your example is like no one has a masala salat wa salam. O Allah mockery. These are temperaments. Whoever you feel like your temperament is mixed with going follow them Don't fight against the other person.

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If your temperament is more towards kindness, they can follow that organ follow that Allen who's got that particular type of intonation? And if you are, but why fight nobody economists awesome didn't teach us to fight, what they got to matters in which we have difference of opinion. This is what he taught us that there are people who have different temperaments we have people who have different backgrounds and

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doesn't become an meadmaker a matter of fighting. And this is what unfortunately, we these are the type of lessons from Sierra we are supposed to take in our day to day life. How do we acronym SOS looked at the temperaments of people as an eyeshadow Viola who says that nebia creams Allahu alayhi wa sallam

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you know, was one day sitting and when you are sitting aboubaker, the ultimate cave Can you ask for permission to enter and the recurring saw silom was in a relaxed mode is lunghi was slightly lifted up more towards the knees. And they'll be occurring saw slim Albuquerque me setting the same

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and more of the law to ask for permission. You also set in the same manner. And the third person came in knock at the door. And we saw some said Who is it with Monrovia loutra and immediately Livia Kareem saw slum got up,

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put his quota right, put his linky right. And where he was previously sitting informally. He started sitting formally and he got up and he greeted Pokemon of yellow. Now I share with you a lot and I was very very perceptive. I recently read some alliums you know article he said, really been a tragedy upon the summit if I share with you a lot and I was not there.

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What great perception how many things she asked me via Kareem Solomon, we came to know. There are so many examples. One day interview a cream sauce made a lot of money out of a communal coffee one day. Our law saved me and protect me from this belief in debt to be encouraged. So immediately she said Yasuda law are you making dua for word of protection of Allah from Cofer and death in one dua? And maybe a criminal Some said yes, a person when he is in debt becomes morally unbearable.

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When he speaks he speaks lies and makes a promise he breaks a promise. That's why I asked Alice protection in one drawer from both gopher and dead so many things not so when I saw this

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Albuquerque Mr. Kane who said like an oath man came you change your posture.

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Why did you do so jasola What didn't have the academy sauce on was man is extremely modest. Why should I no show modesty to the one even the angel show modesty to

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Why should I not show modesty to the one even the angel show modesty, he took into account the temperament of a man of the long term and dealt with him accordingly.

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worker in what he said like that, just just look at the beauty. These are the aspects of Syrah when we talk about a Syrah. Today, Brother's Keeper read many, many different types of books. And I read leadership books, I've read quite a few of them. And sometimes it's good, you get some good points in them. Right? But I'm telling you, there is none greater that you can get examples to, to lead your life as an excellent example, in your personal relationship, in your relationship with your family, in your relationship with Allah subhanaw taala. In your relationship with with people in your relationship with a community in our beloved via Kareem sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. One aspect

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with which I will conclude with

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he's the aspect of soft power. If you want to change people, then use the art of gentle persuasion to change people.

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But you can perhaps people will see a need to be able to make proclamations in which they would like to state certain things.

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And maybe there's a need for that. But if you want to change people, if you want to change people, the way to change people is not by harshness will never be able to change people by asking this today. You can even change your own children with harshness.

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If you want to change people, they learn the method of Oh beloved Nivea cream sauce, he changed people by kindness, compassion, pleading with him, dealing with them with gentleness and kindness. And let me conclude this example of of washi for the long run. Today we say Rosie allow trauma to a person who killed the uncle of our beloved Nivea cream sauce. Go and read the books of history. How was she kill her?

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And maybe a cream sauce alum. When he saw the mutilated body of his uncle, he cried so much others had also started crying.

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He cried so much of the sob also started crying. And then afterwards via Kareem saw slim herded washi stay near type ways, Medina is type so he started writing letters to him very long, three or four, four or five letters he wrote to him, or she accepted Islam while she accepted Islam. And what she said was I accept Islam everything what Islam told us not to do I have done what am I going to benefit in accepting Islam? And then we saw slim is pleasing play pleading with him.

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Just to give you one example of one of the communications maybe acronym SOS limeroad illa mantapa Amina Amina Amylin sallyann kawachi three man because whoever brings him on, he repents, he brings him on and does righteous deeds, Allah will change his entire evil deeds of the past into good deeds.

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So watch, he said, What am I the benefit from this is that the ayah says, I must repent. I must bring him on, then I must do righteous deeds then allow will change my evil deeds into good deeds. I haven't brought him on I haven't repented I don't have no good deeds. What am I going to benefit from this ayat? We saw slim is pleading with the one who killed his uncle. And then maybe a cream sauce, right protein last last letter da da, da da Don't lose hope in the mercy of Allah. So what she heard this he said okay, this, this is now suits. This makes more sense. So what she came to Medina but he knew that if someone sees him before he comes in see now we saw some of the guru

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finish him because of what he had done. He covers his face with a scarf. He doesn't take out that scarf until he's invested in me. And then when he's invested in me then he takes out the scarf. Even then when he takes out the scarf, Savas hands go to the south Yarra Salalah this washi has come before he comes to let us finish him up this awesome said hold on hold on you watch she come and sit in front of me while she tells me why you have come I've come to accept Islam and then maybe a cream sauce them ask him what she before you accept Islam. Tell me how you kill my uncle. Well she tell me how you kill my uncle Allah says seven years before that the incident took place seven years worship

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Tell me how you kill my uncle. He related incident me sauce lamb is crying. And then they'll be occurring salsa tells him Ohashi Allah in Islam, Makana tabla Islam will wipe away what you have done in the past. And now we'll accept your Toba because you have brought a man but don't come in front of me every time you come in front of me. I'm going to be reminded about Mancha, Hill, it is too painful.

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Now just to two lessons, one is the cause is greater than our personal emotions. The cause of Islam is greater than our own likes and dislikes and greater than our emotions. That's nebbia creme de la de wasallam.

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Except that washes Toba, even if there was an emotion that was attached to it. And the second thing it shows you persuasive power, how do you change people? One of the things that we in South Africa we have to realize, and we have to start thinking about is why is it there after 350 years, the population of Muslims in South Africa hasn't changed. Because we haven't got that gentleness and then a lack of our beloved maybe sauce them to change people.

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If we want to change people, then we have to bring our o'clock

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and In conclusion, I would just say this, this is the lessons that we have to learn from a Sierra jelsa not only speak about the greatness because it is beyond us. But take this type of lessons.

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Moulana Ebrahim Ismail Bham was born and raised in South Africa. He has attained his masters in the Islamic sciences and theology under great traditional scholars. Shaykh Ebrahim I. Bham is known to be one of the most active scholars in South Africa for education, development, advocacy and interfaith. He has served in various capacities in South Africa at Newtown Islamic Institute, Al-Aqsa Institute, Mayfair Jami Masjid, and Hamidia Masjid Newtown as the Imaam.

He frequently travels the world for Da’wah and lectures, including countries such as Australia, United Kingdom, USA, Canada, Somalia, Palestine, Egypt, Turkey, Sri Lanka & Malawi.

Moulana Ebrahim I. Bham is the founder member and chairman of Johannesburg Muslim School, executive committee member of National Religious Leaders Council (Initiated By South Africans for Greater Liaison between Religious Groups and Government), and also an executive member of the United Ulama Council of South Africa (UUCSA). Moulana is also a founding member and director of ASRI (Auwal Socioeconomic Research Institute) which is a pluralist domestic public policy institute that conducts Applied Research, Prototyping and Advocacy in South Africa
Moulana is presently the general-secretary of the Council of Muslim Theologians in Johannesburg, South Africa (http://www.islamsa.org.za/). Shaykh Ebrahim I. Bham lives in Johannesburg, South Africa with his wife and three children.

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