Ahmed Suleman Khatani – Ob Parents Bea St
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Very
famous
Hadith which all of us are familiar with,
decreases our Deena. Islam
gave the parable and an example of a structure, a building
where it is abuni and Islam, Allah comes
the foundation of our deen is based on five what we found as
pillars,
shahadah, Ilana, Muhammad, Rasulullah, establishment of
Saddam, zakat, fasting and Hajj.
Unfortunately,
we find that a very large extent,
we tend to confine in just to this,
to these five things for what we call aspects of imadas and
worship,
so that if a person is regularly in Namaste,
awkwardly, this person is always engaged in a vaga. He considers
such a person to be a pious person and an individual who has reached
the pinnacle of being and suffer. What
we have to understand is that Navier,
a building with pillars is not complete. There
has to be a roof
where only the building will be complete.
So what is the roof? What is the perfection? What is the
completion? What is the culmination of our being? Islam?
For that, we have to look at another Hadith of Rasulullah,
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
When he said for it to the uterma, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he
said, Allah has sent me the utami to make his mom IQ means to
complete, to protect, to take something to his termination and
its height and its perfection,
they
said, Allah set me to complete day Nadine and Islam was what maqam
alaq was, the development of akhlaq and character,
and all of our explained.
They say that the Klan kept
the gradients by which a plot and character can be judged
is one's dealings with one's family, one's wife, one's
children, and primarily one's dealing with one's parents, to
such an extent that Allah says that that person,
When it comes to one's parents, occasion
to go into enumerating the boundaries the Astana, the tables
of unsparance upon us.
There are so many that we don't even need deen and Sharia to tell
us that we are indebted to our parents.
This is something that is logical. Salama says that an individual who
cannot fulfill his logical, biological
references and demands of being indebted to his parents and
dealing kindly with his parents, they say, if a person cannot do
that much, they don't do business with such a person. They say, No
Princess also with Sathi person. Why? Because, logically, he was
indebted to them. He wasn't able to fulfill that. He doesn't you
don't have any real right over him. With his own parents, he
couldn't deal kindly. How he ever deal? Said he was used. If you
look at the extent, the measurements with which God
commands us, with kindness indeed,
what's Allah? Bucha, Guru Sana, Allah has commanded you with
Tawheed. Islam starts from Tahiti, the waters of Allah linked with
Tawheed. What?
The late command of Allah was one invading Asana deal finding with
your parents Allah relate the injunction of kindness to their
faith in the Quran regarded anishq Lee, make my sugar exhibit
gratitude to Allah. One he made good sugar to Allah, he said,
he asked him, Allah, tell me what is the word Guna? A person can
comment.
What is the word wrong a person can do Allah to make Sheik with
Allah.
To make Sheik with Allah, what is the next greatest wrong? Because
we can do after shirk
Allah, the sulla comes Sheik Upul Wah remain to be disobedient to
your parents.
Saith appreciates the veracity or the extent to which our Sharia is
commanding us with time is to them to heal Bhabhi, Rami, Lady Asana
Shukla, to Allah Shukla. The word Kumar is she the next word is Kula
is disobedience to
one Spirit, one person came to Rasulullah, sallAllahu,
alayhi wa sallam. So and
he put forward a dilemma. Something was helping him. What
was his dilemma in me? Jihad for the on the day of Allah, I want to
make jihad in the part of Allah. They knew they were
shahid. Quran says whatever you are
not even allowed to say that they should eat is made. You're not
allowed to call him dead. Allah is
alive, sustaining
him. General,
so they use a reward because of the day of Allah. I want to give
my life in the blood of Allah. I want to make jihad that I don't
have the ability. What must I do?
Allah said to him,
in one day, God,
are any of your parents alive? He said, Yes, Allah, my mother is
alive.
This expression,
what it means in contemporary terms. Allah Krishna, who says,
back breakingly, back breakingly, morning to evening, tire yourself,
finish yourself in the service of your mother. If you do this, then
tomorrow, on the Day of Judgment, Allah will raise you as one who
made Hajj, upon Hajj,
upon Umrah, and Allah will raise you as one Who made jihad in the
part of Allah said about
of the day, he
said,
when
an obedient son or child looks at his parents, he doesn't say he
serves them food, he doesn't say what, they close. He said,
look, look at his parents
on that glance Allah will give him the reward of Hajj everude and
accepted Hajj
Sahabah was surprised. Normally, rewards in proportion to heaven,
how much effort did you take to look? So he said they asked why
Mother of he knew me as a mother on
the way of allowing heaven the next person
especially,
people
are marching meetings are waiting place. Hard. Human debates are
waiting place. Human rights, this one is demanding is right, that
one is demanding is right.
What
the alike? The question of Allah, tell me what are the parents
rights over the children? What are the parents rights over the
children? The desire the Lord gives to this question
falls underneath the charity. It is a shining.
Example of that maurican dressing was that he was referred to as
jalalami, that he would speak a few words, but he will be pregnant
voluminously, meaning, what are the lives of the parents over
their children? What is the reply? Three words,
three words, and Allah.
Walla volume can be written to explain the meaning of these three
words. He said, uma jannatuka walaru.
He said, your parents are either your generous or your jahannam.
Through them, you will have Jannah or through them, you will have
your jahannam. He said your parents are the highest door to
endless, generous unto those life of your parents. Your parents are
the highest door
to
him that highest doors within this if you want protected door, or if
you want break
the
door, but Allah, He will please his parents and Please Allah, and
he will displease his parents and displeased Allah
is that personality is there to be a navy after me, Buddha Allah.
And he says
to
them the tray on the day of my heart, Allah is making supper.
Allah is boasting in front of his angels about my Salama, and Allah
especially, boasting about ahmadinesa, that not the right
thing that he had yet Allah rejected Him, and He says to
him, yaki
Alaikum, Malay Abu Asmaa,
Ishmael wait bin Ahmed mean, Murad Suman, Karan kanadi divari Ali who
in Ramos, a
mighty mind from Yemen, the gospel is going to come. His name is
always bin Ahmed. He is from the Murad, from the family of color.
He had white Liberty deed made Rafa Allah. He was pure. One spot
the size of a coin remains on him.
Appreciate the extent of decay, so that no doubt remains. His name
very strong, which family, which care, which side, what disease is
abusive. All this information is given to our world and why. What
is the director always told all his soul. When this person comes,
you ask him to make your glam of sin. You ask him to ask Allah for
your forgiveness. Our is the pride.
Therefore what he asked, he says, on the day of Allah, it celebrates
an army among those people who, when he raised up his hands, the
decree in the earth Allah, every wave is removed, and his joy is
never
rejected among those people and Allah again in this much because
of the servant that he made to his mother,
delegation of what delegation would come from each time, every
time the day finally gone. One black person stood up. He said, I
believe in Ahmed,
yes,
you advise make dua for
me.
Surprise Ameerul muddi means I should be asking you, boa, why are
you asking me?
Gudwara, he made dua for him. Then where are you proceeding to he
said, I'm going to go. Should I write the letter to the governor
of Gopa,
addressing him to look after you nominee. I want to listen. Please
don't write any letter.
The next year he has over meet the people of Kupa. He asked the
governor How is renamed? The governor says, Oh, man is in very
deep in that circumstances. He is going through a lot of hardships.
When you return, some hearts go to him and ask him to make dua for
you. After hutch, the governor returns. He says, he says, me,
Abu, me. Says.
It you have come from Hyatt. You should be making dua for me. He
says, No, you may Goa for me. Then always ask him that perhaps, did
you meet over in Haiti?
Then he realized what
had happened. He made dua that night, quietly touch his
belongings and left Kopa and wait after me. Nobody knows. He didn't
want to become a queen and worship by people.
That was the first of our status to service to his mother. It was
the practice of Allah. He
would ask Sahaba how many dreams they had seen. Sometimes he was
naive to relate his own dream one day when Islam adjusted them, and
he says, name to parahimi is Jannah. I was sleeping, and in my
dream, Allah took me to Jannah for Sanya to so Kapaa, so
he says, I heard someone reciting Quran in Jannah.
Where is Madina? Manohara and where is Jandal? Vitami says
someone Iraq from Madina was being transmitted in Jannah.
I am speaking to you elaborate, my sister is in place. You are able
to hear the back. We were able to hear what might be the system
Allah put in place, that the heart of someone in Madina is rebounding
in general.
Who is this person? Allah? Are the angels?
Angelina, in no man, it is your Sahadi haritas In Nauman, Savio
mihi three times he says Haridas, a lot from Madina is being
transmitted in general, because of the kindness that he shows to his
mother.
I shall be allowed Dayana to say, among the galaxy of sahala, there
were two Sahara they were specially known for the treatment
that they made to their parents. One was Asmaa bin Ahmadi Allah
Anhu.
Such was the respect that he had for his mother,
that it is from the time I said to the Son,
I never had that gut was the audacity to look directly into the
face of my mother. He
would wash the clothes of his mother. He would tease her home.
He would cook food for his mother. Fires are being led in the homes
of today. Arguments are taking place. What is the argument? What
will be fighting with his wife? You don't give a to my mother or
my mother. You don't see to my mother, you're not looking after
her dying. If she looks after your mother in his son, you are
supposed to be making a statement of your mother. How much treatment
do you make? How much kindness Did you show? Harida would kill the
hair of his mother.
And Aisha Rana said, if his mother told him to do something, and the
first time he didn't understand what you're saying, he would not
ask her to repeat. He would quietly go outside and ask his
wife, what did my mother say? So that he could tell you how his
Mother wanted Allah said, do not tell
the
ones
afraid your wife will your parents. He comes and wants my
wife. If you will do this, then all your good deeds will be wiped
away.
Standing two people from walking towards him, youngster in front
the old man behind Abu Dhabi said that youngster, and he asked him,
Who is that behind you? That is my father.
What
does he say? He said, What am so after the Sunnah? He said, You
have deviated from the truth. You are impossible. You have moved
away from the sunnah to Muhammad Sallallahu. Never walk in front of
your father, walk behind him. Walk next to him. Do not ever clear
your father.
Do not stand before your father. Except do not eat before your
father eats. And if you are sharing a thing with your father
that was his eyes fall, do not pick a.
Dead muscle.
If you do so, then you have followed the Sunnah of Muhammad,
sallAllahu,
alaihi wasallam. He
was
his no one that can be hired.
What more make it here to do yet? What does he say? He
said, one wish, one deny I had it was that if only Allah had allowed
me to serve my
parents,
my parents, at least my mother, even though I have given me the
opportunity,
I would have shown my own
Life to fall.
Salad Muhammad,
Sadat me, sadhakni for me and my mother would have come to the
window of the masjid, and she would have said, Ya Muhammad, O
Muhammad,
he says, I would have shown my ummat. I would have broken that
Salah and went to my mother and said, la baik. Ya uma said, Oh, my
mother, what is it that you
want me to do?
Whose Master has given whose master? If in the morning, your
parents are happy with you, two daughters, of them that are open
for you the evening, if they are happy for you with you, two doors
open for you in the morning if they are unhappy with you. Two
doors of Jahannam open for you in the evening, two doors open for
you if they are unhappy with you, for the way
of Allah. What happens if the parents are in
the
wrong their midterm says working three times. He said, even if they
are in the wrong and they are happy with you, two doors of
Jahannam open for you on one occasion. Eventually, one dial
that you will spend in the way of Allah. Allah will divide that he
wants 700,000 times that he has said. Is there any other in fact,
is there any other spending that will get you more reward than
spending in the way of Allah? Allah is the
money that a child would spend on his cells will earn him more
reward than the money spent
in the part of Allah in the subsidy of the verses
of the wings of humility before your parents. In the history of
the verse, mukashi has mentioned that whatever your parents ask you
for, if it is within your ability and it is permissible, you are not
allowed to deny them while in amaraka, and that means the he
said, If your
parents ask you to give them everything you own, then give them
everything that you
own.
Has
given
how is it possible that the youngster grassholes of the call
of his father and said that you have never done anything? How is
it possible that the arms of the man is not broken? How is it
possible that all days home that come into existence in gentleness,
in gentleness, with Master Salah Ali assault him and seeking about
again in the given
Satsangi
and teaching, what are the kinds of? What are the kinds of,
logically, when there is lot of shirk, there is idol worship, lot
of dinner, lot of shara, lot of gambling. No, what did we say and
study that? Ama surabha, he says, when even the daughters, when even
the daughters of Maluma, will begin to treat their mothers like
slaves? They know that the trumpet of YAMAHA.
Is about
our head. Walk around the seat.
Go to Philly, go to chapter, go to court, go to the homes of the
Tonga today, in which homes are the heart of the parents happy, in
which home are the mothers not crying because of the conduct of
the
offspring towards them. Can you
imagine to
come out?
Allah? Are any of these parents alive?
Even his mother is
alive. And for her,
when she comes Asmaa,
she says, not.
The name of Allah is a very fine person. His name is spent in
fasting. His life has spent in a garment.
How is his conduct towards you?
Here, she says, on the day of Allah,
He has hurt me a great deal
in multnom,
the translation of what he said,
Merica, both verse, He
speaks very harshly to me
the tongue.
He said, he thinks that the wound that the tongue was in place the
poison that comes out of deltaru said, even though the Cobra snake,
you will find an antidote, there is still in hospital. But this
poison, there is no serum or antidote that exists in the world.
That poison of the wound that is inflicted by the tongue, she says,
on the way of Allah, my heart is very, very sore because of the
conduct and the harsh manner in which my son speaks to me.
Allah SWT says, Forgive him. She says, on the way of Allah is not
prepared to forgive him. The Hurt is too great.
Allahu, they tear the firewood they are going to burn the body of
Alka
shuttle. Allah, what are you going to do? Are you going to burn the
body of my son?
And as the husband says, It is the only way to save him from the Azam
of a he will have to save the azab of this dunya, unless you forgive
him. He said, after all, he was
the mother. She says, to forgive him. He said, made Allah witness
and leave me a witness, she says, Allah Ummah,
also that I am happy with my son. Now, soon as she said this, and
all come in the law. Is
and performed
and while,
and
he said, that person who is
a source of earthly stands
on him is the Lama of Allah, the Lama of the Malaysia,
The Land of the heavens, the
Lana of the Earth. Even
if
it is a man, listen with the man, even if
it
is
my. Sahabi alkala
and his murder is displeased with him, neither is Salah Norah, nor
his party, by my custom, will ever accepted Allah. That is the extent
to which Allah has
commanded us. Will is your
party in
general. Musa is a
he is loving
surprise. Where is kalimula? And where is this person after this?
What your company involved? This buchayawan lying on the bed. This
Bucha prepared the.
Using it
also as the pure monster by Monster, he feeds the elderly
woman. When she is satisfied, he can take the bed and he lays her
down. Hand he is laying her down. She was put something which Mudra
is landed up here.
After that, he asked this, Bucha, who is that person? He says, It is
my elderly mother. In the morning, I see to her first, then I go to a
shop. In the evening, I see her first, then I see to my family.
Buchareal says to him, when you are pointing her down on the dead
what? What is that she said?
He says, It is a mother, my mother. She is old. Don't worry
about what she said. She doesn't know what she's saying.
Musa is, tell me what he did that. She said, as you paint her down,
he said, every night, when I put my mother to sleep, on her day,
she made the DUA, the Allah, make my son the companion of Musa
arisalamin.
That is the effect of the dua of a mother, if they are alive, if the
parents are alive, then the respective brothers have the
opportunity to make soba and swallow our lives, lower ourselves
before them and in their pathway. Then also the boy is not told we
can make Tova.
Our home so
that we can learn what was the conduct of.