Adnan Rajeh – Jumuah 27-09-2024

Adnan Rajeh
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The speaker discusses the importance of showing gratitude to God for the ease of eating and drinking. They also mention the importance of showing gratitude to God for the blessings and opportunities that come with it. The speaker emphasizes the need to show gratitude to God for the opportunities and opportunities that come with it.
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The Prophet ﷺ would say before food and

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afterwards and I narrate two hadiths for you

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inshallah quickly.

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It's an authentic chain of narration for this

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hadith, it's in the Jamia al-Tirmidhi and

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other books as well, the Tuhfa and others,

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and it's narrated to us by Umar ibn

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Abi Salama.

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Umar ibn Abi Salama is one of the

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sahaba who grew up as a child in

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the Prophet ﷺ's homes because he lived with

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Umm Salama and he was a child.

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The Prophet ﷺ altogether had 18 children in

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his house living, most of them were not

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his.

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18 children were taken care of within the

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house and I've shared the names and the

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numbers before in other sessions.

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So Umar ibn Abi Salama is one of

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them, he grows up in the house of

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the Prophet ﷺ, so he tells us this

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story, he said he entered the house once

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and the Prophet ﷺ had food on the

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ground, so the Prophet ﷺ called him, come

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close, say Bismillah, وَكُلُ الْبِيَمِينِ can eat with

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your right hand, وَكُلُ الْمِمَّا يَلِي can eat

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from that which is closest to you in

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the plate.

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And this is the adab the Prophet ﷺ

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followed and the way he ate, and this

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is the adab he taught the children in

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his home to eat by ﷺ.

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It's an adab that we have to teach

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our children to have as well.

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Sometimes because we don't eat in collective plates

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where we're all kind of putting our hands

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in, we're eating in our own bowls, it

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doesn't really change that much when it comes

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to scooping for yourself.

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So the same adab applies.

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So you scoop from that which is closest

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to you within the container that you're taking

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the food out, and you eat what is

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proportionate for yourself in terms of the number

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of people around you.

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So you have to look how people are

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actually coming through the food, how much food

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there is, and then a quick mathematical calculation

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in your mind, you can figure out how

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much of this food is actually your portion,

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and then you take that much and you

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take it from the closest part of the

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container and put it in your own bowl,

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and then your plate, you make sure that

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the food is closest to you on the

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plate.

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And this is the adab of the Prophet

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ﷺ.

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He taught them to eat with their right

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hands, and to talk about the right hand

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piece.

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I'll leave it for a different session insha

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'Allah ta'ala.

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The second hadith I want to narrate for

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you insha'Allah quickly.

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He says ﷺ indeed, and this is a

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hadith also narrated in the collection of Imam

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Muslim, that indeed Allah ﷻ will be satisfied

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with His servant, that His servant eats a

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food that they like, and they say and

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then they show gratitude to Him for it.

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Or drink a drink that they like and

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they show gratitude to Allah ﷻ for it.

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Meaning it's not that complicated to please Allah

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ﷻ within your life.

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It's not that complicated.

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He grants you the blessing of food and

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the blessing of drink.

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Eat it and enjoy.

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Just make sure you show hamd and shukr

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at the end of it to Him ﷻ.

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If you do that, then He is pleased

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with you.

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He will be pleased with you just remembering

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that what you just ate was a gift,

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granted to you by Allah ﷻ.

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And inside your heart you feel gratitude to

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Him ﷻ for what you just ate.

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That's the simplicity of this act.

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It's very simple.

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You eat the food.

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الحمد لك يا رب.

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Thank you.

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الحمد.

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الحمد لله الذي طعمنا وسقانا من غير حول

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منا ولا قوة.

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And other narrations.

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الحمد لله حمداً كثيراً طيباً مباركاً فيه غير

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مودع ولا مستغنى عنه ربنا.

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There's all these different things you can say.

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You can just say الحمد لله to Allah

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ﷻ more than enough.

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But this hadith is saying, إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَيَرْضَ

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This will please Allah ﷻ.

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Indeed it will please Him.

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He's not looking for anything heroic.

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He doesn't need acrobatics.

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Just when you eat the food and you

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drink the drink, just remember to turn to

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Him and say الحمد يا رب that you

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granted me this.

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And to remember that it's a gift and

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a bounty that was given to you by

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Allah ﷻ.

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And if you do that then you're good.

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It doesn't have to be complicated and it's

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not actually designed to be complicated.

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But when we forget the basics, the simple

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things, the daily stuff, the issues that are

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ongoing occurrences, then that's a problem.

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But it's very...

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Another scholar would recite this, Hayyam Nawi.

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He said, ما أسهل أن يرضى ربنا How

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easy it is for our Lord to be

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pleased.

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فقال فله الحمد على سهولة مرضاته So we

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are grateful to Him that pleasing Him is

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easy.

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Because He could have made pleasing Himself difficult

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and then it would be harder for us

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to do so.

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But He made pleasing Him easy for us.

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So we are grateful also for the fact

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that He made pleasing Him easy to us.

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Just eat the food and drink the drink

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and show some gratitude at the end of

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it.

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And that will please Allah ﷻ.

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And I think there's a beautiful adab within

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that.

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يروي الإمام التلمذي في جامعه بسند صحيح عن

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أنس ابن مالك رضي الله عنه قال قال

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رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم إِنَّ

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اللَّهَ لَيَرْضَى مِنَ الْعَبْدِ أَنْ يَأْكُلَ الْأَكْلَةَ فَيَحْمَدَهُ

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عَلَيْهَا أَوْ يَشْرَبَ الشَّرْبَةَ فَيَحْمَدَهُ عَلَيْهَا

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