Abu Taymiyyah – Part 15 Say ‘Wallah’ You Are Not Going To Tell Anybody’

Abu Taymiyyah
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The speaker discusses the history of Islam and the use of the "werper's" flag to protect secret. They also mention a woman who told them that a secret would be shared, but they were not told about it. The speaker warns of the negative consequences of telling anyone about a secret and the importance of being aware of one's secret to others.
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Whoever is not well mannered

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in his relationship with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will patch him up.

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Will deal with him under the earth.

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Say Wallahi you're not going to tell anybody.

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We hear this all the time. Say Wallahi,

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you're not going to tell anybody.

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Is there anything wrong with

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asking one to swear by Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala in order to

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conceal

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a very sensitive secret? The answer is no.

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But my brothers and my sisters, every best

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friend has a close friend, as they say.

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You've told this individual now,

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It could be so

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that he's not somebody who's reliable.

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He has a best friend and he goes

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and tells him as well. And he says

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to him say wallahi you're not gonna tell

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anybody. And then he goes to Hizba and

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so on and so forth.

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Chinese whispers, the name of Allah is the

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wajal is used in vain.

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This is a very bad characteristic to have,

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very bad trait.

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And Al Islam

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has come to protect

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the secrets.

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He has spoken quite extensively

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with regards to

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being trusted,

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and being trustworthy.

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We've even been told, that one of the

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four characteristics of nifaq hypocrisy is,

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When he is trusted, he breaks the trust.

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It's a sad reality

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that this is now even becoming widespread

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amongst those who go out to study.

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He just can't hold himself together.

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He tells his closed ones

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before he actually becomes public information.

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And trust my brothers and my sisters like

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a vase.

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What happens when the vase

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smashes into the ground?

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Can you put the pieces back up together

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again? The answer is no, you can't.

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And that's exactly

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how broken trust is.

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The Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

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He said

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If one says something,

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he tells you, gives you a piece of

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information,

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and then he begins to turn

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to his sides.

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Whether it's his left or whether it's his

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right.

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This is a clear indication that this is

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what?

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A secret.

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He doesn't want you to go out and

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spread this to others.

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And this is a trust.

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The Those

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who explain the hadith they say, he doesn't

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have to turn to his left and turn

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to his right. The fact

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that he's given you some indication is enough.

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I conclude with

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this advice

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of the mother of

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Radiallahu ta'ala Anhu he said,

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The Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam came to me

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while I was playing with the kids.

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He sent me to go and do something

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and I ended up coming home late to

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my mother.

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When I came to my mother,

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she asked him,

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What caused you to come late?

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Anasul Malik radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu responded back and

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he said,

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Masin Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam sent me to go

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and do something.

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So she asked,

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What did he tell you to do? He

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responded back and he said It

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is a secret

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What was her response?

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Did she say wallahi I'm not going to

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tell anybody.

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This is going to stay private.

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Look at this righteous mother

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This sincere advisor Look what she said An

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amazing advice that every single one of us

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need to take into consideration.

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She said to him,

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Do not tell anybody

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about

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the secrets

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of the prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

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Uhadan here is an indefinite that has now

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come in a negative context.

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And we learned this in

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It means absolutely nobody. It is generalized.

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If an indefinite comes a negative indicates it

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being in general. Indicates generality.

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Not your mother, not your father,

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not the jinn,

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Not your close ones,

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nobody That's what he means

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So Ittaqillah

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when it comes to the secrets of others,

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it is a serious sin

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And it is fit for that person if

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he

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constantly does this,

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that he really becomes

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close to

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those who are hypocrites

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and Allah knows best.

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The worst of those in the eyes of

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Allah, aza wajal, on the day of judgement

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is a

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man who did things with his wife.

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Pay attention here with his wife.

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After all of this takes place what does

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he do? He takes this and he spreads

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it to the people. I did this with

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my wife and I did that. She said

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this and she said that.

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