Ammar Alshukry – Young People & Dealing with Temptations

Ammar Alshukry
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The importance of protecting oneself from temptation and pursuing learning opportunities in their university is emphasized. The importance of youth in shaping society is also discussed, particularly in regards to their roles in society. The importance of finding one's own success and finding oneself in a position that is content and comfortable for the rest of one's life is emphasized. The importance of praying fast and not letting anyone in the room is also emphasized. The importance of praying at the beginning of the day and not letting anyone in the room is also emphasized.

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			I'm Abdullah, salallahu alayhi wa sallam, al-Rasulillah.
		
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			You know, I wanted to speak briefly about,
		
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			or I was asked to speak briefly about,
		
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			the idea of protecting yourself from temptation as
		
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			young people.
		
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			And so, I remember when I was traveling
		
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			to university and it was my first time
		
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			being dropped off by my father, rahimahullah.
		
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			I was going to school out of state
		
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			and I was in a dorm.
		
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			And so, this was my first time at
		
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			18 years old where I was going to
		
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			be living alone, away from my parents.
		
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			And so, as I was having that long
		
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			drive with my dad, rahimahullah ta'ala, he
		
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			was telling me a story.
		
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			And he said that Imam al-Shafi'i
		
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			had a student who had disappeared for a
		
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			period of time.
		
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			He had just been absent.
		
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			And so, when he returned, Imam al-Shafi
		
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			'i asked him and he said, where were
		
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			you?
		
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			And he said, I was in Egypt.
		
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			And so, Imam al-Shafi'i said, well,
		
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			how is Egypt?
		
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			And he said to him, al-ilmu fee
		
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			misr.
		
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			He said, knowledge resides in Egypt.
		
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			And he said to him, sadaq, you've spoken
		
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			the truth.
		
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			And so then, another time, another student is
		
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			absent for a period of time and when
		
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			the student comes back, Imam al-Shafi'i
		
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			asked him and he said, where were you?
		
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			And he said, I went to Egypt.
		
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			And he said, well, how is Egypt?
		
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			He said, Egypt is nothing but nonsense and
		
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			parties.
		
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			That's it.
		
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			And so, Imam al-Shafi'i said to
		
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			him, you've spoken the truth.
		
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			You've spoken the truth.
		
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			And so then, the students who were privy
		
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			to both conversations, had watched both, they asked
		
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			the question, they said, how come one person
		
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			said that knowledge is in Egypt and another
		
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			person said that Egypt is nothing but nonsense
		
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			and you said, they've spoken the truth to
		
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			both.
		
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			And so, Imam al-Shafi'i then said,
		
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			both of them found what they were looking
		
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			for.
		
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			So, what's the message that he's communicating with
		
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			me?
		
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			That when you go to university, if you
		
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			want university to be a place of learning
		
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			and experience and growth, you will find the
		
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			best access to knowledge anywhere in the world,
		
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			you'll find it.
		
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			Anytime in your life, you'll find that university.
		
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			And if you want to party, you'll find
		
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			that at university too.
		
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			You'll find whatever it is that you're looking
		
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			for.
		
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			And that could be the same with regards
		
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			to high school.
		
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			That could be the same with regards to
		
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			any of the opportunities that present themselves to
		
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			us.
		
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			Now, youth, however, is very, very important.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ, he says, that on the
		
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			day of judgment, there are going to be
		
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			people who are in the shade of Allah
		
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			on the day where there is no shade
		
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			except for His shade.
		
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			And of those groups of people, of those
		
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			seven, who are those categories, one of them
		
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			is شاب نشأ في عبادة الله A young
		
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			person who grows up in the worship of
		
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			Allah.
		
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			A person who grows up worshipping Allah ﷻ.
		
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			Why is youth so appealing?
		
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			Why is youth so beloved by Allah ﷻ?
		
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			Because Rasulullah ﷺ says in another hadith, إِنَّ
		
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			اللَّهَ لَيَعْجَبُ مِن شَابٍ لَيْسَتْ لَهُ صَبْوَةٌ Allah
		
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			is amazed at a young person who doesn't
		
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			have a slip.
		
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			A young person who doesn't have مَيْلٌ إِلَى
		
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			الْهَوَى A person who isn't, a person who
		
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			doesn't scratch their interest itch.
		
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			A person who grows up worshipping Allah ﷻ
		
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			and doesn't have any lapses.
		
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			A person who doesn't make any mistakes, major
		
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			mistakes.
		
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			That person, Allah ﷻ is amazed at that
		
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			individual because passions walk with young people.
		
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			Whether it's the desire or the feeling of
		
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			immortality, you know, as I was coming here
		
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			on the highway, we were sitting in traffic.
		
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			But while we were sitting in traffic, there
		
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			was one person who was driving so recklessly,
		
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			weaving in and out of traffic.
		
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			And I bet you that person was not
		
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			60 years old.
		
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			I bet you that person was a young
		
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			person.
		
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			Because young people have that sense of immortality.
		
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			And so when you're working with young people,
		
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			one of the biggest things that you try
		
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			to do is to just to try to
		
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			embrace them close to the point where they're
		
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			going to make mistakes but the mistakes that
		
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			they make, that they not be those that
		
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			are so damaging that they ruin their life
		
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			going forward.
		
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			You try to just make sure that those
		
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			mistakes are mistakes that are manageable.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ says that those seven who
		
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			are shaded, one of those who are shaded
		
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			is a young person who grew up in
		
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			the worship of Allah ﷻ.
		
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			And guess what?
		
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			Allah ﷻ praises young people in the Qur
		
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			'an.
		
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			You know, every Friday, we read the story
		
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			of Ashab al-Kahf.
		
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			How does Allah ﷻ describe Ashab al-Kahf?
		
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			Allah says, أَمْ حَسِبْتَ أَنَّ أَصْحَابَ الْكَهْفِ وَالرَّقِيمِ
		
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			كَانُوا مِنْ آيَاتِنَا عَجَبَةٍ Do you think that
		
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			Ashab al-Kahf are of the greatest of
		
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			our signs?
		
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			إِذْ أَوَّ الْفِتْيَةُ إِلَى الْكَهْفِ Allah says when
		
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			that group of young men, they were young,
		
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			they were teenagers maybe.
		
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			And Allah ﷻ says, إِنَّهُمْ فِتْيَةٌ آمَنُوا بِرَبِّهِمْ
		
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			وَزِيدْنَاهُمْ وُدًى They were a group of young
		
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			men who believed in their Lord.
		
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			The first temptation that we see in Surah
		
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			al-Kahf is the surah of temptations.
		
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			It starts off with the temptation with regards
		
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			to persecution of your faith.
		
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			And then it goes to the temptation of
		
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			wealth.
		
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			And then it goes to the temptation of
		
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			knowledge.
		
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			And then it goes to the temptation of
		
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			power.
		
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			All of these are temptations that Allah ﷻ
		
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			addresses in this surah.
		
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			And the first is the temptation that is
		
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			dealt with by young people.
		
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			When they got up in front of their
		
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			society and they stood and they said, Our
		
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			Lord is Allah ﷻ.
		
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			Why are you worshipping idols?
		
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			And guess what?
		
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			The scholars say that this was praise for
		
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			the companions of Rasulullah ﷺ.
		
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			As Allah is praising Ashab al-Kahf, Allah
		
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			is also praising the companions of the Prophet.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because the people who are around the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ were also very young.
		
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			In fact, it was said that there were
		
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			only two who were elders amongst the companions.
		
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			In Mecca, it was Abu Bakr and Umar
		
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			ibn Khattab.
		
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			Everybody else, they're teenagers.
		
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			Ali ibn Abi Talib isn't even 10 years
		
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			old.
		
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			Sa'd ibn Waqqas is 14.
		
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			Talha ibn Ubaidullah ﷺ is 13 years old.
		
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			They're young companions.
		
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			They're young.
		
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			We wouldn't even listen to them.
		
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			But yet these were the people whom Allah
		
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			ﷻ selected to be the supporter of the
		
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			final messenger of Allah ﷻ.
		
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			And so Allah is praising that passion that
		
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			comes with youth when it comes to a
		
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			person shedding ideologies that are wrong.
		
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			Because one of the things that we see
		
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			and currently with Gaza we see, may Allah
		
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			ﷻ free it and bring a ceasefire soon,
		
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			one of the things that we see that
		
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			the people who are mobilizing as you heard
		
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			are the youth.
		
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			Because the youth have not danced with the
		
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			dunya so much that they're worried about their
		
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			job security and they're worried about this and
		
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			they're worried about that.
		
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			They see the truth as being truth and
		
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			that's worthy of it being followed.
		
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			And they're willing to sacrifice in a way
		
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			that those who have lived and have been
		
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			tied down to this dunya naturally do not
		
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			have the capacity to do.
		
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			And so they have that same feeling of
		
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			immortality.
		
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			It is very powerful when that person feels
		
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			that strength and that vigor and that commitment
		
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			and that passion is used to support the
		
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			truth.
		
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			And I'll tell you something.
		
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			When we're talking about identity and a person
		
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			holding on to Islam strongly, Allah ﷻ says,
		
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			يَا يَحْيَا خُذِ الْكِتَابَ بِقُوَّةٍ Allah says, O
		
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			Yahya, take this book with strength.
		
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			This book, take it with strength.
		
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			There is nothing in this world that is
		
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			more attractive than the truth being spoken with
		
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			strength.
		
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			You know what?
		
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			Lies being spoken with strength are very attractive.
		
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			If a person stands up and lies and
		
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			lies and lies but they do it like
		
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			powerfully, they'll become the president of the United
		
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			States.
		
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			So what then, what then do you think
		
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			when a person speaks the truth with strength?
		
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			The problem is we don't speak the truth
		
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			with strength.
		
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			If I ask you over the past hundred
		
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			years, who are the American Muslim personalities that
		
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			have been the most attractive in American society
		
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			that people have gravitated towards the most?
		
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			Tell me who they are.
		
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			Malcolm X and Muhammad Ali.
		
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			Why is it that every time I ask
		
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			this question, it's the same two people that
		
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			come up.
		
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			What is common about them?
		
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			Tell me.
		
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			What is the commonality between them?
		
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			What are the traits that they both share?
		
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			It's not just that they spoke truth to
		
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			power, but what?
		
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			They were confident.
		
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			They were strong.
		
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			They were proud.
		
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			They were passionate.
		
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			They spoke with strength.
		
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			And when you speak with strength, people gravitate
		
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			towards you.
		
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			And then, especially for our young men, the
		
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			people who they gravitate towards are people who
		
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			speak with strength.
		
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			Alhamdulillah, I know you guys don't like this.
		
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			Tomorrow night I'm going to smash your boy
		
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			guys.
		
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			They all know who I'm talking about.
		
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			But he's somebody who said it with strength.
		
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			And he carries himself with strength.
		
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			And so young boys and young men, they
		
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			gravitate towards strength.
		
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			But everybody gravitates towards strength.
		
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			One of our mashaykh, Shaykh Yasir Fazlaki, he
		
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			says the Qur'an is a book of
		
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			strength.
		
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			It is a book of courage that is
		
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			read by many cowards.
		
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			One of our problems is that we take
		
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			the truth and we hide it amongst falsehood.
		
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			Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala says, we smash
		
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			the truth with falsehood and it breaks its
		
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			neck.
		
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			When you stand and you speak the truth
		
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			with strength, people will recognize it.
		
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			So recognizing the temptation that comes with faith
		
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			firstly.
		
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			The second when you're young, one of the
		
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			great temptations, one of the great fitnah that
		
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			you may not be aware of is the
		
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			fitnah of time.
		
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			Time.
		
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			Because when you're young, you just feel like
		
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			all I have is time.
		
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			And so you're binge-watching this before binge
		
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			-watching that.
		
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			And you're just, you're young.
		
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			I have my whole life to get my
		
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			act together.
		
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			But I'll tell you three things very briefly.
		
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			Number one, is what you learn when you're
		
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			young stays with you.
		
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			And so we have so many examples that
		
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			say things like, whatever you learn when you're
		
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			young is like carving it into a rock.
		
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			I have a Shaykh of mine, who mashaAllah,
		
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			tabarik Allah, he is a fountain of knowledge.
		
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			He just spills it out whenever you want.
		
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			He's just got ayat and hadith and fiqh
		
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			positions and things like that.
		
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			And yet, I have had some of my
		
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			Shaykhs who are like that, but they spend
		
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			all of their time studying.
		
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			They're always reading.
		
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			They're always reviewing.
		
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			But this particular Shaykh of mine, very interesting.
		
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			He chills harder than almost anybody I know.
		
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			He spends his time with his family.
		
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			He spends his time with his kids.
		
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			He does extracurricular activities, has so many hobbies.
		
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			And I honestly asked him, I'm like, when
		
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			do you get...
		
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			And then he'll come and give a lecture
		
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			and he'll just...
		
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			And you would think he spent the entire
		
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			week preparing it, not knowing that he spent
		
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			the entire week fishing.
		
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			And I remember one time I asked him,
		
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			I said like, where does all of this
		
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			come from?
		
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			Like, I spend time with you.
		
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			I know you're not sitting there reading books
		
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			all day.
		
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			And he said to me, you know what?
		
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			He said, I think what it is, is
		
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			that I really took advantage of my teenagers.
		
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			I studied so hard during my teenagers.
		
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			I was studying Islam.
		
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			I was memorizing books.
		
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			I was doing all of that when I
		
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			was a teenager, so it stayed with me
		
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			my entire life.
		
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			I don't need to go and review like
		
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			somebody who studied this in their 20s and
		
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			30s and 40s and 50s.
		
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			And so taking advantage of your youth, what
		
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			you learn now.
		
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			But not only that.
		
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			When I was in high school, I had
		
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			a...
		
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			It was the principal of the school.
		
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			He had summoned me into the office.
		
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			I won't mention why I got in there,
		
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			but I was there.
		
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			And he sat me across from his desk.
		
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			And I remember he drew a long line.
		
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			And he said to me, this is your
		
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			lifespan.
		
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			And then he drew two small lines.
		
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			And he said, this is your period.
		
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			They were very close to each other.
		
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			He said, this is you in high school,
		
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			four years.
		
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			You've got four years here.
		
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			Compared to your life, it's very short.
		
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			And then he said, if you work hard
		
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			in these four years, then you'll get into
		
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			a great program for these next four years.
		
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			And then, if you work hard in these
		
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			four years, you could put yourself in a
		
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			position to be comfortable for the rest of
		
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			your life.
		
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			For all of this.
		
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			Now, if you don't work hard in these
		
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			four years, it might be very difficult for
		
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			you to get into a good program for
		
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			the next four years.
		
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			And then you might very well struggle for
		
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			the rest of your life.
		
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			So he said, these are four years.
		
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			Just focus on them and work hard.
		
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			You're in high school right now.
		
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			You're in college right now.
		
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			You might think that it seems like it's
		
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			going to last forever.
		
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			But just ask everybody who's past that stage.
		
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			And they'll tell you that it goes by
		
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			so fast.
		
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			All you have to do is just put
		
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			your head down and work hard.
		
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			And you might put yourself in a position
		
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			where you are content that you did that
		
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			for the rest of your life.
		
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			Number three.
		
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			As far as time.
		
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			One of the most important things and one
		
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			of the most important decisions that a person
		
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			makes when they're young is who they surround
		
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			themselves with.
		
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			You might have heard of the name Abdullah
		
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			ibn Abbas.
		
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			He's considered to be the greatest Mufassir of
		
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			the Qur'an.
		
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			He was a person who at the age
		
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			of 10, the Prophet ﷺ made dua for
		
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			him.
		
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			Because he was so smart, he was so
		
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			intelligent.
		
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			Abdullah ibn Abbas, he notices, he's the cousin
		
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			of the Prophet ﷺ, but he noticed that
		
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			every time the Prophet ﷺ would use the
		
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			bathroom when he would relieve himself, he noticed
		
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			that the first thing he would do when
		
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			he came back out was that he would
		
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			make wudu.
		
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			So he's smart.
		
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			He notices that.
		
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			Should I go on a tangent about how
		
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			people never notice things anymore?
		
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			Okay, I will.
		
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			Thank you.
		
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			So I was sitting with a college student.
		
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			It was very interesting.
		
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			We were having pizza together.
		
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			And while the salt and pepper shakers were
		
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			covered up, so you couldn't tell which one
		
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			was salt and which one was pepper.
		
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			And so there was only one on the
		
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			table, but it was covered up.
		
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			I didn't know which one it was.
		
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			And so I reached for it.
		
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			I grabbed it and then I looked and
		
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			I saw that it was salt and I
		
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			had one pepper.
		
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			So then I just put it down and
		
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			I was talking to him.
		
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			I didn't think much of it.
		
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			I just talked to him.
		
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			He was watching me.
		
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			And then when he realized that I had
		
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			wanted pepper, he jumped up and he went
		
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			and he grabbed the pepper shaker for me
		
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			for some.
		
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			And then he came and he sat down
		
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			and he just handed it to me and
		
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			we continued talking.
		
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			But I said to him, hold on a
		
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			second.
		
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			I said to him, where did you grow
		
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			up?
		
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			Because I know for sure you didn't grow
		
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			up in the United States.
		
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			And he said to me, you're right.
		
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			And he mentioned to me some country in
		
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			the Muslim world.
		
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			And he said, you know, we just kind
		
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			of become socially aware, like you're trained to
		
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			notice things.
		
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			In the U.S., I'll be sitting, giving
		
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			a lecture like this.
		
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			I'll be choking for five minutes.
		
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			Everybody will be staring at me.
		
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			Finally, finally, I'll say, can somebody please get
		
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			me some water?
		
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			And then everybody jumps up.
		
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			Right, that's how it goes here.
		
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			But the idea of being sensitive to people,
		
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			paying attention, being present, being mindful, being aware,
		
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			noticing social cues, very, very important.
		
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			Ibn Abbas notices a social cue.
		
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			He notices that the Prophet ﷺ, every time
		
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			he uses the bathroom, he's aware.
		
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			He's like, oh, he's going to make wudu.
		
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			So what did Ibn Abbas do?
		
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			He went and he got the wudu water
		
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			for the Prophet ﷺ.
		
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			The Prophet comes out, he finds this water.
		
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			Who did that?
		
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			Ibn Abbas, he notices.
		
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			And so the Prophet ﷺ is impressed by
		
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			his awareness.
		
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			And so he makes du'a for him
		
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			in that moment.
		
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			And he says, اللهم فقه في الدين وعلمه
		
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			التأويل Oh Allah, give him understanding of the
		
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			religion and give him the interpretation of the
		
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			book.
		
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			Teach him how to interpret the Qur'an.
		
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			So Ibn Abbas receives that du'a from
		
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			the Prophet ﷺ because of his awareness.
		
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			And Ibn Abbas doesn't just rely on that
		
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			du'a.
		
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			He doesn't just rest back and say, خلاص,
		
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			I'm good to go.
		
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			I look forward to being the greatest scholar
		
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			in the history of Islam.
		
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			But what Ibn Abbas does is when the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ dies, again that awareness, he says
		
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			to one of his friends from the Ansar.
		
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			They're maybe 13 years old at the time.
		
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			Ibn Abbas says to his friend, the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ passed away and the rest of his
		
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			friends, his companions, they're as old as he
		
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			is.
		
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			So why don't we go and ask the
		
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			companions and let's study from them now before
		
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			they depart.
		
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			And so his friend says to him, Ibn
		
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			Abbas, do you think anybody cares what you
		
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			know?
		
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			You're trying to be a big shaykh, you're
		
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			trying to be a big scholar.
		
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			Who do you think you are?
		
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			Do you think anybody's ever going to need
		
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			you?
		
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			So Ibn Abbas has a dream.
		
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			His friend...
		
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			No, I didn't need water.
		
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			That wasn't a cue, but JazakAllah khair.
		
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			Thank you.
		
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			I wasn't projecting, no.
		
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			Thank you.
		
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			JazakAllah khair.
		
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			خلاص, you can bring it here.
		
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			But I don't even know where...
		
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			There's actually...
		
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			Wow, a glass cup too, huh?
		
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			I was just giving an example.
		
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			So the idea here is his friend says
		
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			to him, Ibn Abbas, do you think anybody
		
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			cares what you know?
		
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			Ibn Abbas, this is the important part.
		
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			Ibn Abbas has a dream for himself.
		
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			He has a vision and his friend is
		
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			dragging him down.
		
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			So what does Ibn Abbas do?
		
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			He says important words right here.
		
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			He says, فَتَرَكْتُ He says, so I left
		
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			him.
		
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			He says, I left him.
		
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			And I went on this journey myself.
		
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			He went and he would stand outside of
		
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			the doors of the companions waiting for one
		
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			of them to come out.
		
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			And then he would ask him a question,
		
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			what does this verse mean?
		
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			What was the occasion when this verse was
		
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			revealed?
		
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			And then over time, when the elder sahaba
		
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			died, when Abu Bakr dies and Umar dies
		
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			and Ali dies and Uthman dies and Talha
		
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			dies and Az-Zubair dies and all of
		
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			these senior companions pass away, now the Ummah
		
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			is looking, who is going to lead us?
		
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			Who has this information?
		
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			Abdullah Ibn Abbas is ready.
		
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			And Aisha is ready.
		
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			And Anas Ibn Malik is ready.
		
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			These young companions took over teaching the Ummah
		
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			in the next stage of our fiqh development.
		
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			And so when Ibn Abbas is sitting in
		
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			a gathering and he's got dozens if not
		
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			hundreds of students, his old friend walks by
		
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			and sees the gathering.
		
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			And he says, wow.
		
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			This Qurayshi, because his friend was from the
		
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			Ansar.
		
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			He says, this Qurayshi, this young man from
		
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			Quraysh, he noticed something and he was aware
		
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			of something that I wasn't aware of.
		
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			So when it comes to the idea, for
		
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			example, of studying Islam, and that's just one
		
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			realm of leadership that we need, you might
		
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			think to yourself, wow, Houston is filled with
		
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			scholars.
		
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			It won't be filled with scholars forever.
		
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			And so when people transition or if you
		
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			yourself move to another place, you might find
		
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			that the people are in need of what
		
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			you have.
		
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			I heard this beautiful example from Imam Siraj
		
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			Wahaj one time and I always share it.
		
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			Imam Siraj was once asked about this same
		
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			issue that many people feel like.
		
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			We're young, we're ready to lead, but the
		
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			elders are not giving us, they're not passing
		
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			the baton.
		
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			So Imam Siraj said, speaking of a baton,
		
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			have you ever seen a relay race?
		
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			Have you?
		
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			Yes or no?
		
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			Great.
		
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			Now when that person is running to pass
		
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			the baton, what is the person who's waiting
		
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			to receive it, what are they doing to?
		
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			They're running.
		
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			They're running.
		
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			So if you want the elders to pass
		
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			the baton to you, what do you have
		
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			to be doing?
		
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			Running.
		
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			You can't be sitting down, not doing anything.
		
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			I have zero projects.
		
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			I have zero commitment.
		
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			I don't volunteer for anything.
		
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			Elders, please give me, give me your projects
		
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			that you've been running your entire life.
		
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			Please pass it over.
		
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			And sometimes, and this is true and real
		
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			and I'm telling you from now, you might
		
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			not be able to get a foot into
		
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			that institution.
		
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			You might not.
		
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			But if you find a vacuum, a service
		
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			that the Muslim community needs, then you should
		
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			initiate your own project.
		
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			And when you run it successfully, a lot
		
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			of times you'll find that those individuals and
		
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			that institution that you had initially volunteered for,
		
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			they might come around because now they respect
		
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			you because they see that you're running.
		
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			And so they'll be willing to pass that
		
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			baton to you because you've gained their trust
		
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			and you've gained their respect.
		
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			And so number two is the issue of
		
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			time.
		
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			Don't always feel like you have time.
		
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			Time is a temptation.
		
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			Rasulullah ﷺ says in the Hadith of Bukhari,
		
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			نعمتان مغضون فيهما كثير من الناس There are
		
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			two blessings that many people take for granted.
		
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			The first is your health and the second
		
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			is your spare time.
		
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			Third temptation is the temptation that walks with
		
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			young people and that is the opposite gender.
		
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			I'm trying to think of a gentle way
		
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			to say this.
		
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			So you have in the story of Yusuf
		
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			ﷺ, you have in the story of Yusuf,
		
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			you have an example of a young person
		
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			who is presented by a woman who is
		
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			beautiful, has lineage, has money and has power.
		
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			And Yusuf ﷺ, he says, مَعَاذَ اللَّهِ He
		
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			says, I seek refuge in Allah.
		
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			I was speaking to Dr. Asif.
		
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			Some of you know him.
		
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			He's a psychiatrist in Houston.
		
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			And I had a question that I've been
		
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			thinking about for a while.
		
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			I said, Dr. Asif, you know a lot
		
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			of times with these temptations that are lustful
		
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			and even temptations that have to do, for
		
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			example, with drugs.
		
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			I keep hearing that weed is a gateway
		
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			drug.
		
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			It's a gateway drug.
		
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			He says it is.
		
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			I said, but I'm confident that there are
		
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			people who smoke weed their entire lives and
		
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			they never escalate, they never graduate to hard
		
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			drugs.
		
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			Isn't that the case?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			There are people, you hear about * and
		
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			how people may go from * that's straight
		
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			to all sorts of weirdness and fetishes and
		
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			violence and all that type of stuff.
		
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			But I'm sure that there are people who
		
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			never go beyond basic *.
		
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			I don't want to call it normal or
		
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			regular.
		
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			And the same thing with regards to so
		
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			many things, like a person may not, even
		
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			with regards to zina, even with regards to
		
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			zina, you hear about celebrities and how they
		
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			go from at one point in time having
		
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			access to hundreds of relationships or thousands of
		
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			relationships and then they end up being Puff
		
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			Daddy, being super weird and all sorts of,
		
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			you guys are going to act like you
		
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			don't know him, it's okay.
		
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			It's okay, we're in a Muslim space.
		
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			I love it.
		
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			When you mention Beyonce, everybody's going to be
		
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			like, we don't know who she is.
		
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			I got it, okay.
		
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			So the idea here, the idea here is
		
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			that what causes that perversion?
		
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			People don't start off thinking I'm going to
		
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			start this and it's going to take me
		
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			down a route that's going to ruin my
		
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			life.
		
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			So I asked the doctor, I said, is
		
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			it a gateway when many people don't actually
		
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			have those effects?
		
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			And he said to me, yes it is
		
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			because it's true that a lot of people
		
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			don't go the weird route or the perverse
		
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			route or what have you or the heavy
		
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			drugs route or the hard drugs route.
		
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			But he says, you don't know what you
		
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			are genetically predisposed to.
		
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			You don't know.
		
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			And because you don't know, your only option,
		
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			your best option is to simply stay away.
		
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			There are people who smoke weed and it
		
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			immediately causes incredible negative effects on them.
		
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			There are people who watch * and immediately
		
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			or later takes them down a place where
		
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			their marriages will be ruined and they won't
		
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			be able to function and you don't know
		
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			which one you are.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says, You have
		
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			to be confident in that.
		
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			Allah says, this Quran guides to that which
		
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			is best.
		
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			Everything the Quran guides us to is the
		
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			best.
		
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			And so if Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			says that the best, Allah says, Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala says, O you who believe,
		
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			do not come near zina.
		
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			Then I recognize that.
		
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			I'm telling you about my story.
		
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			When I got to university, I remember this
		
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			is a core memory for me.
		
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			When I got into my dorm room, I
		
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			had my muslaya, my prayer mat.
		
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			I prayed two rak'ahs in my prayer
		
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			mat.
		
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			I had this notebook.
		
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			I had the book Fiqh al-Sunnah.
		
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			And I remember I opened up the chapter.
		
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			And I wrote in my notebook, Do not
		
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			come near zina.
		
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			That was my goal.
		
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			Four years that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			protect.
		
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			You have to believe that this is the
		
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			best way of life.
		
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			And when you see the people who have
		
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			access to zina, have access to drugs, have
		
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			access to all of these vices, and they
		
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			seem so happy, every once in a while
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will send you
		
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			that which will uncover that which they make
		
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			beautiful and you're able to recognize and see
		
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			how absolutely hideous it is.
		
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			And that's what we're seeing right now.
		
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			You're looking and you're like, Man, these people
		
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			are so weird.
		
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			Alhamdulillah that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protected
		
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			me.
		
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			What does a person have hundreds of bottles
		
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			of baby oil for?
		
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			That makes no sense.
		
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			And yet, again, you become thankful when you
		
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			live in a time, and you might...
		
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			Anyway, there's a lot to be said about
		
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			this.
		
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			So, without taking more of your time, I
		
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			just want to conclude with what are the
		
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			things that save from these temptations?
		
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			What are the things that save?
		
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			And number one, the first, the first, Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala says, إِنَّ الصَّلَاةَ تَنْهَى
		
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			عَنِ الْفَحْشَاءِ وَعَنِ الْإِنكَرِ Allah says, the salah
		
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			protects from evil and indecency.
		
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			The salah protects from evil and indecency.
		
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			I want everybody to make a pledge to
		
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			me right now.
		
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			Ready?
		
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			I am going to pray my five salah
		
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			every day that it's obligatory on me.
		
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			On time.
		
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			Ready?
		
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			We're gonna say this together.
		
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			Ready?
		
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			I am going to pray my five prayers
		
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			on time every day that it is obligatory
		
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			on me.
		
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			And if you write it down, it's even
		
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			better.
		
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			You know, a brother said something amazing to
		
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			me.
		
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			A couple of days ago, he was hanging
		
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			out with me and it was time for
		
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			the salah.
		
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			Asr just came in.
		
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			Asr had just came in.
		
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			And he said, are we gonna pray?
		
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			I said, yeah, we can pray.
		
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			But like, are you all right?
		
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			It just came in.
		
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			And he said to me, he's like, I
		
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			like to pray my salah on time, all
		
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			the time.
		
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			You know why?
		
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			Because if I want Allah to accept my
		
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			prayers fast, then how can I be slow
		
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			when it's time to pray to Him?
		
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			When it comes to my du'a, I
		
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			want my du'a as ASAP.
		
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			But I want you to know something even
		
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			better than that.
		
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			My young people, you guys know this.
		
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			You guys know this for sure.
		
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			That when a popular YouTuber, when a popular
		
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			YouTuber, speaking about on time, when your favorite
		
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			YouTuber posts a video, what do the first
		
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			comments always say?
		
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			First, first, first.
		
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			Now, why are they all saying first, first,
		
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			first, first?
		
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			Because, huh?
		
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			They want attention, but they also want to
		
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			let you and them know that y'all
		
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			are slow.
		
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			And y'all don't love them as much
		
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			as I love them.
		
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			Because I'm part of their notification squad, and
		
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			as soon as they post a video, I'm
		
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			there, I'm watching.
		
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			What does Musa say?
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says, What kept
		
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			your people behind, O Musa?
		
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			He says, هُمْ أُولَأْ عَلَىٰ أَثَرِي وَعَجِلْتُ إِلَيْكَ
		
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			رَبِّ لِتَرْضَىٰ Musa says, I race to you,
		
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			God, that you may be pleased.
		
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			Musa had a meeting with Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala, and he leaves his people behind,
		
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			he's racing.
		
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			And he says, I race to you, my
		
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			Lord, that you may be pleased.
		
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			That idea of I want to be first
		
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			when it comes to the salah, I want
		
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			to be first when it comes to being
		
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			in the first row of the masjid.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, the Prophet ﷺ
		
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			says, إِنَّ اللَّهَ وَمَلَائِكَتُهُ يُصَلُّونَ عَلَىٰ صَفِّ الْأَوَّلِ
		
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			Allah and His angels send their salam upon
		
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			the person who's in the first row.
		
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			The sahaba said, what about the second row,
		
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			Ya Rasulullah?
		
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			He said, إِنَّ اللَّهَ وَمَلَائِكَتُهُ يُصَلُّونَ عَلَىٰ صَفِّ
		
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			الْأَوَّلِ Allah and His angels send salam upon
		
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			the first row.
		
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			What about the second row, Ya Rasulullah?
		
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			Allah and His angels send salam upon the
		
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			first row.
		
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			What about the second row, Ya Rasulullah?
		
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			And the second row.
		
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			Three times, he praises the people who are
		
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			in the first row because they are mobilized
		
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			by love.
		
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			You're not being forced to be the first
		
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			to comment on that YouTube.
		
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			You are powered by love.
		
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			And so, a person who loves Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala should also race to pray
		
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			at the first opportunity.
		
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			But not only that, the salah protects you.
		
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			The salah protects you.
		
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			I want you to develop the habit and
		
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			make sure that no matter what you do,
		
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			your salah always, always, always is prayed.
		
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			And never let, never ever let your sins
		
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			make you ashamed to stand in front of
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			Because one of the duas that we're taught
		
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			when you're entering to the salah is very
		
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			beautiful.
		
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			You know, many times, not many times, but
		
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			a number of times I've had people who,
		
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			they've expressed that they're too ashamed to stand
		
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			in front of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			I can't, I'm not ready to pray yet.
		
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			I'm not ready to pray yet.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Why aren't you ready to pray?
		
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			Because, you know, something I did.
		
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			Don't you know that there's a dua that
		
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			you can make when you enter into the
		
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			salah?
		
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			اللهم بعد بيني وبين خطاياك ما بعدت بين
		
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			المشرق والمغرب Oh Allah, distance me from my
		
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			sins.
		
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			That same sin that has you embarrassed, that
		
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			same sin that has you ashamed, Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala taught us that you say,
		
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			Oh Allah, distance me from my sins like
		
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			you distance between the east and the west.
		
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			Oh Allah, cleanse me of my sins like
		
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			a white garment is cleansed from filth.
		
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			Oh Allah, wash me of my sins with
		
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			snow and hail and ice.
		
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			So number one, is you're going to hold
		
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			on to the salah.
		
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			I don't care where you're going tonight, you
		
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			pray isha before you leave and you pray
		
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			fajr when you come back.
		
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			The salah becomes an anchor.
		
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			It is your anchor.
		
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			No matter how far off the wind takes
		
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			you, no matter how turbulent the weather, that
		
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			salah is going to bring you back.
		
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			There was a young man who used to
		
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			pray qiyam al-layl at night and he
		
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			used to steal during the day.
		
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			And Anas ibn Malik tells the story, people
		
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			came and they complained to Rasulullah ﷺ.
		
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			Ya Rasulullah, so strange.
		
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			This guy prays qiyam al-layl at night
		
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			and then in the morning he goes and
		
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			he steals.
		
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			And the Prophet ﷺ said, perhaps his salah
		
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			is going to stop him from what you're
		
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			describing.
		
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			And then later on, he repented.
		
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			And then the Prophet ﷺ said, Anas, didn't
		
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			I tell you that his salah was going
		
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			to stop him from what you're describing.
		
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			So number one is the salah.
		
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			Number two, and I'll end with this, is
		
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			to always focus on what benefits you.
		
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			Focus on what benefits you and seek the
		
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			help of Allah ﷻ and don't give up.
		
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			Rasulullah ﷺ says in the beautiful hadith that's
		
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			reported by a Muslim, it says, احرص على
		
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			ما ينفعك واستعين بالله ولا تعجز Focus on
		
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			what benefits you, seek the help of Allah
		
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			and don't give up.
		
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			No matter what your goal is, these three
		
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			things are the key to success.
		
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			Figure out what your goal is, that's zoom
		
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			in, focus on what benefits you.
		
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			Number two, I seek the help of Allah.
		
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			I make dua to Allah ﷻ.
		
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			And then number three, I don't give up.
		
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			If you don't give up towards your goals,
		
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			you will get to that goal, no matter
		
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			what it is.
		
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			The greatest goals get broken up and as
		
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			long as you seek it out every day,
		
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			you'll get to it.
		
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			So may Allah ﷻ grant us understanding, forgive
		
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			us our sins, protect us and protect our
		
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			families and protect our young people and make
		
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			them guided and guiding of others.
		
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			Allahumma ameen.