Ahmad Arshad – Discourse At Khanqah #21

Ahmad Arshad
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The speaker discusses the challenges of misusing tools and resources, which can lead to physical and mental health risk and failure. The misuse of the dunya tool is due to the lack of guidance and the ability to speak in a proper way. The practical use of the guide is to watch YouTube videos of how to use it, and the ultimate goal is to use the time that is available to us, with the importance of actualization. The practical use is to use it in a way that it is up to them, and the importance of the actualization of the use is to be able to use it in a way that it is up to us.
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Yesterday,

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Zenhub Center, we had

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a a big event, which was the of

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the Dorei Quran

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that had been ongoing for a while now.

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And one of the

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problems that we had to solve

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was the ability to stream

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from this masjid where the event was taking

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place

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to the rest of the world.

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And so

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we got a gadget first time.

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We got a gadget

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gadget and it was supposed to be, you

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know, it was supposed to work in a

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specific way.

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But know, the the doubt was there, the

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risk was there that it would fail.

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And so

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what really helped us was the manual that

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There were specific settings you had to do

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with.

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And, it

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worked because we followed the manual the way

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it was supposed to work.

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And so it turned to be a great

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blessing.

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Something that we had struggled within the past.

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Now

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it became a blessing for Allah

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Now if you look

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at this kind of problem solving,

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there is an even bigger problem that we

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have to solve,

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that we have been sent into this world

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for a very limited amount of time.

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And that we have to live on iman,

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we have die on iman, and we have

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to please Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Now, Allah ta'ala has given each and every

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one of us various various gadgets

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that we have limited control over.

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And we are supposed

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to use these gadgets, we're supposed to use

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these tools

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in order to achieve, in order to solve

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this problem of

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how do we actually please Allah

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and how do we actually make it to,

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to our graves,

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in the state of iman

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and in the state that

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we are

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and Allah is with us.

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So for example,

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has given all of us

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eyes to see.

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Has given us tongues to speak with, communicate

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with, Allah has given us ears to listen

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with,

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so on and so forth.

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Now if we

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don't look at

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the manual that came with all of these

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tools, it becomes very easy to misuse them.

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Just like with other gadget,

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you know, in our mind, you're supposed to

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do this and that, turn the batteries on

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and off, and

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But it turned out to be exactly the

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opposite. It was supposed to draw the energy

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from the phone and

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and only the manual told us that.

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Similarly,

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we become deluded that we own these tools

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that Allah has given us and that we

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can use them however we want to use

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them. And so for example, we will

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use our eyes to gaze upon anything that

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gives us pleasure.

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And it doesn't matter if it is halal.

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It doesn't matter if it is halal.

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We will look at people.

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We will look at things.

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We will look at this dunya.

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Anything that gives us pleasure, we will do

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it. This is what we call a misuse

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of this tool.

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Now the manual that Allah has given us

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and

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the actualization of this manual, even the Quran

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and the sunnah,

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tell us that the proper use, the real

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way that we use this so we can

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solve the problem

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is that we lower our gaze, we control

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our gaze,

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and we only look at things that we

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are supposed to. Otherwise,

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it is going to

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become detrimental to our

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own physical and spiritual existence.

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And so this is where

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the manual is necessary because if you don't

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have that,

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what what should stop us? Why should I

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not look at anything that I want to

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look at?

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Why should I not derive pleasure

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of this dunya that I find myself in?

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Why can't I look at any person that

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I want to?

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Why can't I look at anything on the

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Internet and phones and TV that I want

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to?

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So this is a person without guidance, without

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the manual. Same thing with, for example, our

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tongues.

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This ability to communicate is really what this

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differentiates

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us from the

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that we have the ability to

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acquire

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language and express ourselves in those languages.

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Now this tongue is there, the ability to

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speak is there.

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And if the manual is not there,

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what stops us

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from lying, not speaking the truth? What stops

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us from

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saying words and saying it in a tone

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that hurts other people?

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What stops us from slandering, just making things

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up about others?

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What stops us from doing backbiting? Right?

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Attacking other people's honors. I mean, it's the

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same thing.

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So again, the problem is that this is

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a misuse.

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And if the guidance, if the manual is

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there,

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now we realize, no, this is not how

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you're supposed to

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solve the issue. Otherwise,

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it is going to increase our risk of

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annihilating ourselves and risk of

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failing the test that we have been sent

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to

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do. So we use the same tongue to

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speak the truth,

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to read the Quran,

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to speak in a way that is, you

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know,

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proper, you know, proper manners and then etiquettes,

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not scream, not use words that hurt others.

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Right? So this is the proper use, so

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on and so forth.

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This is also true when it comes to

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our inner faculties.

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So Allah has given each and every one

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of us the spiritual call of the heart,

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which is part of Babur.

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That is the place that is the of

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this meaning the heart actually opens up and

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accepts certain truths.

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If it doesn't open up, if it remains

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closed, then

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it does not go beneath the superficial.

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It only looks at the and it makes

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certain assumptions about the world

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that we live

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in. Now the heart,

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we can

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say without any issue that it is a

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maqam

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of. It is a maqam of emotion.

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It is a maqam of attachment.

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It is a maqam of faith, iman,

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in certain things. Right?

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And so

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now the improper use would be that

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we fill this vessel that Allah has given

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us

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with the attachment with the dunya,

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the attachment

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with other people,

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with the attachment

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with, you know, our own desires. Right?

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Of people that, you know, we knows we

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know that we're not supposed to love,

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and things we know we don't have, you

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know, we're not supposed to love.

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Right? The love of attachment with the duniya.

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So the vessel is there, and this is

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a great misuse of that. And again, the

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problem will not be solved

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if the heart

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does

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or is not taken under control.

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Because Allah

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looks at this heart.

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And on the

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it will be opened up

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for everybody to witness.

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Looks at this because this is the primary

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faculty

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that is

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there.

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The heart that has been properly used.

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And so if you're putting some effort,

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iman, the nur of iman can be enlightened

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in it.

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Little bit of effort is required.

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If we put some effort, we can feel

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the fire of of ish

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of Allah

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because we can't how do you love someone

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that you can't see, you can't hear,

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you cannot feel

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feel in terms of our 5 senses?

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How do you love someone?

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So this is something that we have ignored

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that it is with our with our inner

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intuition.

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What is known

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as

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that

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that

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is

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realized, is actualized.

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And so you don't need to see Allah

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to love him. You don't need to hear

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Allah

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to love him. You don't need to use

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any of your 5 senses to be able

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to love

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him. If the

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if the spiritual heart is properly used,

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it's it's up to us. The guide is

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there.

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The practical way of using the guide, I

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actually have

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to go and look at YouTube video of

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how to use the gadget yesterday.

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So that's the practical because somebody showed this

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is what you do. And so it's so

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amazing

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that sometimes,

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if it is not clear to us, you

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know, what the Quran demands from us, very

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easy.

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Look at the beautiful life of Rasoolullah

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He has made

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it

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so easy.

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He had made it so

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easy

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to understand

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and to realize,

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you know, how to use this.

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Now it's up to us because the name

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will be taken away from us. Eventually,

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a time will come that one after another,

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they will weaken.

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And when all the name are taken away,

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this is what we call.

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And so we are we are we are

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walking towards that. We

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are moving towards that specific,

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and nothing can stop

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Nothing can stop.

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So it is important that we utilize these

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times just like Ramadan

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and

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and ask ourselves that, okay. So these gadgets,

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these tools are here. How am I using

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them?

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Am I using them to solve the problem

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that I find myself in?

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Or am I just using them frivolously and

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just wasting my time and wasting all my

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energies and

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and and just using them in a way

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that they will become witnesses against.

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So, inshallah, we ask Allah

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that in this blessed month of Ramadan and

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now

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that we are entering the last,

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the last 10 days of Ramadan.

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A chance of getting ourselves

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emancipated

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from from the fire, whether it is the

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fire of our own desires,

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whether it is the fire of our own

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sins, whether it is the fire of punishment

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in dunya, in Tabar, on Hashem,

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or whether it is the fire of Jahannam.

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It could be not. Allah

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has just

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put this incredible

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sail

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on.

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This incredible sail just started.

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You know, the nights are very valuable, you

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know, especially the dark or what we call

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the odd nights. Any one of them can

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be

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the night of Leilatul Qadr.

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And so it is up to us.

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It is up to us how we realize

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them and what we do with them.

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And I can guarantee you this, that if

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you tire yourself

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within a day, all that

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all that, you know, fatigue will be gone

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within one day.

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Actually, on the day of Eid, you will

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forget that, you know, you were tired in

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the last 10 days.

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But the reward,

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the of whatever you do will remain.

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And who knows, maybe one of these nights

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is what we actually needed

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to solve the issue

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of going into a with

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and make it easy.

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