Abu Taymiyyah – My Parents Have Walked out On Me

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The transcript describes a situation where a person is upset and angry at another person, and they try to

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			I
		
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			have concluded is I want to say
you can email me send me a one
		
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			caveat to take home was a hippo
Murthy. Dunya is strike against
		
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			the parents they strive against
you, in order for you to leave the
		
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			religion to commission
		
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			do not obey them. This was our
hippo, Matthew Binyam Alba. But at
		
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			the same time you need to be good
to your parents with regards to
		
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			other than the religion in the
matters of the dunya
		
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			this like I said, my brothers and
sisters, your parents now are
		
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			disbelievers, and you're still
being told
		
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			to be good and beautiful children.
Only in the matters of them
		
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			telling you now to disobey Allah
azza wa jal and Hailey Khan Aveda
		
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			left it alone at my CSD and hardly
know obedience to new creation. It
		
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			means the means to decree topic.
		
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			Even if you do some harm, you
might have said to me, he goes to
		
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			the bank and take some river, take
no.
		
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			And I simply know that I can't do
the why because Allah subhanho wa
		
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			Taala says,
		
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			Hey, let's have a look at them,
we'll be having a minute or so if
		
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			you don't stop by then you're
gonna proclaim a walk. And he gets
		
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			upset at me. And he keeps getting
angry, and he's going crazy to me,
		
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			I have to deal with him that I'm
sorry, I found this. To be the
		
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			shot back at him is totally
correct. Even if he's telling me
		
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			to do something
		
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			I have to deal with in a very
nice, humble, quiet way.
		
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			I don't go around. I know when he
comes down to maybe still try to
		
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			be good to him. Even if he cuts me
and he walks out my life. It is
		
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			not permissible for me enough to
be bound to this person. This
		
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			father missing somebody is on the
same line for a gentleman not
		
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			human right? You're
		
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			the one who cuts the relationship
in his family, this person what
		
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			anthems agenda. Two wrongs don't
make a right. If he cuts me, I
		
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			have to be good to him, I still
have to call him.
		
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			Just because he was horrible to me
doesn't make it right doesn't
		
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			justify the fact that I be
horrible teammates or even even
		
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			worse than my life on the Virgin
beach.
		
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			And you heard him as I was talking
about sometimes his sister, she
		
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			strips the guardianship of a
father, because he wasn't there
		
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			from day one. That still doesn't
allow you to go get mountain nice
		
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			permission.
		
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			You still have to call the person.
My dad walks out of my life from a
		
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			very early age. Islam says to me,
still Muntadhar working on
		
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			whoever cut the relationship, then
you go and tie that relationship.
		
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			Whoever oppressed you.
		
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			Forgive that person. Whoever
stopped you from giving you
		
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			something go give that person be
the bigger man, as you say.
		
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			Like
		
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			the one or customer you want him
to agenda as the reason it's the
		
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			wall it was in a Taurus.
		
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			So in this case, also, even if the
person attacking you need to find
		
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			ways to get that person,
		
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			even if they beat you out, maybe
send gifts to the home.
		
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			Don't ever cut the relationship
with them.
		
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			Actually, except in a case now
with the dangers on how you still
		
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			have to be good, but at the same
time don't obey them in that
		
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			point.
		
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			Look how Islam is from the beauty
of the desert. You're not going to
		
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			confirm the way they treat their
parents.
		
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			What am I absolutely somebody that
the mind can't even imagine?
		
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			Walks in whenever he wants slams
the door gets in leaves.
		
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			As I said the mother isn't even in
his life
		
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			it came in London aerations Pamela
may do it upon their own. This is
		
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			all
		
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			how the lesson is so low it was
responding back to this lesson.
		
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			I'm delighted
		
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			Jonathan's gonna love it. He was
		
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			a monkey. He was seven he said to
him, get to obey Islam.
		
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			I came to give my oath of
allegiance in an Islam. What are
		
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			up to other way you oh my kid.
		
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			And I left my parents while they
were crying. This man came to give
		
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			an oath of allegiance. He came to
see the missing soldiers is
		
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			something I'll leave. But he said
I left my parents crying.
		
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			So this is all I knew somebody
said to him. Is it a human?
		
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			Is it enough for our economic
anarchy to go back to your parents
		
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			and make them laugh? Just like you
made them cry?
		
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			Well, Lion, my brothers and
sisters, I don't know how we can
		
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			go to sleep. Having upset our
parents.
		
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			What do you think guys? Today we
go into shallow Thailand we do
		
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			something for parents.
		
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			And if you know they really passed
away, we can maybe get some charts
		
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			on their behalf. We're in the
month of Ramadan. So
		
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			we got this guy named Dr. Friend
The last of the night
		
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			I just made the last, you know,
just gets done with something.
		
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			When's the last time I wrote this?
		
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			Last night, my brother sister we
said a sincere thank you to our
		
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			parents.
		
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			They've done so much for us but to
go to them and just like really
		
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			say thank you for one month.
		
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			We know the famous Hadith of the
Messenger of Allah and he was the
		
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			one that came to listen to the
lies and he said to him, Matt
		
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			amaro Who should I be good to? And
he said to him three times, como
		
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			como como. And then he said, I
woke.
		
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			And I'm talking about my brothers
and sisters. You know, a lot of us
		
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			we tend to get his head twisted,
and we think it's love
		
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			me, it's actually
		
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			who deserves my good treatment,
more than anybody else. And it's
		
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			the mother and the mother and the
mother.
		
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			09 is that Sophie Roca, Toby Nick.