Abu Taymiyyah – Emotional Heartfelt Advice For Those Who Missed Hajj aadh

Abu Taymiyyah
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The importance of the 10-day window after Allah Subhan project's birth for rewarded deeds is emphasized, along with avoiding activities that cause stress and distraction. The speaker emphasizes the need to discipline oneself and avoid activities that cause stress and distraction, while also offering advice on empowering the older community. The importance of not going to the same place twice for the same reward is emphasized, along with avoiding activities that cause stress and distraction.
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The month of Ramadan kicks in, we strive

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our utmost best.

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This is an opportunity for us to be

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able to get closer to Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala.

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Ramadan is a lifeline that Allah

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throws

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us to give us the opportunity to

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draw near to him.

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What normally tends to happen after a month

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of Ramadan, the iman drops.

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We might end up falling back into

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our previous

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bad ways,

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then from the rahmah of Allah

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is that he throws us another lifeline.

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Right? And this without a shadow of a

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doubt are these

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first 10 days of Dhul Hijjah

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Ibn Abbas radiAllahu ta'ala Anhuma

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He told us

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that in 2 places,

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like when Allah says,

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Remember Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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in these specific set days,

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that is mentioned in Surat Al Baqarah.

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Also Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala when he swore

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by the 10, Abdullah

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ibn Abbas

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he mentioned that

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these are the 10 days of Dhul Hijjah.

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The 10 days of Dhul Hijjah.

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The greatest

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days on the face of this Earth

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The greatest days to be alive brothers and

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sisters

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It is what these

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10

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days

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What is my evidence for it? Is it

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even better than the days of Ramadan? Na'am

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It is

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And that is because the messenger salaam alayhi

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wasalam

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said

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There are no days, when an individual does

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righteous deeds that are more beloved to Allah

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Azzawajal.

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Than these 10.

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For those who have studied the Arabic language

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and also there's

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a principle.

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Right? When you find that indefinite

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that has been preceded by negation

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then it indicates generality. You Ani there is

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no day

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that is greater than these days.

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So the Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam he was

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asked what al Jihad if he Sabila even

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going out for Jihad?

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That says said, no.

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Except. 1 went with his wealth

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and with his nafs, with his soul and

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then he didn't come back. You and he

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died as a martyr

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Right?

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So doing righteous these brothers and sisters in

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these 10 are without a shadow of a

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doubt something that

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will give you

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high quantities

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of rewards

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on your scale of good deeds that we

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shouldn't

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really waste and take lightly.

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Right?

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That's something that I really wanted to share

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brothers

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and

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sisters.

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I'm sure most of us had the intention

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to go for Hajj.

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I really really wanted to go this year

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we

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have our own Hajj company where we take

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people normally every year However because of the

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climate

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the last 2 years it was extremely extremely

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painful

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Allah When you're used to doing something and

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then it's taken away from you It can

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be more difficult to deal

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with It can be so much more difficult

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to deal with

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So we're all getting excited inshallah

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this will be the year only for it

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to be

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taken away from us once again

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This advice brothers and sisters is a very

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heartfelt one by Ibn Rajiv Rahmatullahi alaihi and

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I want to really just share it to

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everyone.

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He says,

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He says for those who are not able

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to stop at Arafah. Brothers and sisters,

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the day of Arafah

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for a Hajj

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is a pillar from the pillars of the

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Hajj. If you don't go to Arafah,

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as a Hajji,

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your

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Hajj is not valid. The Messenger even

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said

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The Hajj itself is Arafah.

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You miss that, you can wave goodbye to

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your Hajj.

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Right? And even for a non Hajji, if

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we fast on the day of Arafa,

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What is the reward that we get?

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As the messenger said,

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1 year before and 1 year after, right?

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Of expiation for us since Allahu Akbar

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So he says whoever was unable to stand

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because when we go to Arafah, we stay

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there.

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Crying out to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and

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begging him for forgiveness.

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It is the best day of the dunya.

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Says whoever wasn't able to go there,

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then let him stop at the limits that

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has set for him.

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Remember brothers and sisters, we don't only worship

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Allah as the wajal

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in the month of Ramadan

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or in the period of Hajjlah.

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The same lord that we

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were worshiping in these seasonal periods, right? It's

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the same lord that

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still lives.

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This is mentioned in Sahil Bukhari. Abu Bakr

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radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu

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stood on the mimbar after the messenger, sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam.

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Send your salutations upon him brothers and sisters.

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Right? When he passed away,

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the Sahaba, they couldn't believe it.

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And this really really upset Abu Bakr radiAllahu

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ta'ala Anhu.

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He went on the mimbar

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and he said these very well known,

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profound statements.

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Or he said

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Whoever used to worship Muhammad Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam

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Then indeed

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our beloved Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam has departed

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from this world

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But whoever used to worship Allah

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Allah Azzawajal

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lives forever and he doesn't die

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Right? This is an attribute that is what's

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specific to Allah Azzawajal

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and no prophet.

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So the same lord that we worship in

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these times brothers and sisters,

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is the same lord that we should still

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be worshiping, if we didn't have the opportunity

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to go for Hajj.

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These times that are thrown our way brothers

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and sisters, it is there

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to discipline us.

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The way I look at Ramadan and also

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these 10 days is like a boot camp.

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What happens when individual goes to a boot

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camp? He trains himself to refrain from certain

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things. Right?

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And he introduces new habits into his life,

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which keeps him disciplined.

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This without a shadow of a doubt is

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another opportunity.

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Because sinning as Ibn Taym Rahmatullah

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mentions, in a time that is so

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virtuous

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or at a place

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that is so so virtuous like Mecca and

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Medina is not like any other time or

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place this is why our in

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Madinah

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they would always advise the students to be

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extra careful.

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Right? And what they do when they are

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in Al Medina

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likewise when they are in Makkah.

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Even we have students that sometimes become addicted

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to adud content

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that I would sometimes

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counsel over there

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So

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the they would be giving these heartfelt advices.

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Right? So he teaches us to refrain.

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So maybe inshallah after these 10 days

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we continue

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whatever we started.

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And then he also says,

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Whoever was unable to sleep in Musdalifa, after

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we leave Arafah brothers and sisters, we go

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and spend the night in Al Musdalifa.

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The rich and the poor, everyone looks the

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same. There is no special treatment.

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That night you are spending on the floor.

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And with your sleeping bag that you bought

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in Makkah.

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Even if your package was £10,000

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or £15,000

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Musdalifa, everyone is the same

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on the floor.

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Right?

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He says, whoever was unable to spend the

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night in Muzdalifa,

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Then let him spend the night in obedience

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to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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to come close

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and attain nearness to him. Because Allah drew

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us close.

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Sir Adam was from the great Tabiais of

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the past.

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He would say

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don't switch off the lights at night on

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these

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10 nights.

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He would really go out his way

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to the extent where he wouldn't be able

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to do anything more, until he became incapable

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of worshipping Allah.

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Allah.

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So he's saying make sure you spend the

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night

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for the sake of Allah

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in obedience,

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Refraining from filth and evil if you were

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someone who used to engage in that. At

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least for these 10 days

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try to

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change it.

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And then he says

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Whoever was unable to go to Arja'al Khayf,

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we have a Masjid

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in Minna called Masjid Al Khayf.

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They say

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a lot of the prophets they prayed there.

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Right?

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You would be spending a lot of time

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in Mina

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The where you go and what? Stone

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The 3 stones, right?

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Whoever wasn't able to go there, then let

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this individual

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spend his days

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with hope and raja hoping for the pleasure

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of Allah

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reward.

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And also fearful that it won't be accepted

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from him. Because we worship Allah between what?

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Khuf and Raja. Whenever we do a good

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deed

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we don't become deluded.

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Halas, I'm going to Aljannah.

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One may think to himself okay. I done

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all of these good deeds my iman is

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in my heart when he's advised to refrain

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from Haram

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or don't judge me.

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So just advising you to stay away from

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that which you are doing.

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Right?

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Because the way we worship Allah is hoping

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that it is accepted from us while at

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the same time we are fearful. That it

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will be

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thrown back in our face because of Ikhlas,

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sincerity.

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Right? And sadaad missing from it.

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And then he says,

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Whoever wasn't able to slaughter at because we

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slaughter, right, when you go for Hajj

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Then let him slaughter his desires,

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so that it can help him reach his

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objectives.

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Step on it. Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala comes

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before my desires and my whims.

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Don't look at the nature of the sin

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or how small it is.

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Look at who you are disobeying

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and the greatness of Allah

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when

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carrying out

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evil deeds.

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And to conclude,

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he says,

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Whoever was unable

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to visit the house of Allah, the Kaaba.

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Let that individual

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go towards the lord of this Kaaba. That's

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Allah

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Indeed,

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Indeed Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is closer to

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him than his jugular vein.

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This my brothers and my sister is an

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advice that I wanted to share to everyone

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here,

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who was probably intending to go for Hajj,

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but

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we weren't chosen maybe because of our sins,

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maybe because of something that we done.

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Right? So we should ask Allah

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We know that it's an invitation from Allah

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Right? A specific invitation as the messenger Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam said,

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The one who goes for Hajj, and the

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one who goes for Umrah, and the one

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who goes for Jihad

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They are the guests of Allah

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He invited them and they accepted the invitation.

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They asked and Allah gave them whatever they

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wanted, accepted the duas. May Allah make us

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from amongst them. Next Hajj,

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Amin.

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I hope

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I get out of the misery life

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after

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a sense of Khutbah.

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Brothers and sisters, this is actually

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the reality on the ground. Wallahi really really

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is

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And excuse me for having to address it

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in this way,

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but it's really really troublesome.

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It's just from a brother, hoping to enlighten,

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and to empower the older community,

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who may not necessarily be up to date

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with

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what is happening on the ground, which is

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extremely extremely

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heartbreaking.

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