Ahmed Hamed – O My Son, I Advice You Allah Instructs You Concerning Your Children

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The speaker discusses the importance of advising children to gain the taqwa of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, which is a gift from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. The speaker emphasizes the importance of providing guidance and advice to children to avoid negative consequences and achieve peace and prosperity in their children's lives. The speaker also mentions the importance of inspiring children to become leaders and leaders in their own communities.

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			All praises belong to Allah
		
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			We praise him. We seek his help, his
		
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			assistance
		
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			in all our matters. We send peace and
		
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			blessings upon
		
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			our Habib, our beloved Prophet Muhammad, sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasalam,
		
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			upon his family, his companions, and upon all
		
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			those who follow him up until the last
		
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			day.
		
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			My brothers and sisters, welcome to Juma' Khutba
		
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			summary. The topic of today's Khutba in Dubai
		
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			is, Oh, my son,
		
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			I advise you.
		
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			SubhanAllah,
		
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			we know children
		
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			are blessing from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			They are the gift from Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala. They are the coolness of our eyes.
		
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			They are those
		
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			through whom we find
		
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			enjoyment,
		
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			pleasure and joy and happiness.
		
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			SubhanAllah,
		
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			we do not need to forget that they
		
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			are
		
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			an Amana as well. They are the trust
		
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			as well,
		
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			And this is the reason, SubhanAllah,
		
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			the Quran and Sunnah
		
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			have got so many advices
		
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			for us when it comes to our children.
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, he says in the
		
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			Quran,
		
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			you see kumullah
		
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			fee awwladiqum.
		
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			Allah Abu Izzah, He instructs
		
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			you
		
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			concerning your children.
		
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			SubhanAllah,
		
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			Allah Almighty,
		
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			he gave this gift of children,
		
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			and obviously, this gift is an Amanah, is
		
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			trust,
		
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			And this
		
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			trust, we will be accountable for. Therefore, we
		
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			need to understand
		
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			that we need to advise
		
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			and keep advising our children
		
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			for that which is good, for that which
		
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			prevents them
		
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			from any wrong
		
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			and evil. SubhanAllah.
		
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			The first thing, my brothers and sisters,
		
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			that we see throughout the Quran and the
		
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			Sunnah
		
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			regarding the advice to our children
		
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			is the advice of taqwa.
		
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			So you and I as parents, we need
		
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			to advise our children
		
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			to gain the taqwa of Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala, to be Allah conscious
		
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			because indeed when our children become
		
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			taqwa,
		
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			when when our children become, you know,
		
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			people of taqwa,
		
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			they will gain
		
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			real wisdom, they will gain
		
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			real pleasure, they will gain
		
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			real respect, they will gain real discipline, subhanAllah,
		
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			because the taqwa of Allah
		
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			it actually
		
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			makes
		
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			a mind
		
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			fully conscious of Allah, Subhanahu wa ta'ala. And
		
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			when a person
		
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			becomes conscious of Allah, he will follow the
		
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			commands of Allah, Subhanahu wa ta'ala. He'll obey
		
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			the orders of Allah. He will do what
		
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			Allah commands him to do. He will prevent
		
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			from that which Allah prohibits
		
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			him to do. So you and me, we
		
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			need to advise our children
		
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			for the taqwa of Allah to gain the
		
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			taqwa, the consciousness
		
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			of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. We see in
		
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			the Quran, you know, Luqman,
		
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			he said to his children,
		
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			You booniyah
		
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			la tushirk billah.
		
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			Oh my son, never, oh my children, never
		
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			ever associate partners
		
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			with Allah subhanahu ta'ala. That is the tawheed
		
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			of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. We need to
		
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			instill
		
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			pure
		
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			concept of God in our children. We need
		
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			to
		
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			help them develop
		
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			the consciousness of Allah
		
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			with clear
		
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			understanding
		
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			of who Allah Subhanahu Wa'ala is.
		
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			Mind you, my brothers and sisters, if we
		
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			are successful in connecting our children with Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, you will be the happiest
		
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			parent
		
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			on the face of the earth because this
		
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			is the task that Allah Almighty is going
		
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			to ask us and we will be accountable
		
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			for that that we have the trust from
		
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			Allah subhanahu ta'ala. So, my brothers and sisters,
		
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			there are plenty of advices that we find
		
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			in the Quran and in the Sunnah
		
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			regarding our children. The I the the the
		
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			idea is that we find the right timing,
		
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			the right way.
		
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			With compassion,
		
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			with mercy,
		
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			with wisdom, we need to keep advising
		
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			our children for that
		
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			which is good for that which helps them
		
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			to be successful
		
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			in this world and in the hereafter as
		
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			well. So we ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			to make us
		
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			among those who can be right
		
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			in terms of parents,
		
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			who can be
		
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			wise parents, who can be mindful
		
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			parents. My brothers and sisters indeed when we
		
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			gain taqwa of Allah,
		
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			we will become the role model for our
		
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			children to gain taqwa. Taqwa. So, we got
		
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			to do what we want our children,
		
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			you know, what we expect from our children
		
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			to do. Therefore, my brothers and sisters, we
		
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			need to keep advising
		
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			our children for that which is good Insha'Allah.
		
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			We need to help them,
		
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			advise them, counsel them, suggest them,
		
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			and keep doing that. Don't ever lose hope
		
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			in the mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			And Insha'Allah, we can find serenity peace
		
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			and coolness
		
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			in our children's life
		
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			we ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to make
		
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			us among those who
		
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			can follow the guidance of Allah and his
		
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			messenger. We ask Allah almighty to grant well-being
		
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			and goodness to his highness, Sheikh Mohammed bin
		
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			Zayed Al Nahyan, the president of the UAE.
		
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			We ask Allah
		
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			to bless all the rulers of the Emirates
		
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			and we ask Allah Almighty to grant
		
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			peace and prosperity to this beautiful nation, the
		
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			UAE and protect it from all kinds of
		
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			evils and harms. We ask Allah Almighty to
		
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			grant mercy on all the Muslim lands. We
		
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			ask Allah Almighty to grant
		
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			peace to all those who are suffering. We
		
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			ask Allah Almighty to grant guidance
		
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			to the entire humanity.