Ali Ataie – The Commands of God Are Rational & Beneficial

Ali Ataie
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The speaker discusses the origins of the statement that praying is the best form of Israel's Christian behavior and the need for men to pray for their own benefit. They also discuss the concept of fashah, which refers to sexual desire, and the holy spirit, which is the person in a holy state. The difficulty of committing fashah and filing for pleasure in the world is discussed, as well as the evil and evil path of the world that leads to divorce, mental health issues, and even violence. The American Psychological Association reports that up to 40% of Americans withika-ision sexual relations destroy their lives, and the CDC estimates that sexual transmission is the second cause of sexually transmitted diseases. The importance of fasting and men and women in the face of power dynamics and identity groups struggling for power is emphasized, along with the rationale behind fasting and the importance of men and women in protection and protection against violence.
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At the end of the last session, I

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said that it is the revelation itself, the

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Quran itself,

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alwahi,

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that constantly bids us to exercise reason.

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The Quran declares, indeed, the worst of creatures

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in God's sight are those who are deaf

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and dumb.

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Now this is obviously not literal because

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it's simply not true. The verse is not

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referring to those who cannot hear or speak.

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The verse actually clarifies itself.

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Those who do not reason.

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At times, the Quran,

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reveals the rational basis for its commands,

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such as the command to prayer. Somebody might

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say, well, why do I need to pray?

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God doesn't need my prayers.

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And that's true. God doesn't need anything.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is totally sufficient unto

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himself. He is Al Ghani, al hayyul qayyum,

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but the premise of the statement in this

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particular context is wrong.

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We don't pray because God needs our prayers.

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That's incorrect theology. That entire premise is false.

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We pray because he commands us

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to pray. Prayer is for our own benefit.

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We need prayer,

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not him, subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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In the Farsi Farsi speaking community, we often

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hear the excuse,

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you know, when we say come and come

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to the prayer, oh, they say qalbam podcast.

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Like, my my heart is pure.

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My heart is pure. You see

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the prayer is the greatest form of vikr

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and vikr is the polish of the heart.

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How can your heart be pak, be pahir,

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be clean,

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and be purified when you disobey

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Allah by disregarding

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its polishing.

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Allah is

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indeed the mushrikeen,

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the idolaters,

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they are spiritually filthy.

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Why? Because they disobey Allah

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So imagine a mirror

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covered in a layer of dirt.

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You look into the mirror and try to

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convince me

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that the mirror is totally clean even though

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your reflection is not even visible.

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If the mirror was clean and polished,

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you would see an accurate reflection of your

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face.

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In a similar way, if your heart was

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pock, was clean

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as a theomorphic

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creature,

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we would see an accurate reflection

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of Allah's commandments

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in your actions.

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So again, to answer the question, why do

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we pray? Allah commands us to pray. We

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say, Sami'ana wa Ta'ana.

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Okay?

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And prayer actually benefits us in both abodes.

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Concerning this world, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says,

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Inna salatatanhaalil

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fashaiwan munkar.

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While in a state of wudu,

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committing fashah and munkar

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become very difficult. What is fashah? Fashah usually

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refers to something that is specifically

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sexual

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in nature, a sexual sin, some sort of

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sexual immorality.

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Munkar is a general act of disobedience.

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Committing these two things when you have to

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pray 5 times a day at different times

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in a state of wudu

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becomes very difficult.

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So the prayer literally functions to restrict your

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ability to sin.

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The

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prophet he said, a dunya sijnul mumin.

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The dunya is a prison for the believer.

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So we are not meant to be too

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comfortable in this world.

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The Buddha who could have been a prophet,

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he said that the first noble truth of

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existence was that the world was in a

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state of suffering,

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right? And the Pali word is dukkha, which

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means to be dislocated

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or disjointed. I mean, think about a dislocated

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shoulder,

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Right? A Muslim should feel awkwardly and painfully

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out of place in this world,

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but also remember that Allah

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does not give us

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more than we can handle.

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Even a Wali of God, a saint of

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Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala,

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especially a saint whose desires have completely aligned

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with the Quran and sunnah is not comfortable

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in this world.

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Right? The prophet said

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none of you truly believe until his his

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desires,

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his caprice,

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his wants and desires are in perfect accordance

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with what I have brought.

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The Quran and Sunnah, imagine a saint of

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God whose joy is to pray and fast,

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whose joy is to restrict his appetite, his

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joy is to read and study the Quran

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and give charity.

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Why is such a person uncomfortable in the

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dunya? Because he longs to be with his

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Lord in the akhir.

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He longs to be with the prophets of

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allahu alaihi sallam in Jannah.

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That's called shok,

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longing for one's beloved due to firaq, due

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to separation.

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Think about, Sayyid Nabila who was on his

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deathbed and his wife was screaming,

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oh

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disaster. And he said,

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There's no disaster. Tomorrow, I'm going to meet

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the beloved ones, the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam

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and his fellowship.

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The rationale behind the prohibition of adultery

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is similarly given in the Quran. The Quran

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says,

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and notice here, the Quran did not say.

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The Quran did not simply say don't commit

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adultery. It said do not even

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draw near

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to adultery.

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Don't even put yourself in a position

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where that could even be possible.

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Wasa

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asabilah. It is indecency and an evil path.

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Once you go down that path, things only

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get worse and worse. So we can make

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a cogent,

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rational

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argument

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with supporting evidence

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that people who engage in illicit sexual relations

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destroy their lives.

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They destroy the lives of their children. It

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leads to divorce,

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broken homes, mental illness,

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disease, even violence.

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Now check this out. When I read this,

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it staggered me. I couldn't believe it.

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1 in 5 Americans have an STD,

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a sexually transmitted disease. 1 in 5.

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According to the CDC, that's 68,000,000

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people.

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In an Islamic context, it is impossible

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for a married couple

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to contract an STD as long as they

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did not fornicate

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before their marriage nor commit adultery during their

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marriage.

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It is impossible.

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According to the American Psychological

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Association,

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up to 40% of marriages end up in

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divorce

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due to infidelity,

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due to Zina.

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I mean, think about the mental toll. Think

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about the children. Think about the child who

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says to himself

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that his father's needs,

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personal needs were more important than his own

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family.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala told us about this

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evil

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and he reasons with us. Wasa as Sabila.

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What a horrible way of living your life.

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We can collect data and prove that.

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And this is whether it's the actual act

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of zina or the zina of the eyes.

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Right? There's a reason why. Again, there's a

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reason why Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells us

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in the Quran,

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you know, tell the believing men and women

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to lower their glances.

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Isa,

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according to the gospel of Matthew, he said,

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of course, this is according to a Christian

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source,

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if your eye sins, pluck it out, he

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says.

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It is better for for part of you

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to enter * than the whole of you.

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Of course, most Christians,

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they take this to be majaz. This is

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figurative,

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Right? So it's supposed to communicate the gravity

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of the sin,

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but that's how it starts. The wandering eye.

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He says, according to Matthew, you have heard

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it said don't commit adultery, but I say

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unto you,

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a man who looks at a woman with

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lust has already committed adultery

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in his heart.

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Right?

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Sayna Ali, he reported a hadith. It's related

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by Imam Ahmad. So Sayna Ali narrates it

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where he said the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam said to him,

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Right? Don't follow a glance with another glance.

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For the first glance is for you.

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Right?

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But the second glance is against you. So

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this is this is more difficult for men

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than it is for women. Men are very

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visually oriented.

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This is why, you know, women pray behind

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the men in prayer.

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You know, sometimes this is difficult for women

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to understand,

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which is understandable because they are not men.

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You know, they they don't know what it

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feels like to be men and vice versa.

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Men and women are different.

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You ever heard of men are from Mars,

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women are from Venus? Well, that's true,

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but they are complementary

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opposites.

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They are the yin, like the yin and

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the yang.

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Okay? They are not rivals

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or antagonists

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like what we see today in our postmodern

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neoliberal

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and neo Marxist

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culture. Everything's about

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power dynamics and and, identity groups struggling for

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power.

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But a woman genuflecting in front of a

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man will distract a man. I guarantee you.

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Confucius said in book 9, chapter 18 of

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the Lun Yu, that's the Analects, his his

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magnum opus. He said this again in book

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15, chapter 13, which means that he would

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say this quite often. He said, I have

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yet I have yet to meet a man

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who is as fond of virtue

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as he is of the beauty in women.

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Okay?

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Even in the Buddha, there's a story the

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Buddha is sitting under the bo tree, the

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buddha tree, the tree of enlightenment.

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And Kama, who is, you know, the devil

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in Buddhist tradition,

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he comes and he parades these beautiful women

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in front of him.

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Okay. Now Buddhist scholars don't believe that this

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is literal, but they say that this was

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a modality of his own mind, that he's

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mastering his khawatir nafsani, his lustful extraneous thoughts.

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The inability of a man to control his

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eyes could lead to the destruction

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of the lives of multiple people.

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Allah

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warned us

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about this in the Quran, and we want

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to reason with people about these things.

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Now the rationale behind fasting is also given

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in the Quran.

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La'alakuntataqun,

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in order for you to attain taqwa, And

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taqwa is often translated as piety or fear

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of God

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or God consciousness, and these certainly have something

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to do with taqwa.

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Linguistically,

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the word taqwa is related to wikaya,

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meaning protection

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or prevention.

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We will continue in our reflections in the

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next session. Inshallah. Until then, assalamu alaykum. Warahmatullahi

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wabarak.

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