Aqeel Mahmood – The Reality of Death

Aqeel Mahmood
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The speaker discusses the topic of death and how it is inevitable and common misperception. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing one's life and not wasting time in a situation where death is close. The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning and rewarding one's experiences in prioritizing one's life and prioritizing deeds. They stress the need to pursue death as a first step towards achieving their goals and encourage individuals to pray and be strong in their minds. The speaker also mentions a WhatsApp number for those who want to join a broadcast group.
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Brothers and sisters, today

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we're going

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to talk about

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the topic of death.

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And the topic of death is one of

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those topics which

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I think

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most of us, if not every single one

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of us here,

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have at some point or another

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heard

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a talk

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regarding death.

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We've heard reminders, we've heard talks, we've heard

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lectures

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about

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death itself.

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And

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there's many a hadith

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and more importantly many ayaats in the Quran

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where Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala talks about death.

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And

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instead of just repeating,

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many things which you may have heard previously

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about

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death and the reality of death

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and just generally the things that we normally

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hear,

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I wanted to,

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in this talk

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discuss

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and talk about

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1 or 2 of these ayat, just 1

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or 2 ayat.

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And also I wanted to

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have a look at what some of the

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salaf, what some of the pious predecessors

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said regarding death. What they said about death.

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How they viewed death. What was their

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mindset

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with regards to death.

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And

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when we reflect on how they

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thought about death, what they viewed or what

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they what was their mentality

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regarding death, what was their view regarding death,

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when we study and we analyze what they

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said

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and how they viewed death,

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then it should make us reflect about how

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we see death.

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You know, what's our reaction?

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How do we feel? What do we think?

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Whenever we think of

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death,

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the word death,

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whenever we see death, whether it's in the

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media, on social media,

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or even for example when a close one

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passes away or someone we knew, or we

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hear about someone passing away, generally whether it's

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a Muslim or non Muslim,

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how does it actually make us think?

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What's our mindset?

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How do we feel whenever we

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hear something or see something connected to death

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itself?

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And the first thing that I wanted to

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mention with regards to death

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is, as we all know,

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from an ayah in the Quran, in fact

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one of the most famous ayat in the

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Quran regarding the regarding death, it's something which

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most of us if not all of us

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have

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heard and we know it either in Arabic

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itself or in English,

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one of the most famous ayaats

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on death. You could tell me what the

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aya is.

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So everyone basically thought the same thing,

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more or less.

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Every soul shall taste death.

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And this is an ayah that we've heard

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before

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and we understand

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to an extent,

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okay,

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the repercussions of this ayah

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and the statement of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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that any soul that ever lives,

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anyone who is ever born

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from the beginning of time,

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from Adam

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up until the last man who ever lives

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before the day of judgement,

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every single individual

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will eventually die.

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When he will die, that's something which only

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala knows.

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But if we look around us and we

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reflect and we, you know,

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contemplate

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certain people,

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you may have

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friends,

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acquaintances,

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people you know

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who are very very wealthy

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and they just keep on making lots of

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money, mashallah. Maybe Allah bless them with wealth.

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And then you have other people who are

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very poor. You know sometimes I drive out

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of Morrison's car park and I see, you

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know, poor people there, homeless people just sitting

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there.

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And so you look at this contrast,

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You look at newborn children and how sometimes

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we're,

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blessed with children of our own, or we've

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heard of

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family members or relatives or friends being blessed

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with a baby and we go and visit

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them and we see these newborn babies.

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And it's like the beginning of a, you

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know, of a new life which Allah

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has has blessed that baby with and that

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family with.

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And then we look on the other side

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and we see elderly people.

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You know family members, relatives of ours, very

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old,

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okay, weak.

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And they've lived through so many experiences and

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so many things have happened in their lives.

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So you see

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wealthy people

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and you see poor people,

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at one point or another

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both of them will eventually taste death. They're

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going to die at one point or another.

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Death will come to them.

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So that wealth that they had or they

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never had

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is something which

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really if you look at it

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from a certain point of view,

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it doesn't make any difference.

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And whether

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a baby is born, or whether a person

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has lived 70, 80 years of his life,

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death is going to come to both of

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those

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individuals.

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And in fact the newborn baby,

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it may be the case and Allah may

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decree

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that that baby may die before the 78

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year old man who may be suffering from

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cancer for the last 10, 15, 20 years.

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And again this is from the Qadr of

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Allah.

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This is also a sign that death is

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something which is going to come to every

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single individual.

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Somebody who's famous, somebody who's, you know, on

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YouTube and he's on Facebook and he has

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so many likes and, you know, he's he's

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popular, he's famous.

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He's a sports personality. He's on the top

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of his game.

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And this individual as well, he's gonna pass

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away. The person you don't even know him.

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He's somebody who's unknown.

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You've never heard of him.

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He's a stranger to you.

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And he passes away,

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and no one bats an eyelid, no one

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says anything about him because he wasn't famous,

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but that person's gonna die as well.

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And so when you reflect brothers and sisters,

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it's something which every single person will experience.

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But even though it's something which every single

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person will experience,

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it's

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what Al Imam al Hassan Abbasari

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said

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that rings true. When he said that,

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it's amazing how the one thing

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which will

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happen to every single person,

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if every single person will experience it,

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that's the one thing that people are most

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neglectful of.

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Meaning the thing that they're most neglectful of

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is something which nobody can argue

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or debate that is not gonna happen to

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them.

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But it's something we neglect the most. It's

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something we tend to ignore. We don't think

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about the reality of it, even though it's

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gonna happen to every single one of us.

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And we just prayed a janazah prayer last

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night. There was a janazah prayer here take

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that took place,

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which is a reminder for all of us.

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So

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when we think about death brothers and sisters,

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and when we realize that death is something

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which is inevitable, it's going to happen to

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every single one of us,

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then in reality it's something which should change

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our mindset. Meaning

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it should change the way we behave.

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It should change the way we think.

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Because this is something which is inevitable.

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And what's even more scarier is how we

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don't know when death is going to come

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to us.

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As Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala tells in the

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Quran,

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that a person doesn't know

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in which part of the world he's going

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to pass away.

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Not only does he know does he not

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know when death is going to come to

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him, but he doesn't even know where he's

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going to be when death comes. How many

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times have we heard about somebody who traveled

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somewhere and he passed away while on holiday?

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While he was visiting family and friends in

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another country,

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while he went for Hajj al Umrah.

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So a person,

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he has no guarantee

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where he's going to be let alone when

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death is going to come to him, when

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it eventually comes.

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And all of these things brothers and sisters,

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it should make us it should change our

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mindset because

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when you know for sure death is going

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to come,

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it's like the one

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who's been blessed by Allah,

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when he knows that death is close to

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him. How does he know death is close

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to him?

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Because of maybe an illness that's

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that's afflicted him, maybe has cancer or something

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else. And so he knows now,

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I don't have that much left, I don't

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have that much time left.

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And if you reflect and you think about

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those people who

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they're they have some kind of terminal illness,

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the way they behave

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and the things they do are different to

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the way normal people behave who are healthy.

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You know, the way they the things that

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they do and the way they behave is

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different.

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It's like for example, you know you hear

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stories about

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generally you hear stories about people who all

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of a sudden,

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in a young age,

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they're told by the doctors that they only

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have 10 days to live,

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or half a month to live, or a

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month to live.

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Okay, what do they do?

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They write down a list of things like

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a bucket list

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of things that they want to do before

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they die.

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And you know, subhanallah, when you imagine yourself

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in that situation where you know you're going

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to die,

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it really makes you prioritize.

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It gives you like focus.

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And you tend to, you know, forget about

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those things which are trivial in your life,

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those things which aren't important.

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You know, the arguments you had, the, you

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know, the differences you had, the bickering you

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used to do

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with other people,

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things that you were involved in where you

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ended up wasting a lot of time.

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When you realize death is around the corner,

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you only have a week to live or

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a month to live or 2 months to

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live or whatever the case may be,

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then you really start to focus on those

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things which are important.

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And that's why you hear stories about people

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who know they're passing away. They they know

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they're going to die eventually because because of

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some terminal illness. They've been told they don't

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know exactly when they're going to die, but

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they have an idea of how long they

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have left to live. They may survive longer,

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but they'll have a month left or or

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or 2 months or whatever the case may

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be.

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And these people, they start to write a

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list of what they wanna do,

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And everything else isn't as important.

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And they waste less time

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being involved in those things which aren't going

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to really benefit them or anything which is

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negative in their life.

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And us especially as muslims brothers and sisters,

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it shouldn't take us

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a

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certain piece of news from our doctors

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of us

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being told that we're not going to survive

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or we're going to live for a certain

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amount of time,

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it shouldn't take us something like this for

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us to change our lives.

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It shouldn't take us

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this kind of news for us to change

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the way we behave, and change the way

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we do things, and change our priorities.

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But this in and of itself is a

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lesson for us. It shows us that, you

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know, when you reflect

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actually on death, when someone's been told he

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only has a few weeks left to live,

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he starts to prioritize about what's important and

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what's not important.

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And this is our this is how our

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mindset should be from the beginning. We should

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be thinking to ourselves,

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what is important in my life? And what

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isn't important?

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You know, what am I doing with my

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life? How am I benefiting myself?

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How am I wasting my time? What am

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I doing that's beneficial for me?

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And of course,

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when we reflect and we think of those

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things which are beneficial, we're thinking about the

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akhirah, we're thinking about the afterlife.

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Because that's what we're all preparing for, that's

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what we're all aiming for.

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So So when people have bucket list from

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non Muslims,

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okay, they're all things like bungee jumping or,

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you know, skydiving

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or doing something crazy, traveling somewhere to Paris

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or to Tokyo or whatever the case may

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be, they just it's a bucket list of

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things I want to do in this world.

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But

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as Muslims, we have to reflect and think

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about how we're going to invest in the

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akhirah, what are we going to do? How

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are we going to benefit ourselves?

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And so death has a way of making

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you prioritize your life.

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It makes you realize actually,

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I don't have that much time left because

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I don't know how long I'm going to

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live.

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And so whatever I'm going to do in

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the day, in the night, in the next

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few days, or the week, or the coming

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months,

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I need to make sure that I'm aiming

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for something, that I have some kind of

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goal.

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That I'm doing

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deeds which will help me in the akhirah,

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whatever those deeds might be.

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Because once a person becomes sick,

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and this is why some of the scholars

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they will talk about illnesses,

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and

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it's one step closer to one's death.

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Because when you become sick, when you become

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ill, it's only because of Allah that you

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may be cured.

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And it may be that Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala as a result of that sickness that

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you had, you may end up dying.

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And so when you end up becoming sick,

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whether it's something physical that happened to you,

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you broke your leg or you broke your

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arm,

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or whether it's some kind of mental type

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of illness or whether,

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you know, you just had some kind of

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disease,

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okay, where you unable to to get out

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of bed.

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When you're in that situation and you're lying

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down in your bed,

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you start to think and you start to

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reflect and you start to ask yourself,

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if I was better,

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then I would be doing this, I would

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be doing that, I would be going here,

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I would be doing all of these things.

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If my leg was fine, I'll be jogging

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every single day. I wish I wish my

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leg was fine. I wish it wasn't broken

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because I would jog every single day.

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Even though maybe he wasn't doing that before

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his leg was broken.

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But now that he's lost that blessing that

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he had, okay, he wants to make the

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most of his remembering

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the blessings of being healthy.

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But he only remembered the blessings of being

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healthy when he was actually sick.

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You know, and that's why it's said that

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a person only appreciates

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the blessings that he's been given when he

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loses those blessings, when he doesn't have those

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blessings anymore.

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And that's when you really tend to appreciate

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those things. So when a person is on

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his, you know, he's he's on his bed

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and he's thinking about these things when he's

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sick,

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he's one step closer to to death potentially.

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He could die because of an illness that

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he's been afflicted with.

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And then when Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala kills

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a person,

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he forgets about the things that he used

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to say,

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and he carries on with his life,

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and he does whatever he used to do

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before. Meaning nothing changes.

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He just carries on as normal.

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He doesn't bother going jogging. He doesn't take

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up any sort of exercise. He doesn't do

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anything else. You know, a person loses his

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voice, and he thinks if I was better,

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I would recite lots of Quran.

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And then when he gets his voice back,

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he just doesn't bother reciting Quran. He just

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does whatever he was normally doing.

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So a person doesn't take lessons from those

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sicknesses that maybe Allah gave him as a

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reminder of death itself, to remind him of

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death.

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And this is why subhanAllah Allah tells us

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in the Quran

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about the one

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who on the day of judgment

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he'll see hellfire.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,

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And if you could see the one who

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is standing

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before the fire,

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And he'll say

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He'll say, woe to me if only I

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could go back and I won't deny the

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signs of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala. The signs

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of our Lord.

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And I'll be from those who are righteous,

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from the believers.

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And then Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala he tells

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us the reality of his statement.

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Allah says afterwards

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he says,

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Allah says that

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what they concealed

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beforehand

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has now appeared to them. Meaning it's they've

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been exposed.

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And Allah

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says,

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That if they did return to this world,

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They would have gone back to what we

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forbid them from doing.

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Meaning, you know when someone becomes sick he

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says I wish I was better, I would

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do this and I would do that and

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I would do this.

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And then when they're healthy they don't do

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those things.

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When a person dies, he wishes to come

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back to this world and he thinks to

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himself,

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our life you take me back, I'll do

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this and this and that.

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But in fact if he did come back

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to this world,

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he would go back to doing exactly those

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things which he used to do in the

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past, when he was alive.

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Meaning,

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whatever a person does in this world,

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this is the only life he has.

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And however a person behaves in this world,

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it's as a result of the efforts that

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he's made.

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So when a person makes the effort and

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worships Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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due to his effort he will be rewarded

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for that.

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And if a person commits sins in this

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world, then this is the only life that

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you actually have that you'll experience.

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Apart from the akhirah which is permanent.

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But this world and your life in this

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world is going to affect the akhirah, and

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how you how you live in the akhirah.

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And if they were to come back, they'll

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behave exactly

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the way they did, and they'll go back

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to what we forbid them from doing.

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Meaning they won't actually change.

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And this is something that we actually experience

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in this world, but on a much lower

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scale. Like I mentioned, a person becoming sick.

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Or for example, a person taking a test

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or an exam or an interview.

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And he goes into the exam, and he

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opens the paper,

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and looks at the first question, and he

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just starts he looks up and he thinks

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to himself,

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what's going on here?

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What kind of question is this?

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I didn't revise this. I thought it would

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have come in the exam. He's asking me

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this question. I never thought this question I

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never thought he'd ask me this question. What's

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this interview you're talking about?

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And so you start to think to yourself,

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man, I wish I could just rewind.

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Go back

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to last night when I should have been

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revising and I was just busy on YouTube

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or busy on Facebook and just wasting my

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time watching films and TV shows. I wish

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I could just revise

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and find out the answer to that question,

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and then come back and do this exam

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and just ace it.

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But again,

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the the the way that you behaved

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and the things that you did prior to

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that test and that interview and that exam

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is what you could do at that moment

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in time.

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The way you behaved, the things that you

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did are based on

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your experiences

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and, you know, your surroundings and the things

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that influence you.

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So if you're influenced by bad things,

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then those bad things will have repercussions in

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this life and also in the akhirah.

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So it's like someone doing an exam or

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interview,

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and he realizes that he messed up.

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And then after the exam he regrets it,

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and he wants to go back, he wishes

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he could do it again. But it's too

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late, he can't do it again, it's gone

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now, it's finished, it's over.

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And so the same is the case with

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this world brothers and sisters,

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this is a test as we all know.

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It's an exam.

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And the more effort

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that you put into this test which is

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continuous for each and every single one of

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us, until a time that only Allah knows,

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we have to make the most of it.

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You know this world is like a revision

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for us and also a test.

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We're learning

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and we're rewarded for learning about Islam.

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We act upon what we learn and we're

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rewarded for that as well.

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And then we tested in this world and

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Allah wants to see

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based on what we've learned

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and our actions how we're going to behave.

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Allah doesn't bear Allah doesn't burden a person

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more than what he can bear. Meaning every

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single person's test, every single person's exam is

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specific to him.

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That his experiences,

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what he's learned Islamically, how he behaves,

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every single person's test is specific.

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So if a person was

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at a level

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of the saliheen of the righteous, and we

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ask Allah that all of us

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hope to attain that level inshallah.

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When a person is at that level,

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then his tests are going to be harder.

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When a person's iman is low, his tests

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aren't going to be as harsh as severe,

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as hard.

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And then every single person's tests are going

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to be different.

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And they're going to be based on things

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that Allah sees

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that we love and that we enjoy.

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So a person loves wealth, Allah will test

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him with his wealth. He'll lose his wealth.

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Allah will test him with lots of wealth.

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A person loves to be to look good.

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And so maybe Allah will give him an

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illness, a disease,

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a skin disease.

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Just to see how he's going to behave.

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A person loves to be liked by the

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people,

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and then Allah tests him by, you know,

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something happening where his reputation

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is tarnished,

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falsely.

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So Allah test every single person according to

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his iman, according to his level.

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So this life is a test, it's an

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exam, and it's an experience for us

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to

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help ourselves, to improve ourselves,

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so that we can do more good deeds,

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so that on the day of judgment we

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can enter into paradise.

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And the scholars of the past brothers and

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sisters,

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they will talk about death. And death is

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one of those things no matter,

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you know, what you talk about in terms

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of Islam,

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death is always something which is a topic.

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For example, when we talk about the Quran,

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Allah talks about death as we mentioned some

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of these ayat.

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When we talk about

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hadith, the messenger of Allah salallahu alaihi wa

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sallam talks about death. When we talk about

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fiqh,

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there's a chapter to about

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death itself,

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and what a person should do

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if a person is close to death. If

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someone dies, what do you do?

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So death is something which covers all aspects

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of our life.

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Because it's something which is inevitable.

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And so the scholars of Islam,

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they would talk about death. And there's so

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many statements and stories

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about what the

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scholars would say.

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Once one of the scholars was asked

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whether or not he could teach somebody how

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to wash a body.

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This is up considering,

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subhanAllah,

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the stage today.

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And this scholar when he was asked, I

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think it was Sufyan al Thawri,

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he remained saddened and he just started to

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cry.

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Because he remembered death.

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He just started to think about death.

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He just started to cry for the whole

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time that they were sitting there.

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Abu Darda,

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he was talking about death

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and he was talking about

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remembering Allah.

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And the connection between remembering Allah

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and death itself.

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So he said,

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whoever

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remembers death

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because death is something which Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala will make every single person experience.

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So he said whoever remembers death a lot,

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his joy

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and his jealousy

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will decrease.

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Meaning when a person realizes the inevitability

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of death,

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his joy and his happiness will start to

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decrease.

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Meaning sometimes you know,

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we're with our friends

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and we see something

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on the internet or someone tells a story,

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and we start laughing so hard, we think

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it's the funniest joke ever. We think it

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was the funniest video that we've ever seen,

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and we start laughing so much.

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When in reality,

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it probably wasn't that funny.

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You know, it wasn't actually that entertaining.

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Maybe it was the people that we were

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with that made us want to enjoy that

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moment.

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But in the back of your mind, you're

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thinking to yourself, I just want to enjoy

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this time, you know. I want to laugh,

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I want to smile, I want to have

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fun.

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And so

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you do anything you can, you try to

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watch, or hear, or talk to anyone that

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you possibly can,

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just so that you can experience this happiness

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and this laughter and this joy.

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You know that's why people go to stand

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up comedians, and they go to they watch

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comedy shows,

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and you know, there's a whole industry,

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you know, of of books and

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TV shows and movies, you know, comedy movies.

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It's like a big thing, because people want

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to be entertained.

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But the reality is, if a person keeps

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on, you know,

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laughing at every single thing,

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or he wants to always be laughing,

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then that's

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contrary to the reality of life itself.

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Because in life you're going to have times

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of happiness and you're gonna have times of

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sadness. It's impossible for someone to be happy

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all the time.

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That's impossible.

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You're never gonna be happy all the time.

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Even the messenger of Allah was

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sad at some some moments in his life.

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Amal Husn, the year of sorrow when his

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uncle and his wife passed away.

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So when a person always expects to be

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happy and always expect to be laughing at

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things,

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then subhanAllah

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that can end up being a cause of

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him being depressed.

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And And that's why sometimes

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people who are depressed, how do they behave?

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They behave as if they're very happy.

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As if they're, you know, the happiest people

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alive.

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Because they feel like they have to always

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be happy.

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You know, and the famous actor Robin Williams,

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the comedian,

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you know, he he was someone people thought

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he was so happy, he would make people

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laugh.

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And then they realized he killed himself, he

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was suffering from depression, all kinds of things.

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So here in this statement of Abu Darda,

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it makes us realize actually

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that

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there's nothing wrong with a person being joyful

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and being happy and laughing.

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But not to the extent that you actually

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end up

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thinking this is the purpose in your life,

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to always joke around, to always be happy,

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to always be joyful because it's never going

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to happen.

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And then when you start thinking that's the

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purpose in your life, you're gonna forget the

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akhira. You're gonna forget the hereafter.

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And this is why the famous

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hadith of the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam. When he said if you knew

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what I knew,

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then you would laugh little and you will

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cry Allah.

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So when you start to reflect

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and think about death,

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then you realize actually,

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you know,

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this enjoyment and this entertainment that we're having

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in this world is just temporary.

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So it's actually

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a way of us being more tranquil and

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more peaceful in our lives. Meaning we don't

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have to always be excessively laughing our heads

00:29:09 --> 00:29:09

off,

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okay, to be happy.

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Sometimes it just takes a reality check for

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us to be content

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with whatever's happening in our lives.

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To be content with our lives and the

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experiences that we're experiencing.

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And the second thing about said

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that decreases was jealousy.

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Because you start to look around you, and

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you start to see things that people have,

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and things that people don't have. And instead

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of thinking to yourself, I wish I had

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what he had.

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I want to get that.

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And so you it's like a rat race,

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isn't it? And then you start to work

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more, try to make more money by hook

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or by crook. You know, you start making

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money illegally.

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You start earning haram money just so you

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can, you know, keep up with the Joneses.

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Just so you can have whatever the next

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door neighbors have, whatever your friends have, whatever

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your relatives have.

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And then you start to forget about the

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reality of

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life.

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That death will eventually come.

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So when you're thinking about death and you

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see people that Allah has given things to,

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and they're blessed with certain things, you start

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to think to yourself

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at the end of the day, Allah has

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blessed them with certain things, and may Allah

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bless them with those things. Allah has given

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me certain things, but at the end of

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the day all of these things are just

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temporary, they're trivial, they don't make a difference.

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It's just it's just things we're gonna have

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for a short period of time.

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And nothing lasts forever anyway. You know someone

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has a car, he'll have a new car

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in 5 or 10 years.

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You know somebody will have a house, he

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may move out after 5 years.

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Somebody has new clothes, there's no point getting

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jealous over the clothes that he's wearing, because

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in a year's time he's gonna wear something

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else.

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So what's the point?

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So all of these things,

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it reminds

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us that in fact

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our priorities

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aren't in order.

00:31:02 --> 00:31:05

So this statement of Abu Darda really shows

00:31:05 --> 00:31:07

us the importance of thinking about death and

00:31:07 --> 00:31:08

remembering death.

00:31:09 --> 00:31:11

Umar ibn Abdul Aziz, the leader of the

00:31:11 --> 00:31:11

Muslims,

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he said that

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whoever remembers death

00:31:18 --> 00:31:19

a lot

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will be happy with the simple things in

00:31:22 --> 00:31:23

life.

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He'll be content with whatever he has.

00:31:26 --> 00:31:28

He'll be happy with just the simple things.

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And whoever speech

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match

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his actions,

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his speech will end up becoming less.

00:31:38 --> 00:31:40

Meaning if a person starts to prioritize

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and thinks to himself,

00:31:42 --> 00:31:44

death is something which is going to happen

00:31:44 --> 00:31:46

to me, and you constantly think about those

00:31:46 --> 00:31:46

things.

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When you constantly think about those things, you'll

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be happy and content with the simple things

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in life.

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Because you're experiencing things from a different lens

00:31:56 --> 00:31:56

now.

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Like I mentioned people who have been told

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they're only going to live for a certain

00:32:00 --> 00:32:03

amount of time. They wanna experience things as

00:32:03 --> 00:32:05

if they've never experienced them before.

00:32:06 --> 00:32:07

And they might be doing things all the

00:32:07 --> 00:32:09

time. A glass of water isn't just a

00:32:09 --> 00:32:10

glass of water anymore.

00:32:11 --> 00:32:12

It's a blessing.

00:32:13 --> 00:32:14

It's quenching their thirst.

00:32:15 --> 00:32:17

It's it's a miracle from the miracles of

00:32:17 --> 00:32:18

Allah.

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And so your perspective starts to change with

00:32:21 --> 00:32:23

everything around you. A meal isn't just a

00:32:23 --> 00:32:23

meal.

00:32:24 --> 00:32:26

You know, it's the taste and the and

00:32:26 --> 00:32:28

the different flavors and the textures of all

00:32:28 --> 00:32:30

the different types of food.

00:32:30 --> 00:32:33

So everything starts to become different. Everything starts

00:32:33 --> 00:32:34

to become special.

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And that's how a Muslim should be,

00:32:37 --> 00:32:38

you know, at all times of his life.

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Every single day he should try to attain

00:32:42 --> 00:32:42

that level.

00:32:43 --> 00:32:45

One of the scholars he was asked or

00:32:45 --> 00:32:46

he asked his students, he said do you

00:32:46 --> 00:32:47

love paradise?

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And his students say said who doesn't love

00:32:51 --> 00:32:53

paradise? Everyone loves Jannah.

00:32:54 --> 00:32:56

And so the scholar he said then love

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death

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because you won't enter into paradise

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until you

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die.

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Meaning that's the first step towards paradise.

00:33:07 --> 00:33:08

So when you start loving

00:33:08 --> 00:33:09

death itself

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and longing a person shouldn't long for death

00:33:12 --> 00:33:13

in the sense that he should not hope

00:33:13 --> 00:33:15

that he wants he wants to die, but

00:33:15 --> 00:33:17

it shouldn't be something that he's afraid

00:33:18 --> 00:33:21

of. Because when a person is expecting death,

00:33:22 --> 00:33:23

when he's expecting death,

00:33:24 --> 00:33:26

then he's going to start preparing for death

00:33:26 --> 00:33:27

and start preparing for the akhirah.

00:33:28 --> 00:33:30

One of the scholars he said,

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no one loves the dunya

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except that they end up hating

00:33:36 --> 00:33:37

death.

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When you start to love this world,

00:33:40 --> 00:33:43

the more you end up loving this world,

00:33:43 --> 00:33:44

the more you end up hating death.

00:33:45 --> 00:33:48

And whoever abstains from death or whoever abstains

00:33:48 --> 00:33:51

from this world will end up loving his

00:33:51 --> 00:33:51

lord.

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Meaning the more a person stays away from

00:33:54 --> 00:33:56

this world, the more a person's attachment to

00:33:56 --> 00:33:57

Allah will increase.

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Because he realized this is actually

00:34:00 --> 00:34:02

something which is temporary.

00:34:03 --> 00:34:06

And I wanted to conclude brothers and sisters

00:34:08 --> 00:34:09

by talking about

00:34:10 --> 00:34:13

the relationship between the salah, the prayer, and

00:34:13 --> 00:34:13

death itself.

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

Because this whole we've had a whole series

00:34:16 --> 00:34:19

of talks and lectures about death and revolving

00:34:19 --> 00:34:19

around death,

00:34:20 --> 00:34:21

around the prayer,

00:34:21 --> 00:34:23

About the prayer. And I wanted to talk

00:34:23 --> 00:34:25

about the relationship between the prayer and death

00:34:25 --> 00:34:26

itself.

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And one of the things which we know

00:34:28 --> 00:34:30

that the messenger of Allah SWAMI told us

00:34:30 --> 00:34:33

about the prayer that's linked to death

00:34:33 --> 00:34:34

is a very famous hadith

00:34:35 --> 00:34:37

that I'm sure many of you know. Anyone

00:34:38 --> 00:34:39

know what I'm talking about?

00:34:41 --> 00:34:44

The relationship between death and prayer. The famous

00:34:44 --> 00:34:45

hadith. Yeah.

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Pray as if it's your last prayer.

00:34:50 --> 00:34:51

Pray as if you're never going to pray

00:34:51 --> 00:34:52

again.

00:34:53 --> 00:34:54

So straight away we realize

00:34:55 --> 00:34:57

there's actually a link and a connection between

00:34:57 --> 00:34:59

the salah that we're praying every single day

00:34:59 --> 00:35:01

5 times a day and death itself.

00:35:02 --> 00:35:04

Meaning prayer itself is a reminder of?

00:35:05 --> 00:35:06

It's a reminder of death.

00:35:07 --> 00:35:09

And also the way we start the prayer.

00:35:11 --> 00:35:13

Number 2, the way we start to prayer.

00:35:13 --> 00:35:15

When we say Allahu Akbar, when we say

00:35:15 --> 00:35:16

Allah is the greatest,

00:35:17 --> 00:35:19

We're basically saying nothing is

00:35:19 --> 00:35:21

as important as

00:35:21 --> 00:35:24

the prayer itself. Aren't we prioritizing things in

00:35:24 --> 00:35:25

our life? No.

00:35:26 --> 00:35:28

We leave off everything, food,

00:35:29 --> 00:35:29

drink,

00:35:30 --> 00:35:31

you know meetings and

00:35:32 --> 00:35:34

spending time with our family and working and

00:35:35 --> 00:35:38

enjoying ourselves. We leave off everything and we

00:35:38 --> 00:35:39

start to pray.

00:35:39 --> 00:35:42

So the prayer is actually something that should

00:35:42 --> 00:35:43

remind us about death.

00:35:44 --> 00:35:46

And what's interesting as well

00:35:46 --> 00:35:48

is that when a person prays,

00:35:50 --> 00:35:51

it's similar to death

00:35:52 --> 00:35:55

in the sense that when you die you're

00:35:55 --> 00:35:58

closer to Allah, you're closer to the reality

00:35:59 --> 00:36:00

of the existence of Allah.

00:36:01 --> 00:36:03

And his rewards and punishments.

00:36:03 --> 00:36:04

How is that?

00:36:05 --> 00:36:06

In the grave.

00:36:07 --> 00:36:09

When you're in the grave, reality hits home.

00:36:10 --> 00:36:11

For Muslims and non muslims.

00:36:12 --> 00:36:14

And a person will either be punished or

00:36:14 --> 00:36:15

he'll be rewarded.

00:36:15 --> 00:36:17

So you're closer to Allah in the sense

00:36:17 --> 00:36:19

that you're experiencing whatever Allah has promised you

00:36:19 --> 00:36:20

will happen.

00:36:21 --> 00:36:23

But also what's interesting is you're close to

00:36:23 --> 00:36:25

Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in the prayer. How

00:36:25 --> 00:36:27

are you close to Allah in the prayer?

00:36:27 --> 00:36:29

You can tell me. There's actually a specific

00:36:29 --> 00:36:29

hadith.

00:36:34 --> 00:36:34

In the sajda,

00:36:35 --> 00:36:37

the messenger of Allah he said,

00:36:39 --> 00:36:41

The closest slave is to his lord is

00:36:41 --> 00:36:42

while he's

00:36:43 --> 00:36:43

frustrating.

00:36:45 --> 00:36:47

Meaning the closest you can ever be to

00:36:47 --> 00:36:47

Allah

00:36:47 --> 00:36:49

without experiencing death

00:36:49 --> 00:36:52

and being in your grave, and experiencing the

00:36:52 --> 00:36:54

the rewards of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala from

00:36:54 --> 00:36:55

Allah

00:36:56 --> 00:36:56

is actually

00:36:57 --> 00:36:58

when you're in the prayer.

00:36:58 --> 00:37:00

So when you're praying,

00:37:00 --> 00:37:02

you're the closest you will ever be to

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

Allah especially when you're prostrating.

00:37:05 --> 00:37:07

And what's interesting is the prostration,

00:37:08 --> 00:37:10

physically you're the furthest away from Allah. Because

00:37:10 --> 00:37:12

you're all the way on the ground.

00:37:12 --> 00:37:14

Obviously if you're standing,

00:37:15 --> 00:37:17

you're closer to Allah by a couple of

00:37:17 --> 00:37:17

meters.

00:37:19 --> 00:37:20

When you're on the ground, you're actually further

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

away from Allah.

00:37:22 --> 00:37:24

But you're closer to Allah because you're showing

00:37:24 --> 00:37:28

humility to Allah. You're showing your weakness. You're

00:37:28 --> 00:37:30

prostrating. You're showing that you're nothing compared to

00:37:30 --> 00:37:33

Allah. So the prayer is, you know, something

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

which actually brings you closer to Allah.

00:37:36 --> 00:37:38

And also when we supplicate,

00:37:38 --> 00:37:40

at the end of the prayer,

00:37:41 --> 00:37:43

one of those things that we supplicate for

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

is to do with death.

00:37:52 --> 00:37:54

Oh Allah I seek refuge in you from

00:37:54 --> 00:37:56

the trials of life and from the trials

00:37:56 --> 00:37:57

of death as well.

00:37:59 --> 00:38:00

So the prayer is something which is a

00:38:00 --> 00:38:02

constant reminder of death.

00:38:02 --> 00:38:05

And we ask in Allah azzawajal for protection

00:38:05 --> 00:38:06

and we seek his refuge also in the

00:38:06 --> 00:38:08

prayer, from the punishment of

00:38:09 --> 00:38:10

the grave as well.

00:38:12 --> 00:38:14

So that's why brothers and sisters, the next

00:38:14 --> 00:38:16

time we pray, think about these things that

00:38:16 --> 00:38:17

we say. When we make takbir,

00:38:18 --> 00:38:19

it may be the last time we make

00:38:19 --> 00:38:19

takbir.

00:38:20 --> 00:38:22

When we're in sajdah, we're the closest to

00:38:22 --> 00:38:22

Allah.

00:38:22 --> 00:38:24

So ask Allah for paradise. When we

00:38:25 --> 00:38:27

in the tashahood position that we're making dua

00:38:27 --> 00:38:30

to Allah, we're asking Allah for things that

00:38:30 --> 00:38:32

will benefit us in the akhira,

00:38:32 --> 00:38:33

and protection,

00:38:34 --> 00:38:36

and ref his refuge from trials and tribulations.

00:38:38 --> 00:38:40

So this is the link between the prayer

00:38:40 --> 00:38:41

and death itself.

00:38:41 --> 00:38:44

And now actually the prayer itself is a

00:38:44 --> 00:38:45

reminder to every single one of us of

00:38:45 --> 00:38:46

the coming of death,

00:38:47 --> 00:38:48

the inevitability

00:38:49 --> 00:38:49

of death,

00:38:50 --> 00:38:52

and how in fact anything which will benefit

00:38:52 --> 00:38:54

us, if anything will benefit us in the

00:38:54 --> 00:38:55

akhira, it will be the prayer.

00:38:56 --> 00:38:59

So we ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala that

00:38:59 --> 00:39:00

he gives us the ability to be able

00:39:00 --> 00:39:02

to be strong in our salawat

00:39:03 --> 00:39:04

and that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:39:05 --> 00:39:07

reunites us all

00:39:07 --> 00:39:08

in

00:39:08 --> 00:39:11

the highest stations of paradise on the day

00:39:11 --> 00:39:13

of judgment. And before I conclude, brothers and

00:39:13 --> 00:39:15

sisters, as you know, this there's been a

00:39:15 --> 00:39:17

whole series about the prayer and about,

00:39:18 --> 00:39:20

issues related to the prayer,

00:39:20 --> 00:39:21

And,

00:39:21 --> 00:39:22

we have a WhatsApp

00:39:23 --> 00:39:24

number

00:39:24 --> 00:39:26

that you can

00:39:26 --> 00:39:28

record and you can

00:39:28 --> 00:39:30

join a broadcast group

00:39:30 --> 00:39:32

on on WhatsApp.

00:39:32 --> 00:39:34

And through that, you can actually

00:39:34 --> 00:39:37

benefit yourselves and you can benefit others. And

00:39:37 --> 00:39:37

Insha'Allah,

00:39:38 --> 00:39:39

brother Humayun

00:39:39 --> 00:39:41

has, some things that he wanted to say

00:39:41 --> 00:39:43

with regards to some activities,

00:39:44 --> 00:39:45

that we have regarding,

00:39:46 --> 00:39:47

the the prayer itself.

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