Abu Taymiyyah – MONEY & A Big Lesson From The 5 Titanic Deaths

Abu Taymiyyah
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The speaker discusses the importance of distributing wealth in a pleasing way for Allah, with a primary objective of achieving their prayers and fulfilling their brother and sister's desire to increase their bank account and pay bills. They emphasize the importance of their desire to increase their wealth and reach their potential rather than just their own success. The speaker also emphasizes the responsibility of Islam, including fulfilling rights of Allah upon parents and educating children about their religion to build successful families. Investing in one's children is also emphasized.
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My dear respected brothers and sisters, may Allah

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honor every single one of you.

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In today's Khutba,

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I want to speak a little bit about

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those 5 human beings

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that died in the submarine.

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I'm sure every single one of us came

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across these articles

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of these 5 individuals

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who each paid a quarter of a £1,000,000

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in order to go and see the wrecked

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Titanic,

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by a 100 kilometers, they had to go

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underground

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in order to just see, to view

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the wreckage of this Titanic.

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My brothers and my sisters, when you think

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about it, subhanAllah,

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a quarter of a million they paid.

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In order to do what? To build the

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masjid?

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Was it in order to feed the poor?

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It was just to go and view,

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right? A ship

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that wrecked

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over a 100 years ago.

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My brothers and my sisters,

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reflect on

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what kind of lives they lived prior to

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this actually taking place.

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And where all of their wealth

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is at this moment in time?

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If they spent a quarter of a1000000

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just to go and view a wrecked Titanic,

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that will give you a bit of an

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idea of how much they actually possess in

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wealth.

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What about now?

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And this my brothers and my sisters is

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the state of

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anyone

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who possesses

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a great amount of wealth.

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It is a question they really need to

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think about.

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What am I doing with my wealth? Where

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is my wealth going to go after I

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depart from this world?

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As someone who distributes

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the inheritance of those who pass away,

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how often do we find someone who has

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left behind 1,000,000?

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Right?

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And they asked me now to distribute this

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wealth

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in a manner that is pleasing to Allah.

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In a manner that has been mentioned in

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the holy Quran.

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And how the inheritance is distributed. Right? I'm

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sure we've come across

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the verses in the Quran.

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A quarter is given to this individual,

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a 6th is given to that, half is

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given here and so on and so forth.

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And there's a lot of money that needs

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to be distributed,

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and the children

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are at each other's necks.

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The children now

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who have inherited

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all of this wealth, all of these properties,

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you can see murder in their eyes.

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Who does he want to murder?

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He wants to maybe murder his blood brother.

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Even though when you think about it, all

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of this wealth that is being left behind,

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right,

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is enough

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for him to live

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a comfortable life maybe for the next 50

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years. But still,

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he sees it as insufficient.

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He has murder in his eyes.

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He wants to take the portion or the

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amount allocated to his brother.

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My brothers and my sisters, the messenger salallahu

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alaihi wasallam,

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he told us in a hadith where

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala speaks,

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indeed we have send down wealth.

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In order to do what with wealth?

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Has this question ever

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come to mind my brothers and my sisters?

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This wealth that has been sent down.

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What is the primary

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objective of this wealth that we possess?

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Is it for us to enjoy our lives

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with it? Is that the primary

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number one

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objective behind

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why wealth was sent down?

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Or was it maybe

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for me to buy cars with it,

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buy homes with it, to make business with

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it?

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Not that I'm saying you can't do that

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with your wealth. Of course, you can.

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You can buy a house,

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you can buy a car.

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However, what is the primary objective

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of this wealth that was sent down?

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Messenger sallallahu alaihi wasallam tells us,

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quoting Allah, we have indeed sent down this

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wealth.

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In order for you

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to carry out your prayers,

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wealth being sent down and the primary objective

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is for us to carry out our prayers.

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And then he also mentioned,

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right,

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And also to give charity with it.

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That is the primary objective. So let's stand

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over that for a moment.

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Allah is sending down his wealth and the

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primary objective is for me to carry out

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my salah. What do we take from this?

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The primary objective

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that me and you have both been created

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for

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is none other than

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worshiping Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Everything else is secondary in life.

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As Allah said in the Quran,

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I did not create

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man and

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jinn except to worship me.

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That's my primary objective

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and I cannot fulfill

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my sole reason of existence,

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right? Of worshiping Allah

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except by learning about my religion.

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Except

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me learning about why Allah

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created me, why Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has

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instructed me to carry out all of these

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acts of worship and how to go about

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doing so.

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Otherwise,

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I am failing in my reason of existence.

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That's the primary objective.

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Everything else is secondary. Now we ask ourselves

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my brothers and my sisters,

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right? When we wake up in the morning,

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what's the first thing

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I as a human being is thinking about?

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Is it how to increase

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the numbers

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on my Barclays bank account,

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on my NatWest bank account? Is that the

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first thing on my mind?

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Or is it maybe

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how can I,

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with what Allah,

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the almighty god has blessed me with,

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What can I do now

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in order to maybe seek closeness to the

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almighty?

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Which of course

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is why

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Allah created his wealth.

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For us to gain closest to Allah.

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Right?

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There are people my brothers and my sisters,

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from the moment they wake up,

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the first thing on their mind

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is how can I get closer to Allah?

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That doesn't mean he's going to be

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neglecting his rights that Allah has placed over

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his shoulders. The rights of looking off his

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family, the rights

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of paying the rent. No.

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And when you have this kind of mindset

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my brothers and my sisters,

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it comes with a sweetness,

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it comes with joy that cannot really be

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put into words.

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Look at this beautiful statement of prophet Muhammad

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which will put our priorities into perspective.

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Our reason of existence

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will maybe

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take a turn for the better in our

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minds.

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He said,

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He, the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said,

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whoever makes the dunya

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his main focus

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and priority

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I'll say that again.

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From the moment he wakes up,

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right, from the moment he wakes up, his

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main focus is nothing other than the glitters

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and the glamorous of this world. That's his

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main focus.

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Right? That's the first thing on his mind.

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Look what the messenger salallahu alaihi wa sallam

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is saying is going to happen to him.

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Allah

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will make his affairs fall apart.

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His life will begin to fall apart.

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Right?

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My brothers and my sisters,

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a group of people that I deal with

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on a regular basis,

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right? They are the top end of society.

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Those that are filthy rich.

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Right?

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Some of them, if they wanted to hire

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a private jet now to go from one

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side of the world to the other, he

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has the means to do so.

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Right? Even though he has the glitters and

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the glamorous of this world,

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a fingertip away,

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he's still miserable,

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he's still sad,

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he's still paining my brothers and my sisters,

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right? His affair

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is falling apart. And that is because as

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the

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told us,

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whoever's

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main focus and priority

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is none other than the glitters and the

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glamorous of this world.

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Right?

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And I'm sure a lot of us have

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come across individuals who are of this kind

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of category.

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Just the other day, I was sending to

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my little brother

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a video from one of these YouTubers

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who has everything you can think of.

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I was like, here's another one.

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Whenever I come across these videos, I send

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it to my little brother. All of these

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YouTubers,

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what they all have in common is money,

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wealth,

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fame,

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girls.

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All of that which many today are looking

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to acquire. They've got all of that. But

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what they all have in common also

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is how they're spiritually dead and empty.

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How they are depressed,

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how they are sad,

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and all of this is skyrocketing

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right through the roof.

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Depression rates,

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right?

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How people are spiritually dead and empty,

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unfortunately.

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Right? Is

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telling us

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his affair is going to fall apart.

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The only thing that will reach him of

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this dunya is that which was written down

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for him. And then look what the messenger

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of Allah alaihi wasallam said right after that.

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Whoever makes the hereafter

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his main focus and priority.

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His main focus and priority, brothers and sisters,

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does that mean you're going to neglect

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aspects of this world? Of course not. Allah

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said,

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don't forget about your fair portion of this

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world. Says,

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Food, drink, and the things that are permissible.

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No problem. You can engage in that. It's

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fine.

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You can go to the restaurant every now

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and again to enjoy yourself.

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No one is saying you can't.

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However, that's not my main objective.

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Messenger salallahu alaihi wa sallam is saying, whoever

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makes the akhira his main focus,

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Allah will take care of everything for him.

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Allah

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will take care of everything for him. The

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difference between this person and the other is

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that this person, even though he's still going

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to work, but the first thing on his

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mind from the moment he wakes up is,

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how can I get closer to Allah?

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As for the first person, he thinking about

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how can I increase

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the numbers

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in my hisab,

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in my bank account?

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Just the mindset has been tweaked. But look

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what Allah

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gives this individual for just this different type

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of mindset.

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Allah will take care of everything for him.

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Right? And this, my brothers and my sisters,

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is something that can't be bought with money.

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Crying out. Wallahi, the other day, I was

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sitting with a rapper. I came from Manchester

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to visit

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me. 1 in the mainstream,

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biggest rappers at this moment in time.

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Right? He's got everything you can think of.

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However, sitting there saying to me, brother, anxiety.

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Right? I feel depressed. I feel out of

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it, and it's not rocket science

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to understand why he's going through that.

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Right?

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When your life becomes filled with haram,

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when your life, my brothers and my sisters,

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is filled with

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lack of remembrance of Allah, What do you

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expect to take place? And he himself admitted

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to me,

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when I started praying,

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my anxiety level started decreasing.

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I started feeling a lot better spiritually.

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Right?

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As the messes told us, the one who

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comes with iman

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and he comes with dhikr,

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he remembers Allah. And when we say remember

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Allah, and we're not just referring to saying

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which

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is amazing.

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But we're talking about fulfilling the rights of

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Allah upon you.

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Right?

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And indeed with the remembrance of Allah,

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the hearts will be at peace, my brothers

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and my sisters.

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A peace, a contentment that people are crying

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out for.

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Right?

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Especially

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when you are doing that haram, guys,

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With this wealth that Allah has

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granted

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us, he has blessed us with,

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we might be utilizing it for haram,

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whether it may be a haram way to

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purchase a property,

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whether it may be a haram way now

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to

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make money,

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right, to source an income, not caring about

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how this money is coming. And by the

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way, this is from the signs of the

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Allah. From the signs of the Allah, one

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doesn't care how he earned his money and

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what he spent it on.

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All of this will have a detrimental

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effect on none other

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than one's heart. This richness that you desperately

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want.

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This contentment,

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it is as if your heart is being

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pierced

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when we carry out these sins.

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And then the messenger of the salallahu alayhi

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wa sallam said right to the end,

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He made the akhirah his main focus and

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priority.

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The dunya will be dragged to him.

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The dunya will be dragged to him.

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Without him even really going out his way,

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it will be brought to him on a

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plate. And that's just because it was tweaked.

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Right?

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My beloved brothers and sisters,

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a huge responsibility that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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has placed over our shoulders

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is the responsibility of our children

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which we have maybe become

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distracted from

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because of none other than mal.

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None other than the glitters and the glamorous

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of this world.

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The wealth that we are maybe pursuing,

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chasing after.

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Right?

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At the expense of who? At the expense

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of our children.

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A lot of us

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from the moment we wake up, the first

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thing on our minds is how can I

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leave my children in a comfortable comfortable financial

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situation?

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If I depart, I can leave all of

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this wealth behind my brothers and my sisters.

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Remember what I spoke about

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Khutba?

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Those 5 that spent a quarter of a

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£1,000,000

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or dollars, however much it was

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or whatever currency it was,

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just to go and see the wrecked Titanic.

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Right?

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All of that wealth that they're going to

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leave behind.

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They were making all of this wealth, but

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they actually really enjoy that wealth when you

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think about it.

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There are people like that. Right?

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They're chasing chasing chasing, accumulating accumulating,

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saving up, stacking.

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But then before he's about to enjoy that

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wealth, he passes away.

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And who's the one that's going to benefit

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from it? None other than his children. But

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are they really going to benefit from it?

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That's a big question that I want everyone

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to really

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give some thought to.

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So there's huge responsibility Allah has placed over

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us, our children.

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He, the messenger sallallahu alaihi wasallam,

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he said, There's not a person who has

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had a responsibility

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placed over him. The responsibility

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of his children,

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the day when he dies,

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he dies as someone that has deceived his

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children.

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How can one who's loving and is going

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out in the morning now to work for

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his children,

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to put a roof over their heads, and

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to put food on the table, deceive his

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children? You're probably asking yourself.

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Right?

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The day when he dies, he dies as

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someone who has deceived his children.

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And Allah will make the jannah haram upon

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that individual.

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Allah

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will make the jannah haram upon that individual.

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What is it that he didn't do? What

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is the messenger

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talking about? Is he talking about not putting

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a roof over the head? He's not talking

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about that.

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Even though that's very important.

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Is he talking about not putting food on

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the table? No. He's not talking about that

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even though that's very important.

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Hadith

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states

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He did not advise them accordingly.

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That's why he dies as someone who has

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deceived his children.

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He dies as someone who the Jannah has

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been made haram upon

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because he did not advise them accordingly.

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As a father, you're doing amazing by working

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for them. However, my brothers and my sisters.

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Now which is most important is

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making sure

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that they become educated about their religion.

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Because if you don't, my brothers and my

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sisters,

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you might well leave behind all of this

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wealth and all of these homes

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and because they don't fear Allah,

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they're going to be at each other's necks.

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As I mentioned at the beginning,

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murder in his eyes.

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He wants to take the life of his

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blood brother.

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Right?

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Because of his stinginess and his greed,

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he's seeing all of this wealth going elsewhere

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even though he has the same amount. And

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this amount is enough

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to keep him good for maybe the next

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50 years still.

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Once more and more.

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Right?

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And as the messenger of the law told

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us, you give the son of Adam a

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mountain of gold. That's still not enough. He

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wants a second and then he wants the

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third.

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And the only thing that is what's going

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to fill the interior of this human being

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is if you get the soil and shove

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it down his throat.

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Right?

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This my brothers and my sisters is the

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reality of this dunya.

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Right? The reality of this world that we

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are so working hard for,

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that we my brothers and my sisters, a

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lot of us may not necessarily

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enjoy machab,

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and even if we think that let me

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now go and spend this money, Let me

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go and buy this. Let me go and

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buy that.

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I swear by the Lord of the Kaaba.

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Right?

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This dunya is none other than a deception.

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It is there to entice you to beautify

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itself.

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The moment you buy this house, you'll be

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happy. The moment you buy this car, you'll

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be happy. The moment you go on to

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that holiday, you'll be happy. You do this,

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you'll be happy. This is what the dunya

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is telling us.

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And then you acquire part of it. You

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now have your dream house

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thinking, okay, I'm going to now be okay

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in my world. Right?

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Well, that's what we thought.

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You're back to square 1 again. You get

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bored of it. This is the reality of

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this world. You get bored of it.

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And then you're just looking at what is

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the next big thing that I can do

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that will perhaps grant me the happiness.

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And you'll never ever get there. And that

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is because the way Allah has created our

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hearts, my brothers and my sisters,

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it craves for its creator and none other.

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It needs Allah in his life. It needs

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Allah subhanahu wa ta. And that's what we

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need in our lives.

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Right?

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This is the reality

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of this wealth

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that we possess, my brothers and my sisters.

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So now the ball is in our court.

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What is it that we want to do

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with the wealth that we possess?

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Right? Are we more worried about the education

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of our children on an Islamic level?

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Because again, brothers and sisters, and I'm just

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going to be very frank.

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Right? I say it everywhere.

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Right?

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If we don't invest in our children right

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now,

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tomorrow, don't be surprised

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when that child is coming home from school.

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Right, and he's saying, dad, what pronouns shall

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I use?

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Confused

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about his identity.

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Right? Every other week we are dealing with

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a case where one now has become confused.

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And again, I'm just quoting my brothers and

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my sisters, Abu Tamia doesn't have his his

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own views and opinions

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just in case someone wants to pin something

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onto me. Right? The Daily Mail, at the

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age of 9 at the age of 9,

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and I'm sure we've all seen it. The

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age of 9, they are being given homework.

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What's the homework? Go and play around with

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your private

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parts. It's on the daily

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mail. That's the reality that we're facing. At

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the age of 12,

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to our daughters that which is being popularized

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and beautified in the eyes,

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go and carry out.

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I feel embarrassed to maybe even mention this

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on the pulpit

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of what they're telling them to do at

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the age of 12.

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Someone I shunned upon in our religion with

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regards to

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*.

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Right? This is what is being taught to

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them. This was being popularized and normalized,

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and they are becoming desensitized

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to it.

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Right?

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While we are out of the house, so

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busy,

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and then we come home thinking that everything

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is perfectly fine but far from it,

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And they message

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us. We have to pick up the pieces.

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We have to speak to them

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because they are confused.

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Right?

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There are parents, my brothers and my sisters,

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that sit down with their children

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every single night.

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Not because they've done something wrong,

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because some parents, the only relationship they have

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with their children is the back of the

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hand. When he's done something wrong, he backhands

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him.

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Or he calls him into the office. Why

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did you do this? It's always why, why,

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why?

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If never, just how are you? Let's talk.

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Let's have a discussion.

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Right? Building that bond.

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Them being comfortable around their parents.

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Right?

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They sit down with their kids

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every single day.

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May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala bless you all

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and protect us from the evil.

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Would make the dua.

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Oh Allah protect me and my family from

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what they are doing. So

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we say,

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