Ahmed Hamed – The Power of Positive Thinking

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The importance of positive thinking and safe behavior in achieving success is emphasized in Islam's webinar on positive thinking. The success of culinary programs like the chef program is highlighted, including a focus on improving culinary techniques. The speakers emphasize the need to use positive thinking, pray with the right method, and stay in a positive mind to build relationships and connect with others.

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			Sila hamdulillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah al Karim while early he was
happy he Germaine rubbished rally Saudi were certainly Omri waterflow. Okuda melissani yeska. Who
Kohli, my beloved brothers and sisters, I welcome all of you in this, another beautiful insha Allah
webinar, the live webinar on a very, very pertinent and important topic, the power of positive
thinking. First of all, we thank and we are grateful to Allah subhanho wa Taala for bringing up and
helping up to, to get into this beautiful session in sha Allah. And we thank each and every one the
brothers and sisters who worked around behind this program. And of course, I would like to extend my
		
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			gratitude to all of you for being here with us to learn about our Deen and different facets of Islam
when hamdulillah My beloved brothers and sisters,
		
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			the topic power of positive thinking, is anyways important. And it becomes more important in the
times we're living in.
		
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			We're living in a time where we are seeing and facing and witnessing so many challenges, so many
calamities, so many problems and issues. The need of being positive is much more of importance
during these times, and Subhan Allah, we need to understand and acknowledge that will hamdulillah
Islam being a way of life helps us
		
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			to find solutions, and to find recipes in all the facets of life. And it gives guidance, in a way
that is practical in a way that brings us to two words closer to Allah subhanho wa Taala My beloved
brothers and sisters, Islam is a beautiful way of life. And well hamdulillah we the believers in
Allah subhanho wa Taala must feel that positive experience and feeling and testify to this fact that
Alhamdulillah we are blessed that Allah subhanho wa Taala has best tout on us, Islam, which shapes
our life, and brings us and keeps us on the state of total well being while hamdulillah
		
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			My beloved brothers and sisters,
		
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			the function of the brain is to control thoughts and Subhanallah it is the engine of our body, it
actually navigates what you want to do in your life.
		
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			And
		
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			that is the reason we say you are what you think. So if you think that you're at good and nice
state, then you are in the nice state. If you think that you are in a miserable situation in a very
sad situation, then you are in that state. So you are what you think right now, we have choices.
Allah subhanho wa Taala has given us choice to fill
		
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			our mind with positive thinking or negative thinking. And our brain is like a container, you know,
you need you feed or you fill the container, either with positivity or with negativity.
		
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			It's up to us purely to understand and to take this decision that how do we actually want our mind
to be right. Now, according to the recent study,
		
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			an average human being he actually has over 6000 thoughts every single day. Although there are
studies which phase or research which says that a human has, you know, every single day 50 to even
70,000 thoughts but
		
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			Regardless of these statistics, human does have we need to acknowledge that human does have 1000s of
thoughts every single day, we need to have a closer view and focus on how these ports are, are these
thoughts, which comes to our mind are positive, or they are negative SubhanAllah.
		
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			Our mind
		
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			is, as I said, it's it's a container and it has a very powerful, you know, of way of thinking Subhan
Allah, it is very powerful, it has a capacity, which is Subhan Allah humongous, so, you can imagine
every single day our mind can actually you know, have
		
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			1000s of thoughts. So, obviously, to control these thoughts is of dire importance, and to have a
closer view of these thoughts are significant, you know, wait, so, what we need to do is we have
less or no control for incidents, circumstances or situations, but we do have control on our minds,
we do have access to control our thoughts, and that's what we are going to learn in this webinar
inshallah, how to utilize the power of positive thinking, you know, in an Islamic perspective,
Subhan Allah, this is of huge importance, my beloved brothers and sisters, we need to realize that
Subhan Allah, on an individual level and on a global level,
		
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			we are
		
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			tend to incline towards negativity or we face or encounter negativity, every step of our life
Subhanallah we need to make sure that how do we protect and keep a shield between us and those
negative thoughts and bring the positive energy bring the positive thinking into our minds. So, this
is an on going struggle. So, I call it as a process, it is a process, where you need to ensure that
you keep on struggling and striving to be in a state of well being and that comes with a positive
thinking. So, let us let us know what what positive means you know, Subhana Allah, it is a desirable
or constructive quality or attribute. So obviously positive or positivity, it demands something
		
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			which is constructive, something which is good, something which is which builds, you know, people
and things should handle luck. So this is positive thinking, the process or to consider or reason
something, this is thinking, you know, Subhan Allah, this is something which we need to understand,
because a lot of times we want to be positive, many people, they want to be positive, but they don't
know how to actually trigger those positive thoughts in their minds, and they don't know, or they
are not aware of such ways and strategies, how they can actually be in an optimistic state
Subhanallah so that's what we're going to dive in understanding its importance and benefits, what do
		
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			we actually achieve? Why do I need to be positive? You know, in my thinking, how, what is the
reason? What's the outcome? What's the benefit for being positive? And this is a very powerful
question. Because a lot of times, we, you know, Subhanallah get trapped into negativism. As such, it
leads to negative results, and that's the state which we do not want to be but unfortunately because
not knowing these realities and these strategies prescribed in Islam, we tend to be a person who
gets into a trap of this negativism. SubhanAllah so we need to answer this very clearly.
		
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			Why do we need to think positive, why? Reason number one, it brings peace of mind Subhanallah we
need to be we need to be
		
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			Be positive in our thinking, because it brings peace of mind. And this is something which is
seriously and sincerely lacking in, in the, in the minds or in the lives of many people Subhan Allah
and Subhana Allah, it has nothing to do with money, it has nothing to do with status, it has nothing
to do with position, it has nothing to do with the world or the material things, it has to do with
your internal state of being good SubhanAllah. So, being positive brings peace of mind, that is the
reason we have to think positive because if we think positive, we will do things which are positive,
we will say things which are positive, which will lead us to positive outcome insha Allah, as an
		
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			ally to Allah for dunya will asherah in this world and in the Hereafter, as muslimeen as believers,
we do not limit our thinking only to this role. This is very, very important for us to remind
ourselves, that our thinking our positive thinking, does not restrict to this world, it goes beyond
this life, which is a year after an era. So it's very powerful. So the reason number one, or the
benefit number one, or the outcome of being positive thinker, is it brings peace of mind, that's
number one. Number two, it keeps our relations healthy, you know, you will see and you have you
might have experienced positive people, they have more friends, positive people, they are connected
		
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			with more people, positive people are liked and loved by many people are as opposed to those who are
negative people who are people who tend to, you know, show or display their behavior of negativity,
they do not have close affiliates with them. So the benefit of thinking positive is it will
basically keep your relations healthy, beat your family relations, or the relations outside your
family. Reason number three, it improves your physical well being and you need to understand this
kind of love. Because you're logically you will improve your health will improve if you think
positively, you know, when we see and hear and, and witness people who have depression, anxiety, you
		
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			know, distress, you know, disappointed disheartened of so many things. Why? Because they lack
positive thinking, you know, and that's the reason, physically speaking, they are not in the good,
or well, their well being is compromised. SubhanAllah. So that's number three reason why do we need
to be positive in our lives. Reason, reason number four, it keeps you moving, without seizing your
energy, Allahu Akbar positive people, they find alternatives in their lives, they don't stop, they
keep on moving, they keep on moving, they don't drop themselves, they don't lose hope they do not
fall or even if they fall, they learn from their phones, they learn from their failures, they learn
		
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			from their, from their, you know, mistakes, and they run after that, they get up, they don't give
up, they get up they don't give up. So positive people, they actually keeps on moving that is again
a beauty in itself and Subhanallah the fifth outcome is it makes your life your overall life
beautiful. You know, few think positively. If you say what is positive, if you feel what is
positive, if you experience what is positive, you move on in your life and you deal with any and
every kind of situation boringly and remind and remind yourself and I remind myself that this is not
not not in the absence of the problems or all the bad things that might happen to me or to you. We
		
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			as human being is bound to be tested. This is a given Rule of Life. A lot of Walesa, he says and we
talked about this in our previous sessions as well. Allah says in Surah Al mulk surah number 67.
Iron number two, a lot of Isaiah he says Allah The hunter call Mottola hayata Leah Beluga Comm. You
can ask some Allah, Allah has given life and so that he may test you which is to see which one of
you is in best of conduct. So
		
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			We all are performance in this world, this world is a field where you and I are here to perform, we
cannot be out of the field, we have to be in the field and we need to perform, and those who perform
better scores well in the sight of Allah subhanho wa Taala. So Subhana Allah, it the positive
outlook of your entire life, will will be beautiful, if you think positively Subhana Allah, and will
hamdulillah My beloved brothers and sisters, if you think positively, if you think positive, what
happens and why, as I said, these, you know, reasons. And over, over and above the essence of being
positive, it springs from the teachings of Islam. You see Islam being the perfect, complete,
		
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			balanced, and beautiful and practical way of life. It teaches us lessons, it teaches us tips, it
teaches us practical methods, how you can be a positive thinker, which will lead you to positive
living. So you begin with positive thinking, and you end up with positive living and SubhanAllah.
Those people who think positive will live positive, the end also insha Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah
will be positive will be a good ending in sha Allah. So Islam provides the guidelines, so
beautifully constructed in when it comes to positive thinking, the need is to dive in deeply think
and find solutions in Islam, my beloved brothers and sisters,
		
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			as we know, Islam provides the understanding of displaying or fulfilling the rights of two parties,
the rights of the Creator, and the rights of the creation. So the rights of the Creator, Allah
subhanho wa Taala, we need to fulfill through our Eman, our elevada and so on and so forth, through
we and we need to fulfill the rights of the creation and that is also the bada to Allah subhanho wa
Taala by fulfilling their rights, so Subhana Allah, we need to understand the fact that Islam gives
total guidance, which which starts from the positive, you know, thinking about the Creator Himself.
So what we need to realize and understand is number one, we need to keep this, this point of very
		
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			clear that our Creator, Allah subhanho wa Taala is extremely positive, and he teaches us to be
positive, Allahu Akbar. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that Allah said, which means
it's a hottie say could see and are in the learning of dB. Look at this hadith Subhan Allah, the
statement is so powerful, and I want you to register this in your mind and I want you to picture
your imagination, you're the impression of Allah subhanho wa Taala should be very clear, it should
be crystal clear. Allah says, an end avani abhi be, I am as my servants, think of me. So what do you
think of Allah? How do you think of Allah subhanho wa Taala you see a lot of people when they get
		
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			into problems when they have calamities when they face challenges, be it loss of life, loss of
health, loss of beloved ones, loss of you know wealth, loss of you know, anything for that matter,
when they lose anything. That's when your actual state or the impression or the expectation or the
belief in Allah Subhana huhtala is clearly reflected.
		
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			Are you following when you and I are in difficult phase when we lose any beloved one when we lose
any beloved thing, that's when our real Eman is tested. And at that time, we need to ensure that we
have
		
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			To have good opinion about Allah subhanho wa Taala if we don't have
		
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			good opinion of Allah, then we'll be doomed. Subhan Allah, and this is what we are seeing. There are
people around us Subhana Allah, who complain Allah, why did you put me in this situation? Why this
calamity for me? Why did I lose my beloved one? Why did I lose my job? I pray, I make dua, I'm a
good believer, why me? So this question to Allah is actually not sensible. You need to think good of
Allah. And if you think good of Allah, the good will happen to you. That's what Allah says, I know
it doesn't me. IDB I am as my servant thinks of me. So keep good thinking, positive thinking of
Allah subhanho wa Taala have really, really high hopes in Allah subhanho wa Taala people who do not
		
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			have a strong belief in Allah, they actually lose faith. As a result, they lose hope, as a result,
they prevent themselves from the mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala. So you see the loss, the loss is
extremely high, the loss is extremely high, where they lose the mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala
Allah, Allahu Akbar, my beloved brothers and sisters, the need is to have good thinking about Allah
subhanaw taala in our lives, and this should be real, it should be genuine, it should be authentic,
so much so that whenever anything happens, say, and believe in your heart, that this perhaps must be
good, for good thing insha Allah, you and I do not control these circumstances. It is all by Allah
		
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			subhanho wa Taala He is the one who has the power over all things. So rely on Allah subhanho to sign
up and think good for Allah subhanho wa Taala you and I cannot comprehend the whole picture. We
might see certain dots here and there. But Allah is Allah Allah Who is the Knower of the unseen, he
is the one who has the knowledge of everything. So he knows what you and I don't know. So my beloved
brothers and sisters, we need to have very, very strong, you know, positive hopes in thinking of
Allah subhanho wa Taala and when it comes to hope, you know, Subhan Allah, a lot of Valensa, he
calls out to us in the Quran and says in the Quran, a lot of malaria he calls out and says, Yeah,
		
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			everybody, all my slaves, all my worshipers, you know, this belongingness with which is shown by
Allah, in compasses of the mercy of the compassion of the care of the value that he gives to you and
me, he shows that belongingness Subhana Allah Yari body, a levina, a software Allah unfussy him, not
talking to me Rahmatullah
		
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			those who have transgressed themselves, the sinners are being addressed to those who transgress
themselves. Because remember, when you and I do sin, it's we who will be harmed, Allah is not going
to be affected at any point Subhan Allah, we, you and me, we all will be affected if we commit
mistakes, sins or anything of evil nature, right? So we need to understand that a lot of research
shows the hope, not duck not to mirror Matala do not lose hope in the mercy of Allah subhanho wa
Taala. You see my beloved brothers and sisters, Allah subhanaw taala gave us the powerful tool of da
to connect within. And this is something which is so positive in itself. Whenever you think that
		
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			you're lost and you lost hopes from everyone, wherever you go to Allah bellezza and when you go to
Allah, you rely on Allah, you're convinced that Allah robber is is extremely merciful, a lot of Riza
is extremely kind a lot of reason is extremely powerful. You and I will anyways in car positive
energy, right, because you will gain the strength from Allah subhanho wa Taala who is the source of
all strengths. So a lot of Buddha Riza
		
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			plays extremely important role in your in my life, my beloved brothers and sisters, if you and I
want to gain positive thinking Islam starts with this notion of believing in Allah subhanho wa Taala
and have high hopes in Allah subhanaw taala and this gets into action when you and I know Allah,
when you and I know that Allah is our man. He is a Rahim he is a Latif, he is an Javier, he is the
one who is a Latif, he is the one who is Al Jabbar, he is the one who is accorded He is the one who
is another dude, he loves you, he has mercy for you. But you and I, perhaps in situations where we
get panic, and we don't know what to do, we can't even face those situations. And we start
		
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			complaining, not knowing full well that that thing, perhaps might be good for you, but you and I are
unaware, and that is where Allah Subhana Allah says in Surah Al Baqarah, that perhaps there might be
a thing which you like it, but that's not good for you. And there might be a thing which is, which
is good for you, which would you don't like it? So Allah knows you and I don't know. So rely on
Allah have good hopes in Allah subhanaw taala in all condition, at all situation. And that's the
number one powerful formula of positive thinking. That's number one, Islam, through Islam, we are
blessed with Subhan Allah the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, who also was extremely positive in
		
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			his entire lifestyle, he was so positive, so nice to his enemies, that we are not even, you know,
that level with our own beloved ones, with our own family members, the way he was positive with the
enemy. We're not even positive with our own family members, Allahu Akbar. So the need is to learn
the wisdom and the formula from the life of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who taught us
how to live positively how to think positively. So for example, Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
he said, think God of your you know of Allah number one, definitely, that has not done and have has
not done for your brother or your sister, or your family member, or anyone have good thinking at any
		
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			person. Subhana Allah and keep this thinking as a default, thinking, think good. If you think good,
you feel good. When you feel good, you do good, when you do good, you will even even speak good
insha Allah, Allah, He to Allah. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was the Rahmatullah
Allah mean, he was the mercy for the entire creation. So each
		
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			life, each facet of the life of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam actually reflects the positivity
throughout his life Subhan Allah, also through Islam, we are blessed with the Quran, which is the
most positive book in the entire world, la Akuma how much you and I should be connected with it.
When we know when we believe that this Quran is the most positive book in the world. Why? Because it
is the kalaam of Allah subhanho wa Taala it provides the positivity to the max to the level that you
and I can absolutely come out very well in performing positive thinking as well as live positive
living in sha Allah. So Quran is extremely important in our lives, my beloved brothers and sisters
		
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			and Islam as a whole. It's a total way of life, that that provides guidance. For our positive
living, you see Subhanallah I call it as daily doses of positive thinking. I call it us daily doses
of positive thinking. And this is something which we need to realize that the moment we get up the
positive morning, Allahu Akbar, the positive mining, it starts with Alhamdulillah Hilda de Yana
bioderma, a Montana y la in new shoot. It starts with that gratitude with it with with this
Thanksgiving with this powerful, you know, energy Subhanallah it starts with this positive vibe. So
it's a positive morning, and then we have a positive afternoon. We have a positive evening. We have
		
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			a positive night. So the whole day should be surrounded with the positive words that you speak my
beloved brothers and sisters. Let's take a moment
		
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			on this point up
		
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			What we utter cannot be taken back. be choosy. Be conscious of what you speak. Your One Word can
actually destroy and harm your and my relationship forever. Subhan Allah, so be choosy, be
selective. Be very clear with your words use positive words. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, he said, speak God or remain silent. Allah subhanho wa Taala says in the Quran, speak to the
people in the best possible manner, Allahu Akbar, you need to, you know, have that positive words
from your mouth, you need to have the positive feelings for others, feelings for others, you need to
have positive thoughts about others, you need to have positive actions, whatever you do must be
		
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			positive, not negative. It should be constructive, what you react how you react should also be
positive, because when we encounter any situation, we have two choices to react in a positive rate
or to react in a negative way. The choice is ours. The result for the positive is positive and
hamdulillah. The result of negativism is always destructive. And it will take us away from the mercy
of Allah subhanho wa Taala My beloved brothers and sisters, the way we need to formulate our day,
every single day should be it should be surrounded with the positive slogans Alhamdulillah La ilaha
illa Allah Subhan Allah Allahu Akbar La hawla wala quwata illa Billah these are the positive slogans
		
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			when you say Alhamdulillah you are praising Allah Subhana huhtala you're thanking Allah subhanaw
taala when you say la ilaha illa Allah, you're declaring that you and I are weak. Allah is the one
who is the powerful one. He takes you under his care when you select Hola, La quwata illa Billah you
submit your weaknesses, you acknowledge that you are not capable of controlling things you need, I
need the entire creation needs the help of Allah subhanaw taala and that will give you positive
energy, my beloved brothers and sisters, you need to have these slogans across and around the days
and these slogans, these positive positive slogans, it will program your mind to act two things to
		
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			do to speak to feel to experience that which is positive inshallah, I would like to end by
mentioning these and will basically take q&a inshallah some questions I'm sure you might be having,
I would like to, you know, share with you five B's, B, E, five B's to be positive, right. And this
could be a takeaway from the session insha Allah, number one, be a believer in Allah subhanho wa
Taala. And believe in yourself, Subhana Allah, when you are a believer in Allah subhanho wa Taala as
we already discussed, you will be on a very high position of optimism. And when you believe you're
yourself, meaning that you have your self worth, you have your self esteem, you have your self
		
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			respect, so you do not violate your integrity at the expense of others. And that doesn't mean that
you humiliate others that that's not what we mean. We mean that self worth you are valuable and you
feel that you're valuable. Well hamdulillah so believe in Allah subhanho wa Taala and believe in
yourself. That's number one, be grateful. So number one is be a believer in Allah subhanaw taala and
believe yourself. Number two, be grateful. Lots of resources in Chicago, Kim zedan accom. If you are
grateful, I will increase amazing, positive way of looking at things be appreciative for small or
big things in life. Say thanks to people, when you have that you will release the positive energy.
		
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			You think people who are who are arrogant people who are proud of their things and they they
celebrate their their pride or rosabella. They actually don't thank people much. So you need to be
grateful and you need to understand that you have to focus on the favors. You need to focus on the
blessings. Allah subhanaw taala says when doing amateur ly not the hoo ha. If you and I were to
count the blessings, we will never be able to count them. So the positive people be grateful. Number
two, number three, be patient. Right. If you are not patient, you can never be positive
		
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			Because positivity demands patience, as a prize for you and I to think to feel to say, to act and to
react as well. So be patient insha Allah because Allah will be with you in Allah ma Sabine, right,
be highly hopeful, meaning you need to have that high hopes in Allah subhanaw taala and also in the
people, you know, have good thinking as we said, Be good. You know, expect good from people from
hand Allah, not bad or not harm. And number five, be considerate. Be kind be forgiving me, you know,
excuse people, those people who have rough heart, they can never, ever be positive in thinking leave
aside living, leave aside living, they cannot be positive in thinking so Be positive, be
		
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			considerate. Be kind, be humble, you know, be merciful. Allah subhanho wa Taala will have mercy on
those who have mercy on others, Allah is kind to those who are kind to others, Allah helps those who
help others Subhan Allah, so you be considerate, so be a believer, be grateful, be patient, be
highly, you know hopeful and be considerate, when you have these bees inshallah, in your life, you
will be positive insha Allah and you need to also avoid five things and five kinds of people if you
want to be positive, because obviously, when we move on in our lives, we will definitely encounter
those people or those you know, activities or those traits that are negative, what are they caution
		
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			yourself, you need to have that alarm factor, when you see these qualities in you or in others just
move away distance yourself inshallah and number one is avoid envy and jealousy. This will ruin your
positivity. Remember this. Avoid envy and jealousy, this will rune violet, destroy your positivity.
So avoid, avoid ego This again is is something which is so negative in nature because pride belongs
to only Allah subhanho wa Taala not to the creation, right, we don't have anything to be proud of.
So avoid ego number three, avoid being judgmental, we know we are too hasty in our, you know, in our
decisions, we conclude things very quickly, anything that we see in our family, in our relation in
		
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			our jobs in our thing, you know our interactions, we want to conclude immediately don't do that.
avoid being judgmental, right don't conclude so quickly evaluate give time to time in sha Allah. So
and avoid hatred and enmity, this again is a spoiler of positivity. So it is these are things which
are which develops negativity and negative people. Also avoid three C's complaining, competition and
comparison, competition, comparison and complaining, avoid these qualities and avoid these kind of
people around you. If you and I want to be positive in our lives inshallah. In summary, my beloved
brothers and sisters busy yourself with positive thinking with positive things in your life, so much
		
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			so that, that your mind does not have any space for negativity or negative thoughts. We ask Allah
subhanho wa Taala to bring peace and ease in everybody's life. We know that we are facing and we are
going through a very disturbing times in different aspects of it. We ask a lot of galerija to ease
our situations and to help us and to give us strength and stability in the firmness in believing in
him. in all times at all situations in sha Allah, we ask Allah subhanaw taala to give us the ability
to deal with each other in a kind, respectful and been loving benevolent manner so that we can
uphold ties and relations inshallah We ask Allah subhanaw taala to join our hearts together for the
		
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			sake of Allah We ask Allah of will is to mend the relations of those people who are cut off because
of this negativity that comes from shaitan We ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to help
		
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			you know develop us in a way that is pleasing to Him. Help us to live in
		
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			in a way that is pleasing to Him, and help us to depart from this world which is pleasing to Him. We
ask Allah Subhana Allah to bless each one of us and have mercy on us and help us to be in the
highest levels of jhana witnessing the face of Allah subhanahu what's the island This is the
highest, you know, positive vision insha Allah being in the company of the Rasul of Allah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, and living those beautiful moments forever insha Allah, Allah Anna, and in hamdu
Lillahi Rabbil alameen
		
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			souhan Allah so Allah Jazakallah Harun Shaikh for such a wonderful and enlightening session. So one
Allah, the daily doses of positivity, I think inshallah, if you get connected to you on a regular
basis, we will get vaccinated and then daily doses will know would be required anymore. inshallah.
inshallah. Chef, we have few questions. So inshallah we'll start with the q&a session Bismillah
Bismillah. Okay. The first question
		
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			what to do, when you come to know that people are lying to you, and you're not brave enough to
directly ask them about it.
		
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			Right, in these situations, you need to understand Subhana Allah, we are living in a in a, in a
period in a time where we, the whole world, every one of us are, you know, into a fear of whiteness.
So you need to understand, I need to understand that there is a virus that is there, inside the
people, the virus of negativity, which is spreading across the virus of lying, the virus of envy,
the virus of hatred, the virus of ego, the virus of you, no jealousy, all these are existing viruses
since time immemorial, we need to be worried about this as well, and then take measures to deal with
it, the lying thing, you know, people who are who are lying in front of you, and you know that they
		
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			are lying, what you need to do is you need to keep the relations with those kinds of people in a
very subtle way, you know, kind of distance from those kinds of people don't totally cut off from
those people, but try to keep them on a silent mode, as we say, you know, when you don't want
disturbance in your, in your, you know, in your life through your mobile, what do you do, you don't
keep it, you know, on a profile mode, or you don't keep it on even on a vibration mode, you keep it
on a silent mode. So you keep those that those kinds of relations with silent, you don't switch off
the phone, this the similar way, you don't switch off the relationship with those people, but you
		
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			keep it on a silent mode. Why? Because Allah subhanho wa Taala he instructs us or you believe be
with those who are sardine, who are truthful, who are the person who are the people who speak the
truth, and they prevent and protect themselves from lying and Subhanallah lying is desperate or
deliberate lying, is one of the 70 major sins is in the list of 70 major sins, so you can counsel as
much as you can within your limits. But if you see that those boundaries that you can't actually,
you know, across and and, and counsel those people then the best way to put them in a silent mode
and move on in your life insha Allah
		
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			just follow her and shake. So that's where it is no configuration, but a silent mode Alhamdulillah
shake the next question is, can negative thinking lead to low self esteem? And how does one deal
with it? Right, the negativity it actually leads to low self esteem because what happens is when you
are not positive about yourself, when you don't value yourself, when you do not have your own self
worth, when you do not respect your integrity, when you do not have the you know momentum with
yourself when you do not love yourself, how do you think that you will be loved by others
Subhanallah so definitely this negativity it effects your total personality and self esteem is one
		
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			of the areas that it actually affects so Subhan Allah, that is the reason we say we are repeatedly
you know, reminded by Allah and His messenger to be positive to avoid negativity, you know, even
about yourself as I mentioned, be a believer in yourself, believe that you are a good person. Insha
Allah. Yes, you and I are we mistake we we commit sins we do this and that
		
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			We also repent sincerely to Allah subhanaw taala so no one has the right to judge me or you, you
know based on you know what they think so you cannot be defined by them you have to be defined by
Allah subhanho wa Taala. So that's where you actually try to raise up your own status not
humiliating or insulting or looking down upon people, rather you you know, increase your level your
status within yourself insha Allah and that's where a solution also lies that you need to respect
yourself, you need to love yourself, you need to give birth to yourself inshallah, and that is the
outcome of positivity. When you are a positive thinker. Obviously, you want to carry yourself in a
		
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			positive way inshallah and that's where you will give, you know, self esteem as well in sha Allah.
		
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			Just follow her and shape for that comprehensive answer. Brothers and sisters, please do post your
questions here in the chat. This is your time to pose the questions. We take the next question,
shake Can you please suggest some doula while trying to stay positive when going through tough times
in life?
		
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			The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he taught this and this is so powerful, it is so easy. Every
one of us knows. But it needs to be uttered in a way which is absolutely sincere with utmost
conviction with total submission, you just say la ilaha illa Allah. That's it. When you declare that
there is no ILA
		
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			other than Allah subhanaw taala you declare in you confessed, that all power belongs to Allah. Mercy
comes only from Allah forgiveness comes only from Allah majesty only for Allah pride only for Allah
subhanho wa Taala. When you repeatedly say this will lie in my beloved brothers and sisters, you
will experience the faith, the level of faith will increase, it empowers your energy and it gives
you that positive energy to live up to a status where a lot of belleza will be pleased with you. So
you can repeatedly say this La ilaha illa Allah La ilaha IL Allah, La ilaha illa Allah Subhana Allah
My beloved brothers and sisters, as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said, kulula ilaha
		
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			illa Allah tuifly who those who say la ilaha illa Allah, they are successful, they succeeded souhan
Allah so when Allah can give Jenna to you and me based on this La ilaha illa Allah, what are these
affairs? Allah in anyways take you out from these insha Allah so keep on saying La ilaha illa Allah
and at the same time you can also increase this application now How are quwata illa Billah has to be
Allahu nemid Joaquin in Allah Allah Cooley, Shane Padilla, you know these are the facts of a lot of
bellezza which are very powerful, they are magnificent and very powerful. It has that that that
power that magnitude it within it that it will take you out from any and every kind of situation
		
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			inshallah so these are the kicker which is so simple on our tongue and so powerful insha Allah, this
will help you out and help us all out in sha Allah is Allah to Allah.
		
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			Just have a Lutheran shake inshallah, we all will surely memorize those occur and make sure that we
repeatedly use them in our day to day lives, may request the brothers and sisters are posing the
questions to please also mentioned the country from where you are. So that will also eases to
further shape to answer the way
		
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			to put posters answer. Next question shake. What do I do for the staff who is so ill mannered, but
not even willing to change?
		
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			Right, so change is either in the hands of Allah subhanho wa Taala or within those people within us,
Allah subhanho wa Taala he says in the Quran, in Allah, Allah Yahweh Rama becoming hotter you are
forcing him Allah does not change the condition of the people or the person unless they are he
themselves change right. So the change has to begin within. And if you see after giving so many
options, and naseeha guidance advises that that person is not, you know, getting changed. The change
can actually happen with two ways and Subhanallah you
		
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			Islam has also prescribed this method, you know, Bashir on one of their own, right. So you have good
ways, which means you, you advise you counsel, and if that doesn't settle things right, then you
give warnings as well, disciplinary warnings, these warnings are also you know, helpful and in fact,
these warnings are for the betterment of the environment and for that person as well. Because
obviously, mannerism is something which is of high level in the sight of Allah subhanho wa Taala,
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said, you know, the heaviest thing on the scales on the
Day of Judgment is the good o'clock is the good character, and he said something so powerful, he
		
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			said the nearest to me and the nearest to me, he said, the nearest meaning will be near to Him, and
the dearest meaning the beloved one to me, will be the person on the Day of Judgment, who has good
character, so, mannerism is something which is so supreme SubhanAllah. So, when you tried all ways,
you know, advises, you know, start giving warnings as well. Even if after you know, after warnings,
that person is not getting settled, then as an employer, you have the right to you know, terminate
someone because you don't want to obviously, you know, spoil the entire office or the environment of
the office because of that one person Subhan Allah, so you need to take them out. And you know, keep
		
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			the the environment healthy, and and with full of mannerism, insha. Allah.
		
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			Joseph, allow her and share her share her next question
		
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			a sister from India, due to my negative thoughts, I'm not developing much interest in any activity,
how am I supposed to deal with it? Right, you need to understand this formula, learn to unlearn you
know, our mind as I said have 1000s of thoughts and perhaps 1000s of probably millions of thoughts
have already stored in our subconscious mind, you need to clean your mind, I need to clean my mind
in order to film something as I said, Our mind is an engine is a container, whatever you feed in, it
will will will will reflect in the similar fashion. So you and I have to sometimes and you know
learn to unlearn meaning you need to remove is accurate, those negative thoughts, those negative,
		
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			you know, pointers, and one of the key things you know why people cannot come out of negativity is
because they want to live in the past. This is something which will lie the soul disturbing to
positive thinking they want to live in the past. They don't want to live today. They don't want to
live for the future. They live for the past, they live in the past. So they keep things repeating.
Again and again. You know, you have done this to me you have done that to me five years back 10
years back two years back one day back. So this is a wireless will light this is a why is that is
actually capturing your mind and this is Satan's work. Totally, no doubt about it. This is Satan's
		
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			work. Don't be a victim. First and foremost. Ask a lot of his help. Allah says in the Quran in Surah
Al Baqarah. So number two, number 43 was the ino with Sabri was Salah, seek the help and support
from Allah through patience and prayer. These are the two tools given by Allah Almighty as a
prescription as a recipe to deal with any wires to deal with any problem to deal with any situation.
Southern Arizona Southern and solar and southern demands you throw out all that is stored
negatively, that is affecting you, you know, in your life and it is not a click of a game. No, it
doesn't happen just for you know of a second No, no, no, it cannot. It's unnatural. To for me to say
		
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			this and for you to do this. It's a process. So you pour in time and again again and again. Good
thoughts Good thinking positive, you know, thinking surround yourself with positive people,
constructive people who don't look down upon people who encourage and motivate, look out those
people who are the source of upliftment and not the source of downfall. So when you pour in a lot
of, you know, positive thoughts in your mind those negative thoughts which are stored, they will be
overpowered by the
		
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			Positive thoughts insha Allah and insha Allah, sooner or later you will feel better, you will feel
accomplished, you will have the sense of achievement because you took that one step of seeking the
help of Allah and you took the second step of acting on the way of Allah and you took the third step
that is cleansing, purifying your mind, you know when you are in a submissive state, and that's what
Allah wants. Muslim means, the one who submits to Allah subhanho wa Taala, the one who submits to
Allah is a pure person, his thoughts up your his intentions are pure, His heart is pure, his life is
pure, his speech is pure, his actions are pure and his total life is based on purity. Subhana Allah
		
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			and Allah loves purity. So you need to learn to unlearn meaning you will remove those negative
thoughts and as I said, the strategy is use slowly but surely pour in positive thoughts positive you
know, surround yourself with positive people. inshallah, I am sure and certain and believe in Allah
subhanho wa Taala he is the best source of help inshallah.
		
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			Joseph Aloha, and that was summed up in a beautiful I was dinuba somebody was Salah, just
		
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			the next question shapers. It's
		
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			with the current pandemic situation, how to deal with today's virus crisis, should we stay fearless
and be careful at the same time in terms of keeping precautions. So how to keep positivity in this
entire negative
		
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			panela you see, we all are in a state of fear and, and Subhanallah they should not be the reality
they should not be the actual state that we should be. We should fear only Allah subhanaw taala and,
and as we explained in our previous sessions, fearing Allah takes you closer to Allah, not distance,
you're away from Allah. It takes you closer to Allah. That's the beauty of the fear of Allah. We
should not feel anything and anyone in the world except Allah azza wa jal. Now, when it comes to
Corona virus covid 19 definitely it has disturbed the lives of millions of people, it actually took
up the lives of many beloved ones, may Allah subhanaw taala give them patience, and May Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala give all of us protection. As we know in Islam, we learned that every cure has a
hazard cure, every disease has a cure. So we know the cure lies in the hands of Allah and obviously
it will be discovered by the people. So until when when we find clarity in terms of having proper
medication, which can combat insha Allah by the will of Allah or Buddha is this wireless? Definitely
we need to take protection. At the same time. We don't have to believe in the interest in the
precaution. We don't have to trust in our mask. We don't have to have trust in our gloves or in our
you know, face shield. We have to trust Allah subhana wa Taala Why do we do this because it's a part
		
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			of a preparation because sometimes even after putting all protection even after wearing absolute
protection for a person might, you know, get into this virus Subhan Allah might be affected with the
with the Coronavirus, so we don't rely on the ASVAB we rely on a lot of Vanessa who provided that as
Bob. So we need to be you know a bit we need to be positive that insha Allah as a lot of malaria, he
says fine, number three, you throw at alongside with every hardship is what is the difficulties will
not last forever. The bounties will not last forever. The only one who will last forever is Allah
subhanho wa Taala rely on him. Live your life in a way that is that is you know with protection with
		
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			proper care. And at the same time, don't feel so much that your fear the fear of Corona at the at
the expense of the fear of Allah, not only Allah, so you should always keep the balance in life and
that will help us in sha Allah and as I said, we have to be also worried about the viruses of envy,
ego, enmity, hatred, jealousy, you know, pride and all those are viruses which are existing in our
lives and which we do not take measures of Subhan Allah and the wider society.
		
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			Should the widest have bigger, the widest of galana the widest of all these, you know things which
will eventually land up in helpfile SubhanAllah. So we need to think in that way and have that
broader as I said at the beginning of this webinar, our positive thinking does not limit here, we
have a bigger goal and we have a bigger thoughts, we have a bigger, you know, vision in sha Allah
and that is genital for those of Allah that is the way we need to think inshallah, one day or the
other we will overcome this, we ask Allah subhanaw taala to ease all situations.
		
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			JazakAllah Harun chefs,
		
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			indeed, may Allah subhanaw taala safeguard all of us from this virus and maybe take the right as
well. The next question here is
		
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			how to prevent ourselves from being a victim of the evil eye, which is a huge factor that brings
negativity, self esteem and depression. Absolutely. You know, Allah subhanho wa Taala has given us
Deen as I said, and with these Deen Allah subhanaw taala did not just show us what to do. But he
also through the life of the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam demonstrated practically how to do so as
scheffel Islam, even taymiyah He says, if you want to understand Islam, understand by two questions,
Muntarbhorn work a full time with whom you should worship that is Allah and how you should worship
that is through Rasul Allah salallahu alayhi salam meaning his way, right. So now, what we need to
		
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			realize and do is we need to be very, very clear in what we want to do in our lives and this is
something which has to be done in a in a positive way. And and we should always, you know, take
precautions when it comes to, you know, even I, we, the first precaution is obviously, the asker of
the morning and the evening. Many of us take it for granted, we don't do so. And after getting into
a problem then we realize and then we've tried to find the solution, we should we are living
actually a very react reactionary life, we the bulk of humor and living a very reactive life, we
need to live proactive life proactive life is what is prescribed in Islam, what is proactive, you
		
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			know, prescription, you have to number one, be in the care of Allah subhanaw taala through what
through the asker of the morning and the evening. And there are certain drugs that you can actually
you know, perform which are prescribed in the Quran, and the Sunnah, some of the prominent ones
being suitable Fatiha, the, the last two sutras pulled out there have been bill Philip and a nurse,
these are the sutras ayatul kursi, is a powerful way of protecting yourself, and few others do ours
which are prescribed by the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam, so through duar, you seek protection,
number one, from Allah subhanaw taala number two do not exhibit your things and your loved ones.
		
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			publicly, you know, we are living in a social media, where every now and then we want to show what
we have, we don't know that there might be someone who, who will definitely you know, look at an
evil eye, and that will, you know, collapse you Subhanallah So, we need to be very conscious, we
need to be very calculative
		
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			with whom we want to, you know, exhibit our beloved ones, and think so, try to, you know, keep your
things your life as private as possible. You know, unless it is there is a need to do so. So by
doing these two things, insha Allah, you will be protected and but one thing which I would like to
also remind is, even after sometimes making drawers and you know, doing all sorts of things we might
get into a situation of evil, I understand that this could be a test from Allah subhanaw taala, a
test for yourself, a test for your family, a test for your beloved once So, obviously, we have to
take our measures as prescribed by a lot of visa. And when we get into certain trials and tests, we
		
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			need to be patient as Professor Allahu alayhi wa sallam. He said strange is the matter. Amazing is
the matter of a believer, when he gets a blessing, he is grateful. And when he is into tough times,
he is patient and both the things is good for him. May Allah Allah is help us all help our family
help our children from being, you know, a victim of these evil eyes. Insha Allah
		
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			Joseph, allow her and share
		
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			For that comprehensive answer, may inshallah mela protect all of us from the evil light. Next
question shape is from a sister of she's from Kuwait.
		
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			The question is what to do if one's husband is the greatest criticized of the wife, the life field
still negative due to this? Right now definitely, you know as we say that you are defined or you can
be defined by the people whom you live with Subhan Allah, and these are the relations which are so
center sensitive in nature that you can't even you know, separate yourself, you are in a very tough
situation. So at the outset, I asked Allah subhanaw taala. To ease your matter, primarily the
assister what you need to do is as the as the Quran gives us the formula is the ability he doesn't
repel the bad or the evil with that, which is good, and a lot of laser gives a very, very powerful,
		
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			you know, outcome of this, he azzawajal a lot of malaria, he says, You when the enemy the enemy, you
will find that he will be turned into what into your close friend, love. So when you try to do good,
		
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			as opposed to evil, or when you face evil, or when you face critical criticism, when you do good
towards that bad, a lot of visa he promises that he will turn a person from an enemy to your close
friend. So this is one so you repel the bad with that, which is good. That's number one. Number two,
you need to understand why is he doing so?
		
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			Is he a victim of circumstances Is he a person who is
		
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			surrounded by such kind of people who are negative, who are critics in nature, that because there
are certain people who wants to just criticize, you know, with absolute clarity, clean thing, they
will try to find faults, and this is a sign of negativity, you know, for example, if I take a glass
of water, which is half half glass of water, the negative person will respond me What if I asked him
how much amount of glass of water is there, he will say the half glass is empty, but the positive
person will say, half glass of water is full. So it's about perspective, right? As I said, You are
what you think you are. So that kind of a person might be a victim of circumstances, maybe
		
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			surrounded by negative people, maybe surrounded by those people who are critics, maybe surrounded by
evil people perhaps we don't know Allah Allah knows best. So try to find an investigate what is the
cause of this negativism this critics? Why is it so is it something you know Subhan Allah, sometimes
it comes from the family itself, you know, because of the upbringing of such kind of people, they
exhibit the same character, you know, after marriage as well. And the most important the third tip,
which I would like to give is the most important is make to offer your husband make dua for your
husband. And the most powerful time to make dua is the last part of the night when Allah azza wa jal
		
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			comes to the lowest part of the heaven, and calls out Is there anyone to seek help, I will help does
anyone wants anything I will give. So make dad was a very powerful way it is a clear demonstration
of a person who is weak, would submit to the one with the most powerful one, so you can make dua the
hearts of the people are in the hands of law are in the fingers of Allah, he can change them any
moment. So number one, number one, repel the bad with that which is good. Number two, find out and
take certain measures so that he doesn't surround with such kind of people and three, make to our
insha Allah, Allah will help you as well as others who are in a similar situation.
		
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			I mean, I mean, he or she, may Allah ease the affair, I mean, shake this question. Is it a good
approach prescribed in Islam to stay with Sabra and sugar all through life consistently, despite the
situation we face? We're absolutely because this is a this is a formula which was pre practiced and
preached. This was the lifestyle which was practiced and preached. And as we see success stories of
those
		
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			in every field, in all fields put together the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we know
		
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			Christians appointed, assigned by Allah as an exemplary example, for all of us throughout our lives
until eternity, he practiced that. And he found results. He preached that and people found results.
So throughout our lives, definitely, this is a strategy that we need to have. And this is a way
forward. You know, if you don't, you know, have patience, what are you going to do, you will get
into depression, you will get, lose or lose hope you will get distressed you will be a victim of,
you know, anxiety, you will lose faith, you will lose relations, you will lose everything, if you
don't have sober minded, so, this is a practical, you know, quality that you and I have to obtain if
		
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			you want to live a positive life. Similarly, sugar, sugar increases in everything, as I said, like
in Chicago to La zedan accom. If you and I are grateful, Allah says Allah promises, he will increase
so Subhana Allah, we have to be you know, we're surrounded with with these two qualities all through
our lives in order to be positive inshallah, in our lives.
		
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			Joseph Allah, Harun Shaikh, may Allah grant a suburban Chicago to all of us army shaped the next
question is from a brother Tamilnadu in India,
		
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			tell me the issues involved two person who is threatening his family that is gonna die What to do, I
presume it is the case of
		
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			suicide or something like us is threatening that he will he will suicide, I think so. Tell me the
issues involved to person who is threatening his family that he is going
		
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			Seidel, you know, thoughts, it comes from shaitan, that person needs to be immediately consulted to
an expert, perhaps a counselor who can help him find out why these thoughts are coming into his
mind, he needs to immediately meet a person who has the knowledge of the dean, and also a little bit
of the dynamics of how psychology works. So if he is consulted, you know, inshallah, he'll be able
to diagnose, he'll be able to find out what problems are going through, you know, suicide,
committing suicide, Suhana lights, one of the major sins as well and Subhan Allah, this is done by
those people who are hopeless, those people who are depressed those people who live in anxiety and
		
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			who wants to remain in anxiety. And as I said, it has nothing to do with the material, you know,
thing, a person who might have riches who might have everything possible, still, he wants to commit
suicide, and we see a you know, in our, in the world today, where people commit suicide, although
they have so many things in their lives. So, this person has to be consulted to the expert. And as
an immediate, you know, step and two, it means he needs to be given positive outlook by the family
members, because the family is living day in and day out with that person. So that person should not
be left alone, inside the home because of these threats. Maybe out of his mind, he might commit that
		
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			which is not at all desirable in Islam. So you don't leave him alone. Immediately consult him to an
expert, who understands the dynamism of how to deal with such issues. And obviously, you can create,
perhaps it could be, you know, a spiritual issue, which can be, you know, catered and which can be
resolved through to us in sha Allah, we ask Allah subhanaw taala to help him and protect him and to
bring him out of this, you know, miserable position or situation insha Allah.
		
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			Armenia Malala mean, May,
		
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			May Allah guide him shaped generally when we talk in terms of positivity? How does one deal with
people who always respond negatively, to whatever positive ways you want to deal with them. So like
it, always negativity comes back to you. So how to deal in these kinds of situations, right, you
need to differentiate I mean, it's very relative actually speaking, you know, perhaps, maybe if the
person who is reacting and responding in this way is someone who is very close to you, meaning
you're your own parents or your own spouse, or your own children, or where you can't avoid to be
separated with them. You need to deal with these kinds of people differently than those people whom
		
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			you meet once and you know, a while where it's easy for you to you know, just keep the relation as I
said, on silent mode and let them live their lives and you will you will
		
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			Have your own life. So when it comes to your immediate family members who react in this way, you
need to make sure that, you know, you deal with it very sensible and in a very respectful manner,
because a lot of times what happens is, you know, when we deal with a problem, we hit the person,
you know, that should not be the way we hit the person. And as a result, we lose that person. So the
ideal way is you need to hit the problem, not to the person. So when you hit the problem, you're
talking about the quality that is disturbing in that person. And that quality can be changed in sha
Allah, that person can improve, that person can remove that quality or at least he can not behave in
		
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			this in that way, with you or with you with the closed ones in sha Allah. So, it is very relative to
deal with, you know, the family members and the outside people, the approach will always be the
same, where you fundamentally make dua to Allah subhanaw taala, and deal in a respectful manner,
especially when it comes to elders. And and, you know, we have to be really mindful and don't lose
hope in the mercy of Allah subhanho Donna while dealing with certain situations, you know, we all
are there to perform in this test test might differ, but test is there for sure. So, take it as a
test and you know, gain taqwa of Allah is that will help you to come out of any problem and issue in
		
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			life and, and keep on you know, monitoring those people because sometimes they might be negatively
by a situation or a circumstance, when you deal that situation, that circumstance, perhaps there is
a bad feeling about you, perhaps there is a negative or wrong image that is registered in their
minds because of which this reaction is coming. So try to you know, find out in a deeper way, dig
more details and see what's going on inside and you know, counseling is some of one of the powerful
mediums talk to people communicate with people, this is a very powerful way of you know,
establishing the ground or the foundations for positive thinking insha Allah and Allah knows best.
		
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			Just allow her in shaker shaker there is a last question which will take now
		
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			the question is from Kuwait, how to keep positivity during the time when your close relatives get
affected with this pandemic has this keeps you disturbed? Right, as I said, the formula remains the
same, whether it is your close relative or you yourself, you need to be patient, you need to be a
person who prays a lot of brianza to protect people or if they are already infected, then they need
to be cured, ask for the Cure from Allah subhanaw taala keep praying to Allah, Allah is there to
help and cure those people. And the most important thing is the positive people, they do have
problems a positive people, they do have challenges, the positive people may get into or will get
		
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			into trials and tests, the need is the positive people will take out the positive from that negative
how one of the key formula that we learn from the Quran. And the sooner as a whole from Islam is
that we have to think that maybe that person might get something more worsen than this pandemic, you
know, that would be very, very difficult or very, more, you know, a bad situation, you know, perhaps
this pandemic, he will come out of it or she will come out of it insha Allah by the will in the
mercy of Allah, but who knows, if he would have been affected by something which is so Chronicle,
so, you know,
		
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			deep down, which can actually risk the entire life for sure, then what was the situation so, you you
think that it may be just the lesser loss, when it compares to a bigger loss that might have
happened, but Alhamdulillah that didn't happen, only this happened, and inshallah what had happened
also will be removed by Allah subhanaw taala. So this is how you actually trigger your positive
mindset, you take the positive from the negative a person is in the pandemic, you think that this is
maybe lesser, maybe something more worst might have happened to him, if this was not happened. So
Alhamdulillah Allah gave him you know, this, you know, disease, and inshallah he will come out of
		
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			it. And that's how you actually need to move
		
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			On so as I said, Be a person a positive person is the one who moves on in his life. He doesn't stop
he doesn't restrict he doesn't you know lose hope he moves on and he finds alternatives and he keeps
on relying on nos
		
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			just follow her and she'll shake just one question has come in if you have time we can we take that
one last question here.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			The cousin's child inflicted by gin. How could he brought to positive track of good Aflac and cure
from evil? Towards a to learn how to wrestle because literally trapped from all sides, they resigned
in India.
		
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			cousin's child infected by Jin, how could he be brought? So as we said, you know, there is a Rukia
Sharia, the Rukia, the cure in sha Allah from the Sharia from the Quran as a lot of belleza he says,
one who knows the luminol qurani ma Hua Shiva, Maha Shiva, meaning the cure for the believer is
there for any any disease, any problem, the Quran is a cure for every one of us. So if a person is
affected by the jinn, he's possessed by the jinn afflicted by this pain, this trial, this test, he
has to be, you know, cured through the Koran, and according to the teachings of the Prophet
sallallahu, alayhi wasallam, you can't expect a person who is already infected, to perform something
		
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			which is desirable in Islam, you need to first as we say, you know, if you have a glass, which is
dirty, you can't pour in pure water in it, First, you need to remove the dirt from that class, and
then pour the water. So similarly, you need to deal with this problem first, and then preach to
people so that inshallah you will find results in a practical way. So, deal with the first problem,
which is the problem that he is inflicted in dealing with the Quran and the teachings of the Prophet
salallahu alaihe salam, don't lose hope. Make sure that you find the right way, the right
methodology of curing this by the will of Allah subhanho wa Taala by those people who are Motoki,
		
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			who are conscious of Allah, who are an expert in this field, and who are specialized in dealing with
these kind of problems. And then insha Allah, you can, you know, preach and you can advise, you can
give him the see her for the good o'clock in sha Allah. Again, we all are tested in different ways,
Subhan Allah, the way you are tested, are not tested, the way I'm tested, I'm being tested, you are
not tested. So we all are tested, for sure. So again, as we said, This life is a part of tests, all
these things are a part of and parcel of life, we need to be, be hopeful, insha Allah, and this is
just not words, mind you, my beloved brothers, and my beloved sisters. These are not words, these
		
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			are, you know, the language of insight, which comes from the faith based values that results in
springs from the Quran and the teachings of the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam so when we say be
hopeful, it's just not a word, there is a lot of action that needs and demands from you and meet for
Allah subhanho wa Taala. So, of course, things are not easy, life is difficult, it has full of
challenges, we need to deal it, deal with it, you know, in a very strong way and back it up with the
support of Allah subhanaw taala and inshallah you will be able to overcome with this or any such,
you know, problems or situations in sha Allah, we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala once again, to ease
		
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			the situation's of everyone and to grant peace in our lives and give us the highest level of Jannah
insha Allah that is the ultimate triumph. That is the ultimate position that we want to be in sha
Allah be vanilla he to Allah.
		
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			Just follow her and share for such a wonderful and enlightening session. This was a great a
wonderful topic,
		
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			how to keep positive and I'm sure all of us have taken notes of the five B's the three C's and how
to get a daily dose of positivity. Alhamdulillah chef, once again I need to I need to remind all of
us that how we need to be positive was the Ainu be Sabrina Salah. These are wonderful formulas which
you have shared with us today. That how to remain positive in our lives and maybe we all will have
differential
		
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			But how shall we deal with our challenges? It's that's important. And I'm sure all of us have
learned immensely from you, you have always benefited us. May Allah preserve you for the benefit of
Mr. Chef. I mean, I mean, and I'm falling short of prayers for you, Chef.
		
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			I'm sure all of us will surely keep you in our prayers so that we we keep receiving this
enlightening sessions from you, which will benefit us inshallah, in this world and a year after
amin, amin uribl aalameen.
		
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			Again, I would also like to thank the audience for being such a wonderful audience. May Allah always
keep the spirit of learning and seeking knowledge alive in all of us. May Allah increases in
knowledge Armenia aalameen
		
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			do keep following updates on the WhatsApp and inshallah we will all see you next week with another
interesting topic with our beloved chef Sheikh Mohammed. And I leave you in the care of Allah
subhanho wa Taala Jessa como la Heron barakallahu fique Armenia
		
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			a salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.