Abu Taymiyyah – Forgive and Forget Ramadhan advice to spubs, Asrar Rasheds and the Brelvis

Abu Taymiyyah
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Speaker 1 discusses the recent debate on insults and hate on social media and emphasizes the importance of forgiveness and apologizing for actions of others. They stress the importance of avoiding insults for the benefit of others, and remind people to avoid using negative language and maximize their rewards. They also mention a specific example of a man who was found to be insulted by his cousin's wife.
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Brothers and sisters,

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I just want to quickly say something now

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that everything has gone up.

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The debate has been uploaded.

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And I want to just point out a

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few things, Insha'Allah,

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as

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a mercy to those who are concerned.

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Okay?

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Because, wallahi, brothers and sisters, I can just

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keep quiet. I don't necessarily need to say

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anything, but it's just because of the care

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that we might have for some of the

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people

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who are throwing insults, who are throwing hate,

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abuse on social media.

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You know, me personally, I don't think I

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have ever been insulted the amount I have

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been insulted in last few days, the swear

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words or the swearing that has been thrown

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my way.

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And,

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I don't think I've ever seen anything like

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that. And me personally, those who know me,

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very well,

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they know that words like, you know, you

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can basically take my picture, pull my eyes

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out, you know,

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try and embarrass me online, on social media,

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swear at me, throw things at me. It

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doesn't bother me, you know, and it doesn't

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hurt me at all. Okay? So, this is

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just basically as a rahmah for those who

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are swearing, who are who are basically struggling

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to control their tongues, You know, the prophet

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he

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said

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a servant, he says a word. And he

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enraging Allah

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when he says this word,

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and he doesn't give any consideration to it.

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So he just basically says things that he

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doesn't give any consideration to it. What happens?

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He gets chucked into the fire for 70

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years because of that one word.

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Because of that one word that he said

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out of carelessness

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without giving any consideration to it. How many

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times have some people swore on social media

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on Facebook

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they're just writing writing Nejdi

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*

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dog you, people are like this and you're

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like that,

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some people went to the extent to call

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me a Munafiq

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Brothers and sisters,

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is this going to harm me, or is

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this going to harm the actual speaker,

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You know. So I just wanted to make

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you all aware, and all those people who

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have said whatever they said,

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from,

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the other side, whether they're the followers of

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Asrar Rashid or

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anyone else the Bralevis.

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I just want to say something to you

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insha Allah with an open heart.

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Every person who insulted me,

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who called me a dog, a *, a

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munafiq, whatever it might have been,

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I forgive every single person and I pardon

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them, you know, what we need to do

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is try and be like a Sahab This

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is what ahlul sunnah, this is what ahlulhadith,

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This is what means.

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To try and be like

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the not

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the

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You know, to try and be like them,

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to try and be like them.

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When it comes to the speech, when it

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comes to the action, when it comes to

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the belief, you know,

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Abdullah

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was asked,

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how did you used to welcome the month

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of Ramadan?

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And,

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he replied back and he said,

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We never used to welcome the month of

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Ramadan, and any of us had a, you

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know, any sort of hatred in their hearts.

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So to forgive one another, to pardon one

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another, you say,

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you know,

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brothers and sisters look at Abu Bakr Radiallahu

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an, Abu Bakr Radiallahu an whose daughter Aisha

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Radiallahu an, she was accused,

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she was insulted, they spread lies about her

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you know and from those that actually spread

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those lies was his cousin mister ibn al

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Fazza,

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You know sometimes when

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a thing is spread by a close family

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member people tend to believe that more than

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when it's another person,

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So even like

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the prophet

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found it that he was finding difficulty trying

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to, you know, obviously,

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see what was going on because of all

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those people who were spreading it.

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Abu Bakr

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when the ayat came down and everything was

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revealed,

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And he swore that he's not going to

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help this mister Ibn Uthaz and his cousin.

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Mister Ibn Uthaz's only income came from Abu

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Bakr

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when he made hijrah. He didn't have any

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other income. His only income was Abu Bakr.

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And when he spread all these lies and,

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the were

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exposed and the truth came out,

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Abu Bakr, he swore that he's not going

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to help him again.

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Allah

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sent down a eye in the Quran.

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Don't let those who have been given virtue

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flight people of Abu Bakr radiAllahu anhu,

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stop

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helping the Muhajireen,

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don't let them do that. And Allah is

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saying this in this Ayah don't let those

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who have been given virtue or been preferred

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over the people

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stop helping the Muhajireen

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those who made hijrah,

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you know, and let them forget and forgive,

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let them forget and forgive and turn the

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page.

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The incentive has been mentioned, don't you want

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Allah to come and forgive you, you know.

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So Abu Bakr

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not only did he forgive him, but he

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carried on, he carried on giving him, he

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carried on giving him and this is what

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the Prophet Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam told us

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Whoever has cut the relations between you and

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him then tie the relations,

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you know, even if that person has cut

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you off, you tie the relations

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Whoever has now stopped giving you then give

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it to him and then the Prophet Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam said

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and whoever has oppressed you, then forgive him.

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And I will conclude inshallah to Ayla with

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this beautiful narration of Hasan al Basri who

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is from the tremendous of the again from

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the Quran

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from these 3 tremendous generations.

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Brothers and sisters, and I personally think this

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is absolutely amazing. Firstly, we know it is

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difficult to stand up in the last part

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of the night.

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He made the effort firstly to stand up

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in the middle of the night

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and what's he doing?

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He is begging Allah

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to forgive those who have oppressed him,

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we would try so hard to stand up

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and on top of that like if we

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did actually get the opportunity to stand in

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the last part of the night we would

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ask Allah for a b c d eelah

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z

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the amount of things that we might have

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you know.

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Is begging Allah

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Oh Allah forgive the person who has oppressed

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me. He was saying this so much a

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man came up to him and he said

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I wished

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that I was from those who oppressed you,

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why? Why? Because you're making so much dua

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for them.

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You know, and he asked him why you're

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doing this? He goes, do you not know

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the statement of Allah

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where he forgives you know

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and rectifies then his reward is with Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. You know brothers and sisters,

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Wallahi I forgive every single one of you

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I don't want to go another day and

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have anything in my heart from all those

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brothers you know, the amount of swears

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the amount of abuse and insults that people

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have polluted my Facebook with, I find absolutely

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amazing.

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I have never ever received this amount of

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hatred. We've had issues with many other people,

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like, you know, some of our brothers from,

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S pubs who are still currently writing stuff

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on Twitter and things like that, but even

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then we forgive them, you know, even then

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we forgive them, even though now we're in

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the middle of like a big debate pertaining

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shirk and Islam, what we see to be

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shirk calling onto,

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the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam doing his tikhaatabi,

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the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. Our brothers are

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still

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barking on Twitter, writing stuff, making pictures and

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whatnot fraudsters

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you know we forgive them as well but

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on top of that provinces, Wallahi Ramadan is

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coming up let's not allow some of these

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things that may have happened to stop us

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from you know optimizing and likewise maximizing when

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it comes to the benefits and the rewards

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of Ramadan I ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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to benefit us from what we heard. I

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forgive every single one of those who may

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have called me whatever it might have been,

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you know. Whatever it might have been and

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ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to forgive us

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and to forgive the rest of those people.

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