Akram Nadwi – Weekly Q&A 25-07-2024

Akram Nadwi
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The importance of Muslims dressing up as different from their own community is discussed, including the need for clothing to be identifiable and avoiding arrogance. The importance of following proper procedures and following guidance on achieving goals is emphasized, along with the use of words and actions to maintain good relationships with people. The speakers also emphasize the importance of following rules of Islam and not giving advice to others, as well as the importance of forgiveness and reforming in the face of failure. There is also mention of the importance of providing support to vulnerable people and enrolling in various programs.
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To everyone. And welcome back to another ASI

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q and a session with Sheikh Akram Naidwee

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on every Thursday, 6 PM BST.

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Without further ado, Sheikh, we have 2 private

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questions that have come in. One's a slightly

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long one, so I'll start with that one.

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Sheikh, we have lots of hadith that encourage

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Muslims

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to look different from the disbelievers.

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The colors of the clothes, the style of

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the beard, but we also have haditha mentioned

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that from far away, Aisha couldn't differentiate between

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the

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prophet

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and Abu Jahal, meaning they looked and dressed

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similarly.

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So how do we reconcile this and how

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important is it for Muslims

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to be identifiable

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as Muslims in their community?

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You know, one thing we have to keep

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in mind that,

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you know, Islamic teachings

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and the commands of the prophet,

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they belong to different context,

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not all are from the same context.

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So many things that the prophet emphasized

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so he could not teach people to differ

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from unbelievers and to

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oppose them. Like in Medina, he said, when

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you're walking on a street,

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an unbeliever comes up, force him to the

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narrow path. That he could not be Makkan.

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Makkan people force him to narrow path. He

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cannot do this.

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Second thing is there are basic teaching of

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Islam. So

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that always should be observed.

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So about the cloth, what is the aura?

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People must cover the

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aura in men and women. So that's the

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important thing. But there could be some clothes

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become identity for Muslims.

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So in those cases where Muslims are a

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majority

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or the Muslims are big number, it is

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helpful to know who's a Muslim, then you

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can say salah.

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So, that could be a or some types

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of clothes that they can be helpful for

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the people,

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but not all the time.

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So Arab people generally, they used to wear

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same clothes. Abu Bakr, and Abu Jahl and

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everybody had same clothes. The prophetess did not

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change that,

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but he defers mostly

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from Jews in

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real culture. You know, real things like that

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he,

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differ. We people are more

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on this more thing like what people look

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like, you know, but we don't emphasize on

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the culture and the hybrid

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and out on the sunnah. The real thing

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is that sunnah should be different.

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Actually, many, many, they

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would not like to eat, you know, on

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a, sit on a chair and table to

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eat.

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But they eat all the food and they

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eat a lot.

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While the sunnah really, the real sunnah that

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follow is that,

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you know, eat less

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and eat only one type of the food.

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But they have so many food so that

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again the sunnah. But with sunnah they fall

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easy sunnah not to sit on the chair

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or table and this and that. So this

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thing that you wear cloth,

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this way or that way, that's easy.

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But, you know, to be not to be

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arrogant and when you walk, you know, being

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soft and nice,

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that's so not, people don't follow.

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And if you look really

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in India and everywhere else,

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the dress that Muslims wear, none of them

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are sunnah. It's actually local dress which became

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Islamized.

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So, like, you know, you are in the

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west that people have trouser, shirt and coat.

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One day, there'll be slaming.

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Just

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like I'm very pushed out. This is never

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sunnah the person, listen. The prophet

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generally used to wear 2 unsewn clothes, 2

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sheets.

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Mostly he had to do. Nobody wears like

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that. They're like a haram cloth.

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So when people say that we follow sunnah,

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that means people don't follow sunnah. People are

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following their own culture which for a long

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time has become Muslim culture, but that's not

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what the prophet used to do. So, anyway,

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simple matter is

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understand the halal, halal, and,

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be more worried about the real sunnah, internal

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sunnah, the sunnah, sunnah, the culture. Not just

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simple thing like, you know, wearing the cloth

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and this and that. In that, when they

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follow halaha,

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the real thing, you know, should be different

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meeting in the right hand,

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intention to worship Allah Subha

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To any always go for the pure and

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real real things. Don't go for the superficial,

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you know, simple identity.

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JazakAllah,

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we'll move on to the questions in the

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question box now because we've got quite a

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few to get through.

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The first question, Sheikh, is, Assalamu alaikum Sheikh.

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Please explain the ruling of sunnah at Jumaa,

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the opinion that

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stood out is Jumaa is a gift, and

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we should only pray 2 rakat, Jumaa, and

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then the optional 2 sunnah and nafar.

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I don't know what the question is. I

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didn't know Jumai is is it true that's

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fine. Far away. But, Sunnah, you know, there's

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no Sunnah. Some people say there's no Sunnah

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in Jumuah because the student people come from

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far. They just put it to the car

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sooner, but to the car further. And then

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they start to, you know, because Zohar used

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to be 4

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to go to Turaka. And before the the,

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Futaba, people attend the Futaba and then pray

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to to the. But Futaba should be proper

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food by speech. Not the Khudwah that people

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read from the book. They have no life,

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nothing, no mercy. The Khudwah should live proper,

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put back proper is peace and

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further.

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Some people said there is sunnah before

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for the 4 rakah, some people says less,

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some people say more. And the sunnah in

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Hanziwa

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after Jumuah 4aka and Sisera,

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but none of them had come from the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. Companions used to

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do differently,

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but there are nobody left anything from the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. What we learned

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from the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam is

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just tour a car for them and and

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a footwork before that.

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Assalamualaikesh

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Sheikh. The next question is,

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Assalamualaikesh.

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Please explain what are the rulings regarding women

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covering their feet

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in prayer and outside of prayer?

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Yeah. The people differ really is covering the

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is the feet of the women or not.

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So some people say we make sure to

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cover their feet anyway, but in a

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feet, you know, covering the feet is not,

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obstructed,

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you know, feet are not. That's what I

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prefer, really. That feet are not.

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The next question is by Fatihah

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who asks Salam You Sheikh, what are the

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affairs that we can entrust to Allah

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as mentioned in Surah Ghafir verse 44?

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Is it okay if we entrust our worldly

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matters too?

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Even if it's for the success of this

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life only like business,

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competition between countries, politics, etcetera.

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The way that that you know whenever you

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want something,

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So

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Allah has made a legal way, lawful way

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to to achieve those things. So you have

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to make a for that one to become

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medical doctor.

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So that way, you have to get, you

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know, study

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in primary school, high school, and whatever until

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you get the degree. So people must follow

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the procedure

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properly. I don't I've been made.

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And then,

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refer the success to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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So similarly, if you want to achieve something,

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you don't have enough means. So whatever you

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can do, do it and then ask Allah

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to complete it. But if you don't do

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what you can, then it is very bad

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because Allah has already given ability.

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So always understand. For example, if somebody wants

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to get married,

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it shouldn't be a dua, but see what

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you can do. You can look for someone.

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You can propose. You can ask somebody to

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help you. To whatever you can do, you

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must do. Then after that, Allah will help

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you. But it's not right here that whatever

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Allah already have given you, you don't use

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it. The symbolic politics and all those matters.

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Muslims have got so much, you know, ability

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and means.

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They don't use them. So Allah is not

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going to fix them unless you do what

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you can do. Then refer to Allah because

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he already has given you to what he

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he's he's giving it differently. You know, he's

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giving to human being different. Meaning, he has

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made all the things available. Now you need

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to get effort to make effort to get

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it.

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Sometime when people really need and just, you

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know, desperate and,

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you know, and they don't they are not

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able to really do much effort. Oh, some

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sometimes they are, you know, stuck with something.

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Yeah. I thought

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that helped them directly. But generally, his way

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is do whatever you can do at your

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best and ask Allah to complete it.

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JazakAllah Khair and Sheikh. We'll move on to

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the next question now which is,

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is not covering your mouth while yawning a

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sin?

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Like a sunnah to cover the mouth, but,

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you know, people don't do the sunnah. We

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don't say that you want to get sunnah.

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But to me, you say, by the minor,

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really. But if you don't do once or

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twice, I'll, you know, get nothing. But if

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you insist not doing, get it by the

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minor because

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the prophet came to teach people right manner.

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The people should not make the following.

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The next question is by Sofian who asks,

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Salam, is saying here, Ali Madad permissible?

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Has been allowed by Subqi, Ramli, Suyuti, and

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many other olema? Yeah.

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Same that really even if people are allowed

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to meet it very, very ugly. I don't

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understand why you ask help,

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those who you know, in this

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world, you know, you don't have water. You

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ask someone to bring water. That's what Allah

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has made. So you you can ask entrepreneurs.

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There's no harm in that. But when somebody

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has died,

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Allah never admit that they're going to help

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you.

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So, you know, to the in those matters,

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it just go remember somebody is not there

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like I'm your chef and you are somewhere

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else and ask

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You know, do everything possible and ask Allah

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to help you. But to ask someone else,

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you know, Ali or Sahaba

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And all these people, they ask Ali to

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help, but they never ask Abu Akasiddik for

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help, Omar.

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You know, they never ask Aisha to help

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them. So I don't understand why Ali is

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the only one in the world whole world

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who can help them, and Abu Bakr cannot

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help. Usmar cannot help. Musa, alaihis salami, they

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never call you, oh, Musa, help. Who are

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them help? If this is permissible, why not

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all the other names? There are so many

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names anyway.

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Only things which some people have invented, they're

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where they go. So, you know, firstly, I

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don't like this thing anyway, but you can

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see the contradiction

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that they are following some people's way. They're

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not following the reason. If they follow the

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reason,

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then a very profit is better than Ali.

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So you should call Adam. Why don't you

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call Adam? And then

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Abu Bakr and Omar Usman are better than

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Ali, Why don't you call them? You only

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call 1 person. That's very clear you're taking

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from somewhere else. So anyway, even if the

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people say, yeah,

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some people, prove that but I think a

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Muslim should have enough

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I will not listen. He said, I will

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listen. So just

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call him.

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Assalamualaikeshir.

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The next question

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is

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salaam, how to maintain

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good relationship

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with vulnerable people whom we can't help much

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even though

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we are more blessed than them, like we

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have more risks than them?

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Yeah. You know, sometimes

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life is worse, you know, kindness.

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Sometimes you are far away to let do

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for them if you can say something. So

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this thing also can be very helpful. So

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good words are very

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You know, say nice word. Sometimes you go

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and sit with the sick people, ill people,

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I know,

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people like that. That is very, very helpful.

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So there are so many desperate people, weak

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people, old people,

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people in the old age home. You know,

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if you go and sit with them, you

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know, they'll be so happy.

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So not every help can come with the

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money. Many help can come with the words

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and your correct your,

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behavior and your,

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the way you look at the people. So

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there's so many times that you can share

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your food with the people, they can be

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so happy.

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The next question is,

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there are authentic hadith about the virtues for

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dates and zamzam.

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For example, if we eat 3 dates, poison

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won't work. Are these hadith to be taken

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by their exact wording

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or should be taken as

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like the saying an apple a day keeps

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the doctor away?

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You know, the hadith, you know, there's 7

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days, Ajiva, they eat and, you know, with

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the name of and the the father will

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not work. To that Hadith, I wrote whole

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article on that.

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You know, the thing that I already written

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in detail,

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that is much more helpful, you know, to

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you people than my answer now.

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So answers I wrote properly with the reference.

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It's taking time, you know, and answering every

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question.

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The best thing is to go and find

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that article and read to me. That that

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will be more helpful.

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So in Australia, you know, I I can

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answer something I still remember. But best thing

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is to read that article, then you are

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you will be more satisfied, inshallah.

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The next question

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is by Fariha who asks does having foods

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from restaurants and hotels reduce

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our taqwa as it said they don't make

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food with the name of Allah. I also

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heard having outside food will the name of

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Allah. I also heard having outside food will

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make us lose our husho in our Ibadah.

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I think really, you know, whenever you buy

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the food from outside,

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yeah, it could be that nothing and that's

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the name. It's not so good. I the

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people who cook with another

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name. But,

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that way, the best thing that Aisha did

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not on her, she if she used to

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get a,

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black, you know, Muslims, she used to get

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cheese

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from made from by non Muslims. So Aisha

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everybody said that, you say, miss Linda, then

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miss Linda has come.

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Non Muslim restaurant,

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when you eat, say,

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now it become full of the barakah. The

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Allah, near and last name brings barakah.

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But similarly, when you say you will drink

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water, say, maybe the water bottle came from

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now Muslim people. They paid it. You see

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Viswila.

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Nobody asked about the money. You know, people

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get money from all the non Muslim source.

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Nobody asked, should we get it or not?

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They take it.

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If you can't take money, why not everything

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else?

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And then you spend the money, you follow

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the way of Allah, come on of Allah

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and

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say this simple

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matter here, whatever you drink and eat, say

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this in Allah that in the.

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The next question is by Lukman who asks,

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salaam, Sheikh.

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Could you give some advice on how to

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maintain and increase levels of taqwa?

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No. The thing, you know, it is really

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I cannot,

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advise so much to deny myself. I don't

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I don't think I got a great level

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of taqwa or something like that. But the

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only way is to obedience, force yourself to

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obey Allah. That's all. But even you're alone,

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anywhere you are, just think what Allah commands.

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If you have 2 choices, see which one

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Allah chooses. Just go for that. It ever

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seem to fight a force in so forth

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to do what Allah wants.

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You know, to drink and eating and poking.

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Sometimes you want to beg bite, to think

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really that Allah allowed me to beg bite.

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If you're not allowed, then don't don't beg

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bite. You want to lie and then think

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it. But Allah allow me to lie in

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this matter. If it does not allow, then

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don't lie. You want to delay the prayer?

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Think, does Allah allow you to delay the

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prayer? If it is not allowed, then don't

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delay. In every single matter, force yourself to

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obey Allah.

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Hopefully, inshallah, your level of will,

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rise. Otherwise, if people think that I I've

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got an magic

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so I tease you and then you become

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more.

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So that did not happen. Even actually, that

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happened to me. I don't have any magic

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for myself. The only way for me works

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is to force to get lucky and nothing

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else because I human being are,

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you know, thinking people. So they have to

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understand and think, and then force themselves to

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do.

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Before we continue, just a brief announcement. It

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is,

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there are only 6 days left until the

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deadline for enrolling onto Assalam Institutes,

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multiple,

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programs.

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So please, please, please, if you are intending

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to enroll, this is you have 6 days

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left to enroll. Otherwise, afterwards, it becomes a

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lot more difficult. So please bear that in

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mind. I will be sharing links in the

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chat box. So keep an eye out for

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those. With that we can continue

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with the questions.

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Sheikh, the next question is,

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I sometimes get very anxious when I try

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to go through

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Hadith and sacred texts.

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Should I not jump in too much?

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Or what's the way forward? How should I

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how should this person go about,

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you know, reading these sacred texts? I don't

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know why you become so anxious, you know.

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I

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because people learn English.

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You learn

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and

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try to understand what Allah wants from you

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and what the prophets wants. And then make

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effort to act as much as possible because

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then you can't do every single thing, but

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do as much as possible. Try to understand

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the meaning

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deeply.

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So somehow, I couldn't understand why you think

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and why you become anxious.

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And the second thing is, you know,

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the sacred text in in a mean, this

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is the Quran and the Hadith.

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Sometimes they are not so strong. Sometimes they'll

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be with the kind of sacred. So you

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have to be careful about using the word

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sacred unless something proven to be performed the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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But, there's no need to be scared of

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anything, you know, but why why you're obnoxious.

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You know, it's a good luck, a good

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knowledge, you know, to to read Quran that

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will help you anyway. And the prophet says

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that the teachings are wisdom and Hikma.

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So why you are so anxious? Yeah. I

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think she'd be happy.

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Sheikh.

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The next question is by Mohammed Aqib who

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asks, Sheikh in your experience can you expound

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for us please,

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that how when young people fall in love

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it is often very superficial and doesn't last.

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Yeah. That's in the really in this world,

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has

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made all the success of the human being,

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to understand their nature, and

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to use their reason

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and to follow the revelation.

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And the desire had been made as indication.

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So for example, when I

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had desire for food, when I'm hungry, So

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there's good indication, indication that I must eat.

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That's all. But, desire cannot decide to me

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what to eat and how much to eat.

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Then after that, I had to use it

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my mind

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and, you

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know, a revelation

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to halal food

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and earn properly and, you know,

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this and that. That what I need to

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do. I don't, have to eat whatever I

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like Besides, similarly, if somebody falls in love.

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So that's good indication

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that you desire,

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you know, to get married.

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But who to marry,

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when to get married, and all those things,

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you need to think and understand what your

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needs are, you know, the who can be

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the in your partner and who can be

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the mother of your children

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because

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your wife soon will become mother. So is

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she a really good person to be a

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mother?

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Or similarly, if you want to marry mine,

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your husband is going to become father. He's

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not going to remain just husband forever. He's

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going to be the father. He's a good

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person as a father.

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So all of these things you have to

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look at properly and consult people and then

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get married. Just because you desire someone does

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not mean you'll be the best person. Desire

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is different matter. Like, I desire food.

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But if I know it is has poison,

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can I eat it? No. I will never

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eat it. Even if I desire, if I

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pass by the nice biryani, good smell coming,

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looks very nicely, and I want to eat

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it, then somebody tells me to be filthy.

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Somebody will renate in it. I will never

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go to eat it. Or somebody said, you

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know, it's a lot poison. I'm never going

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to eat it. Even if I fall in

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love with the biryani, I will not eat

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it. So similarly, if you fall in love

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with a minor woman and then you find

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out, you know, you're not right person, she's

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not right person, then find somewhere else. You

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know, this is important. If you don't use

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your mind and you just follow the desire,

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you will regret.

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You will deduce it. Everybody who follows the

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desire without using the reason, mind,

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you know, they always are losers.

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The next question is,

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what are your thoughts on

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Abu Kalam Azad, Rashid Rida, and Mohammed Abdul?

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You know, they are great reforms at that

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time and people should respect them and learn

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from them. So, you know, Muhammad Aftu was,

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you know, before these two people,

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Muhammad Aftu's teacher of Raqizera,

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and, you know, he's a really great reformer

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and thinker. But, you know, Egyptian people are

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later on, people, they got a burden for

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him and the thing is past part of

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conspiracy.

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No. Really, he puts. He's a good person.

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You think? Yes. I tell you, his time

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are different. You know, to the coronavirus and

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has started French ruling in Egypt. To the

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way they think

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differently. Back in the UK,

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and I give some Fatima in order to

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adjust Muslims in UK.

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Then after, you know, sometimes some people call

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Sheikh Arambal very much scared of Europe and

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British

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He became, you know, more Islamic, you know,

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you know, in different way. Sirimona Azad, you

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know, he was a great thinker and a

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great lecturer in mind,

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and he was a politician. So his thinking

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was in Indian context, but not the same

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he got revelation.

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You know, later on, you know, there's so

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many things happen in India where he was

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not successful.

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And he and you can see now really

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that, these people, they are such great people.

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But the world they imagine about India, you

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know, it didn't happen. So people do their

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best,

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and we ask Allah to forgive them, and

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we take lessons from their failure and success.

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And we make effort not to follow them

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when they fail. We have to improve ourselves.

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The next question is by Adil who says

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some scholars say there was a mistake in

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the haraqat in,

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in Surah 43

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verse 61.

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It should be

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as in the word sign

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in the word sign as ibn Abbas used

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to recite it, not ilmun, meaning knowledge. What

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is your analysis? No, no. Alam both mean

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the same thing. Both mean the sign

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they are available.

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So I'm also not a mistake. It is

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also the same meaning. In Arabic language

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many many words cannot say meaning. If you

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could it's like a new sign, a new

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sign, aalam new sign, aalamatul

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new sign. So many words in new sign.

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So in that way, you know, it's just

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one word. That way people read differently. Some

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people read the

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signs, some people read the Alim, like Malekhi

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Omidyim, Malekhi Omidyim.

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Both have similar meaning.

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So any

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No. I'm also gonna sign. I can acknowledge

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you set this aside.

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The next question

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is,

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by Fala, who asks,

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do contemporary

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Islamic armed resistance movements

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fully aligned with the Islamic principles of war?

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The thing really is in this world, that

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Allah had made it. He is, you know,

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first thing is the da'wah

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for all people to worship Allah.

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The next thing is the hijrah.

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The Muslims should leave to a place where

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they can have safety and they can,

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you know,

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we we work from there. And then we

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have jihad.

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Jihad is not the spirit writing and give

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a speech that people

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do anything anywhere. There's not jihad. It should

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be organized properly. In fact, but fasting.

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The Muslims are not doing. There's so many

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people who don't pray, don't fast, don't do

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anything. So people like that, they can't do

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any jihad. You know, they do the hard,

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they will fail.

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But if sometime people

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do

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war against you, like war have been imposed

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on Afghanistan

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like that, Yeah. Then you can defend it.

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But you don't have the war unless,

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you have done, you know, this stage. Firstly,

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the, you know,

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the hour. So the professor doesn't do not

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even easy. You

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just want to begin in the hour.

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The next question is by Abdul Rahman who

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asks,

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I have 120

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grams of gold,

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which includes gifts from my parents.

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My son recently

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received 32 grams of gold as a gift.

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Does this gold require zakat?

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Should I pay zakat on his gold separately?

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No. Your son is different from you. He'll

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pay his a cut for him. His property,

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you know, the property that's everybody is different.

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You know, father is the property different from

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the son. The mother is different. The sisters

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and brothers are different. Every individual has to

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pay his own zakat if they become owner

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than itself. So if your son does not

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have 85 gram of gold

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or or some or all the money equal

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to that, he does not pay the car.

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But you pay the car for your thing.

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So but you don't add your sons as

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a as a car to yourself. It everything

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different. Everybody is independent.

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The next question is by Mohammed who asks,

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in my country, there is an option for

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parents to make an account for their child

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where they deposit money and the bank will

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add 20% of that money

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which can only be used

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for university.

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Is this river?

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You know, it's a very complicated issue really

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how much the river is there or not

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really because sometimes what it puts in the

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money also,

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in terms of inflation.

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So the money that you deposited not necessarily

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going to be same. It it's a value

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go go down.

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So people have to pay you more than

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that anyway.

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It could be possible just just a gift

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card. And,

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and they, and they want to pay you

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the fees.

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Fees itself in the form of it. So

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people that are allowed to

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borrow money from the and then test for

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the field. So if these people pay themselves

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forever, then you do that. We do anything

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anyway. You have got money.

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So I I think if there is a

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facility like that in a in a country,

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there's no harm to use it for for

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purpose of the field and something like that.

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JazakAllah Khairan Sheikh for your time and JazakAllah

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Khairan everyone for tuning in and Inshallah we'll

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reconvene next week Thursday 6 pm BST as

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always.

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