Ahmed Hamed – Top 10 Tips To Raise An Obedient Child Part 2

			Know that we are living? Salam Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu you brothers and sisters, welcome
back to our program, Islam quest in which we are addressing a very important question, what are the
ways to bring our children as obedient once. And we have mentioned that we will discuss in this
episode, the top 10 ways to raise or bring your children in a better way, we've already covered
three top ways to bring our children. And we have mentioned the first and foremost way before even
getting to the point of raising our children, we need to select a righteous woman for us, we need to
look for a woman who is pious, who can help and cooperate with us in a way that would bring our
		

			children in a better way. And we have mentioned the second way to bring our children, my dear
brothers and sisters, that we need to be an ideal parent for them, we need to be good so that they
can be also good by following us. And we have said the third way is to instill the love of Allah and
His Messenger in the hearts and minds of the people. The fourth way to bring our children in a
better way is to attach them with the glorious Koran. Attach them with the Glorious Quran by helping
them by helping them
		

			to read, to understand, to ponder, to relate to reflect the ayat of the glorious Koran from the
childhood. If they become the Companion of the Quran, they would always follow insha Allah, the
commands mentioned in the Quran, and that is the food that you will see that they will always be
obedient to you.
		

			Because of our children's failure is their distance from the Quran. So we need to bring them back
and attach them with the Quran we need to create and develop that love of Quran in their hearts in
their minds, so that they become the Companion of the Quran. The fifth way to bring our children
better, my dear brothers and sisters, is to keep them in the good company.
		

			Always keep a watch, always keep a watch over their company or their surroundings. Because you might
raise them in a better way. But then when they go out, when they go out, they will have that
influence from the surroundings. So make sure that they are in the good company. They should be in
the company of those children whose parents are also good, and they are also good. So make yourself
keen in terms of watching over their surroundings.
		

			The sixth way, my dear brothers and sisters, to bring our children better
		

			is to create
		

			an environment. create an atmosphere that is full of demand in our homes. create an atmosphere and
environment of demand in our homes. For example.
		

			Teach them the Quran and the Sunnah, as diverse as lectures, as talks in your homes.
		

			Prepare a library of Islamic books and other knowledgeable books. Make sure make sure that the
environment that they live in 24 by seven when they are in the homes, they should feel they should
have that supportive eemaan environment in the homes, make sure that you help and support them by
creating an Islamic library by helping them with the tools with which are through which they can be
empowered in their demand. They can sense the importance of demand. So you as a responsible parent,
having the expectation of bringing them up in a better way must create an environment of a man in
your homes. The seventh way my brothers and sisters to bring our children in a better way is that
		

			remove all the negative influence in the home. Remove that negative influence that may harm, spoil
and disturb your children.
		

			islamically for example,
		

			avoid, avoid having any channel, in your home in your television, which shows haram stuff, which
shows things which are absolutely against Islam.
		

			Keep the watch within the home,
		

			about their games, if they are playing. Most of the games today are the best in ideology were in.
They have no sense of morale in terms of spoiling the children,
		

			my dear brothers and sisters, you as responsible Muslim parent, you need to make sure you need to
make sure that your children are not influenced with the negative environment in your homes and you
as a responsible parent, need to remove that obstacle, that negative influence in the home so that
so that they feel they feel it is supportive, and they will feel better in terms of growing.
		

			The way my brothers and sisters to bring our children is to make sure that you share with them. You
share with them the stories of the righteous people.
		

			share with them the stories the Quran is the full is full of stories, authentic moral, motivating
stories, share the Quran with them, share the stories mentioned in the Quran with them. Like for
example, should the story of Ibrahim peace be upon him how he dealt with his own father, who was a
golfer, who was a person who is was a disbeliever the person who used to worship and make idols, how
he used to treat and deal with his own father, share with them the stories which are motivating,
righteous, and good.
		

			Most of the children, they love to listen to stories, they love to learn stories, so share with them
the stories of the Sahaba
		

			the companions of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. What was their zeal towards Islam? What was
their involvement and engagement in Islam, how important they used to feel to be an ideal Muslim and
this
		

			affects on their minds and this affects in their hearts, my dear brothers and sisters, we the Muslim
ummah. Alhamdulillah we are blessed. We are blessed with the authentic and pure stories of the
prophets, mentioned in the Quran. We are also blessed with the stories in the biographies of the
holy fire Rashidi Abu Bakr, Omar Osman Ali Rania lover and as many we know, that there are a lot of
material authentic material available,
		

			about their stories will love if you share the stories with them, if you share the stories with
them,
		

			of those people who are righteous, who will go obedient to Allah subhanaw taala, sincere towards
Allah subhanho wa Taala they will also have the impact on their minds. So share with them the
stories of the prophets and messengers, the stories of companions and the stories of the righteous
priestesses of the past.
		

			My dear brothers and sisters, also, one of the ways to bring your children in a better way is to
make them
		

			responsible about the deeds, nurture the feeling of accountability in their hearts and minds. Let
them have the sense of accountability, let them know and understand that they are accountable since
their childhood. They are accountable to Allah subhanaw taala. So they even in your absence, will
hold themselves in behaving wrong. They will hold themselves in getting involved in wrong things
because when they know when they understand that Allah subhanaw taala is watching them and Allah
subhanaw taala will take account from them and lots of panatela will give them money.
		

			management and will give grants and rewards when they have the sense of responsibility. When they
get the sense of accountability, they will grow well. And that is a very vital element that we you
and me as parents need to implement in our lives. Give them the sense of accountability,
accountability to Allah subhanho to Allah. So even if they, they are in front of us, or behind us,
in our presence, or in our absence, they will do those things which are pleasing to Allah subhanho
wa Taala. And that's how, that's how my brothers and sisters, they will become obedient to you. The
last thing, the 10th thing that we would like to share in this episode, my dear brothers and
		

			sisters, in bringing our children as obedient once we need to pray to Allah subhanaw taala we need
to pray to Allah subhanaw taala as it's a beautiful prayer, mentioned in the Quran, in Surah, Furqan
surah number 25 and number 74, in which Allah subhanaw taala helped us to ask him robina or our
Lord, habla na min as vergina was the Ria Tina kurata Aryan was Tina mama or Lord
		

			grace grant us grant us from among our own wives and our offspring
		

			the tranquility, the coolness of arise
		

			and make us among those who are the leaders of Metatron.
		

			This is a very powerful one, my brothers and sisters, we need to make dua to Allah subhanho wa Taala
for our own children. And you will see if we implement these top 10 ways to bring our children you
will see the impact on them. And this act should be done not periodically. Now. It needs to be done
constantly and regularly, unless and until they become absolutely mature. In terms of understanding
and sensing and deciding by themselves. we as parents have a crucial responsibility in making our
children better. It is up to you, in me to make our children make or break and we can make them by
following these and many other constructive ways to bring them better, as good Muslims as ideal
		

			Muslims. I would like to end my talk with the prayer to Allah subhanho wa Taala that may Allah
subhanaw taala help us
		

			to bring our children in a better way. May Allah subhanaw taala help us to nurture them the feeling
of accountability. May Allah subhanaw taala help us to instill the love of Allah and His Messenger
in our children's hearts and mind. May Allah subhanaw taala help us to be the good example for them.
Well after Donna Anil hamdulillahi Rabbil aalameen open your eyes to the world often day. Believe
not the lies that they always say. Look for the truth and swallow your pride for things that you
thought didn't exist that you might find below that we