Abu Taymiyyah – Part 5 10 Etiquettes Sh Saleh Osaimi Exp

Abu Taymiyyah
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The speaker discusses various hadiths and hadiths that prevent people from attending sitting and suggest looking at behavior. They stress the importance of humble oneself and not just humble oneself. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of helping people who are oppressed to avoid harm and offers advice on social media. The discussion also includes a book about a young man's behavior and a person who has a mustard grain of ten millimeters in their heart. The discussion will continue tomorrow until Maghrib.
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Another point that I wanted to mention is

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the prohibition

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of ear dropping

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other people's conversations.

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Find 2 people sitting there, the guy just

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walks past him and then he comes back.

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He acts like he's just roaming around the

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masjid.

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But his goal is what? To hear out

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the conversation of these 2 people who are

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trying to hide away from everybody else.

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Recently, I came, I was I was made

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aware of

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of a man, of an old man

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who

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wanted to know what's happening in his house.

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So his kids while they are together, he,

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you know, there's a new device that's out

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that people buy from, I don't even want

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to say the country, Pakistan.

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So this device, what do they do? They

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and it's connected to a mobile phone. It's

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connected to a mobile phone. Why are they

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not a military justice also? Spying.

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Mobile phone is connected to device.

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He leaves the device and Rami covers it.

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And what this device does, it attracts sound.

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Every time someone, you know, someone's voice comes

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around this device. That guy on his phone,

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he gets a call, so he can hear

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the whole conversation, everything that's being spoken about.

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That's air dropping,

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or even worse than that.

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Look what the prophet

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whoever now

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tries to airdrop or listen to other people's

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conversations,

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and they don't like it, can clearly see

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they don't like it. It's a private conversation,

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but it's a airdropping,

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or they start running away from him. They

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go away from him because of this person

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bothering them with

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trying to listen to what they are speaking

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about.

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Anuk yomul khyam is going to be poured

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inside

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the ears.

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Anuq is like

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melted iron from the hellfire

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because of air dropping and hearing the other

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people's conversation. That fire is going to be

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brought and it's going to be what poured

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inside a person's

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ear.

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The ear drop. Have you ever had ear

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drops before? I used to have ear drops

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because it was something stuck in my ear.

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Ear drops goes in. Sometimes your ear gets

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stuck.

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Why? Because of there being fluids and liquids

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inside your ear. You can't hear properly.

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This is with something that the creation put

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together.

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You can barely hear, and you hear sometimes

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at all.

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Now imagine the nar being poured inside your

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ears.

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Alayadubillah.

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The impermissibility

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of interacting

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or interactions taking place between 2 people, either

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khan or talaqa.

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If

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amongst them is 3 people.

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Let's just say, we have 3, 3 brothers.

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2 of them are Somali, the other one

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is Pakistani.

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2 Somali brothers, they start interacting, they start

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having a conversation,

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and the third person just sitting there, what

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are they speaking about? Are they even speaking

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about me? Waswas.

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Doubt start entering into his mind.

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Prophet Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, he said,

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2 people

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shouldn't kind of,

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you know,

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keep him out of the conversation.

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Until all the people come and sit in

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that gathering, There's other people sitting together, and

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there's no harm. Let's just say there's 5,

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6 people, but 2 of them they wanna

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discuss something. Laba Sabidarik.

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It could even be done with a different

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language

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or you're whispering to this person.

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I remember Sheikh Saad al Shittri.

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Sheikh Saad al Shittri.

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You don't know Sheikh Saad e Shitri? Sheikh

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Saad e Shitri hates kibar al ulama.

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A couple of years ago, I walked in

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and I was probably shy because sheikh has

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got a love hayva.

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And I thought maybe the issue that I'm

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going to be speaking to him about

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is or was going to kind of make

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him,

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feel a bit awkward. I don't know what

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I was thinking at them. So I walked

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into the office, there was another 2 people

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there

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and everybody was literally flocking around the Sheikh

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and wanting to listen from him because he's

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like star of the show. Right? So one

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of the biggest scholars there. Everybody wants to

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get, you know, piece of cake from the

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from the Sheikh.

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So Sheikh sitting there, I walked in, everybody

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went quiet.

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I was a bit shocked as well to

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see the sheikh.

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And I really wanted to ask him to

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come to Leicester, so I started whispering.

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I started whispering. I was like, Sheikh, you

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know, can you come to Leicester? This that.

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And everybody's like sitting there,

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you know,

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what are you speaking about?

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This is another situation now. If we have

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a group of people, they all

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have their attention to somebody

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And then somebody tries to come and maybe

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have a private conversation with that person. This

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also goes under

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a Tenergy.

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Are you live with me brothers and sisters?

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Sometimes you find we're sitting in a restaurant.

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6 people are there. Everybody's talking to everybody.

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There's no harm in this situation. These 6

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people, 2 of them, they have a conversation.

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Everybody's just talking.

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But if all the eyes, all the limelight,

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all the attention on somebody, you come and

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then start Start having a private conversation when

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everybody just sitting there.

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Because

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it causes the other people to be left

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out.

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This is the illah.

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The reason as to why the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam mentioned that 2 people shouldn't

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interact and leave the 3rd person

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out.

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If a person, let's just say, for example,

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he's sitting in the front of the Masjid.

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He's sitting in front of the Masjid because

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he wants to get that reward of the

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front line.

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He goes out for Duh and he comes

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back.

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Speaking about sittings. Right?

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So he's sitting

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sitting there.

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He goes. He comes back. He finds that

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his space has been taken.

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What do we do in this case?

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Is it permissible for him to tell him

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to move from his space? What did we

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mention earlier?

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Can I get somebody to, you know, to

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move from a space?

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Why? Prophet SAW isn't prohibited, right? Stood up

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from his Majlis and told

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to sit somebody somewhere else.

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But now what if I was sitting there?

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I went for wudhu. I went to quickly

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do something to come back to the position

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I was sitting. Is it permissible for me

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to tell him to get up Na'am? Because

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, as he

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came in the hadith, he said,

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Whoever sitting in a space now, reserved it.

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He's sitting there, waiting for the sunawat.

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Or he's sitting in a gathering of knowledge.

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As you say, you know the Sheikh is

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here, he's given a lecture,

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everybody's crowded around.

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He quickly leaves for whatever reason and he

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comes back. He has every right to go

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back to that space.

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I remember, subhanAllah, you'd ask yourself

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what Yani

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where did this hadith or hadith stem from?

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Why would they want to keep their space

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in the Mezdul when there's such a, you

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know,

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large surface area for a person to go

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and sit in or sit on. Another hadith

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explains this.

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If only the people knew the reward they

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get out of the front row.

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And also doing the adhan, 2 things today

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that you find most people not interested in.

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Then they don't have any other choice

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except to

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do something called istiham or qur'ah.

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What do they call this in English? Let's

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just say I get we all want something

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but there's only one of that thing. Let's

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just say everybody wants this drink.

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Not the lottery. There's another word for it.

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Drawing lots. Is it called drawing lots?

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Raffle.

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Raffle. It's called raffle. Right?

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Raffle. I can leave a lottery.

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Lottery. So,

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you have a we, everybody wants one thing.

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You get all their names to kind of

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be fair and just.

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You get spun. The names get taken out.

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So if the peep because, you know, in

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the time of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasalam,

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everybody was mustabeq al Khairat. Everybody was hasten

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to do good deeds. They sometimes used to

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compete in such a way,

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And they had no other choice except to

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do the raffle thingy, they would have done

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it.

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Tahjeel means a tafkir.

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If only they knew the reward that one

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gets out of,

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you know,

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coming early to the masjid.

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He would have hastened to it.

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Il akhir al hadith.

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The point is brothers and sisters, the reason

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where this

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hadith stemmed off from is they used to

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compete with one another to have that place

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in the masjid. I remember when I was

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in Yemen in the Majj, well I remember

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fights nearly broke out.

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Fights nearly broke out.

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Especially in Ramadan, everybody's waiting for the tarawah.

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Everybody wants to pray in the front row.

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A guy puts his stuff there. Somebody else

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comes, he takes and he dashes it.

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Hadith, right? He

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comes

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and sometimes SubhanAllah, you should see that

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Yani, there was so much malice

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and there was so much competition in regards

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to this. 1 guy even one time stood

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up and grabbed the other individual. Physically try

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to move him.

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Why? Just to kind of go back to

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his space inside the front row.

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Even though I'm not saying that's correct, but

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this is the level that some people reached

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in trying to obtain akhir. Of course, I'm

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not telling you to go and grab somebody

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up if he does that, but rather it

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fa'abilatiyahsen.

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But the point is they hastened.

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You find this very more common in Islamic

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countries when they really go after,

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you know, more the adhan and so on

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and so forth.

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What time is Maghrib exactly?

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9:30?

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9:30 was Ramadan. Right?

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20. Right? 20.

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Okay. Good.

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Another issue I want to mention, and I

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think this is very vital that I mentioned

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is

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when it comes to seeking knowledge, you find

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that

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there's certain issues that prevent a person

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from maybe attending a sitting.

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I will lie, brothers and sisters, if we

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really take heed of this,

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and if you don't take anything from these

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lessons that we've been conducting today,

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except this point, then it's a lot of

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khair.

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Because

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most people, they don't have this.

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Which is a Tawadulilil.

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Humbling yourself when it comes to knowledge.

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A lot of people, brothers, this is, I'm

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telling you, they don't have a Tawadul.

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Either sometimes he doesn't come to the lesson.

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Has hidden.

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Either because of the envy that he has,

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Or maybe because kibr,

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arrogance.

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Who is this person that come and tell

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me? Who is he to teach me? I've

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been studying, I studied 1 year, I studied

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2 years.

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As if he is not in need of

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what? To benefit even more. Or if you

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also say, I'm

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older than him.

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When he himself knows

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that he is in need of what that

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person has.

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He hasn't studied, but because of age difference,

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he has stopped enough from taking knowledge.

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The hadith Musa as Salat,

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salat Abdul Rahman, he mentioned this yesterday.

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When he came to the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam, and the prophet told him not

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once, not twice,

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not 3 times.

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Go back.

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Pray. For indeed you haven't prayed. The hadith

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of the person who prayed a very bad

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prayer. In the end, what did he say?

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He said, by the one who sent you

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as a messenger in truth.

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Subba

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Allah.

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Teach me for indeed I do not know.

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For someone to admit his ignorance

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will lie brothers and sisters. It's not something

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that we should look down upon.

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Rather, this is sick.

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May Allah have mercy, ibn alayim, you mentioned

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upon the individual who knows his level.

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And then he stays within his limits.

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He knows that he needs and he says

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to this person, Aka, please teach me. Or

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he says to this person, Aka, I don't

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understand this in the kitab. Can you please

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maybe clarify this to me?

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Because brothers and sisters, 2 people lie to

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Al Amun.

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Mujahid rahimullah, the student imi Abbas.

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So if you have any thought he said

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about Mujahid,

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If a tafsir comes from Mujahid is sufficient.

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You don't need anything else.

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He said 2 types of people they don't

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learn.

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The shy one, shy to ask. He needs

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the issue, he doesn't ask.

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And the one who's arrogant,

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the one who has arrogance and pride in

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his

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heart. These pathetic reasons stop him now

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from getting maybe benefit.

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To admit your ignorance like this individual. What

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is the benefit that he got out of

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it? The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam directly taught

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him how to pray.

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Now I'm going to mention to you a

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bunch of things, brothers and sisters. But before

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that, the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam told

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us,

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Whoever

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now, you know,

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comes across

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or he,

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shows as if he is great in himself.

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Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said, wakhtalafi

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mashatihi.

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And then he walks in a very prideful

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arrogant way. Lakhiallahu alaihi ghazban. He will meet

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Allah

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while Allah is angry with him.

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So this person is already on the way

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to jahannan.

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And you think that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

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these kind of people who are haughty, arrogant,

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walking on the face of this earth, he's

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just going to leave them like that.

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Rather you find a lot of these people

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brothers and sisters, aladeena yamtani'oona

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anilfaeda.

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They all remain in the masjid.

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The arrogance that remains in their heart. It

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just leads them to not benefiting,

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and then shubahad and shahawat get the better

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of them.

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Because if you know Imajali said dhikr, what

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the manaika are, then

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you are most likely

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to fall into the hands of the shaitan

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alisikiddalik

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because the malaiq adai

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don't come where Ma'aseh is taking place.

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Sooner or later you're bound to be trapped.

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This is why the Masjid,

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Atalukh Bil Masjid,

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where the malaika, where the khair is taking

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place, where the Huda, where the hiday is

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found.

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Look at the Tawad and now Abu Ghrairera.

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Earlier we mentioned that Abu Ghrairera was

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the Creme of the Creme, right? Of all

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the companions.

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He knew the most of hadith.

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Look at his behavior.

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And

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Abdulhamid Al Harith, Akbar Abu Hurayra. Abduhuriya Al

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Hawayra. He told Abu Hurayra about the view

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of Aisha. For a very long time, brothers

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and sisters, Abu Hurayra used to give the

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fatwa.

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That if a person,

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he enters into fajr while he is in

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the state of jannahba,

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the time of fajr has come and he's

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in the state of Janaba, then that person

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can't fast that day.

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He had this view for a very long

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time.

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Then, Abdulhamid Al Hari, he told him about

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the view of Aisha and Ummul Salama. Who

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knows more about

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the private life that the prophet has at

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night?

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Abu Hurayrah and

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Aisha, his wives, right? They're the ones who

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sleep with the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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They know when he's in the state of

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jannah but when he's not.

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They mentioned that the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam said, whoever now reaches the Fajr prayer

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or a time of Fajr, he's a state

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of janaaba

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and he washes himself and he fasts.

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Simple as that. Abu Hurayra wasn't aware of

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that.

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So Abdulham Al Hadith came to him and

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he told him his hadith. Did Abu Hurryra

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radiAllahu ta'ala anhu turn around and say, Akhi,

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listen. I know a 1000 hadith. I know

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I've been studying day in day out. Who

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are you to come and tell me?

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Tawad Alilhaqq.

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He humbled himself

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and he accepted it.

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And he wasn't haughty or arrogant in rejecting

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the haqq because kibir as it was translated

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by the prophet, Baturul Haqqwakam Tunas. To belittle

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the people and to reject the truth.

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Rather the Talibil,

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the true Talibil,

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wherever you find Faida.

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If you find lost property, you're gonna pick

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it up, right? A wallet with, you know,

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quite a lot of money in there. You're

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gonna leave it in the middle of the

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road. You're gonna pick it up. That's how

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knowledge is.

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Wherever you find it, you take

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it. Sometimes a book is being taught and

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you've already studied it before.

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You've already studied that book before.

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You might hear Farwa'id

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that you never ever heard before.

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You might benefit from things that you never

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ever thought of benefiting from, even though you

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already studied that book.

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Find sometimes you go to Masjid.

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The Imam of the Masjid, he walks out,

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he goes and sits somewhere, and then just

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comes back straight after the lesson.

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Like I think to myself like a Rajul

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Like as he

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encompassed all of knowledge and maybe if he's

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already learned it, is a still fresh in

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his mind, maybe he might be reminded. This

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is why Sheikh Saladin

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all the time in his story said,

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he says that the individuals already studied.

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He studies these books again so they can

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become solidified even more as a refreshment in

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his mind.

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And subhan'Allah brothers and sisters,

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I witnessed some stuff in Al Medina that

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really, really touched my heart.

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Well I know those times I got really

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emotional about it because this is true humility.

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Never does a person humble himself except that

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Allah azza wa Jal raises him. What happens

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when you don't humble yourself? The mantook is

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that what we mentioned. The mantook says that

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which we take directly from the hadith whoever

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humbles himself

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Allah will raise him and whoever doesn't humble

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himself, what happens? What's the opposite? Allah puts

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him down. Wahadamafhoomal

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hadith.

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I saw in Malideen, a brother and sister,

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in the settings

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of scholars.

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You know who are sitting with some of

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these scholars?

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Scholars as well.

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We might think to myself, okay. This guy

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has been studying for the last 40 years.

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He doesn't need some of these books that

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he probably knows it. The way he knows

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is the back of his hand.

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Sheikh Rashaydan. Some of you might not know

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Sheikh Rashaydan. He's the one that

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reads on Sheikh Abdul Muhsin al Abad.

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He's been reading on the, the,

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Muhaddith of Al Madina for the last 8

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to 9 years. A hadith. Bukhari.

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Most he started all of that. When Shasali

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Al Usaymi comes and he teaches us Surah

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Al Thalata,

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all these other small books that we're currently

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studying now, he still sits there. I mean,

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Babe Al Muraja

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never said to himself, man, you know, man

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like me

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study this.

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I don't need it.

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Halas, you know. Let the youngers, you know,

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let these youngs who just started seeking, let

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them sit there.

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Father, he will sit down and he will

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try to benefit.

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He will try to benefit brothers and sisters.

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By the way, Sheikh Rashaydan is the guy

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that made me cry. Wallahi made me cry

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in the Prophet's Masjid.

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He humiliated me.

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And why

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was he trying to do that? He was

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trying to do that in order to really

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see if I'm eager to do that. He

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has the most deadliest halaqaat.

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He has the deadliest halaqaat in the Haram.

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7 days a week, You miss one day,

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you're being punished for 2 weeks.

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You're being punished for 2 weeks. You have

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to stay in the masjid. If you miss

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out on these memorizing circles

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for 2 weeks, you have to sit till

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the askari comes. Till the police comes and

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wants to lock the masjid, you have to

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sit in a masjid.

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7 days a week, every single day. And

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you have to read a 100 hadith

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like water.

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You make 2 mistakes, you're being sent back.

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You know Allah say,

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start doubting.

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They're

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harsh to try and make your memorization something

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else.

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He makes people read the hadith backwards, you

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know backwards.

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Let's just say a person is memorizing a

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150 hadith.

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Start reading the hadith backwards.

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150, 149,

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148, 147.

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One time he made me read 70 hadith.

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The 71th hadith backwards. I made a mistake.

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Assalamu Alaikum.

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Allah embarrassed me in front of everybody.

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Why is he doing that? He's doing that

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to kind of see how serious you are

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with knowledge. If you're going to come back.

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Asha'id Al Khalam,

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I saw in his majlis, Sheikh Salar al

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Husseini the katera.

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People who are mashaikh scholars, who have been

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teaching for the last 20, 30 years.

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Also, I remember, you know, the Mufti, the

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Mufti.

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The Mufti of Memlakatul Arabi at Surudia.

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He was sitting in the gatherings

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of a Sheikh called

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Salih al Husseimi. The same Sheikh, Abdul Salam

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Ashuair.

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He's listening to the lecture, even though it's

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just a lecture. He's still sitting there humbling

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himself. The Mufti is sitting there listening to

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the lecture.

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Also, there's another Sheikh Subhan'an that's got a

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chair in the Prophet's Masjid. His name is

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Amir Bajid.

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Most people who know the Sheikh will say

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that he's very, very strong when it comes

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to hambal I fiqh.

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Very firmly grounded.

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Recently, when another Sheikh from Mecca came, he's

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very young as well.

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This other Sheikh, okay, very young. His name

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is Sheikh Abdul Salamis, also very strong in

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hambali malhab.

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This Sheikh, Amir Al Bahajid, who has hundreds

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of students coming to his lesson

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every week,

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humbles himself. He goes and sits right in

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the front

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taking notes from the Sheikh.

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These are the true people who are very

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truthful in knowledge.

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I remember, you know, Shakhtar White.

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Shakhtar White, the first American,

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Westerner to get a teacher to get a

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seat in the Haram.

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Something very beautiful one time that he mentioned

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was

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he said that he was in Medina for

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21 years. Soon he's gonna go back to

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America

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or one of these countries, Allahu Alem.

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He said he's learned so much, and one

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of the main things that he learned

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was that there's still so much to learn.

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There is still so much to learn.

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And then you're always in need of mohrajah.

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Always in need of what? Benefiting,

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taking the knowledge, revising the knowledge. Sometimes a

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person comes, you should appreciate.

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He's going through something that you went through

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before. Take as moorajah.

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When I was reading one time when I

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was when I was in Yemen,

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I was trying to memorize the hadith in

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Bukhary.

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Wallahi, brothers and sisters, I realized

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I was more ignorant

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than before I memorized the Hadith.

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Why? Because every Hadith you memorized brothers and

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sisters now, there's different messiah that arise.

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There's questions that pop up.

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Okay. How do I combine this and this

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other hadith that I knew before?

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Now I've got more issues to kind of

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think about and you start reading more books,

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more issues start arising and now you need

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to try and fix it like a puzzle.

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And the 9th point that the Sheikh states,

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Hafidahullah

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is to give the street its right

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and to lower your gaze and to restrain

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harm from the people and to return the

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salaam

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and to,

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to abstain good. No.

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To,

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what more bill ma'am? To enjoying the good

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and to forbid the evil. To enjoy the

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good and forbid the evil.

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Jaid.

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First thing, aatiya attaraykha haka.

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Give the road its right. You're walking on

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the road. You see Adah, give the road

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its right. What is

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the right of the road? The Sheikh here

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is referring to another hadith.

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Hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi was telling

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when he said,

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beware of sitting on the roads.

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They said, You Rasool Allah, you know, it's

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a must for us to be sitting on

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the roads and so on and so forth.

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Because this is where we, you know, engage

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in conversations and we chat and chat and

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chat here.

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Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

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said, If you don't know just refuse except

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to sit, then the least you could do

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is

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Give the streets, the roads, its right.

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They ask you Rasool Allah what is the

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right of the road?

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Lower your gaze.

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Not every woman that walk past you. Look

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at her up and down, up and down,

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up and down. And then another one walk

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past, and then you stare a life out

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of her. And you're, you know, giving your

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ratings of every, you know, lady that walks

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past.

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Some hopes that is taking place that a

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a brother who is very engaged in social

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media and recently made me aware of. What

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some Somali brothers are doing now is they're

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getting sisters inked Instagram pictures.

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Some of you kids know probably what I'm

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talking about.

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And 3 of them are sitting and someone's

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recording,

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And they put the picture of the sister

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on the screen, and

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then everybody says, how much in Mahr would

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you pay for her?

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What would you rate her out of a

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100 or out of 10?

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Some of them said I'll pay 5¢ for

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her, and everybody starts laughing.

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Humiliating sisters who came out on social media,

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of course, they're partly to blame. Who told

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you to come out

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taking pictures near the light to make yourself

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light skinned?

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She's dark skinned, she puts herself near the

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lamp to make herself light skinned, to look

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better, and to maybe go out and obtain

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likes.

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And then this guy is finishing her off

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and 100 and thousands of people are watching

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these videos of these guys laughing.

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So they comment, I'd pay 20,000 for her.

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The other guy comes, and I'll pay Mahar

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30,000

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commenting on his sisters.

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Rather brother and sister, you have to understand,

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Ghadul Basar

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It is one of the main

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principles of what

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looking after your heart because we know brothers,

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If this now becomes

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corrupt, everything else becomes corrupt. I asked you

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by Allah,

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the blind guy, the blind guy,

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blind guy, the guy who's not able to

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see,

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can this individual

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fall into zina?

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Abdullai.

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Have you ever heard of a blind man

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falling into zina?

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Blind guy, can he fall? What's the likelihood

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that's going to fall into zina?

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Very unlikely. Right?

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But what happens is through the another, it

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starts a chain

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of thoughts that could lead a person in

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committing zina.

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This

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is what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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mentioned, lower your gaze and

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then safeguard your private part.

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Because once you cut out the sight,

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it's very highly unlikely that you're gonna go

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and fall into zina. This is why the

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prophet

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Tell the believing woman to lower his gaze.

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Because once you look that's when something hits

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your heart.

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Are you with me brothers and sisters?

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Wakaful Adah

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also to refrain harm. You find harm taking

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place in the road, you try to stop

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it. You don't know of that guy, right,

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who went viral recently. Saw 2 guys fighting

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and he stopped it. Hadha Islam.

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And then Lebron James retweeted it. That's what

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everybody was saying. He reached the page of

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Lebron James.

00:31:04 --> 00:31:05

What's the name again? Muhammad.

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Ali, right? Ali. His name is Ali.

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Saw 2 people fighting, stop the fight.

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Try to give advice as much as possible.

00:31:15 --> 00:31:17

You see one of your sisters,

00:31:17 --> 00:31:20

Somali sisters, Pakistani sisters, a guy is trying

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to chirp, sir, turn on to fear Allah

00:31:22 --> 00:31:23

in a nice way,

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in a nice way.

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Somebody give you a salaam and you also

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return the salaam. Walamrubilmaarufiwanahialilmunkar.

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To enjoin the good and forbid the evil.

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You see something wrong taking place, you enjoying

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it.

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Tell the people to do good. See something

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Haram taking place,

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you tell the people to refrain from it.

00:31:45 --> 00:31:47

In another hadith, the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam that

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help assist your brother

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regardless of the fact of him being an

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oppressor or being oppressed.

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So how is that possible?

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If he's oppressing, how am I going to

00:32:02 --> 00:32:02

help him?

00:32:03 --> 00:32:05

We understand, okay, the oppressed one, we go

00:32:05 --> 00:32:07

out and we help this person. Right? What

00:32:07 --> 00:32:09

about the person who's oppressing?

00:32:12 --> 00:32:14

You should take him by the hand and

00:32:14 --> 00:32:16

try to advising him and take him to

00:32:16 --> 00:32:16

the correct path.

00:32:17 --> 00:32:18

That's the way

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of aiding your brother who is an oppressor.

00:32:25 --> 00:32:26

Because brothers and sisters,

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as time goes on, you have to understand

00:32:29 --> 00:32:31

we are bound to see more filth.

00:32:34 --> 00:32:36

There doesn't come a time except the time

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that comes up is worse. We are going

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to see much worse stuff.

00:32:40 --> 00:32:41

It was absolutely unimaginable

00:32:42 --> 00:32:43

to see

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sisters, Muslim sisters wearing miniskars. I remember I

00:32:47 --> 00:32:49

mentioned that in a lecture one time, oh,

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we're gonna see a time where sisters are

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going to be wearing mini skirts in a

00:32:53 --> 00:32:54

hijab as well.

00:32:55 --> 00:32:57

A brother a brother put his hand and

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he goes, Ustad, I already see that in

00:33:00 --> 00:33:00

college.

00:33:01 --> 00:33:03

Sisters with hijab, they are wearing miniskirts.

00:33:04 --> 00:33:07

That wasn't available brothers and sisters 20, 30

00:33:07 --> 00:33:08

years ago.

00:33:08 --> 00:33:10

But now it's becoming so common.

00:33:12 --> 00:33:13

So leshahid is, enjoining the good and forbidding

00:33:13 --> 00:33:15

the people, those who are actually gonna do

00:33:15 --> 00:33:17

it is going to become more and more

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and more rare. More difficult because so many

00:33:19 --> 00:33:21

people are going to be upon Fawahish.

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Prophet

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said in another hadith,

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I miss those who I love.

00:33:28 --> 00:33:30

So the companions, they got a bit jealous.

00:33:30 --> 00:33:30

They said,

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aren't we the people that you love? He

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said, la, unto Mashabi, you are my companions.

00:33:40 --> 00:33:42

My beloved ones are people are going to

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come at the end of time

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Khalqabi Dhul Jamer.

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Like they are holding on to the religion

00:33:51 --> 00:33:52

like holding on to hot coal. What happens

00:33:52 --> 00:33:55

when you pick up the fire? A coal

00:33:55 --> 00:33:56

and it's burning, you're going to drop it.

00:33:56 --> 00:33:58

Right? The religion is going to be dropped

00:33:58 --> 00:33:59

like that. People are going to find it

00:33:59 --> 00:34:00

very difficult.

00:34:02 --> 00:34:04

Glad tidings to those who are strange.

00:34:12 --> 00:34:13

One second. Let me mention one this last

00:34:13 --> 00:34:14

point.

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Upon the tongue of 2 prophets.

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Dawud alaihi salatu wasallam and also who?

00:34:33 --> 00:34:35

Isa alaihi salatu wasallam.

00:34:35 --> 00:34:38

They were cursed upon the 2 tongues. Why?

00:34:42 --> 00:34:45

If they saw evil taking place amongst them,

00:34:45 --> 00:34:46

they wouldn't stop it.

00:34:47 --> 00:34:49

And there's a story behind it.

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The first deficiency that entered upon the Bani

00:35:09 --> 00:35:09

Israel,

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that

00:35:11 --> 00:35:13

a man he used to meet another individual,

00:35:15 --> 00:35:17

he would see him doing something evil. He

00:35:17 --> 00:35:19

would say to him, stay away from this.

00:35:19 --> 00:35:21

He would say to him, stay away from

00:35:21 --> 00:35:21

this.

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And then look what happens.

00:35:26 --> 00:35:28

And then after he would meet him the

00:35:28 --> 00:35:30

next day, he would meet him the next

00:35:30 --> 00:35:30

day,

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and he would see him doing the exact

00:35:33 --> 00:35:33

same thing.

00:35:34 --> 00:35:37

So the guy who disapproved of this yesterday,

00:35:37 --> 00:35:39

he's now sitting down with him, he's chilling

00:35:39 --> 00:35:41

with him, he's just enjoying his time with

00:35:41 --> 00:35:43

him, but he doesn't tell him to stop

00:35:43 --> 00:35:44

what he's doing.

00:35:45 --> 00:35:48

So Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala cast them.

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Last point.

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Good.

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You wanna translate? No.

00:36:12 --> 00:36:13

And the 10th point is that you wear

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the best of clothing

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or the most beautiful of clothing and the

00:36:17 --> 00:36:19

best of the and the best of clothing

00:36:19 --> 00:36:22

is the what is, white. Walayuja

00:36:22 --> 00:36:22

wizkaabeke

00:36:23 --> 00:36:25

suflah and to not exceed

00:36:25 --> 00:36:26

your throat's,

00:36:27 --> 00:36:28

length below the ankle.

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And to start with dressing,

00:36:33 --> 00:36:34

on your right.

00:36:36 --> 00:36:38

And to take it off with your left

00:36:38 --> 00:36:40

by starting with the left. Okay. We don't

00:36:40 --> 00:36:41

have much time but the first was,

00:36:43 --> 00:36:45

to wear the most beautiful garments that you

00:36:45 --> 00:36:48

have. The Sheikh here is referring to the

00:36:48 --> 00:36:50

Hadith of Abdulai Mus'udan radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu. He

00:36:50 --> 00:36:50

said,

00:36:54 --> 00:36:56

A person who has a mustard grain of

00:36:56 --> 00:36:57

kibir in his heart, he's not going to

00:36:57 --> 00:36:58

enter into Jannah.

00:36:59 --> 00:37:00

So a man he said,

00:37:04 --> 00:37:05

So a man when he heard this, he

00:37:05 --> 00:37:07

went to the Prophet and he said, You

00:37:07 --> 00:37:09

Rasool Allah a man, he likes for his

00:37:09 --> 00:37:12

soap, his clothes to be nice, and also

00:37:12 --> 00:37:13

for his shoes, his sandals to be nice.

00:37:13 --> 00:37:15

So the prophet salallahu alayhi said,

00:37:20 --> 00:37:20

Allah

00:37:20 --> 00:37:23

Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, he loves that which is

00:37:23 --> 00:37:23

beautiful.

00:37:24 --> 00:37:26

He loves that which is beautiful and that

00:37:26 --> 00:37:27

which is one That is beautiful.

00:37:28 --> 00:37:29

So the point is one doesn't dress like

00:37:29 --> 00:37:32

a Trump just to make himself look like,

00:37:32 --> 00:37:33

you know, Zahid.

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

This is something that was disliked by the

00:37:35 --> 00:37:35

Salif.

00:37:36 --> 00:37:38

Just to make yourself look like a person

00:37:38 --> 00:37:40

who doesn't care about the dunya and overlooks

00:37:40 --> 00:37:42

it. He wears chumpy clothes.

00:37:43 --> 00:37:45

But rather the Prophet said in another hadith,

00:37:50 --> 00:37:52

Allah loves that if Allah has blessed you

00:37:52 --> 00:37:55

with a blessing that he sees the blessing

00:37:55 --> 00:37:55

on you.

00:37:56 --> 00:37:58

That he sees the blessing on you. Allah

00:37:58 --> 00:38:00

loves that. But rather the true kibr is

00:38:00 --> 00:38:02

to reject the truth and belief of the

00:38:02 --> 00:38:02

people.

00:38:04 --> 00:38:06

So the sheikh then also he mentioned

00:38:09 --> 00:38:11

and the best clothing that a person could

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

wear is abiab. He's referring to

00:38:17 --> 00:38:19

Wear your white clothing for indeed it's the

00:38:19 --> 00:38:20

best clothing that you could wear.

00:38:21 --> 00:38:21

And

00:38:22 --> 00:38:24

also, what do you do?

00:38:25 --> 00:38:26

Then wrap your,

00:38:27 --> 00:38:29

your deceased with the white as well.

00:38:34 --> 00:38:36

Another etiquette that the Sheikh, he mentioned that

00:38:36 --> 00:38:38

one shouldn't wear his garment

00:38:39 --> 00:38:40

below his ankles.

00:38:40 --> 00:38:41

And he's referring to the hadith of the

00:38:41 --> 00:38:43

prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam.

00:38:47 --> 00:38:49

Anything that is below the ankles is in

00:38:49 --> 00:38:49

the hellfire.

00:38:51 --> 00:38:53

Someone might say, okay, but the prophet sallallahu

00:38:53 --> 00:38:55

alaihi is only referring

00:38:55 --> 00:38:56

to the hadith.

00:38:57 --> 00:38:59

If a person does the Araf Takabbur,

00:38:59 --> 00:39:00

only then it's impermissible.

00:39:01 --> 00:39:03

Like the scholars they say, if a person

00:39:03 --> 00:39:06

now, he wears his garment below his ankle

00:39:07 --> 00:39:08

Without Takabur,

00:39:08 --> 00:39:10

it's Haram as it is. It's also as

00:39:10 --> 00:39:12

bad as each other. Something very bad already.

00:39:12 --> 00:39:14

But if he now does it with Takabur,

00:39:15 --> 00:39:17

he does it with arrogance, it's even worse

00:39:18 --> 00:39:19

according to this hadith.

00:39:24 --> 00:39:26

I'm going to conclude this. 3 people Allah

00:39:26 --> 00:39:28

will speak to them, and he won't look

00:39:28 --> 00:39:30

at them, and he won't purify them, and

00:39:30 --> 00:39:32

they have a painful punishment. And one of

00:39:32 --> 00:39:34

them that was mentioned was al Musbel, the

00:39:34 --> 00:39:36

one who wears his clothing below his ankles.

00:39:36 --> 00:39:39

So if a person wears it just like

00:39:39 --> 00:39:41

that without takabbur, it's already as bad.

00:39:42 --> 00:39:44

He does it with takabbur, he's walking. And

00:39:44 --> 00:39:45

this is something that the people of the

00:39:45 --> 00:39:47

past used to do. They used to wear

00:39:47 --> 00:39:48

takabbur, it's even worse.

00:39:53 --> 00:39:56

Assalamu alaykum brothers and sisters for listening attentively,

00:39:56 --> 00:39:56

inshallah.

00:39:57 --> 00:39:58

Tomorrow,

00:39:58 --> 00:40:00

we'll try and go through the whole Usul

00:40:00 --> 00:40:02

Usita. Sita. Whole Usul Sita,

00:40:04 --> 00:40:05

the whole Sunday, InshaAllah,

00:40:06 --> 00:40:08

we're gonna try and start straight off the

00:40:08 --> 00:40:08

duhr,

00:40:09 --> 00:40:10

Straight off the duhr, so we can benefit

00:40:10 --> 00:40:12

from the time. Straight off the duhr

00:40:13 --> 00:40:15

and all the way till Maghrib.

00:40:15 --> 00:40:17

All the way till Maghrib. Sheikh Abdul Basir,

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

he has one

00:40:18 --> 00:40:20

class, but we're gonna try and finish that

00:40:20 --> 00:40:21

book inshallahta'ala.

00:40:22 --> 00:40:23

I really appreciate that a lot of you

00:40:23 --> 00:40:26

have been listening very attentively. I remember a

00:40:26 --> 00:40:28

couple of years ago the kids used to

00:40:28 --> 00:40:30

run around and shout and talk. But I

00:40:30 --> 00:40:32

feel like there's been a very big change

00:40:32 --> 00:40:35

with our youngest, Zaqq Mulla Khair.

00:40:35 --> 00:40:37

And, we will commence tomorrow by the door

00:40:37 --> 00:40:40

straight away inshallah wata'ala. Assalamu alaikum.

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