Ahmed Hamed – Raising RIGHTEOUS Children in Islam Made EASY

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The speaker discusses the importance of raising children as a source of happiness and how parents will be responsible for their children. They emphasize the need to treat children as blessings and not as pain. The speaker also mentions the potential consequences of missing children and how parents will be impacted in their lives.

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			We as parents will be accountable for our
		
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			children.
		
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			So obviously it is mandatory for us to
		
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			raise children who can be a blessing and
		
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			not pain inshallah in this dunya and akhirah.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is the one
		
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			who has blessed us with children.
		
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			Subhanallah we see among our families, friends and
		
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			even you know the outside people, we know
		
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			that there are many who do not have
		
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			children in their lives.
		
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			Subhanallah, the couples they do not have children.
		
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			Years pass by, 10 years, 15 years, they
		
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			don't have children and this is subhanallah from
		
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			Allah rabbul Izzah.
		
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			So Allah rabbul Izzah as he says he
		
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			gives children to you know some, he gives
		
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			you know sons to some, he gives daughters
		
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			to some and to some he doesn't give.
		
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			So everything is a part of test in
		
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			our lives.
		
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			So at the outset we need to know
		
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			why we need to raise you know children
		
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			because obviously children are a blessing for us
		
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			from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			So we need to treat with them and
		
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			deal with them as a blessing from Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			If it was not from the will of
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, we wouldn't be,
		
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			we wouldn't be having children in our lives.
		
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			So treat it as a blessing.
		
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			We as parents will be accountable for our
		
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			children.
		
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			So obviously it is mandatory for us to
		
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			raise children who can be a blessing and
		
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			not pain inshallah in this dunya and akhirah.
		
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			We also need to know that obviously children
		
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			are a means of happiness from Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala.
		
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			But many times if we do not care
		
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			well, if we don't, if we do not
		
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			you know upbring them well, many times they
		
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			actually become a big test for us.
		
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			Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam he said the person's
		
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			deeds, all the deeds you know all of
		
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			the things will be disconnected the moment he
		
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			dies except three and one of them he
		
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			said a righteous child, a righteous child who
		
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			prays for the parents.
		
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			So when we depart from this world it
		
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			is these children who will pray for us
		
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			and because of that after the mercy of
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala our darajat, our
		
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			levels in Jannah will be raised higher.