Alaa Elsayed – The Relationship Between Ibadah & Akhlaq In The Quran

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The importance of Islam in the near future is discussed, including its source of comfort and its impact on personal and health behavior. The segment also touches on various topics, including religion, personal life, and the success of Islam in society. The importance of praying and balancing behavior is emphasized, as well as providing advice on three topics: finding a good partner, being a good character, and protecting one's spouse's relationship. The segment also provides examples of negative language and negative consequences.

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			Bismillah walhamdulillah wa salatu wa salamu ala rasul
		
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			wa ala mabad.
		
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			As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
		
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			My dear brothers and sisters in Islam.
		
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			Once upon a time, when Allah SWT created
		
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			His creation, He chosen from the creation, the
		
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			righteous.
		
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			And from the righteous, He chosen the prophets.
		
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			And from the prophets, He chosen the messengers.
		
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			And from the messengers, He chosen the five,
		
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			ulil azn, the strongest one, persevered the most.
		
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			And from the five, He chosen the two,
		
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			al-khalilan, the closest of the company.
		
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			And from the two, He chosen the one,
		
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			our beloved Prophet SAW.
		
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			So he's the best of the best of
		
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			the best of the best.
		
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			The best day that ever sun has risen
		
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			upon, when He was born.
		
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			The best womb that was ever created, the
		
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			one that carried Him.
		
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			The day that Allah SWT gave us a
		
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			gift, وَمَا أَرْسَلْنَاكَ إِلَّا رَحْمَةً لِلْعَالَمِينَ I have
		
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			not sent you except to be mercy for
		
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			all of creation.
		
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			Not just human beings.
		
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			It's the one that by the blessing of
		
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			Allah SWT, took us out of ignorance into
		
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			knowledge.
		
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			Out of disbelief into belief.
		
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			From the obtuse of this dunya to the
		
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			master of the hereafter.
		
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			By the blessing of Allah, took us away
		
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			from the hellfire to Jannah.
		
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			The best feet that ever walked on the
		
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			face of the earth was His.
		
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			Even though bloodied and attaif and He never
		
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			gave up.
		
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			The best hands that were risen to the
		
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			heavens was His.
		
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			Asking Allah SWT to have mercy upon us.
		
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			The best heart that never slept, even though
		
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			during night was connected and linked to the
		
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			heavens.
		
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			Even though the feet walked on earth, but
		
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			it was always linked to Allah SWT.
		
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			The eyes never slept.
		
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			The tear that is dropped was the best
		
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			drop of water that ever touched the ground.
		
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			When he was asking Allah SWT, I miss
		
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			my beloved ones.
		
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			And we miss you too, O Rasulullah ﷺ.
		
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			And that's the topic for today.
		
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			How do I actually go back and meet
		
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			our beloved Prophet ﷺ after a long healthy
		
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			righteous life in Jannah?
		
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			As we were deprived the honor to be
		
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			with him in this life.
		
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			We ask Allah SWT never to deprive us
		
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			the honor of being with him in Jannah.
		
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			Say, I mean, how much would you pay
		
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			just to be able to see him in
		
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			a ru'ya, in a vision, just to
		
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			see him in a dream?
		
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			How much would you pay to have lived
		
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			at the time and learn from him, to
		
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			fight with him, to defend him?
		
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			How much would you pay just to go
		
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			to Medina?
		
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			How difficult is it for you to turn
		
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			your back and walk away from him and
		
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			leave Medina?
		
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			How much would you pay to die in
		
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			Medina?
		
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			Or even be buried in Baqi'ah?
		
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			How much would you pay to be resurrected
		
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			with him?
		
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			How much would you pay to ask Allah
		
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			SWT to allow him to intercede for you?
		
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			But how much would you pay to be
		
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			with him in Jannah?
		
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			Well, I have some good news for you
		
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			today.
		
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			Because our Prophet ﷺ said, إِنَّ أَحَبَّكُمْ إِلَيَّ
		
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			وَأَقْرَبَكُمْ إِلَيَّ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ مَجْلِسَةٍ He didn't say,
		
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			السُّوَّامَ الْقَوَّامَ التَّقِيَّ الْنَّقِيَّ السَّخِيَّ الْجَوَادِ No ibadah
		
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			was mentioned.
		
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			Say, the most beloved to my heart amongst
		
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			you and closest to me in the hereafter.
		
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			He didn't say the one that prays and
		
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			fasts was all good.
		
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			And I'll tell you why.
		
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			He cut to the chase and he said,
		
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			the one that is the best of character,
		
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			the best of ethics, the best of moral
		
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			conduct and manners.
		
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			May Allah make us among them, Ya Rabb.
		
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			And I'll tell you why we make that
		
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			dua because the best of creation made the
		
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			dua.
		
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			اللهم كما حسنت خلقي فحسن خلقي O Allah,
		
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			as He perfected my creation, perfect my manners
		
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			and conduct.
		
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			The best of creation is asking Allah to
		
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			help him to gear them toward the best
		
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			of character.
		
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			What about us?
		
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			And he used to make the dua, اللهم
		
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			أحديني إلى حسن الخلق or أحسن الخلاق He
		
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			says, O Allah, guide me to the best
		
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			of character.
		
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			إِنَّهُ لَا يَهْدِي إِلَىٰ أَحْسَنِهَا إِلَّا أَنْتُ No
		
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			one will guide me to the best of
		
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			character except you.
		
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			وَصْرِفْ عَنْهِ سَيِّئَهَا And keep me away from
		
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			the worst of character.
		
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			No one will keep me away from it
		
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			except you.
		
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			Imagine.
		
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			And that's our goal for today.
		
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			And the topic is the character and the
		
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			ibadah.
		
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			And Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala couples them
		
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			in the Quran.
		
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			The end of this topic, I'm gonna give
		
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			you some homework.
		
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			And I will give you a mission stick
		
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			because you cannot afford to come to this
		
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			lecture or this conference and walk away the
		
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			same person.
		
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			You have to be a changed person.
		
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			You have to be a better person.
		
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			You have to be a walking pulpit.
		
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			People see through you.
		
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			Islam is who you truly are.
		
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			And that's the best way for dawah.
		
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			So let's go through.
		
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			And I'm going to ask you to come
		
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			with me.
		
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			You're invited on a journey.
		
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			So welcome aboard.
		
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			Let's go through the Quran and find out
		
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			how Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala linked the
		
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			ibadah with the akhlaq.
		
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			Before I take you there, understand that the
		
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			ibadah has a name.
		
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			It also has a picture and a consequences
		
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			and a proof of it.
		
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			For example, you say salah has a name.
		
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			Salah, a prayer.
		
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			And then a picture.
		
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			You will see a hand like this going
		
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			in rakuh or sujood bowing down or prostrating.
		
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			And the proof of it is the Quran.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala innassalata tanha'anil
		
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			fahsha'i wal munkar Allah is telling you
		
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			your salah is what?
		
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			Doing aerobics?
		
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			Doing going up and down?
		
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			A little bit of exercise?
		
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			No.
		
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			He says innatawkeed for sure.
		
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			innassalata tanha'anil fahsha'i wal munkar Indeed
		
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			your salah will ward off evil and transgression
		
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			acts.
		
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			How is that quantified?
		
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			Well, when you pray, for example, if you
		
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			pray dhuhr prayer, do you tell the hud,
		
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			hey boys, let's go rob a bank and
		
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			we'll make it back to asr time.
		
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			It doesn't.
		
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			It keeps you in line.
		
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			You just ask Allah to guide you, forgive
		
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			me, help me, and so on and so
		
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			forth.
		
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			And can you go to pray maghrib prayer
		
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			and go, you know, dude, let's go bar
		
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			hopping, check out some...
		
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			and come back, we'll make it back for
		
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			isha.
		
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			You're not gonna do that.
		
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			So innassalata tanha'anil fahsha'i wal munkar
		
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			Indeed your salah will ward off evil and
		
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			transgression act.
		
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			It keeps you in line.
		
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			da'ahu innassalata husatanha'a Leave him, salah
		
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			will ward him off.
		
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			And that's why the salah is a silah,
		
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			connection between you and Allah.
		
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			And that's why the salah is the best
		
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			of it.
		
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			Why do you think Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala says the first thing you will be
		
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			asked for is your salah?
		
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			If Allah accepts it, He'll accept everything else.
		
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			If He doesn't accept it, He'll accept nothing
		
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			else.
		
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			Because salah is the only ibadah, there is
		
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			no other one, that no one can make
		
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			it up for you.
		
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			Somebody can make up your siyam, somebody can
		
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			make up your zakah, somebody can make up
		
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			your hajj if you don't, and, and, and.
		
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			But can somebody make up your prayer?
		
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			Impossible.
		
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			So Allah made sure that this is a
		
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			connection between you and Him.
		
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			But since the topic is not about salah,
		
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			but let me tell you why.
		
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			You see, when people on Judgment Day say,
		
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			I didn't pray, wa'abdi ila man amtusalli
		
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			Why didn't you pray?
		
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			So I was busy, I was such a
		
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			good looking, I was rich, I was, I
		
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			was.
		
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			Excuses will be there.
		
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			So, when Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala made
		
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			it easy for you, what's the excuse?
		
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			What you gonna say on Judgment Day?
		
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			What you gonna say when they come for
		
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			you?
		
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			So wa'abdi ila man amtusalli Why didn't
		
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			you pray?
		
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			He says, you know what?
		
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			I was rich.
		
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			Are you richer than Sulaiman a.s?
		
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			No way.
		
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			So by the way, if you don't pray
		
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			here, you pray there.
		
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			So may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala grant
		
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			us the ability to pray here before you
		
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			go pray there.
		
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			So, He will make it up in the
		
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			hereafter.
		
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			And, the other one says, you know what?
		
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			I was such a good looking, I was
		
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			a fitna.
		
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			God's gift to women.
		
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			I was walking by and women go, Are
		
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			you more beautiful than Yusuf a.s?
		
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			Impossible.
		
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			Before you say yes, look at yourself in
		
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			the mirror in the morning, by the way.
		
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			Just give yourself a minute.
		
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			And the other one says, rich, you didn't
		
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			work, I am poor, I'm so poor.
		
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			How poor are you man?
		
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			You're poorer than Isa a.s?
		
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			He used to say that, heaven is my
		
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			cover, the earth is my bed.
		
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			And it didn't work.
		
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			So when you travel, you make every four
		
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			into two, combine.
		
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			Well, there's no masjid, that's okay.
		
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			جُعَلَةَ الْأَرْضِرِيَ مَسْجِنًا وَطَهُورًا This whole earth is
		
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			made of meat, but a pollution and a
		
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			masjid.
		
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			There's no water, you can dry a pollution,
		
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			تَيَمُّمْ I can't find the Qibla, do your
		
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			best to find it.
		
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			أَيْنَمَا تُوَلُّوا فَثَمَّ وَجْلُ اللَّهِ Do your best.
		
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			I can't stand, sit, I can't sit, lie
		
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			down, I can't lie down, move your head,
		
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			I can't move my head, move your eyes,
		
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			I can't move my eyes, think about it
		
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			in your brain, I can't think about it,
		
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			you're dead.
		
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			Don't worry about it.
		
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			So pray before you're dead.
		
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			So you understand now your salah has the
		
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			proof and the consequences of it is your
		
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			akhlaaq, your character.
		
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			Let's go to the second one, your zakah.
		
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			خُذْ مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ صَدَقًا تُطَهِّرْهُمْ وَتُزَكِّيْهِمْ Take from
		
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			among their wealth is the money that is
		
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			deserved by others.
		
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			حَقٌّ مَعْلُومٌ حَقٌّ مَعْلُومٌ is two and a
		
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			half percent, that's zakah.
		
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			In the other ayah, وَفِي أَمْوَالِهِمْ حَقٌّ it
		
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			didn't say معلوم, not specific.
		
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			لِلسَّائِلِ وَالْمَحْرُومِ That's your sadaqah, it's not specific.
		
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			So to take their wealth and give it
		
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			to the poor, why?
		
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			Purify them from the illness of the greed,
		
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			hoarding, to give is better than to receive.
		
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			The upper hand is better than the lower
		
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			hand, because it becomes a fitna, the poor
		
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			and the rich, both fitna for each other.
		
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			For the rich to give, not hoard, and
		
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			hold on to the deen, and know that
		
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			there is rights that he has to give,
		
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			not hoarding back.
		
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			And the poor to be patient, not to
		
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			be tested with the rich, I want, I
		
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			want, I want, and be content and patient
		
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			with Allah SWT.
		
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			And it purifies you, not just multiplies, تَزْكِيَةُ
		
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			النَّفْسِ and تَزْكِيَةُ الْمَالِ It is your character
		
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			and also increases your wealth, so it's a
		
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			win-win.
		
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			خُذْ مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ سَرَغْ تُطَهِّرُهُمْ وَتُزَكِّيهِمْ Purifies them
		
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			and also multiplies it.
		
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			Let's go to the third one, Siyam.
		
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			Soon inshaAllah, may Allah make us live to
		
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			the month of Ramadan.
		
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			Say, ameen.
		
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			Allahumma ballighna Ramadan.
		
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			And accept from us, Ya Rabb, ameen.
		
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			And there's a school of Ramadan.
		
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			You learn about yourself.
		
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			Why do you think you're the happiest time
		
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			in the month of Ramadan?
		
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			Even though it's difficult.
		
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			You don't eat, you don't drink.
		
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			There's so much of it, but it's not
		
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			just about that.
		
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			But the school of Ramadan, you graduate in
		
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			the end, whether you can take your book
		
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			with the right or the left, it's up
		
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			to you.
		
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			But the point is, why do you think
		
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			that is the best thing in the month
		
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			of the time of Ramadan?
		
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			And you feel so happy.
		
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			And some of us cry after we leave
		
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			the seclusion, the ihtikaf.
		
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			And the month is gone.
		
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			Because you're doing what you were created to
		
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			do.
		
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			And that's why you feel happy.
		
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			وَمَا خَلَقْتُ الْجِنَّ وَالْإِنسَ إِلَّا لِيَعْبُدُونَ لَيْسَ لِيَعْبُونَ
		
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			I have not created the jinn and the
		
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			inns except to worship me.
		
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			Not to have a haphazard life that there's
		
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			no means, no goals.
		
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			And that's why the scholars tell you you're
		
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			happy then because of the akhlaq you gain.
		
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			So what is the akhlaq you gain in
		
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			the month of Ramadan?
		
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			It's taqwa.
		
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			كُتِبَ عَيَّا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ مَنْ كُتِبَ عَلَيْكُمْ وَسِيَمْ
		
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			كَمَا كُتِبَ عَلَيْهِمْ مِنْ قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ عِلَّا
		
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			إِسْتَقْوَى So how do you learn taqwa in
		
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			the month of Ramadan, my brothers and sisters?
		
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			Well, taqwa, you will learn when you're all
		
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			alone.
		
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			Piety, consciousness of Allah, you will learn when
		
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			you're all alone.
		
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			How is that?
		
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			Well, let me tell you.
		
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			In the month of Ramadan, when you're making
		
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			wudu, a very simple example.
		
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			When you make wudu, the water is already
		
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			in your hand.
		
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			And you literally put the water in your
		
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			mouth.
		
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			What makes you spit the water that is
		
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			already in your mouth?
		
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			Anybody is watching you?
		
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			Is there a sensor in your throat that
		
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			is going to flag your social media if
		
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			you drink it?
		
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			And say, hey, homie, this boy is a
		
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			phony.
		
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			It's not.
		
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			What makes you spit the water out?
		
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			It's already in your mouth and nobody is
		
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			watching.
		
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			Exactly, Shaykh, that taqwa is right.
		
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			Because you know, اللهم الطلع علي.
		
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			Allah can see me.
		
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			And that's how you gain taqwa.
		
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			For example, when you go outside, you don't
		
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			eat and drink.
		
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			And people say, oh, he's a righteous dude,
		
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			righteous do that.
		
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			And then you go home and close all
		
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			the doors.
		
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			And the only door you open is the
		
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			door of the fridge.
		
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			Do you have taqwa?
		
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			Of course not.
		
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			And that's the khuluq you learn in the
		
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			month of Ramadan.
		
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			By the way, it's the most important of
		
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			all.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in the
		
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			Quran says, وَإِن مِّنكُمْ إِلَّا وَارِدُهَا كَانَ عَلَىٰ
		
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			رَبِّكَ حَتْمًا مَّقْضِيًّا ثُمَّ نُنَجِّي الَّذِينَ اتَّقَوْا وَنَظْرُ
		
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			الظَّالِمِينَ فِيهَا جِثِيًّا It says, everyone will pass
		
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			over the hellfire.
		
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			Everyone will fall therein except those who had
		
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			taqwa.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because when you fear Allah and conscious of
		
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			Allah when you're all alone, Allah will be
		
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			with you and there for you when you
		
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			need Him most when you're alone.
		
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			Because when you die, you'll die alone.
		
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			When you're buried, you'll be buried alone.
		
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			When you're resurrected, you'll be resurrected alone.
		
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			And when you be asked in front of
		
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			Allah, you'll be standing in front of Allah
		
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			alone.
		
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			So when you're conscious of Allah when you're
		
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			all alone, Allah will be there for you
		
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			when you're all alone, when you need Him
		
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			most.
		
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			Number four, hajj.
		
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			When Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says, الحَجَّ
		
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			أَشْهُرُ الْمَعْلُمَاتِ فَمِنْ فَرَّ بِهِنَّ حَجَّ فَلَا رَفَثَ
		
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			وَلَا فُسُوقَ وَلَا جِدَالَ فِي الْحَجَّ If you've
		
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			been to hajj, raise your hand.
		
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			It's not a fundraiser.
		
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			Don't be afraid.
		
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			It's okay.
		
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			May Allah accept from me if you've been
		
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			to hajj and may Allah grant you an
		
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			invitation if you haven't been to hajj.
		
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			Say ameen.
		
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			So Allah says, in hajj which is difficult,
		
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			you'll know what I'm talking about if you've
		
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			been to hajj.
		
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			Very difficult indeed.
		
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			Terrain, everything.
		
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			The environment.
		
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			But Allah says, لَا رَفَثَ رَفَثَ is the
		
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			beginning of intimate relations.
		
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			Don't even think about it.
		
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			فُسُوقَ فَسَقَتْ الْحَبَّ أَيْ خَرَجْ الْعُلْغَاءِ غُلَف Meaning
		
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			that linguistically when the seed comes out of
		
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			the cover.
		
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			But shari' خَرَجْ عَنْ طَاعَةِ اللَّهِ You're not
		
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			supposed to come out of the act of
		
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			obedience of Allah.
		
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			That's it.
		
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			لَا رَفَثَ وَلَا فُسُوقَ وَلَا جِدَالْ No quarreling.
		
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			How much did you pay?
		
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			What?
		
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			You told me it's gonna be five stars.
		
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			You said I'm gonna have breakfast, lunch, and
		
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			dinner.
		
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			What happened?
		
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			And these stars...
		
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			The only stars you can count when you
		
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			go to Muzdalifah, you can count the stars.
		
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			That's it.
		
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			So it says, no jidal in hajj.
		
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			And it's very difficult because you understand there's
		
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			a...
		
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			You understand if you've been to hajj, I
		
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			don't want to go politics on you here
		
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			because I'd like to go back.
		
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			I'm just saying.
		
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			So you'll see some people, you have the
		
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			choo-choo train.
		
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			You know the choo-choo train when they
		
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			lock arms and they bulldoze everybody in front
		
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			of them.
		
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			But they're very nice.
		
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			When they step on you, they say, سُبْحَانَ
		
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			ٱلَّذِي سَخَّرْ لَنَا هَذَا Very nice.
		
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			They say that, mashaAllah.
		
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			And I know they don't speak Arabic and
		
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			they don't know what they're reading because they're
		
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			reading so loud I can't concentrate.
		
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			There's no khushu'a.
		
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			I'm trying to pour my heart out to
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and everybody's going,
		
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			blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
		
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			Everybody behind him, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah,
		
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			blah, blah.
		
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			But I know they don't know what they're
		
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			talking about because they say, طُبِعَ هَذَا فِي
		
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			لِبْنَانِ طُبِعَ هَذَا فِي لِبْنَانِ Which means, this
		
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			was printed in Lebanon.
		
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			Everybody is like, this was printed in Lebanon
		
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			because they don't...
		
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			With all due respect, of course.
		
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			I'm just trying to say, when you do
		
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			the dua, say it from the heart, Shaykh.
		
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			Don't follow, just from the heart.
		
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			Go shopping.
		
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			What you need from Allah is different than
		
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			anybody else needs.
		
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			So speak to Allah as if there's no
		
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			one else in the haram except you.
		
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			And that's when you go to hajj, you
		
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			pour your heart out.
		
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			You come back to Allah.
		
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			I have sinned, ya Allah.
		
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			Don't say it out loud but you come
		
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			to speak to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			But I'm coming back to you, Allah.
		
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			I didn't do it out of disrespect or
		
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			dishonor, out of weakness.
		
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			I repent, I'm coming back, accept me, ya
		
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			Allah.
		
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			And that's how you do it.
		
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			So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is telling
		
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			you what the ibadah is all about.
		
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			And nakhlaq is the character.
		
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			And that's exactly the reason we are created
		
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			to become.
		
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			And that's why Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			when He described our the best of creation,
		
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			our beloved Prophet ﷺ, is Indeed, you are
		
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			the best of character.
		
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			You're the best of moral conduct.
		
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			You're the best of matters.
		
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			As a matter of fact, he was the
		
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			missionistic before he received the revelation.
		
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			What was he known for, my brothers and
		
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			sisters?
		
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			Quraysh.
		
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			He was known for what?
		
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			He was known for his character.
		
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			Isn't that amazing?
		
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			Wallahi, I get goosebumps when you hear this.
		
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			Even though he hasn't received the revelation, he
		
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			was known to be sadiq al-wa'd al
		
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			-ameen.
		
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			He was known to be the best of
		
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			character.
		
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			He is the missionistic for us.
		
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			He says, One of the reasons that he
		
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			was sent to us, I was sent, among
		
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			the reasons he was sent to us, says,
		
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			وَتَمِّمَ مَكَارِمَ الْأَخْلَاقِ I perfect your character and
		
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			moral conduct.
		
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			You understand, my brothers and sisters, the reason
		
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			we're here.
		
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			The reason how people see Islam.
		
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			So I'm going to ask you one question.
		
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			Do people want to become a Muslim because
		
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			of you?
		
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			Or people do not want to become a
		
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			Muslim because of you?
		
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			Are you a fitna for others?
		
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			Or are you the reason?
		
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			Wallahi, I want to embrace Islam.
		
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			You know, sister Fatima was such a good
		
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			sister.
		
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			Honest, respectful, dignity, and, and.
		
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			Brother Muhammad, mashaAllah, tabarakAllah.
		
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			He works hard.
		
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			He's eloquent.
		
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			He's very articulate.
		
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			He's punctual.
		
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			He keeps his promise, and, and, and.
		
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			Truthful.
		
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			People see Islam through you, my brothers and
		
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			sisters.
		
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			And that's exactly what I'm trying to tell
		
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			you.
		
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			I'm trying to tell you to be a
		
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			walking pulpit.
		
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			When Aisha radiyallahu anha says, خُلِقُهُ الْقُرْآنِ He
		
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			was a walking Quran.
		
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			So when you take the Quran, look at
		
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			it, I want you to put on a
		
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			different lens from now on.
		
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			You read the Quran, and as soon as
		
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			you hear, يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا O you
		
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			who believe, now Allah is talking to you.
		
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			عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنِ مَسْعُودِ رَضِيَ اللَّهِ عَنْهُ وَعَنِ
		
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			الصَّحَابَةِ يَجْمَعِينَ He used to say, as soon
		
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			as we hear, يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا We
		
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			used to pay a special attention.
		
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			لَأَنَّهُ كَانَ أَمْرٌ يُؤْمَرُ بِهِ أَوْ نَهْ يُنْهَعِ
		
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			It was a command that will be followed
		
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			by an ordain that we will be commanded
		
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			to do, a commitment or a prohibition that
		
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			will be forbidden upon us.
		
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			So from now on, I want to add
		
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			another homework for you.
		
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			When you read the Quran, I want you
		
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			to have a booklet.
		
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			Half of the booklet says, أَوَامِر Commands.
		
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			Second booklet, I want نواهي Prohibitions.
		
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			As soon as you hear, يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ
		
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			آمَنُوا He didn't say, يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ أَسْلَمُوا
		
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			يَا أَيُّهَا النَّاسِ He says, يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ
		
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			آمَنُوا O you who believe, not O human
		
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			beings, O Muslims, no, no, believe.
		
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			Why?
		
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			كَسَّمِعْنَا وَأَطَعْنَا We listen and obey, not quarreling.
		
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			So when Allah gives you a command, you
		
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			don't ask a reason.
		
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			We're obedient to Allah SWT.
		
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			With the hikmah is that, the wisdom that
		
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			He's given for us.
		
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			So He wants you to be the best
		
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			of character.
		
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			He wants you to be the walking pulpit.
		
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			He wants to see Islam and look at
		
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			Indonesia.
		
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			When we ask the people, when we talk
		
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			about Islam all the time, when is the
		
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			biggest Muslim country?
		
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			Now I would love to say Malaysia, like
		
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			true Asia, that's what...
		
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			But it's Indonesia, close.
		
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			Any Indonesians in the house, hey, the hood
		
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			is here, mashaAllah.
		
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			Okay, so the reason that was that, was
		
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			what?
		
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			Was the khuluq.
		
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			They didn't just bait, there was no swords,
		
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			they didn't cut off the oil, they didn't
		
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			force anyone, they didn't fight anyone, because they
		
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			simply had the khuluq.
		
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			Shaykh Husseini, hafizahullah, I remember in Hong Kong,
		
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			I was with him, he says, don't go
		
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			to Japan and tell people about the khuluq
		
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			of Islam, because they have the khuluq.
		
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			Qutub al-tawhid, monotheism, you don't have that.
		
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			But shame, because I travel, I've been to
		
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			Japan before, wallahi, he is right.
		
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			They are very good in character.
		
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			They're just missing la ilaha illallah muhammadur rasulullah.
		
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			May Allah guide us and guide them, ya
		
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			Rabb.
		
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			So we have to be the leaders, not
		
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			Japan, they're getting sick and tired of inventing
		
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			things.
		
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			So we have to do a few things,
		
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			yaani.
		
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			So at least be, let's be an inventor,
		
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			not an innovation, I'm just saying, be in
		
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			character.
		
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			So people will take you and says, this
		
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			is a beautiful human being, I want to
		
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			emulate.
		
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			And guess what?
		
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			I have some good news for you today,
		
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			my brothers and sisters.
		
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			But let's start with the bad news, so
		
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			I go, we'll finish with the positive, inshaAllah.
		
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			Now the addad, the opposites has a proof.
		
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			Our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was told
		
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			in one narration, an imra'ah, a woman,
		
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			fil madina, in madina.
		
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			The stars, the best of the best.
		
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			He says, كانت تعرف.
		
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			She was famous for what?
		
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			For the salah, for the siyam.
		
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			Does that mean the other?
		
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			No, no.
		
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			This was voluntarily.
		
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			This was above and beyond the obligations.
		
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			So she used to do, not just the
		
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			nawafil, qiyamul layl.
		
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			Yes?
		
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			And she used to voluntarily do extra siyam,
		
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			fasting.
		
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			She was famous for that.
		
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			But here's the catch, وَلَكِن كَانَتْ تُؤْذِي جِيْرَانِهَا
		
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			بِرِسَانِهَا But she used to harm her neighbors
		
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			with her tongue.
		
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			He says, لَا خَيْرَ فِيهَا It's no good
		
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			to her.
		
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			Another narration, هي في النار.
		
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			She's in a hellfire.
		
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			Not eternally of course, because she still says,
		
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			لا إله إلا الله محمد رسول الله.
		
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			And the other one says, she used to,
		
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			just pray the obligations, and do the fasting
		
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			obligations, but she did not harm her neighbors
		
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			with her tongue.
		
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			He says, هي في الجنة.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because she did not get that memo, that
		
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			it's not just doing qiyamul layl, and siyamul
		
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			nahr, praying at night, fasting in the day,
		
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			but then you have no khuluq, you harm
		
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			your neighbor.
		
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			The harm one, the one your neighbor cannot
		
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			be safe next to you.
		
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			Can that imagine?
		
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			So some homework, my brothers and sisters, be
		
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			a good neighbor.
		
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			How many of you, you go to sleep
		
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			and share some food with each other?
		
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			How many of you, cut the grass or,
		
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			I was gonna say shovel the snow, I'm
		
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			sorry, I come from Canada.
		
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			You don't know, snow, it's a white thing
		
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			that comes from the...
		
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			You don't know?
		
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			Okay, I get it.
		
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			It's actually minus 24, and it's snow.
		
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			I was going...
		
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			I was...
		
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			You know, I'm alhamdulillah, I'm a grandfather now.
		
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			So I told my wife, listen, we paid
		
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			our dues, now we cruise.
		
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			And I heard one wise man, he sent
		
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			me a link, he says, the best thing
		
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			to do in Canada in the winter is,
		
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			leave.
		
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			So I said, Sansei, teach me please.
		
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			So that's what I do now.
		
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			So I told my agent, anyone offers me
		
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			anywhere in the world, in Toronto, I mean
		
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			in winter, just take, just get me out
		
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			of here in the winter.
		
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			And that's not the reason I'm here, I'm
		
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			just saying.
		
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			So let us go back to the good
		
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			news.
		
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			I'm talking to the brothers, then I'll talk
		
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			to sisters inshallah.
		
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			Brothers, you have a measuring stick, do you
		
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			believe it?
		
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			Our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, the
		
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			best of men, did he say again, sawwam,
		
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			qawwam, taqeen, naqees, saqeej, jawad, pray fast and
		
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			all of that stuff, the best of men
		
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			that prays and all of that, memorize the
		
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			Quran, hajj every year, what?
		
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			Could somebody give me the answer?
		
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			I don't have candy for you but, Allahu
		
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			Akbar, the Shaykh is right.
		
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			He said, the best of men is the
		
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			best to his family.
		
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			Sara bi ahlihi, in this one, to his
		
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			wife.
		
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			So if you really want to know who
		
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			you are, my brothers and sisters, ask your
		
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			mother, ask your daughter, and especially ask your
		
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			wife, according to the stronger opinion of the
		
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			scholars.
		
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			You want to know why?
		
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			Let me help you out.
		
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			You see, you can go in the masjid,
		
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			pray five times a day, in congregation, first
		
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			line, you could be the muezzin, you could
		
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			be hafidh of the Quran, you could be
		
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			the imam of the masjid, and in the
		
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			masjid, you act like Abu Bakr radiyallahu anhu
		
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			wa rada.
		
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			But when you go home, you act like
		
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			Abu Jahl.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because your wife knows the true colors.
		
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			Your wife knows that we do, whether you
		
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			do qiyam al-layl or niyam al-layl.
		
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			Your wife knows whether you pray fajr in
		
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			jama'ah or not.
		
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			Your wife knows whether you fulfill your promise
		
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			or break it.
		
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			Your wife knows whether you actually tell the
		
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			truth or you lie.
		
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			Your wife knows whether you actually betray or
		
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			not.
		
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			Your wife, your wife, your wife knows your
		
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			character, my brothers and sisters.
		
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			And that's why our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam cut to the chase, and he says,
		
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			the best of men, the best is wife.
		
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			So I have some homework for you today.
		
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			Today, before you go home, I want you
		
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			to pass on a florist.
		
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			Buy a beautiful long stem single rose for
		
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			your wife.
		
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			I got your back, sisters.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			And I want you to write a beautiful
		
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			poem.
		
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			And if you know her favorite chocolates, I
		
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			know it's going to cost you a little
		
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			bit of money.
		
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			I know, I get it.
		
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			But you're going to have a very pleasant
		
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			evening, and you make dua for me, inshallah.
		
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			But if you go home, and your wife
		
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			passes out, and she goes, who are you,
		
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			and what have you done with my husband?
		
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			That's very bad news.
		
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			May Allah help you, Yani.
		
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			Sisters, you're not off the hook just yet?
		
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			See, I was buttering you up first, you
		
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			know.
		
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			See, I talked to the brothers first, so
		
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			sister go, what?
		
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			I'll see you outside.
		
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			Because now, our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			asked women same thing.
		
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			He says, are you married?
		
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			She said, yes.
		
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			He didn't say, do you pray fast and
		
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			all of that stuff.
		
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			He says, one question, anyone knows what is,
		
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			sisters?
		
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			He says, how are you to your husband?
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because similarly, as he told us men, the
		
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			best of you men, the best is wife,
		
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			because the wife knows the character of the
		
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			husband.
		
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			And similarly, he said, how are you to
		
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			your husband?
		
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			Same thing.
		
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			Because your husband will also know your character,
		
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			my dear sisters.
		
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			So she said, I do my best.
		
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			He says, Good for you, because he is
		
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			your jannah, or he is your hellfire.
		
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			Since Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala told us
		
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			who the winners are, Those who protect themselves
		
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			from the hellfire and earn the status and
		
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			admission in new heaven, that's the true ultimate
		
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			triumph.
		
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			So I want you to be a winner,
		
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			my dear sisters, in both abodes.
		
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			And it can only be through one man
		
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			in your life.
		
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			So let me give you some advice.
		
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			And we'll finish with the positive inshaAllah.
		
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			How to do that through your husband?
		
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			First, our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was
		
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			talking to women.
		
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			He says, Oh women folks, give charity.
		
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			I see the dwellers of the hellfire made
		
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			up of mostly women.
		
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			Don't worry, there is more women and men
		
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			in heaven also.
		
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			Relax, because I see that.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			But you see, it's old name.
		
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			But they don't need to do that.
		
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			So now what do you do?
		
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			It says, Oh women folks, give charity.
		
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			They did.
		
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			But they asked why.
		
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			So I'm going to give you the three
		
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			things and stay away from them.
		
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			It says, And
		
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			that's your three remedies, my dear sisters.
		
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			Number one, he says, you harm your husband
		
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			in the bondness with your tongue.
		
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			You see, I speak freely.
		
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			My wife is not here.
		
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			She's coming back later on.
		
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			But don't.
		
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			It's recorded?
		
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			My janazah is tomorrow.
		
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			You see, my wife is from Gaza.
		
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			You know what that means.
		
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			I'm very afraid.
		
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			Be afraid.
		
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			Run.
		
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			She's one of the speakers.
		
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			Alhamdulillah, I'm honored.
		
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			Wallahi, this is a dream for me that
		
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			Allah SWT blessed us.
		
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			Alhamdulillahi rabbil alameen.
		
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			Make dua for us.
		
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			May Allah grant us sincerity and never deprives
		
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			the honor of this deen.
		
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			May Allah accept from us, Ya Rabb.
		
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			Ameen, Wallahi.
		
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			So number one, he says, So remember, sisters,
		
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			your tongue has two gates, your teeth and
		
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			your lips.
		
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			Before you say anything to him, please think
		
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			twice.
		
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			Number two, he says, be ungrateful to their
		
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			husbands.
		
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			They take him for granted.
		
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			So remember, your husband is a big baby.
		
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			Just think about it.
		
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			So sisters, if you have children, please raise
		
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			your hand.
		
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			All right.
		
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			Keep your hand up if you have two.
		
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			Keep your hand up if you have three.
		
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			MashaAllah.
		
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			Four.
		
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			Five.
		
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			What are you guys doing in Malaysia?
		
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			What's happening?
		
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			This is like serious.
		
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			MashaAllah.
		
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			Six.
		
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			All right.
		
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			Seven.
		
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			That's my bottom.
		
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			That's my final number.
		
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			All right.
		
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			If you have seven, if you have seven
		
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			and you're married, how many children do you
		
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			have?
		
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			Eight.
		
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			You're right.
		
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			So when you have your babies, don't forget
		
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			your first baby.
		
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			Number three, he says he's good to you
		
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			all the time.
		
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			But you see one thing you don't like.
		
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			He will say, I have never seen any
		
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			good from you.
		
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			Which means you fish for fault.
		
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			So I want you to remember the good
		
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			and forget the bad.
		
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			And that's how you make it, my brothers
		
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			and sisters.
		
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			The other side is easy for you, my
		
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			dear sister.
		
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			Our Prophet shallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, Good
		
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			news for you, my dear sisters.
		
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			Our Prophet shallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, if
		
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			a woman prays her five daily prayers, when
		
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			she can, of course.
		
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			Fast a month Ramadan, when she can, of
		
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			course.
		
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			Protect her chastity.
		
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			And good to her husband.
		
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			Four things in life.
		
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			Will open eight gates of Jannah for you
		
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			on a day that is 50,000 years.
		
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			And the gates will open up and fight
		
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			over you.
		
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			Too much?
		
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			You wanna call a lawyer?
		
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			You're good?
		
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			Alhamdulillah.
		
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			Now my brothers and sisters, if you know
		
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			that you're each other's mission stick, to go
		
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			to Jannah, from now on, you're gonna look
		
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			at each other in a totally different manner.
		
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			Because the scholar says, the akhlaaq is in
		
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			the heart.
		
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			It's in the heart.
		
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			And there's a huge difference between khuluq and
		
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			takalluq.
		
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			What's the difference?
		
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			Khuluq is who your true colors are.
		
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			You know the orange theory?
		
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			You know when you squeeze an orange real
		
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			hard, what comes out of it?
		
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			Mangoes?
		
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			I mean I love mangoes.
		
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			May Allah bless you.
		
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			MashaAllah tabarakallah.
		
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			But it's squeezing, you get orange juice.
		
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			And that's when you squeeze, your true colors
		
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			will come through.
		
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			You understand my brothers?
		
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			And that's your khuluq.
		
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			But takalluq is once in a while.
		
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			And that's exactly a gift.
		
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			Allah gives you that.
		
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			So may Allah grant you the best of
		
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			character.
		
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			But you have to have a commitment.
		
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			You have to have patience.
		
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			You have to think about what I want
		
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			to do.
		
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			Why do I want to be the best
		
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			of character?
		
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			Because I want to be with our Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			That's my ultimate goal.
		
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			I want to also make sure that I
		
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			surround myself with righteous people.
		
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			In the righteous company.
		
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			To be successful in this life in the
		
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			hereafter.
		
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			And that's how you do it.
		
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			Walk the Quran.
		
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			Walk in the footsteps of our Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			And finally, because the time is up.
		
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			Three minutes, alhamdulillah.
		
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			I'm going to ask for a favor.
		
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			Can I ask you brothers and sisters to
		
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			stand up please?
		
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			Now, I want you to think when you're
		
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			standing up like this, you're standing up in
		
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			front of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala on
		
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			Judgment Day.
		
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			And guess what?
		
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			Will be heavy on the scale.
		
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			According to the hadith, says nothing is heavier
		
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			than the scale on Judgment Day more than
		
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			husnul khuluq.
		
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			Allahu Akbar.
		
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			So this is one of the things that
		
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			you have to make sure that you understand.
		
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			And who does not want to be with
		
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			our beloved Prophet?
		
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			On that day, he says, that day on
		
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			Judgment Day, the closest to me is the
		
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			one that has husnul khuluq.
		
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			Allahu Akbar.
		
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			Now, before you sit, I want you to
		
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			turn to your sides.
		
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			And if it's halal for you, to hug
		
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			the person next to you, please hug the
		
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			person next to you.
		
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			Tell him, I love you for the sake
		
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			of Allah.
		
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			Sisters, hug the sister next to you.
		
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			Say, I love you for the sake of
		
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			Allah.
		
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			And that's one of the character that will
		
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			be resurrected on pulpits of light with our
		
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			Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, in Jannah.
		
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			And that's exactly the spirit we have with
		
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			you inshallah.
		
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			With that I say, terima kasih, thank you
		
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			so much, truly Asia.
		
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			Wassalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.