Ahmed Hamed – Wedding without Extravagance – How To Have An Islamic Weddings
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Weddings
manages
without extravagance.
From the observance, he says about
the extravagant.
Increasingly
spending.
Spending without account.
Spending
more
than required.
The amount
of the expense are to have. They guided
us that the best of the
the best of the marriages are those in
which
Allah is displeased with those. Allah abilities that
he does not like those. Allah abilities that
he does not love those who spend extra
every Friday is a reminder
for each other to remind ourselves on a
core
value of Islam, and that is the of
Allah. Being aware,
being conscious,
being careful, being aware of Allah
is something that is the need of every
single
individual Muslim,
and it is the recipe of success. For
indeed, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, he says
who have the law.
They are successful.
The topic,
my brothers and sisters,
for this Jummah Khutbah
is weddings,
marriages
without
extravagance.
Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, he says in the
Quran
about himself.
What she likes,
what he dislikes,
what he demands,
and what he prohibits,
what he allows,
and what he is
From our ability, sir, he says about
the extravaganza.
Increasingly
spending.
Spending without the count.
Spending
more
than required.
Spending more than necessary.
Does
not like
those who are extravagant.
One of the major
problems
of the current time
among the Muslim Ummah is fat weddings.
Weddings
actually are costing
lives for the people.
It is
an act and a required reminder
for all of us
to look into this matter
much more seriously
than ever before. The need, my brothers and
sisters, is to ensure that we evaluate
our own capacities
and
spend in the weddings
that which is only necessary,
that which is required. Remember,
according to the status
in the world among the Muslim Ummah in
the society,
most of the marriages, they get disrupted.
They are broken
in which
lavishly
the amount
that expands us.
How true
are the noble messenger,
expenses are
spent.
My brothers and sisters,
people
are crying.
Why?
Because they have to go into serious
credits.
They are indebted
just because of the demands
of
either the parties, just because of the
soul that is looking for more and more
in the weddings. Yes. We understand that's a
great day. Yes. We understand that's a very
beautiful
and a blessed day. But in order for
it to be truly blessed,
it must be done in the way of
Allah
in
line with the instructions and the guidance of
and make sure.
And remind
that indeed, Allah is displeased with those. Allah
does
this is not our tradition
to spend things out of your capacity,
to spend in the ways in a way
that is not required at all. The most
noble,
blessed,
and peaceful values are those which are done
according to the will of Allah Subhanahu Wa
Ta'ala.
Remember what Allah mentioned as an objective
of the guide. The objective
of marriage, the purpose
of gaining into a relationship.
Allah says
in the Quran,
the core purpose
of
So the core purpose of marriage is tranquility,
is peace, is happiness,
is well-being,
is goodness,
how that can be achieved by
displeasing
what Allah will result. Indeed, whatever
Allah commands in the Quran is a benefit
for us. It is beneficial for us. Whatever
he stops us for is absolutely
harmful.
Remember, there are 3 areas or 3 major
problems when it comes to value. 1, the
problem could be, you know, raised by the
men's
side,
the groom's side.
The other problem, it could be raised by
the bright side. The other problem
is raised by the society itself.
Lot of times, we see that a man
or his parents demands
doubting,
which is
something
which is not a part of Islam. This
is not our tradition.
Allah of Warrissa, he gave that man
a position, and Allah
made him a one caretaker,
to uphold the responsibility
and do things in his own limit.
On the other side, the blind side, they
do not want to they don't need to
get into such a position that it becomes
a custom
to spend lavishly
more than what is required and get into
issues and problems later on.
And when it comes to societal problem,
let us not live our lives by the
norms
set by the society.
Societies have been destroyed and perished
when they bent against the laws of Allah
Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. So the hair is
the betterment it is
in
the lying of ourselves
to what Allah and His Messenger has said.
Remember my brothers and sisters,
the greatest day
for a couple is the marriage day. That
should be the day where they should please
Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala the most.
When they invest their love, their
care, their pleasure for Allah
nurture, they will love, they will be blessed
in that relationship than anybody else. So the
need is that we must
ensure that we do not be among those
who spend lavishly in the weddings, in the
marriages. Let's be humble.
Even though,
you know, people who have God's will, they
need to understand that they can spend that
somewhere
else and gain the the pleasure
of
the
point is, my brothers and sisters, the message
of the is
let's make our relatives
blissful.
Let's make it really, truly for the pleasure
of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala so that we,
the the the couple, the families can actually
enjoy in that, which is good, which is
aafya, which is fair and barakah inshallah, not
the other way around.