Bilal Dannoun – Muslim Marriage Course – The Five Cs to a Happier, Healthier and Thriving Relationship

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The importance of finding one's own happiness in marriage is discussed, including the impact of divorce and the importance of learning to be in a thriving and unshakable marriage. The Muslim Marriage Course offers guidance on various aspects of marriage, including creating a happy and healthy marriage, and provides resources for finding information and enrolling in the course. The course is designed to help individuals create a happy and healthy marriage and offers practical guidance on various topics.

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			As Salam aleikum, are you feeling hopeless or helpless about where your relationship is heading,
there is one thing that everyone wants in life irrespective of their faith culture, or where they
are in the world, and that is happiness, inner peace, tranquility, certainty, and a sense of
meaning, purpose and success. However, after marriage, that meaning is magnified by none other than
our partner, our spouse, our significant other, and wherever you are right now, in your
relationship, my guess is that there is a gap between where you are and where you really want to be,
which is why you are most likely watching this. If you are married, and your relationship is on the
		
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			rocks, it's time to take it to greater heights by learning, unlearning and relearning what it takes
to be in a remarkable marriage. If you are not married, then you're here because you want to ensure
that when you do marry, you are creating a fulfilling relationship that's going to last that you
don't become part of the 55% Divorce statistics, or worse, be unhappy, miserable and full of regret.
I'm below Dunoon, here to share with you the Muslim Marriage Course and my five C's to a happier,
healthier and thriving relationship. I've been in the relationship space for over 20 years as a
marriage counselor, marriage celebrant, and divorce facilitator. I've had the privilege to learn
		
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			about relationships from a cultural perspective, having counseled and interacted with 1000s of
individuals from many different nationalities, both online from around the world and in person from
my hometown city of Sydney that is heavily populated with multicultural Muslims. My passion to help
others resuscitate their marriage and take their relationship to greater heights comes from the fact
that I myself have been divorced. When I got married, I thought I had the knowledge for a healthy
marriage. I thought I knew what I wanted. And I thought I knew what happiness in marriage looked
like. But I was wrong. There's an Arab saying that says Elijah Hello, I don't want to see that the
		
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			ignorant person is his own enemy. I was living proof of this. I remember once seeing a friend who
you know, after 15 years of marriage and children was still obsessed with his wife. And at that
time, I couldn't fathom how he was so into his wife and how she was his best friend and how he spoke
about her and interacted with her as if they were in their honeymoon phase. It was something that I
longed for in my own marriage. And I'm pretty sure you're here because that's also what you want.
You want to look into your partner's eyes and feel the same spark that you felt in the early stages
of marriage. I personally didn't have that because I simply did not have the knowledge and skills at
		
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			the time to create such a beautiful marriage filled with love and friendship. My divorce had a
ripple effect on every aspect of my life. It impacted me on all fronts, be it my Eman my mental
state, my focus, my productivity, my children. And my work. I was definitely nowhere near the best
version of myself. It was a serious struggle. I was now feeling lonely and anxious about the future,
I felt hopeless and helpless. I soon found out that after Hola, no one was going to save me except
me. I needed to learn to unlearn and relearn about relationships from choosing the right spouse to
how to recreate myself, and what knowledge and skills I needed to be in a relationship that was even
		
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			better than the one my friend was in. I never wanted to be in that position again. So I made it a
point to read and to listen to almost every resource I can get my hands on to learn and understand
the many contributors that lead to the ultimate marriage. And Hamdulillah I did just that. And Allah
blessed me with my best friend with the love of my life. And I can honestly say by the will of Allah
first. And by applying all the rules in this course, I have been happily married since I am living
proof that if you apply what is in this course, the five C's to a happier, healthier and thriving
relationship, you too, can live out the marriage you desire.
		
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			My obsession to Help others discover the knowledge and skills to be in a thriving and unshakable
marriage comes not only from my own experience, but from the experiences of the spouses I interact
with who are from various cultures and generations and seeing firsthand the pain and the damage
taking place before my very eyes Subhanallah many couples, they come to me and talk about what they
want. Many of them quickly discover that it's not what they want that needs to be addressed, but
it's what they need. That should be discussed. Countless spouses reach out to me for divorce,
because they are convinced that they have tried everything. And often my response to such
		
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			generalizations is that if you have tried it your way, how about we try it a different way that you
may have tried a lot of things, but you haven't tried everything that's out there. After sharing
some of the tools in this course they end up renovating their marriage, And subhanAllah live happily
ever after. Just like many other couples. I've helped counsel after all this counseling after
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			1000s of people, Allah blessed me with an epiphany Subhanallah a light bulb moment, while I was
turning the pages of my counseling notes, and looking at them through a microscopic lens, well, not
literally. But I saw the same words and phrases staring at me with like, it's toxic, we don't
communicate, there's no emotional connection. He's disrespectful, she's rude. My spouse is too
controlling my in laws, no trust, no time together, no intimacy, no appreciation, and he or she is
addicted, you know that they're addicted to watching inappropriate images or addicted to their phone
or addicted to gambling, or addicted to drugs and so on. So I came to the realization that there
		
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			were five words that would consistently coming out of my mouth towards these spouses. And they were
the words that were actually resonating with them, that pretty much summarize what every marital
relationship must have, in order for the marriage to be healthy, and that if a marriage lacked any
one of them, that this was a sign the marriage was either suffering or even worse, likely to end up
in divorce. What I also realized is that these five pillars had many important parts to them, that
create by the will of Allah, an unshakable marriage. Each of these pillars are the underlying roots
to many topics and issues in a marriage, which if each of us learn and understand will set us up for
		
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			a great marriage. These five words funnily enough, all start with the letter C. This proven method
developed over 20 years aims to give you a new updated and revised lens to view marriage through
that allows for a peripheral view and not a tunnel view of relationships. This course is unique in
that it combines between the knowledge of Islam as well as the knowledge gained from the proven and
tested research into relationships and human behavior from the west and secular world. I honestly
believe the content will be a game changer. The teachings you are about to gain access to are
designed in such a way that whenever you find yourself in a predicament, you are able to project me
		
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			in your mind and see me talking and walking you through options and solutions to your problems. The
Muslim Marriage Course and it's five remarkable sees work a little bit like certain medications,
where you need to take the entire dosage for amazing results. Now having said this, it also offers
quick fixes to potential or pending marital issues. Can you put a price on a healthier and vibrant
you and a healthier future for your marriage for your children and your future? Subhanallah many
couples obsess and plan so much for the wedding ceremony that will come to pass in a number of hours
or a day at the most. They spend huge amounts of money for the sake of an unforgettable ceremony. If
		
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			they don't consider investing in knowledge about relationships and marriage such as this course,
which is a fraction of the cost of the wedding celebration, it will outlast the happiness gained
magnitudes of order more. When you consider the cost of marriage counseling, divorce court fees and
other expenses should their marriage fail. It makes sense that preventative measures such as this is
the right path to take. The plan should be to save time, stress and frustration is trying to always
fix the relationship and focus more on building happiness and peace. focus should be on the good,
not the bad. I see too many spouses ready to throw their marriage under the bus. Lots of spouses
		
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			want the easy way out thinking the grass is greener. On the other side? Well, let me tell you
something, let's change this limiting belief by saying the grass is greener where you water it.
Here's a recent real life example story I want to share with you an older couple that came to Me for
guidance and how it was an awkward moment due to the fact that the issues that they were conflicting
about was intimacy. The husband, you know, complained to me about the lack of intimacy for the last
10 years of marriage, despite his high appetite for regular intimacy. And the wife complained to me
about how her husband doesn't prioritize her. And she gave me some examples. And one of the examples
		
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			that she gave me was about some curtains that he had not replaced, despite reminding him over and
over again. So I basically said to the husband that when you make your wife feel she is a priority,
I believe your intimate life will significantly improve. And that when it comes to intimacy, men in
general simply need a place but women need a reason to get intimate. So anyway, several months
later, I see him at a wedding that I'm facilitating, and he comes up to me and he gives us Salaam
and he thanked me for my advice, and how he was now very happy in his marriage. Now at that very
moment. So Pamela, I honestly didn't remember what it was that I had helped him with. And I told him
		
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			to forgive me that I couldn't recall what the session was about, but that I did recognize his face.
He then said to me, it's probably better that you don't remember what we spoke about and also
panela. As soon as he said that, I remembered the specifics of that meeting and said to him, I just
remembered I then asked him Did you end up changing the curtains? And he said yes, I wish we had
seen you 10 years ago. Now of course we laughed but I was seriously happy.
		
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			for him. What makes this the only such course on the market is my approach. I have combined the
topic of marriage through both Islamic and secular studies offering practical and step by step
guidance on nearly all aspects of the relationship. After 20 years of listening to 1000s of spouses,
reading and watching countless resources about relationships, I discovered that the core issues of
most marriages revolve around five C's and I guarantee that if you or your spouse learned, memorized
and understood the five C's, you will find yourself in an amazing an unshakable relationship in sha
Allah. Within the course I share many topics, concepts and elements, which will help you navigate
		
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			and tackle every aspect of marriage from the day to day to the bigger picture, across five modules,
or many powerful lessons. Each module includes a case study where I share with you a true story
related to the topic of the module and the comprehensive response I offered the spouses during the
therapy. Throughout the course I am mindful about infusing the content with references from the
Quran and Sunnah sharing inspiring examples from the life of the best example of a spouse, our
beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Love is not something you find, it's something
that you built. This course offers you the knowledge and tools to create a deep, passionate and long
		
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			lasting marriage in sha Allah and I guarantee you by the will of Allah, that after taking this
course, you will have the knowledge and tools needed to build just that. What's more, your outlook
on your life, your spouse and your relationship will change for the better Insha Allah, you're here
up to this point in my video. So I thank you for your time, and I congratulate you for sticking it
out. It shows that you are serious about making a happy home and that you're not a quitter that's
ready to throw in the towel but rather a fighter willing to fight for yourself and your family. And
I urge you to not delay and repeat another day of sadness, frustration, confliction anger,
		
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			helplessness or hopelessness, not knowing when this will all turn around for the better help is
here. And there's no better time to take the next step. Always remember that a good marriage keeps
you happier and healthier and that the quality of your marriage influences your spiritual health. It
impacts your resilience to feel better, it impacts your physical health, it impacts your mental
health and that it also impacts your parenting, your future generation and even your wealth and how
much money you're going to make. To be the best version of yourself. You must be in a happy
marriage. That's why I love the saying Happy spouse happy house. Under this video, you can learn
		
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			more about what the course offers and what to expect. When you're ready, click the Enroll now button
that will take you to the checkout page. Once you enter your billing information and submit it, we
will automatically create your very own membership login and get you access so that you can start to
empower yourself with the tools skills, knowledge and guidance to make your marriage thrive. If you
have any questions or issues with the signup process, you can reach me via support at Muslim
marriage courses.com Finally, I ask Allah subhanahu wa ala to bless your marriage and to keep you
together in happiness and in prosperity. And if you're not married, I ask Allah subhana wa ala to
		
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			bless you with the right one to bless you to be in an amazing marriage. May Allah subhanho wa Taala
bless your health bless your wealth bless you with a righteous and a healthy offspring. May Allah
subhanaw taala inspire you to do all the things that will allow you to be the best version of
yourself that you experience abundance of happiness in this world the life and abundance of
happiness in the hereafter with the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam may this marriage
course be one of your greatest sources of happiness. Allah mean yarrabilba alameen in sha Allah I
really look forward to seeing you inside for the first lesson by the will of Allah Assalamu alaikum