Abu Usamah At-Thahabi – The Islamic Personality – Episode 10
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The Hadith term for evil behavior is discussed, including the rise of the Muslim culture and the use of negative language. The importance of being quiet about one's behavior and avoiding negative comments is emphasized, as well as the need for people to show their behavior and avoid false assumptions. The transcript is not a conversation about a specific date or time. The call is being recorded for quality assurance purposes and the customer is on hold.
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Today's Hadith whenI as it relates to the
class that we're dealing with the characteristics of the Muslim man and the Muslim woman. We've dealt with a number of them today we come to the hadith of Abdullah ibn Irma. May Allah be pleased with both of them tremendous Hadith.
dealing with an issue that is in reality, a disgrace, and it's a sickness. And unfortunately, in some of our cultures is part of the culture. So people have to be worried. They have to be on point when you marry into certain cultures. This thing is in the culture of the people, they cultivate their children on this stuff.
Abdullah I mean they're not may Allah be pleased with both of them said they be heard the Prophet say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. It is not permissible to have has said to be jealous or envious, to be a hater.
It's not permissible to be a hater.
It's not permissible to have envy and jealousy.
Except in two situations. The first one is a man that Allah azza wa jal has given him money.
And he uses that money in the right way, spins it in the hop, and not in the bottom. So he takes care of his immediate family, his extended family takes care of his friends, his us hub, takes care of his neighbors, takes care of his relatives takes care of those people who have a heart upon him from the Muslims. He spends that money in the hack. As for the one who spends the money in Bothell, then you can have hasit for him.
Can have has it? Because he spent his money on those things that are from the dunya and the glitter of the dunya. So that's first person who can be jealous of an envious of the second person is the man who Allah azza wa jal has given him money. Or he has given that man and hikma. He mentioned al hikma and then heck my hair means knowledge. Allah gave him knowledge. And he judges based upon that knowledge. And he teaches the people that knowledge. These are the two times where you can be
jealous. And reality, honey, a few issues about this. And the vast majority of us that I see here, we're not Arabs. But this word of hasit in this word of the word of jealousy, and envy is a word that we've heard many times, and this should be in our mind, and inside of our understanding of this religion
has said, envy is the sickness and the disgrace that people have where if Allah azza wa jal blessed someone with something, he's not happy, she's not happy. He's not happy with the Tozier of Allah, the seam of Allah, the tidbit of Allah. But Allah Allah xuejun The heck mama Allah.
That person is not pleased with the fact that Allah has given his distribution of whatever it is to this person he doesn't like
It is the cabal of Allah, Allah judge that Allah made that the case he's not happy with that.
He is not happy with Eliza Jones wisdom Allah gives, and he doesn't give according to wisdom, not according to the desires of the people.
So the one who was envious when he sees that Allah has blessed someone with something, he wants that thing to disappear to be destroyed by hook or crook. He doesn't necessarily have to get it. If he gets it, he'll be happy, but that's not his main golden objective. Her main goal and her main objective is so that the other person doesn't have it.
That's Al Asad. And as I said, it's a disease. The Prophet says Allah Allahu alayhi wa, it was sending them back in a comb, the human milk publico album, who will have said,
nah Ha, will lie. Al Khalifa, la Kulu al Halle cullity. Local shower, when I can now have al halachot to let him try the coup Dean. He said the disease of the people who came before you and who keytab that disease has come and is with you people.
He said that diseases that you hate one another, you have a bug but you hate each other. You hate each other with a passion because of your different groups. You're different Gemma and there's a hatred that exists between the Muslims. That is real sad.
I mean, real hatred. People hate you if you're from annual Hadith. People hate you if you're a person who you want to be on the Sunnah, even with inside of another Hadith and people, the Sunnah. There's just serious sickness of hatred that people have Muslims. He said hatred of one another, as well as envy of one another. He said, Verily the both of them, they are the reason you said not the reason that cuts your hair, shaves your hair. He said the reason they shaved your deen.
So the one who hates Muslims, and he hates him because of his desire and his Hawa, then that is a problem in his dealing with his Dean, and the one who has envy of someone, then she is being envious at the expense of her Dean. So it's permissible to have her set in two situations. And in reality, we call it an asset because the profit code that has it Salallahu it will send them but there's another word and that is the word looked up and hooked up. It means the permissible has said so has
it is haram, except in two situations that this hadith mentioned. But it is permissible in these two situations. And it is called the HIPAA, HIPAA. And that is when a person sees that Allah has blessed someone with a NEMA. He doesn't wish that that NEMA will be taken away and disappear from that person. He or she says, Oh, if I had money, the way they had money, I would spend the with the way they're spending. If I had knowledge, the way he had knowledge and she had knowledge, I will give
down with that knowledge and that Hickman so forth and so on. This is called Lip Balm. So the Prophet mentioned sell a lot he was selling them that reptile has it is only permissible in these two situations. But he gave these two situations as examples. There are other things you have the lip the in, as long as it's good. That brother is in the first row all the time you say Man, I wish Allah gave me that Allah Wilhelma high determination to be in the front row like him. So it can be
in other issues. The man who Allah gave him a nice voice in the recitation of the Quran, the person says, I wish I can read the Quran like that, because if I could read the Quran like that, I would pray pm lay and I will read and I will do this and I will teach it and so forth and so on. These are the only situations that is permissible for someone to have has said against other people. The tremendous scholar of Islam from the tab here in Mohammed bin serine Rahmatullahi Allah He said, I
never had envy and jealousy for anyone concerned in something in the dunya Maya has said to harden, the Amrit dunya. I never had any jealousy or envy acid for anyone in the dunya if it was something about the dunya you said because
If he's a person who was going to be from the Jana, why would I be jealous of him? And he's going to the Jana. And if he's a person who's going to the hellfire, why would I be jealous of him and he's going to the hellfire.
This is a serious disease that many people have. We have it in the dean. We have it in a dunya. There are people who if his Mejlis as you can see the measures how many people in the majilis he has envy and jealousy because there are more people attending this class, then his class. He's given the hubbub. People are envious, and they say Why him? And why not meet?
People on the internet, they get over 100 200 300 hits 300 hits. Some of these do art in English, for example, the other person like me, he gets 2000 3000 He says, Oh, why you get 300,000? I only get 2000 and sometimes 500.
No, you can't be envious of people like that. It's not permissible is from the major sins and Ellis lamb from the major sins. Elijah General mentioned about himself and many ayat of the Quran. Delica Fabul, Allah He, you t he manga shed, that is the father of Allah. Allah gives it to whoever he wants to give it to. You don't have children. He gave him 10 children. You gave that one over there. seven sons gave that one over there. 12 children gave that one over there gave him gave him gave him
that person who doesn't get that he says Why, why? And he has envy of a person who he shares his blood. His brother, his sister, his cousin, sisters have envy towards the assist as it relates to the nieces and the nephews. It is in our culture, some of the culture of the people in this city. I've seen it with my own eyes experience is part of how people are being raised up and cultivated. The Muslim is not like that. Paul Allahumma manically milk to come in to share with 10s Remove
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Allah sake, Oh Allah, you are the one who gives the kingdom. You give it to whoever you want to give it to. And you take it away from whoever you want to take it away from what to zoom into shear over to the lumen t shirt, bat can hire in a colloquially Shing Kadir, you make Aziz honorable, strong, powerful, mighty important. You make whoever you want to make that way. And you subjugate and you make low, whoever you want to make low, and your hands and both of his hands are right hands, and
both of his hands. We established them and we believe them. And your hands is all a good and you are capable of doing all things to lead you Leila finna hottie were to lead you Nahata fillet were to create you hate your men and mate. We're talking ritual making it a minute. Hey, we're Tara Zuko mentor Shah will be ready. He said, You cause the night to turn into the day. And you cause the day to turn into the night. And you give your risk to whoever you want to give it to. So some of these
people like the richest man in the world, three, four or five richest people in the world, 10 of them the word how much is not in their vocabulary. These people own islands, islands. They own islands all over the world. They want to go vacation, they go out there to the Fiji Islands and they have an island for themselves and their families, private jets and they live in large. Allah didn't give it give us that. But there is hikma and the fact that Allah gave them what he gave them and
didn't give you what you didn't receive. So the Muslim is individuals going to have suburb. I told you last week and the class about the characteristic that the Muslim has to look for excuses for his brother and his sister. We have to look for excuses. The brother every time he calls his wife. She never answers the phone. And it's important when he's trying to get in touch with her. It is important, but he can rest assure 100% of the time. Whenever he calls. She doesn't answer the phone
and he becomes enraged and upset because it's always happening. He asked to look for excuses for his wife. She has children. She may be sick, she may be sleep. She may be reading the Quran. So instead of expending all of that negative energy, just give the person an excuse.
we mentioned last week that the one hole has envy. The highest said he won't give excuses. The one who was envious and jealous, the hater. He's going to look for your mistakes. He's going to create mistakes he'll lie on you. Take your words and give them the worst possible meanings I want to remind you for people start with h you guys got to be careful of them. We all have to be careful. Hi, I said the one who was jealous, envious. Number two, the Hackett the one who was spiteful
spiteful. Number three, the hypocrite the monad fit
the monad fit. And number four, the his be the one who was with his group, his Jamar his Jamaat, the one who looks at things through the prism of his group, his medhelp his shift his masjid,
we want to add two more H's and that is the hater. And the hate is part of the high school and also the high daddy. You have to be wary of the daddy as well. The head daddy, those are the cousins of the problem those H those H's Be careful. And I'll hire CDs from them and has it and has is a major muscular acquiring and a major sin in the deen of Allah azza wa jal for many, many reasons, for many reasons. Number one, has it is a problem because as the marvelous lamb said, it is because of envy
that Allah azza wa jal was first disobeyed
by His creation, and the first one to do that was a bliss himself. When Allah Huhtala asked him, Why did you not pass straight to the one who I created with my own hands? My own two hands. A bleed said You created me from fire and you created him from dirt. Allah azza wa jal created Adam with his own two hands, so that makes her I'm above a bliss and the melodica Allah subhanho wa Taala Adam ismat Kula, He taught Adam the names of everything in in teach that to a bliss. Allah subhanho wa Taala
told them and I take a bow down to eat bad down to add them for sogetsu Illa a breeze.
All of them bow down except a bliss who's in their company, Allah azza wa jal cause, add them to live in the Jana. A bliss wasn't living in an agenda. Because of these things. A bliss became upset. He became jealous and envious,
became jealous and envious. That's the bliss. That's the bliss also from the bad people that Allah created, or from the bad situations that people show this problem of envy and it was at the beginning, as with Adams sons, Adam son, one of the sons, his envy pushed him to kill his own brother killed his own brother, because of envy you you listen to that, you listen to that, there are people who are prone and they will kill their own relative When innocent person because of an
hazard big mosquito.
Also, which shows us the seriousness of hazard meanings situations is Benny in Surah, el bene Surah, eel Benissa eel, Benny extra Eli, the sons of Yaqoob Yosef and his brothers Binyamin and the rest of them Salawat to Allah He was sin mo Annie Jemaine, the brothers of Yusuf and Binyamin they made all of that drama they made all of those problems because of jealousy. Because the fact that the father Iacob Salawat Allah He was sin emiliani love those two more than the rest of them because of the
good qualities and good characteristics. So in the Quran, and in the authentic sunnah. We find that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam brought us a religion that expose the annual keytab ha Sultanate of your hood minimum especially the your hope Allah Tala x the question rhetorical question um yeah so dune and NASA Allah, Tao hula hooping fugly. Will they have envy of the people in jealousy of the people because of what Allah has given to people over others. They used to be
upset. The Yahoo used to be upset about many things concerning the Prophet sallallahu it was sending them
what the Levine Allahu Taala mentioned in the Quran about the year who does well what the cathedral annual keytab low you're doing a command body image nicomekl Farah Hassard and Indian fusi
Many of the people from anarchy time, they wish that they can cause you people to turn back on your heels after you have accepted al Eman. They wish they can turn you into kuffaar. And this because of the hassad that they have within themselves. So when the Companions used to pray, Ridwan, Allah He I named mine and they used to say, I mean, a proof that saying I mean out loud is from the Sunnah. And as I told you, we respect that he had a marvelous lamb. And we respect the different opinions that
people have about this and about that. That's your opinion, that he's this or he's that or he's not this. He's not that I respect that. But in our religion, we have to bring the proofs. We have to bring the proofs, but Prophet says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, ma has said that come Alia hold at a che in has a dog home? Tell me No Come on, come akala sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the yo hold we're never jealous about anything greater than the fact that you people say I mean when you read that
gravest Surah of the Quran, Surah Fatiha, which is a DUA, and it is towhee the ruble beer towhee the Lulu here towhee that Esma will see fat in it is the order to be balanced in it is the order to follow the way of the companions Dina set out to step in and in our treasures, treasures.
After they hear you say, I mean, they get upset they have had said they used to hear them in the masjid. And they knew that this salah, this religion was the hub from Allah azza wa jal. So there are people who have had said, so it's not acceptable. It's not befitting for a Muslim, if he has this characteristic, to leave it without trying to deal with it. It is a terrible characteristic a sickness a disgrace. Because Allah is giving you Yeah, you will have acid Allah has given you where
he didn't give other people and he has given to other people when he hasn't given to you. And the final analysis, it always goes back to what Allah chose. It goes back to Allah chose, Allah chose to make this one barren. And he chose to give this one sons and chose give that one daughters and chose to give that one sons and daughters. This one, he goes to live a long time that one died in the cradle.
It's not okay for the believer to have hassad there is a problem in the person's IP than his reality as it relates to who Allah subhanho wa Taala is. So we have a number of a hadith that prohibit us from being envious and jealous, like the statement of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam latter has to do with the bhava do what Kulu rebuy the Allah He wanna Don't be envious of one another. And don't hate one another, but be servants of Allah and be brothers. be servants of Allah and be
brothers. Because if you are brothers, it's not permissible to have this envy. To want a narrative that Allah gave your brother to go away. None of you truly believes in two he loves for his brother when he loves himself. And Allah describe the believers in the Quran many ayat in the Quran when he says Subhana wa Taala will live in a gentleman by the hem your Kulon, Rebecca Farrell Lella when he won in a levena sada Pune, Bill Eman when I told you I will feel Colombina realmente Levine Levine
is Saba pool, Linden, levena, Anand, they said,
Oh Allah, forgive us and forgive our brothers who have preceded us and a man. That was the dua of them hygiene.
Oh Allah forgive us, and forgive our brothers who preceded us. Those people were from Mecca. They accepted Islam before it's forgive us and forgive them and don't cause any animosity to be in our hearts as it relates to those who disbelieve. A prophet will come out salAllahu alayhi wa sallam, and people will come to complain. Wife will come to complain about the husband. The man will come to complain about his business partner, someone will come to complain about what he saw what he
experienced. The Prophet would tell them something Allahu alayhi wa sallam, nobody. No one should tell me something negative about someone else. I want to come out to you and I want to have a heart that is Salim Salim.
And our community unfortunately in our families, amongst ourselves, our friends
issues. We talk ill of people, we talk ill about people, and the one who is innocent. He's brand spankin new in the city, He's new. He doesn't know what's going on. He was not exposed to your family issues. But here you come lo and behold, and you start unfolding to him these things that he was free of, and now you contaminate his heart, her heart, against the husband, against the wife. And this is one of the reasons that when he when our wives, they have to be taught, they have to be
made understand nobody here his wife is 100% happy with him. No one, the wife has to be careful as to be careful about disclosing the SRR and the secrets and the YouTube of a husband. You make people feel a certain way against their Muslim brother, they don't even know the other side of the story. So the Prophet used to tell people sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, don't anyone tell me anything negative about someone else, because the heart of the Muslim is supposed to be pure and clean. But
if he has has it in his heart, that's a disease and it's a destructive disease. And it is a disease that the Prophet said it was sallallahu alayhi wa Salatu was Salam, the Holika Allah azza wa jal has commanded us. And again, the vast majority of the people in this Masjid right now, we're IgM we're not Arabic speaking people. We don't memorize the Quran. Many of us are very fortunate if we memorize Jews onma, but from what we all memorize, are the last three swords of the Quran. And one
of those are the two servers that were the time those two servers and which Allah Huhtala commanded us. Women shall rehearse it in either has said, I seek refuge, at least the other.
I seek Allah's assistance, I seek His protection, I seek His help against the envious one, while he's envious and Allah He as you're gonna see, everybody here you have hate us. Everybody here without any exception. You know, the prophets of Allah while he was selling them, as we say in English, he didn't have an evil bone in his body SallAllahu it was selling them the thing that he had in his heart, just as a result on the stream that he was the son of Adam Salawat. Allah He was
sent myt when Jabril came to him when he was young, and he opened up his heart, his chest, and he took his heart out, he took off and out of his heart, a black string. And Jabril said to him, hi, the Hulu shaytaan fika. This is the portion of what shaytaan has in you just a black piece of string, it was taken out and his heart was washed, clean and purify with Zen Zen and put back in preparation for a life in which he was pure. No one had anything evil to say about a negative. He
didn't have an evil bone in his body. And yet he had hate us. They hold they used to hate on him. Why didn't why why is it last night to be with you. We were expecting them to be from us. Why is that? Why your people, the majority of the people in the genuine Why Why? Why is that? Why is this book mu Heyman and this book is NASA and it's abrogating what went before it all of the other books and everything that moves abroad. Why why why is that they used to get upset. Not only that, I'm
Allah Bible Jehovah. Why did Allah make you when they're being Rasool over us? Why did he choose someone from Torah if someone from Mecca other than you why they used to be upset, they had envy against him sallallahu alayhi wa it was sending him his followers his religion, what Allah blessed him with so envy whiny, everybody should know as you're going to see inshallah. Everybody here you have people who are envious of you. So as it relates to the issue of envy, the Prophet mentioned
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Jakob Manuel has said for NL has said, Yeah, cool. Hasselblad Kamata, Kudo, naran, hottub, Mr. Hadi, they were being envious. For verily envy, jealousy eats up your good deeds the same way the fire eats up the wood.
So if you can just imagine putting the wood in the fire and the way it destroys the wood, the fire is going to destroy the wood and hasit does the same thing. So we have to be careful. We have to be aware. We have to be on top of this issue within ourselves. And there is indeed between people of knowledge,
envy but
When people have knowledge, whether the a shield scholars have envy between themselves from a long time ago, up until today, up until today, this is not me putting the hammer down. But this is what we know as a result of the envy that transpired between them. We have certain principles that help us to navigate with some of the misunderstandings that we have today. One of the greatest scholars in Al Islam was a man by the name of Mohammed the blue yah yah aloo Halley, and they saw Bori he was
the chef of Al Imam Muslim. He was the man and Mesa board. He was bigger than an imam Muslim. He was the man, the leading scholar in a Neysa board where Al Imam Muslim was from
when Al Imam Al Bukhari came to a Neysa board, when Al Imam Al Bukhari arrived in a nice aboard, there was jealousy from that mentors, Imam Al Bukhari and he said Rahmatullah alayhi wa rubbed the Allahu Anhu. He said, None of you should sit with Al Bukhari because he's an innovator.
He wants everyone no one should sit with Al Bukhari. He comes from Bukhara, another place, Uzbekistan. He's coming from another place. He's looking Chinese. He's different from us. No one should sit with him because he's an innovator.
And emammal Buhari wasn't an innovator, but that's what happened. And it happened with many, many scholars. The great historian Mohammed bin in his hop, he had drama with an Imam Malik Al Imam Malik had drama with Muhammad Yunus hop.
Him Imam ibn Abi VIP. He had drama with an Imam Malik Al Imam Malik had drama with him to the point that an imam ibn Abi VIP said, Imam Ahmed Al Imam Malik, they should make him make Toba for what he said. And he gave a fatwa about a hadith and he went against the Hadith. Or he explained it, he explained the Hadith, he didn't go against it.
He explained it, and it wasn't the right position.
And the other scholars said they should make him make Toba. And if he doesn't make Toba, they should strike his head off as a non Muslim, because there was personal problems, jealousy. So the scholars came up with a principle listen to this principle. And this is why I'm mentioning this not to talk bad about those dollars. But so that you know, you will know that the will hasn't been reinvented. When we see this drama existed between the people, students of knowledge, this stuff happened
before. So you have to know what to do.
Those scholars said like Imam, a Debian other than him, whenever we find scholars talking about each other. And it's clear that desires in there envious jealousy, the envy, we have envy, jealousy, hatred, animosity, then we don't take either one of their word against the other one, because just want to say he's a teddy bear, that when I say he's weak in Hadith, that I'm gonna say is a kid that that one to say, he stills the Hadith. And if you just follow one scholar just because you like him,
you're going to oppress other people. They said, what we do, when we find these words from the scholars like this, and we find that it was envious.
It was envy inside of the equation. We fold it up like this, and we put it away. And we say May Allah have rotten upon all of them. And that goes to show as the seller for us to say, as long as a person is living, he is not exempt from fitna.
As long as you are alive and you are breathing, you can fall into fitna. You can be on the Sunnah today, and evasion tomorrow. You can be a Muslim today tonight. You wake up tomorrow as a non Muslim. You are a person who has a clean life today. Tomorrow you can start smoking and using drugs. May Allah protect all of us from that. You have your mind today. Your scruples, your Scholastic Aptitude about yourself today. You can read the Hadith in Arabic in your iGen you're not an Arab,
you can read the Hadith. Tomorrow can turn around that you can't talk
as long as you are alive. And this is why we never say Cleany we never say I don't care will law he I'm with the chef whoever the chef says wherever a shed goes, I'm going to shake go through the * fire I'm going with him. No, gonna say chef you can go to *. I ain't going nine going with you.
Because anybody never saw
Say someone came to you and told you, someone so did this and did that. Never say well Allah He He didn't do that. May Allah curse me if he never say that? Because he's a human being he's alive. When the kuffaar Quraysh came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and they informed him, or he informed them of ESRI. Israa when Mirage and he went to the seven heavens, after going to pick them up this when they came to Abu Bakr, they said, Did you hear what your friend said? He said, No, they
told him what happened. Your friend said he went from Mecca, all the way to victim muck this up to the seven heavens came back and one night, Abu Bakar said, he didn't tell me that. He told you that they say he said that. He said, well, either I didn't hear it. But if he said it, if he said it will lie he I believe it. Because I believe something bigger than that. Why did I mention that about Abu Bakar Don't be one of those people who say well law he is impossible for that to happen. What do you
say?
He's straight today. Next thing he's over there marching with the lb GTs. And you can imagine that because he's a mixed martial artist. He has a lot of testosterone. He's a man he is that dude, that man. Somebody can say yo, yo, I saw this dude walking down the street that pink on his hair was that he was with the LBGT you will say whoa, Lucky that's a lie. Well, lucky me Allah curse me if that's true. Hey,
anything can happen to anybody? May Allah azza wa jal keep our feet planted on this religion and protect us from all of those fit in what is apparent from it and what is hidden. So the showerhead mineral cannon is what the villa is.
And we is something that many people suffer from and we all should try to be like Imam Mohammed bin serine. I never had envy of anybody. Can you say that? I was never envious of anybody concerning something of the dunya. He didn't say something of the deen or the IRA. Because it's permissible as this hadith is showing us to have envy of something concerning the deen something concerning the akhira. You can have envy in those types of issues. The Prophet said that the prophets have envy
Gupta. He says Allah Allahu alayhi wa. And he was selling them in the meaning of the hadith is that those people who love each other for Allah sake, solely for Allah sake, my love for you was not because of your color, because of your money. Because we're relatives is for the deen for Allah sake. And if it wasn't for this Deen, we probably wouldn't even be dealing with each other. But it's this Deen that causes us to love each other Prophet said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, those people
who love each other for Allah's sake, will be on members may not have light yomo piano and they will be on the right side of man. And both of Allah's hands, our right hands, the prophets will have Gupta of them, the prophets will have has said of them,
meaning, the prophets are not going to be envious of people, because they're the best of mankind. It's the people will be envious of the nozzle of the prophets and the messengers of the Mostofa where his profit is generated for those they are going to be there. They're going to be the leaders there. They have special qualities there. So the people are jealous of the prophets and the messengers. But in this issue, the prophets and the messengers are jealous of those people. Those
people who love each other for Allah's Cause, why? Because of the reward that they're going to get. And already the prophets and messengers are going to get that reward because they love their people for Allah's Cause and they taught their people how to love how to love so this issue about HIPAA and has it is an important issue and to be against it is serious. Allow time I mentioned in the Quran Afla Herman's
work at Harbor min de ser, as it relates to your knifes, the one who purifies it, he is successful is going to be successful, there's going to be mostly there'll be successful.
And the one who doesn't purify and he leaves it dirty going its own way. whatever it wants. It goes after it says whatever whatever it wants to say, looks at hears, grabs, touches walk, whatever it wants, say whatever whatever. Whoever does that he's going to be brought down. So from the DUA the Prophet used to make all the time sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allahumma it laughs taqwa and the Hey Roman Zika Oh my Lord give my knifes is tough luck. You're the best those who give the test kiya.
So we need heavy
doses heavy dosage is a wedding of a test kit this kit in The Foos, when we make jihad against our knifes, to get rid of this envy, what are some of the things that we can do? And they are meaning to protect yourself from falling into envy and to protect yourself from the harm and the evil of the envious. One of the things as I told you is, those last three sorrows of the Quran, seek refuge in Allah from the envious one while he is a practitioner and he's practicing his envy. After the prayer
five times every day, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to read those three stories three times before he used to go to bed sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to read those sores three times. So they asserted that the Muslims should not go through his day without reading it.
He shouldn't go through his day without reading it.
So you read that. Also, there's a really important Hadith and all Hadith so important. He says Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam is there ino Allah in Jai Hawaii, eg Kumble, kinsman. For inocula the net method Massoud listen to this idea
if you want to be successful in the things that you're trying to accomplish, you want to get married. You want to open up a business, you want to buy car, you want to apply for your driver's license, you want to go to what and Medina whatever you're trying to do. Everybody here has something that he's trying to do. He says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the most beloved name to Allah's, Abdullah Abdul Rahman. Those are the best two names you can name your son. He said the most
truthful names and Hadith and her man, if you name your son al Hadith, and you name your son, her ma'am, that's the truth. And Hiraeth is the one who's planting. So everybody here is planting something good or bad. Like this brother over here, his name is Khalifa II know Khalifa nothing.
He's not a Khalifa. At all. His name is a Jamal, the most beautiful, the most handsome. He may be that to his mother, but to the other people that's not the reality. whatever his name is, his name may not be his reality. But if you name them and Hadith everybody has a hadith because you're planting good, or you're planting evil. A man not a man. Not that one. Ha man the soft one. So don't call yourself a man. Because when Arabs hear their wishes son's name Hi, ma'am. You're gonna say La
hawla wala Quwata illa biLlah. And this is one of the problems that we have as people who don't know Arabic. And we got to tighten up on that. we name our daughter, Sophia, Sophia, Sophia, like Sophia Loren, I name is Sofia. Rizwan and so forth and so on. Her Ma'am, is the one who wants to do something, everybody he wants to do something you're sitting, wanting to get benefit. After his daughter's you're going to get up wanting to make your way home or whatever you're going to do. It's
always the reality, always the reality. Those two issues, those two issues are the truth. As it relates to this particular issue, though, concerning that hasn't concern it, it has it. But maybe you sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sallam, he informed us of the importance of making his kit to knifes and killing this stuff that we have where we're envious of people. And we're jealous of people. Another issue the Prophet he mentioned in that hadith as I told you something Allah, why do
you sell them?
If you want to be successful in what you're trying to do,
then conceal it and be quiet about it.
Because every NEMA that Allah has given you, this, someone who's envious of you, there's someone who's jealous of you.
You have a new boat, someone is going to be jealous of your boat. And some people will look at me saying you have a new boat and say new boat. What is that? Just an example for people listening on the internet? No. We have people right. Yeah, boats, you know those canals here in Birmingham. Those canals that go from here, they go long. We have people who have those kinds of boats. We have people who have that kind of whatever the case is, yo yo, yo, yo, yo, Chef, everybody. People are envious.
You have a child, people envious. So be quiet about your ideas. Be quiet about your aspirations. Only share them with people who you know, they love you. People who you know they love you
And then even in that case, because if you've had experience with your mother, and your auntie, your sister and your brother, you've had experience with them that they have people have this disease of envy, then you should be very careful. You should be very careful. Another issue, and this is really important, honey, crucial.
If you want to protect yourself from the evil eye, and from the people I've envy, the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us something that happened with two of his companions. One companion was walking, and he saw another companion bathing, and his torso was exposed, his upper portion was exposed his upper extremity, and he had a nice complexion, a nice complexion, and he was strong. And that companion looked at him and said, Wow, I've never seen I've never seen a complexion
as nice as that. Strength like that. Man, that guy is strong. When he said that, The man started drowning in the water, just like that. Just like that started drowning. They jumped in, they saved them. They told the prophet what happened? sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the man who said that he said,
he said Hala, Director Lee. Why didn't you say baraka for him? Why didn't you say Baraka? Why didn't you say that? And then he told the people sallallahu alayhi wa sallam era I
mean, Nipsey was family he, woman he might Gible federally federal law who Bill baraka for in line Hakka, if any of you sees within yourself, if any of you sees your own money, that which pleases you something about yourself, you get in the mirror, and you comb your bedroom, you said yup, yup. The it is oops, there it is. That's what he said about his own bed, whatever it he has new clothes for the eight. And he looks in the mirror. And he be like, Whoa, look at that problem. I said, if any of
you sees within yourself, or your money, your property, your car, your couch, whatever you own, or you see something in your brother that pleases you, then let him make dua for it and him with Baraka because the evil is true.
He said, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, nothing will cause the camel to wind up in the cooking pot quicker than the evil eye. So a man has a camera and the camera is going by and somebody say why there is a nice camel, camel falls, breaks his leg, puts his leg in a hole breaks his leg. Now they have to put them down, they're going to eat them.
That happened to your car that happened to your child. They said, It is not wise to put pictures of your kid on the internet. It's not wise. It's not wise, putting pictures, videos of your child on the internet. If you can help that, then don't do it. Because you're not in control of who's watching that. And you know, the real sad thing. Some of you, some of us you've been married before you've been married before. If Allah blesses you with a new child, that ex wife, if they see your
child's picture, the new picture, they'll put the evil eye on that kid hatred, envy.
Envy, now be balanced as it relates to the evil eye because we go overboard, be balance. That doesn't mean that you're going to keep your kids in the house all the time. That doesn't mean that you're going to be you know, extreme with your fear of evil. I know there is in there a hadith that you can read over the kid and so for the son for his divine protection, and ultimately, you know, if Allah decrees something, then it's going to happen but our community goes bit overboard with the
issue about the evil eyes. So I want to mention that again. We should make dua for Baraka. So you should say to someone Allahumma
barik Annie Barak lofi Baraka la li that's what you should say Allahumma Baddeck you see anything, new car, new phone, new shoes, new whatever new watch new, whatever. Allahumma Bodek.
Some people say when you see something that pleases you, you should say Masha Allah. How many of you heard that that if you see something that please you say mashallah, there's a hadith that says that but it's weak. That hadith is weak that says you should say my shot Allah, the one that's authentic is to make dua for Baraka
Hey, hey, hey, wake up. Remember this sunnah
you should say Allahumma barik Bartok Lo Fi. May Allah give you Baraka May Allah give them blessings. That's what you say. And so saying mashallah some of the Redeemer said it's permissible because it's from the good words and plus in sorted through calf with those two men who have entered into the Jannah and we didn't say my sha Allah, he was bragging about all of the things that he had, and then Allah cause it to be destroyed. And he mentioned in that is SubhanaHu wa Donna will cook
the will Lola will Lola quilter. If duckula genetica Masha Allah, La Quwata illa biLlah in Deuteronomy, a color Minka whatever then Malema whenever if you only had said when you went into your thing if you would only add it said, Masha Allah, La Quwata illa biLlah if you had only said that when you went into your, into your Jana, into your garden that I have you have I'm less than you and money and children. So because of that if those scholars say look what he said Ma sha Allah
You should have said Ma sha Allah, La Quwata illa biLlah it is as Allah wished, as Allah wanted, and there is no power and there is no mic, except with Allah subhanahu wa taala last issue that we want to mention when it concerning this thing about envy, those of you or husbands, and even those of you or uncles and Auntie's mothers, be careful with your kids. And what happened with Benny Surah eel, the children have Yaqoob those brothers, they were envious of their brothers. And they tried to do a
lot of drama. That story has a lot of Hickman in it showing us that the closest of relatives, they can move based upon the inspiration that comes from envy. Adam's son killed his brother. In this case, they almost killed their brother Yosef thorn in the well.
Throw him in the well.
All of that drama they were giving yourself so in that is a sign and a lesson for people who are teachers, you a teacher, and the madrasa here, and the regular school. Don't go overboard with your students. Now there are always going to be students who rise to the top. The cream always rises to the top. All of the prophets students Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam Radi Allahu Anhu they were not on the same level. But no where you going to hear him being unfair amongst them nowhere. So the
companion and your man had been Bashir, may Allah be pleased with him and his father, his father's wife
say go to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and told him tell him to bear witness to something. I want you to give my son give my son a garden, to show the rest of your sons and my co wives. Show them how you love me and you love my children. He said, Okay.
He said, she said, Go and let the prophet be a witness to it. He went jasola I got some property. I'm gonna give it as a gift to my son. He said some Lulla who it was sell him. Do you have other sons, other children? He did she say yes. He said, Are you giving all of them property like this as well? He said, No. He said, then go get someone else to be a witness to it because I won't be a witness over oppression. It's wrong. And then he told the people dealu baileigh All Adhikam be fair
in just between your children.
Be faring just
the eldest son is not like the youngest son, the senior son, the singer, daughter, they're not like those who came after them. Your first daughter, your first son, they're not like any of the other children. The twins are not like any of the other children. The child who is the newest one on the scene, the baby, the baby. He she's not like the other children. They're not all the same in terms of sometimes how you look at them. They're not all the same. There's nothing wrong with that. That
is an issue of the heart. A person can't control it. But you can go out of your way to make the youngest feel that he's loved more than everybody else can be like that. The elders is loved more than ever. It can't be like that can't be like that. So if that were to happen, you could be the reason and you're responsible for planting the seeds of a hazard in the hearts of your kids.
And we had that. We have kids, siblings that are connected to us who will say, my parents didn't like me the way they liked this one or that one. And it was clear. I heard that recently. I heard that from someone in my community recently, where they told me the father is dying. Dying on his deathbed I don't know his situation is May Allah Tala Rama upon him, told me I heard with my own ears. My parents, they, you know, I was an afterthought. They, they really, they really made me feel
like they didn't care about me at all. They cared about the other ones. does that person have envy? I don't know. I don't know about that. But that is a fast track to create in that situation between our sons and our daughters. Same thing. Same thing with the wives. Same thing with the wives. The wife in Arabic is called the dura. The CO wife, Dora, from the word to hurt. She's the bura. And it means to hurt. She's a hurt for the other wife. So there's jealousy. There's jealousy.
But that jealousy is called Vera Vera to be jealous. Not has it has it is something else. You have to be jealous about your family, you have to be one of us. His wife wants to buy a car. She goes to the dealer with her husband, the dealer says okay.
You want to drive it? Yeah, we want to drive this car before you buy this car. So okay, you could drive, but the guy who's the dealer has to get in the front seat, and the wife is in the front seat.
And the brother says, Hey, what's that all about?
And the dealer says, If I don't get in the front seat, is no insurance. I gotta be in the front seat. And that guy is the man we get in his car. You won't get in this back seat. And if something happened, we're gonna switch up a bit and do to switch a row up in here. So the brothers pushing the envelope because he asked to do that. But another person may say I understand no problem. It's necessity. Say that's here for your wife, your daughter your Diem your money, your house, for your
people, for your for your your nation. Nothing wrong with that hero. As for her said, No, it's not permissible for our Muslim sisters, to have this envy between themselves and this hatred between themselves. And if they do let them know as the Prophet says something Allahu alayhi wa sallam. It is the Holika I don't say the Holika that cuts the hair. Is the Hanukkah that cuts the deen. Okay, when if you guys have any questions concerning today's dose about an Hasidic Shang as regionally
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bad daddy when he is a synonym to those people from the whole lot. There was a guy back when I was in Medina, his name was my mood. Al had dad he was from Egypt. And he was with the heart cause Salafi brothers back then they were very tough when all of the other selfies were balanced. When the selfies were given tarbiyah from the three mountains and emammal Banias shake up and basil shaker Bill Fay, me and Chef Mook bill. It was love between the people where we differed with each other
but that difference didn't go into the heart and make people hate each other. This man my mood and her dad, he had a group of youngsters who broke off and they were on their own. And they said Al Imam unknowing Al Imam is show Kenny al emammal, Bay hockey, Alabama Co Op, all of these Rula ma l hater mi L, hey, Femi. They said these people were innovators, because they made mistakes here and there, and I pee that so they didn't judge based upon principles and justice. They judge based upon
St. Giles being impatient like some of our brothers who we keep telling you don't be like that, it may be that this particular day is not on the sooner or that one may not be on the sooner it may be. But let us speak with knowledge. Let us speak with principles let's stay discipline. Don't allow your hatred towards people. A Masjid an organization a person or group don't allow that to make you become unfair as Allah mentioned in the Quran, he mentioned that in the Quran. Be fair be just a
dealer who Acropolis Taqwa be face close Taqwa. So that had daddies that had daddies, they came from him. But the glad that I'm always talking about I see them as being daddy's
Now why because they make to be of people who don't deserve it the same way that that guy did. And one of the things and characteristics of that guy Sheikh Robbie is always mentioned in this. The man back then, is if you make a mistake back then with that guy my mother and her dad call for Hola, hola. Hola. Hola. If you make a mistake, they will never let you leave that mistake. They will keep back then they will keep criticizing you for that mistake.
That's one of the glaring characteristics back then. And that's why I call these people these black daddies so stay away from the his beat that had daddy, the hypocrite stay away from the high acid and the hacked the hearted. Any more questions for the heat for them.
Anybody have any water,
fish this jealousy, and Spitefulness.
Now people are not born with sins inside of them, everything is learned. People are born upon the fitrah. And that fitrah is the natural disposition to do the right thing. But they are pre disposed to make mistakes. They are open. But you can say this seed of jealousy is in us already. This seed of arrogance is in us already. Those are learning traits that people have. Yes, for the.
In order to protect yourself from jealousy, and good deeds, are you allowed to lie
and hide your good deeds? So you're going to lie? Because if someone were to know that you did this, you did that they'll be jealous of what you did.
There's a hadith that tells us clearly lying is permissible only in three situations. It's permissible for a man to lie to his wife. And a narration says for her to lie to him as well. But you don't you serve the rights of one another. Yes, that food was really good. Yes, you look really beautiful. You look as beautiful today as the day that I married you and eight babies that you have have not changed one bit. So he says things like that. The other thing is in war, you can lie.
Because war is deception. You're not going to tell your enemy, everything that you're doing. And the third thing is to make peace between people. Sure. If one is this from the Hanged Man.
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And you can lie to bring peace. As for a person lying in order to hide as DS, some of the scholars, they allow leeway.
They allow leeway, just like this hadith about envy. I did say envy is only in two things. But we are allowed to
envy people for other than these two things as long as it's good. So some leeway was allowed. You the Hadith said someone's given money and he has knowledge. But I told you someone is strong, and he fights for slam and whatever the case may be. So we found the self.
Lion in situations like this one example. One of them will harbor a fugitive. The hadith is looking for someone and he's in his house. And he's not gonna say he's a mouse, because he's gonna get killed. And he doesn't want to get him killed. So he'll say he's not he's not there. But it's better to do something. What is known as topia.
But this was from our religion, there's a right way of doing topia, where you say one thing but you mean another thing. And you're not lying? You say one thing, but you mean another thing. So this person has spent quite a bit of money. And he gave the orphans of Syria 5000 pounds, his family and people from his family, his friends, who he knows they had this envy. They say
you know who gave that? Did you give that
And you say, yeah, yeah, Abdullah gave it you know, something like that. Abdullah gave that and they may think is another Abdullah that you to know, but you're really talking about yourself. So it's better to use topia, as opposed to just lying. It's better they use topia, if you can Allah Allah for them
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like this like this, if someone is fast, he doesn't want other people know that he's fast. And they said, come on and fast is that when I already ate, but he may not eat breakfast I eat a long time ago my soul. But in this case as well, no problem. I mean, if you do that is better. I mean, if you do that, you have to determine what's the best thing. But there's a hadith that the Prophet mentions Allah Allah who it was sent him if someone is fasting, and people invite him to eat. Let him break
his fast or let him make dua for them. Let him pray. The hadith says let him pray. So some people take that hadith, and they're praying while the people are fasting, breaking them while the people are eating. And he's praying now that people are looking at him praying and they know he's fast he's praying so that it comes comes off like RIA because not understanding the Hadith. The meaning of let them pray means let them make dua for them. But the Hadith allow Okay, he's not exposing himself is
to people who are saying people are saying them come and eat. And because of that, he said, I'm fasting like the Hadith. If one of you is fasting and someone is fighting you then let him say hey, I'm fasting I'm fasting back up on off me I'm fasting I'm fasting he's only letting it become revealed because it's a religious reason respect that I'm fasting you won't break my fast like that. Any more questions for the athlete? is the last question that we added here Shala
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I mean we have the either the Quran will be near Mati Rebecca Fahad death concerning the NEMA that Allah bestowed upon you talk about it. So in a case like this, if someone is giving you that type of negativity, it's permissible for you to say, look, that's the favor of Allah upon me. It goes back to Allah. I did my job. I did my part, but ultimately it was up to Allah. He gave me the strength and the ability to wake up today to take the exam. I wrote the right answers and although I was
doing that it's from the Tofik of ALLAH, so don't blame me. So you just educate them in that type of way. Not Allah knows best. Last question. From upstairs I have a personal question. I don't wish to vocalize, vocalize Can I ask you I will say
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Yeah, no problem. Okay, whiny Bartok Luffy Kumar, some lilac May Allah azza wa jal bless all of you brothers and protect all of you with the neuromas that he bestowed upon you all your families, your children, your health, your wealth, all of those issues. Let us remember this issue from last week. look for excuses for people and also this issue of envy. Don't be envious of people Don't be envious was Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh