Abu Taymiyyah – Making what you did last night and your sins GO VIRAL!
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Insha'Allah, one thing I want to point out
to my beloved brothers and sisters, and I
hope this reaches you while you are in
the best state of health and iman.
Is something that I see every now and
again on social media.
After Allah
has veiled the sins of a person,
not only do we go and tell our
friends after we might meet them at work
the next day
or to our beloved ones,
whoever it might be.
And sometimes we go to the extent of
putting it on social media where thousands and
thousands of people can see it.
Last night I did this with that thing.
I was hanging around with the people. I
was hanging around with my boys here and
there at the club, and I did this
and I did that.'
Making your sins go viral.
Brothers and sisters, do you know pertaining to
the husband and wife, we know whatever the
husband and wife they do in the bedroom
is perfectly halal. They can do what they
want, when they want, how they want, as
long as obviously it doesn't
go under the things that the prophet sallallahu
alaihi wa sallam told us is haram.
It's perfectly permissible
to enjoy it with your wife
and there to be enjoyment between them.
But it becomes a big problem
with Allah
when they start taking that which took place
in the bedroom and start spreading it to
the people.
And another thing insha Allah which reached me
yesterday
is
that how sometimes
married women, they sit around
and they discuss
what they did with each other last night
or how they went about, how he spoke
to her, some of the words that he
said to her.
Which in reality, wallahi, could be the reason
why marriages
break down.
Spreading
what you did with her, what she did
with you.
Spreading it amongst the people.
And it could just easily go out, and
then people play Chinese whispers with it. It
goes to this guy, a bit of salt
and pepper gets added on and then it
reaches that guy. Little do you know it
has reached the stage where there's so much
stuff have been fabricated about you and initially
the problem goes back to you.
So we know that which takes place between
the husband and wife is perfectly halal, but
once they start spreading it, it becomes a
problem.
Hear me out on this hadith. When the
prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said,
Those who look the worst in the eyes
of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
The guy that does whatever he does with
his wife and she does the same.
But then what happens,
he goes
and spreads this amongst the people
or uncovers her secrets.
It applies to the guy and the girl.
If this is now
a matter pertaining
to people
who have entered
a halal contract
and what they are doing is halal.
But then they go and spread it which
now makes it a very problematic thing in
the eyes of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
How about the guy now that goes
and does haram, then on top of that
he goes and spreads it to the people
and he tells the people I did this,
I picked her up
from that place on that road and I
took her home and I did this with
her, had a nice time with her, then
we took a few pictures together.
Sometimes in the night, a girl, she sends
now these kind of things that they have
called Snapchat.
She sends a picture of her wearing no
hijab.
Then he goes and he spreads it to
the people, oh I saw this girl and
I was looking at her and she did
this to me and she sent me a
picture of her while she was you know,
not wearing much and this and that. Since
the Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala brothers and sisters,
He covered from you and then you went
astray to the people.
Look what the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam mentioned
in the Hadith.
All my Ummah has been pardoned except
those who publicize
their sins, who come out openly with their
sins.
And part of publicizing your sins is
that someone or a guy, he does something
in the night.
And Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala he covered and
veiled his sins.
Then he says to his friend, 'Yafulan or
Fulan or whoever you are,
last night I did this,
I went to the club and I drank
and I was hanging around with this girl
and you know and then took her home
and I did this with her.
Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala revealed his sins.
But what happened?
He took this veil and he just uncovered
it and he did whatever he did by
telling the people.
Brothers and sisters,
Ma Ajmalu Sitar Allah,
how beautiful is the Sitar of Allah Subhanahu,
how many sins do we
have? That Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala covers Imagine
all the stuff that we did,
maybe under our duvet, under our blankets, whatever
it might have been.
Whether it is watching
the unlawful films
where there
is haram stuff being put on there
and we have failed to lower our gazes.
Oh, when the girl, she sent us a
picture
of herself and then we sent the picture
back and we enjoyed looking at her, we
didn't lower our gaze, we didn't act upon
the statement of the prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.
The zina of the eyes is
looking, and you're looking at the opposite *.
And the zina of the tongue is
talking, china up, chirping
her. But it's something that we boast about,
something that we boast about.
We wanna tell the people
to make ourselves look
so good that we're men,
But in reality,
we are the worst of men in the
eyes of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
Problem is I'm not here to attack you.
I'm not here
to throw things at you or to, you
know, batter you or anything like that, wallahi.
We just want you to understand that we
all make mistakes,
but what is upon us to do is
to go back to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
None of us is free from mistakes.
No matter how many sins you have done,
even if it is the most biggest and
gravest sin which is Shirk Bila Azzawajal,
That if a person dies, Allah doesn't want
to forgive him. Whether it's Bida'a,
which is going against the sunnah of the
Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,
whether even if it is zina you may
be fornicated with a 1,000 women.
The door of Tawba is not closed.
It is still open for you to come
and get it.
Go back to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. The
problem is not that we make mistakes, that's
a part of Bani Adam.
Hadith Khudsi Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said,
You make mistakes day and night.
You make
mistakes day and night,
but I forgive all sins. Come and seek
that forgiveness.
Is it even part of our DNA to
go back to Allah and seek forgiveness?
And that's
what we don't have in our lives.
Making mistakes is universal, but do we go
the extra step to seeking forgiveness from Allah
subhanahu wa ta'ala from all the sins we
do on a regular basis? You have the
prophet.
Sometimes in a sitting a 100 times, he
would seek forgiveness.
That's the prophet whose sins
previously and the future sins have been forgiven.
How about us who constantly can't lower our
gaze?
We ask Allah
to make us from those
who act upon this ayah,
and it's an ayah of Rahmah,
mercy for every single person.
Say to them, oh Muhammad,
for my servants who have transgressed against themselves,
do not lose hope in the
mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala forgives all sins.
Whatever sin it might be, don't lose hope.
Don't think to yourself I'm going to *.
You don't know that,
but the door of rahmah is open for
you. Come seek forgiveness.
The mistakes you have done, try and seek
forgiveness.
We've all gone through it.
Some stages of our lives, but it's important
that we make