Asif Hirani – Ayah of the Night Ramadan Day 13

Asif Hirani
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The speaker discusses the struggles of fatherhood in modern society, including drug addiction and dropout. They also mention the importance of fatherhood in saving children from starvation and the positive impact it can have on society. The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding the role of fatherhood in our community and offers guidance on how to properly address these issues.
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Our society

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is struggling big time from fatherlessness.

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There are statistics and report

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that fatherlessness

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have caused so much drug addiction,

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so much

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high school dropout, and so many other issues.

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Lack of father is a problem in our

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entire modern society.

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Now, see Suri Yusuf. In the beginning,

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Allah

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highlights the role of Yaqub

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in the development of Yusuf, alayhi, salaam.

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Allah

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says, in the beginning, at 4, when Yusuf

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alaihi salatu wa sallam saw a dream, that

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famous dream, 11 stars and a sun and

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a moon doing sajdah to him. He went

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straight to his dad.

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He had 11 other siblings. He had other

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aunties, but he went straight to his dad

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because he was trusting and his

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trusting. And his dad had such a relationship

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with him that, actually, my dad will able

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to help me, if I'm struggling or if

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I have seen any dream. He will able

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to help me to find the answer to

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it. And then Yaqub alayhis salaam also, he

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was not dismissive of the idea that I

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am busy because,

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you have to understand, he was a

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prophet. He had 12 kids. That's what we

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know from the Quran. But he gave time

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to the son. And at the same time,

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he advised him and very wise advice.

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This is what we are learning. When a

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father talks to his son, that makes a

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huge impact. This is in his childhood when

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he was 7 years old. Now if you

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go at the end of Surah Yusuf, you'll

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see something really interesting.

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You will see the same Yusuf alaihis salaam

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when he will grow old. He will become

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the reason

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of saving so many kids from starvation in

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Egypt. SubhanAllah.

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When father gives time to his son and

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daughter

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and gives advice to the son and daughter,

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then eventually these people, these son and daughter,

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when they will grow old, they will going

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to give it back to the community in

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a positive way. An extremely, extremely important reminder

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to all of us about the role of

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fatherhood in our community.

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I ask Allah

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to give us all the ability

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to

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understand these ayat properly. I mean, You're

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