Abu Taymiyyah – He died With Alcohol In His Mouth! Southall EID REMINDER

Abu Taymiyyah
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The speaker encourages their brothers and sisters to take a break from the pack and focus on their own needs. They offer condolences to those lost loved ones and emphasize the importance of acknowledging the loss of others. They also discuss the loss of family members and their struggles with alcoholism. The "offense" is emphasized as a way to not damaging one's car. The speaker emphasizes that death is not a coincidence and that it is not a monstrous event.

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			My brothers and my sisters, can I have
		
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			your attention please,
		
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			for my
		
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			God?
		
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			Please, guys, I want 5 minutes.
		
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			Please, guys, I want 5 minutes.
		
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			Nothing more than that.
		
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			If you guys could give me 5 minutes,
		
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			that would make my heat.
		
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			It's better than getting money, inshallah,
		
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			than you guys giving me your
		
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			time, inshallah.
		
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			I just want 5 minutes.
		
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			Guys, don't be shy of the pack inshallah,
		
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			I don't bite.
		
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			I
		
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			message that I want to give to every
		
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			single one of you guys.
		
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			You know my brothers, when I was driving
		
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			here,
		
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			from
		
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			away. And I don't think any of us,
		
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			my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			can say with hands on heart
		
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			that we benefited fully from our times.
		
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			Maybe we let the Ramadan get away.
		
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			We didn't benefit from it as much as
		
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			we could have could have.
		
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			My brothers and my sisters,
		
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			a building can be destroyed
		
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			quicker than it can be built.
		
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			I'll repeat that again.
		
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			A building can be destroyed
		
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			quicker
		
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			than it can be built. My
		
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			brothers and my sisters,
		
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			we pray,
		
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			we fasted,
		
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			we made prayer,
		
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			we tried so hard in this month. My
		
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			brothers and my sisters, wallahi,
		
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			by the name of the Lord of the
		
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			Kaaba.
		
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			We can destroy that
		
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			in maybe 5 minutes today.
		
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			Alimdabi
		
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			Talib my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			the great companion,
		
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			the caliphate,
		
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			after Abu Bakr, Umar, Usman,
		
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			there was Ali ibn Abi Talib radiya along
		
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			to Al Anoh.
		
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			He would come out on this night,
		
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			and he would call out.
		
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			My brothers and my sisters, imagine Ali ibn
		
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			Abi Talib radiAllahu
		
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			ta'ala Anhu was standing right here.
		
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			This is the cousin of the messenger sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			Imagine he was standing right here,
		
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			and he was looking towards you,
		
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			And he started uttering these statements.
		
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			How would you feel my brothers
		
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			and my sisters?
		
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			Aliyib Nabi Tali my brothers
		
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			Haroomin
		
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			Faniu Azeem.
		
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			Is there anybody
		
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			who has had his Ramadan
		
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			rejected
		
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			so we can pay our to
		
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			him? We can pay our condolences team.
		
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			When somebody passes away, we visit their family.
		
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			Right?
		
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			We try to comfort them.
		
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			We try to be there for them.
		
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			We try to make them feel better.
		
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			My brothers and my sisters,
		
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			he wanted to pay his condolences
		
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			to the person
		
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			who wasted his Ramadan.
		
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			My brothers and my sisters,
		
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			it's this night that we have some sort
		
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			of idea
		
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			what happened to our Ramadan,
		
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			whether it went towards a positive direction,
		
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			or whether it went towards a negative direction.
		
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			Direction. You can judge my brothers and my
		
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			sisters.
		
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			My brothers and my sisters,
		
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			the great scholar is
		
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			that we wear new clothes. That's not the
		
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			real Eid.
		
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			The real aid, my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			is the one whose acts of obedience is
		
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			increased.
		
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			And then he said,
		
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			the real it isn't
		
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			the one who beautified himself
		
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			with nice fancy clothes
		
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			of flashy cars.
		
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			Do we not see this today? We find
		
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			flashy cars going everywhere.
		
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			He said to you, that's not the Eid.
		
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			The real Eid, my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			is the one whose sins were forgiven.
		
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			My brothers and my sisters,
		
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			every single year I hear about somebody
		
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			who's died
		
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			on this night.
		
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			Maybe with alcohol in his mouth.
		
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			Maybe he was smoking weed.
		
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			Maybe he was blasting music.
		
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			On this night, my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			every single year, I hear about somebody like
		
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			that.
		
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			My brothers and my sisters,
		
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			we all know what happened last year. Grenfell
		
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			Tower,
		
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			Finsbury Park, the incidents that took place just
		
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			before
		
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			the end of Ramadan.
		
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			Do you think they had a reminder before
		
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			they passed away?
		
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			Do you think all of these individuals
		
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			throughout the past years,
		
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			on the day of Eid,
		
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			when they died with alcohol in their mouths,
		
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			when they died maybe smoking weed,
		
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			Maybe they died he was with his girlfriend.
		
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			Or he was in a club.
		
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			Wallahi my brothers and my sisters,
		
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			every single year I hear about something like
		
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			that.
		
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			So my brothers and my sisters I ask
		
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			you,
		
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			what guarantee do you have?
		
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			That the angel of death is not going
		
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			to come to you tonight?
		
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			What guarantee do you have that the angel
		
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			of death is not going to be coming
		
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			to you tomorrow?
		
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			Instead of us begging Allah
		
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			Allah to accept our Ramadan.
		
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			Some of us, we are planning on the
		
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			days of the
		
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			odd nights.
		
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			Which girl we're going to be sleeping with?
		
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			Which hotel we're going to be booking?
		
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			Which car we're going to be renting?
		
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			My brothers and my sisters,
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells us about the
		
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			death.
		
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			That it's going to come to you,
		
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			which means unexpectedly.
		
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			The angel of death is not going to
		
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			send you a Snapchat.
		
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			The angel of death, my brothers and my
		
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			sisters, you're not going to get a rapture.
		
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			You're not gonna get WhatsApp message.
		
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			You're not gonna get a message on Facebook.
		
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			Telling you that you're about to pass away.
		
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			Wallahi my brothers and my sisters, this is
		
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			going to come to you unexpectedly.
		
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			Do not destroy your
		
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			Ramadan. Do not destroy your Ramadan.
		
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			That guy who's repping his car, Wallahi,
		
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			is not a fancy dress party
		
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			or a fancy car party.
		
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			Whatever you wanna call it. And this is
		
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			not the read.
		
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			And the scholars before told us
		
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			that the read is not the one who
		
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			comes with flashy cars. So you can flash
		
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			your cars all you want.
		
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			Because at the end of the day, that
		
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			which matters my brothers and sisters on this
		
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			day that we get forgiven.
		
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			That Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala helps us to
		
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			continue these good days that we were doing
		
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			in the month of Ramadan.
		
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			So my brothers,
		
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			there is still some time.
		
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			There is still some time to go home.
		
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			And beg Allah azza wa jal to accept
		
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			your Ramadan from you.
		
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			That
		
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			Allah doesn't make this a Ramadan,
		
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			where you come on your and
		
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			Ramadan 2,000 and
		
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			19 has gone down the drain
		
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			because
		
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			of something that we done on the day
		
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			of Eid.
		
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			Allah
		
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			tells us in the Quran,
		
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			Don't be like the lady
		
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			who kept on knitting. She was knitting. She
		
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			was tailoring.
		
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			And what did she do? After all of
		
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			her hard work,
		
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			she ended up ripping her apart.
		
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			That way she was knitting, she was working
		
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			very hard with,
		
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			in tailoring and playing together.
		
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			Right at the end, after many
		
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			hours of hard
		
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			work, she ended up just ripping it apart.
		
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			So don't be like that my brothers and
		
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			my sisters. You know, I just spoke to
		
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			one of the aunties over here,
		
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			and I'm gonna mention what she just told
		
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			me guys.
		
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			Wallahi my brothers,
		
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			I feel like crying right now.
		
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			And the reason why I say that,
		
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			the auntie came up to me, and she
		
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			said to me that she went through 3
		
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			different religions.
		
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			She was a seal.
		
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			She was a Hindu, then she spent 6
		
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			years of her life being a Christian.
		
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			She came here today, my brothers and my
		
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			sisters,
		
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			and she kinda felt maybe I wasted my
		
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			time.
		
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			My brothers and my sisters,
		
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			this is the kind of impression that we
		
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			as Muslims
		
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			have basically made to others.
		
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			The the my auntie, my brothers, and my
		
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			sisters, she feels like she may have wasted
		
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			her time.
		
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			This is us Muslims who are meant to
		
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			be setting an example.
		
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			And this is how we have made somebody
		
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			feel.
		
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			When she saw all of these individuals over
		
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			there,
		
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			partying,
		
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			shouting,
		
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			playing music.
		
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			My brothers and my sisters, what are we
		
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			doing?
		
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			We're meant to be setting the standards.
		
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			We're meant to be 1 body
		
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			leading the way to that which is correct.
		
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			And this is what we've done my brothers
		
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			and my sisters.
		
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			Walahe my brothers and my sisters.
		
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			I'll just reiterate the same thing that I
		
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			said earlier.
		
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			Death is not going to give you a
		
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			reminder.
		
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			Every single year,
		
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			every single age, I hear about somebody who
		
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			has passed away, maybe with alcohol in his
		
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			mouth.
		
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			Maybe he was blasting music. And the