Abu Taymiyyah – Part 4 Ahadeeth on Fasting Bukhari & Muslim Umdatul Ahkaam

Abu Taymiyyah
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The Hayid's message is not to behave like the previous hadith and to not be greedy. It is important to be humble and use the example of subhanously reading books to improve one's understanding of the concept. The importance of fasting, being mindful of one's actions, and letting fear and doubt cloud one's actions is real. The third thing is what Muhtaran does, which is intentionally. It is a response to fasting, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful of one's actions, being mindful
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So there's a number of explanations that the

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scholars, they gave of how to maybe reconcile

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or what to do with this.

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The first one is,

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you have Abu Hurray radiAllahu ta'ala anhu, scholars

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they mentioned about him that he actually retracted

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from this.

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He was a retraction of Abu Hurray radiAllahu

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ta'ala Anhu. We're gonna take some lessons from

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this.

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Abu

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Hurray used to give the fatwa,

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that if 1

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enters the time of fajr, he's in the

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state of jannah then he can't fast that

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day.

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One time Abdul Rahman Al Haris Do you

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guys know Abdul Rahman Al Haris? It's probably

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a name that doesn't

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ring a bell, right?

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Abdul Rahman ibn Haris.

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He came to Abu Ray

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and he told him that, Ummi

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told Abdul Rahman, told him,

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Fajr used to kick in, and he was

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in a state of janaaba.

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He would wash himself and he would what?

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He would carry on fasting.

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Suburay

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said,

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Oh,

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did he really say that?

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And what did he say?

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They are more knowledgeable than me.

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Suburayrah radiAllahu ta'ala never sleep with

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the right? Never lived in his house.

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And the janaba is happening because of what?

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They're the ones who know most about this

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issue because they're directly involved.

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Are you with me guys? And Sahib al

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Qadhi is aalam.

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When an issue or incident takes place with

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a particular, he's more knowledgeable than the companion

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who may have, you know, heard it from

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somewhere else.

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What then guys?

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What do we take from these guys?

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Abu Hurayrah retracting.

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We all know Abu Hurayrah,

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He does not require introduction.

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Those who narrated the most hadith, who was

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top of the charts?

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Abu Hurayrah, tell him Nur Umar.

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Did he turn around and say, bro,

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I've been Nadiawa 20 years brother.

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I am the one who knows the most

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hadith.

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You wanna come tell me what's right and

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what's wrong?

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It teaches us tawagaw.

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And every time I reach this hadith, I

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have to give a lesson on tawagaw.

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One humbling himself,

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and not behave like firaoun.

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How did firaoun behave?

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When Musa came to him

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with the truth,

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you know what he said to him?

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We nurtured you as a little kid,

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and you spent a part of your life

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with us, and you wanna tell me what's

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wrong, what's wrong?

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And this is the way of those who

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are arrogant.

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They stop belittling your age,

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even though the truth has been brought to

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them.

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And they start mentioning some of your shortcomings,

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and also the sins you used to commit.

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And this is exactly what Fir'an unto Musa,

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you done x y and zed.

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And you wanna come and I'll tell me

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what's wrong and what's wrong?

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And then he called him a kafir.

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You're a kafir,

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and we see this today as well. And

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one guy gets upset,

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starts throwing abuse

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at the individual that he's speaking to. I

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remember one time I was in Medina,

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shall I mention this or not?

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Was at a table,

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I became a person who was following the

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sunnah, and who wasn't following the sunnah in

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the same sitting, in the space of maybe

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15 minutes.

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And then later on, when the guy was

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asked why did you call a Butayme an

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Ikhwani?

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He goes, no, I was just taken by

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jealousy, you know.

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I was just angry.

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This is the way for our own guys.

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Starts, you know, throwing abuse at one another,

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kafir.

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So I became Salafi and a non Salafi,

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person who's following the sunnah, not following the

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sunnah in the space of 20 minutes,

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Allahu Akbar.

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Point of the matter is, Abu Huray was

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what? A humble individual.

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He did not turn around and reject the

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truth because so and so only started practicing

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yesterday.

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But rather you say, jazakallahu khayran, and whoever

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says,

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as a mess salallahu alayhi wa sallam said.

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And what is kibr?

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Messal salallahu alayhi wa sallam explained it,

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Rejecting the truth

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and also belittling others. These

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guy, when you speak to him, he's always

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just talking about age. That guy, yeah, I'm

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older than him.

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Yes, the guy who's older, he has more

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hikma,

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and even himself like shouldn't be the type

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of person who keeps bringing up his age

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when a discussion of illm is taking place.

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So tomorrow when a brother starts practicing and

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he tells you're doing something wrong, or you're

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leading tarawih tomorrow,

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okay, and a little kid tells you, Oh

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you made a mistake in the salah, you

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should take that and accept it,

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and be a humble individual,

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and try to take the truth wherever it

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is.

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Another aspect

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that I always mention guys with regards to

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being humble, if you look at the people

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of the past,

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they would take knowledge from one another,

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even though one was the teacher and the

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other was the student.

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Imam al Khumeid who

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was a student of Imam Shafi'i,

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When you open

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up

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the first hadeem of Sayil Bukhari,

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okay? The first name you find in there

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is who? Al Humaidi.

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He was a teacher of Imam al Bukhari,

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and Al Humaidi was a student of? Mam

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Shafi You

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see?

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He says, Sahib Tu Shafi'iyan min Makkah Tayla

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Misra.

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I accompanied Imam Shafi'i from Makkah all the

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way to Misra.

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It's not a 2 hour flight, guys.

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It was a long way when they were

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walking in the past.

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He used to benefit from me with regards

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to fiqh,

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and I used to benefit from him or

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the other way around, sorry.

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I used to benefit fiqh from him because

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Imam al Shaikh was known for his fiqh,

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right? And he used to benefit from me

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when it came to hadith.

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Muhammad Muhammad

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who was a student Imam Shafi'i,

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Imam Shafi'i said to him,

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to him,

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You are more knowledgeable

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than us when it comes to the issue

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of Hadith. Imam Shafi'i is saying to him,

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I pay attention to Shafi'i

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Izzar, the Haramunabilir, they no more Hadith.

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If the Hadith is authentic,

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tell Us, so that we can act upon

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it.

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This is the real

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teacher and student relationship.

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Today you find a guy who goes and

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studies a bit here and there,

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and then still he needs what you have,

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but he's not gonna sit down,

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he just keeps quiet.

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Or he maybe shying, he shies away from

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sitting in circles,

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because I've studied a bit now, but rather

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The hikmah, the wisdom, is like the lost

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property of a believer,

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wherever he finds it he picks it up.

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You find the wallet, are you gonna walk

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past it and just leave it?

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You're not right, you can do something about

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it. That's what al means. Wherever you find

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it what did you say again?

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And that's a blame worthy type of shyness.

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If you don't ask even though you desperately

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need it.

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Shyness,

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generally speaking is something that is praiseworthy in

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the sharia, right?

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But when it comes to imla,

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you ask,

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you humble yourself, you sit down.

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SubhanAllah, like there's so many examples but I

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just feel like I might end up, you

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know,

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prolonging the lesson.

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I used to write down all the little

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examples of humbleness that I saw from the

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scholars.

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You know, there's a Sheikh called Nasr al

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Faqih, who's a teacher and the Prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam is Masjid.

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Sheikh Salah Alfuzan,

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he doesn't come to Masjid Al Nabi and

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conduct a class, barely ever.

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And Alhamdulillah I'm so happy that I was

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there the day when he came to Masjid

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Al Nabi.

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And this Sheikh,

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Nasir al Faqih is maybe over 80 years

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old.

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80 years old.

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Very old in age,

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and he teaches Kitabat UHaid.

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Sheikh Salih Al Fakhih comes, he's given a

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class,

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Sheikh Nasir Al Fakhih, I think that was

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the day when he canceled his class,

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came all the way to the class and

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sat humbly there.

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And he was taking down notes.

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He didn't say, I'm old in age now,

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you know, I've probably taken all of the

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knowledge of Sheikh Salih al Fazan through his

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books.

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I don't think I'm gonna take anything new

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from the Sheikh.

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Humility.

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And you know my brothers and my sisters,

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based on how humble you are, that's how

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much knowledge you're going to attain.

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That's how much knowledge you're going to attain.

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And it's a characteristic, I'll tell you right

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now,

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that I struggle to find in many people.

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You got the likes of Sheikh Abu Sam,

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I'm gonna mention this. He's one of the

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most humblest guys, Abu Samad Dahabi. You guys

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may have seen him on YouTube, He's one

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of the most humblest guys I've seen. He's

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maybe old enough to be my dad.

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He's old enough to be my dad.

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Sometimes he'll phone me,

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Oh, what was the ayah again in that

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surah? Give me the ayah on this topic,

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all the different ayah that speak about this

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particular topic.

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So all enough to be on that, he

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graduated

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from jama'atilismiyah,

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maybe over 27 years ago.

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And he's asking, you know, a guy who's

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like the age of a son maybe.

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I've seen in the classes of Sheikh Salih

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Bilhamd bin Abdulai Al Hamid Al Hussaini.

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It's one of the biggest classes in the

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year.

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People come from all over the place.

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You have the likes of Sheikh Lou Shaitan,

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who's been maybe studying with Sheikh Abdul Muqshin

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al Abad who's like the Muhadid of Madina,

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for the last 28

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years they say, Allahu'ala.

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Or maybe I'm wrong. But anyways, for a

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very long time,

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he's sitting in the class, taking, reading a

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book.

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And the Sheikh has got PhD, he's been

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teaching in the Jannah for so long.

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Sheikh Abdul Salam is sure we have to

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mention this.

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Comes from Riyadh, conducts a class,

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stole me a couple of books. There's another

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Sheikh called Amir Bajid who also has a

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chair in haram.

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When sheikh comes, the other sheikh who teaches

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in haram, he's

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the closest to the teacher.

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He's right.

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These, you know, sometimes, subhanAllah, when you visit

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the scholars, it's different than when you're here

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in the country.

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You actually see the way they carry themselves,

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how humble they are, and it inspires you.

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Because ilm is not just about, you know,

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taking in theory.

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That's why the scholars,

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they gave a lot of importance in learning

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adab,

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etiquettes and manners, and how a person should

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carry himself.

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That's why, Abdullah Mubarak,

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he said,

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We are in need of small amounts of

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etiquettes.

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Then we are in need of large amounts

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of what? Knowledge.

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Because of your bad etiquette, it could be

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the reason why you don't attain anything.

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This is a some time back, I was

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teaching a brother

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who was going through

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a book in fiqh.

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And obviously he didn't necessarily mean it

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because, you know, he comes from that kind

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of background.

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And that was the day when I realized

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something is wrong and something has to change.

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I didn't start teaching him a book in

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manners.

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One time he said to me, yo,

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why Why are we having a nice yo,

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what was that again?

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Allah, my jaw dropped.

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That guy just said, yo.

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That's a problem.

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Things like that could really, really prevent you

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from

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and he doesn't even realize himself because it's

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like so instilled into his language.

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I had to pull him up one time,

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explain to him, told him go and buy

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that kitab

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and read, you know how the relationship with

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the teacher and the student should be

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and how we should address him.

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You see,

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that one doesn't address the teacher except with,

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you know, the best

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of titles and so on and so forth.

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Yo.

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Where was all of this taken from guys?

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Being humble?

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Messenger salallahu alaihi wa sallam, he was the

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most humblest of them.

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He was the most humblest of them. Who

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did the Quran come down upon?

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Right?

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Allah

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subayeen.

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Allah

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subayeen. Allah subayeen.

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So he that he may clarify to them.

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Why are you guys?

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And then he asked, Ubayb,

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read

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And then he asked him why?

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He said,

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Allah

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told me to get you to read this

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upon me, and it is He who the

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Surah came down upon.

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Allah's humility guys.

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Next hadith we're going to be taking

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Whoever eats

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when fasting

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forgetfully

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or drinks, value zimlasamu let the individual complete

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his fast.

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For indeed it is only Allah

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who has fed him and also quenched his

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thirst.

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Statement of the Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, in

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Nesya, meaning when he

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or he forgets while fasting.

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Okay?

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This word now

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it covers all types of fasting, whether it

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is the obligatory type of fasting in the

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month of Ramadan,

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whether it is

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where a person he has made a vow,

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that if Allah

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gives him a child, I'm going to fast

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for 2 weeks.

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Are you with me guys? This is called

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another.

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And one has to fulfill the another. And

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if he can't, he has to come with

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the expiation.

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Are you with me guys?

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What do you say?

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Whoever now maketh the vow to obey Allah

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then let him go and do so.

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And likewise,

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if this type of fasting that he's observing

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is a voluntary type of fasting,

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if a person accidentally eats,

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well there you guys,

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He can carry on. So it doesn't only

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cover the fast that a person does in

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the month of Ramadan.

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Then it's seen when the messenger of Allah

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is when he said,

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He eats or he

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drinks.

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This statement of the messrah alaihi wa sallam

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doesn't only cover that which is digestible.

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Or something that is edible?

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Anything that enters into the interior,

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whether it's something that is edible or non

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edible, something that can be digested or not

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digested,

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all of that

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breaks a person's fast. So the person is

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smuggling in some drugs into another country and

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he puts that down in his gut.

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Do we say his fast is broken?

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You guys are laughing.

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Does he bring his fast? Yes, we do.

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He's smuggling in drugs. But this guy is

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somebody, you know,

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who fears Allah, al Zawudel, he prays, and

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he also fasted the month of

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Ramadan.

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But then he's like, you know, transporting a

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couple of things here and there, you know,

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some tutus and that.

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Does that break his fast?

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Yes, it does break his fast.

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Whether it's something that is edible, non edible,

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something that can be digested

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and not digested,

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all of that breaks its fast.

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And there's a lot of things that come

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under this issue,

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that the scholars they mentioned. But this is

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not necessarily it's time.

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Food,

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drink, like we mentioned whether it's edible or

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non edible, digested or non digested.

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Okay? And there's other things that the scholars,

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they mentioned as well.

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Like even individual now, he puts kuhul in

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his eyes,

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and in the kuhl,

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he ends up tasting it in his what?

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In his throat,

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that breaks the result.

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And if a person now

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ends up taking

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food and drink, or nutrition through his nose,

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again, that's going to break a person's fast,

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is why the Messenger

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he said,

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Be somebody who exaggerates,

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or you know, really perfects when sniff sniff

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it out properly,

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when making wudu, except

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when you're fasting. So that shows us that

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this is an entrance

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of that which could break a person's fast.

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Another things that can be mentioned,

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Madhav states

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The interior.

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You know, something that is closed off, that

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has an entrance that, you know, it's a

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for a jawf.

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Also they say with regards to the head

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now, if a person has a gash in

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his head,

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somebody gets a plank of wood, hits him

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on top of the head, he starts bleeding.

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If a dawah is entered,

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you know medicine,

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is placed in that part of the injury,

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and it goes in as fast as broken.

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This is the position of the Hanabula,

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and anything that goes in into the body.

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In that which has an entrance

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like the

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eyes, they say that's an entrance, right? Also

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the nose, that's an entrance as well, for

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something.

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While they have likewise the mouth, that's also

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another entrance.

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Someone gets a cut and they put, like,

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a Band Aid on it. The Band Aid,

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it has some type of

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medicine inside.

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So does that really fast?

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Hello.

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Tabe, you see an individual, he's fasting,

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and he's got something in his hand.

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And he's about to put inside his interior,

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into his mouth.

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Are you gonna say to him, fa'ina maha

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ta'am maha'allaahu wa saka' is only Allah is

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feeding him.

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And he's quenching his leave him. Let him

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do whatever he wants.

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Hey, what did you do?

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You're gonna stop him. Allah

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is feeding him for ilaha illa wussaka.

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Why are you stopping

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This individual like enjoying khair, you know, and

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quenching his thirst.

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The guy is tired. He's been fasting for

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17 hours and it is Allah is about

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to feed him.

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Who can give me the evidence as to

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what he has to do?

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The guy's about to eat and then you

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shout,

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and the guy gets shocked.

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How'd you deal with the situation?

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You see me eating or drinking,

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are you gonna let me finish?

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Because the Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said,

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It's only Allah that fed him and quench

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his thirst.

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Are you gonna grab him by the hand?

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You're gonna grab me by the hand. Anyone

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else got something?

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Ahmed,

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he was trying to race me yesterday on

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the motorway, are you?

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You're gonna stop him? Remind him that he's

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fasting. Remind him that he's fasting, are you?

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I'll let him

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him finish.

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It's a amongst the scholars.

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There's a difference of opinion.

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You have to stop him,

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but make sure you don't shock him.

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Okay? I remember one time I tried to

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tell my mom, she goes, Let me finish,

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man. It's Allah azza wa jay feeding me,

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What's your problem?

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And then she walked out, she was annoyed.

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Messenger assalamu alayhi wa sallam what did he

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say?

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Whoever sees an evil,

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let him change it with his hand.

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You can't change it with a hand, what

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do you do? You change it with? Your

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mouth. Your mouth.

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No, your mouth, your tongue.

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The tongue.

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You can't change it with your tongue, you

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gotta change it with your heart.

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And that is the weakest part of iman,

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narrated by Muslim on the hadith of

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Sayyid Abi Sayyid Hudrul. Point is,

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is this not an evil that a person

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is eating

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in the month of Ramadan? It's an evil.

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Samunkah, something you should not be doing.

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So you remind him gently.

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Are you with me guys? In a soft

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manner.

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And you shouldn't allow the fear that you

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have,

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fright that you have,

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the respect that you might have for an

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individual,

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and stopping you from telling the truth.

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Don't let the fear that you have in

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your heart and the awe that you have

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of somebody,

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the respect

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from stopping you from speaking the truth.

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If you see it

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or hear it or you witness it. You

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know Abu Sayyid Al Khuda radiAllahu ta'ala and

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he said

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I wish I never heard that.

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Because he knows now that has become incumbent

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upon him, he has to do that, and

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it's not an easy thing to do, to

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speak the truth.

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Especially when you see everybody

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is upon falsehood,

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is doing things that they shouldn't be doing.

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Because this is exactly what Allah told us.

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You follow the majority of people in the

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earth, they're gonna mislead you, they're gonna misguide

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you.

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See everybody is doing mongkarat in your house,

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you know, trying to do something about can

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be really really difficult.

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That's why it requires it requires what?

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I was gonna say a word, but I

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don't think it's,

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English people, they say you need.

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But you need, like, to be somebody who's

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brave.

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So all of these issues, my brothers and

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my sisters, when it comes to the invalidators

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of the fast,

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we also take from this hadith.

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Whether it is with regards to,

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okay,

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person eating or drinking

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and the other things that might invalidate a

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person's fast,

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like hijama.

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It only will nullify a person's fast if

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three conditions are met.

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And this is what we take from this

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hadith.

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There is somebody who does it

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while he is still conscious in his mind.

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Meaning he's not somebody who has done it

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out of forgetfulness.

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The other thing is he

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needs to know that this is an invalidator.

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A person doesn't know, and he's eating something

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because or he's doing something,

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and he doesn't know that's invalidating, his soul

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is still correct. And the third thing is

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what Muhtaran.

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He does it out of his own choice.

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He does it what? Intentionally.

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If somebody now is forced, somebody ties you

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up and he stuffs food into your mouth,

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Like something that might be happening in place

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like China,

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they're being forced to eat, being forced to

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drink.

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Are they doing it

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intentionally?

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The answer is no. Do we say that

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fasting is correct?

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The answer is yes.

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That case we say, fayinna matamu Allahu wa

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sakah.

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Here Allah is feeding him, and also what's

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quenching his thirst?

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They're being forced to eat, because if the

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guy doesn't eat, wipe it.

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He's going to get killed, he's going to

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be tortured.

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We've we've said that mukh, I'm still on

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the meeting and he gets killed. It's haram

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Wallahi,

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you know, the scholars, they differed with regards

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to this issue, even when it comes to

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a person being mukra.

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Somebody is saying to you that you need

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to do x y zed, otherwise I'm gonna

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take your life.

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Scholars they say, that if this individual has

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makana,

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it's like Imam Ahmed

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he has a big high status amongst the

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community, amongst the people.

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Maybe it is better for him to take

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the pain and be tortured.

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But Allah

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Allah has forgiven the person

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who

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commits a sin

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out of forgetfulness,

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or he does it out of mistake,

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or he does that action

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because he has been forced to do the

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action, Allah has always forgiven you.

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Even uttering a statement of kufr,

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As long as your chest,

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your heart

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is filled with iman, you can utter

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al kufr when you are now forced to

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do so.

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So Allah has given you that legislative concession,

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and he loves for you to take it.

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And we're gonna comment to it later inshallah

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when we speak about, is it better for

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a person

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to break his fast when traveling or is

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it better for him to carry on fasting?

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Are you with me guys?

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There's a hadith that says,

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Allah loves for you to take the legislative

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concession that he has given you. Just like

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he loves for you to stay away from

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that.

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Are you with me guys?

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So point of the matter is, here,

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all of these invalidators

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except

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Aljima.

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The issue of Aljima,

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when a person has sexual * in a

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month of Ramadan while fasting, we're gonna come

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on to that. Even though the scholars are

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different, but

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like the Hanabeel and other than them, they

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deal with the issue of sexual *. One

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doing that out of forgetfulness

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in a completely different manner. I'm going to

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explain that later inshaaallahu ta'ala when we reach

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the next hadith.

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If a person does it out of forgetfulness,

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or ignorant

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ly, or he's forced into doing so, we

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say what?

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Your fast is still correct.

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All that case?

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The next hadith

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One time the Messenger

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was sitting with his companions.

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If Jahlurajur, a man came to him,

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Faqaliya Rasulallahi

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said, O Rasulallahu

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halaqtu,

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I have destroyed myself.

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Qadam Malik, the master Allah said to him,

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what is wrong with you?

00:29:46 --> 00:29:48

I ended up having sexual * with my

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wife in the month of Ramadan

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while I was fasting.

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Another narration,

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which is basically the exact same meaning, I

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ended up,

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you know,

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doing that with my wife.

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Fakhar Rasoolallahu alaihi wa sallam, the Prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam asked him,

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Do you have a slave that you can

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free?

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He said, No.

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Alala. He said, no.

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Do you have

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that which will allow you to feed

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60 from the poor?

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Said, La.

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Just waited.

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While the messenger was waiting and he was

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with him,

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a basket was brought

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with dates in there.

00:31:01 --> 00:31:02

The best

00:31:02 --> 00:31:04

then asked, where is the question

00:31:09 --> 00:31:10

now? He told him to take the basket

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that has days in there,

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and to give us charity.

00:31:14 --> 00:31:16

Fat'alur Raju the man said,

00:31:18 --> 00:31:21

You want me to give charity to

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somebody who's more poor than us.

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And there is no one that lives between

00:31:31 --> 00:31:32

these 2 mountains,

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2 mountains

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that were on the edges of Madinah, there

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is more poor than us, or there is

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more in need of us than us.

00:31:46 --> 00:31:47

The messenger

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smiled

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till his back teeth became apparent.

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Go and feed your family.

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It's one of them hadith that kinda like

00:32:02 --> 00:32:03

really makes me smile, you know.

00:32:05 --> 00:32:07

And it teaches us a lesson as well,

00:32:07 --> 00:32:09

especially if you're a teacher.

00:32:10 --> 00:32:12

Sometimes an individual asks you a lot of

00:32:12 --> 00:32:13

questions, and you need to be patient.

00:32:15 --> 00:32:16

Even though it can get very, very exhausting.

00:32:17 --> 00:32:19

Some of you guys might become teachers tomorrow.

00:32:20 --> 00:32:22

You teach in the university, you teach in

00:32:22 --> 00:32:22

a college,

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or your little brother, your little sister, even

00:32:24 --> 00:32:26

your mom, and you get frustrated.

00:32:27 --> 00:32:28

He's going back and forth, the Messenger of

00:32:28 --> 00:32:30

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, as you guys can

00:32:30 --> 00:32:30

see.

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The statement of the messenger

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so another statement of the statement

00:32:38 --> 00:32:40

of this man who came to he said

00:32:41 --> 00:32:42

I've destroyed myself.

00:32:43 --> 00:32:45

Some other narration that came,

00:32:48 --> 00:32:49

I have burned myself,

00:32:50 --> 00:32:52

Meaning I burned myself with a fire.

00:32:53 --> 00:32:55

And in another narration it says,

00:32:57 --> 00:32:58

I've destroyed myself,

00:32:58 --> 00:33:00

and I've also destroyed

00:33:01 --> 00:33:02

my family.

00:33:06 --> 00:33:09

So these two wordings that we mentioned, my

00:33:09 --> 00:33:10

brothers and my sisters,

00:33:10 --> 00:33:13

it shows the seriousness of this matter,

00:33:14 --> 00:33:16

and that it's not a light matter.

00:33:17 --> 00:33:18

The fact that an individual

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comes aroused in the month of Ramadan,

00:33:21 --> 00:33:22

and he can't control

00:33:22 --> 00:33:24

himself. The guy is fasting, and he still

00:33:24 --> 00:33:26

can't control himself as ajeeb, brother.

00:33:28 --> 00:33:29

Messenger

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told the youngster,

00:33:31 --> 00:33:32

you know,

00:33:36 --> 00:33:38

Whoever from amongst you is able to get

00:33:38 --> 00:33:39

married, let them go and get married.

00:33:41 --> 00:33:43

If you can't get married, what did the

00:33:43 --> 00:33:44

best salaised would say?

00:33:45 --> 00:33:46

Pawn used to go and fast.

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And that fast is meant to cut your

00:33:49 --> 00:33:50

shahwa.

00:33:51 --> 00:33:52

Well, I'm not gonna lie to you, it

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still happens though.

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Still happens in the month of Ramadan.

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I remember Shastal Al Fuzam asked this question.

00:34:00 --> 00:34:01

There's a young boy who got married

00:34:02 --> 00:34:03

in the month of Ramadan.

00:34:05 --> 00:34:06

In the month of Ramadan, you probably guys

00:34:06 --> 00:34:09

you guys probably know what's coming right now.

00:34:10 --> 00:34:12

Yeah, sexual * with his wife,

00:34:13 --> 00:34:14

and then he done it again,

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

and then he done it again, and then

00:34:16 --> 00:34:17

he done it again.

00:34:18 --> 00:34:20

Does he have to now do 1 kafara

00:34:20 --> 00:34:22

or many kafar? Because every time he has

00:34:22 --> 00:34:23

sexual *,

00:34:23 --> 00:34:24

for every day,

00:34:26 --> 00:34:27

He has to pay the

00:34:28 --> 00:34:28

kafar.

00:34:29 --> 00:34:30

It's not a good idea to get married

00:34:30 --> 00:34:32

in the month of Ramadan as well.

00:34:33 --> 00:34:35

For those who are looking to get married,

00:34:35 --> 00:34:36

maybe an 8th day,

00:34:37 --> 00:34:38

or the nights,

00:34:39 --> 00:34:40

you know, in which the Ramadan is about

00:34:40 --> 00:34:42

to finish, and you guys can enjoy yourselves

00:34:42 --> 00:34:43

on the day of 8.

00:34:44 --> 00:34:45

In the month of Ramadan, I don't think

00:34:45 --> 00:34:46

it's a good idea.

00:34:50 --> 00:34:51

This is why Hanabi today

00:34:52 --> 00:34:54

categorize this issue even though we're gonna be

00:34:54 --> 00:34:55

off topic here.

00:34:55 --> 00:34:57

Now the person who goes and kisses his

00:34:57 --> 00:34:58

wife,

00:34:58 --> 00:35:00

is he allowed to do so?

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

They say, if this individual knows

00:35:03 --> 00:35:05

that this is now going to lead to

00:35:05 --> 00:35:06

one thing or the other

00:35:07 --> 00:35:09

sorry, not one thing or the other, one

00:35:09 --> 00:35:11

thing is going to lead to another.

00:35:13 --> 00:35:14

Meaning it's going to come out.

00:35:15 --> 00:35:16

It's haram for him to do so.

00:35:19 --> 00:35:21

But if he doesn't fear,

00:35:21 --> 00:35:22

then it is makru.

00:35:23 --> 00:35:24

It's makru.

00:35:26 --> 00:35:28

But still, you know, things are going to

00:35:28 --> 00:35:29

get out of hand.

00:35:36 --> 00:35:38

So the question here that arises is,

00:35:40 --> 00:35:42

if a person does it out of forgetfulness,

00:35:44 --> 00:35:45

if he does it out of forgetfulness,

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47

do we say, fa'inaaataamu

00:35:48 --> 00:35:49

Allahu Wa Saka?

00:35:50 --> 00:35:51

Allah Azzawajal,

00:35:51 --> 00:35:53

what do we say here? Has fed him

00:35:53 --> 00:35:54

and quenched his dhazla,

00:35:54 --> 00:35:56

has quenched his shower,

00:35:56 --> 00:35:58

has relieved him.

00:35:59 --> 00:36:01

The answer is no, even though the scholars,

00:36:01 --> 00:36:04

they differed. The hanab will hold of you,

00:36:04 --> 00:36:06

and this is the position of other scholars

00:36:06 --> 00:36:07

as well.

00:36:13 --> 00:36:14

Okay? There's a principle

00:36:14 --> 00:36:15

that you will learn

00:36:23 --> 00:36:24

Are you with me guys?

00:36:24 --> 00:36:27

If the Messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

00:36:28 --> 00:36:30

did not request more information

00:36:31 --> 00:36:33

from a questioner, and he gave a hukum,

00:36:33 --> 00:36:34

then this is general.

00:36:36 --> 00:36:37

When this man came to the Messenger sallallahu

00:36:37 --> 00:36:39

alaihi wa sallam, did the Prophet asked him,

00:36:40 --> 00:36:41

Did you do out of forgetfulness? Did you

00:36:41 --> 00:36:43

know the hukum? Did you know the ruling?

00:36:43 --> 00:36:45

Was it out of ignorance? Did you ask

00:36:45 --> 00:36:45

him a question?

00:36:46 --> 00:36:47

He didn't ask him a question.

00:36:48 --> 00:36:49

He just said to him straight away,

00:36:52 --> 00:36:53

Do you have enough?

00:36:54 --> 00:36:55

Or do you have that which would allow

00:36:55 --> 00:36:57

you to free a slave? He

00:36:58 --> 00:36:59

said, No. And he went on to the

00:36:59 --> 00:37:00

next one, and the next one, and the

00:37:00 --> 00:37:01

next one, and so on.

00:37:07 --> 00:37:08

Are you with me guys?

00:37:10 --> 00:37:11

So here the messenger

00:37:12 --> 00:37:14

did not ask. So this principle here comes

00:37:14 --> 00:37:15

in handy,

00:37:16 --> 00:37:17

comes in very handy

00:37:17 --> 00:37:18

because the messenger

00:37:19 --> 00:37:20

did not ask

00:37:21 --> 00:37:23

what his situation was and how this whole

00:37:23 --> 00:37:24

issue came about.

00:37:24 --> 00:37:26

There's a general hukum that applies.

00:37:27 --> 00:37:28

And at the end of the day is

00:37:28 --> 00:37:28

what?

00:37:29 --> 00:37:29

Safar.

00:37:31 --> 00:37:32

Safar.

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

That a person, he pays the kafara.

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