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The transcript describes a series of narratives and references to various topics, including disputes, sexual assault, and the importance of shaping one's life based on the shaping of one's body. The speakers emphasize the importance of understanding shaping and the shaping of one's body, particularly the use of the tongue in religion and the potential danger of the shaping of one's life. The use of sh matter as a poisonous weapon and the potential consequences of not following Islam are discussed, as well as the use of words like "the" and "The."

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			Will
		
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			call rasulallah
		
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			Sahib,
		
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			in with Lahore, Sahib Abu dawah
		
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			Sama, be Allah ano azawa, Imran
avatin kula dari Bo Ali anhubi
		
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			For Jim kasami, Abu salabi, Akula
Akha domali, Sahibi He
		
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			Sull
		
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			An
		
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			Ibn mu
		
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			Sofia,
		
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			this
		
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			is a
		
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			chapter which Asmaa isolani is
entitled Muslim that is
		
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			to slander, backbite
		
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			or to attack the honor and dignity
of a Muslim. The
		
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			first revived mentioned baham,
where Anne has been, Malika, the
		
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			Allahu taalam is in the later he
says
		
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			that one person started speaking
years backbiting about someone
		
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			else in the presence of
Rasulullah, sallAllahu, alayhi wa
		
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			sallam. So NaVi salaam told that
person, stand up, leave the
		
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			gathering. Your Shahadat is not
accepted.
		
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			So he said, on a way of Allah, I
will never return back to that
		
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			action. I seek repentance. Then
rasulallah said, You people have
		
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			begun to make a mockery of the
Quran.
		
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			He can never have Iman on the
Quran who makes Halal that which
		
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			the Quran has made haram,
referring to the verse of the
		
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			Quran Wallahi of tabumba Allah.
Allah. Allah says that do not
		
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			backbite about one another.
		
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			Next incident, mahisu Abu asmaari
mentions Narita is Khalid bin
		
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			Shihab. He says that there was a
dispute between Khalid and sad
		
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			RadiAllahu anhuma.
		
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			So one person
		
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			in the presence of sad RadiAllahu
Taala who started speaking ill
		
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			about Khalid backbiting about him.
		
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			So immediately sad RadiAllahu
Taala and who
		
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			the normal reaction would be, get
happy. He is talking bad about my
		
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			enemy, but the reaction of the
sahabi was that that dispute which
		
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			is between me and him, I will not
allow you to let it destroy and
		
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			affect my Deen, by you, by you,
backbiting about you.
		
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			Abu Hura radiallah narrates that
my aslami Dada came to Ravi Salaam
		
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			and he gave evidence against
himself that he had committed a
		
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			woman.
		
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			Each time Ravi salaam turned away
and ignored what he was saying.
		
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			But mais repeated this four times
he.
		
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			Thereafter, Allah was compelled,
the order of Rajam was given
		
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			Maya's asmaami was stoned to
death.
		
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			After this, NaVi Sala Islam heard
through Sahaba speaking amongst
		
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			themselves. The conversation went
as follows. The Sahabi said, look
		
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			at that person, referring to mais
aslami. Allah concealed his wrong,
		
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			but his own personality would not
let him leave it at that. He had
		
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			to reveal the wrong that he did so
that he got pelted to death like
		
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			how a dog would be pelted. Allah
said, when he heard this, he
		
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			didn't say anything. He remained
silent. He walked little distance
		
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			until he passed by the body of a
dead donkey, which was decaying to
		
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			the extent that the body was
blowing up. So he said, Where is
		
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			so? And so Sahaba heard that they
had been summoned. So immediately
		
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			these two Sahabi came. He said, Ya
Rasulullah, we are present. He
		
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			said, Go down now, and I want you
two to eat from the corpse, to eat
		
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			from the carrying of this donkey.
So they said, Ya rasulallah, may
		
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			Allah forgive you. This is an
Arabic expression, not that Allah
		
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			has really forgive you. But they
were surprised at what he had
		
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			requested, and they said, How is
it possible, who could possibly
		
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			eat from a dead donkey? So
namibism said that which you are
		
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			partaking of the dignity and honor
of your brother just now is a
		
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			worse crime in the sight of Allah
Tala than partaking from this
		
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			carrion. And then he said, by the
Qasim of that being
		
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			in whose hands lies the life of
Muhammad, sallAllahu, alaihi
		
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			salam, you are speaking ill of my
is aslami. Yet right now I can see
		
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			him bathing in the streams of
Jannat,
		
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			Abdul razad mentions of munka Did
that NaVi salaried that a woman
		
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			should be pelted to death. So
		
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			some of the believers started
talking amongst themselves, and
		
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			they said that this woman, because
she committed adultery, she has
		
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			destroyed all her good deeds.
		
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			Navi Salaam. Hearing this, he
reprimanded them and said that
		
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			that Rajam and that pelting is
kafara is sufficient for her to
		
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			gain forgiveness from Allah gala
over the wrong that she did, but
		
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			the wrong that you are doing now
by speaking ill about her that you
		
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			will have to give account for in
the court of Allah Gala,
		
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			another narration. Aisha
radiallana narration. She says
		
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			that I,
		
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			one occasion, passed a comment
about Safiya Radi Allahu. Aha,
		
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			there is another wife of NaVi
salaam, that Aisha Rana says, I
		
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			use the word kasi Ratan that Safi
Safiya is short.
		
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			She says that when abhislav heard
this,
		
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			he said, O Aisha, you have uttered
a word,
		
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			your tone, the insult which you
have uttered or directed towards.
		
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			Sophia, if this had to be mixed up
with the seven oceans of the
		
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			world, the seven oceans of the
world will turn to poison.
		
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			She says, On one occasion, I
mentioned something negative about
		
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			someone else to him. He said, Oh,
Aisha, if on the one hand, I was
		
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			offered to be given the wealth of
the entire world, and with that,
		
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			to hear something Ill about
somebody else, I would not be
		
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			prepared to do this.
		
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			Abu Dawud nariz, the revived that
on one occasion, Safiya Radi
		
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			Allahu anha, Safiya bint hay she
her lineage was from amongst the
		
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			Jews.
		
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			On one occasion, her camel became
ill, and Zainab Adi alaha, another
		
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			wife of Luis, la ASAM had a spare
camel. Sri Lanka said to Zainab
		
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			Launa, then why don't you lend
your camel to Safiya? She said,
		
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			haughtily on that occasion, that,
should I give my camel to that
		
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			Yahudi, in other words, that
Jewish woman, Allah SWT Islam,
		
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			became so angry at this insult
that for the entire ZIL Hijjah,
		
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			for Muharram, and for a portion of
Safa, that is three months, he
		
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			broke off all ties with Zainab.
Radiallana did not speak to her or
		
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			have any relations with her
whatsoever. Then the narration it
		
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			comes, and we saw some left her by
way of reprimand. Was in Hijjah
		
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			for Muharram two months or three
months, he would not even share
		
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			the bed with her. Zainab a dillahu
dahanha says he left me for such a
		
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			long period of time, he broke of
ties with me for such a long
		
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			period of time over this one
statement that will I give my
		
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			camel to? That Yahoo, the woman
that she says I had reached a
		
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			level where I had lost hope. I
thought that he had left me
		
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			forever.
		
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			We finally respected brothers from
these vivayas which are mentioned,
		
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			we can see the emphasis
		
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			that our Shariat has placed
		
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			with regards to the correct
utilization of our tongues.
		
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			Who.
		
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			Of our speech, that we do not
become a source of hurting anyone,
		
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			slandering anyone.
		
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			Sign in the hadith of rasulallah,
Islam, Islam, Islam equated our
		
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			deen, and he said, guli al Islam
waala comes that Islam is founded
		
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			upon five things, famous Hadith.
		
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			He said, The Five things is
Shahadat of Laila, illallah,
		
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			Muhammad, Rasulullah,
establishment of Salah,
		
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			paying of zakat, fasting and the
Hajj.
		
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			Unfortunately, a very large
extent,
		
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			many of us feel that that is
Islam. In other words, these
		
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			aspects of Ibadan, these aspects
of worship. On one occasion, one
		
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			of our elders, Asmaa, Ibrahim,
Devil Assad, was giving Bayan. He
		
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			said, said, if you analyze and
look at the Sharia of assala, Sala
		
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			Islam, you will find, even if you
look at the books of fiqh, we
		
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			will find about 33%
		
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			of the Sharia the rasulallah
pertains to aspects of ibadah, how
		
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			to make salah, how to fast, how to
perform hajj, etc. He said two
		
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			thirds of the Sharia of
rasulallah, 66%
		
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			approximately of what Navis Lal
Islam came with, pertains to
		
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			teaching us how one human being
should live with another human
		
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			being, and how one human being
should interact with another human
		
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			being. So if you look at that,
hariza Rasulullah also, he said,
		
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			Islam is found that these are the
five pillars of Islam. Anyone
		
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			understands that a building is not
complete with pillars.
		
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			That's just the foundation.
		
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			So what is the completion? What is
the culmination? What is the
		
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			perfection of Islam? What is the
height of Islam? For that, we have
		
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			to look at another Hadith, Islam,
Islam, where he said, boettula,
		
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			utam, Mima matari, Malam that
		
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			Allah Tala has sent me to complete
this Deen with what with akhlaq
		
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			and character.
		
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			Another interesting point our
elders raised. They say that if
		
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			you look at this, Hadith said,
buniyal Islam, Islam is founded.
		
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			Normally, a foundation is not
visible. Foundation is underneath
		
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			the ground. What is visible the
building above the ground.
		
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			The vishalsam was Rahmatullahi
Alameen. He was a rahmat for the
		
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			entire Alam. His legacy of rahmat
and mercy had to reach the whole
		
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			humanity right up to Qi Ahmad.
Believers are only 1,000,000,020%
		
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			of the world population.
		
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			That 1 billion is exposed to your
Shahada. They are exposed to your
		
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			Salah, your zakat, your Hajj, etc.
		
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			The rest of humanity, what are
they exposed to?
		
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			So this is why he said, buni and
Islam, these five things. This is
		
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			the foundation. This is not
visible. What is visible? Makani
		
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			may akh, your akhlaq and your
character,
		
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			he said, Arbon arboun is akunna
fika
		
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			fala Ali kama fatha kami na dunya,
		
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			the Vishal Islam said there are
four things.
		
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			There are four things. This is the
emphasis which Sharia places. An
		
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			AK in character.
		
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			He says there are four things
which, if you have these four
		
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			things,
		
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			then if you have nothing else in
this world, you have not lost
		
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			anything. You have the wealth of
dunya and akhirat. There is
		
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			nothing more that you can ask if
you have these four things,
		
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			whatever else you have lost is
lost. Is not a loss. Kala, Ali,
		
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			kama, Apata, Kamina, dunya. And
what are these four things? Ravis
		
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			lasim said, HIV do amanatin,
		
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			Dad, you are amanad dar, you are
an Aman AAR person. Sid Ko
		
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			khadithin, when you speak, you
speak the truth.
		
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			Hushnu, Khalid, Katin, you have
good akla in character. Waifatin,
		
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			fitomatin, and your risk and your
sustenance, what you eat is halal.
		
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			He says, if you have these four
things, you are Amanu when you
		
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			speak, you speak the truth, you
have akhlaq in character, and your
		
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			sustenance is halal. He says, You
have the wealth of dunya and
		
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			akhirat.
		
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			Unfortunately, nowadays, the
yardstick and the measure which we
		
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			use to measure piety, to measure
taqwa, to measure deendari, is
		
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			external. Deen,
		
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			the person mashaAllah, as a beard,
is wearing sunnat libhas is making
		
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			namaz. He is outwardly portraying
good deeds. Then we feel that that
		
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			is deenari, and that is piety,
that is the outward appearance of
		
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			dindari.
		
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			And shaitan will make effort on
such a person. That is why, if you
		
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			look with regards to Umar, the
Allahu talani, is that Sahabi that
		
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			the VISTAs said it thapurasat al
mumin, faino, ya Rabin, Noor in
		
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			law, he said, Fear the firasat of
a mumin, because he looks with the
		
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			Lord of Allah, Omar, was that
personality, You Allah had given
		
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			great wisdom.
		
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			On one occasion, he said, yayo
Hanas, yayo Hanas, laatun,
		
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			tanathur, rajalu, rajali,
vilaylife, salatihi,
		
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			he said, If you see a person
wailing.
		
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			It not crying or not weeping. He
said, wailing. If you see a person
		
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			wailing in the dead of the night
in tahajjud, Salah, then do not
		
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			feel that there is a pious person.
		
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			Radhakuran Nakum. Do not be
deceived. Use the word daguran. Do
		
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			not be deceived by the wailing and
howling of a person in tahajjud
		
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			Salah that he is a pious person.
Omar says, In number Rajul Rajul
		
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			man, Salim al muslimihi wa, yadihi
Oman ADAL amanatai datumin, a
		
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			pious man amongst men, a true
mumin, a true believer. Omar de la
		
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			utanam says, is not the one who is
wailing in tahajjud salah. He is
		
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			that person from whose tongue and
hands other people are safe.
		
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			When he opens his mouth, roses
come out, not thorns. When he
		
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			raises his hand, it is a gesture
of kindness and affection. When he
		
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			raises his hand, he is not to hurt
someone or inflict harm on
		
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			someone. He says, Woman, Abdul
amanatha to win, and he has Amanat
		
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			dari in him.
		
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			His gaze is not on the pockets of
others. He is not there to do
		
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			others down. Omar says that is a
pious person, not the one who is
		
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			wailing in tahajjud, Sara, so
		
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			you find my respected brothers,
		
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			the perfection, culmination,
completion of our deen is through
		
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			Husna akhlaq, through good
character. And arama say that meal
		
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			of Husna akhlaq, the perfection.
And the height of akhlaq is Husna
		
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			Kalam
		
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			is to speak the correct thing is
to be careful over the manner in
		
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			which we utilize our tongues. You
can see these various incidents.
		
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			Saavi makes the rebirth of someone
in the presence of a sulas and
		
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			navisa says, Your Shahadat is not
accepted.
		
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			Your Shahadat is not accepted. Why
incorrect utilization of the
		
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			tongue?
		
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			Aisha radiallana umwalk,
personality, the most beloved wife
		
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			of Rasulullah. SallAllahu said he
loved
		
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			her the most. Her khitba of Nikah,
her proposal
		
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			was sent by Allah. Allah
instructed namislam to marry her.
		
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			He passed away with his head on
the chest of Aisha. RadiAllahu
		
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			anha, such a personality and what
she says, she says about Safiya,
		
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			radhilana, kasri Ratan, that she
is a short woman, and Safiya was
		
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			short. She was not a tall woman,
		
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			but the tone and what does the
visas reprimands Ayesha, and he
		
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			says to Aisha, if this had to be
joined with the seven oceans of
		
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			the world, the seven oceans of the
world will turn to poison.
		
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			The extent of emphasis which was
placed on the correct utilization
		
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			of the tongue the masura, the
Allahu taala, used to say that
		
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			there is nothing, there is nothing
that is more worthy of being
		
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			locked up in jail than the stun
		
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			Allama say, on occasion is bayanya
saying, he says, Ibadan
		
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			mujahada,
		
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			person striving in the path of
Allah. His zikrullah is still out
		
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			all these various Amal which we
do. He says, This is how we will
		
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			gain the closeness and the kurupa
Allah subhanho wa taala.
		
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			But on the other hand, if you are
negligent with regards to our
		
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			Muhammad and our mahasharat, if
you are negligent with regards to
		
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			our business, social, financial
conduct with those around us, our
		
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			Ibadan will take us close to
Allah. This negligence will take
		
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			us away from
		
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			Allah. Allah say that
		
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			this is the road. This is the road
by which shaytan attacks the pious
		
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			people.
		
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			People very easily. What they say,
Masha, Allah, I give four months
		
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			every year. I spend one year in
the path of Allah. Tala, I make my
		
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			tahajjud Salah every day. I don't
engage in Zina, I don't engage in
		
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			gambling. I don't engage in Riba.
My earnings are halal. I'm a five
		
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			time Namazi. I'm doing this. I'm
doing that. I do my zikrullah. I
		
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			make Tila out of Quran. What more
must I do?
		
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			One of our elders explains it
beautifully. What more you must
		
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			do? He says, from morning till
night, write down everything that
		
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			you utter.
		
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			From morning to night, write down
everything that you utter, and
		
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			then in the evening, open up that
book where you wrote. And then you
		
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			will know where your Salah is
gone,
		
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			and you know where your zikrullah
is gone, and you know where your
		
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			Tila, the Quran is gone.
		
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			This incorrect utilization of the
tongue, not being careful in the
		
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			manner in which we speak, hurt the
feelings of others, make rebirth
		
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			of others, etc. You.
		
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			This is something my respected
brothers, that Illa, mashaAllah,
		
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			almost 100% of us are involved in,
no matter who it may be, no matter
		
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			who it may be and where it may be.
Also there is no place, there is
		
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			no place that is now safe from
this, whether it is the masjid,
		
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			whether it is the Merkers, whether
it is the khanka, whether it is
		
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			beitula, also, whether it is Majid
and navawisam. Also, when
		
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			people want to drink Sharad, they
going to look for one corner and
		
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			hide and drink. Man wants to come
with Zeena. He hides and Comet.
		
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			But when it comes to ribat, when
it comes to slandering, when it
		
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			comes to speaking ill of people
when it comes to spreading the
		
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			rumors, baseless suspicions, then
he can be in a masjid. He can be
		
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			in Beit LA. He can be in masjid
and Navami. Still, this will be
		
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			taking place
		
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			youngster Dinda. Youngster will go
outside if he sees by mistake his
		
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			gaze falls on a woman ASAP,
swarolla, straight away,
		
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			blows his gaze astrala, and he
feels the hurt in his heart
		
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			a regular Namazi, person who makes
his namaz with Jamaat
		
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			leaves and namaz getting Kazaa. If
his Jamaat gets Kazaa, he feels
		
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			the hurt in his heart, person who
makes namaz with tagbire Ulla, the
		
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			days tagbire Ulla, he misses. He
feels the hurt in his heart.
		
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			Yet morning till night will be
making rebids. Morning till night
		
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			will be eating the flesh of our
Muslim brother. Morning till night
		
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			we will be attacking the insert
and dignity and the honor of
		
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			someone else, and absolutely no
effect we feel whatsoever in our
		
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			hearts. We have become oblivious
to this sin. It has become so
		
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			common amongst us. On one
occasion, NaVi Sala Islam told Maa
		
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			has been jawab, who has MaHA has
been jawab?
		
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			Ulama say that on the Day of
Judgment, the flag of the ulama of
		
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			this ummat will be in the hands of
Maha bin Jabal RadiAllahu TA that
		
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			status Allah gave him on one
occasion, Nabhi Sala Islam told
		
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			him that mahaz, should I not tell
you what is the kulasa of Deen?
		
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			What is the essence of Deen?
		
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			Mahazadi Allahu talam, who says,
what is it? On the behalf of
		
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			Allah,
		
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			normally, if you are talking to a
little child,
		
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			if you are talking to a little
child, then you, instead of saying
		
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			something, you will show what you
want to mean, what you mean.
		
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			Navis lazav is not speaking to a
child. He is speaking to an alim,
		
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			and not just an alim, the Alim of
this ummat,
		
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			and yet, to emphasize the
importance of what he is saying it
		
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			comes in the rewire that the VISTA
Assam put his hand in his mouth,
		
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			took his tongue out and held it by
his fingers and said, muaz, the
		
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			khulasa of Deen, alayhika, Vishal,
Nissan, guard your tongue. Look
		
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			after your tongue.
		
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			Mahazaddiya laodan was surprised.
He expect kulasa of Deen, essence
		
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			of Deen. He expected something
very big.
		
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			So he was surprised by this.
		
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			So he said, Ya rasulallah, will
people be taken to TAS because of
		
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			what they utter with their
tongues.
		
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			Nabi salaam rebukes him and says,
takinat ka umm, mukaya, mahas,
		
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			it's an expression that mahas, I'm
surprised you are saying such a
		
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			thing. He said, nothing, nothing
will be more conducive to cause my
		
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			ummat face down to be thrown into
jahannam. Nothing will be more
		
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			conducive to cause my ummat face
down to be thrown into Jahannam,
		
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			besides the utterances of the
tongues,
		
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			this
		
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			has become such a common thing my
respected brothers in our homes,
		
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			pardada women, women
		
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			whose not one hair has ever been
seen by a strange man. When her
		
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			daughter in law comes into her
home, what is the reaction?
		
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			What does she speak to her
daughters about the daughter in
		
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			law is like this. The daughter in
law is like that. She is talking
		
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			to her son about the daughter in
law, also from a pious background,
		
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			speaking about the mother all the
time. That is why we find fires
		
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			are being lit in the homes of the
ummats.
		
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			Ulama say,
		
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			to make zhibat is haram. To make
ribat is haram.
		
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			Many of us, we accept that, and we
try and stay away from it. But we
		
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			have to understand that equally,
Haram is to listen to rehibad.
		
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			Also,
		
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			equally, Haram is to listen to
ribad. There it might be one in a
		
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			million.
		
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			Lot of us may be staying away from
ribat. When it comes to listening
		
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			to ribat, then we are ready.
		
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			And this is the thing that
		
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			plant.
		
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			Once the seeds of discord and
disunity in the hearts of the
		
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			ummats. Great work has taken
place,
		
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			whether it comes to doubt and
tablig or it comes to whatever
		
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			avenue of Deen. Great work, great
achievement, has been recorded
		
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			that has been wiped away because
of incorrect utilization of the
		
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			tongue,
		
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			hearts are disunited. Hearts are
broken. There is no unity, there
		
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			is no love, there is no muhabbat.
Why? Because we are not cautious
		
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			and we are not meticulous, with
regards to the manner in which we
		
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			use our tongues,
		
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			this tongue is a poison is, is
such a poisonous weapon?
		
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			Is such a poisonous weapon we want
to inflict hurt. Sometimes you
		
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			have to look for a gun. We have to
look for a sword, or you have to
		
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			look for a stick. Worse than what
hurt and harm you can cause with a
		
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			sword or with a gun and a stick
you can cause with the tongue.
		
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			This is something the effect of
it, till the mort, till the death
		
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			of a person, remains with a
person. There's one incident. Take
		
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			a few more minutes.
		
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			If you look at the life of
Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam Allah
		
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			describes Nabi Salaam in the Quran
will mean for Rahim
		
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			Allah, with regards to himself,
Allah says, in Rabwah, kumla RAO
		
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			for Rahim. Your RAB is raoof and
Rahim. Your RAB is merciful and
		
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			benevolent, referring to
everything with regards to NaVi
		
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			Sala Islam, Allah says Bill mini
raw for Rahim, when it comes to
		
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			the believers Muhammad Sallallahu,
Islam Israel and Raheem,
		
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			he was prepared to forgive
anything, whatever they did to
		
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			him,
		
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			whatever they did to him. He
forgave in Taif. He was pelted. He
		
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			said to Aisha, Ravi, Allahu, anha,
that was the worst day of my life.
		
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			The worst persecution that came
upon me was the persecution that
		
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			came in Taif.
		
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			Yet when the people of time came
to Medina to accept Islam, he made
		
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			the istiq Bal. Not only made the
istiq Bal, he put a tent in a
		
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			masjid for them,
		
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			honored them. Sabha say he would
go and sit with them and give
		
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			special time to them.
		
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			They had tortured him with stones
for three miles. Yet he forgave
		
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			that
		
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			his daughter, zainabanha,
		
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			pierced in the stomach by hababin
Aswad.
		
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			She loses her child, suffers six
years, passes away as a result of
		
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			that wound. Yet in fateh Makkah,
he takes habak bin aswati Allah
		
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			Anu by his hands to the muhutism
and makes Goa for easy diets. He
		
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			forgave that also washi
mercilessly murdered. His uncle,
		
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			Hamza Radi Allahu talah. When
Fatima Ka took place, the order
		
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			was given, 17 people, 13 men, four
women, wherever they are, to be
		
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			wherever they are found, they must
be killed.
		
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			Amongst this 1712, accepted Islam.
Three were killed and two
		
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			disappeared. There is no record of
them. Vashi was amongst that. 17
		
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			order had come from Allah. Washi
is to be killed on sight.
		
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			Yet when washi came and accepted
Islam, rabiz lalsam forgave him
		
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			also.
		
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			But these wounds that were
inflicted. One was on his
		
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			personality, on his Dart. He was
on his body. Physically he was
		
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			wounded. His daughter was hurt,
his uncle was hurt, persecution
		
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			upon him and his family. But these
were physical wounds. The other is
		
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			the wound of the tongue. He
		
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			on one occasion, the leaders of
purash sent for Avi, salaam,
		
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			Allah, SWT, salalism, presented
himself, cutting the incident is
		
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			very short.
		
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			They had various propositions.
They said, O Muhammad, sallAllahu,
		
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			alaihi wasallam, this Dawa that
you are giving, this invitation
		
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			that you are giving, if it is
motivated by a desire to become a
		
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			king. We are prepared to make our
King. Leave this out. If it is
		
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			motivated by desire for wealth,
we'll gather all our wealth and
		
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			make you the richest amongst us.
Leave this out. If it is motivated
		
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			by desire for women, choose the 10
most beautiful women of the Arab
		
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			world. We'll marry you to them. If
it is motivated by the fact that
		
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			you have become sick, some Jinn
has affected you. We will make
		
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			indizam for your ilaj give up
this. Dawats
		
00:29:27 --> 00:29:32
			NaVi salaam said, Allah has not
sent me for this. Allah sent me to
		
00:29:32 --> 00:29:36
			call you to him, except you will
be successful. If you do not
		
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			accept then wait for the decision
of Allah.
		
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			So then they said, Okay, if you're
not prepared to accept these
		
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			propositions, then do this for us.
Turn the desert of Makkah into a
		
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			garden.
		
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			Let vegetation and fruit grow in
every direction, let streams flow.
		
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			If Makkah turns into a garden,
then we are prepared to accept
		
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			that you are the NABI of ALLAH. So
he says.
		
00:30:00 --> 00:30:03
			Allah has not sent me for that.
Allah sent me to call towards him.
		
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			If you accept, you will be
successful. If you do not accept,
		
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			then wait for the decision of
Allah. So then they said, Okay,
		
00:30:10 --> 00:30:14
			from amongst our forefathers,
Qusay was respected amongst the
		
00:30:14 --> 00:30:18
			Arabs. They said, Bring pusay,
resurrect him. Bring him alive,
		
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			and let him bear testimony that
you are the NABI of Allah we will
		
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			accept. He says, Allah is not sent
before this. They say, Okay, you
		
00:30:26 --> 00:30:31
			seem to do business just like us.
You are doing business just like
		
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			us. So, okay, tell your Allah if
you are his Nabi to make your home
		
00:30:37 --> 00:30:38
			out of gold
		
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			and to pave the streets around you
with gold and to let the Malaika
		
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			of Allah be in your khidmat. You
will accept that you are the NABI
		
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			of Allah. Nabi. Sasha says, Allah
is not sent before this.
		
00:30:50 --> 00:30:53
			So finally, they said, if you not
prepare to accept any of these
		
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			propositions, the last proposition
we have,
		
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			invite the azab of Allah on us. If
you are Allah's Nabi, invite the
		
00:31:01 --> 00:31:04
			Azad of Allah upon us. He says,
Allah has not sent me for this.
		
00:31:05 --> 00:31:09
			Wait for the decision of Allah.
Then they got exasperated, and
		
00:31:09 --> 00:31:12
			they said, You are not prepared to
accept any proposition. Go away
		
00:31:12 --> 00:31:12
			from here.
		
00:31:14 --> 00:31:19
			Now we can see what a mockery they
had made of rasulallah. He was
		
00:31:19 --> 00:31:23
			very, very hurt on that occasion,
because when they had initially
		
00:31:23 --> 00:31:26
			summoned him, he thought that they
were getting ready to accept
		
00:31:26 --> 00:31:26
			Islam.
		
00:31:27 --> 00:31:30
			He thought that the decision of
the hirayah that comes so he had
		
00:31:30 --> 00:31:33
			went with great hopes and
aspirations. Now all those hopes
		
00:31:33 --> 00:31:37
			and aspirations were dashed.
Sadly, he walks away.
		
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			Abdullah bin Adi umayyah, the son
of atika. Atika
		
00:31:44 --> 00:31:48
			was the sister of Hamza Radi
Allahu Taala Hu calling to one
		
00:31:48 --> 00:31:50
			revise he had accepted Islam
according to another device, he
		
00:31:50 --> 00:31:53
			had not accepted Islam. She was
the aunt of Ravi Salaam. Her son,
		
00:31:53 --> 00:31:58
			Abdullah bin Abi. Umayyah was his
cousin. He came behind him, and he
		
00:31:58 --> 00:31:59
			spoke very harshly to him.
		
00:32:00 --> 00:32:04
			He said, Oh, Muhammad, sallallah,
sallam, your people have put all
		
00:32:04 --> 00:32:09
			sorts of propositions in front of
you. You did not accept a single
		
00:32:09 --> 00:32:15
			one now. Now, if you take a ladder
and you climb up to the heavens
		
00:32:15 --> 00:32:20
			and you go to your Allah, and
Allah gives you in writing that
		
00:32:20 --> 00:32:26
			you are his Nabi, a seal is put
upon it by Allah for Malayaka,
		
00:32:26 --> 00:32:30
			accompany that seal and come to
this dunya and say that you are
		
00:32:30 --> 00:32:32
			the navy of Allah. Still, I won't
bring him on.
		
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			Allah didn't say anything. He went
away many, many years later, many
		
00:32:40 --> 00:32:44
			years later, on the occasion of
Fatima Ka as Navi sazim is
		
00:32:44 --> 00:32:49
			proceeding towards Makkah Abdullah
bin Abhi umayya comes to accept
		
00:32:49 --> 00:32:49
			Islam.
		
00:32:51 --> 00:32:55
			This is that NaVi felt three miles
in Taif. He made istiq Bala the
		
00:32:55 --> 00:33:01
			people of Taif Habad bin Aswad,
who murdered his daughter. He made
		
00:33:01 --> 00:33:05
			istiq Baal of him. Vashi who
murdered Hamza, he made istiq Baal
		
00:33:05 --> 00:33:09
			of him. Yet, when he is told that
Abdullah bin Abi umaya has come,
		
00:33:09 --> 00:33:14
			Azul says, I am not prepared to
see I am not prepared to even
		
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			accept his Islam, that personality
who Allah says, Bill mini raw
		
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			Rahim, he is the same one who
said, if I take a ladder and I go
		
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			to Allah, and Allah gives me a
seal, saying that I am his Nabi
		
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			and for Malaika accompanied,
still, he will not accept Islam. I
		
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			am not prepared to see him. This
is the effect of the poison of the
		
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			tongue. So many years later, this
wound was greater than all that
		
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			physical wounds that took place.
Uma Salma RadiAllahu talaha
		
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			interceded on behalf of Abdullah
bin Abi umayyah, and said, on Abhi
		
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			of Allah, He is your cousin. You
are a Rahim. You are rahmatulla
		
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			alameen. You are a mercy. If you
don't accept him, he is going to
		
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			jahannam forever and ever.
Finally, on the intercession of a
		
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			masala Rabi salaam accepted
Abdullah bin Abi umayyah and
		
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			allowed him to come in His
presence and accepted Jesus. Now.
		
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			But the lesson, my respected
brothers, behind this, these
		
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			incidents, are there for a sabak,
any lesson that we have to be
		
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			careful with regards to the
utilization of our tongues.
		
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			Otherwise, years of tablig will be
undone. Years of ivad will be
		
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			undone. Comes in the rewith A
person will make so much ivadat
		
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			will go so close to Allah Tala
that His name will be written on
		
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			the door of Jannat. Then number
four of the Hadith, he will utter
		
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			something. He will utter something
which will cause disunity, which
		
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			will break the hearts of people.
He will utter something because of
		
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			that utterance. Despite his years
of ibadah, they took him to the
		
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			door of Jannat. Islam says this
person will be thrown into the
		
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			depths of jahannam. May Allah
protect us well. The.
		
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			Are saying, my respected brothers,
they say, stay away from three
		
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			things. Stay away from three
things with regards to your
		
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			tongue, stay away from lying, stay
away from insulting people and
		
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			stay away from rebat. They say, if
you stay away from these three
		
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			things, even with very little
Ibadan Allah Tala will give you
		
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			the highest merkaba and the
highest status of gennas,
		
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			development of akhlaq in
character. This is the hardest
		
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			Sabha we find our fourth point of
Tamil. Unfortunately, even in our
		
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			sixth point muzakara, very little
muzakara of this takes place. This
		
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			talk has come out of us. The
consciousness has come out of us.
		
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			The awareness has come out of us.
This is that avenue by which
		
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			shaitan will attack the pious
people. This is that avenue and
		
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			road by which shaitan will cause
our good deeds to be destroyed, if
		
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			we will be free in the usage of
our tongues, rebirth, slandering,
		
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			speaking bad about people. Lukman,
the wise, used to say, he used to
		
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			say, Me.
		
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			Merara is to say Ill knowledge is
beauty and silence is protection.
		
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			Knowledge is beauty and silence is
protection.
		
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			If you speak of worldly things, if
you speak of things besides Deen,
		
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			he should say, do not speak
excessively. I have never once he
		
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			says, I have never once regretted
my silence. Many, many times I
		
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			said things and I regretted it.
		
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			So there is protection for us in
silence. This is what our elders
		
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			when we go on the path of Allah.
First muzakara that takes place
		
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			the four things you're not
supposed to do. They say, stay
		
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			away from layani. Stay away from
useless talks. What is meant by
		
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			useless talks. This is when that
Majlis at the end of the day
		
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			outside the masjid, sometimes when
cash is being made into ash, or
		
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			whatever it is, or in one corner
somewhere. This is when shaitan
		
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			comes through the avenue of layari
deebath about somebody slandering
		
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			about somebody mocking at somebody
making a fool out of somebody
		
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			joking at somebody jesting at
somebody to say Tori Dev, Tori Dev
		
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			layani, Kendal, chalis, din ke
mukbul, ibadid ke nur is to say
		
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			that little vial of lyani will
take away the noor of 40 days of
		
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			accepted Ibadan VISTAs said, the
beauty, the beauty of your Islam,
		
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			is to Stay away from useless
things. We find that respected
		
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			brothers. It is not difficult with
mush. By being conscious, we have
		
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			to become conscious about our
speech. Unfortunately, rebirth,
		
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			slandering, etc, has become such a
common aspect of our lives that we
		
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			are doing it without even being
aware of it. We have to become
		
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			conscious constantly. Make Toba,
to Allah, make muzaka amongst
		
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			ourselves. This is why that
opportunity is given to us. When
		
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			you go out in the path of Allah
Tala, look at how awaits Sahaba
		
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			one. Sahabi has a dispute with
another. Sahabi someone just
		
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			speaks bad about that person who
he has a dispute with. Straight
		
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			away, the sahabi rebukes him to
not let my dispute with him
		
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			destroy my Deen. Do not let my
dispute with him destroy my Deen.
		
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			That was the level of
consciousness that they had which
		
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			they learned at the feet of the
master himself, Allah Ali asallam
		
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			So.