Allie Goder – Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters #2 How did you name your daughters

Allie Goder
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The speaker explains the three criteria for choosing a name, including a good meaning, a popularity, and a pious personality. They also mention the use of Nuh in the name of their wife and the importance of having intelligence. The speaker emphasizes the need for individuals to stand behind others to avoid being interrupted by others.
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So there are usually

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2 criteria

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when choosing a name.

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Alright?

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So I think the first one is does

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they have a good meaning?

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Or at the very least, it should not

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have a

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a bad meaning or a bad connotation.

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The second criteria is

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usually

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it's a name of of a bit someone

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beloved to you within your family or amongst

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your family and friends.

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Thirdly, it is it may be a name

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of a

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of a a pious personality

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amongst the Sahaba,

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Rod Langham, or the pious predecessors.

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And then of course I think the 4th

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one

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would be it must be nice sounding on

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the ears, right?

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So my first daughter Zahra,

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I have to admit

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the sound came first.

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I like the way it sounded.

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And then of course,

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the meaning being a flower.

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So,

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you know, flower is always something beautiful and

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nice.

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And so, I think that was the choice

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of the

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first name. Alhamdulillah.

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The second daughter you want all 3 daughters?

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Okay. So the second daughter Zainab,

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because we started the bouquet

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with Zahra the flower. Zainab means a fragrant

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flower. So we continued

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with the flower story

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but also because

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the name of

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my wife's

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great grandmother was Zaynab. The name of her

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aunt was Zaynab, and of course the name

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of the daughter of Rasulullah was Zaynab.

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And then of course the 4th criteria, it's

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a nice sounding name according to our opinion.

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And then the last daughter,

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Noha.

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Noha my wife said she reminded me

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she had no say in that name. She

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left the decision to myself and my other

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two

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daughters. So Nuha,

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the name the meaning is beautiful meaning. It

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means intelligence.

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And intelligence,

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proper and pure and true intelligence leads us

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to to recognize the greatness of Allah.

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The second thing is I like the fact

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that the name Nuh

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appears in the Quran and in Hadith.

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In Nafidranika,

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La Ayatin Liulin Nuhah.

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Indeed in that there are signs, Allah mentioned

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some of his some of his signs, and

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Allah says in that there were signs for

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the possessors of intelligence.

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And then in the hadith,

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it says Nabi Muhammad

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that those who have intelligence, meaning those who

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have understanding of fiqh,

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must stand stand directly behind the imam so

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that if the imam needs to make istikhla,

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put someone in his place because he breaks

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then there's someone behind him would know what

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to do.

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