Ali Ataie – Inward Sunnah Internalizing Character of the Prophet (PBUH) With Your Family
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Inshallah, it's a blessed evening.
We celebrate the birth of greatest human being
who ever lived, will ever live,
our master Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam.
Just say a few things, inshallah. I don't
know any Farsi poetry, so
I'll say a few things, inshallah. I'll quote
some.
So,
the the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam is
our greatest benefactor from humanity,
and he benefits us
in all three stages of his
life. I mean, there's there's more than 3
stages, but the 3 stages that we're familiar
with
is Hayat,
dunyaawiyah.
The prophet
is when he was with the Sahaba,
he was asking forgiveness for his ummah.
So Allah
says,
It is part of the incredible mercy of
Allah
And there's so much emphasis in the Arabic.
It's hard to even
no translation is even close.
It is the incredible, incredible mercy of Allah
that you have lean, you have gentleness.
If you are harsh or hard hearted, ghalid
alqalb, thick of heart, you would have seen
people flee from your presence.
This is very important,
you know,
to internalize the sunnah of the prophet salallahu
alaihi wasallam, especially with our families, especially men
with wives. This is very very important. Women
are compromised physically.
Men are more stoic than women, generally.
And the prophet
he treated his wives with kindness, with mercy.
This is extremely important. The inward sunnah.
From his signs is that he made from
you spouses that you might live
that you have sakina with your spouses.
The house is called a meskan.
It's a place of security for the woman.
If she doesn't feel like her house is
a place of security and safety,
then the husband has failed in his duty
of being a husband.
This is extremely important. How did our mother
Ayesha
Radhi Allahu Anha describe the prophet
He
was
a man from among the men.
A great man.
The prophet
never ever used
filthy language. He never threatened anyone in the
household.
He never used bad language.
He never,
scared his his wives, this type of thing.
This is extremely important.
If you had been harsh, people would have
fled from you,
you see. The prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam,
people did not flee from him.
He brought people together. Look at his Sahaba.
Where are they from? All over the world.
Look at the Muslim Ummah.
His message is uniting everybody. Many, many people
in the West right now converting to Islam
for different reasons.
One reason is all of these amarata sa'a
are coming true.
Everything he says in this Even these Some
of these hadith are very weak, but they
come true. Of course, a weak hadith is
not Mudur.
There's just a little problem here and there.
It's not a it's not an a plus
hadith,
but these things come true, and people are
starting to notice these things.
Forgive them.
And the ulama say, Imam Al Razi
says,
forgive them for things that they do against
you personally.
But things that they do against Allah, ask
forgiveness for them. Make Istighfar for them. The
prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam in his life,
his hayat, dunyaawiyah,
was making istighfar of his ummah.
Her mother Aisha said
that the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam was standing
all night. Qama,
he was he was he was standing. The
ayatan,
layla, one ayah he was reciting the whole
night.
One ayah into adhbhibhoomth
inna whom
the end of Al Maidah.
If you forgive them, if you punish them,
they are your servants.
But if you forgive them, then you are
great and wise. And she said he repeated
his ayah over and over and over and
over, then he collapsed into sajdah
and heard him say, umati, umati, You Rab,
umati.
So he makes istighfar for his ummah during
his life.
He makes istighfar
for his ummah and his hayat, and the
life he is in now.
So,
what
does Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala say in the
Quran?
That if only when they had wronged their
theirselves, they had come to you
and Allah subhan and they asked Allah subhanahu
wa ta'ala for forgiveness,
and then the messenger asked forgiveness for them,
They would have found Allah,
relenting and merciful.
Go to the messenger of Allah salallahu alaihi
salam. He's asking forgiveness for us.
In his state right now, he's asking forgiveness
for us.
This hadith is sound hadith
that your deeds are presented to me.
If I see good, I praise Allah. If
I
kiyama,
And then on the
is Hayat Ukhrawiya.
He asked forgiveness for his ummah.
He is the shafi'i wal mushafa. He is
the intercessor and the one whose intercessor
is accepted. And Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will
accept his intercession for his ummah.
So first and foremost,
let's increase in our love for the messenger,
sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, and realize what he's
done for us,
and then we must internalize
his sunnah. He said if the Dajjal comes
to you,
and I am among you,
then I will contend with him.
Right? But another way to read this is
I am in you, I've internalized.
You have internalized me.
My sunnah is in you,
right? My huluq is in you,
my jamaal is in you, my jalal is
in you. These things are within you, you've
internalized them. Dajjal can't have any effect on
you. I will contend on your behalf.