Abu Taymiyyah – 6 Things To Do When A Talebearer Comes To You Ustaadh

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The speaker discusses six points that should be considered when evaluating a person, including their actions, testimony, and opinion. They stress that the individual who brings news about others should not be the same person as they say they are. The speaker also warns that the individual who is carrying weight should not be the same person as they say they are.

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			Every individual
		
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			who brings you tales about others.
		
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			Right? He says so and so done that,
		
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			and so and so done this.
		
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			Right? So and so said this about you.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Upon you is to do 6 things.
		
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			Upon you is to do 6 things.
		
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			Number
		
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			1.
		
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			That you don't believe what this individual is
		
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			saying. Straight away. Why?
		
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			Because this person who's carrying tails is a
		
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			Farsik.
		
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			He's a
		
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			transgressor. He is partaking
		
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			in some of the Or should I say,
		
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			one of the most
		
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			major sins possible
		
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			because of the corruption that it causes. There
		
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			are some major sins that is what?
		
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			Limited to maybe just yourself
		
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			or 2 people.
		
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			This is now what
		
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			causing problems and corruption upon amongst many.
		
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			Shouldn't believe him. Because he's a Farsikh,
		
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			Mardudu Shahada. This person's testimony in court will
		
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			be rejected.
		
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			And in Islamic court, they won't believe him,
		
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			or they won't accept anything that he says.
		
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			Because of him, committing fisq.
		
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			Athani. Number 2:
		
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			You should forbid him from doing this,
		
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			and you should advise him.
		
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			Number 3: You
		
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			Should hate him for the sake of Allah
		
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			Azzawajal.
		
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			Faheno Baheedur Indalam because he's despised by Allah
		
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			Azzawajal,
		
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			Due to him partaking in this filthy evil
		
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			sin.
		
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			Number 4.
		
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			That he shouldn't think
		
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			bad of his brother.
		
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			This person now that he's talking to you
		
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			about, you shouldn't start having bad assumptions of
		
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			him.
		
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			And that is because what?
		
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			Can't accept what this individual says, even though
		
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			it will burn.
		
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			Right?
		
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			It will make you feel at
		
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			or should I say, unease.
		
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			It will cause you discomfort.
		
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			You'll be thinking about it all night. How
		
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			can that individual say XYZ?
		
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			Number 5, Allah yahmila hoo.
		
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			Just to see,
		
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			walbaah.
		
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			This should not cause you now to start
		
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			spying.
		
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			This should not lead you now to start
		
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			spying on that individual.
		
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			Now that this has been said, you send
		
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			people, oh, go and double check. Does he
		
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			really say that? Go and ask him. Try
		
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			to act like you're on his side,
		
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			and they are his friend. See whether he
		
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			says that.
		
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			And that is because Allah said, Do
		
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			not
		
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			spy on one another. And Number 6,
		
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			You should not
		
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			fall into that which
		
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			you advise this tale teller of.
		
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			You may say to him now, Aqid listen,
		
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			what you've done is wrong, you shouldn't do
		
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			this. But then,
		
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			you go to your wife, or you go
		
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			to your brothers and sisters, and you start
		
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			saying, I can't believe what that guy said
		
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			about me.
		
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			He just prohibited that individual from not doing
		
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			this,
		
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			and you shouldn't be believing him. You should
		
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			not relate that which is being said.
		
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			May Allah give us a Tawfir to act
		
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			upon that. It's not easy.
		
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			Right?
		
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			These six points are really what? Pushing bonds.
		
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			It's really putting us to the test,
		
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			and on the ropes if you wanna call
		
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			it.