Ammar Alshukry – Allahs Beautiful Names #15 How To End Every Anxiety & Stress – Al Waly

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The speakers discuss the concept of "the culture" and its importance in protecting individuals and their families. They touch on the perks of being a Islamist and the benefits of guidance, including opening doors for care of children. The perks of Islam include opening doors and providing time for taking care of loved ones, and it brings graduation and liberty to those who believe only one person can be a true value of Islam. voluntary actions and showing Islam for their loved ones are also emphasized.

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			Al Wali is a beautiful name of Allah.
		
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			All of the shades of the name are
		
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			sourced in the concept of closeness.
		
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			You'll also read that Wali is the opposite
		
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			of an enemy. I always thought that was
		
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			really interesting way to qualify it, but it
		
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			makes perfect sense. The definition of an enemy
		
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			is a person who feels hatred for or
		
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			fosters harmful designs against or engages in antagonistic
		
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			activities against another. So that's what an enemy
		
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			is. Or it's an adversary or an opponent.
		
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			So an enemy is not somebody who's disengaged.
		
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			An enemy is very engaged. So the opposite
		
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			of that is to be engaged as well.
		
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			A wedi is not neutral. Someone who stays
		
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			neutral when you need their support is closer
		
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			to your enemy than your friend. Imam al
		
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			Shafi'i has a a very beautiful line of
		
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			poetry. He says,
		
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			He says that a a friend that doesn't
		
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			benefit on a day of difficulty
		
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			is closer to an enemy when compared. If
		
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			you compare
		
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			on on your worst day, your enemy is
		
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			not gonna be there. So a friend who's
		
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			not gonna be there is is just like
		
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			an enemy. Right? So it's
		
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			not neutral people. It's the people a is
		
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			is somebody who, you know, we would call
		
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			ride or dies. The people who have your
		
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			back and your sides and your front. And
		
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			if that's the case, what do you think
		
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			Allah
		
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			and what he would do when his people
		
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			are harmed?
		
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			We get the answer in a very powerful
		
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			hadith in Bukhari.
		
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			Says that Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			He says that whoever shows enmity to a
		
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			of mine, a friend of mine, then I
		
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			have declared
		
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			war against him. Allah
		
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			declares war. He is that much of a
		
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			protector. He is that engaged on behalf of
		
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			his wali. So then the question becomes, who
		
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			are the awliya of Allah? Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			That those, the the of Allah, there is
		
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			no fear upon them nor shall they grieve.
		
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			Who are they?
		
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			Ingredient number 1, those who believe.
		
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			And number 2, those who have taqwa. So
		
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			the more they ascend in their
		
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			the closer they get to Allah
		
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			through their iman and taqwa, the more of
		
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			a they become. The more iman and taqwa
		
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			a person has, the more of a they
		
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			become to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And they
		
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			don't have a single background. They don't have
		
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			a single profession. The oliya of Allah are
		
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			as varied as people are. You know? Abu
		
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			Bakr, Umar, Uthman, and Adiullah Khalafar Rashidin, they
		
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			were in the political realm. And then you
		
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			have someone in the army, like, Khalid bin
		
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			Uwadid. He was of Allah. Then you have
		
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			someone like Ma'adi Mi Jaber, who was a
		
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			teacher. You have people in the marketplace, like
		
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			Abdulrahman ibn Yaouf in the world of business.
		
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			All of them were of Allah. And something
		
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			else to know about Al Wali is Al
		
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			Wali is the one who protects you. You
		
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			think of the story of Yusuf alaihis salam.
		
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			Yusuf
		
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			was protected from 2 point blank headshots.
		
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			1 was in his father's home, and the
		
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			other was in the house of Al Aziz.
		
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			The first one is a physical attempt on
		
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			his life when you think of a a
		
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			boy who's growing up.
		
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			Who are his sources of protection? Generally, it'll
		
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			be your parents, of course. That's everybody. But
		
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			also your older brothers.
		
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			But what do you do when your older
		
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			brothers
		
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			aren't the ones who are protecting you from
		
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			everybody else? They're the ones who actually wanna
		
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			harm you. Where do you go when the
		
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			threat against you is at home? And so
		
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			we see this plan that's hatched to kill
		
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			Yusuf alaihi sallam. And Allah protects him from
		
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			that plan by one of them saying, let's
		
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			just throw him in a well. Protects
		
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			him in that moment. But the second time
		
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			is in the house of Al Aziz. And
		
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			this one isn't a threat to his life,
		
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			but it's a threat to his dean. And
		
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			it's in just as difficult a circumstance. When
		
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			a person is facing temptation at school, that's
		
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			really difficult. But it can be even more
		
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			difficult if it's at work, and it can
		
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			be even more difficult if the person is
		
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			your supervisor and the power dynamic is at
		
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			play. And yet Youssef isn't just at work,
		
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			but it's where he lives.
		
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			And he isn't just an employee who can
		
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			quit his job eventually, but he's a slave
		
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			in a foreign land with nowhere to go.
		
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			It's a point blank headshot.
		
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			You're not supposed to survive that. But Allah
		
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			protects him by Aziz opening up the doors
		
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			that had been locked multiple times.
		
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			And Yusuf again sees that Allah
		
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			is protecting him, and he trusts Allah so
		
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			much.
		
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			That boy that grew up unprotected at home
		
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			was only protected by Allah
		
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			And that slave that was unprotected in Egypt
		
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			was protected by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And
		
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			so in the culmination of Yusuf's story, that
		
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			person who had learned those lessons again and
		
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			again in his life, what does he say?
		
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			He says, he
		
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			says, my lord, you've given me from wealth.
		
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			He says, oh, Allah, you are my in
		
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			this life and the next. You taught me
		
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			the interpretation of dreams. You're the creator of
		
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			the heavens and the earth. You are my
		
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			protector in this world and in the hereafter.
		
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			Muzlima
		
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			caused me to die as a Muslim and
		
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			join me with the righteous.
		
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			Now knowing Allah is your and trusting him
		
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			is one thing.
		
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			But to trust him with your family too,
		
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			that's another level.
		
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			Is on his deathbed.
		
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			And he comes and he visits him. It's
		
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			from his family, from and he says to
		
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			him, Amir o'uminid, you've made your children destitute.
		
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			You've left them in need of assistance from
		
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			others without anything of their own. Why don't
		
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			you bequeath them to me or any one
		
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			of your family members so that we can
		
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			take care of them? And so,
		
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			he says to him, as far as your
		
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			statement, why don't you bequeath them to me?
		
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			Then the one who I entrust them to
		
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			and my for them is Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala. I want you to think of how
		
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			much stress parents have over their children,
		
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			especially
		
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			when they're dying.
		
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			How much they want their parent their children
		
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			to be taken care of. For Umrah ibn
		
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			Abdul Aziz to say my
		
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			for them, my protector for them is Allah
		
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			And then he says, my children are one
		
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			of 2 people. There's only 2 types of
		
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			people. Number 1 is someone who fears Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And so Allah, if they
		
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			have taqwa of Allah, Allah will pay for
		
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			them a way out of every difficulty.
		
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			Or the second
		
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			is someone who's insistent on sins. And so
		
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			I won't facilitate them sitting against the law
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. So what are what are
		
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			the perks?
		
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			What are the the the benefits of being
		
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			a of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala? Number 1,
		
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			no fear nor shall you grieve. Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala says
		
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			they won't have fear
		
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			nor will they grieve. They won't grieve in
		
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			the hereafter. They don't grieve at their death.
		
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			They don't fear for their children. They don't
		
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			grieve over their dunya.
		
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			Allah will bring them out of darkness into
		
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			light. Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			Allah is the of those who believe.
		
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			He brings them out of darknesses,
		
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			multiple
		
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			to light singular.
		
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			He brings them out of darknesses into the
		
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			light.
		
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			And those who disbelieve
		
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			their allies are.
		
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			They bring them out of the light into
		
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			the darknesses.
		
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			The third is miracles.
		
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			We believe in what are called
		
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			miracles that are experienced by the righteous. And
		
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			there are many stories of miracles that happen
		
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			to the companions of the prophets, the and
		
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			those before him and those after them. Like
		
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			Mariam Alaihi Salam having fruits in her private
		
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			chamber every time Zakaria enters upon her. Khalib
		
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			Nuli drinking poison that is brought to him
		
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			by an enemy, and he says, and he
		
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			drinks it without it harming him. Abu Muslim
		
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			Al Hawalani, one of the the leaders of
		
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			the Tabir, he's thrown into a fire by
		
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			a false prophet because he refuses to believe
		
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			in him. And when he's being thrown into
		
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			the fire,
		
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			he says, he says what Ibrahim alaihis salam
		
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			said when he was thrown into the fire.
		
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			And so Abu Muslim Al Hawwari found the
		
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			fire to be cool and peaceful like the
		
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			fire was cool and peaceful for Ibrahim. And
		
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			so when Abu Muslim goes back to Medina
		
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			safe and sound,
		
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			says, welcome to the one from the of
		
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			Muhammad
		
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			that Allah
		
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			made the fire cool for like the fire
		
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			of Ibrahim. But the important thing to remember
		
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			about these issues of miracles is that they
		
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			happen to the Muslims because of their righteousness.
		
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			It's nothing that the Muslims control.
		
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			They don't summon them. And that's really important
		
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			because there's a lot of, unfortunately, superstition in
		
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			the Muslim world regards to this, with regards
		
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			to saints, blind following of charlatans. There are
		
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			a lot of false beliefs in this regard
		
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			where they say Sheikh is a of Allah,
		
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			and that's why we never see him praying
		
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			because he doesn't pray with us. He prays
		
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			in Mecca. Like, what do you mean? And
		
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			that widespread abuse of this concept that has
		
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			existed for centuries is what caused someone like
		
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			Imam Shafi'i to say, if I saw a
		
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			man flying through the air, I wouldn't believe
		
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			him until I presented him to the Quran
		
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			and Sunnah. Imam Shafi'i is saying, like, I
		
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			don't care about what tricks this person says
		
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			he can do or what they're actually able
		
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			to create
		
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			until I see where is this person with
		
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			regards to following the Quran and Sunnah. What
		
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			is the application of the Quran and Sunnah
		
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			in their life? So what are some of
		
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			the ways that a person can be a
		
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			true value of Allah? Number 1 is Taqwa
		
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			because Allah Subhanahu Ta'ala says that the Oliya
		
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			of Allah,
		
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			they won't have fear and they won't grieve.
		
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			And who are they? The people of Iman
		
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			and the people of Taqwa. Number 2 is
		
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			to do the voluntary actions because Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala says
		
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			that whoever shows me to you to a
		
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			friend of mine, I will declare war on
		
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			him. And then he continues to say
		
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			that my servant doesn't come closer to me
		
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			with anything more beloved to me than when
		
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			I've made obligated. And he continues to come
		
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			closer to me with voluntary actions until I
		
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			love them. And so that person continues to
		
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			ascend in being a wedi of Allah
		
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			And number 3, the last thing is to
		
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			show and to be a wedi for the
		
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			people that Allah
		
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			loves, to be a wedi for the Muslims.
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says, Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala says, your Wali is Allah
		
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			and his messenger and those who believed, those
		
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			who established their prayer and those people who
		
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			give zakah and they bow in worship. And
		
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			I think that one of the things that
		
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			the genocide in Gaza has really brought out
		
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			for the Muslims
		
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			is no matter where they are, no matter
		
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			where we are, no matter where we're from,
		
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			we are the of each other. We are
		
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			the supporters of each other. We are the
		
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			ones who care for each other. And Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			and whoever takes Allah as his and his
		
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			messenger and the believers
		
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			that the party of Allah, they are the
		
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			ones who will be predominant. They are the
		
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			ones who will be successful. So we ask
		
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			Allah
		
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			our protector that he protect our brothers and
		
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			sisters in Palestine,
		
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			everywhere in the world, over every earth and
		
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			under every sky, and that Allah
		
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			bring relief and victory to the impressed and
		
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			the wronged wherever they are. He is our
		
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			in this life and the next.