Abu Taymiyyah – 2015 Staying steadfast after Ramadhan A Taymiyyah

Abu Taymiyyah
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The importance of the end of a person is recognized, and the end is a celebration for Muslims. The importance of being humble and accepting and rejecting actions of others is emphasized. The need for forgiveness is emphasized, and forgiveness is necessary in addressing past mistakes and actions related to the creation and land. The importance of forgiveness is emphasized in various aspects of human nature, including women's pleasure and the desire to change.
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Brothers and sisters,

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we'll be covering a very, very, very important

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topic.

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In short. A topic

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which

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is connected to the month of Ramadan as

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well.

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As the brothers, they chose the topic of

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keeping steadfast

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after the month of Ramadan.

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As you may know, that in the month

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of Ramadan,

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due to the hike

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and also the glamour of Ramadan, you find

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that the event of an individual individual is

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sky high.

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He's very very eager to do rebad that.

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He has the energy,

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and it's also the month

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said,

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That when the month of Ramadan comes,

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the doors of Jannah are

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flung open,

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And the doors of hellfire

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are slammed shut, and the shayateen

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are locked up.

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You find that a person finds it very,

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very easy due to the things

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that are specific for the month of Ramadan,

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like you mentioned in hadith.

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The Rahmah,

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the mercy,

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the virtues,

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and all of the other aspects of Ramadan

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that you normally don't tend to find except

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in the month of Ramadan.

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Our lecture today, brothers,

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is that which

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comes after the month of Ramadan.

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That wage comes after

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the month of Ramadan.

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Yes, sir.

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Brothers and sisters, it would be totally wrong

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It would be totally wrong for me to

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say

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or address an individual

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that has come in the month of Ramadan,

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and he only started practicing in the month

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of Ramadan.

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To look down at him or to say

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this guy only practice in the month of

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Ramadan.

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Because some people, when Ramadan comes, they use

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that as a stepping stone.

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They use that as a mouth to get

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back on their feet,

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to maybe change,

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and to move forward in their lives.

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There's many many people like that.

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But the other kind of person that we

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want to move speak about more

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is the type of individual that when Ramadan

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comes,

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he has that kind of mentality, I'm only

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going to practice in the month of Ramadan.

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And when Ramadan finishes, I'm gonna go back

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to my future ways.

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So he's basically

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acknowledging

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and making that decision.

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In other words,

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that he's only gonna practice in the month

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of Ramadan, then

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outside of Ramadan, he's gonna go back to

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his

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bad ways of being disobedient to Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala.

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And he tend to find

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from the moment that Ramadan finishes,

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when the whispers of the shaytan

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come into the heads of the people.

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The Eid

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the Eid is a day of celebration. The

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prophet

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he told us in numerous hadiths.

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That

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the days of celebration for the Muslims

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is the day of Arafah,

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the day of Eid al Muqdha.

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And also he came in another narration,

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the Eid al Fitr,

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are days that a person eats and drinks.

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It's a day of happiness.

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You find that as soon as the day

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of hate comes,

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the cars are being rented out.

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The hijab is taken off.

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We go back to the music.

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We feel that if we do something, we

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have this mentality, we do something in Ramadan,

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it might affect our shayyan.

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Or we might only pray in

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the month of month month month of Ramadan.

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And as soon

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as the Ramadan finishes,

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we tend to go back to all these

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ways.

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Our our women,

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our daughters,

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You tend to find them

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maybe going back to wearing makeup,

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wearing fancy clothes.

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The hijab comes off. And this is very,

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very common.

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So this is

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that we

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want to give great significance to today

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and speak about

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the ending of a person,

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And that this kind of mentality of how

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dangerous it is, propaz is not the same,

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the one that knows something.

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When a person knows that something is wrong

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and the person that doesn't know

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that which is wrong. There are 2 different

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scenarios.

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And they are handled

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in a different way.

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Stay away from getting close is in a

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fornication,

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having a girlfriend,

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doing things with her. When

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Allah told you to stay away from this,

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and you went and violated the limits of

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Allah's

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pollute,

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then you have your punishment saved for you.

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But the person that might have not known

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that his situation is different.

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Brothers and sisters,

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this matter is very, very important.

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It's very, very important that we need to

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consider.

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And it's a very very emotional topic as

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well.

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None of us wanna come on Yom Kediyama.

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And we know that which is right and

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wrong.

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Everything has been made clear cut to us.

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It has been made

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absolutely crystal clear.

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We come on Yomul Tayyama.

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Turned away.

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They acted like they were deaf. They didn't

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wanna know, who are you to tell me?

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I'm gonna carry out my way.

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I am the one that has more knowledge.

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Who are you to come tell me?

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Or I am older.

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Or sometimes you find that when the wife,

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she comes and tells the husband

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that what she's doing is incorrect.

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I am the husband.

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I have

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higher position over her. She can't come and

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tell me what to do.

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This we find all the

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time. And sometimes between parents and children, or

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the other way around.

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The prophetess of Allahu alayhi wa sallam he

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told us

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something that

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is absolutely wonderful that a person is being

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elevated

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in this dunya, and likewise, how can it

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get elevated? That which is being humble.

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The prophet

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said, 3 things I swear by Allah.

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From the things that he mentioned,

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never does a person humble himself

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except Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala raises him.

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And that brings to mind the story of

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Abu Hurairah.

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The promised salamam

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and this is something related to fasting.

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If he went to his wives

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and he fulfilled his desire with his wives,

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And they did whatever they did.

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And the time of Fajr came, and he

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was in the state of jannahbah,

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he would have a bath and he would

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carry on fasting.

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He would have a bath and he would

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carry on fasting.

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I hope inshallah it's clear that which I'm

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trying to

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maybe say. There's a lot of little kids

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here who might get the wrong end of

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the stick. Now

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the prophet

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will go to his wives. When Fajr came,

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he would have a bath,

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and he would carry on fasting.

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For many years, Abu Hurair

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he used to give the fatwa.

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They if a person comes at fajr time,

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the adhan is called,

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and he is in a state of janaba,

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then that person comes first.

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That person comes first. Abu Uruyya salafi.

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The

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prophet

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and then whatever Abu Huraira

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came across with,

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he memorized and he mastered and he became

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the Sahawi that knew

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the most hadith.

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So what do we know now about Abu

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Rayn Radiallahu Anhu, his great companion from the

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tremendous of the companions

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that he was an when he came to

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memorizing the practices of the prophet

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And at the same time, as you can

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see here, they fell into

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mistake. He fell into mistake.

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Allah

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who are the 2 wives of the prophet,

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salallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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They said what you're saying is incorrect.

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Raba the promise of Allahu alaihi was send

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them, when the president came he would carry

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on fasting. He would have a bath and

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he would carry on fasting.

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He never said I don't want hadith than

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him. I have more knowledge than him. He

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humbled himself, came down to his level and

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accepted al Sihan.

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That look at his great companion. He never

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had killed it. He wasn't arrogant.

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The prophetess of Allah told us about Khibre.

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Whoever has the size of a mustard grain

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of keeping in his heart, this person doesn't

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enter into Jannah. And keeping is to reject

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the truth and to believe to the people.

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So that brings us brothers and sisters to

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that which we wanted to mention

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that when something becomes clear to us,

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something there is haram.

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And especially if we know it

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and we knew otherwise,

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Brothers and sisters, come to play upon this

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eye in Surah Al Ba'a.

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In the hand of Surah Al Ba'ala

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Whoever turns away

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from the reminder,

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from that which he has been made clear

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to him,

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And this person,

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he will live a depressive life.

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Some of us sometimes we complain about having

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depression

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or we go through stress. We don't know

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what to do with our lives. The confar,

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what do they do? As soon as they

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become depressed, they go to the London Bridge

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and they shut themselves off. They commit suicide.

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There's no event.

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And you wonder why some people,

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they tend to revert to a certain way,

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to a way like this.

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Why? Because of a lack of demand.

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They didn't do simply what

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Allah told them to do.

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Allah says,

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He will make we will make him live

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a depressive life.

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So if you are suffering from depression, the

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first place you go back to

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is the Quran and the sunnah in establishing

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it. How Allah

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told you to establish it.

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Just picture it in your head now. Someone

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came up to you, and he said to

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you what you're doing is incorrect.

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Or don't do this.

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And you know that what you're doing is

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totally incorrect,

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you turn away that one time.

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Allah

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says,

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He will come

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on and he will be blind.

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So what does he say?

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He will say,

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The ayat and the verses came to you,

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and you left it off.

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You left it off, and you turned away.

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And today, you're gonna be left off.

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That's now the danger, brothers and sisters.

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We're not picking on anyone here. All of

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us, we have mistakes.

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None of us, for those that have come

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to know the sunnah,

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nobody woke up one day and Khalas,

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he ended up establishing the sunnah. Nobody takes

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time.

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People take time to realize that which is

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correct, which is wrong.

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Abstaining from this, doing this action, establishing this

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command of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. It doesn't

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happen overnight. We are only need to improve

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and to change.

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But the issue is when is this change

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gonna happen?

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We hear this comment all the time.

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My own uncle said this to me my

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own uncle said this to me years ago

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when we had the bid.

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He said to us, why don't you just

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grow your bid and stop practicing the word

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of Khamis

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when you become older?

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When you become older and put your hadith

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on, then stop practicing. But now enjoy your

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life.

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Enjoy it. You've only got days.

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But who can guarantee

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that we're gonna even make it to that

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age?

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The prophet told

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us,

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The average lifespan of a human being is

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between 60 and 70.

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Take 20 years out.

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This is get 60 if you take 20

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years out. Give it 50 years.

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50 years that person has

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taking away the age of puberty.

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50 years that person has.

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If a person is sleeping 8 hours a

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day, 8 hours a day.

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Do you know brothers and sisters, 8 hours

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a day we take out of our lifespan.

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That's 1 third of a day,

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and that's 1 third of your life going

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down the drain.

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1 third if you sleep only 8 hours.

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The day consists of what? 24 hours. 8

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is 1 third. Yeah. So if a person

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are sleeping every single day for 8 hours,

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that takes 1 third out of his life.

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So we just had 50 years. Where is

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1 third of 50?

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My wife became a Taliban. 16. 16.

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18.

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18. Around 18. Around 18. Around 18.

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18. 18 years.

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Goes down the drain. How many hours how

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many how many years left?

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15 18 years?

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About 36, 37. 52.

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Who can even guarantee

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that we're gonna come across

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or we're gonna live another second? Wallahi brothers

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and sisters, we can walk out of that

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door

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and all of us might collapse.

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Is that serious and is that the reality?

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Now when you sleep in the night, don't

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wait for the morning. Meaning, be on your

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toes.

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Never knowing what's gonna happen.

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So that brings us now to the mentality

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that people have.

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I'm only gonna practice in the month of

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Ramadan. Then after Ramadan,

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I'm gonna go back to my ways. I'm

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gonna go back to my club. I'm gonna

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carry on judging and speaking to my girlfriend.

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I'm gonna carry on doing this and doing

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that.

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Brothers and sisters, they're very very civil thing

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that we need to think about

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how our ending will be.

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Will it be a good ending?

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Will it be a bad ending?

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Does anyone know Tupac here?

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Most of us, we know Tupac.

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Zac Tupac was the famous rapper that every

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single person knows about.

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Right? Talking about the issue

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of a good ending and a bad ending.

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And then bear in mind as well that

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the prophet

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said to us,

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that

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the ending of a person is based upon

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his what?

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His actions. What he used to do.

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If you're someone that excessively swears,

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what is most likely to happen

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That your life is taken.

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Sah, your life is taken while you are

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doing the actions.

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We all know the famous hadith, the famous

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hadith.

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When the prophet

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But at that time,

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at that person's death,

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would it be that easy

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if a person was consistently

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being disobedient to Allah

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to say la ilaha illa?

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Tooth pack.

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He was someone on the excess of his

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walk. He's always swearing.

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He's always what? Swearing.

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F in this, f in this, f in

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that. And today, we were talking this from

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the.

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The way they speak is like this.

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They constantly say

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swear words, maybe

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in one sentence they use the f word

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maybe 3, 4 times.

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So 2 fact we have a listen. We

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have a listen.

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We don't just tell stories.

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It's not like watching a film, going to

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see the fair and khalat. You put the

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next program on, and then you put the

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next program on. When we mention stories, there's

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a lesson.

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There's morals behind it. We don't just mention

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it also we can enjoy it, get and

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you get excited and get happy, laugh about

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it, and then go back home, tell our

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families joke about it.

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Robert, there's a lesson in everything.

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The stories that are mentioned in the Quran,

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala assist to us.

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We tell you of the stories in

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so that you can firm in your heart.

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That you can firm in your heart. And

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he can make you feel, ponder, and contemplate.

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When Tupac got shot,

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when he got shot, he's in the hands

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of the police.

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The police is saying to him, who is

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the one that killed you so that we

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can what?

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Go and get this person so we can

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lock him on.

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What would the normal person do? He tell

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him,

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at least he has some sort of revenge.

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The last things that he said to the

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police,

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he told them to f off.

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And that's why we died.

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Just to show you that if someone is

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excessively saying something

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or involved in something,

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then it's most likely his enemies to be

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like this.

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Another example

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that's a very true story.

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Someone called Alan Shearer. Do you know who

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Alan Shearer is?

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Steven in April? Yes.

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Newcastle, they used to call him the fox

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in the box.

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A

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Muslim

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teenager. They used to love.

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His bed, it has a picture

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walls, Everything inside this room is.

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Today, this is the kind of fitment that

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we have.

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Messi, Ronaldo, all these other things, whether the

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person is small or is older.

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That Allah tells us

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They are the 1 separation.

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He says that your lord is Jesus.

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When he's supposed to call, he does

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this, pointing to Jesus.

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He commits the worst sin the worst sin,

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which is shi'bula.

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Imagine brothers and sisters,

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when some of these football players they score,

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and we shout their names whatever it might

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be. Ronaldo, Messi.

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And that very moment that very moment due

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to the love that we have for them,

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our souls get taken,

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and we die saying messio or an album.

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This kid or this teenager,

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he's on his deathbed. He's on his deathbed.

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He's dying.

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He's dying, brothers.

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Someone's coming to him and telling him to

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say,

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What do you think he said?

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He said.

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What stuff?

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And this is how he died.

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Meaning, be on your toes. Brothers and sisters,

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we don't know when that death is gonna

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come.

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We don't know when that death is gonna

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come. That death is gonna come to us,

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and that's it.

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We're gonna be wishing. We're gonna be wishing.

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We have just an extra moment.

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Allah tells us.

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And Allah

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comes another ayah.

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And I can be from those that are

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righteous.

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So brothers and sisters,

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contemplate upon these ayats.

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The ending of a person,

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how severe it is,

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and how you might be resurrected on Yomr

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Al Tayama. The prophet told us,

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The a man, he's with the one that

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he loves.

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So if you love Messi

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or you love that hip hop star

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or this person that pays the R and

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D

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or all these other things,

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the money, the dollars,

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the wealth that we love,

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whatever it might be, a person comes in,

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he

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is with the one that he

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loves.

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So

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father and sisters,

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know

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that this could be every single one of

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us.

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This mentality, and I will keep repeating this,

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that I'm only gonna do something in Ramadan.

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Then after Ramadan, I'm gonna leave all my

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salat.

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About 2 girls about 2 girls.

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And it's a true story.

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True story.

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It's 2 girls.

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They have here written something called Adam quotes.

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There are a lot of people that enrolled

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in.

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So

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They used to wear niqab, hijab, everything.

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They used to wear what? Niqab, hijab, everything.

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And they said let us then experience

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one day

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one day and take our hijabs off.

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We take our hijabs off,

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we go to the night club, we smoke

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shisha, we do this and we do that.

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All they wanted to do is a small

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thing

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to take off the hijab. That was the

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initial thing.

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And then the shayat panel came and whispered,

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okay, just go to the club as well.

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Go be with these guys. Smoke with

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them or do this.

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These are girls, brothers, and sisters

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who are wearing their top top to bottom.

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Day and night, they memorize the Quran.

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They decided just one day one day,

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let me take off my thing,

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and they ended up falling into so much

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that

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things they never ever expected.

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They ended up falling into the hands of

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men

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and other things that they did on that

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day.

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Because of what?

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One whisper of the shaitan, or just saying,

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oh, just that one time I'm gonna do

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something just one time I'm gonna do something,

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and I'm gonna go back.

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And then you have the other side, something

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called the

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the good ending.

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We know

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over the sisters.

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He's making dua to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Oh Allah,

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make my death

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in the city of your Prophet

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and make me die as a martyr.

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Just make a dua like this, this Ramadan,

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make a dua.

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And let us follow the system not estimate

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the power of the

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drug, especially while we're fasting, we have a

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great opportunity that maybe many people don't have.

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In Saudi, they're only fasting maybe 8, 9

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hours.

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They're only fasting, 8, 9 hours.

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We have a blessing,

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and you must be wondering what blessing is

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this? 20 hours that we're fasting, 20 hours.

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It's a blessing. Why is there a blessing

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if it wasn't only for this hadith?

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The new room is sufficient. The promise of

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Ariyasem said to us, to

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whom? 3

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And from those that he mentioned was,

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the one that's fasting until he breaks it.

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So from the moment that you stop fasting

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all the way till you break it, 20

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hours that you have, whatever the issue might

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be,

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whether it is a sickness,

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whether it is financial difficulty that you have,

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whether it is something that you really want,

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do not underestimate the power of the dua.

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Because anything can happen anywhere, anytime.

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All we need to do is believe.

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Yes, sir.

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You know the problem that we have today,

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brothers and sisters,

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Is that as soon as something happens to

00:31:02 --> 00:31:03

us,

00:31:03 --> 00:31:05

as soon as something happens to us,

00:31:06 --> 00:31:07

whether it's a newness,

00:31:08 --> 00:31:10

the first place that we run to is

00:31:10 --> 00:31:12

the NHS or the GP.

00:31:13 --> 00:31:15

We've got a stomach problem, we run to

00:31:15 --> 00:31:16

the GP or the NHS.

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As soon as we lose our jobs, the

00:31:19 --> 00:31:22

first place that we run to is where

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the job center. We're lining up.

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Nobody is saying don't go there or don't

00:31:28 --> 00:31:29

take the aspab, don't take the pauses.

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Imagine a one time that you made dua

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to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala just a one

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time.

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You put your hands up to him. The

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prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam told us

00:31:45 --> 00:31:47

Allah is shy and he's very generous that

00:31:47 --> 00:31:49

when someone puts his hands up to Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala, it's a means of getting

00:31:52 --> 00:31:52

your dua

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responded to. Just putting your hands up. Dua

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Allah will send me back empty handed.

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So

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is making dua.

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Making du'a,

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oh Allah,

00:32:05 --> 00:32:06

make me a mata

00:32:08 --> 00:32:09

and make my death in the city of

00:32:09 --> 00:32:10

the prophet

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Umar ibn Khaddab

00:32:14 --> 00:32:15

died while in the prayer.

00:32:16 --> 00:32:18

He was stopped while in the prayer. And

00:32:18 --> 00:32:20

why did he get buried?

00:32:20 --> 00:32:21

Right next to the prophet salallahu alaihi wa

00:32:21 --> 00:32:22

sallam.

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This is a kind of example, Ikhwani,

00:32:25 --> 00:32:27

of a shastan al khatim a good ending.

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Sometimes you find on social networking websites like

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on Twitter or Facebook, people sending out pictures.

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I'm a guy that has just died.

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He's died while making the sujood. Recently,

00:32:40 --> 00:32:41

an Indian man,

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he's sitting in the Haram, in the Haram

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in Mecca, in the Haram in Madini.

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In the city of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

00:32:48 --> 00:32:49

wa sallam, his masjid.

00:32:50 --> 00:32:52

He's reading the Quran and he died while

00:32:52 --> 00:32:54

reading the Quran. And his picture is going

00:32:54 --> 00:32:56

wrong. It's going wrong. Whether he was Bangladesh,

00:32:56 --> 00:32:58

India, I'm not exactly sure.

00:32:58 --> 00:33:00

But his picture was going around everywhere.

00:33:02 --> 00:33:04

This is a kind of example of Hafiz

00:33:04 --> 00:33:05

al Khattim.

00:33:06 --> 00:33:07

It just depends on you.

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And the other way, what is the system

00:33:10 --> 00:33:11

that we have to understand

00:33:13 --> 00:33:14

is a very, very important thing

00:33:16 --> 00:33:17

is asking Allah

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for istikhamal.

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Ask Allah

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This is the perfect time.

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This is the perfect time, brothers. We still

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have 5 days remaining, 5 days remaining. And

00:33:30 --> 00:33:31

today might be later

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And we mentioned the hadith before. Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala won't reject this person's dua. Why

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he's fasting if he makes dua? It won't

00:33:41 --> 00:33:41

get rejected.

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To us, Allah

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Just to put Allah

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Allah

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to put us on the right path.

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Any of our hearts, it could be anyone.

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Anyone, brothers.

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Today, we see inshallah in the Masajid.

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Tomorrow, we go out.

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When is even the biggest shave? This has

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happened to.

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Forget about what

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happened to.

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And in Nur Taym, he mentions this in

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his kitab al Fowayd.

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The one man comes

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on his deathbed,

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

he's saying he's singing.

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He's just singing.

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He's singing in a tune.

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That could happen to every single one of

00:34:29 --> 00:34:31

us brothers and sisters that today we are

00:34:31 --> 00:34:31

guided,

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we're coming to the masajid,

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and tomorrow we see ourselves in the night

00:34:36 --> 00:34:37

club.

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Forget us prophets, the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam. The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

00:34:55 --> 00:34:56

Oh Allah,

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O turner of the hearts.

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Keep my heart firm upon your obedience in

00:35:02 --> 00:35:02

your religion.

00:35:05 --> 00:35:07

And he came in another narration,

00:35:11 --> 00:35:13

If you want fitna

00:35:13 --> 00:35:14

for me,

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for your

00:35:16 --> 00:35:18

sake, then take me

00:35:18 --> 00:35:19

away while I'm not infatuated,

00:35:20 --> 00:35:20

corrupted.

00:35:23 --> 00:35:24

If this is the prophet making

00:35:25 --> 00:35:26

dua to Allah

00:35:26 --> 00:35:28

to keep a firm, then where did any

00:35:28 --> 00:35:30

of us, any of us stand? Where do

00:35:30 --> 00:35:31

we stand?

00:35:33 --> 00:35:34

The prophet

00:35:35 --> 00:35:35

told us,

00:35:42 --> 00:35:43

That the hearts the hearts

00:35:44 --> 00:35:45

are between 2 fingers

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47

from the fingers

00:35:47 --> 00:35:49

of the most merciful one of Allah

00:35:50 --> 00:35:51

That's where the hearts are.

00:35:56 --> 00:35:58

If Allah wants, he will put him on

00:35:58 --> 00:36:00

the straight path, and if Allah wants,

00:36:02 --> 00:36:04

he will deviate his heart away. It's that

00:36:04 --> 00:36:05

easy.

00:36:05 --> 00:36:07

And that's how quickly this can take place.

00:36:08 --> 00:36:09

Namad Gossar said,

00:36:10 --> 00:36:12

and here's how the Sahaba were.

00:36:13 --> 00:36:14

They never became complacent.

00:36:15 --> 00:36:17

Oh, I spilled on.

00:36:18 --> 00:36:20

I paid £5.

00:36:22 --> 00:36:24

Halas, I'm gonna be getting the rewards for

00:36:24 --> 00:36:25

84 years.

00:36:27 --> 00:36:29

Nobody is saying don't stand up and fear

00:36:29 --> 00:36:31

and die of fear and fright. Nah.

00:36:32 --> 00:36:34

We worship Allah

00:36:34 --> 00:36:35

between two things,

00:36:36 --> 00:36:38

between hope and also fear.

00:36:39 --> 00:36:41

That we fear that our actions are not

00:36:41 --> 00:36:43

being accepted and at the same time we

00:36:43 --> 00:36:45

hope for the Jannah and the reward of

00:36:45 --> 00:36:45

Allah

00:36:47 --> 00:36:49

If a person doesn't worship Allah

00:36:50 --> 00:36:51

with either of them, he's gonna get distracted.

00:36:52 --> 00:36:54

Because you just keep if you if a

00:36:54 --> 00:36:56

person just keeps hoping, and he keeps hoping,

00:36:56 --> 00:36:56

and he

00:36:57 --> 00:36:57

keeps

00:36:59 --> 00:37:01

hoping, whatever he might do, he just hopes.

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

And he doesn't know if his actions are

00:37:04 --> 00:37:07

being accepted or not. He might become complacent

00:37:07 --> 00:37:08

and deficient in his actions,

00:37:09 --> 00:37:10

and he doesn't get anywhere.

00:37:11 --> 00:37:13

And if a person now is just constantly

00:37:13 --> 00:37:14

just being scared,

00:37:14 --> 00:37:16

he's constantly being scared,

00:37:17 --> 00:37:19

he will reach a point where he becomes

00:37:19 --> 00:37:22

so scared and the fright overwhelms him, and

00:37:22 --> 00:37:23

he leaves the religion altogether.

00:37:24 --> 00:37:25

He'll say to himself, Arce, if I whatever

00:37:25 --> 00:37:28

I do is not being accepted, what's gonna

00:37:28 --> 00:37:28

happen?

00:37:30 --> 00:37:32

So a person needs to be balanced

00:37:33 --> 00:37:34

between the two matters.

00:37:35 --> 00:37:37

So the whole point here is the Sahaba,

00:37:38 --> 00:37:39

when they stood up in the last 10

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

days,

00:37:41 --> 00:37:42

they never said,

00:37:42 --> 00:37:43

I'm gonna show for the rest of the

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

year.

00:37:45 --> 00:37:47

84 years of Ibadah, I'm getting a reward

00:37:47 --> 00:37:49

for, and that's it.

00:37:50 --> 00:37:53

Rahab Adi, Sahaba, I won why Ali, they

00:37:53 --> 00:37:53

were scared.

00:37:54 --> 00:37:56

Brothers and sisters, they were scared. When they

00:37:56 --> 00:37:57

did Ibadah,

00:37:58 --> 00:38:00

They never got complacent or they never said

00:38:00 --> 00:38:01

we're going to Jannah.

00:38:22 --> 00:38:25

Before his death, he used to tell Hudayfah

00:38:25 --> 00:38:27

ibn Abi al Mahdi, who was another great

00:38:27 --> 00:38:27

companion,

00:38:28 --> 00:38:29

who the moonafi home were.

00:38:30 --> 00:38:32

Nobody will know except for Hudayfah.

00:38:34 --> 00:38:36

Umar ibn al Khattab used to fend for

00:38:36 --> 00:38:36

himself.

00:38:37 --> 00:38:38

Is he from the?

00:38:38 --> 00:38:40

Is he from the pious ones?

00:38:41 --> 00:38:43

As soon as he died,

00:38:43 --> 00:38:46

the the the Umar al Mulkataq went running

00:38:46 --> 00:38:47

to Hudaib and he grabbed him and he

00:38:47 --> 00:38:48

said to him, did the

00:38:49 --> 00:38:49

prophet

00:38:50 --> 00:38:52

mention me from amongst the Munafiqeen?

00:38:54 --> 00:38:56

This is one of the best of the

00:38:56 --> 00:38:57

believers scared for himself.

00:39:05 --> 00:39:08

I met 30 of the Sahaba. 30

00:39:08 --> 00:39:09

of the Sahaba.

00:39:13 --> 00:39:14

Every single one of them

00:39:15 --> 00:39:16

he faced for the fact,

00:39:17 --> 00:39:17

hypocrisy

00:39:18 --> 00:39:18

in

00:39:21 --> 00:39:22

himself. They used to be scared.

00:39:23 --> 00:39:24

They used to be scared for themselves.

00:39:25 --> 00:39:27

The ay and the ay brothers and sisters

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

There's an ay in the Quran

00:39:33 --> 00:39:36

that talks about those whose hearts are trembling.

00:39:40 --> 00:39:41

That when they are going back to the

00:39:41 --> 00:39:43

Lord, they tremble, their hearts tremble

00:39:45 --> 00:39:47

in regards to the fact of going back

00:39:47 --> 00:39:48

to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

00:39:49 --> 00:39:50

Aisha Sin

00:39:51 --> 00:39:54

said, in this ayah talking about the people

00:39:54 --> 00:39:55

that do sin,

00:39:56 --> 00:39:59

That commit sina, that steal, that kill, that

00:39:59 --> 00:40:02

commit the major and that commit the sins?

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04

Is this ayah talking about them that they're

00:40:04 --> 00:40:04

scared

00:40:05 --> 00:40:07

to meet Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala?

00:40:08 --> 00:40:09

Prophet

00:40:09 --> 00:40:10

said no.

00:40:11 --> 00:40:13

He said to her it is regarding the

00:40:13 --> 00:40:14

people

00:40:15 --> 00:40:16

that when they do good actions,

00:40:17 --> 00:40:20

they are frightened, their hearts are trembling.

00:40:20 --> 00:40:23

Is this action being accepted for me?

00:40:26 --> 00:40:28

So just because there's a great reward brothers

00:40:28 --> 00:40:29

and sisters,

00:40:30 --> 00:40:32

that doesn't mean we sit back

00:40:34 --> 00:40:36

and we lean on maybe some of the

00:40:36 --> 00:40:37

actions that we did in 2013,

00:40:38 --> 00:40:40

where I stood on Laylatul Qadr then, that's

00:40:40 --> 00:40:41

sufficient for me.

00:40:42 --> 00:40:42

We don't know

00:40:43 --> 00:40:45

if these actions are being accepted from us.

00:40:46 --> 00:40:47

All we can do is hope

00:40:48 --> 00:40:49

and ask Allah

00:40:49 --> 00:40:51

to accept our actions.

00:40:52 --> 00:40:54

To accept his actions.

00:40:56 --> 00:40:56

Allah

00:40:57 --> 00:40:57

says

00:41:01 --> 00:41:02

So brothers and sisters,

00:41:03 --> 00:41:03

just

00:41:05 --> 00:41:06

concluding the lecture,

00:41:07 --> 00:41:10

This mentality and time and again we mentioned

00:41:12 --> 00:41:13

this mentality

00:41:14 --> 00:41:16

of I'm only gonna practice in the month

00:41:16 --> 00:41:16

of Ramadan.

00:41:17 --> 00:41:18

Wallahi.

00:41:18 --> 00:41:20

You might not even make it after Ramadan.

00:41:22 --> 00:41:24

You might even make it to Eid.

00:41:24 --> 00:41:26

So you're telling yourself, no.

00:41:27 --> 00:41:29

I'm gonna do this.

00:41:30 --> 00:41:32

Send Qur'an. And I'm gonna do that. And

00:41:32 --> 00:41:34

I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna do this.

00:41:34 --> 00:41:36

You haven't even come out of Ramadan and

00:41:36 --> 00:41:38

you're all you're already intending

00:41:38 --> 00:41:39

shah and evil.

00:41:40 --> 00:41:42

We might not even make it out of

00:41:42 --> 00:41:42

Ramadan.

00:41:45 --> 00:41:47

Brothers and sisters, may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:42:03 --> 00:42:05

Whoever manages to stand

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

on the night of power

00:42:08 --> 00:42:10

then Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will forgive his

00:42:10 --> 00:42:11

passims.

00:42:11 --> 00:42:13

The prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

00:42:19 --> 00:42:20

said, The month has come.

00:42:21 --> 00:42:22

In it is a might that is better

00:42:22 --> 00:42:23

than a 1000 months.

00:42:30 --> 00:42:32

Whoever is whoever is deprived

00:42:34 --> 00:42:36

of this day, of this night, then he

00:42:36 --> 00:42:38

has been deprived of all good.

00:42:45 --> 00:42:47

So brothers and sisters, this is a day

00:42:48 --> 00:42:50

or these last 10 days

00:42:50 --> 00:42:53

when the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, as Aisha

00:42:53 --> 00:42:53

mentioned,

00:42:58 --> 00:43:00

He would wake up his family.

00:43:01 --> 00:43:02

He would wake them up,

00:43:03 --> 00:43:04

and he would

00:43:05 --> 00:43:06

tighten his belt figuratively

00:43:07 --> 00:43:09

speaking. He would up his game.

00:43:09 --> 00:43:10

This is the prophet

00:43:11 --> 00:43:13

He would stand till his feet became red.

00:43:14 --> 00:43:16

Aja, he says to him, you Rasoolullah,

00:43:17 --> 00:43:19

why are you tiring yourself? And Allah

00:43:19 --> 00:43:21

has forgiven your past and future sins.

00:43:22 --> 00:43:23

Why did he do this?

00:43:25 --> 00:43:26

He said to

00:43:27 --> 00:43:28

shall I not be a thankful slave?

00:43:29 --> 00:43:30

He is striving.

00:43:34 --> 00:43:36

He used to strike in the last 10

00:43:36 --> 00:43:36

days

00:43:37 --> 00:43:39

more than he would strike in the in

00:43:39 --> 00:43:40

the rest of the Ramadan,

00:43:40 --> 00:43:42

in any other day.

00:43:44 --> 00:43:45

Brothers and sisters, I don't want anyone to

00:43:45 --> 00:43:46

feel

00:43:48 --> 00:43:50

that he has no hope remaining

00:43:51 --> 00:43:53

or that he can't do anything else.

00:43:53 --> 00:43:54

Or

00:43:54 --> 00:43:57

that Khalas is heading towards destruction.

00:43:58 --> 00:44:00

It is a month of forgiveness no matter

00:44:01 --> 00:44:02

what the sin is.

00:44:03 --> 00:44:04

We all have sins.

00:44:04 --> 00:44:06

We have mountains of sins

00:44:07 --> 00:44:08

that we beg Allah

00:44:09 --> 00:44:09

to forgive.

00:44:11 --> 00:44:13

When it's even shirk bila, shirk

00:44:14 --> 00:44:15

is the mighty sin

00:44:16 --> 00:44:18

that if a person dies upon it, Allah

00:44:18 --> 00:44:20

subhanahu wa ta'ala will chuck him in the

00:44:20 --> 00:44:22

hellfire and he'll never come out.

00:44:24 --> 00:44:24

Allah

00:44:25 --> 00:44:26

says, say to them,

00:44:27 --> 00:44:27

oh

00:44:28 --> 00:44:28

Muhammad

00:44:31 --> 00:44:32

Say to them,

00:44:32 --> 00:44:35

to the servants who have transgressed.

00:44:35 --> 00:44:38

They've sinned. They've done every single bad thing.

00:44:42 --> 00:44:44

In the mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

00:44:47 --> 00:44:49

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala reveals all past sins.

00:44:50 --> 00:44:51

Any sin he might be.

00:44:52 --> 00:44:54

Prophet and sisters, we forget. We forget what

00:44:54 --> 00:44:55

we say in the morning.

00:44:56 --> 00:44:57

We forget we say in the morning.

00:44:58 --> 00:45:00

How many times has there been

00:45:01 --> 00:45:03

that we say something about this guy? We

00:45:03 --> 00:45:04

will pass him.

00:45:04 --> 00:45:07

We backbite. We say this about how we

00:45:07 --> 00:45:09

accuse her of something she never did.

00:45:18 --> 00:45:19

The prophet said,

00:45:20 --> 00:45:22

When the Adam, the son of Adam is

00:45:22 --> 00:45:24

no one that excessively makes mistakes, he's always

00:45:24 --> 00:45:25

gonna make mistakes.

00:45:26 --> 00:45:27

But what does he have to do?

00:45:28 --> 00:45:30

If this is part of human nature, what

00:45:30 --> 00:45:31

does he have to do?

00:45:32 --> 00:45:33

He has to go the

00:45:54 --> 00:45:56

You make sins day and night,

00:45:57 --> 00:45:59

and I forgive your sins. But you have

00:45:59 --> 00:46:00

to come to me in order for me

00:46:00 --> 00:46:01

to forgive you.

00:46:03 --> 00:46:04

Do we go the extra step to going

00:46:04 --> 00:46:07

to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and seeking forgiveness?

00:46:08 --> 00:46:11

That's something that is rare in our lives.

00:46:13 --> 00:46:14

Whatever it might be,

00:46:15 --> 00:46:17

brothers and sisters take this time out to

00:46:17 --> 00:46:17

think

00:46:18 --> 00:46:20

whatever it might be that we're sincere on

00:46:20 --> 00:46:21

Tawba.

00:46:21 --> 00:46:23

That when we stand, when we are in

00:46:23 --> 00:46:24

our sujood,

00:46:26 --> 00:46:27

in where a dua a person's

00:46:28 --> 00:46:30

dua is being responded to straight away?

00:46:30 --> 00:46:32

Do not waste the opportunity

00:46:33 --> 00:46:35

to ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala whatever you

00:46:35 --> 00:46:35

need,

00:46:36 --> 00:46:39

to keep you firm upon the straight path,

00:46:40 --> 00:46:42

and to keep your mentality intact

00:46:43 --> 00:46:44

in the correct

00:46:46 --> 00:46:47

and to make you from those

00:46:48 --> 00:46:49

whose sins have been forgiven.

00:46:50 --> 00:46:52

We ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to make

00:46:52 --> 00:46:53

this

00:46:53 --> 00:46:54

a lecture

00:46:55 --> 00:46:57

that is a benefit to all of us.

00:46:57 --> 00:46:57

And

00:46:58 --> 00:46:59

for women and shaitan.

00:47:01 --> 00:47:02

Whatever I said that was a mistake that

00:47:02 --> 00:47:04

is from myself and also the shaytan. Allah

00:47:04 --> 00:47:07

Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala's message I'll take from this.

00:47:07 --> 00:47:08

And inshallah like this.

00:47:13 --> 00:47:14

Questions?

00:47:18 --> 00:47:20

Any any question regarding a topic?

00:47:34 --> 00:47:37

A very good question. How can a person

00:47:37 --> 00:47:39

seek forgiveness from Allah

00:47:41 --> 00:47:43

There's many, many forms and ways that a

00:47:43 --> 00:47:44

person can seek forgiveness

00:47:46 --> 00:47:49

from Allah Part of this is simply making

00:48:02 --> 00:48:03

She asked him

00:48:03 --> 00:48:05

that if I managed to stand on the

00:48:05 --> 00:48:08

day or the night of Ka'wah, what do

00:48:08 --> 00:48:10

I say? He told us a famous dua,

00:48:22 --> 00:48:22

unforgiving.

00:48:23 --> 00:48:24

So forgive our sins.

00:48:25 --> 00:48:27

So if a person is sincere,

00:48:27 --> 00:48:28

he regrets

00:48:29 --> 00:48:31

from that which he did. He decides

00:48:31 --> 00:48:33

that he won't go back to that which

00:48:33 --> 00:48:34

he has been doing.

00:48:36 --> 00:48:38

It's not correct over that someone only comes

00:48:38 --> 00:48:39

to Ramadan with

00:48:40 --> 00:48:42

the mentality he's gonna go back after the

00:48:42 --> 00:48:43

month of Ramadan.

00:48:44 --> 00:48:45

We mentioned at the start of the lecture

00:48:45 --> 00:48:46

2 kinds of people.

00:48:47 --> 00:48:48

The kind that wants to change, and he

00:48:48 --> 00:48:49

uses Ramadan

00:48:50 --> 00:48:52

as a stepping stone to change.

00:48:52 --> 00:48:54

Then it would be one fast to belittle

00:48:54 --> 00:48:56

this individual and say, oh, this guy only

00:48:56 --> 00:48:57

comes in Ramadan and he wants to change.

00:48:58 --> 00:49:00

Rather the one that comes with that mentality,

00:49:01 --> 00:49:03

that's the kind of person that is defamed.

00:49:03 --> 00:49:05

So the whole point is

00:49:06 --> 00:49:07

that you beg Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:49:08 --> 00:49:08

miss Sujood,

00:49:26 --> 00:49:27

For indeed the response of Allah

00:49:28 --> 00:49:29

is very, very quick.

00:49:30 --> 00:49:31

All it takes for a person

00:49:32 --> 00:49:33

to go back,

00:49:33 --> 00:49:34

think.

00:49:34 --> 00:49:35

Put your hands up to Allah

00:49:36 --> 00:49:37

and ask Allah

00:49:38 --> 00:49:40

to forgive whatever you've done.

00:49:50 --> 00:49:51

Allah is very merciful

00:49:52 --> 00:49:53

and he's forgiving,

00:49:54 --> 00:49:56

but he just takes you. That's what

00:49:56 --> 00:49:57

the mizah is

00:49:57 --> 00:49:59

that a lot of people they struggle to

00:49:59 --> 00:50:01

do. They sin, which is part of many

00:50:01 --> 00:50:04

other than human nature, but that which they

00:50:04 --> 00:50:05

struggle to do is to go back to

00:50:05 --> 00:50:06

Allah

00:50:08 --> 00:50:09

to take that time out

00:50:09 --> 00:50:11

when it's only a few minutes. Brothers, the

00:50:11 --> 00:50:13

prophet salallahu alayhi will send me in a

00:50:13 --> 00:50:14

majilis.

00:50:14 --> 00:50:15

He will say

00:50:25 --> 00:50:27

Who are constantly making mistakes,

00:50:27 --> 00:50:28

constantly speaking.

00:50:29 --> 00:50:30

We can't control our tongues.

00:50:36 --> 00:50:37

The most excessive

00:50:38 --> 00:50:40

place in web any ad that makes mistakes

00:50:40 --> 00:50:42

on is because of the tongue on the

00:50:42 --> 00:50:42

tongue.

00:50:43 --> 00:50:44

And the hadith was great outside by Al

00:50:44 --> 00:50:45

Bani.

00:50:46 --> 00:50:48

Many, many things, many mistakes

00:50:48 --> 00:50:50

that happened due to our tongue, but we

00:50:50 --> 00:50:51

need to go back.

00:50:57 --> 00:50:59

You mentioned regarding backbiting,

00:51:02 --> 00:51:03

making allegations

00:51:03 --> 00:51:06

about your brother or sister. So if, if

00:51:06 --> 00:51:07

a brother has done it, then

00:51:09 --> 00:51:12

is it is there only one option which

00:51:12 --> 00:51:13

is to ask for their forgiveness?

00:51:14 --> 00:51:16

Is that the only option for a person

00:51:16 --> 00:51:17

to be forgiven? Or

00:51:19 --> 00:51:20

hut, to the creation,

00:51:21 --> 00:51:23

like, let's just say now

00:51:23 --> 00:51:24

I steal something.

00:51:26 --> 00:51:28

When I stole this thing,

00:51:29 --> 00:51:31

what have I done? I've committed a sin.

00:51:32 --> 00:51:34

I've violated against the shudu the wallah

00:51:36 --> 00:51:39

And I've also stole this thing from someone

00:51:39 --> 00:51:39

else.

00:51:40 --> 00:51:42

So I've violated against Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala

00:51:42 --> 00:51:45

and I've also violated against the individual.

00:51:45 --> 00:51:46

When the violation

00:51:47 --> 00:51:49

is connected to the creation,

00:51:51 --> 00:51:52

then a person he has to make tawba

00:51:52 --> 00:51:54

to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

00:51:55 --> 00:51:56

and he also needs to seek forgiveness

00:51:57 --> 00:51:59

to the person he has violated against.

00:52:01 --> 00:52:03

And the proof of this is when the

00:52:03 --> 00:52:03

prophet

00:52:18 --> 00:52:20

whether he's spoken about his honor, anything that

00:52:20 --> 00:52:21

he's done to anyone,

00:52:22 --> 00:52:25

then let him seek his forgiveness today. Today.

00:52:28 --> 00:52:30

Before there comes a day where no dinar

00:52:31 --> 00:52:33

or dirham, these are currencies,

00:52:34 --> 00:52:37

will be no benefit to him. No benefit.

00:52:43 --> 00:52:44

If he had good deeds,

00:52:46 --> 00:52:46

then

00:52:46 --> 00:52:48

the people that he oppressed, the guy that

00:52:48 --> 00:52:49

he stole from, the guy that he backed

00:52:49 --> 00:52:51

by him, he never saw any forgiveness,

00:52:51 --> 00:52:53

and they will start taking his peace.

00:52:57 --> 00:52:57

And

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if he doesn't have any Kunduz left,

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the bad deeds of the guy that he

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oppressed has taken against chapter his back.

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So this hadith makes it clear to us

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that if a person has oppressed someone, the

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creation, he needs to seek forgiveness from him.

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And in this person, Sheikh Hashemini mentions in

00:53:18 --> 00:53:20

his explanation of Shai Al Bayin al Nawiyah,

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that the person thinks that if he was

00:53:23 --> 00:53:25

to now go back to this person,

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and it's gonna lead to a bigger fizna.

00:53:28 --> 00:53:31

It's gonna lead to a bigger fizna, or

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he's not able to get hold of him,

00:53:33 --> 00:53:34

maybe because it was 10 years ago,

00:53:35 --> 00:53:36

then what he needs to do is make

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tawba to Allah

00:53:40 --> 00:53:42

needs to make tawba to Allah

00:53:43 --> 00:53:44

but

00:53:44 --> 00:53:45

the point that we're trying to get across

00:53:45 --> 00:53:47

here, if this issue is related to the

00:53:47 --> 00:53:48

creation,

00:53:48 --> 00:53:51

land, then he needs to seek forgiveness from

00:53:51 --> 00:53:52

our creation as well. It's not sufficient that

00:53:52 --> 00:53:53

you only go to Allah

00:53:54 --> 00:53:56

and you've demolished these guys or not or

00:53:56 --> 00:53:58

you've taken his wife,

00:53:58 --> 00:54:00

you have to go back to him and

00:54:00 --> 00:54:02

you have to also seek his forgiveness.

00:54:21 --> 00:54:23

Is not actually part of the hadith. I

00:54:23 --> 00:54:25

can't remember exactly which hadith it was.

00:54:25 --> 00:54:26

Whether it was,

00:54:29 --> 00:54:30

one of these things I was looking at

00:54:30 --> 00:54:31

the festival, yesterday

00:54:31 --> 00:54:34

that this word kareem is not actually part

00:54:34 --> 00:54:35

of the dua that the prophet

00:54:36 --> 00:54:37

told

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Right?

00:54:40 --> 00:54:41

Who exactly was that you get a research

00:54:41 --> 00:54:44

and bring it back to the brothers, but

00:54:44 --> 00:54:45

what they mentioned in the word kareem is

00:54:45 --> 00:54:46

not exactly

00:54:47 --> 00:54:48

from the

00:54:49 --> 00:54:50

of what the prophet

00:54:50 --> 00:54:52

told Aisha radiya Muhammad.

00:55:13 --> 00:55:14

For listening.

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May Allah please, brothers, don't get it the

00:55:16 --> 00:55:18

wrong way. I wasn't trying to oppress anyone

00:55:18 --> 00:55:20

or to put anyone down or to speak

00:55:20 --> 00:55:23

anyone directly. It's just things that we tend

00:55:23 --> 00:55:25

to see on a yearly basis

00:55:25 --> 00:55:26

that we

00:55:26 --> 00:55:28

feel like that we have to address so

00:55:28 --> 00:55:31

that people they take heed. May Allah

00:55:32 --> 00:55:33

make us from those,

00:55:35 --> 00:55:37

when they hear, they act upon it

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