Abu Taymiyyah – My Parents Have Walked out On Me

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I

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have concluded is I want to say you can email me send me a one

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caveat to take home was a hippo Murthy. Dunya is strike against

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the parents they strive against you, in order for you to leave the

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religion to commission

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do not obey them. This was our hippo, Matthew Binyam Alba. But at

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the same time you need to be good to your parents with regards to

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other than the religion in the matters of the dunya

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this like I said, my brothers and sisters, your parents now are

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disbelievers, and you're still being told

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to be good and beautiful children. Only in the matters of them

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telling you now to disobey Allah azza wa jal and Hailey Khan Aveda

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left it alone at my CSD and hardly know obedience to new creation. It

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means the means to decree topic.

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Even if you do some harm, you might have said to me, he goes to

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the bank and take some river, take no.

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And I simply know that I can't do the why because Allah subhanho wa

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Taala says,

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Hey, let's have a look at them, we'll be having a minute or so if

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you don't stop by then you're gonna proclaim a walk. And he gets

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upset at me. And he keeps getting angry, and he's going crazy to me,

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I have to deal with him that I'm sorry, I found this. To be the

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shot back at him is totally correct. Even if he's telling me

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to do something

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I have to deal with in a very nice, humble, quiet way.

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I don't go around. I know when he comes down to maybe still try to

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be good to him. Even if he cuts me and he walks out my life. It is

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not permissible for me enough to be bound to this person. This

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father missing somebody is on the same line for a gentleman not

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human right? You're

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the one who cuts the relationship in his family, this person what

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anthems agenda. Two wrongs don't make a right. If he cuts me, I

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have to be good to him, I still have to call him.

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Just because he was horrible to me doesn't make it right doesn't

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justify the fact that I be horrible teammates or even even

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worse than my life on the Virgin beach.

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And you heard him as I was talking about sometimes his sister, she

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strips the guardianship of a father, because he wasn't there

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from day one. That still doesn't allow you to go get mountain nice

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permission.

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You still have to call the person. My dad walks out of my life from a

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very early age. Islam says to me, still Muntadhar working on

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whoever cut the relationship, then you go and tie that relationship.

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Whoever oppressed you.

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Forgive that person. Whoever stopped you from giving you

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something go give that person be the bigger man, as you say.

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Like

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the one or customer you want him to agenda as the reason it's the

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wall it was in a Taurus.

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So in this case, also, even if the person attacking you need to find

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ways to get that person,

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even if they beat you out, maybe send gifts to the home.

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Don't ever cut the relationship with them.

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Actually, except in a case now with the dangers on how you still

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have to be good, but at the same time don't obey them in that

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point.

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Look how Islam is from the beauty of the desert. You're not going to

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confirm the way they treat their parents.

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What am I absolutely somebody that the mind can't even imagine?

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Walks in whenever he wants slams the door gets in leaves.

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As I said the mother isn't even in his life

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it came in London aerations Pamela may do it upon their own. This is

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all

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how the lesson is so low it was responding back to this lesson.

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I'm delighted

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Jonathan's gonna love it. He was

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a monkey. He was seven he said to him, get to obey Islam.

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I came to give my oath of allegiance in an Islam. What are

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up to other way you oh my kid.

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And I left my parents while they were crying. This man came to give

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an oath of allegiance. He came to see the missing soldiers is

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something I'll leave. But he said I left my parents crying.

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So this is all I knew somebody said to him. Is it a human?

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Is it enough for our economic anarchy to go back to your parents

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and make them laugh? Just like you made them cry?

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Well, Lion, my brothers and sisters, I don't know how we can

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go to sleep. Having upset our parents.

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What do you think guys? Today we go into shallow Thailand we do

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something for parents.

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And if you know they really passed away, we can maybe get some charts

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on their behalf. We're in the month of Ramadan. So

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we got this guy named Dr. Friend The last of the night

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I just made the last, you know, just gets done with something.

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When's the last time I wrote this?

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Last night, my brother sister we said a sincere thank you to our

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parents.

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They've done so much for us but to go to them and just like really

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say thank you for one month.

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We know the famous Hadith of the Messenger of Allah and he was the

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one that came to listen to the lies and he said to him, Matt

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amaro Who should I be good to? And he said to him three times, como

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como como. And then he said, I woke.

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And I'm talking about my brothers and sisters. You know, a lot of us

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we tend to get his head twisted, and we think it's love

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me, it's actually

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who deserves my good treatment, more than anybody else. And it's

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the mother and the mother and the mother.

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09 is that Sophie Roca, Toby Nick.