Abu Usamah At-Thahabi – Hadith #15 Perform Ablution PROPERLY

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The Hadith statement encourages people to use water and not rush into getting married, and the importance of water in various cultures is discussed. Pr practicing behavior, particularly praying in detail, is emphasized, along with the need for people to practice the act of praying in detail. Cleanliness is emphasized, including not touching one's body or foot, and the importance of practicing the act of praying in detail. Pr practicing behavior is emphasized, along with avoiding wasting water and breaking things off of the body.

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Salawat alayhi wa said Emma why need to Sleeman Kathira today's Hadith really important Hadith
		
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			for every Muslim who is concerned about his Deen, especially as it relates to the prayer
		
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			extremely important Hadith we have to be on top of it, understanding it and applying it and
spreading the knowledge of it to our family members because this is one of the big issues that we
have in our daily a bad diet and it's not acceptable. It is a Hadith that was collected by a number
of the redeemable Hadith like Imam Abu Dhabi and neset II, where the prophet told the people
sallallahu alayhi wa salam ISPO a Ludo. Spergel will do make a good whoodle Complete your will do as
		
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			well narration is another narration that is full of in that that was collected by Imam Muslim where
the Prophet mentioned some amount while he was salam Waygu little Accardi Minh and now a spiritual
load Whoa. Whoa and to be Hills whoa whoa. And the hills wall for the hills from the hellfire.
Meaning they may be burned in the Hellfire if you don't do a proper will do.
		
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			So this is the Hadith today the two words a spiritual will do make a good will do a complete will
do. And so the meaning of it is it ma'am and ECMA do the complete we'll do this has a meaning of
what it is and what it means. And it has something what it doesn't mean it doesn't mean waste a lot
of water and mate will do by making a lot of water go all over the place. The hadith is not talking
about that. The Prophet sallallahu it was sending to me we'll go with
		
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			about this much water or even less than that a small cup sallallahu alayhi wa sallam enough water
that can fit in your hand he may well do
		
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			so using all of this water right he has a lot for will do. So waste the money. It's a waste of water
and a compromise that hadith none of you truly believes in to you love for your brother what you
love for yourself. There are Muslims who water is a very valuable commodity and they don't have any
water and we turn on the forces at home and other than that, and Ramadan outside of Ramadan and we
make a Seraph in our world or this hadith did not say wastewater and we'll do it send us Bill we'll
		
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			do make a good we'll do we'll make a complete withdrawal. And then the other Hadith whoa into the
ankle bones whoa for those those hills as a result of the Hellfire that go into the hellfire. The
reason behind the Prophet saying this Sunland law while he was setting him is that he was coming
back to what Medina from Mecca. And there were some companions who were with him who came upon some
water. And they may will do but they wanted to hurry up and make the will do and they were Mustafa
		
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			Angeline. They were in haste and they were rushing. And it's a well known fact that whenever you
rush, you don't do a good job in almost everything, not everything, but in almost everything. So
therefore, we should try not to rush. Don't rush in getting married. Don't rush and get in divorce.
Don't rush in giving your opinion. Don't rush by driving fast. Don't rush, Elijah two minutes,
chiffon, what a knee mineraI. Man, when you go fast and you rush that's from shape bond, something
		
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			that is bound to happen when you're rushing. And taking it easy is what Allah wants us to do. And
most instances, so those companions, they wanted to hurry up and come to the press and I thought
whoa, whoa, whoa. So they rushed and they were parts of the legs, their feet the hill that didn't
		
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			Not get touched by water. So he saw it. And then he told them something my mom who I knew he was it
was Salam wayville Lil our Cobb Minnaar whoa into your ankle bones, those hills, they're going to be
in a Hellfire because you didn't put. You didn't put the water on your Hill.
		
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			There's Hadith of the prophets of Allah when he was sending this command, this ummah has come in
many shapes, forms and fashions. This is not the only incident to incident. He only said it twice,
three times. He said it many times in many ways. He came into the masjid concerning the famous
Hadith that you have to know about we should study it. It's called this the Hadith al Mercy O fi
Salah T. The man who didn't make a good prayer, the Prophet was sitting down so Allah what He was
		
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			sending, the man came in the masjid and he prayed to Rock Gods greeting the masjid very quickly
without any discipline without taking his time like many people pray and then he finished praying
came in SAS and I'm why they call me out also the Allah. He said why they come set Amara to Allah,
go back and pray you didn't pray. And that happened three times we prayed went back way to him back
way back. And then the man say yada. So this is the prayer that I know. The man didn't leave himself
		
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			on ignorance a person doesn't know something and it doesn't care. Let me just do it because this is
what I do. This is how I learned this is how I do it. No, he has to learn to do it the right way. He
said this is what I know. Can you teach me the Prophet told him some Allahu alayhi wa salam either
contactless Salah for us bill will do.
		
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			Whenever you want to pray, Abdullah, anytime you want to pray, they make a complete will do. And
then he went through the whole prayer and then face the table and then say Allahu Akbar, and then
read what's easy for you from the Quran, and then say Allahu Akbar, and then go into the record and
he told him everything to do throughout the prayer. The part of the Hadith that is important to us
right now is if you want to make the prayer, then make a good will do. So we said it many times.
		
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			First thing we want to mention here one is the importance of the Sunnah. Because Allahu Taala has
commanded us with will do as a condition for the prayer. Yeah, you have to let the inner arm No,
either come to a solid Fuxi would you hook him with a DIA comb in El Mirage? One so who better OC
come out of jeweler como el Canadain? Oh, you believe if you want to pray. Now, if you don't want to
pray, you don't have to make blue. But if you want to pray, then you have to make mobile, you have
		
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			to wash your hands pass or up to your elbows, but the sooner toward us. You go past the elbows, he
says so you wash your hands up to the elbows and get all of that way. And then after that, you have
to wash your face. You have to put water on your head and you have to wash your feet, all of the
feet. So the Muslim has to understand the importance of the Sunnah, that people call themselves the
Quran, yawn, our cat cabbie boo the alias, you won't know how to practice the religion. This ayat is
		
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			general. It doesn't tell us where to watch where to stop, but it's the Sunnah of the Prophet that
came in and explained that as Allahu Taala mentioned to the newbie, some Allahu alayhi wa sallam
that he revealed to him the Quran that was General lead to begging Allah nice minute Zilla even when
I long rule, we revealed to you this Quran Muhammad so that you can explain to the people the Quran,
		
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			you want to fast in Ramadan. The Sunnah shows you how to fast not the Quran, you want to perform
Hajj. The Sunnah shows you how to perform hajj, not the Quran, you want to pray. The Sunnah tells
you how to pray in detail. So it's extremely important as it relates to the Hadith. As I mentioned,
many things were said about the importance of the law and doing it correctly and the importance of
cleanliness in Islam. He set up the whole shattered Eman cleanliness is half of faith. Something's
		
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			wrong with the person's Eman. If he has body odor, if he leaves his feet smelling, if he leaves his
breath smelling, if he's an individual who not taking care of his hygiene, and the situation of the
woman is are them. More important for the 12 1314 1516 year old girl to be more on top of her
hygiene than anyone else, especially after she becomes bad and that's the real responsibility of her
mother, her older sisters, the older sisters in the community, but it's not just for him.
		
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			A girl's
		
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			not just for the girls. It is common for a boy to be 15 1617 He doesn't take a shower. He doesn't
clean himself. His underwear crumble Kamala a dirty his socks, his feet, his breath, his teeth, all
of that. He said at the whole Chateau Eman. Cleanliness is half of faith. That's general Ellis lamb
general. So when we go to the toilet a Croma Kamala, you should try to leave the toilet in a good
way like you found it. So we have a custodian here. He should be cleaning the toilet, because he
		
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			works here for the message. It doesn't mean I go into the toilet, I put toilet tissue and people all
over the place to what No, we're about to perform Hajj in sha Allah. Muslims come from all over the
world. And you'll find because Muslims come from all over the world, although cleaning is half of
the religion, you see sites and hij that will cause you to say La Quwata illa Billahi.
		
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			So cleanliness, generally speaking, as for the prayer itself, the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
and this hadith and others showing the intricate connection between will do correct will do and
salon. He said, I'll miss miftah who Salah Johor, the key of the prayer is will do if you want to
pray the way you go into the salon you open up the door is do have him will do. He said sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam with Lilo who attack beer. And as soon as you say Allahu Akbar now you in the
		
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			prayer, I mean, primo Atari Maha beer, when you say Allahu Akbar now you in the prayer, you can look
around you can talk outside of the prayer, people have to respect you and so forth. So one and then
the close the prayer he says Allah Allah while he was setting them with lelu ha. At Tasneem you come
out of the prayer by Santa Santa Monica Mara Tula. So the first part of the hadith is the important
part for the today's talk. Miff Dafoe Salah Johor, if you want to pray you have to be clean your
		
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			body with the will door similar to that he said in an authentic I need some Lola who it was salam la
Yakubu Lula who Salatin be ready to Horan. Allah will not accept a person's prayer. If he doesn't
have will do if he doesn't have will do so you can't just get up and pray. Some people were laksa
days ago as it leads to prayer. They're just around people who pray so they'll pray when people will
pray and that around they won't pray. So the people get up to pray and because he doesn't really
		
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			pray he'll start praying without the without the will door. That is a major sin. The Prophet
mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Wanelo lil kabhi manana whoa until the heels as he raised it
held by a little spot you leave it on your foot at a go to * fight. What about the guy who didn't
pray it make any will do at all he didn't whoa to the whole desert to the whole body from the
Hellfire who didn't pray
		
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			especially for our youngsters. This is a serious issue is from the major sins and Ellison. The
Prophet mentioned some of the law who I knew he was it was salam in NA LA to to Musala Lee I hadn't
had to yes but Allah will do come Amarula a person Salam will not be complete until he makes will go
the way Allah told him to wait make mobile and the way Allah told him the way Moodle is is Babel
will do it is too important. Rasul Allah told the people sallallahu alayhi wa sallam after showing
		
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			them how to make well doll because that was his will vifa that was as much earlier who I name and as
SIG ACOEM. Make * the way you see me make an homage Solu Kamara at Moonee Valley, pray the way
you see me praying not the way you want to pray. He also said it and David about what he did. We'll
go into people watching him closely. He did everything in front of them. And then after that, he
said to the people after illustrating to them sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam mentor what not
		
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			what will do you have? For my son in law rock I attained law you had Delphi Hema enough so Will
Ferrell Omar, cardamom and Dombey anyone who makes will do the way I just made will do. And then he
prays to record me to rock providing you may will do the way I just may will do and you pray to God
and you don't talk to yourself wander your mind is wandering all about how many goals did Messi
score? What happened over there? No, you're concentrating on the prayer. If you do that you'll be
		
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			forgiven for your sins that way.
		
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			by So, again, he said the one who makes the Whirlpool the way I may will go and then he prays with
focus and concentration, then this person this individual, he will be forgiven for what he did
before. The Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. 20 Listen, this is important. He said to the
Companions, shall I not tell you people? What will cause your sins to be forgiven? And should I not
tell you people what will raise you in degrees you want to know, they said, Bella, your Azula what
		
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			will cause our sins to be forgiven? What will cause us to be raised up in GarageBand with Allah, He
said, some Allahu alayhi wa Salam is Babel, we'll do another mCherry to make a good will do when
it's difficult to you don't like it.
		
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			If you make the proper will, when it's difficult and you don't like it, that's something that will
cause your sins to be forgiven. It's something that will get you raised in better cotton that are
jacked. He also mentioned two other things, we're going to leave those because we're interested in
its Bible we'll go what is making a good we'll go and things that you like it's cold out there. So
if we're outside and we're camping right now and we have to make we'll do for Salafi shots so
		
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			nothing moderate. You don't want to make we'll do because it's cold. Or you don't want to make we'll
do because it's hot. The water that you're using comes out too hot. Now it's not water that's gonna
burn you and hurt you. But maybe the waters too hot or too cold. Some people they don't want non
Muslims to know that they're Muslim, some people some of them have a legitimate reason for that some
of them are just afraid so at their job or whatever they don't want the non Muslims to know that
		
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			they might come although certainly make a quick whoa whoa, you have to make the will do correctly
for the under McHattie some people make will do they just put one in the face. But the water doesn't
get here just gets here I'm the face that's not the good will go. The person makes will do up to
here that's not right person makes will do he doesn't get all of his foot all of her foot. So if you
want to be raised and your data jacked and you want to be forgiven for your sins, then make is Babel
		
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			will do take it seriously. Take it seriously. Understand this.
		
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			Allah will not accept from you a prayer until you make the law and Allah will not accept from you
the will do unless it is correct and complete and full. Understand that. If you're laksa days ago
concerning the widow, it's gonna have a direct impact on your prayer. And there is a principle in a
solo film with a scholars of soul They said my life, my life, Ludmila, your timbu Malaga Tamil YG
Ellerbee for war Whadjuk if you have to do something that has an obligation, you have to do
		
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			something that is wadge have upon you. And you can't do that thing except by this other thing. Then
that thing becomes Whadjuk for you. So you can't pray without will do. But salon is Whadjuk from the
old job and YG back so making correct will do as well. Prophet Muhammad said that the salah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Halal Mogadore a Salah to Hyrule mole Dora, the Salat is the most
important thing that you can do in terms of the actions in order to complete that action you have to
		
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			do will do correctly. Not just do Willow Yeah, eBUY de la materia slam. So it's everybody's
responsibility to be on top of this to be serious, because if you go to the bathroom to the toilets,
Allama Kamala and just look, people don't know how to make we'll go. And one of the things that
people do is we don't get the whole thing. We don't get the whole thing. And it leads to two major
critical problems. Number one, when you don't do the Imam of the will law and the command and it's
		
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			bad. It is a Kabira from the Caribbean is not a most small sin. It's a major sin. How do we know
it's a major sin? Because you will be burned in the Hellfire for that. So if Allah or the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says that as soon as a major sin, that's how we know what's major. He
says something Allahu alayhi wa sallam that is Schilke is the biggest sin for you knows his biggest
sin.
		
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			You know that a sin is a major sin. If it has a worst connected to it, like a punishment. If you
have a punishment, you're gonna go to the Hellfire for this thing, then it's a major sin. So that's
the first issue. The second issue is, if we don't make a good blow, then what's going to happen is
the solar that's pretty
		
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			cated a bomb that will go, it is not going to be accepted. It's going to be short. And there's
really important point I want to bring to your attention. I really need you brothers to focus on
this point. As I mentioned, there are many Hadith where the prophet encourage the people or the
people commanded the people make a goodwill vote one time, Mr. Rudd, the Allahu Anhu said that the
prophets of Allah while he was setting them saw a man, and the man may will do, and on his foot in
		
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			another incident on his foot, he left a dry spot the size of a nail, is that a big piece is that a
big piece of space, the size of a nail, the nail on your finger, the fingernail heating, get the
water on the sides of the finger, no Rasulullah saw it sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he told that man
go back and make will do go back and make will go, the man went back may will do and did his prayer
over again. Because the prayer doesn't count. The prayer doesn't count. Now listen to this is
		
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			important. Because one of the things that we see with some of these Germans and I have to mention
this because some of our brothers we have personally been with these Germans and some of the people
who are teaching from the gym I have a problem because they make it's this God of the Sunnah, and
the religion and aspects of the religion that are serious.
		
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			Like that one must be mean. There was some people from the one must mean are good people. But I've
seen too many people giving Dawa and then from the one Muslim mean, they make it small and they say
that issue was not that important. But be it it's not that important.
		
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			The Hijab is not that important.
		
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			That thing is not that important. Ellis bow and having close people below your ankle that's not that
important. Don't talk about that. We have Palestine we have Iraq we have all of these issues. That
is not an important I hear it too many times from people who are politically motivated like that,
making its discard Misty Hannah about the Sunnah. Well, the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
		
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			if you don't take care of your heels and go to the Hellfire he told that man who may will do and
left a little small nails space have it go back and make mobile What do you mean it's not that
important we talking about? The Prophet told our companion told our community, some of Allah when he
was setting them in the Raju later Colombi Kelim Attila yo Pilla Bala a man made spay a word that he
doesn't consider it being important. It's a small word to him. But because of that one word, it will
		
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			be thrown in Hellfire for 70 seasons because of one word. Our mother's eye Isha. And a state of
jealousy said about our other mother, Sophia, her co wife. Yeah, rasool Allah has spooker men,
Sophia, is enough that Sophia is a short lady. That's all she said. She didn't even say a word. She
said. It's enough. Sofia, meaning short. The Prophet said it tequila ECFE. Elijah, you just said a
word. If that were to be mixed with the water of the ocean, that word will pollute the ocean. So a
		
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			person gets upset when he's playing around and he calls someone in EFA a crumble. Kamala, do you
know what that means?
		
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			Do you know what that means? You get upset with someone and you say to him Yeah, can
		
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			you call someone and move them in some serious words? is just one word. The Prophet said if someone
says to his brother Yeah, calf air, your calf him because he did something that it may be cool for
him. But it doesn't necessarily mean that the person went outside of Islam. But if you say yeah,
cafe to a Muslim, the Prophet says something hola while he was sending them back behind Dumon that
one of them this word is going to fall on him. How and when? It says yeah, catching that word goes
		
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			up to the sky goes to Allah's Arash and it shakes out or shove Allah and comes back down on one of
them. And we have people walking around on a daily basis don't even know how to make will go and as
saying he's a deviant, he's a deviant. He's a deviant. Why is he a deviant? Because he goes to
dismiss Jimmy go to that masjid or you see his brother, go and learn your religion. Go and learn
your religion
		
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			and try to be a decent human being and stop passing those come on people, some of our Chabad they
love Islam inshallah. We talked about Saudi bin Abi Waqqas. Last night. They liked that column about
the warriors of Al Islam. So he walks around making fear on everybody because you don't go to jihad
and you don't do this and that rule it a brother, pump your brakes and slow
		
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			down. It may be that you say a small word like divorce, you have your children and your wife, you
say to your wife after divorcing twice your divorce, that third word loss, you think that's a small
word.
		
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			So in our religion, we don't have this thing about, you know, like a fruit like some of those people
say, the fruit, the fruit has his core was important. And the pill like an orange, the outside of
the fruit, it's the pill, it's not important, peel it off and throw it away. It's what's inside the
lobe, the essence. We don't make everything in a slam the same. Salad is the most important action.
A toe he does the most single most important issue, we make distinctions. The Miss whack is
		
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			important. But the Miss whack is not more important than bitter. Why the dang one is watching when
it's gonna stop. We're not going to make something bigger than what it should be. But a Muslim comes
and says to the Muslim who's trying to hang on to using the most like, he's already has a sweat the
person you don't need that.
		
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			That doesn't mean rather than be Salah while he was setting them put a lot of emphasis on the Miss
sweat.
		
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			He put a lot of emphasis. So get away from those people in that concept that we have these issues
where this is not important and that is not important. And the deen of Allah azza wa jal if it
wasn't important, Allah subhanho wa Taala would not have sent his profit with it. Nor were he
sallallahu alayhi wa ala it would sell them encourage the people to do it. The Prophet mentioned and
another Hadith sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in a terminal will go come Amara hula for salawat and
		
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			look too bad Kufa li muy bien en Hoonah. If a person makes the correct will do the way Allah told
him to make the will doll, then the wedgie prayers will be an explanation for him. A Salawa tool
comes with Joomla to win a Joomla Rama Ramadan Ramadan mocha FIRA to Nima bein Ohana events to
number two okay back here. When you make the fight pres each pray during the day. What is between
each prayer will expiate your sins and wipe them off when
		
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			when you make the right will do but just any will do any prayer. No it's not an expiation
		
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			the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in this hadith when he shows us the danger as I mentioned, of
being in haste, one of the things that is a characteristic for a Shabaab, younger people as you get
older, you should get a better grip on calming down. But in this day, John, there's a problem. This
hadith shows the danger. What happened with those companions, they were hurrying, and they didn't do
the job in the best way rubbed the Allah on him, but there are some very bad that some eBUY Dyche
		
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			that you should hurry up and do them. Some very bad that the Sunnah is to hurry up for an example,
you borrow money from someone, hurry up and pay him back. Hurry up and pay him back. If someone
dies, the Prophet said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, hurry up and praise Janaza Hurry up. If he was a
good Muslim, you will be rushing him to his reward with Allah. If he was a bad Muslim, the community
we'll be getting him off of our necks from all the drama that he gave to the community. Those be
		
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			Baghdad, you have to hurry up. An example of that is and how much I just come in inshallah the
Pilgrims stopped the hijama ninth day, the day of a Tarawa. And then the 10th day
		
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			1112 13 You're going to be in Mina for three days stone in the gym, Iran for three days. The first
day is Whadjuk. The second day is Whadjuk. As for the third day, Allahu taala. He mentioned in the
Quran fermenter I see young man for that if my lady, anyone who wants to hurry up and leave hygiene
and want to stay for those three days, that's your hop. After two days, you can get out of there and
you have to get out of there before so after maghrib you have to stone and get out of the loop
		
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			usually the people are rushing. These are some of the bad that were tight jewel was staring down.
It's legislated. But for the most part, the religion of Allah Islam says take your time. Take it
easy from the benefits of this hadith whiny is the fact that Allah subhanho wa Taala has commanded
us to do things to the best of our ability what is called
		
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			it gone perfection. He said in Allah Ketubah lsn and a cliche for either cartel to personal pet law,
whether the baton passing or
		
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			what do you hit the commercial freighter. Allah has legislated that you are do perfection and
whatever you do, study your best for the exam and don't try to get his seat. Do the best that you
can. He says Sunday do what caribou come as close to the bullseye as possible. close to perfection.
If you slaughter slaughter, well, if you kill kill while sharpening your knife so as to make it easy
for the animal. When you pray, pray Well, seriously, don't be a person who's mediocre. You get
		
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			married, trying to be committed to the marriage to the best of your ability, be the best husband
that you can be the best wife that you can be not the person who's looking at the person then you're
just looking at the bad aspects of the person and you say, I'm going to meet their negative energy
with negative energy. They don't seem to be real serious. So I'm not going to be real serious. The
ISA Yeah, are you will live in LA come full circle. You're responsible for your own self, be the
		
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			best father that you can be. And in the meantime, in between time you give dower and advice to the
lady. And then if she doesn't want to get with the program, you take the necessary steps. What is
hikma? You determine that, but the problem is, don't try to do the best only if someone else does
their best.
		
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			And nulla Ketevan a Santa Ana Cooley che Allahu Taala mentioned in the Quran, Allah alum Tarot alum
tarot and Allah isberg Allah you know
		
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			Don't you see that hola me, it's back of his namah on the people. Allah completed his net mon people
alone. MacMall Tula convenor Khumba at min to La Camilla Amity. What a de to La Combe al Islam,
Medina, Allah perfected this religion. He perfected the NEMA that he gave people Subhanallah
Wattana. It's one of the benefits of this hadith, do things to the best of your ability. But had
even when he also goes to show the importance of the prayer in Ellis lab.
		
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			It's the best dt. So first thing that Allah is going to look into yomo Qian, he's going to ask you
about you'll know piano. If the prayer is right and exact, then the rest of the deeds are going to
be right and exact. If a person was lackadaisical about the prayer, the rest of his deeds are going
to be reflective of that. And no salata. 10 handled Pasha, he will conquer the salon will prevent
you from doing the crazy things and even if you make mistakes, so that will keep you in a position
		
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			and state of mind to make Toba. But once the person stopped praying, the shaytaan handsome,
		
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			he's in the grip of a shaytaan. Once he stopped spraying, he's in trouble once she stopped spraying.
Now there's a really important point I want to make and 20 Concerning this idea. And it is vital.
You know that some people in our community, they suffer from
		
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			edited with swas.
		
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			So the chiffon comes to them for us, we swallow him.
		
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			So when they make a Moodle, they keep doing it over and over again. And a hadith like this, when
they hear it. They misunderstand and they think that this hadith is telling them to make the perfect
will do mean and you have to keep going over and over and over and over again. No, you can't use
this hadith to understand that issue in that type of way. That's a classic case of a person miss
understanding a hadith like Saudi Arabia will cost his mother read the Allah Well, I heard that your
		
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			religion said you have to obey your mother. So I want you to become an apostate. I want you to
become an apostate. Side web will cause Kenny and typically the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam falafel men couldn't Nephi what should they be Hannah Halawa to Eman and you have
de la hora Sulu. Akhtar mumma. You hit Buma Cy Hema when yet Kureha and your rue de Phil Cofer bad
and tada Hello men who come on Yatra and youthful Fina. That was what side given ABI Waqqas was upon
		
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			three things if you have these three things. Allahu Taala will allow you by these strength beings to
taste the sweetness of a man that you love Allah and His Messenger more than any and everyone else.
Your mother, your father, your brother, everybody else, your wife, your husband, your child. Number
two, Sodom and Gomorrah
		
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			Look at the first one number two, and he had the second one. And that a person hates to go back to
Cofer at Allah saved them from Cofer, just as He hates to be thrown into hellfire, when his right
mind wants to be burned, and any fire for that matter. And number three, the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa ala it was salam told him that if the person loves for Allah, everything other than a lot,
he hates to go back into Cofer. Anyone knows other third one?
		
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			Anybody the other third one
		
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			and you hit biller or sudo, who more than he loves any body else. And then he hates to go into Cofer
act. Allah has saved them somebody look up the third one, look at the third one. So as it relates to
this issue, don't miss us this hadith to wastewater, the Hadith doesn't mean that you have to waste
a lot of water. Nor does the Hadith means that the one who has Biswas this hadith is making things
difficult for you. And you have to make your will do perfectly. So what is the header of the window,
		
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			you wash all your fingers and from the sunlight it's not wedge it is to do this in the webs of your
finger and you wash them all the way past your elbow, all the way past your elbow. Apple Herrera may
Allah be pleased when we used to make although he will make will go all the way up to the tip of his
arms. And some of the companions that don't do that, that's going overboard. That's not what we have
to do. You go past the elbow, you wipe their head from the forehead all the way to the back nape of
		
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			the neck right there. When you wash the face, you get all of the face, the feet, you get all of the
feet, and you don't leave any part of your skin dry, not even the part that is as small as a nail.
Lastly, I just want to repeat this issue about not minimizing things on the religion. The Nabil
sallallahu alayhi. Wa it was setting him in the Hadith of the big talk
		
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			where a man will come and 99 scrolls with his books will be put on the scales 99 scrolls of bad
deeds. And then the card would lie either Hi, Lulu will be put on the other scale by itself. He has
99 books of bad deeds, not praying, not fasting, breaking his fasting Ramadan, doing all kinds of
things are called while leading still in so many issues, so many issues. And that card is put in the
side the man is gonna say what is that card going to do? In the face of all of these 99 books of bad
		
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			deeds, it will be said to him, you won't be oppressed today. That car will be put on the scroll on
the side of the scale and it's going to outweigh that. Another clear proof and indication. Don't
look at anything in this Deen as being insignificant. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam feared
the Hellfire try to stay out of the Hellfire. Even if it's wave half of a date. You have a whole
date, break it off, give somebody half and you eat the other hand breaking off give one brother half
		
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			and you have rather than the other half. Open up the door for someone helping them in his mouth more
or less stuff is from the maruf Leia,
		
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			che men and maruf. He said none of you should look at something that is correct as being
insignificant it is a prohibition and Sybil nomadic told the tabbing that he was teaching. May Allah
be pleased with them. He said to the tab Dean, who did not meet the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, Verily you people and if he said this to the second generation of Muslims, then what do you
think our situation is today?
		
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			He said, You people are doing actions that they are more insignificant in your eyes than a piece of
hair. So if a person got a piece of hair pulled over his head, he's not going to make a big deal out
of that. It's just a piece of hair. It comes his beer and he had comes out doesn't make a big deal
out of that. The pizza head.
		
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			He said you people are doing B's and your eyes. They're less significant than a pizza here during
the time of the Prophet. Anybody who did these DS we will look at belts DS is something that was
that will destroy you. That's what he said to the tattooing. What do we say today?
		
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			During the days of the eight people play and make fun of the religion.
		
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			They make fun of their eat. You know those pictures of the aid where they show the animals as
cartoons with the animals. The people had the knife and the horror for the sheep will be scared like
it's gonna run or the cow was going to run
		
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			As if to say, Oh, they're gonna kill me make the beehive. You ever saw those things never saw those
things that's not permissible in this land. And it's not funny.
		
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			That's not funny in the religion of Islam. These things that these jokes that people are doing, the
man is praying, and he encourages his little baby to slap in the mean things. These things are not
funny. Tick tock is full of things that people were joking about the religion, that during the time
of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, if you did that, they said you will know nothing. You
will catch him and alias that question to them without a keen eye biller he where it was solely come
		
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			to him to stanzi own law, Teddy kufr, Tom body Manickam.
		
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			Are you joking with Allah, the Ayat of Allah, you're joking about Allah and His Deen, you're joking
about the prophets, Allah Allahu Allah, you don't offer any school excuses. You have disbelieve your
disbeliever. Because that's what matters when you say we were just joking and no, my Nana who won
the lap, we were just joking and passing the time.
		
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			Don't look at those small things as being insignificant like that, because that's how people
destroyed and we end on that. The Prophet told the peoples of Allah what He was selling, you know,
you want to know the example of the small things that people consider to be small. He said, the
example is like a group of people are traveling.
		
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			And they all come to their campsite to pitch the fire. So that one goes and he gets some twigs, not
big lungs of wood, that one goes and he brings twigs, that one goes and he brings some and he brings
some he brings some he brings some and they all bring their twigs, little pieces of wood. They put
all of those little pieces of wood together and they light it. And lo and behold, they got a big
fire.
		
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			Have a big fire. So don't look at the small or insignificant amount of what's being done. But look
at the greatness of the one is being done against. We're going to stop there and Shawn lives with
Jim, very quickly if you guys have any questions, you can actually question them. What was the other
one from the Hadith? Three things.
		
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			Ah
		
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			we mentioned that he loves Allah and His Messenger more than he loves anything else he hates to go
into coffee is the third one. What's the middle one, the second one?
		
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			What's the first one?
		
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			Allah and His message to the most beloved and then he loves a person only for Allah. And then the
third one. He hates to go back into Cofer fugly.
		
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			Well, those are the three those are the three that he loves Allah and His Messenger more than
anybody else. Number two, he loves his brother or someone and he loves him for alive. Zildjian
Berwyn after coming to Islam he doesn't want to go back into Cofer just as he doesn't want to be
thrown into the fire the Hellfire anything other than that you guys have any questions? What about
the iron well come narrow who the hero about what's that I it was to begin in some time that iron
		
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			and then after women a nasty man you died didn't Fila he
		
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			would I keep tabs on Munir? Can someone find the beginning of that if for me? Any questions is
wanting
		
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			no questions. Just want to make sure the eye is correct.
		
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			Netsmart
		
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			before that, oh will Amuro I will am tarot and no Asperger Alikum
		
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			LM taro Angela Asperger Alikum na mo
		
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			ba Hera. We're Bottineau that's the iron Suparna kolomela behind DECA. Why should the one La ilaha
illa and a stockbroker to make but before we finished, close the books, everybody close your book.
Everybody close your book. Everybody close your book. What is the Hadith in Arabic?
		
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			A smuggler will do. You. Good job. And you have Nassif.
		
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			All right. Last week last week, the ground floor is better, more appropriate more comfortable. Who
remember that one?
		
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			Job anybody else you
		
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			Come on man.
		
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			And you are he from last week?
		
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			And you
		
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			you remember the Hadith What is it
		
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			the Jewish day what
		
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			and you remember that my brother
		
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			was here All right welcome welcome inshallah. All right in Santa Monica rock to La he went brother
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