21st Century Sahaabiyat

Alaa Elsayed


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la de la, la la

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la la

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la la

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My dear brothers and sisters in Islam.

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My dear sister.

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Do you know who you are?

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You're so special to everyone.

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Because you are mothers.

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You are sisters.

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You are our daughters.

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your aunt's

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your neighbors.

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You are the cornerstone of the oma.

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You are the jewel that is hidden.

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You have the gift of a loss of Hannah Angela Viola.

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You the truth behind every man.

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You're the one that we depend on.

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You the one that we cry to

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the shoulder. We need

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you the one we run to

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you the one that started this.

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You're the one that we depend on.

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And look forward to see

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you the one that alleviates the hardship, the difficulties.

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You're the one we let our guards down with.

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You're the one that knows the truth about us.

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You are the measuring stick of how good we are.

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You are the one

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a hidden treasure.

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You are a walking pulpit.

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You are in defiance of the enemies.

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You are the CEO of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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You are so much more than you think.

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are the cornerstone of the oma the bedrock of the oma.

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You mean so much to us.

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But I apologize on behalf of men of how we mistreated you

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of how ignorant we are to you.

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How much we oppressed you

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how much we let you down.

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underestimate you

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how ungrateful we were to you.

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The value of you have

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the man that you carry

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the hijab that you wear.

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The honor that you hold

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is unmatched to any man.

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Let me explain what I said.

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According to the Quran and Sunnah of the and the utterance of the scholars and the actions of the Sahaba and the righteous predecessors, may Allah be pleased with all of them. It explains every statement more than enough of what this course they've have a lot of third and more. If we only have enough time there are a series that talks about you when prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he was dying, and you know that scholars will tell you when you're dying to see the truth.

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There is nothing between you and alive except one breath, one pulse of a heart, one blink of an eye.

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And as prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he was dying, he says Paul Siegelman

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who's the company's IRA?

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IRA, look after you women look after women, my Will my advice to you men is look after your women.

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Go back to the Qur'an that Allah Subhana Allah when he said one min T

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among His Signs, first lesson learned from this verse, that you are a sign of a loss of Allah. You are a miracle that a lot of us have had Allah to Allah has given whom and how Allah, Allah.

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Allah Allah Subhana Allah to Allah the first favor for us men and Haleakala can mean for Sikkim as Raja

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we hear this verse and utterance and weddings all the time. Have you ever thought of that, that he is a miracle? He is a sign for a law, a gift for you created for you, from you. So how could you harm somebody that has created a sign of a law created for you from you mean and forsaken?

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letus kuno Elijah Muhammad Allah The reason you are the tranquility, the source of peace and tranquility of the

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Do you understand nothing?

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You'll find out that that word that behind this four sleeve of a law and it says

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you know where it's derived from the word oma comes from whom

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you are three times higher than us.

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According to the Headey where prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was approached by one man. He says what who do I spend my time with? He says

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he says your mother, your mother, your mother, then you father we all know that.

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Indeed, you are much more than you think. So from now on, you held yourself up high you raise your head you walk proud

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as I was this give you Charla an attribute

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that you can take.

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I'll give you examples of that Sahabi yet.

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We will build the bridge from the past,

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to the present, so you can learn but you would be the 21st Sahabi yet, so you can learn from the past and move on to a better future. A fruitful future. We are looking for Salahuddin hobbies Allah that beautiful man should

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have with this May. And may Allah protect

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Imam Hamza

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See, I mean, for both of them what law he needed. Yesterday made me cry.

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Baraka de como Allah Kumar mela Kumar.

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He said we are looking for Salahuddin

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amongst this could be a Salahuddin so of the I'm talking to your heart I want you to change your mind change your life change everything that you thought of the hand me down as loud it becomes something different now you have a different goal different perspective.

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You have something upon the site that you want to reach so much higher than just raise somebody that will drink a tea pinky up posh posh. Where's ours? Gosh, gosh, oh my gosh. Well, lucky.

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Let me take you to Sofia rhodiola and our elevated power.

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There is so many stories, but I want to concentrate what I just heard. We were talking about the AXA hostage It is indeed

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drowning its own tears.

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Will it be free in Sharla would be free? It's a promise.

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We know it, we know it. But our topic is not that so I'm going to stick the topic of Sahaba meaning you and Sha lo fi You are the 21st century Sahabi after Java, Sofia rhodiola and how an alibi tilaka

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she's the aunt of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam

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you know how she raised her son?

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Who was her son,

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rajala, who

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Allahu Akbar.

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he used to fight with two swords he would penetrate

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The whole army line, get to the end of the army come back, penetrate the army once more untouched. That it is WWE.

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I want to derive the lessons from the past in order for us to take it and turn it around and put it into a practical example.

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I want you to change your mind about the way you raise your children.

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You should be raising Salahuddin

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you should be raising a person that will revive this oma.

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You should be raising a leader, not a follower.

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Sophia Giovanna.

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She used to

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take a survey and put him in a room a dark room Close the door.

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People even complained about the way she raised us.

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How could you do that your son? Now before I continue with this story,

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I'm not asking you to lock your son into a dark room.

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Please do not do this. Have you met my lawyer just in case these brothers you get sued?

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I'm seeing an example that is suffice for us to take. And the lessons learned report.

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When she was actually asked to why would you do that? Do your own son you know what you said? I want to raise him to be a brave man.

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I want to raise him to be a fighter. I want to raise him to be a leader was he

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was the fruit of the action fulfilled?

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Did she achieved her goal?

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Indeed she did.

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Now, you know Sophia.

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She's the same one. With the time of the Zeb the Allied or the trench. The 100

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where prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam put the women and the weak men, the older ones and the young children in one camp.

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Among them with Hassan sabotage. He was that shattered he was the port of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam.

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And as they actually were on the verge of losing the battle, and the other tribes have broken the covenant with Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam that they will protect their back. They broken the covenant. That means they're in a grave danger. Now the other tribe came in and he wanted to make to take all the hostages of Muslims to take him in as their own spoils of war. So they had a platoon coming up to the camp of Muslims.

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And one man from that platoon want to go up want to make sure that that camp is unarmed, there is no men to protect it. So one man came up. Sophia Lauer and her same Sophia we're talking about the act of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam.

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She says, Yeah, Hassan mujtaba. The poderoso law says go fight this man coming. If he knew that we don't have any defense. He will come and take us off is what?

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He was shaking. He was an old man.

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I don't know how to fight. So what did she say? What did you do? Did she call 911?

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She's I'm afraid of the dark. We're toast. Now ally. She stood firm like the mountain she was. multiples of men would not do what Sophia did on that day.

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She took

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what is narrated once as a marble stick or something that is hard. She hid behind the bush. As that man climbed up, she hit him on the head, took the dagger cut his head off, grabbed his head by the head and rolled it down.

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That platoon said

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this person, Molly Barry Jan, this, but this camp is full of men.

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Not full of men. It was Sophia Ravana and that platoon ran away because of Sophia levada be a failure of the Do not be afraid. But how do we do it? Let's be honest, practical examples now calling each one's bluff.

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When you send your children somewhere, what do you do?

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Do you actually give them the strength that you can do things on their own? Do you delegate responsibilities? Do you ask him to do certain things or do you do it for them?

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Let me brush your teeth. Let me let me do this with you.

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You let me cook this let me clean let me do something

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I don't want to I'll keep this a family show inshallah but you understand

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you cross the street Wait a second let me cross the river you took the right turn like

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your knife no no don't take a knife. Don't even

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Who are you raising? are you raising a man or are you raising a male?

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While law he there's a difference. measure a difference?

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You know when they come to complain to us and says I'm losing my child. The first question this horselover last woman you know what the question is?

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How worthy raised

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How are they raised?

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That's another topic on its own and shall I'm even address it tomorrow.

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What is euro dollar an hour.

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It is sufficient to know the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam says Kambou Lamanna Rizal can be

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too many men were perfected.

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Welcome, Lisa Alba.

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For women who have perfected

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who were they do remember?

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Seo. But the first one, Miriam. Adam is number one.

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I see.

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faltan jolanda

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if we take each one of them, Allahu Akbar, the story's amazing Khadija rajala Haha, look at the Sahaba tonometer mumineen and build that bridge. I understand that you have too many hats and we'll talk about the hats.

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Khadija rhodiola on our Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came down cave and is a Mooney is a minnow neither through the cover me cover me

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because he thought he saw gin.

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At the time they believed in that and evil spirits. He thought there was some magic spilled on upon him. When he saw jabril on Instagram as his 600 wings span at the end of the east and the west. He comes in shaken

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and he comes to padishah rajala Haha, but look how she handled the situation.

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Is La la la he

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lives here komaba Allah Subhana Allah will never let you down. And she started to actually tell him the good characteristics about Rasulullah saw Salah you reach the next of kin you help the poor you aid the needy and and

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again, practical example some of us how do you handle it? Can you imagine have to be honest with yourself? Don't tell me how you act. But can you imagine your husband comes to you? Honey, I've seen something. I've said this. Oh my god, cover me cover me. What are you gonna say? Brother? You better stop sniffing Lou and stop doing drugs because you're a loser. Loser. I knew the day I first met you. I never should have married you.

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Man when he's down. If you want to be resurrected with her off the act like her walk the talk walk the footsteps of the Sahaba yet because you are it. You are the 21st Sahaba yet

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so I'm going to leave you with one question.

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Does your husband run to you? Or does he run away from you?

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Some of the sisters are really laughing because they know what's going on. And there were This is a video pain.

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This is my wife is here man I'm in trouble or you

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see a doctor doesn't have to remind people that

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we are bla bla

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bla bla he, I can tell you that this poor slave of Allah is humble. humble before you assembled in front of the machine, may Allah bless them out.

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And the beautiful place in Trinidad to come and see that

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zeal, the courage, the hunger for knowledge and how much you really wanted this to act upon it. But I'm going to remind you of something again Dr. Mina Fossum talking about Amen. Amen. We call them twins of faith, twins of faith.

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And if you notice the game that realm and ml are made of three letters are the same.

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Really a meme Amell a meme plan similar is but one letter comes before the other.

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So, LD will be among the Yakuza will Rama looby la mina junoon

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knowledge with no action

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cannot be

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action with no knowledge is insanity

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and that is the reason we are deriving back the outcome.

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So I'm talking to your heart now.

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I am talking to you without the headphones.

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I'm talking to you without the makeup.

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I'm talking to you without the perfume.

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I'm talking to you without the tight pants.

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I'm talking to you without anything else that lewers men.

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I'm talking to you without the bobbing head.

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I'm talking to you behind that veil.

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I'm talking to your heart.

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behind everything else, the women's limbs and desires of this world as you want to be attractive. You want men to go like

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as you pass by.

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Human Nature indeed.

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But look at the beauty of Islam. What made you who you are

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as the pearl that I was talking about. The Pearl is so beautiful. so precious, so private, but it is in a beautiful container and the container itself outside me did not look that good. But is what is inside that counts. It is not the measurement that it counts for us. It is not 3624 36 it's what's the inside that counts not the outside, not the higher the dress the higher the salary, the tighter it is the closer you are to the boss level ah you're not a hanger that they put that dress on you. And we'll tell you another man that will want to click and go to the hellfire. This is the fashion of today.

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You are not out for the highest bidder you are not a merchandise to be bought and sold for the highest bidder. You are not there for every time they can herring to see how good you look.

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Because you mean much more to us than that. You are much more valuable. You are precious.

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You are the jewel of the oma

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as we said when others look in the mirror before they go outside.

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What did he look?

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They look for how beautiful they look

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how much they should show

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Should I put little more color here. I want to knock him dead this time.

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I want to walk around and I wanted to say you're the bomb.

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Don't say that in the airport.

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But a Muslim true believer the Sahaba yet of the 21st century nowadays when you look in the mirror Have

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you look in the mirror to hide what is showing

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to loosen what is tight

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to look at a reflection of those who will enter didn't mean

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to look at the job as the uniform of Jana.

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A drop of a sweat of tea is heavy in the scale on Judgement Day. Indeed, it is hot indeed that you sweat. But on Judgement day the day is hotter where the sun leaves his orbit close to your head comes close that people will be drenched in sweat. The hijab will come and cheer you on that day.

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It's a decision you have to make. Indeed not an easy one. shaitan will come and say listen, there's too many women out there very few men.

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You have to compete and the new year is good. He will tell you that you want to get married.

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So they will tell you listen, wear the hijab, good wear the hijab, but just show him what's under the hood.

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So you will wear the hijab, but conveniently you will have one bang hanging down

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Just in case Listen, man, I'm not wearing the hijab, because I have a bad hair day. No, no, check this out a little check under the hood, just in case you want to buy them well.

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And of course, the Facebook that we know

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most of us have to Facebook account, one Facebook account where you invite your father and invite your mother.

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And you were ever there is so good or even put that different picture not you a cabin, for example, the Koran

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and you see me

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as your nickname.

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And then you have the real Facebook account where you call yourself Foxy Mama.

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And then you picture slowly different as if you're kissing the air in the corner. I

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have no idea what this is.

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And all of that because I want to get married. That's a turn off. Man, it's a straight on ask you to do this. But now you're gonna change that right? Because the hajah li for your against you is

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it's different, isn't it?

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walk the talk.

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If I want to be resurrected with Sahaba yet or the lower I mean, I have to walk in their footsteps.

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And remember

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who you are.

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I use that line mobile age just to remind us I know no comes up out of the Lion King.

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But remember who you are.

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Do you know who you are often? You let me remind you once more.

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You are the daughter of Khadija, the daughter of Fatima, the daughter of Ayesha, the daughter of Sophia, the daughter of soda, the daughter of new saber and so on. You should be proud of who your ancestors wore, but they will lie to you. They said that was the past this is now I live here and now. It's a different language now. love Allah He the Quran is still the same as soon as still the same

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decision you have to make once more

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Think about it. of the different hats that you have to wear. First, you're a daughter.

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So you wear the daughter's hat. You want to become the best of those like 14 out of yellow.

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You want to be like Fortunato Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the relationship was so strong and so bond, the prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when Fatima della Juana came to that house, he stood up and kissed him on her forehead and told her to sit where he used to sit.

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I won't talk to the brothers on this one again, it's not our topic.

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Be like for tomorrow.

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And that's why By the way, she cried while Prophet Mohammed Salallahu alaihe salam was on his deathbed.

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You know why some of the scholars will tell you she was crying.

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And most of the knowledgeable ones are not known theory that she thought the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam told her that that the angel of death has come

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There is another video

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just the faulty model de la Hannah cried

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when she saw Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam in

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in that bed

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because he couldn't get up as he was accustomed to kiss her on her forehead until those sit here or my daughter.

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So she knew that was serious.

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This hat is a measure hat of the

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the daughter will always be the daughter.

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Because before that you came Your father was called just the husband.

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But now he's called the father. Your mother was just called a wife

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after she was told a mother

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and then you become a rebel, a teenager from Oh daddy hold me this or Oh daddy by me that

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you become this rebel. A different hat now.

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They don't understand me. They're cramping my style.

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They're doing this and they're doing that.

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Oh See? Look at the Sahaba Yatra de la when we had a plan, they actually had a place in the wars. As a matter of fact Prophet Mohammed Savalas, Allah made a plan for them.

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Have you heard of some of those who have yet are

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in battlefields

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in a battlefield, where prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam was all alone.

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When the armies come to kill Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam

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only a few men came back to the aid and listen to the call Elijah de la Rasulullah.

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Come back to me slaves of Allah. I am the messenger of Allah.

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A woman comes back,

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defending Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam.

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He says what law Wherever I look, I see this woman defending me. I look to my wife is there I look to my left. She's there in front of me. She's there.

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That woman put her arm in front of a sword that is coming in and for Rasulullah she lost her hand.

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She lost her hand for the sake of Allah. walking back in Medina. Other women making fun of her.

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The fact that she was a thief, that's why she lost her hand.

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He says are you making a mockery of a woman that parts of her exceeded her in heaven?

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Are you making fun of a woman that saved the life of Rasulullah

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these were the Sahaba of the

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the Sahaba throw de la nazma in pulling back the hat not just the daughter or the teenager, the wife You know what they used to say to their husbands of tea?

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It tequila hace una nanosphere Allah harvill Judah

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para la hora jahannam

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the Sahaba to

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your own mothers.

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They used to say to their husbands before they leave the house. Be conscious of Allah. Fear Allah in dealing with us. We can withstand the pain of hunger but we can never withstand the pain of the hellfire. The mean Be careful how you earn your money.

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Be conscious

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how you earn your money what you're going to feed us

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but I'm sure not the sisters here. The sisters here are like Masha Allah. I'm going to talk about other systems out there

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because you are the best

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What do you say to your husband?

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I don't have a Mercedes Benz in the parking lot. I don't know you anymore.

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If I don't have this thing that goes

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and the earrings that hang down

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and that for whatever

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and the flatscreen this like the bra and a multi This

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allowed one. And I know the sisters that they make fun of you. They check each other out. I mean women check women out more than men check woman out you know that right?

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It's just the fact they laughing because they know it's truth. I know.

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And the you know what these will talk about

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to compare. Have you seen the sign over there?

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Or they don't have to say anything right? Because women are emotional really. When they get engaged or something or they get married. They just go

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is the bling bling man.

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Not the sisters No, because they want to be the Sahaba yet you cannot be a burden upon your husband to your age and your husband not eating the life upon your husband or shaitan upon your husband level law. Hey,

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Dustin Lahaina here Allah, we can lose

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stand the pain of hunger we cannot withstand the pain of the hellfire.

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you are now a mother

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a wife

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and indeed our take his rightful Father rajala and you know when they first got married?

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He said as a wrestling attendee Could you please hold on? Do you permit me to speak?

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He says I don't know you you don't know me.

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Can you please tell me what you like so I will do and tell me what you don't like so I will not do

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that was this hobby yet?

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Nowadays what happens? Hey, listen man, let me set the record straight.

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You must with me I take you out. My whole family will come and take you out.

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No, not the sisters here. I'm sure this is this year the best thing

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is I want to leave in one piece yet.

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Mess with the sisters doing aerobics and stuff like that.

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Now of the

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it is amazing. When it is as a hobby at Raja lavon

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even the one that is called

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the no no rain.

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You know why?

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Earth might not follow Angela on the married two of the daughters of assume lasala salah and the da da da casa de la Nova. And

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you know what she did not attain?

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A pregnant woman

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in the heat of the desert

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where people are looking for Prophet Mohammed Salah Mahalia, Salama Naboo Casa de la jolla.

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A brave woman that takes the food takes her garment, cuts into pieces.

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carries the food in the heat of the sun in the danger of the desert where men used to be looking for them and she would deliver the food pregnant to Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and her father.

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Amazing isn't it?

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Well when you compare this a hobby of mine and what we used to do, it's amazing will lie. I'm not telling you this to put you down.

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I'm telling you Okay, you have a much bigger goal, a much bigger fish to fry a something that you would reach so high of who you are. who you are as often as hot the batter of La ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasulullah

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You are the mothers of the future generation that will take the banner of La ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasul Allah to his next level. Next stage. You are the mother of the next Salafi Deen. You are the jewel we're talking about. You are the mercy of Rasulullah.

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You are the hub of the one that allows an agenda Beulah mentioned as a miracle that we'll see of him and what you are, who you told who you are, who you think who you are, who you told who you are.

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And that's the reason we haven't given you your rights.

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We haven't honored you the way befitting

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and for that I apologized.

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When I hear some other communities

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be little we're lucky I don't know the communities here I didn't ask

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but they don't give the rights of the sisters.

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They are shooting themselves in the foot.

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This poor slave of Allah concentrate on two groups youth and sisters.

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If we don't look after sisters and we know it brothers, they raise our children

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you know the statistics shows that you spend 20 to 30 minutes with your children.

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I'm talking pure time.

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The latest statistics shows that you spend as a man you spend 20 to 30 minutes maximum with your children. Otherwise you're working sleeping or get away from me texting, surfing, whatever it is.

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How much time do your wife spend time with the children?

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Amazing, isn't it?

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That's why Los Angeles

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you know this has translated until

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from now on. I want you to think of your wife as a beautiful tree.

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A beautiful tree indeed. And that is a sign according some of the biggest scholars as sustenance. Rich, Baraka

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You know what that

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becomes a symbol of

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you become a gardener now.

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And the gardener, the smart gardener that invest in the garden, the garden will give back to but the garden that neglects the garden, the garden will have nothing to give back to.

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So from now on Effie, you have to go back and respect that. Wife of yours, daughter of yours, mother of yours, the womb that bore you.

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You understand the first indication, as you heard earlier on first indication of Islam, that Iran proved that Islam respects women were evil. No, that is.

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That is the scholars as you heard, I can't remember when she was a doctor.

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I believe it was.

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It's mentioned that verse is when a young daughter on Judgment is, yeah, pcell Halima catellani. Oh, my Lord asked this fan, why did he kill me?

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That is the first indication that Islam respects women.

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Because prior to Islam, the pre Islamic era what is called as that jay he knew, yeah, the ignorant era, they used to do that practice.

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I will finish with this inshallah.

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This tree of he will come back to the practice this tree, my brother.

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As it's your wife, you make sure as you're the gardener, you are responsible about taking out the weeds away from that tree, which means you are responsible about the production of the environment, it has to be righteous and healthy and safe. Not only the environment, also, the company she keeps.

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And when you quench the thirst of that tree, as we mentioned earlier on, it has to be Hello sources of lawful income.

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And you trim that tree as providing that tree with raisins. I need information awareness, raising education, and leading by example. And that's why it pains me to know that the some of the communities neglect the women altogether, they have no activities for them. They're not allowed to come close. You've just shot yourself in the footnotes. Now I understand you have your own reasoning and I have married into a lie.

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But they are the one we are going to raise your children.

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If they don't know for an incident, how are they going to raise your children according to violence?

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The fruit of that tree? How will be your righteous children? Do you see the connection my brothers?

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It's mentioned the client for a reason.

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Going back to them oh Buddha, this practice that you use. In the Hadith it says A man came crying to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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is I actually put my own daughter

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a man comes Did you imagine my brother?

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Will you ask Allah Subhana Allah to Allah subhana

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wa kurata

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you're asking Allah answered the phone under about a rock man. The sleeves of a rock man in Surah Furqan in the end of it, you're asking Allah Oh Allah robina you didn't see that he he said Rob because the rubia is the one that gives the sustenance and so on.

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robina habla hubba hubba gift. Give us a gift to Allah from our spouses and our daughters and children sons, the apple of the eye and make us leaders for that with the team May Allah make is among the Latina mean.

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Can you imagine waiting for that day?

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The day will you hear your wife saying Honey, I have some good news.

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The doctor says I'm pregnant.

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You prostrate to a lot to thank him.

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You place your hand on her womb.

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unfilter kick. She's growing.

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You start talking.

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You can hardly wait to see that beautiful face.

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Your wife seen that given her birth.

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She went hungry so she can eat. She went thirsty she can drink she had sleepless nights when she hurt us.

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You will not forget the day she came to life.

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You will not forget the day she looked at you for the first time.

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You will not forget the day she smiled in your face that made you forget the misery of this dunya

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you will not forget the day she walked for the first time. You will not forget the day she called you Baba for the first time. You won't forget the day she went to school you miss her already. When does she come back I want to give her a hug. I want to forget all the hardship I've been through.

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She is growing beautifully like a blossom a flower that comes in your heart.

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She goes to school and graduates

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somebody knock on your door.

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you have a beautiful daughter

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you want to marry?

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The first thing that comes to mind is shoot this guy.

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Then you find out it's illegal.

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And you remember the time that you've taken somebody else's daughter, and it's time to repeat it and can you imagine this beautiful daughter they invested everything that you have the one that Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam says if you raise the righteous Daughter of two

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different divisions is it will shield you from the hellfire.

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Could you imagine? That's that beautiful data that you bury with your own hands.

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Then innovation says I buried I couldn't take her anymore. I had a daughter I put my head down and shame

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walking around. They don't know how to face other men. I had a daughter not a son.

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Shame. So they say.

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So after she reached a certain age, I had to take her with me. I dug a hole with my own hand. I buried my own data with my own hand in the sand.

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As I was burying her, she puts her dust away from my own beard. She's still looking after me.

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She grabbed my hand and grabbed my finger and she felt the string

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as she breathed her last I felt no strings of a finger anymore. I still cry over till this day.

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Is this who you are?

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love Allah.

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Rest assured that Allah Subhana Allah to Allah honor them and prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, honor them

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and assure you that you should as well.

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Be a first class lady. Be the queen of a castle. And don't try to be a second class man.

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You are the queen of the castle in our hearts at least. We have lots of respect for your safety.

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We honor you.

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Islam honored you according to the verse I just mentioned, according to hanifa just mentioned three times higher a mother as a father.

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If we don't give you your new rights Allah Subhana Allah to Allah has given you a new rights for himself cassava somewhat from the seventh heaven. The best of creation is honored you're three times higher than us. So if we don't give you forget us and remember our Laws of Power now gelato law and Rasulullah that honored you, you are honored and now that I asked Allah subhanaw taala to honor you in this dunya in the hereafter waka Dhawan hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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All praises