Abu Taymiyyah – Khutbah O Parent! Stop Making Marriage Difficult. Ustaadh

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was shown on Omar said to her coulomb

desert invader. Bakula be the agenda Allah Allah, Allah Allah

Allah Allah Allah Cynefin now then Allah what year coming and now

by the respective brothers and sisters. A couple of days ago I

was invited to Anika

and Wallahi brothers and sisters,

it really brought me a lot of joy to see who was getting married.

A young brother and a young sister. I believe they just

turned 20 or so.

And the reason why this brought me a lot of happiness and joy is

because we live in a sexualized society.

The way Everything has been designed is to black in your

heart, and to strip you of your faith.

We as young callers to Allah subhanho wa Taala

day in day out. We come in contact with youngsters

who are going through a lot of difficulties

and hardships

trying to keep it halal.

Brothers and sisters,

Allah Allah subhanho wa Taala he tells us in the Quran addressing

the parents.

What n keahole ion income was Saudi Hina mean Abadi como mi con

Allah azza wa jal addressing the parent, he says do in cash. There

is a difference.

When we see what Anki who, and also think, oh, ma favela

communities invest now was to Lhasa, the verse in Surah Nisa

that just about every man has memorized. What Allah subhanho wa

Taala says Go and marry

123 and four, right? So everybody has memorized that verse. Allah

subhanho wa Taala here is a dressing who he's the Dressing the

Man to go and marry

failsafe to my letter I didn't follow either when you feel that

you will not be able to do justice to your wives, then

only marry one. Right Thank you. And then you have what Anki What

am I mean come those who know the Arabic language there's a

difference between that which is on the western the scale, fr Isla

right and also Fila when being commanded to do something,

Allah subhanho wa Taala and as well as brothers and sisters, he

instructs the parent to marry their sons and daughters off

after reaching the age of puberty,

again, that really may make her think, how is this actually

possible in today's day and age? This is maybe something for the

old ages, right? Getting married at the age of puberty.

Let's just speak about the Hekmat behind it. Brothers and sisters

after individual reaches the age of puberty,

it is the peak of his desires his Shaohua

right. It is the peak of his immaturity.

The peak of his attractiveness. We are speaking about both the boy

and the girl.

Right. And when you really think about our priorities, and our

focus the way it has been shifted, the whole system brothers and

sisters be

Come with

anti marriage.

And that this is something that is done maybe what, after

going over the age of 25, once an individual has

graduated from university,

but what happens brothers and sisters from the time

he started secondary school all the way up until he graduates from

university.

And this is what we are dealing with on a day to day basis.

Maybe the parent is thinking about let my daughter get a degree. And

because of this mindset, I will reject any proposal that comes by

because he wants to share of her wage later on down the line. So

or maybe due to cultural practices. He the parent, or she

the mother

doesn't want this to happen at this moment in time.

And on the way to graduation, brothers and sisters,

many of our daughters, and please brothers, since I don't want

anybody to get upset. I'm not here to lower the tone. We deal with

the current issues on the ground. When we give a hot button. This is

what the hotbed is for.

Not so long ago, I was listening to an expert in this field, who

grew up in the village and he was saying that he asked more than one

grandparent

give me the statistics, just an average.

In your time he's speaking to the grandmother in your time when he

went to school, right? The percentage of women that had haram

relationships, speaking to an old woman, he said, I went to

different cities. And I had these conversations with these

grandmothers. Or maybe now the older than the age of 60 and 70.

How many of them? Do you think the answer was 75%. All of them agreed

that it was somewhere around 75% of the women in their classes.

They had haram relationships.

What do you think the situation is now brothers and sisters?

Well, I for a very long time. This is back in 2014. When I came back

from Yemen. I used to say this in lectures. Right? After mentioning

the Hadith the Prophet Salla it was sitting when he said, you know

shut Artesia and utilitarian way of Harald JAL, while Hara Zina

from the science of the hour, my brothers and my sisters, is that

railing becomes extremely SCOTUS,

it becomes less over the time, ignorance becomes prevalent and

widespread. And likewise, sexual immorality becomes widespread as

dinner.

I know will say at times, that we have to expect that our daughters

are maybe going to come home one day and say that I want to marry

Mark, John, and Bobby.

This is the reality on the ground brothers and sisters.

It's not what we may have become used to

back home. Well, I believe me or not, I know this is a ungodly mess

did right.

The biggest problems that I deal with, right are the most common

one should I say?

Our problems connected to our Bengali youngsters, male and

female, especially the female ones. While I there was a scenario

or a case that I was dealing with, that the father said to his

daughter, I'd rather you become a woman who sells herself.

It wasn't for the sake of higher being shy, I would have mentioned

the word

then you marrying this North African,

North African.

This is some of these situations that reach us brothers and

sisters.

They are at the peak of the shower. Right?

In maturity likewise. And that being the case brothers and

sisters, we throw them

into these universities, which is the breeding ground for filth,

evil and Cofer.

Everyone knows who a breeding ground is it is a playground for

atheists who are looking to strip Muslims and also those who have

religiosity with them, Christians and others from their religion.

What do you expect to happen on the university campus brothers and

sisters I'm telling you this as someone who was studying Civil

Engineering at a university

City in Loughborough, which is also very Bengali, populated. A

lot of the students they used to teach were from Bangladesh. And

we're having these discussions all the time all the time.

So I used to say quite often,

right, what I mentioned earlier, and then, shortly after I started

mentioning, that perhaps we have to ready ourselves mentally, that

there will come a time

that our child Mohamed Abu Bakar, Omar is going to wake up to his

father and say that I'm gay.

Everybody looked at me and said, Listen, you're a bit over the top

now Stop exaggerating.

This is back in 2014 2015. I

think it was last year I got a phone call from my brother saying

the son of one of the imams in Leicester has come out gay

and the father now wants somebody to speak to his child.

So I said no problem. I got a phone call. Maybe I think a day

after that, saying oh, the dad doesn't want to go ahead with it

anymore out of fear that everyone will find out that it is the son

of the Imam

likewise, brothers and sisters, LGBTQ, it's extremely widespread

on the university campus. These are some of the challenges

brothers and sisters that we are facing. Right and that the youth

are exposed to why is it that one would choose right maybe his

daughter and becoming impregnated by some Catholic gay mug John and

Bob

then for him to marry his daughter off in the most Halal way

possible.

Providing that

this individual is a smiley is righteous and he has good

etiquettes and this is exactly what the message is Allah Allah

was some told us in Hadith, men at Telkom Tara Dona Dino, well, hello

gophers and we do inlet of Iota confit net and fill out a facade

an array, whoever comes to you, and he has religion and also

etiquettes.

Either you marry him off to your daughter, otherwise there will be

what facade, an alley, a great fitna on the face of this earth,

from the fitter and likewise brothers and sisters, that we see

many, many youngsters becoming addicted to adult content. You may

see your son coming home, it's perfectly fine from the outside,

right? He's inside of his house, under his blanket. He's become

addicted to what Phil's

an evil.

While I broke my heart not so long ago, I got a phone call. Or maybe

it was a message on one of the social media platforms that I have

a mother saying

I came across the search history of my son I know what he said on

that.

How to Overcome * addiction. The kid is eight years

of age eight years of age and this is exactly what is happening.

We when we were growing up they use the dare one another. Right?

Who's going to go and speak to that girl and pull her Jani I

think everybody knows what that means right? A flirt with her.

Let's see you can get her and if you try to shy away they will look

at you as somebody who's what

homosexual and make fun of you. That was then

and as time goes on, as the Mr. lobbyism told us, ladies the man

in Lilla the Shadowman that doesn't come a time except that a

time that comes off that is far far worse. Akula Madison Irwin was

stuck for a lucha de where the commodity items they mean festival

Pharaoh in Allah for Rahim.

Al hamdu Lillahi wa Kapha wa salatu salam ala Nabil Mustafa Al

Mustafa

are their respective brothers and sisters, elders, aunties who are

listening.

Going back to the verse that I mentioned earlier, where Allah

subhanho wa Taala

instructed the parent to marry off his daughters and his sons, I need

to help them out.

I've done I've Nagasaki Allah I know my commented on this hadith

and he said Arabba home Allah if it is which Allah subhanho wa

Taala strongly encourage the parents

to marry the kids off

What did he say after that? What Mr. Robbie hill a Harada will

need. Allah subhanho wa Taala instructed

though

Those who are free and the slaves as well to marry

and then finally, why the home Allahu Allah azza wa jal levy

Latina Allah Allah subhanho wa Taala promised to enrich them.

This is what Allah subhanho wa Taala is referring to when he says

in your corner for karate you will need him Allah Hamid probably.

If they are individuals who may be

suffering financially, they are full Cara they are poor, Allah

subhanho wa Taala will enriching them.

Messengers Allah Allah wa sallam he also tells us that as the to

help on Allah, Allah here alone,

three individuals, Allah azza wa jal has made it a right upon

himself to aid and assist three types of individuals. One of them

is a nurse to her lady you read with

the one who wants to keep himself chaste, he wants to protect his

private parts.

how difficult that is, is it brothers and sisters, to really

keep hold to your faith and to your desires? In a time and agent

like this wala is extremely difficult.

Youngsters, they find it extremely difficult. And sometimes I tell

them, Go tell your parents that you are what about to go out of

control? Tell them so they realize that at least maybe what

do something about it to be there for them.

I'm not saying that you have to fund their marriage only 110% from

A to Zed law.

Then HCA is so so simple. We're more worried about what the people

are going to say. Right? I have to make the wedding like this. If

not, society will look at me in a different manner

at the expense of your child, becoming so closed up becoming

addicted to all types of filth and evil spiritually with the spread

of social media.

I had youngsters messaging and saying that committing Zina and a

month of Ramadan, how in the month of Ramadan

and they didn't know each other before the month of Ramadan.

SubhanAllah. The two documenting Zina cave, how through social

media that's how they got to know one another.

Last time I checked brothers and sisters, all you need is the

Willie and two witnesses. It's as simple as that.

Right and the Mr. lobbyism told us the most blessitt type of Nikka is

the one with the least Mohawk.

We can keep it something moderate. But what we're thinking about is

that which

makes us accepted in society.

I'm delighted to

be allowed to I know you also commented on the verse and he said

it then limonene Timmy sort of Xena terminators, a witch. It

amazes me one wants to become enrichment. He wants more money

but then he doesn't get married. When Allah says in your corner for

Cara yogena him Allah. Allah subhanho wa Taala will be there

supporting and assisting?

Yes, you take the means, while at the same time.

Allah azza wa jal will be there for you. Think about it for a

moment people in Africa, third world countries, right? They get

married, they have kids, Elijah is looking after them. Back home in

Somalia, back home in Yemen. It just happens.

But when we're here in the UK, with housing support, housing

benefits, Child Tax Credit, and all of the different forms of

support that we have,

were terrified.

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