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The speakers discuss the upcoming Federal Government Work Fair and emphasize the importance of the Holy Spirit and surrounding surrounding realities. They also touch on the death of a deceased family member and the importance of visiting burial sites. The discussion turns to the topic of finding a way to change and striving for guidance for children. The discussion also touches on the use of WhatsApp and a story about a man who was hit by a car and eventually found a way to get out. The speakers stress the importance of finding a way to change and striving for guidance for children.

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			Dear respective
		
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			brothers and sisters,
		
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			with all due respect,
		
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			it's all good about
		
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			speaking in regards
		
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			to the month of Ramadan because we are
		
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			inside this month.
		
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			But also that which is very, very important
		
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			is
		
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			to speak about some of the current affairs
		
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			that take place in our communities,
		
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			because it's a problem, it's an issue.
		
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			Today, insha Allahu Ta'ala,
		
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			I wanted to dedicate
		
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			much of the Khutbah to some of our
		
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			youngsters who are going to be attending the
		
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			masjid.
		
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			I'm not here
		
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			to lecture you,
		
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			I'm not here to preach to you,
		
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			I'm not here to tell you how to
		
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			live your life,
		
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			To tell you what to do or what
		
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			not to do because,
		
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			I don't think it requires rocket science to
		
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			understand
		
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			what will help a person move on in
		
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			his life, what is good for him,
		
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			and what is going to drag him into
		
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			the ground.
		
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			But I just want to share
		
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			a story,
		
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			hoping that you can maybe take a lesson
		
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			from it,
		
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			and you can ponder upon it upon leaving
		
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			today.
		
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			You know, brothers and sisters, a couple of
		
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			years back,
		
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			I had a friend,
		
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			this brother called Shamaki Hassan, and I think
		
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			I've told it to some of the brothers
		
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			here before as well.
		
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			You type him into Google, he comes up.
		
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			This friend of mine, who is very close
		
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			to me, guys,
		
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			he was shot.
		
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			Why did he get shot?
		
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			Because of a postcode.
		
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			You have that this masjid
		
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			is allocated in a place called Eli 1.
		
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			In London,
		
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			the people used to kill and stab one
		
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			another because of a postcode.
		
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			When you receive a letter, it has your
		
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			address and then a postcode at the bottom.
		
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			This group is fighting with the other group
		
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			because of what?
		
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			These guys are n w one,
		
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			and the other guys are might be l
		
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			e 19 or l
		
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			19
		
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			because of a postcode.
		
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			I have a scar on the top of
		
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			my head
		
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			because of this postcode.
		
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			I have another stub mark here on my
		
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			shoulder because of a postcode,
		
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			and another one on my finger.
		
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			All of these because of what? A postcode.
		
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			For years, the parents in that area,
		
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			place called Camden.
		
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			Type into Google and you will see this.
		
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			The parents, the Somali communities there,
		
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			they couldn't do nothing about it. But sometimes
		
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			you find that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make
		
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			something take place.
		
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			You know, you might dislike something, but Allah
		
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			ends up bringing out Allahu khair out of
		
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			it.
		
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			Perhaps you might dislike something but it's good
		
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			for you.
		
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			And you might love something and it's not
		
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			good for you. But Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			knows and you don't know.
		
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			I was told about the incident that took
		
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			place a couple of weeks ago,
		
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			while I was still abroad,
		
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			and I was on my way to
		
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			the exhibition, the book fair.
		
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			When I was told this, because obviously some
		
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			of the people are involved,
		
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			one of them was
		
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			a brother, his older brother was very very
		
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			close to me.
		
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			We lived in the same area for
		
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			maybe tens of years, and
		
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			it affects you. Why? More because you know
		
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			this individual.
		
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			You know, guys, if we just contemplate and
		
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			ponder on this matter,
		
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			as to some of the reason why we
		
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			might fight,
		
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			why we might
		
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			do all these crazy stuff that Allah of
		
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			the youngsters are doing.
		
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			And in the end, you look at the
		
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			reason.
		
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			Is it a reason that
		
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			is really worth it?
		
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			The reason why I mentioned this story guys
		
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			is when
		
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			when all these gangs used to fight one
		
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			another,
		
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			sometimes when you get a phone call, a
		
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			guy he travels maybe from
		
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			the other side of London to go and
		
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			attend this fight.
		
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			When he was shot, do you know what
		
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			happened guys?
		
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			All this time when everybody was fighting for
		
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			his friend,
		
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			nobody done absolutely nothing.
		
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			No one done anything.
		
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			So one of the questions I asked myself
		
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			is, tomorrow if I get stabbed or if
		
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			I get shot, is anyone is everyone just
		
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			going to just sit back like this and
		
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			no one's going to do anything about it?
		
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			People were stabbed in order to what?
		
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			To gain a bit of street credit.
		
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			To be known on the streets that this
		
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			guy is a
		
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			individual who is hard
		
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			and all sorts.
		
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			All of these guys brothers and sisters
		
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			because of a postcode.
		
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			The moral behind the story guys is
		
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			wallahi, we really really need to think.
		
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			Sometimes we're so indulged in Maasi,
		
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			in evil deeds
		
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			and it becomes so normal. And you know
		
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			why it becomes so normal? And the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam told us.
		
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			When a servant,
		
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			he falls into a sin,
		
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			what happens?
		
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			A black dot is put on his
		
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			heart.
		
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			Then the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,
		
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			Then the prophet Sallallahu Alaihi wa'alehi was telling
		
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			me if this individual then
		
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			If he makes tawba to Allah Subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala and he also repents and he says
		
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			is Ithighfar,
		
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			his heart is purified and is cleaned.
		
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			Baby goes back to his sin that black
		
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			dot is
		
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			put on top of his heart again.
		
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			And there's another hadith that tells us
		
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			Until the person's heart becomes
		
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			1 of 2 types,
		
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			Either his heart becomes white and pure
		
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			or his heart becomes black
		
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			and
		
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			hard.
		
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			When he sees something good, he doesn't acknowledge
		
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			it.
		
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			And the evil that he sees around him,
		
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			again he doesn't acknowledge it.
		
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			It's just become totally normal. He doesn't disapprove
		
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			of it.
		
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			It's become part of his life because he's
		
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			become so indulged in sins and Maasi.
		
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			You know guys, if we rectify
		
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			this piece of flesh that is between our
		
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			ribs,
		
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			everything else becomes rectified. This is why the
		
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			prophet Sallallahu alaihi wasallam told us
		
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			If this heart now, this piece of flesh
		
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			becomes rectified, everything else becomes rectified. It becomes
		
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			corrupted, everything else becomes corrupted.
		
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			You're going to find yourself
		
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			doing so much things and you don't even
		
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			realize it, become normal, it's become part of
		
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			your life.
		
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			This is the heart,
		
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			we are a people guys who have given
		
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			so much concern
		
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			in trying to perfect our outer appearance.
		
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			Then we might spend maybe half of the
		
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			day in the gym,
		
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			the guy is so strong they can bend
		
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			the bar in the middle That's how strong
		
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			he is.
		
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			Half of the day or even more we
		
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			spend at the gym. I'm not trying to
		
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			say it to you, don't become healthy
		
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			or don't
		
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			try, you know, look after yourself.
		
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			But imagine we gave a bit of that
		
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			time in trying to concentrate on our hearts.
		
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			This heart is the only thing that Allah
		
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			cares about.
		
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			Allah doesn't look at the way you look,
		
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			by your bodies.
		
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			He looks at your heart and also at
		
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			your actions.
		
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			You know brothers and sisters, one of the
		
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			ways to maybe soften your heart
		
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			and to come back down to earth
		
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			and to realize the situation that we're in
		
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			is to go and visit the graves.
		
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			And maybe if you go and visit the
		
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			graves
		
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			It'll be the reason why
		
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			you come back to reality
		
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			that you understand why you are actually in
		
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			this world.
		
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			Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said,
		
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			It was narrated by my Muslim. Fazuruh,
		
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			I initially stopped you from going to the
		
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			graves
		
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			but now I'm going visit it.
		
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			He gave an extra piece of information in
		
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			that which he narrated, he said it will
		
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			remind you of the akhira.
		
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			Then Ibn Umajah, he had an extra piece
		
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			of information.
		
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			He said, what is a person
		
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			overlook the worldly pleasures.
		
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			When you go and visit the grave and
		
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			you realize
		
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			that sooner or later you're going to be
		
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			10 feet down,
		
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			all them dollars and £0 that we're chasing.
		
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			And majority of the time is through a
		
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			haram way.
		
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			That is not going to enter into your
		
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			grave.
		
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			It may make you realize.
		
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			Uthman ibn Affan, he used to stand in
		
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			the grave and he would cry so much
		
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			until his beard became soaked with tears.
		
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			You know, they said to him,
		
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			You Uthman,
		
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			you don't cry when the nar and the
		
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			when the nar is mentioned,
		
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			but you cry when the grave is mentioned.
		
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			You know what he said?
		
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			That the kabr is
		
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			The grave is from the first steps of
		
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			the akhira.
		
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			If a person now becomes saved,
		
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			inside his grave, and if he goes through
		
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			an easy path,
		
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			everything else
		
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			will become easy for him as well.
		
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			Remember brothers and sisters,
		
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			there's going to be a day
		
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			when you enter into the graveyard, you're not
		
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			going to come out.
		
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			There's going to be a day when you
		
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			leave your home and you're not getting back
		
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			home.
		
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			When that brother passed away alihirahmatullahi,
		
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			we all carried him on our shoulders.
		
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			There's going to come a day you're going
		
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			to be carried on your shoulder, on the
		
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			people's shoulders.
		
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			There will be a time when you're going
		
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			to be remembered.
		
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			Today the people are going to mention your
		
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			name.
		
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			There's going to be a time when you're
		
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			going to be forgotten.
		
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			That which remains then is you and your
		
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			lord.
		
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			When you stand in front of him,
		
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			all these worldly pleasures that we're chasing,
		
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			These people that we know guys that died
		
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			before the month of Ramadan.
		
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			They weren't able to reach this. What guarantees
		
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			you that if you leave this message, you're
		
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			going to maybe last another hour?
		
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			Brothers and sisters,
		
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			there's a lot of people here.
		
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			After that incident, they wanted to change. They
		
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			wanted to start a better life
		
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			but sometimes they don't have direction.
		
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			And what a better month
		
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			to currently find ourselves in.
		
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			This opportunity that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is
		
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			giving to all of us.
		
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			Allah
		
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			wants to forgive you but
		
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			everyone else
		
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			they want you to to follow your desires.
		
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			Without the shadow of a doubt guys all
		
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			of us have shortcomings
		
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			we all have sins
		
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			We all have mistakes.
		
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			Like the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam told us
		
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			All of Bani Adam, there are people who
		
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			excessively make mistakes,
		
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			and the best of those are those who
		
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			make tawba to Allah azza wa jal.
		
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			Make this a month where you come back
		
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			to Allah aza wajal
		
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			and you ask him to change and make
		
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			yourself a better person.
		
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			Is that which we all want.
		
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			This is the month guys when the doors
		
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			of Jannah are flung open and the doors
		
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			of hellfire are slammed shut.
		
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			And the Shaitans are shackled, they're chained.
		
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			Every means has been made easy for you
		
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			to try and come back to him. So
		
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			take this opportunity that Allah has thrown
		
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			you away.
		
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			Alhamdulillahi
		
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			Brothers and sisters,
		
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			and this is mostly down
		
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			or an adjustment to the parents.
		
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			You know time and time I've seen
		
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			that parents because of how bad their kids
		
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			behave,
		
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			they are very quick
		
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			in making du'a against them.
		
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			Not in all cases, but you find that
		
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			this is present
		
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			and Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala tells us in
		
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			the Quran,
		
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			The person he makes an evil dua when
		
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			he should in fact be making a
		
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			a good dua.
		
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			But you find that the insan, he's very
		
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			hasty.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,
		
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			he told us in hadith,
		
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			3 invocations, they are always going to be
		
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			accepted, and there's no doubt in it.
		
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			The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi
		
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			Wasallam
		
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			he
		
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			said,
		
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			The invocation of the oppressed one or the
		
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			one who's been oppressed,
		
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			the one who's been oppressed, you oppress me,
		
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			I'll make du'a against you,
		
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			it could get accepted straight away.
		
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			And the dua of the person who is
		
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			traveling, the traveler.
		
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			And the third one that was mentioned,
		
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			And the dua of the walid, the parents,
		
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			against his son, against his child.
		
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			There's another narration that says,
		
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			The invocation
		
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			of the parent
		
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			for his child.
		
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			Do you see the difference between the 2?
		
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			He could either make dua against him and
		
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			it could be the reason why he never
		
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			becomes guided again or he could make dua
		
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			for him
		
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			and you ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to
		
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			rectify that child
		
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			who has
		
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			driving you crazy,
		
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			was driven you crazy,
		
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			rugged.
		
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			And it could be the reason why Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala accepts your dua.
		
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			You know, there's a story guys,
		
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			you know
		
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			that
		
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			one of the famous A'imah
		
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			of the Haram previously,
		
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			the dark skinned imam called Al Kalbani.
		
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			There's a story that he mentioned and he
		
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			used to go around WhatsApp all the time,
		
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			some of you may have seen it. He
		
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			was a very, very naughty child
		
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			when he was young.
		
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			You know, his mother,
		
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			she always used to make duay for him
		
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			every time he done something evil
		
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			or he dived her mad,
		
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			she would shout to him by saying, oh
		
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			Allah, may Allah make you
		
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			the imam of the Haram.
		
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			Until one day he became.
		
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			And this was a naughty child as he
		
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			mentions it by himself.
		
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			Regardless
		
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			of some of the issues revolving him,
		
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			the Ibrahim with the story that I mentioned.
		
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			You have
		
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			also
		
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			another prophet I heard one of the masha'i
		
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			and sirudia mentioned,
		
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			he was a student who was studying in
		
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			Umar Qura,
		
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			the famous University in Makkah.
		
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			Before exams
		
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			he's really striving,
		
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			most of you don't know how a person
		
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			strives before the exam and the hard work
		
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			that he puts in.
		
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			What happens guys he asks
		
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			his dad to allow him to leave in
		
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			the night to go and you know,
		
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			get some fresh air, to go walk around
		
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			a bit.
		
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			But the father was a bit possessive, he
		
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			didn't want to let him go out because
		
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			he was late,
		
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			and he kept on persisting
		
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			until he went to his mother. He told
		
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			his mother
		
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			that he wants to leave so the mother
		
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			now intercedes for him to the father.
		
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			The dad gets upset
		
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			he says go and may Allah not return
		
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			you back.
		
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			And what do you think happened?
		
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			He ended up getting hit by a car,
		
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			the father doesn't know, he's waiting a couple
		
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			of hours, he doesn't come back, He waits
		
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			till Fajr is not here. He goes to
		
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			the Bele Adia,
		
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			and they tell him, you know, there was
		
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			an accident here and there, you know.
		
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			He goes, and he finds that a kid
		
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			that was hit was
		
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			and you understand from the hikmah of these
		
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			guys
		
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			a very powerful statement and I'm going to
		
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			conclude with this
		
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			what Fudayil ibn Iyad he mentioned.
		
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			Fudayil
		
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			ibn Iyad, the great Tabi'i, the individual who
		
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			met the companions,
		
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			he said,
		
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			if I had one
		
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			accepted dua, a dua that I know that
		
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			would be accepted.
		
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			I wouldn't have made that dua except
		
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			for the ruler
		
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			because if you make dua against him, you
		
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			ask Allah to do halak,
		
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			In Samali they call it Hawar and Inkar.
		
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			Against your son or the Amir, even if
		
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			he's from the west of the people, what
		
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			do you expect
		
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			for him to happen if he's oppressing you?
		
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			He's likely to become more worse.
		
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			This is why they said,
		
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			you know,
		
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			if the ruler becomes rectified,
		
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			The country
		
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			and also the people become rectified
		
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			just through making dua to this oppressive ruler.
		
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			This is how the salaf back in the
		
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			day. This is how they thought the tabi'ayn,
		
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			tabi'ayn, tabi'ayn.
		
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			You know, brothers and sisters from the Khosusiyyah
		
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			of this month is a dua, and I
		
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			benefited this from one of the masaikhin al
		
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			Madina coach Shekadir Zaqal Badr.
		
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			You know, when you look at the Ayatul
		
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			Siyam and Surat Al Baqarah
		
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			talks about what,
		
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			then the next Ayat, ShaharuRamaman,
		
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			3rd
		
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			ayah,
		
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			The 4th ayah, again, it talks about siam.
		
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			So you have 3 ayaats
		
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			that sandwich the ayah about the dua, when
		
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			my servant he asks
		
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			about me, I am close.
		
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			I will respond back to him.
		
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			It's one of the months, guys,
		
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			this month
		
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			that which is special to it is the
		
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			issue of a dua.
		
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			So we need to strive guys to try
		
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			and make as much of much much dua
		
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			for our kids
		
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			those who have passed
		
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			those who Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has decreed
		
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			that they passed away
		
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			our kids who might be all over the
		
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			place.
		
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			When the month of Ramadan was coming people
		
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			were looking as Ramadan as even say Musiba
		
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			They were saying
		
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			When do you
		
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			say When
		
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			When a Mosayb calamity befalls you, you say,
		
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			17 hours, how am I gonna fast 17
		
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			hours?
		
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			Rather guys are blessing in disguise.
		
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			17
		
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			hours, you have the chance to make dua,
		
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			to put your hands up to him.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, he said,
		
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			3 people that dua won't be rejected. Al
		
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			imamil Aadel wasawihata
		
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			yafturah
		
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			watawatilmagrum.
		
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			1 of those that was mentioned was the
		
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			individual who is fasting until he breaks it.
		
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			Some of us might think my dua might
		
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			only be accepted at the time of breaking
		
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			a fast.
		
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			The Prophet said, Asayim Hatayaf Torah,
		
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			the one who's fasting until he breaks it.
		
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			So you have 17 hours to ask Allah
		
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			Azza wa Jal for whatever you want for
		
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			rectification,
		
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			for guidance
		
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			and Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala won't reject your
		
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			dua.
		
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			Insha'Allah Ta'ala on Sunday after the lecture,
		
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			I'm going to have an open session with
		
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			the kids
		
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			you know, to maybe encourage your kids to
		
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			come, they have any issues privately they wanna
		
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			discuss,
		
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			we can sit down and we can discuss
		
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			it because also another issue that people have
		
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			is they don't feel comfortable going to the
		
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			people, they don't there's not people available for
		
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			them to talk to.