Adnan Rajeh – Issues of Marriage #04

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Allah say Ed Mola Rasulillah while early or soft me Illinois welcome Coolio how many I saw like the
night is the night of Jomar I suppose didn't do much but like on this night and the sun is to
increase your solar upon the Prophet alayhi salatu salam and all good deeds. Yahweh. Imam deline.
yootheme was Nettie. He said I didn't hasn't and sad even though your costs are the Allahu Anhu God,
the Hadith tonight is in the collection at United daddy me and it had the reasonable chain of
narration and this hadith has similar narrations and bigger collections. I chose this one
		

			specifically, just because of has a story attached to it that it's nice to tell.
		

			But there are similar Hadith in larger collections and have higher degrees of authenticity. This
hadith has a reasonable chain of donation, and it's it is safe for me to narrate to you and it's
ready to us by sad even annual cost and he says this column Makana mean Emory Earth mine up Nima
Verona my kinda mean Turkey Nisa, Bertha la Rasulullah he said Allah Allah you only will send them.
So the way he phrased this setting aside the way he phrases it saying, when what happened with earth
not him all happened regarding his issue with women. So phrasing it that way means that not only did
the man do something that was out of the norm, but it became well known when he became a controversy
		

			people started talking about it that might have been my own did something and was not even my own
did is that he decided that he was not going to get married. He was not going to let's say he's
going to be is going to practice full celibacy.
		

			That's what it was might have been the own did not mind him alone is a very well known Sahabi he's
an early Mechi so Harvey who underwent a lot of persecution with the Prophet It is thought to me
just a humble person it didn't it didn't make a lot of noise so the name is not as well known. But
for those who study His life on his side I don't know what happened Mona is a very highly ranked for
hobby. So he made this choice of not wanting to be married anymore. He was he was doing getting to
divorce his wife and no longer get married. So the proper audience awesome sent to him. A message
bottom yeah with man.
		

			Are they better? uncertainity for any automobile? robinia Oh, this man. I was not commanded to
practice full celibacy. Have you turned your back to my sunnah to my way? Sunday. I mean, he says,
assume that God is so he's talking his way of life, his legacy the way he lives. This is something
that's really what he's saying is that he started with it's not just small actions, that no it's his
way of thought and way of life out of your thoughts and he wanted people to adopt that. So he's
asked me, man, did you have someone else that you're following? Now? I was not commanded to live a
little Habana yet. Full celibacy. Like I don't know I'm not turning my back on what you're you're
		

			teaching or teachings. But God I don't use the AutoSum for in them insanity.
		

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			we'll assume what I'm what I'm what upper lip for Mareeba and Suniti. For a 70 year old man in the
Neff Seca. I like a hardcore while he Lika Lika hochkar. So he said that I thought was my son. Now
if you're not turning your back on it, my way of life is that I sleep at night and I pray at night.
Some I divide my night or some nights I do this and Sunday to do that. My way of life is some days I
fast and sometimes I eat. My way of life is I get married, and sometimes I don't get along. And he
never, he never actually divorced a woman on his toes. But he said marriage and divorce is a part of
life. That's my way from a rocky mountain sanity for a second and if you decide that my way of life
		

			is not good for you, then you can consider yourself a part of my own my own multi AMA, you can't
come in demand the intersection and demand to be treated because you won't if you don't live the way
I live
		

			or if man indeed your neffs has a right upon you. Meaning your biology your instincts and who you
are as a person which are made up you have to respect that you have to respect who you are humanity
we got teacher got treat yourself as if you're in non human.
		

			This happens when you when you pursue a closeness with Allah Subhanallah you start feeling that
maybe I shouldn't actually completely ignore all of these humane practices of lust and greed and the
need to eat and to drink. You start feeling maybe these are below me I have to have to focus on
something bigger and the Prophet I saw Sam was the closest of us to Allah He did not neglect that
piece of his life.
		

			Your Nest has a hot cup and he has a right upon you and your family has a right upon him as well and
you have to make sure that everything is treated with that proper balance for you see Musa yakun
this is this is why I'm telling you this hadith specifically because there's another one that's more
authentic by love this piece is what science is all about. So my side side sport by Mr. Dijon,
unanimously Mina I know another suit Allah
		

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			that there was a group of men in the Sahaba that had sworn that the Prophet alayhi salaatu wa salaam
left with man with what if man just decided to do that they will all go and neuter themselves and
make and swear themselves to celibacy.
		

			They're sworn to it, the prophet Allah is awesome, I'm sorry, this man saying I will not get
married, I will not. And he said, That's okay, that they were going to neuter themselves and get rid
of this old problem. But he didn't. So they couldn't. And, and this struggle is interesting. Now,
I'm not going to waste your time because it's a long philosophical discussion. But it's an
interesting thing, that the Sahaba thought about this, because they, they were looking for a way so
that they would not be distracted from the relationship with Allah subhana, WA, tada. They were
looking for a way to get rid of distractions, because they found the beauty, the sweet nectar of
		

			being in the presence of Allah subhana wa, tada in the presence, they found it beautiful. And they
found that this part of life takes you away from it. So he started thinking maybe we get rid of this
whole piece, I don't need it. I don't eat, just snip them off. And we're done. I don't have to deal
with this problem anymore. I have to think about it and have to pursue it. And it doesn't have to be
there. But the profit is awesome. refused. He refused. No, you're going to continue. This is how
life is going to be. And they had sworn that the profit made that this is you'll see that they were
going to make a very harsh decision upon themselves. But the profit at least on did not. And I
		

			always thought that was interesting that they thought that way. But the theme that I telling you
this Hadith from is from the marriage issues of marriage, it's important that your sides don't
refuse to allow the Sahaba to decide that they weren't gonna get married. I mean, if one of those
Sahaba said, I'm not gonna get married the proper eyes on why? Why are you get married? You don't
want to be like me, what you're better than me. You're better than this way of life. My way of life
is you go into your personal marriage go pursue marriage. So he pushed him out of his slots with me
refused for anyone to say otherwise. And those who did he he made it an issue of legacy, a major
		

			issue of way of life. He didn't say you didn't sit down to argue with them details don't know why,
why say no to marriage altogether? No, that's not my way. My way is you get married to go look for
it. And he refused to go into details of it. And I think that's just a very important piece that we
have to respect that as Muslims, that this is a prophetic obligation in the prophetic right to make
sure that people who are pursuing marriage that you can find it with some degree of ease your way
the man would tell me your theme was steady he said and then Hassan and sad interview of Pastor of
the Allah why no pun? la macchina man me Earth man of name of own mankind. I mean enteric in ni se
		

			basa Ilya Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a five year old man in Neelam Omar beautiful
Hibernia out of him Dan Suniti Takala for Carlos en Allahu alayhi wa salam ala in lemon so Nettie
and also Leo Anna will assume our Aton won't get a lot. From Rafi Baron Suniti Felice. I'm in New
York with man in the name of Seeker I Lika Hapa when he Liga Aliko hubco a fool for oxymorons man
can only journal Mila Mussolini and LG moto I don't know rasool Allah he's some Allah hottie who
early he was a limit in who was a congressman I mocked up and you have to wait a bit to sort of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam said Allah Allah, Allah,
		

			Allah, Muhammad, why don't