Abu Taymiyyah – Part 17 Finale 2 Traits That Allah Truly Loves

Whoever is not well mannered

in his relationship with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will patch him up,

will deal with him under the earth.

2 traits

that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala truly loves.

Messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said to Ashaj

Abdul Qais

Indeed you, O Ashaj,

you have 2 traits

that Allah

truly loves.

So what are these 2

beautiful traits that Allah

loves?

First one is al hilm.

It is

It is to have control

over yourself

when you become infuriated

When you are angered,

you're not quick to punish.

That reminds me of a hadith when the

messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said,

Whoever holds back his anger even though he's

able to let it all out

Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will call him out

in front of everyone on the day of

judgment,

and he will give him the opportunity

to choose from whoever he wants from the

women of Al Jannah.

So holding yourself,

controlling it

is al Hill

Sometimes we become very very infuriated and we

say things that we

end up regretting later on.

Second thing my brothers and my sisters is

Al Anah.

Al Anah my brothers and my sisters is

to take things slowly,

to think about the decisions that we make.

Not to rush

and to jump on something that we have

had.

This brings me to a point, and that

is

something that

mentioned.

He said,

Do not be individuals who are hasty,

who rush to doing everything that they

hear about.

Do not be madaiyah.

What does madaiyah mean?

The moment they hear about something, they begin

to announce it.

And this could be anything related to public

safety and public fear.

Abdullahi Mas'ud is saying do not be hasty,

do not rush,

do not be madaiyah, people who announce these

things,

that sometimes it might require an old head,

somebody with wisdom,

someone who has a lot of experience to

maybe

deal with.

And then he said

do not be individuals who, when they're told

a secret, they go and spread it to

others,

but rather think about your decisions.

And we've all had our regrets

of having made decisions very very quickly

that maybe thinking back on we wish we

didn't

and the Messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam told

us

Hastiness is from the shaitan

and an

ana is from Allah Subhanahu

Wa Ta'ala.

My brothers and my sisters,

and we tend to see this all the

time on social media,

We tend to jump

on any one-sided claim that is made,

and the Sharia is so beautiful and it's

so fair.

Look what the Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam taught

Alib Nabi Talib.

If they if 2 people come to and

they seek your judgement,

do not rush to taking any of their

sides.

And if you learn not to do so,

you will know

how to judge accordingly. So Ali ibn Abi

Talibi said I

remain judging in such a way. There's always

two sides to a story,

and sometimes emotion

overtakes us.

We hear something

and it hits us really hard,

but we forget that there's always two sides

to a story. Even if that individual is

somebody who you truly love, there's always two

sides to a story. I remember my dad

said to me many many years ago,

when I was young.

He said, if somebody comes to you and

his eye is poking out

and he's covered with blood, do not rush

to taking

his side. Because you don't know.

It could have been him who had that

last blow

in having killed somebody.

Before he turned out in such a way,

he could have just murdered somebody,

even though he has blood covered

on him.

It's important to take things easy. The prophet

also told us

If everybody was to be given,

everything that they claimed,

they would claim the wealth of others and

the lives of others.

So and so took my money. They was

the proof. This is why the prophet said

The one who makes the claim he has

to bring forth proof.

And last but not least the hadith of

Abdulai ibn Zubair

he said

Muhammad decreed that

the defendant and the claimant they both have

to go and sit in front of the

judge.

So both sides are heard out fairly and

justly,

because there's always two sides to a story.

My brothers and my sisters,

this is the end

of our series.

There's so many more etiquettes

and bad traits that I wanted to mention,

But because of time, because of resources and

things like that,

we can't go through all of that.

But what I can advise you with, if

this really interested you, is to go on

to the knowledge college

portal and sign

up, where you can go through a whole

poetry

that I explained called mandoma to ahsanil akhlaq,

the poetry of the best of etiquettes,

where maybe over 50 traits were mentioned

that could, insha'Allah,

my brothers and my sisters,

really

improve us as Muslims

and you can access this insha'Allah

in the link below.

May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala adorn us all

with the best of etiquettes.

Prophet Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam used to

say, oh Allah grant our souls a taqwa

purified indeed you are the best of those

who purify.

You are His protector and You are His

guardian.

He also used to make the dua Allahumma

kamaa hasanta khanki

fahhasin khuluqi

Oh Allah, just as you perfected my outer

appearance,

then also

perfect

my etiquettes. If this is the Messenger Sallallahu

Alaihi Wasallam saying this,

the one who Allah said in Suratul Qalam

You, oh Muhammad, you have the best of

characteristics,

the best of manners.

And where do me and you lie?