Ahmed Suleman Khatani – Ob Parents
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The importance of understanding the five pillars of Islam is emphasized, including finding the right door for their child, finding the right door for their mother, and not being in front of anyone. The transcript describes various personal experiences and struggles with various issues, including a woman who refuses to share her secret and struggles with her father's actions. The importance of learning and bringing character to one's life is emphasized.
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I
Shall Rahman Irma
vidhi, llafaida, aal tadali, pandahar, Joon Om tamiran, Mujahid
o kama kala SallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam,
respected olam aikram, elders and beloved brothers in Islam.
Janavi, Rasulullah, sallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam
equated Islam
and Deen,
a parable and an example is given in Hadith where he described the
structure and the foundation of Islam, wherein he said, bunyal
Islam wa Allah comes that the foundation of our deen of Islam is
based on five things, five pillars.
All of us are well aware of these.
One is the Shahadat, La Ilaha, illallah, Muhammad, rasulallah,
Salah, fasting, zakat and hajj. Unfortunately, to a very large
extent, we find that in our perception and realization
of what is Deen, and in our endeavors towards piety and the
closeness of Allah, subhanho wa taala, we tend to confine our deen
and our Islam to these five things, that person in whose life
is Salah, who gives his zakat, is charitable, who fast makes the
love of Quran, etc. We consider that to be a pious person.
However, you have to understand that Deen does not stop there.
When
you have five pillars, that is the foundation, a building just with
pillars, is not complete. There has to be a roof, there has to be
a covering, there has to be a canopy. Then the building is
complete, and then deen is complete.
Now what is the culmination? What is the perfection? What is the
completion of Deen? For that, we have to look at another Hadith of
alasallam, wherein he said, Go et Tuli, utam, Mima, Makari, Malak,
Allah has sent me to make itmali. Utambim.
Itmam means to complete, to perfect, to culminate something.
So what is the culmination? What is the roof of Islam? What is the
height of Islam? What is the perfection of Islam? Janavya
Rasulullah Sam said, Allah sent me to complete Deen through akhlaq
and character and Olam, I explained the crunch test,
the most vital test, the starting point
in order to determine the akhlaq and character of a person is His
dealing with his family. How is this person in these dealings with
his family? And primarily when it comes to the family, is the
dealings with his parents?
How does this person deal with his parents? The hakama, the wise
people, used to say that if a person is unfair, is harsh in the
treatment of his parents. Then don't make friendship with such a
person and don't do business with such a person also. Why? Because
those upon whom logically put Sharia one side, logically, they
have so much of Huck and rice upon him, we cannot even enumerate how
much ehm they have made on him.
They who logically have a right upon him, that vajiv bhak of
theirs, he is not fulfilling. How do you expect him to be fair in
his dealing with you when you have no right over him?
One Sahabi comes to Rasulullah, sallallah sallam.
ANNA Swati, Allahu, taala, who says,
This person addresses Nabi APA salaam ini, ashtail, jihad,
oh Nabi of Allah, I desire to make jihad in the path of Allah. Try
and understand what he is saying. I desire to give my whole life for
Allah. I want to die in his path.
We know the rank of the shohada, where Allah dala says, Do not even
call them meat. Bal akhiyao, naindara, beam yr zapun, you are
not even allowed to say that they are mawat, that they are made,
they are alive, and Allah is sustaining them. So many virtues
we are in Hadith when Abu Asmaa described the shivada flying in
Jannat. So the saavi comes and says, ya rasulallah, I want to
make jihad, but I don't have the ability. What is the solution to
my problem? Allah das waslam asked him. Hal bakkeya, minwali dekahad,
are any of your parents alive?
Are any of your parents alive? He says, Ummi, my mother is alive. So
Allah says, fabilila, Hafi, vidiha,
please, Allah, tire yourself, finish yourself in the service of
your mother. And what will Allah do for you? You can't make jihad.
You don't have the ability
earn your Jannah through your mother, because if you do this,
Allah will raise you on the Day of Judgment.
Allah will raise you as a person who made Hajj upon Hajj. Allah
will raise you as a person who made Umrah upon Umrah, and Allah
will raise you as a person who made jihad in the path of Allah
in Quran, wherever, in many places, MUFA, Sirin explains,
Allah commands you with tawhid, wakaga, rabbuka, Allah tabudu In
Lahiya, which is the pinnacle, the basis of deen and Iman,
where Allah says, don't ascribe partners with me. Worship only
Allah,
such an important command, and linked with it. Linked with it.
Immediately after that, Allah says, wabil Wani, Deni Isana,
treat your parents kindly.
Somewhere. Allah says, Anish kuli waliwali de make my shukr. And
with that, Allah says, make shukr. Of your parents,
somebody came and asked, ya rasulallah, what is the greatest
guna person can ever make? He said, Ali Shara kumla, to make
shirk with Allah
after Shir What is the greatest Guna?
Try and appreciate this. Tawheed kindness to parents. Shukka to
Allah. Shuka to your parents. Greatest guna is shirk after that,
rokul wali day, he said to be disobedient to your parents.
One saavi came to Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, Mahat kulwali
Deni Allah, wala dihi, Malaviya Allah, tell me, what is the right
of the parents upon his child? What are what is the right of the
parents upon their offspring?
What a beautiful reply. Jana bi Rasulullah sallallahu, Sallam
gives this hadith is in fact, a shining example of that Maji and
miracle which ALLAH blessed. Jana bi rasulallah, that he was yawami
on Kalim, he would say a few words, but he was pregnant
voluminous with meaning in three words. In three words, Allah
rasulallah summed up what Allah is Rasul Sala Islam want with from
you, with regards to your parents, what are the rights of my parents?
What did he say? Hum, jannatuka, wanaruk, your parents are either
your Jannat or your jahannam. You decide your parents are either
your Jannat or your jahannam. Al walidu, also to Abu Jannah for
insita, he said, the parents are the highest door to Jannah. The
parents are the highest door to Jannat.
Protect that door if you want, or break that door if you want. The
choice is yours,
such virtue Allah is prepared to give us salami Rasulullah
sallallahu Sallam says, if a person gets up in the morning,
if a person gets up in the morning
in this condition that his parents are happy with him already, two
doors of Jannat are open for him that day. If it is evening time
and his parents are happy with him, two doors of Jannat are open
for him. Conversely, Allah SWT.
Says, if a person gets up in the morning and his parents are
displeased with him, then two doors of Jahannam are open for
him. In the evening, two doors of Jahannam are open for him. What
did Sahaba ask ya rasulallah on a way of Allah? What happens if he
is not Quran, it is not he is wrong. His parents are in the
wrong. What reply does Jana bi rasulallah Give? He says, waheen
dalamah, waheen dalamah wa in dalama Three times, even if they
have made zulam on him, even if they have made zulum on him and
they are displeased with him. Two doors of Jahannam are open for
him.
Omar, Amirah personality, walla a slum told him lokhan Abadi, Nabi
Yun lakhana. Omar, if there to be a navy after me, it would have
been Oman
in Arafat in hajat, Al WADA janav Rasulullah, sallAllahu, Sallam
addresses his Sahaba and he says, On this day, Allah is making
Fakhar. Allah is boasting about my Sahaba. And specially, specially
on this day, Allah is boasting about Omar bin Khattab, such a
personality. Yet Allah rasoo Sala salaam addresses him and says,
Omar yatiya.
Rajulum, mamdadi, ali Yemen,
Min waisubnu, Ahmed, Min Murad Summa, Min Karan, kanabihi, Barak,
fabari, Amin Willam, ODI,
adhirham, faini, is going
to come after my demise. This person is from Yemen. His name is
always been Amir. He is from the Murad clan, and specifically from
the family of Karan.
Look at the extent of detail. Omar, he suffered from white liver
disease.
He made dua he was cured. There is still one spot the size of a
Dirham on his body of this disease. So much of details, so no
mistake can be made. Omar, when this person comes, if you find
this person, make sure that you ask him to make dua for you, for
your masculine who is being told? Omar is being told, find this
person and ask him to make dua. Masquerad for you. Omar, ask on
Abhi of Allah. Is he amongst those people who, when they raise their
hands, every pardah, every boundary between them and Allah is
removed and they dua, reaches the ash of Allah and is never sent
back. Law akshama, Allahu, Nabi avala. Is he of God's people?
Nabhi salaam says yes. Omar, he is of those people, and he attained
that position because of the service that he did to his mother,
because of the service that he did to his mother. Delegation upon
delegation from Yemen would come each time Omar would ask afikum.
Oveiso Mohammed is away from the Amir amongst you. Finally, the day
came and a person with dark complexion stood up a tall man. He
said, I am always been Ahmed, are you from Murad then from Karan? He
says, yes. Did you have white liver disease and one Dirham space
is left? He says, yes. Oman says to him, make dua for me. He says,
Amirul mumini, you should be making dua for me? Omar says, No,
you make dua for me in a B 1000 is commanded me to ask you to make
dua for me. Waste accepts the request of Oman and he makes dua
thereafter.
Uma Radi Allahu, Taala says to him, do you want to stay in
Madina? He says, No, I prefer to stay in Kufa.
He says, Should I give you a letter
which you can present to the governor of Kufa on my behalf,
with regards to how he should treat you? OIS bin AMI says, No, I
want to live with our moon. Nas, do not mention to anybody about
me. He goes away the next year in hajj, Oman inquires from the
people of Kufa
about Owais bin army. He asked the governor. The governor says that
the position of Owais bin army is very bad. He is very poor. He's
going to difficult circumstances. Oman says, when you go back, make
sure you ask him to make dua for you. And he relates to him, why?
When the governor returns, He sends, always been Ahmed. He says,
Make dua for me. Owais says to him, You came from Hajj. You
should be making dua for me.
He says, No, you make dua for me. Then he asked him, for chance, did
you meet Omar in Hajj? He
says, He.
As I met Oman, so he realizes that he has no choice, so he makes dua,
and that night, quietly, he packs up his provisions and his Salman,
and he leaves Kufa. And noone knows where he passes away because
he didn't want to become a field. But that extent of MARTA BA and
status
on one occasion, Allah sallam, it was his Mubarak practice that
after Fajr Salah, he would relate dreams to the Sahaba, and he would
ask them if they had seen any dream. One day, Allah Sallam says,
Nim to fill Layla falay To me, fill Jannah I was sleeping last
night, and I saw myself in Jannat
for Samir to sultha. I heard the kirat of someone resounding
throughout Jannah.
I am speaking to you here. How much has to be spent on the sound
system in order to ensure that those in the wudu Kana or just
nearby here, can hear me, what must be the multiband status of
that person who is making tilawa di Madina and Allah causes the
Malaika in Jannah to hear his kirat, and Allah hears his kirat
in Jannah,
he asks, Who is this person? The Malay ka repli, it is your Sahabi
Hari Sabin naman, when Navier, kadalical, kadalakr, harissa, Bin
Nauman Allah took his Tirath of Quran to Jannat because of the
service that he did to his mother, Aisha radiAllahu dalam, I used to
say, amongst the Sahaba of Rasulullah, sallAllahu, alaihi
wasallam, there were two Sahaba who were well known for the sidmat
of their parents. One was Asmaa RadiAllahu taala, and who who used
to say that from the time I accepted Islam, I never looked
directly at the face of my mother so much of awe and respect he had
for his mother. Hari Sabin naman, Adi Allahu, daalan, uda Sabi, who
still out, used to be heard in Jannat.
It is mentioned about him. Aisha. Adi Alana says that he is to wash
the clothes of his mother. He would oil the hair of his mother,
remove the lips and lights from her hair. He would cook food for
his mother and feed her morsel by morsel.
Nowadays, arguments are taking place in homes. Fires are being
led in homes, husband and wife arguing, why you don't cook for my
mother, why you don't see to my mother, if she sees to your
mother, it is a son. It is a son you are supposed to make sick of
your mother. You are supposed to earn your generous by becoming
subservient to your parents. Allah has kept that as your door to
Jannah. Mamin wala din bah din Yan, Guru ilawali dayhi, navratar,
rahmatin, illa Kat of Allahu, Lahu bhi navratin, hajitam Abu rah Jana
rasulallah said when an obedient son looks at his parents with
rahmat and mercy for every glance, for every glance, Allah will write
down the reward of an accepted Hajj. Sabha said, why never?
What happens a glance, whatever is required if he looks 100 times in
one day, 100 times with mercy at his parents. The Bhasin says,
Allahu, Akbar Wa Atiyah, My Allah is greater than this. Allah will
give him the reward of 100 Hajj, 100 Hajj every day just to look
with mercy at his parents. Once one person was walking, two people
were walking, they come to Abu Hurairah of the Allahu Taala Abu
Hurayrah addresses the youngster he was in front. Who is that
person walking behind you? He says, that is my father.
They had learnt Islam and Deen at the feet of the master salAllahu
alayhi wa sallam himself.
How is it possible?
How is it possible in an ummah
who has in front of them the example of Muhammad Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, who from head to toe was rahmat and
mercy.
Yet he makes badwa
Ravi Mahan, so May Allah destroy the ummathi of mine, which ummati,
that person who one or both of his parents gave old age in front of
him, and he fails to a.
And Jannat by making the khidmats
Such a person. Allah cursed him before I complete this other
incident. Hari Sabin nawman used to make so much khidmat of his
mother, Allah commands in the Quran faladhu ma off what is off
of is to say her, just to say her, or to change the expression on
your face. Allah says it is haram for you to do this with your
parents. It is haram in one revise it comes. If you will do this, all
your good deeds will be wiped away. Walaat, Hara, Huma, do not
scold them. Sahaba, haliman, so much of Amal it is said. Aysha
radiallana says if his mother told him to do something and he didn't
understand the first time, he would not ask his mother to repeat
what she said. He would go outside quietly and whisper to his wife,
what did my mother say? I don't want to give her the cliff of
asking her a second time.
That extent of Ital, the parents they had, they were Mujahid. They
were promised gentlemen in this world, Abu Hurayrah. Just as that
youngster they had in front of them the Talim of Janabi
rasulallah. He was walking in front of his father. He told him,
walam tuati, Sunna, you have moved away from the truth, and you have
gone against the Sunnah of my habibs and Allahu Alaihe Salam,
never walk in front of your father. Walk next to him, or walk
behind him. Never glare harshly at him. Never address him by his
name. If you are eating with your father and his eye falls on a
morsel of food, don't put your hand near that morsel of food. Do
not sit before your father, and do not sleep before your father. Then
you have made Amal on the sunnat of my habibs and Allah Adi
yourself. Sallam, Sachi mantava and rank jalalu, sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam head, no one can possibly go higher. Adana, Sachi
Manta Allah gave him yet. What does he say. He says, I have one
Tamanna and one regret. Lo adratu, Wali de lo aburatya,
if only Allah had given me the opportunity to make khidmat of my
parents. What more Niki did he want to earn? He was teaching his
ummah. He said, If only Allah gave me no opportunity to make him mad
of my parents, if not my parents, at least my mother, I would have
shown my Ummah that Muhammad, sallAllahu, alaihi wasallam
wakadi, salatu, fatihab, fakara. He says, I would have started the
Isha salah. Muhammad sallallam, not Nafil, not sunnah. First
salah, Masjid Navami, Imam Muhammad Rasulullah sallallahu,
Sallam Sahaba, the muqtadis. He says I would have started salah, I
would have read Surah Fatiha. My mother would have come to the
window of the Masjid. She would have said, Ya Muhammad, for the
aatni Omni. My mother would have said, Ya Muhammad. He says, I
would have broken my salah and went to my mother and said, la
Baik, ya Uma. O my mother, I am present. What is your command
in an omelet? Well, Destiny. How is it possible that all these home
come into existence? How is it possible that the hearts of the
mothers and the fathers of the summat are broken? How is it which
home other parents have been or is it possible that a youngster grabs
the collar of his father and says, What have you ever done for me in
an ummat whose master has given this Talim once he addresses his
Sahaba, a person who spends money in the path of Allah, Allah will
give him 700,000
times the reward
Allah Oh my Sahaba, is there any other in fact, is there any other
spending you can do that will get you more reward than spending in
the path of Allah? Sahaba said, Allahu, Alam Allah is rasulallah
best. He said, the money that you will spend on your parents will
get you more reward than what you will get spending in the path of
Allah. Mufassirin explained we Allah says, Waqf, lahuma, Jana
hazuli, Mina rahma, that lower the wings of humility before your
parents in the tafsir of that verse, mufassirin explained the
meaning of that verse is that.
Any wealth of yours that your parents ask you for, if you have
the ability you have to carry out whatever they ask you for. Nami
slam said, Why in amaraka and Tamia, if your parents ask you to
give them everything you earn, then carry out the command of your
parents, your Jannat is in that once
message comes to rasulallah, and who is on the on his deathbed, and
he cannot recite the Kalima, Kalima is not coming out.
Allah. Are any of his parents alive? They say, Yes, his mother
is alive. And Islam says, Send for her.
She comes, Allah. AJ, sir,
then how is your son? Al Kamas dealing with you? She says, on
Abhi of Allah, my son is very pious.
He farts every day. He makes Salah every night. But
with me, he speaks very harshly with me. He does not speak with
respect. He has broken my heart many times in the harsh manner
that he has addressed me. This is a Sahabi. Wakullan wa dala Husna
Allah says we have promised Jannat for every Sahabi. This is a
Sahabi, but the wound inflicted by the tongue, wala mahay, every
other wound you can find a prescription to cure it. But the
wound of the tongue is such a wound, they say, Cobra snake. Go
to the hospitals, you will find the antidote and the serum for
that poison. But the poison of this Zubaan and tongue is such a
thing that no antidote exists for it. She says, On the behalf of
Allah, I am not prepared to forgive him. NaVi salaam asked her
again, forgive him. She says, ya rasulallah, he has caused me too
much of Duk, too much of pain. I won't forgive him. Allah says, oh,
Abu Hura, gather firewood. We will burn the body of alkama.
It was a mother. It was a mother. She says, ya rasulallah, what are
you going to do? He says, I am going to burn the body of alkama.
Why
you are not forgiving him? If he is not burnt in this dunya, he
will have to face the azab of Jahannam to protect him from that
azab I am burning him in this dunya. She says, on Abhi of Allah,
I forgive him. He says, Make me an Allah witness. She says, Allah,
Ummah Inya, Ushi, Duka, oshidur, Rasulullah, Ya Allah, I made you
and your NaVi a witness that I have forgiven. Al kama I am happy
with my son. No sooner she said this, Al Kamala said, Asha do
Allah, ILAHA, Illallah ash, Mother Rasulullah Allah, rasulallah
himself performed the janazah salah, and as he was returning, he
addressed his Sahaba and said, for one lady, nafti via the he lion,
tafiu, Abu asmaabi, siyamihi, walabi, sada Kati, he madam, his
Akita,
that which We have taken to be trivial,
that which doesn't require any effort on our part, which is an
which is a requisite of akhlaq in himsa, kindness to your parents.
When somebody came to him, yomar, he said, My own mother lives with
me. What Imam told him? He said, Lo Alam, talahal, Kalam, was he
said, if you speak sweetly, how difficult is it to speak sweetly?
He said, If you speak sweetly to your mother, you feed her, make
her as long as you stay away from Kabila Guna, I give you Allah.
Allah will give you gentleness. What is the difficulty in that one
person came to rasulallah, asked him, oh NaVi of Allah, when is
qamit? He said, Allah, Allah knows best. Honor we have Allah. What
are the signs of qamit? What are the signs of qamit? And tell it
Asmaa Raha, gataha ajib, he doesn't say when kufr will become
armed, when she could become armed, when idol worship will
become armed, when Zina will become armed? No, he says, When
the daughters, when even the daughters, begin to treat their
mothers like slaves. They know that the trumpet is about to be
blown. Know that Tiamat is about to come.
Which worm are the hearts of the parents not hurt? Allah, returning
from the Janaza salah of Al Kama, he says, oh my Sahaba. Oh my
Sahaba by the curtain.
From of that being in Whose Hand lies, the life of Muhammad
Sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam, that person who will hurt his parents
on him is the lanath of Allah, the lanath of the Malaika, the laanat
of the Earth, the lanath of the skies, neither his salah, nor his
salakah Now is fasting by my Qatar will be accepted by Allah as long
as he is causing Duke and pain to his parents, where you are
inspected, brothers, if our parents are alive, now is the
opportunity to earn our Jannat. If they have passed away, then Isa Al
salaab, the door is not closed and Isa Al salaab, because if he will
send Isa Al salaab, finally, their hearts will be cool, and Allah
will write us amongst those who are obedient, I will terminate on
one incident, so that we learn the importance of getting The DUA of
our parents on one occasion, Musa alaihi salam kalimullah, he asked
Allah Ya Allah, who is my Saati? Who is my companion in Jannat,
Allah says that in certain bazaar there is a butcher. He is your
companion in Jannat, Musa alaihi salam is surprised, butcher
companion of kalimula in Jannat, he looks for that person
accompanies him home and the person goes home. He had taken a
piece of meat from his shop. I'm cutting the incident shot. He
prepares it.
Then there was an elderly lady lying on a bed. This person goes
to that lady. Uses his own shoulder as a pillow and morsel
for morsel, he feeds that elderly woman. After she has finished
eating, he cleans her, wipes her mouth, and places her back on the
bed. She was very frail and very old as he is placing on the bed,
she mutters something. When this person comes back, Musa kalimullah
asked him, Who is that woman? He says, that is my mother. In the
morning, I see to her needs before I leave for the shop. In the
evening, when I come back, I feed her before seeing to my family.
Musa alaihi salam asked him, when you placed her on the bed, what
did she say? What was it? She muttered. He said, It is a mother.
It's not important what she mutters. She just saying
something. Musa Islam says, No, tell me, what did she say? She
say? He says that every day, as I put her to sleep, every night, she
makes this dua, that all my son, may Allah make you the Sati of
Musa. As May Allah make you the companion of Musa. Kali Mullah in
Jannat. That is the dua of the parents. They are your Jannat,
Oyo, Jahannam akra can character has to be developed, has to be
learned. This is why, my respective brothers, we have to
come back to the environment of the masjid, bring the Talim alive
in our homes, bring the lines of Sahaba in front of us, and go on
in the path of Allah Tala and learn what was the akhlaq and
character of Jana, Virasana, Islam. Illa, your swapping. A.