Reflections On The Prophets 24 Yusufs Adversities Assad

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Oh

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my Lord, I Bellucci

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My Lord, I bow to you.

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My Lord, I

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am Allah Rasool Allah. Allah was happy and Gemini brothers and sisters in Islam as salaam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

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So now use of Allah His Salam is taken to Egypt and this is where I'm going to start today's continuation, use of Allah His salon

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was put for sale in Egypt.

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And Subhana Allah remarkably, this is from the will of Allah. As you can see, there is a plan happening over here. guests who bought use of La sallam, he was

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not a normal person. He was a man who had among the highest positions, in fact, if not the highest position, third highest position before the pharaoh in Egypt, they had Pharaohs at that time, the king Pharaoh, and the man who bought him was the minister of the Pharaoh. He was the treasurer of the land. He was the one who took care of all the financial affairs of the whole country, where things go, what to do, how to pay people, he took, he looked after everything, the Minister of the fairer

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and he had a wife. They say her name was zulekha z Ha.

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The problem was that this man, the Minister, he was a good man. But he was impotent. He couldn't have babies, he couldn't actually have any intercourse at all, not only babies, he couldn't have intercourse.

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So he couldn't be with a woman and his wife. She was basically cold in Morocco, as is the woman of the Aziz.

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Knowing that the scholars tell us that she was cold in Morocco, as is the woman of the Aziz, because they knew that the man was impotent. Otherwise should have been maybe I've been called Xhosa, to Lizzie's, the wife of the Aziz. But she was called in Morocco.

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So scholars say that she was still chased.

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She was still chased.

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still a virgin, and therefore, we'll see what happens later on with him.

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What happened here was the Al Aziz bought him. And the reason why he bought him was because he didn't, he couldn't have any children. He said to his wife,

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as a foreigner, owner, who wear leather, let's buy him, maybe he'll benefit us in some way. Or we can adopt him as our own child.

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As you can see here, these thought processes and these things that are occurring are really out of the norm. There is a plan that Allah is putting into place, but Yusuf Alayhi Salam is yet to see

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the pain of it all the hardship of the rules,

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Allah says in the Quran,

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in

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in the US all again, he repeats it twice with every one hardship many eases will come out in an alarm repeated again, with every one hardship, many aces will come out, we have to be patient, one hard thing happens to you Be patient, a lot is going to bring up many good from it. We just got to be patient.

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This is our test.

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So now use of alayhis salam has become the servant. He became a slave after that, not as a son, but of the Aziz, the Minister of the Pharaoh. And this noble woman, noble as in to her people. She was famous. She had a very high authority. And she was youthful. She was young, and she was actually very beautiful.

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The wife of the Aziz everybody respected her she had a very high status in society and very wealthy and very powerful.

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Power, beauty and wealth. And she and he was her slave.

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What happens here is that Allah says in the Quran, a remarkable verse. Allah belemnite Shantanu rajim Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim. Welcome again. Can

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we do

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Walla

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Walla, Juan de buena

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Sina

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which means dusted we establish use of in the land, that we might teach him the interpretation of stories of dreams. And the law has full power over his affairs, but most of the people do not know. We established use of interland means we he was well looked after his master by his master and Allah gave him a very good dwelling, he had a firm foot, this is the plan. Allah made him a slave. But the reason he put him with a master so that he can have a firm foot he's safe is looked after his pampered, but he's a slave. Nobody disturbs him. In the meantime, Allah is teaching him. And this is a lesson for us, especially as parents or as individuals. When you want to study or you want to

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learn or educate your children or yourselves, brothers and sisters, avoid distractions and focus on what you're learning and complete it to the end. This is a weakness in a lot of us. We need to complete our actions to the end if it is good, because the Prophet sallallahu send them says Allah loves a servant that when he doesn't act, he does it to its fullest. So do your acts and don't get into distractions. And the biggest thing that we have to focus on in this life is our worship of Allah subhanho wa Taala learning our Deen and why we have been created here. And all the worldly knowledge that we get is in order to serve our Dean to serve our way of life to help us in this

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journey, so use a valet Sam was put there in the school, the teacher

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or his his teacher was on last panel with Tyler and jabril Allah is Sam was bringing the information team teaching in the miracles of learning dreams and other information of the unseen

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in the end, the law says And Allah has full power over his affairs but most of the people do not know. When Allah wants something to happen brothers and sisters he creates means he creates the means and then guides you to them. Like when a loved one something for you. He starts things happen in front of you and you're sort of you find yourself going into them like you're steered into them.

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Rely on a lot and be patient inshallah. Go with the flow in Shell and rely on Allah, avoid the Haram as much as you can do the good as much as you can and go with the flow. Some of us we may plan in a certain way. And now plan doesn't go the way we want it.

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So Allah steers us away there is probably something good in that. And this is why our prophets Allah Sam tells us when a bad thing happens to you to a believer, you should rely on a man be patient and say the following words, Cobb De La Hoya, Masha

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Allah has decreed and what He wills he does. This means that you put you're willing to let your reliance in the last month data in that you know that something good is going to come out. And the last isn't in the Hadith makutsi says Anna in the first nealon Nia appdb I am the way my servant assumes of me so if you assume of Allah Good, good is going to come out if you assume of Allah bad, maybe that is what's going to come out. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said that fair alluvial Hadith that you do always be optimistic, you will find it in your way. He was used to follow his Salaam, falling into these what we would think disaster.

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A slave now away from his family as a child,

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yet his patience in Allah and Allah says here,

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he makes the means to put the person into them when he wants something to come out. So brothers and sisters, this cut out this is the predestination of Allah when he will something you have to submit to it. When it happens, submit and be patient, work with it. If you can do something about it, do it if you can't rely on the love and be patient, for it is a test for you. When is it a punishment? When the bad thing happens to you and you become impatient. That means you know that this is a punishment from Allah. But if you are patient with what happens to you have negative or bad then know that this is actually a test for you a test some scholars they used to say the following words

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of the past I'm talking about the children of the of the companions, children, they used to say, Oh Allah, if what you have afflicted me with

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if what you have afflicted me with is a test for me.

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Then try me more. You will find that I am patient and if you have afflicted with me with is a punishment, then I yield to you in repentance. I asked you to forgive me from the bottom of my heart. So strange is the matter of the believer. If good happens to your patient and you are thankful you are thankful. If a bad thing happens to you. You are patient and you are still thankful. This is the way the believer lives his life or her life.

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Rather than losing it at your wife and the wife losing her husband or their children when the calamity befalls them, this is a trial from eliab de la seventh Avila this trial allows Megan to go through a journey will you pass this test? Well, no one no, Kamala says we shall try you and test you. And in the end of it, and the end of this verse, I'm skipping a few words, Allah says, give good tidings to the Sabine to those who are patients, give them good news. And then he says the angels descend upon them, making forgiveness for them, asking forgiveness for them.

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So this is where the test lies.

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The next thing that happens to use of alayhis salaam is remarkable. And I'd like the young people here, not very young, not the children, but maybe the teenagers and the ones who are, you know, still in their youthful age. If you're over 40, then forget about it. But if you're between somewhere between the age of maturity and 40, okay,

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I'm just joking. Even people after 40 can experience what just happened to Yusuf Ali his cell and if you are handsome enough, what happened? You understand why I said if you're handsome enough.

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Then next thing, next thing that happens to use of alayhis salam

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is the

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is one of the main lessons here.

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Allah says in the Quran

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while I'm

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done them to

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work and Nick energies in mosinee. And when he attained his maturity, some scholars say 40.

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But I think it's less, because you'll see in the next verses that come he was actually younger.

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When he reached his his maturity, meaning his brain was full, his wisdom was complete, his body had reached its physical strength, and his beauty had reached its climax. It's the, it's the actual That's how you know his absolute beauty in every form.

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Allah says, We gave him wisdom and knowledge.

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So use Valley center and like all the other prophets, there were in extraordinary in their wisdom. They knew what to do when to do it and how to do it. At the right time, they said the right thing at the right time did the right thing at the right time. And then you how to go about it. This is absolute wisdom. This is wisdom. Say the truth when it benefits hide the truth when it doesn't.

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What to do in this circumstance, you can even lie. If it means bringing people together, for example, and this is wisdom, but how you do it, when to be patient when not to this is all wisdom.

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Allah says and thus we do reward those who do right use of Allah salams right thing here was that he persevered, struggled and was patient and relied on the last panel with the IRA. So Allah says he rewarded you. This means brothers and sisters, that any one of us who is patient, persevering, relying reliant upon a Lost Planet, Allah, Allah will reward you with things in this world that you least expected. It's not wealth. It's not, you know, some kind of fame and fortune, but rather it's the inner beauty, the inner fortune and that is wisdom and knowledge, wisdom and knowledge. It is through knowledge that you are able to build and develop and become

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knowledge. Allah says in the Quran, Paul hellyer, Steven Levine Ala Moana will Valentina Allah, Allah moon, those who know and those who don't know, can they be equal, they can be equal, those who know and those who don't know, those who know will stay away from the harm. Those who don't know will fall into the harm. I used to have a teacher who says to Me, there's two types of people. There's the smart person and the foolish person.

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And they both they both learned from mistakes. But one of them smart because he learns from the mistakes of others. He doesn't fall into himself, the foolish one has to fall into the mistake himself to learn.

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So the people who constantly fall again and again and again, in order to learn and some of them, well, it's not really foolish, but they're still smart, but less smarter than the other ones. A foolish person, actually to correct myself is one who falls in the mistake again, and again and again and still doesn't learn.

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This person is a loser.

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And also sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Al mcminn la de la you mean Jocelyn Marotta in a believer does not get stung from the snake from the same snake hole twice.

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That means if someone does you over or you a harm comes in your way or a mistake, you only do it once a believer doesn't repeat the mistake twice.

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And at the same time, there are people who do sins

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Law says in the Quran, Allah will forgive your sins so long as you don't insist on repeating it over and over and over and over.

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Even after that Allah will forgive until it comes to the point where you insist and you make a proper decision. You make a commitment. But while I come and say, Oh ALLAH forgive me in the back of my brain, I'm saying, I'm going to do it again tomorrow. So I'll do it again, I'll just do the same thing. Which reminds me of something. In the story of use of a cinema, I forgot to mention, that when the brothers of Yusuf wanted to throw him in the well, you know what they said? They said, throw him in Noel or kill him. And then after that, repent, after that become better people. You know, a lot of us do that this is the weakness of the human being, say, look, you know, I know it's

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bad, but I'll just do this one time afterwards. Afterwards, I'll ask Allah to forgive me. Now, that's a smart, that's a person who is Alright, this is normal. I'll tell you who the foolish person is, is a person who's who does it over and over, or a person who says I'm still young, you know, when I'm 40 5060 I'll go to Hajj, you know, become a soldier. And then after that, I'll stop fixing my ways. I'm still young now. Well, it kills me. It actually doesn't kill me. I feel sorry for these people that I go to do I go to solemnize weddings, I'm gonna sell them some nice weddings. And when I'm there, it's fun. I see different types of people. When you see the young girls without the hijab

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and their mothers who are 6050 6070 years old. They've got their hijab on Michelle and their daughters are walking around without the hijab. Or you see young men who are lost and got funny haircuts, tattoos everywhere or earrings in there. And then their fathers have got big beards. And you said in so Pamela, what's going on here? The young girls and young boys say to you, I, you know, when I when I get to my father's age, or my mother's age, I'll start becoming a better person. Or even it kills me when some Auntie's or mothers, they say to you, I know don't don't don't get my daughter to wear hijab right now, because she's still young, otherwise, she can't get married. in

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it. She's got to show off her body. She's got to show off her hair. She's got to show off her body. In order to get that husband, what kind of a husband is she looking for? She's doing that what kind of house was gonna, she's gonna get her husband who it has no leader has no jealousy over his wife. He's happy for everybody to look at her. What kind of a man is that? She is your she she is your your trust. And if I'm happy to take on take this, this young girl into my life who you know is very happy about showing off her body and showing off her beauty to other men. Then What kind of a man am I am I to want a wife like that to share around? Or a young man who says to himself, you know, I'll

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live my life as young and when I become 5060 I'll repent back to a loss. pantalla How do you guarantee that you can even walk out of this Masjid today? And you're still alive? Hell

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look at your passport till your license. Is there a date of death on it? No, there is a date of birth. But you'll never find the date of death. You know why? Because nobody knows. anyone in the world. No date of death. Anyone?

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No one can predict.

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I can't even guarantee you a law here right now that in five minutes, I will still be breathing. Can anyone here guarantee that? No.

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So repent to a lion now. This is a great risk to say after after, after Allah says in the Quran. Allah says in the Quran SoTL Hadid

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a Monday I do feel concert oh no McAfee.

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Which means has not come time for those who have gone away from Allah astray to come back to him already. And not be like those who received the scriptures before so they changed them and turned away from them until their hearts became hard and

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and Allah does not give guidance to those who are truly corrupters.

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Their hearts became hard and meaning they kept going away. Delaying delaying delaying they returned back to Allah until finally, a disease entered their hearts and their hearts became hard. And they could no longer open up to the love of Allah. They died on disbelief and they died on corruption. The heart. Be careful brothers and sisters, when you delay repentance, what happens to that you're actually affecting your heart. It's like a cancer. You say I've got cancer, I'm not going to go to the doctor until later while the cancer is spreading in your body. It gets to a point where the doctor says to you it's too late.

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We could have treated it maybe. Maybe we could have treated it a few months ago but you're too late. Like that to disease of the heart. So we need to repent brothers and sisters immediately. So Yusuf Ali Salaam was among those who did not delay his repentance but his brothers did.

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Now use of alayhis salam What happened to him? Allah says in the Quran

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At Morphe Bay, Tina

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atelic column

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which means, Allah says, and

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the one

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whom he stayed at her house, meaning his master, the wife of his master.

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She entered the home,

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locked the door

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and seduced use of Allah, his Salah. She said to him, do whatever you want with me.

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So you've got a handsome men in front of him.

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I want to just paint a picture for you here brothers, just so you can understand the intensity of this situation.

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You have a handsome men

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who is a slave. A slave means no one cares about his reputation. So he's got no reputation to lose.

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Number two,

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no one is to blame him. He's a slave. No one blames a slave. Number three, is irresistibly beautiful.

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Number four.

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He's got a powerful woman before Him who can protect him.

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Number five, she's wealthy. She can look after him. So if he does what she wants to live like a king.

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Number six, she's beautiful. She's attractive.

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Number seven, she's locked the doors and the windows. No one can see anything.

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So as they say, this is the perfect crime.

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The perfect crime.

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In the eyes, unfortunately, of the modern day, world that we live in, this is the perfect What? The perfect paradise. The perfect setting the perfect paradise. lustful, beautiful. You think that you're mad or insane if you don't do something

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with a woman in this situation?

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However,

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this is not a normal man.

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And at the same time, this is not a normal situation. So don't want anyone to think, well, he's a prophet.

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I don't think you had a situation like he's ever before. I don't think any of us will have a situation like that. Maybe halfway there, but not like that. So Allah gives it every person a test in the way that they deserve it in the way that is justifiable. So the prophets Allah punished them worse than us, and tested them triple quadruple 10 times more than us. So then anyone say Oh, he's a prophet, I can't do what he does. The test for him was triple double, quadruple the news.

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However, this is an example for us.

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I love that gives us a little bit more than the prophets.

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So he there's a balance.

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She entered into the room and said in hate her luck. So number eight, she says to him, I'm all yours. Do whatever you want.

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Sorry for that expression. But this is what it is to tell you that every single opportunity with ease and less than temptation is there. Hey Tilak

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and what did he say?

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He said, I seek refuge in Allah.

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And I asked a lot to protect me.

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It's not like someone's coming with a knife about to slit his throat. Nor is someone holding a gun to his head. Okay, that's when you would say our law protect me. Please save me. This is when someone's grabbed you throwing off the clips that are law saving. in this situation. Our law saved me from what?

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From falling prey to lust from committing Zina.

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Not only that, he was so afraid of this heinous act that he said he tried to plead to her reminding her with her conscience saying in hora, BIA cinemas why your husband my master he's looked after me. Please don't make me do something to betray. My master has been good to me. I want to be back to him. Have some conscious woman have some brains woman

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but she didn't agree. she chased after him. As she was about to grab him. Allah says in the Quran was several called Bab. What? Hey Ray, they raised to the door.

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On your marks, get set go. They raced to the door. Who's going to get to their first use of valet cinemas to get to the door to escape. She wants to race him to the door to stand in his way so it doesn't escape. The opposite Illa

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Allah says on top of that was debacle Bab waka camisa, whom in Davao she even managed to grab him by his shirt from the back

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And she pulled him aggressively until she ripped his shirt.

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So there was an aggressive seduction here.

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Not by a woman to woman but by a woman to a man,

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a prophet of Allah. Does that exist today? Which men are like this today, which youth are like this, any of them left?

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You know, this person once said, in front of friends, he said, I've never been to a nightclub before. Everyone looked at him with shock.

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Because he said, I've never been inside of a nightclub. All of a sudden, a nightclub not being in there is a shock to everyone.

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Another one said, you know, I've never kissed a girl before. Everyone looked at him in absolute dismay. Not only in dismay, they thought he's a loser.

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And now they make movies about, you know, men who are losers because they can't get women and they call them wimps and accounts.

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how things have changed around

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where women have lost the absolute value, men have lost their value.

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And this type of behavior is considered to be noble, and courageous.

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Allahu Akbar, you're a warrior. You're a hero. If you can serve your lusts and temptations,

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and then you have issues of rape, and crime. And then you've got laws, especially in western countries that can't even solve anything. Just the other day I read in the paper, about a man who was convicted in the court of law in Sweden, who was convicted of rape,

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you know, kind of rape.

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It says that the woman she agreed to having to close with him.

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But excuse me for the expression, he used some kind of contraception, I don't want to say its name, and the contraception broke. Based on that.

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She went into court by claiming rape,

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even with her consent.

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So now their own laws can even solve their own problems. They bring more laws that bring more problems for them.

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And Allah says in the Quran, we'll learn when you need to balance. Allah wants to forgive you, while you read when Latina Runa chanela tamiu Malan alima, those who follow their own loss and temptations, they want to lead you astray away very far. You read a long line, you have come a long ways to lessen the burden off your shoulders, he doesn't want to want you to fall into harm. He doesn't want you to fall into predicaments we can't climb out of you read a lot more you have FIFA uncom. These laws in our Deen are only there to protect you. They are not there to cause you harm or restrict you yet.

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They are there to protect you. Because there's so much harm out there.

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Inside the IFA, Allah also tells us follow my laws, because you're weak, you're weak, past them and follow my guidance. I'm there for you, like what your father and mother do to keep you away from fire, I take them away from harm, the restriction place boundaries around you. We need boundaries from Allah otherwise we fall into her. And then there's aids, and there's HIV. And there is unwanted pregnancies by girls are only 13 years old. 1312 1213.

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And what happens to the child they put up for adoption, the child grows up without a father or mother what oppression what oppression.

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And me to repeat the same thing again and again.

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So there is great harm in this. And here we are trying to tell you youth that doing these actions makes you a man. You want to become a man ID to get married. I dare you to get married. Because to them. This is the most cowardly thing. They don't dare to get married brothers and sisters that are there to get married. I know of a friend who is sitting here among you, I don't want to point out to him, but he had a neighbor who was married to his wife for how long as far as I can remember maybe what 20 years, they had children and Indian they divorced. They separated. They didn't divorced or separated in a defector relationship.

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They were too afraid to get married. I had a neighbor. She had a three year old daughter, but they never got married her and her partner. In the end they left her for another woman obviously is gonna leave you for another woman is too afraid to be a man. He doesn't want to get mad because he's too deep in his lusts. And then turns around she says men they're only after their ego. Of course. Why did you take a man like that? Allah gave us conscience. Allah gave us guidance in our brains to think with

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and so a lot of bids from these things because not to bring us harm. And you know what? Sad, unfortunately 80% of the time, majority of the time, women are the victims.

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Women are the victims in this situation.

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So you can see it's reversed. Now, what does the man want? The man wants to use an abused the woman used and abused the woman.

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And you know what if these young girls were able to look inside and read the mother, what's in the mind of young men these days?

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Well, I don't think any of them any of them will even hang around as much as 10 kilometers away from men, close to a men they wouldn't want to.

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But the men, they like to deceive them wicked men, they like to deceive women wicked, got none God fearing we're talking about. And then you get this poor woman who thinks that he's my boyfriend,

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we're going to struggle is the image she has in her head, we're going to stroll in the park, he's going to pick up a daffodil and give it to me, or a rose,

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hand in hand together. And then we're gonna wait until the sunsets and the birds chirping around us in this beautiful park.

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Poor think this is what she thinks right?

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But the man is thinking about one thing. And he's going to tolerate all of that until he gets to it.

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I'm talking about men with diseases in their heart. And there are many of them today, with the tablet with the with it with all the sceneries that you have out there. And all the things that are occurring.

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I feel very sorry for a lot of women. And I feel very sorry for a lot of men who have sold their youth and sold their chastity sold the dignity

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to be so cheap.

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In the past,

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Arab gills here in this country in Australia, in Sydney and in Melbourne, an Arab girl. And the 10 years ago,

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was the most as I'm going to use lame terms because they're what they say she was the hardest to get. Okay, she was

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the most difficult to get to.

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And all those other boys, they knew that.

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My wife tells me when she was back at school, the Arab girl, she was untouchable. And the Arab Muslim men.

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They used to always protect them. So they had the leader on the sisters in Islam.

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To Allah His great sorrow, only now six years ago, I've been going to Sydney back and forth and in Melbourne. And these are the stories I'm hearing. Our girls are out there throwing themselves at the men throwing themselves. And now the men are pushing them away.

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From what Allah put us put our sisters to where they become

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like trash, cheap,

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because she wants some attention.

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And I say Subhanallah to these men

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who pick on women who don't put the hijab on so it's her fault, it's her fault. You come to a man and say, well, it's her fault. This is some culture we have. Were boys allowed to go out with the girl do whatever he wants, because the girl's fault. Did you not know that in the Quran? Allah subhanaw taala addresses the man first. In relation to this type of religion. He says what it says call me Nina, me Nina male masculine turn, Colima. mininova human Abba sorry him tell the believing men

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to cover their gaze to guard part of their gaze meaning not to use their gaze too much. Then he says one minute to look at him. And then say also to the women believing women to God, part of their gaze, wakefulness origin, and to God that chastity What are you Nina, Xena, tahuna, Illa liberality and not to reveal their dominance in their beauty except to their husbands or to those whom they cannot marry like her father, her brother and other women. That's okay, in order to protect our own chastity, but Allah addresses the man first. So hijab actually applies to the men before the woman because hijab is not about a scarf on the head Habibi.

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hijab doesn't mean scarf a lot of people who say hey Jabba I'm gonna wear the scarf soon, scarf is not hijab heavy scarf is just covering the hair, not revealing the body and covering the hair. You see them walking out tight clothing, Mashallah. And then they've got it, she's got a little scarf on her head Mashallah the cause that hijab This is not his job, his job is protection and veil. And for the man there is a protection and veil.

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The veil is their behavior. And the man also has a modest dress code as well. But hijab Not only is in clothing, but also in behavior. In fact, there is a greater emphasis on hijab, in the behavior and attitude than there is on clothing in the Quran in the Sunday at one, so much about talking about the voice, about the socialized and how far you can go about the manner that you walk the way that you seclude yourself, the way you you work, you gaze at people, the way you present yourself. All of this is part of hijab and clothing is only one little portion of

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So my dear brothers and sisters, don't fool yourselves hijab to both areas. And that way you will guard yourself guard your mother's guard your sisters, guard your daughters, guard your wives, and guard yourselves. I know of

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some sisters, who got fooled by the shade thought they saw their brothers going out and doing what they want to do. And then what happens to the girl, as she grew up with her foolish, weak brain. And obviously, with parents who don't know how to raise their children,

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she began to want to do what her brothers did. So she began to meet some girls were corrupt. And she'd wait for the night her parents would think she's asleep, and God of her window with her friends until finally she was raped. And this is one incident out of many. But the other incidents are because you see she goes out, someone spikes her drink, and what happens to her.

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And some of them they are convinced that this is what they should do. These girls think that this is what they should do. Allahu Akbar, they become slaves to society, slaves, and they call hijab slavery. This is an independent woman who doesn't want all of that she has gotten herself from all of this, whereas the other ones, boys and girls, they have made themselves slaves to their lust, temptations and the society. So I challenge you to get married and become a man. I challenge you.

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Use of Allah His salon was among those who beat his lust and desires.

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You know what she said?

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Well, they chased to the door. They raised each other to the door, she ripped his shirt.

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And so Pamela, the husband,

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of the woman of zulekha, he happened to just suddenly enter into the house, he opened the door.

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What alphaeus Are you there? Her little bed Allah says, and they found her say it or master again, not calling him husband. She found her master at the door.

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Now he saw this running, you know, tearing off clothing. In that situation? He knew something was wrong.

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So immediately,

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the woman of the Aziz of the minister, she blurts out the following words, Carla, she said, What is the punishment of someone who seduces your wife,

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except that you imprison him, or give him a severe torture.

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She's very cunning here, I don't know if you realize what she's trying to do.

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She's trying to deter the minister's thoughts away from killing use of Alison because in their laws under the Kings laws in that time, that whoever seduces the woman of a nobleman who was put to death. She didn't want him to die because she felt guilty, but she was doing it at the same time. She wanted to keep him for future opportunities. Now, this is the shaitan. And unfortunately, there are wicked women out there and I'm not picking on the woman. But in this case, we are using this because the scenario has brought it up, that there are wicked women out there in the process and tells us to seek refuge in Allah from them fitna to Nyssa the wicked plots of women who don't fear a

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loss. panatela said, Oh, Allah save us from the wicked plots of women. And these are the types of women who plot wickedly the ones who listen to the shaitan. Because women why the process didn't specify women here, because I'll tell you something. And I asked our sisters to close to close their ears because I don't want them to learn this, then they'll use it against their husbands. Women are

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more successful,

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is statistically proven as well. Women are more successful

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in tricking the man than the man is in tricking the woman.

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This is actually true, statistically proven. The woman can lower the man more than what the man can lower the woman, she can trick him more. But if the man feels a lot and lowers his gaze, he can focus. And they say that in school because I'm a teacher, they say that when I did a study on education, a class that's mixed with boys and girls, class that's mixed with boys and girls, they found that the boys did,

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though they were more distracted, because they were ashamed.

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They were shy of the gills. So they were thinking what's the Gil thinking about me?

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Another study did show that the girls were more distracted, because they wanted the attention of the boys. And they say that the study showed the boys were affected by the girls distractions more than what the girls were more than what the girls were affected by the boys distractions by the alluring

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and they showed that the girls love the attention and they could get it very easily.

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There was a boy who was counseling and he said, young Muslim boy, he said I, you know, unfortunately I've gone into heroin. I said, What's the harm? He said, Now I have a girlfriend. I said, Have you done anything said No, I haven't done anything major, but minor. I said, you have to make your choice, I think and I gave him a bit of $1. And in the end, he sat with a girl and said to her Muslim sisters, personalize it to her, it's off for the sake of Allah. And if we really want each other and shall learn in the future, we'll get married. She started to cry and bawled her eyes out. He came back to me. And he said, after a week, he said, I'm back with her. I said, Why?

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He said, she cried.

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I said, so what if she cried, they're always gonna cry.

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It gets but she cried really bad. And I felt really bad. I said, so panela how weak women are. A few tears make you lose you back. And humbler after that he did become stronger, and Hamden leather cut off that relationship. Many others like that.

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A woman once went to the court, this is in the past Muslim world. And he and she complained about her husband wanting to divorce him.

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And she said, My husband is this and that, and that, the judge said to her,

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I will only divorce him from you.

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This is a true story, but it's quite humorous. They're all in divorce in from you if you can do one thing. She said what he said, You have to get me the hair of a lion.

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She goes to divorce mind to get him out of my misery, okay, I'll get you the hair of a lion. So she went and found when there was a lion, and she began to trick the line everyday, she'd feed him a bit, feed him a bit, feed him a bit until the lion was so fooled. And the lion became so full to the point where he didn't want to eat anything else. So when he became really lazy, she came closer to him and closer to him. When she started seeing that the lion wasn't any any more meat, she came close enough to him and he didn't care less that she was next thing and took the hair off the chest of the line, she brought the hair to the judge and said, here it is now divorced me from my husband,

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he said, Subhanallah you could play a trick on the lion, but you couldn't play tricks on your husband to try and lure him towards you.

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In I did this and do something about it, look what you did to the lion.

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So

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somehow, we can prolong our marriages in Charlotte in this sense. And I think that a woman can play a bigger role in shala. In lowering her husband to her and winning the best of him. In in the Western world, they say and I don't say this is what you have to do. But just as an example, the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach. So feed him and get to his stomach is one way for some men, so find out and do so. So the woman she said, What is the punishment of a person who seduces your wife, except that a terrible punishment or imprisonment?

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So now they took him before to be tried.

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And Allah says in the Quran, that Yusuf Alayhi Salam had to spell out the truth. He said he wanted me and nipsey She is the one that seduced me.

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So that's when he was put to trial. Okay, there's a difference here. Let's go to trial.

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Allah says in the Quran washa washa he does he do mean Lena in Ghana?

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slideout but fellside alclad someone who I mean even or can alchemy

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fat guy, that fat guy that well, who I mean I saw the the.

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He said a cousin of the woman, a relative of this woman. So Pamela how Alo works. He bared witness. He said, let's look at a shirt if it is ripped from the front, then he will be the liar and she will be the truthful one. Meaning that he came to seduce her and she tried to struggle and so maybe she ripped his shirt from the front. But if your shirt is ripped from the back, then she is the liar and he is the truthful one. So he's running away and she ripped it. Allah says in the Quran, phenom commies Oh, god damn.

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Carla in

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Canada.

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In Canada, can

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you sue for one hair that was really big was

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the key in Akiko teeny nanocoating. When they saw his shirt ripped from the back.

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The Aziz the minister said to his woman, this is part of your own plot. You are in the wrong so seek forgiveness from your Lord. And oh use of just forget about it. Forget that it ever happened. So panela the minister instead of telling everybody

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My wife is that mistake and he is innocent. He said to her, you've plotted

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just ask God to forgive you. And oh yourself Can you please just keep it Loki

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because you know it's detrimental should be honorable woman that you know the woman of an honorable man she committed such a lustful behavior also her slave. Please keep it quiet. And he said to start feeling Robic.

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Ask your Lord to forgive you. Yes, they did worship idols, but Subhana Allah, even them on the religion of Abraham. They knew that there was only one God who actually forgave the sins and punished so that he said to her, asked your only one God to forgive you.

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She didn't do so she went away and still plotting and planning. Allah says in the Quran, if you thought that he got that bad got even worse. Allah says in the Quran

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that a group of noble women, women who also had high status, because you see, if you're a high status, what do you have? People friends of high status as well if this is what you like? So you hang around with the rich people you hang around with the noble people, if you if this is what's important to you. So the wife of the disease or the woman of that disease, she had no ball, or so called rich, famous, popular or powerful women around her. These women, they started to backstab. They started hanging around and say whispering, have you heard about the woman of the Aziz of the minister? She's seducing her slave. She's using her slave in a lot on her field on any movie. She's

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crazy. She's gone nuts. Who seduces their enslave

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isn't to the plan of Allah, how it's working here. So Panama, for them mess me up to be mockery, when Allah says when she heard about their plots in this lander

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or Salat la hin. She sent a messenger to call them she invited them. It says that she invited them to her house as guests. And they had a feast. So she had food and she brought out some desserts. And she brought out fruit without cutting them fruit that needed to be cut. So she placed knives for them to cut. You know, when someone comes as a guest, you place a bit of Apple, a bit of oranges, bit of pear, and sometimes we give cutlery to the guests for them to serve themselves, help themselves to the fruit. So this is what she did to these noble women.

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As they were sitting there eating and enjoying and cutting their fruits and eating, she dressed up she told us about his time to dress up in a beautiful garment. He became a well groomed we'll call it the flagella when she requested he commanded him to come out.

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So he came out a losses in the court and something miraculous.

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Allah says we'll call that the flagellin. felon

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ad.

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Bash Oh, well kkona hash

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bash on in

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game

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when they saw him

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they gratified him

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like that. It's like screaming out with dismay with amazement with shock.

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And they said her Shatila. No way. This is not a human being. He is an angel sent down from the heavens.

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What Katana do as they were looking at him, they became so paralyzed that they couldn't even feel their own bodies for a moment. They became paralyzed. hypnotized to the point where as some of them were cutting the fruit.

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Allah says they cut their hands repeatedly.

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They're cutting the fruit. So they're enjoying themselves and the man comes out. And then they look at him and they forgot that there was no cutting away until Allah says they began to cut the skin. The pants not once Katana is plural is a plural verb. Katana over and over twice three times.

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How beautiful was he?

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When the woman of the disease saw them do this. She turned to them and said

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furtherly can lead you to nanny fee.

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This is the one you blame me because of him.

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And yes, I'm the one who seduced him. For starsan he resisted but look what happened to you. Haha. You cut your hand and you're blaming me.

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This is to illustrate to you brothers and sisters. the enormity of the situation. Use of alayhis salaam

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Given a greater test and all of us,

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and it is seduction right here. First it was abandonment from his family's second slavery, third, pain and torture. And now seduction has been tested almost with all the tests that we run away from.

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Except for death. It hasn't approached him yet.

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And here he is.

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What happened just to end this in show alone concluded, the women who saw him they began to try and convince yourself to agree with what the woman wants. You know what she said? What are in lamea? Morrow, ladies, gentlemen,

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what I couldn't I mean,

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if he doesn't do what I am commanding him to do,

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then he is going to be imprisoned and among the lowest of the low, so the women came to him and said, please do what she wants. We don't want you to be in prison. We don't want you to be like you went between nobody listened to her. So now they're trying to seduce him to to accept

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Yusuf Ali Salaam ran away from them. And he went into the darkness praying to Allah night in the night prostrating over and over and crying to Allah. Carla are besieged No, I have bought in a mega drone and he lay oh my lord the prison is better to me than what they are calling me to the prison the dungeons the rats in there

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is better to me than what they are calling me to do which men do that today.

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We're in let us refund Nikita Hoon oh my lord if you don't

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deter them away from me, possible even with my weaknesses, a human being I may, I may fall prey to what they're asking me I'm weak. Oh my Lord, I need you to protect me. I'm weak.

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Allah says first a job Allah horrible. His Lord responded to him for sada and who Qaeda when he protected him from them by what? By making him into the prison.

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So panela dungeon is a bad place. No one wants to enter a Muslim should not wish for it. But in this circumstance, it's justifiable. Like I've been Tamia Rama de la la when he was in prison because of what he was calling to the truth. He said if they imprison me it is 100 word for me. It is a seclusion with my Lord. This is how a believer is he brings out the best from the greatest misfortune that other people think it is. People think it's a misfortune to the believer. It is success.