Ebrahim Bham – Seerah; Interaction with people

Ebrahim Bham
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The speakers discuss the importance of not acknowledging the power of Jesus Christ's founder, Jesus Christ, in obtaining pleasure and profit. They stress the need to show character and conduct to people outside the house and not just highlighting one's behavior. The use of demoralizing language and shelling to remind people of Subhan's actions and decring his coworkers is also discussed. The history of Islam, including Subhan's deceptive actions and decring his coworkers, is also highlighted. A call to action is offered for addressing issues related to Islam.
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My dear respected elders and brothers,

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we are in the month of Rabiul Awal,

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which is the month in which our beloved

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Nabiya Kareem was

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born, and also he passed away in the

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very same month.

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Now normally, when a month of comes,

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we tend to discuss

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various aspects of the life of our beloved

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Nabiya Karim.

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We have to make a disclaimer in this

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that

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we believe that it is not

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compulsory that we only make mention of Nabiya

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Karim SAWS'alam's life in Rabula world.

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We believe to make mention

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of any aspect of the life of Nabiya

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Karim SAWS'alam

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at any time

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in any aspect of Nabiya Kareem's

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life, it is full of blessings

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and worthy of reward.

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And what can we say with regard to

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our beloved Nabiya Kareem,

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The poet of Nabiya Kareem has

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in many ways

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done this qumma a great service

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by penning

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and composing those beautiful words with regard to

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Nabiya Kareem

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Salaam.

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More beautiful than you.

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No eyes have ever set sight upon.

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More graceful and elegant,

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and more composed, and more beautiful in character,

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no mother has ever given birth to.

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It is as if you have been created

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the way you wish.

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Like how someone makes a design and tells

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someone that you make me according to the

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specification.

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Allah made you according to your specification.

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But Allah made you. Allah created you. As

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great as you are,

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but Allah created you. Allah is the creator.

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He's the creator of you and I. He's

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the creator of our beloved Nabiya Kareem and

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it is as if he created

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you the way you wanted to be created.

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And he created you free from all faults

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and flaws.

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We can never ever do justice

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in relating or hearing the praises of our

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beloved.

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However, one thing we must keep in mind

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that we should never mystify the life of

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Nabiya Kareem

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That we say he is so great

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that we fail to take benefit from him.

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After all,

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had said,

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we have made you a perfect example.

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So Allah has made his life a perfect

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example of how to lead our life. And

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let me give an example of a sample

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and example.

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You go to a tailor, and you go

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to a designer,

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and you tell him, see, I am giving

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you the sample.

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Make the kurta according to the sample. Now

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if that particular kurta, designer or the tailor

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makes the kurta

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in a way that the sleeve is shorter

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than the sample that you have given him,

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what will you tell him? I gave you

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the sample, couldn't you go according to the

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sample I gave you?

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I gave you a sample to do it

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exactly according to the sample, why didn't you

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do it according to the sample? Allah is

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telling us the same thing.

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I gave you in the prophet of almighty

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Allah, a perfect example for us to follow

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in our life.

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And may we be sacrificed upon Nabiya Karim,

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salaam. Allah

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made his life in such a situation

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that different stages came upon his life,

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so that you and I can benefit from

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his life.

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If Nabiya Kareem saw a salam at once,

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he was a husband, he was a father,

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he was a teacher,

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he was a student

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at the at the feet of Hazrat

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He was sometimes in a battle, he was

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victorious.

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Sometimes he suffered a setback.

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Why did sometimes he was that for several

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months there was no food in his house,

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and sometimes there was wealth at his disposal.

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Why did Allah put him through all of

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these different

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situations

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so that his life can be an example

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to us in our multifaceted

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type of situations and circumstances

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we find ourselves in? That is why Allah

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put him through different situations.

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Sometimes there was happiness, sometimes there was grief,

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sometimes there was victory, sometimes there was setbacks.

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All of that, so that his life can

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be an example.

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Today, I want to speak to you about

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how Nabiya Karim salallahu alaihi wa sallam interacted.

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Brother, Zasira

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is a flowing stream

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which is a source of continuous

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wisdom and guidance,

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not only till the time of Nabiya Karim

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salallahu alaihi wa sallam till the end of

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time.

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Whenever we won, we will find an example

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of our beloved Nabiya Karim, saw as salam.

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Today I want to discuss how Nabiya Karim,

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saw as salam. Today I want to discuss

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how Nabiya Karim interacted.

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Firstly, how did he interact with Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala?

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We know that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is

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the king of kings.

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He is the King of all kings. He

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is the ruler of all rulers. He gives

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rulers

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rulership and kingdom to who whomsoever He wishes.

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He gives respect to whomsoever He wishes. He

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disgraces whomsoever He wishes. He honors whomsoever He

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wishes. Allah

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And He is also the creator of

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Nabiya Karim saw salam. How did Nabiya Karim

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saw salam interact with him?

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Subhanallah.

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I said,

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was one of our very great scholars.

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So he he was a very good, you

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know, poet. So in Urdu, he says these

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beautiful words.

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I saw a person who was the most

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beautiful, the most graceful, the most elegant, the

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most beautiful person a person could ever wish

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to see. He was such a great person,

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that Allah

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takes an oath on the city in which

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he resides in.

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I take an oath by the city because

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I take an oath by the city because

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you reside in the city. Allah took an

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oath by his life

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Allah took an oath by his speech.

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He was such a great person that when

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he said yes to something, it became halal.

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When he became when he said no to

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something, it became haram.

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He was such a great person. And he

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said for a moment, I thought whenever I

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have any difficulty.

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I will go and ask such a great

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person that he must help me. So he

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say, went through the means of his biography,

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went through the means of his history.

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I wanted to go to ask him I

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went to go and knock at his door

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I went to go go knock at his

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door

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what did I go and see? I saw

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the entire creation was sleeping and this great

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human being was crying in front of someone

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else

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and he was making this dua into.

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Oh, allah, if you punish

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my Ummat, you are entitled to punish them

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because they are your servants.

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If you forgive them,

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you have the power to forgive them also

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if you so wish. Then this person said,

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I made a decision.

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Don't go to such great people for assistance.

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Go to that being where even such great

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people go and ask assistance from.

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He he went to Allah Ta'ala. How did

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he worship? Look at the duas that he

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made. I said,

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has written a book. The prophet

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made the mirror of his supplication.

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And in this book he said, every dua

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nabi occurring saw was made was full of

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wisdom.

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It that dua could only emanate from the

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the lips of a nabi.

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One of the duas that I will just

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show you. You see in our as human

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beings sometimes we have 2 extremes.

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One extreme is we think very much about

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ourselves,

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and one extreme is we can debase ourselves.

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We cannot give ourself the importance that Allah

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has given us as human beings. Look at

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our Nabiya Karim salawasulam,

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made the beautiful moderate path between these two

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extreme when he made dua Allahu Majaalfi aynin

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sabira.

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Oh, Allah, make me insignificant in my eyes,

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but give me respect in the eyes of

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other people.

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Where can this du'a come but only from

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the lips of a Nabi? Make me insignificant

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in my eyes, but make me respectable in

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the eyes of people.

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He she showed people how to relate with

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every different class and category of people.

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He related with his family, subhanallah.

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He had so many different wives,

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but and each and every wife had a

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different temperament.

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Hazar Umay Salma, when she got married to

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Nabiya Karim Salasam, she said, you Rasool, I'm

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prepared to get married to you, but I've

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got certain, you know, certain sensitivities. I'm very

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sensitive.

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I got children. Nabi Karim saw a saloon

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said I will take care of your sensitivity.

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I will look after your children. She was

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sensitive.

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Hazrat Aisha was

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young. Hazrat Khattija

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was matured.

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Everyone Nabi Karim saw a saloon showed the

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right temperament,

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and showed the right way in dealing with

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every one of his wives,

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not one of his wives was ever angry

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or was ever against him,

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so much so that when he caught nabuwat,

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he came to his house, where did he

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come? He came to his house, and he

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came to zal khadid early Allahu Ta'ala and

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he said

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I'm

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afraid whether I will be able to bear

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this responsibility

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or not or not

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I always make mention of this that when

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the Nabi of Allah had a problem or

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he had a difficulty, he had a challenge,

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he went first to his house, he went

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to his wife

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and he related the situation

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and I'll only make make mention of this

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humorous incident today, a muslim woman

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spends half her life

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looking for a husband and the other half

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wondering where he is.

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No. No. That was not the case. Nabi

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saw Islam came and he said

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what it doesn't

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Perhaps in today's time maybe your wife would

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have said, you Allah, she perhaps would have

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said

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that you are only seeing, you know, illusions

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of grandeur.

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You think you are very great? What did

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she say?

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Look at your character, you are all the

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time bending relationship,

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you are entertaining guest, You are bringing people

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together. You are taking the path of those

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who are underprivileged

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and those who are poor. You are always

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taking up the cause of global causes. Whether

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other people accepting you or not, I as

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your wife bear witness that you are the

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true messenger of Allah.

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The first person to bear witness to the

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greatest truth created by Allah was a woman

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and that to his wife.

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Today you and I made the mistake. We

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must have good akhlaq and character and conduct

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to people outside the house and don't care

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about the people of the house. First you

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show and display your conduct to the people

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in the house,

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then you display your conduct to people outside

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the house.

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I don't have the time to elaborate on

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that, but I just want to give you.

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So how Nabiya Karim dealt with people who

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are in his house, you know? How he

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how he created a family situation. I said,

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Aisha radiya bowdhanahu was asked, what did Nabiya

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Karim do when he came come into the

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house? He said he did normal household chores.

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He cleaned whatever, he cleaned the house, he

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packed his clothes,

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he looked after his own situation.

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This is what he did when he came

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into the house, he helped with the household

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activities.

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In Gujarati today, if someone do something like

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that, what do we say? I took biology.

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But then maybe often that an Adidas,

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our contact must first be at our house

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before we show it to other people. Then

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how did he deal with his, you know,

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his companions?

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Subhanallah.

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He when he related to his companions

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he always

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encouraged them to do good.

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He didn't demoralize them.

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He encouraged them. Hazem radiAllahu ta'ala was one

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of his companions that he loved too much.

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He loved him tremendously.

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One day he told him, You Mu'az

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innee oh hibbuq.

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O'mu'az I love you.

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Unawaz say that no other companion,

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the nary of Allah use such words.

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Oh, Allah help me remembering you and making

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Ibadan of you in the correct manner and

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being grateful to you.

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Ah, the way he taught him was encouragement.

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Mu'ad said I never ever

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left out that dua for the rest of

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my life.

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He encourage

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him. Not like today we demoralize people. We

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call them names, we call them the worst

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type of things and then we tell them

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become become a woman and practice upon the

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deen of almighty Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. How

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do you bring people to practice upon the

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deen of Allah? When you demoralize them, you

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degrade them, you debase them, you call them

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names, you label them and then you say

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you must become biased.

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The lobby of Allah lifted people

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and that is what you and I have

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to do especially in this age that you

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and I are living in. It's an age

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where people have been pulled towards materialism.

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They have been pulled against religion.

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We need to be able to lift and

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give people moral courage. That's what our beloved

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Nabi Karim

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did. He encouraged people. Even the people who

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are neglectful,

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Nabi Karim

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reminded them, the people who are ignorant need

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to be educated.

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The people who are neglectful, we need to

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be reminding them. SubhanAllah, how did our beloved

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Nabiya Karim salawahu alaihi wa sallam do this?

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It's amazing.

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A person,

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one day, you know, was found drinking alcohol

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in the time of Nabiya Karim salawahu alaihi

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wa sallam. Can you imagine in the Mubarak

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era? So of course in Islam there's a

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punishment for it while they were punishing him

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while they were punishing him, once Sahabi said

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may Allah disgrace you, and then he said

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how dare you say something like this?

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He has love for Allah in his Rasool.

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Don't say, Allah, disgrace him. You are helping

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shaitan against him. You're gonna say you're gonna

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tell Allah, disgrace him, you're gonna turn him

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away from Allah. You're helping shaitan against him.

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Bring him closer,

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don't disgrace him,

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don't say, may Allah disgrace you, bring him

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closer, he will come right.

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A person came to and said, You Rasulullah,

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allow me to commit adultery.

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What will happen today if someone comes to

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an alim and make a salah? Allow me

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to commit adultery. What did Nabi sahassalam said?

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He knew he was ignorant, he was neglectful.

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He reminded him, oh my oh my companion.

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If someone does this to your mother, your

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sister, your aunt, will you like it? No,

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you're a sullah, I won't like it.

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So whoever you gonna commit adultery will be

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the mother, will be the daughter, will be

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the sister of someone, will they like it?

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Subhanallah, how he explained it?

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Those who are neglectful deed to be brought

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towards and they need to be reminded. The

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Liby of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala dealt with

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royalty

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and then he dealt with all 3 people

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and he dealt with each and everyone appropriately.

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There was a Sahabi who used to come

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from

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from the from the village in the desert.

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His name was Sahir bin Haram. He was

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an ordinary person. He used to come

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from the desert and normally you get things

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in the desert and you get things in

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the village which you don't get in the

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city, and sometimes

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you get things in the city which you

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don't get in the desert. So whenever he

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used to come from the desert, he used

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to bring those things you get in the

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desert, you don't get in the city, And

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Nabiya Kelim saw Islam used to give him

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things that you find in the city, you

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don't get in the desert, and Nabi saw

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Islam say, he is my desert, I'm his

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city. He is my desert, am I his

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city. Subhanallah. One day he came, he was

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selling things

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that he brought from the desert and he

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was selling it in the marketplaces of Madinah.

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Nabi Karim loved him tremendously. He used to

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make Nabi Karim

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laugh. So one day Nabi Karim came while

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he was selling it and he put his

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hand, he blindfolded him. So he tried to

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wriggle out of the embrace

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but not knowing who he was who it

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was

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then he realized the fragrance of Nabiya Karim

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saw Surim,

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he realized the fragrance of Nabiya Karim saw

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Surim and then he brought his broad body

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closer to Nabiya Karim saw salam to benefit

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from the mubarak,

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body of Nabiya Karim saw salam

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and then Nabiya Karim saw salam realized that

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he came to know who I am Then

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Nabiya Karim salallahu alayhi wa sallam, what did

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Nabiya Karim salallahu alayhi wa sallam do? He

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said, who will buy the slave from me?

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Who will buy the slave from me?

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Suzais said, You Rasulullah,

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what are you gonna sell me? I am

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worthless.

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But I got no no no value.

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And Nabiya Karim Sarsom said, wallahi,

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indallahi

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lays that bikaseh.

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O za'il I take an oath.

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By Allah

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in the eyes of Allah you are not

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worthless.

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An ordinary villager,

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he gave him so much

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of so much of honor

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by Allah in the eyes of Allah you

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are not you are not just honorable, you

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are steadfast.

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Adi bin Harbin came, he was a great

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ruler. Nabiya Karim saw Islam, long story, I

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won't go into it. So what I'm saying,

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he dealt with ordinary people, he dealt with

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royalty.

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When Adi bin Harbin came into his room,

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Nabiya Karim saw Islam was only one cushion.

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Nabiya Karim gave him a cushion. Although he

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was a non Muslim.

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He was a non Muslim. Nabiya Karim gave

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him a cushion, and Nabiya Karim saw aslim

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respected him. And there was only 1 cushion

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in the room, and he gave it to

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him. Subhanallah.

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This is how he dealt with people. He

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won people over.

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You know,

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they were enemies,

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he transformed them into friends,

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he transformed them into companions.

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Abdullah bin Mahzura,

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just think of this incident.

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Salaamu sbarb jisnegariasunkarduhaedim

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salaam upon that particular

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being

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who listen to abuse

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and he gave people to us

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He made and he transformed enemies into friends.

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Today we turn friends into enemies.

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We make muslims into and

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he was the one who made into muslims

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by his and conduct. So after the conquering

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of Makkah

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so after the conquering of Makkah you conquer

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a city there's a certain degree of

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resentment that is in the hearts of people

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whom you have conquered.

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So after the first conquering of Makkah, azan

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is given. Youngsters made a mockery of the

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azan,

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youngsters made a mockery of the azan

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and forefront amongst them was Abdullah bin Hazura.

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So he was making a mockery of the

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azaan by saying it in a funny manner.

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Nabi Ibrahim saw a salam came to them

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all of a sudden now they are, you

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know, afraid.

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The conqueror has come

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and Nabiya Karim said who made the azaan

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in a funny manner and I was in

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there identified as a person. Nabiya Karim

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said recite the azaan. He said I don't

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know it. Nabiya Karim put his hand over

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my head with Muhammad

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he cut us my face and he said

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I will teach you.

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He said he taught me the Hazan word

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to word.

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He taught me the Hazan word to word.

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Abdullah bin Mahzura he was 16 17 years

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of age said before this occasion

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the most hateful person in my eyes was

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Muhammad,

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Muhammad

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after this he became the most beloved person

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in my eyes I said You Rasulullah

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and now I became a Muslim I said

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You Rasulullah

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allow me to give the aza in Kaaba

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Baytullah,

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Nabi Karim appointed

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him as the first muhazid

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after the conquering of mankind,

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the person who was

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making a mockery of the aza

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became the Muasil of Kaaba in Baytullah.

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How? Because of the way Nabiya Karim

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did it. Nabiya salallahu alaihi wa sallam identified

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talent,

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he saw a person had, you know, intelligence.

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He came to Makkah,

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you know, in the Umraqul Qadah in the

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7th year after his reach. So in that

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particular incident he saw waleed bin waleed, the

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brother of Khalid. Khalid where? Waleed, where is

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your brother Khalid?

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Khalid,

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your brother Khalim,

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an intelligent person like him cannot be oblivious

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of the beauty of Islam.

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Tell him to come to us, we will

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give him respect,

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and we will we will appreciate

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his potential.

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When Khali comes back, Walid said he left

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a letter for his brother.

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When he drew Khali, you ran away, the

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prophet of Allah was speaking about you and

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he was praising you.

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Read the letter and said, this is the

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person

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whom I cause so much harm and he

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is telling me that I have potential, and

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he is telling me to come to him

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so that he can appreciate that potential.

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He comes and he becomes a Muslim. And

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Khalil,

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the one who caused the setback for the

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Muslims in wahad, becomes sayfullah.

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Because of the way Nabiya Karim saw as

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salam interacted with him.

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Brothers, I ask you this question, are we

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interacting with the people in this way? That

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we transform people who are never seen to

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friends. We transform people who are far from

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us, we bring them nearer to us. Nabiya

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Karim saw as salam said,

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Give people red tidings.

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Don't make them hate Islam.

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Make things easy for people. Don't make things

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difficult for people.

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This is what we are supposed to do,

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my dear respected brothers. Hazrat Aisha

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said that Nabiya Khaliem

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never when he was given the option of

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2 things

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between ease and difficulty, he always chose the

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easy path path.

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So one of ease until that particular unless

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that particular part of ease was a sin,

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then he stayed away from it. This is

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the way we are supposed to interact with

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people, my dear respected brothers, so that when

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we interact, we create an impact.

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We show people the beauty of Islamic teachings.

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May Allah

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give you an either tawfiq or understanding the

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sunnah of our beloved Nabiya Karim salawasalam in

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all his facets. So that we can bring

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it into our life and show people the

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beauty of akhla, the beauty of interaction. And

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when we interact with people, my dear respected

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brothers, the way we will

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see a difference in our families.

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We'll see a difference in our communities.

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We'll see a difference in our Ummah. Because

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today,

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we are not displaying

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the sunnah conduct to one another. That is

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why we see the turmoil in our communities

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and societies.

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